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- Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
- What you should do if your relationship is going or has gone sideways and your wife is hinting at or seriously talking about getting a divorce. How you can know if it’s salvageable or worth even trying to salvage.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a guy who met his wife seven years ago at a bar. He says that she is super-attractive. Two years after they met they got married. They have a three-year-old daughter together. Ten months ago she left. He says that they had constant problems because of her family. While he was at work, her family moved her and their daughter out of their home. She has been back and forth like a yo-yo hinting at reconciliation. Then she pulls away and it goes nowhere. Recently after she told him she was going on a trip with one of her girlfriends, a friend of his shared pictures of her with another guy. This is not the first time she has lied to him. Now she won’t let him see his daughter and he is distraught on what he should do.
“People who lie and cheat typically believe that everyone is a liar and a cheater. Since people will act consistently with their model of the world and what they believe about themselves, it is futile to expect them to change or that you will somehow be able to fix or mold them into your ideal. When you don’t accept reality for what it is and accept people as they are, you’re going to suffer. Your only choice is to accept what is or to move on and search for someone who shares the same goals and values.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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A great quote that corey mentioned, " You can ignore reality- but you cannot ignore the consequences of ignoring reality". Perfectly said. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
This guy is Legit. His advice from Free videos saved my ass. Thank you Sir
Imagine if you read his book
So i will give you the rest of the story: Honestly when i was watching his videos and pretty much was depressed, I was telling to myself, if his advice helps I will fuckin buy his Book, just to be thankful. I will definitely buy. He knows what he is talking about. I could not believe myself, Huge respect and Thanks again
Giorgi Tartarashvili Get his book dude. You will learn so so much.
Walk away and never look back.She will use your daughter as a pawn to cut slices out of your heart forever,best to walk away and find a good girl asap.
your daughter will become a clone of the mom and break your heart again
fmx387 you need to refocus yourself, and stop looking this guy up and comparing yourself to him. Focus on the things that will propel you forward and toward a happier place.
You have to go zero and i mean zero contact.All the time she can get into your mind,you will be useless to yourself.change numbers zero contact is KING.In your deepest self you know you have to move on,the question is can you find the strength to do so.Corey speaks so much truth,im a year or so older than him and we both know that you cant put an old head on young shoulders.His information should be held in very high regard.
andraacram definitely good advice. I mean just based on what I saw about him in no way shape or form is this dude comparable to me. I do have a bit of a problem obsessing on something and making the issue grow bigger. Bottom line is I obviously can't ever trust her again. She moved out of her parents house and into some shitty apartment and I have no clue where or even if that guy lives there.
I just really get tripped out in liars, as I'm an honest person, don't hold back and speak my mind. I guess that's why I've been watching so many of corys videos throughout this deal because he speaks the blatant truth.
Plutonium yeah that's the truth right there. It's a total mind game with her.
Hi Cory, I've read you 3% man book over 10 times. This video is pure gold. It is accurate to a T, My wish is that all guys that have gone through a divorce would see this. I've watched most of your videos and this one is by far the best one!! Please ask your assistant to somehow make this stand out. Thank you very much for the work you do. It has helped me more than word can say.
My life right now!! I was meant to see this today..Thank you Cory!!
Went through the exact same shit with my exwife. Living vicariously through this one. Great video
Jonathan Frigola sorry to hear that man. Surprising how many people experience the same thing. The crazy thing is when they have absolutely no problem with thinking what they're doing is okay. Just feels like 7 years of waste
That’s what happened when I found your work Coach the girlfriend I had was a cheater and a liar so I decided to let her go and guess what she does the same to the other guy 😂😂😂 thank goodness I found your work man. God Bless!!
Also regarding my previous comment..Coach your videos have been my saving grace. You hit the nail on the head and for the most part I've been a stronger more intelligent person because of you so thank you my friend
Great advice. Pass the problem onto the new guy, with a smile :)
I needed this..
My mother in law was crazy as all hell and now going through a divorce cause of it.
Literally the same of what I have been through last year. Separated for 10 months before divorced July last year. My advice to you brother, just do good, even she does bad to you.it will help you and your kids in the long run. Find your peace first, happiness and relationship will come for u later.
LukemanHakim Othman thanks man, been trying to do just that and possibly stick out to someone else. She is using my daughter as leverage, which hurts pretty bad. Gotten to the point where I can't control anything.
fmx387 totally gotchu there man. Anyway, good luck! Watching coach correy videos does help! Take care :)
Holy shit this sounds like my situation. Also realized that if i wasn't her husband, I wouldn't want to be her friend. Anyone else notice snapchat is a huge relationship killer?
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Perfect timing for my current situation corey! Thank you!
Great analogy with the building dept. Thanks Cory
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When my ex wife decided to unilaterally end our marriage, I didn’t resist or offer chance or anything.
I found out that she was already seeing another dude. And she wanted a swift divorce to continue her life.
I asked for full custody, kept all of my assets, and even managed to sneak in monthly child support payments.
I was nice to her throughout the process as not to piss her off and get the divorce changed.
Anyways, once it was finalised, that was then when I started being nasty towards her. I’d tell her off for visiting my relatives, told her to move on and leave the kids alone. Told her that she’s a good for nothing woman and should enjoy her new life with the homewrecker.
A couple of months later, she finally got the memo and moved on.
Good riddance. Couldn’t imagine a better way of getting divorced.
Your Awesome Coach Corey Wayne ! Your Wisdom is GoOd as Gold Brother Wayne !! I Wish You the Best and Much Love to You Brother Coach Corey Wayne !
So funny that part when you mentioned" i am gonna clean that bastards clock" !!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
What if your wife doesn’t want to work on the marriage has asked for a divorce and there is no communication, we don’t have kids and I’ve prayed every day for months with no change. How do I keep going and how do I know if it’s even possible, there’s no other person she doesn’t want to be married anymore I haven’t been the best husband but she says she knows I love her but love alone is not enough
Dude, I've been there. First, stop begging, stop chasing, give her space! You have to give her time to miss U and think about what she really wants. Corey says, obsession breeds rejection. You also need to work out, something physical or something you've always wanted to do, but never could because of her, in other words, find things to keep you busy and finally, look at the man in the mirror (you), do you love yourself? What changes do you need to make? Spirituality, better man? Use this time to make positive changes. She may one day give you another chance, and she may not. However, you need to become BETTER, for U! This will one day benefit your next relationship. Good luck brother!
Luis Reynoso yea man, I haven’t talked to her in 5 months she won’t communicate so she has all the space in the world. I’ve quite smoking and drinking fixed my diet and am working out daily for 2 hours. I’ve changed every aspect of my life. She just won’t see it, and I’ve prayed so much that I often fall asleep praying, I’ve lost hope that God will change her heart, she has free will and is obviously exercising it, I can’t force someone to love me, and loving someone who doesn’t love you back is just exhausting and pointless
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You've answered your own concerns. You must set her free, which you have. If you never hear from her again, then she never loved you as much as you loved her. Is that what you want? Forcing a human being that you say you love to be with you? C'mon man, like Corey Wayne says, when we don't accept reality as it is, we will suffer! Your going to have to suck it up, be a man, let go, and begin living your life, without her. She may come back, may not, but I Know you will. NOT die alone, you will love again. Hang in there, you got this, one day at a time. Also, who knows, maybe God is answering your prayer, through me. Good luck brother, and remember, U R worth it!!
Luis Reynoso thanks brother, I have set her free and am living my own life, it’s just hard I thought we could make it through anything and were meant to be, but if I were imagining the perfect relationship a person that leaves me isn’t it. I just hope there are woman as amazing as she is physically out there
I once hooked up with a crazy girl. I knew she was twisted but that got me. She really messed me up and at the end we had a fight, she dissapeared and I never heard from her again. I thank God Im not with her anymore. The first months were hell but then I became really happy. Time cures. Keep it up and kicking it.
💯 💯 💯 you need to vet the family!!!
Divorcing a gal just like this... Best advice is separation agree before you leave the home.
Hi I'm coach Corry Wayne and we got an email from a guy with all kinds of shit going on lol too funny keep it up coach!
I'm pretty sure, if you're married, that it is illegal to temporarily/permanently remove the children from a shared home without a custody agreement to do so.
andraacram she lied to me and said we'd settle outside of court then the court date snuck up on me based on that thought and I missed it. So she got what she asked for full custody
Well the only thing you can do now is to learn from it and move forward for your own sake, and the sake of your child. Don't stumble back into your own vomit like a drunken man.
We're all here for you if you need a sober voice.
andraacram totally true. I filed for 50/50 custody on Monday. She's just abusing the court system by filing a temp restraining order then contacting me everyday, eventually things will crash on her. Just sucks because in the meantime my daughter has severe separation anxiety with me. Like right now I have her for the weekend on a trip with my family and my daughter just latches to me the whole time.
10:22 LMFAOO got distracted with the bullet going through Coach's head XD
Good morning sir!
Excellent Advise Corey!! I wish and pray for all the success and happiness for Bob! Be strong and DO NOT give a way your power...I learnt that the hard way and I am a better person, Self Love...Please read THE WAY OF A SUPERIOR MAN...Thank U Corey:-)
Karim Nanji definitely not going to let her problems bring me down anymore. I had a pretty good talk with my boss about my situation, and he brought up the fact that now I have nothing holding me back to do what I want to do. I gave up freestyle motocross to begin a family, and now that she's keeping my daughter away from me which is bullshit, I have to focus on the positive side of that, and now I have the freedom to do what I want. So I'm going to get back into jumping my motorcycle and possibly pursue other life goals I have. I know in my heart I tried everything I could to keep our family together, but she tore it apart. It's out of my control of this moment, so I can only take steps forward to rectify the custody situation with my daughter which takes time, during this dark time, I'm going to focus on myself and do what I want when I want. I have my freedom back now, maybe it's not the situation I want; but I'm definitely going to make the best out of it. Thanks for the prayers, they're much needed at the moment. She has turned into a sick person, her lies will eventually catch up to her.
I agree, hang in there and karma will take care of everything. But, do not wish her bad just pray for her.
All the success and happiness to U and yours!
Coach Core(y) Wise(ayne), thanks for all!
Another good video Corey!
I am stagnet until we file for divorce what is your advice?
Damn you give by far the best advice I have ever heard, I have a question but do not want to ask in the comments here. Is there any way I can get email or message you?
Thanks!
My ex of 5 years left me earlier this year. got in a rebound relationship and cheated on him with me. I knew she had a friend but after sex she admitted she was in a relationship. She wanted to keep seeing me. but i told her to be single first if she wanted to be serious. she texted me a weeks later wanting to see me again but i told her. she can come over and have fun but im not gonna take her serious anymore while shes in a relationship or she can leave me alone till she single and then call me. she said she wasn't going to come. I know im going to have to find another girl now cuz she ain't the one Corey. I'm still hung on this girl and I don't want to move on. I don't want reality to be this way. So I am suffering. I adore this girl even with all her faults. is the best thing to do is just to tell her to fuck off because if she keeps msg me I will see her again and prolong my suffering ahh i really allowed this girl to fuck me up good lmao. Anyways Ive been working on myself and ive been doing my best to go out and enjoy my life most of the women i meet are from out of town. so txting them seems pointless. Im doing my best to be happy everyday but i still get sad and lonely some days. i guess i need more time.
That's controlling for sure
The solution is simple. NEVER GET MARRIED.
Hi I'm in a complicated situation with my wife. We've been together for 12 years married for 8. She's been texting a guy from work and being unfaithful and I would leave her but we have a teenage daughter and an autistic son so I really want to make our relationship work for their sake. The whole situation is a hot mess and I need a strong support system. If anyone would like to chat one on one with maybe a similar situation or has some advice regarding I'd like to speak more in depth and offer my support back. Please comment if you are interested in helping me and yourself. I feel most married men are made out to be the bad guy in the relationship and I for one am fed up with it.
B Diesel - One thing you need to know is that, perhaps you have done things to stagnate your marriage somewhat, but if getting with another guy is how she deals with the issues, that is 100% on her... That part is nothing to do with you ok? That is ALL her.
Sending you Strength through a tough time ¥
Hey Coreyy can u tell what I can do about fearful thoughts.? Like I am trying to apply the law of attraction but recently myind is scaring me from success I don't know why!!!! Any ideas?
Taimur Mughal reprogram your mind because fears are just mind created illogical ideas we use to sabotage our success.
Gene is Xincuenta I am trying it since this night and feeling such a hard resistance in my mind its very strange I don't know what's going on in my mind I was all ok
What you focus on is what you'll experience, so start focusing on your success!
I am having the same issue with my estranged spouse, he took all my money, has had affairs and made kids, has used my SSN to get credit cards, has lied in court. I got a lawyer and he has been paid in abundance he won't file appropriately and seems to be helping the husband he won't file under abuse, abandonment, adultery. The judge ( B Jones) flirts incessantly with him and never enforces her rulings Need advise, stuck in Virginia
MsAngelfaze not a very manly thing to do. Destructive behavior has no benefits
I cannot find Corey's attraction scale chart anywhere, can someone link me to it?
chapter titled "it's all in the numbers"
The answer is always READ THE BOOK. :)
Hey Corey I'm 13 just scrolling through my feed I saw this vid its totally irrelevant to me but I need your advice I was recently with this girl we were not official and over the school holidays I didn't text her for 2 weeks because I felt I was doing all the chasing and then her friend called me and told me she had got back together with her old boyfriend and I really liked this girl I think about her a lot and she flirts at school but doesn't seem interested in proper conversation I try to move on but I keep thinking about her there are other girls in school but I'm not popular or good looking so should I move on please help me improve my game
LaughOutLOL read the book 10-15times
yeah man. You need to move on. You need to find someone who is going to like you like you like them. Like these other guys say you need to read a the book 10 to 15 times. It looks like she might be gone, you have to realize that. You think about her a lot because you haven't found another girl. I think you were right when you stopped texting her for two weeks. Look at her actions guy. Don't listen to anything she says. You have to cut the chord bro and move on.
LaughOutLOL little dude trust me find the money to purchase Coreys book and read it, the sooner you know what he teaches the better your life will be not only on dating but finding your purpose in life!!
he doesnt have to pay for it. Its free on Corey's website.
Read his book, it's on his website for free man.
In-laws are outlaws
ivydude13 insecurities lead to destructive behavior, her dad has a hard time realizing that I don't need his help for anything. They're fighting dirty at the moment, and people who fight dirty are people who know they're in the wrong
Wow easy to read this one. I was seeing someone for 3+ years, sweet, loyal, giving, until a guy "friend" came (pardon the pun) into the picture, then the lies started. When I found out the truth, I went no-contact with the dirtbag, and ignored several texts/emails. Finally the creep has disappeared. Good luck to the dude in this video.
Appliance Paul thanks man I'll need all the luck I can get. Been with her for 7 years and have never experienced so much dishonesty and betrayal. The crazy thing is seeing how fast her family turned on me. Her dad slammed me up against the wall on Easter and got aggressive with me, I laughed at him and told him that he does not present an ounce of fear in me. Just goes to show how insecure he is with himself. Plus he's a bigger liar than my wife
Hey coach , I'm in a difficult situation ,so i met my ex in an event yesterday , its been an year of on and off , last 2-3 has been really off . She has been coming back and forth whenever she wanted .We had a chat , she said she met her ex , the one before me and was really happy , i got pissed , she said she's not getting back with him or me or actually anyone new, she then later that night texted me , she never loved me but i was just an escape. Thats why she doesn't say hello to me when we coincidentally meet , that I'm an distraction. She asked me why do i love her so much and dont i hate her , also her family hates me , whom i never met lol maybe its her excuse.
Please be honest should i just move on and completely forget , or there's chance in future after all this. I have read your book 2 times and seen majority of your videos , when it comes to her , im unable to apply. Guide me.
Please answer its really affecting every part of my life.
Tony Loveridge Easy to say that bud , but when this shit hits you , it comes like a tsunami , outta nowhere.
Tanmay Joshi seriously dude dont waste your time on this woman .Dont think you cant do better .Dont be trapped .Time will heal you trust me speaking from experience
Tanmay Joshi Been there done that. It's over. Move on. You will always still think about her but find someone new. You will find meeting new women unlocks new opportunities and they will open your eyes. Like I said, been there, done that.
mosho sihole its like everything reminds me of her , i can't delete her photos , and i can't get her out of my mind , ik this is wrong even she knows it. I'm not trying to be needy just like Corey said , i told her to contact me in future if she wants something again , she said she wants nothing and has problem with me. Its so freaking hard brother. And when I'm already moving on , I'll either see her somewhere , or she contacts me somehow. Like I'm hooked up. Its frustrating man.
DonknDave i guess its his "first love"probably in denial lol.i remember how i used to be blinded but you are right.Great advice
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Submit that Women n life will be good 😊,not that hard to understand
What do you guys think? How many times out of 10 did John here read Corey Wayne's HTBA 3% Man? ua-cam.com/video/S2H_Xw18llI/v-deo.html
I wish he had advice for girls
not according to corey