My brother-in-law . . . tossed cigarette butts in my garden after we made him go outside to smoke during a visit. We found a dozen of them among the tomatoes. Said it wasn't his fault because we'd made him go outside and "hadn't provided him a butt can." We live in a resort town and bring family up every year--that was the first and last year he was invited.
My buddy and his drunk gf came for a movie night. He had failed to tell me until halfway through the film that they both have covid. I told them to leave because my roommate and I could NOT afford to get sick because we had JUST moved in to our new apartment that same week. His girlfriend started to get upset at my roommate and I as my buddy tried to get her to leave as he apologized. She raised her voice at me screaming "You're such a f*cking asshole!" So I told her she is permanently banned from our apartment. We ended up getting covid and missing 9 days of work and being behind on a few payments. My buddy apologized by for paying our wifi and get us groceries. It made up formit and he can still come hang out. His gf is still banned.
Not mine but my friends house while I was over. She started vaping in the house knowing my friend has asthma, started yelling when she was told to do that outside...
My brother was staying with me, our father and late mother for Christmas from the US. He was taking a few things from our house so he could bring them to the US, like a picture of our mother. He was walking around the house making noise around the house while we were sleeping, leaving lights on in rooms that he wasn't in while he was in the other part of the house, telling me how to cook while I was cooking, and bitching how "hot" the house was to our late mother who was sick at that time. One time when my brother was still here, our sister (the oldest) was visiting for a couple hours. Near the tail end of her visit, she decided to have a temper tantrum, by saying to our mother that I and our brother were her golden children. I was about to knock her a couple notches by telling her that our mother loves us equally, but our brother beat me to the punch by knocking some sense into her.
One of my sisters friends stayed the night and, without asking, raided our kitchen for cereal and milk while my mom was actively making breakfast. One of my other sisters friends got into a fight with his mom, she kicked him out, and we decided to be courteous and let him stay until he and one of his parents (they're divorced) could figure something out. Wound up staying with us a couple of months. Between a couple minor gripes (mostly us barely seeing him, and to my knowledge him not seeming to make any effort in almost anything, especially to fix the issue that got him here in the first place), everything started to pile up mentally and legally because this kid was 17 at the time. Eventually, we got him back in with his mom, and he, in not so few words, said how we (my mom especially) were basically a bunch of a-holes and how we wouldn't let him do his own thing. Tldr, I see why he got kicked out.
My mother in law criticized the type of garlic i had on hand. She also commented on how i wash dishes ( i have literally seen dishes at her home that still have bits of dried food on them) she also made a down low comment about how our family room is being taken over by our toddler ( yes our family room has lots of toys but they are organized) she made faces the whole time during her visit criticized the things my husband ate at the restaurant she picked
The baby and the pitbull story is infuriating 😳 pitbulls were used in victorian times for childcare (why they were nicknamed 'nursery dogs') but this was with animals that had been trained for this purpose and were taught how to gently handle toddlers. The dog owner in this story did the right thing separating his gentle though untrained dogs from the baby. What was wrong with the mom though is beyond me!
When I was 6, my mom invited a friend over. The friend had a five year old son, so while the moms were making cookies, I was to be a host for the son (I hated people and didn’t like other children coming over but I sucked it up). I had an easel that I drew dinosaurs on, I had kept one drawing op there for MONTHS because I was so proud. I told him he could do anything as long as he didn’t break my things or erase my dinosaurs. I turned on the tv and looked over, and HE. ERASED. MY. DINOS. I cried. His mom felt bad and lectured him about respecting boundaries. I never saw him again.
I've said this before, but our friends used to come over and make out on our couch and to the point it seemed like foreplay. My partner and I just sat there awkwardly waiting for them to separate. It made us incredibly uncomfortable. One time when they asked me to housesit, they asked me to sleep in the guestroom and not to sleep in their bed. So naturally we did it on their bed. Technically didn't sleep in it. Duck those two.
Back in the day my brother-in-law (let's call him Tom) was one of those guys who wandered the streets trying to sell fake watches to strangers. He lived with his parents at the time. He came to stay with us for a while because we lived in a bigger city with more marks. Not a big deal. He was with us for about a week. Slept on the sofa. Sold watches all day and drank beer all night. Then one day he vanished without saying goodbye. He didn't go home either, so we had no idea where he was. A couple days later we started getting phone calls from some angry Russian man (possibly associated with organized crime) demanding his money! Tom owed money to the guy who provided the watches. He had given this guy our address and phone number as his own. The guy refused to believe Tom didn''t live there. After several days of these phone calls the guy said he was coming to my house to beat me up. I told him to bring it, I'd be waiting with a snub-nose .38! That was a total bluff I didn't even own a gun. Butg no more phone calls after that.
Showed up, without warning, and just invited themselves into our house. We were in Junior High and my dad let her in to talk to me and she just took off her jacket and started following me upstairs??? Another time when she was staying over she just went into our fridge without asking. Her parents seemed trashy, and her house was trashy, so I kiinnnddaaa don't blame her fully, but still.
Different guys, decades apart: Chopped up my free-standing wardrobe for firewood because I had begun sleeping next door with my future wife and "didn't need it". Shot up in my bathroom and stuck the used needle in the overflow slot of the handbasin. Found it years later when I re-housed the basin. Played knife-juggling with my best carving knife, dropped it and broke the point off.
14:47 if you punched my dog, who is my baby in the snout, that would’ve been one of your final acts on this earth, or at least I would’ve attempted to make it so.
That poor kelpie at end of vid. I had a kelpie for 9 months (was meant to be a till death thing) BUT i had a health issue arise that made it so I could barely walk let alone keep up with his energy. I tried for a month to get help for him literally just wanted someone to run him down the river, couldn't get anything and he started going stir crazy destroying house I didn't care about that but had to put his needs before my wants and he moved in with a very active spaniel. 11yrs down the line I still can't walk much so was definitely for the best
Years ago someone who came to my house with an adult group from a church tried to get my cat to play with him. My cat didn't want to, so he kicked my cat. I then kicked him out of my house (figuratively). My cat was fine.
When I was a Jr in high school, my only 2 friends (and a friend of them 2 friends) decided to come to my house uninvited. No calling, no texting, nothing. Needless to say, I had to cut them both off. It's been about 2 and a half years as of right now, and I have been friendless ever sense. I couldn't be happier with that decision. F them
A 14 year old boy made a beeline towards my older sister’s room and locked himself there. It took us a while to get him out but when we did, my other older sister scolded him
So many of these have guys hurting dogs. If someone EVER put hands(or feet) on my dog I'd do it back to them 10 fold and a bit extra to really send home the message. You. Don't. Mess, With. The. Pets!
I had a friend that decded one day that he was going to pee in the bathroom sink. With the door open. Just staring at me while he peed. he no longer is allowed back. Have not talked to him in nearly a decade. Not sure what was wrong with him but I never could get that stench out of that sink. Nearly ten years later and the smell from that thing smells like an unflushed urinal that has sat for a week. Eh, i just moved so whatever. it is the next peoples problem.
I've had a few bad ones. The worst one was when I was still a teenager. A kid who was a friend of a friend tried to get my dog to blow him. I was into knives at the time and always had one or two near me and sharpened to a razors edge. Upon seeing what he was trying to do to my dog, using one of my larger knives, I swung and attempted to remove his member. Harsh words were had as I chased him out of my house. More harsh words and chasing followed every time I saw him around the neighborhood. Sick fcker.
I refuse to allow houseguests. I’ll meet you in public, your place, or not at all. there are two people I allow to come over and they are my wife’s close friends of 16 plus years and they call or text firs. In this day and age you never know who you can trust around your kids
Attempt to smoke. What sort of fogducker "thinks" they have permission to do that in the home of a non-smoker? It's why I never invite them over anymore, they can't be trusted.
Even if the home owner was a smoker and had ashtrays everywhere, I would still think you should ask first. Suppose they only like guests to use certain ashtrays. Never encountered that myself, just saying.
A friend of a then roommate would stay for a few hours and inevitably need to use the bathroom. One day when he’d been drinking he told us to look through the pages of our National Geographic magazines. I told him my grampa wasn’t rich but that he’d left his collection to me in his will. Suspecting something was up, my roommate said, “Tell us what you did!” It turns out he’d been fapping and emptying his fluids into the pages. He thought we’d find it funny. My roommate and I were livid! It took everything we had not to throw him out into the street! We let him sleep over so that he wouldn’t drive home (as was usual) and told him that he was very much UNWELCOME from our home and our lives!
11.19 wow ok so they have two massive Pitbulls, weapons, drugs, toxic plants and a pool😅 sounds like a pretty dangerous place no matter what your age is
My cousin's ex. They stayed at our place since she was kicked out for not following her Jehova Witness father, and she met this loser, who ate an entire platter of lasagna (With individual servings, could have lasted for two days) in an evening, he stole our stuff all the time, and was a total mooch. And yet, I prefer him over her current husband. She has such an Electra complex, and wanted to get together with someone just like her dad.
I (at the time, 26 or 27 Female[I am not out as a trans male] ); paid to fly my mother over from Newfoundland to Ontario just before the summer. (I had moved from home directly after high school.) She's never been to any of her children's graduations (No fault of hers.) I never stayed home for the walk across the stag and my sister left home before graduating. So skip many years and I am graduating from my now 3rd College program, as a Pastry chef from the biggest college for culinary in my area. Also accepting a prestigious award/grant that only one person can get a year can get in my program and only teachers can submit students names for it. She's staying at mine and my partners place instead of us paying for hotel for her as I was paying for everything myself. unfortunately, we only lived in a small one bedroom as it was litterly our 2nd apartment of our own. She was staying for 2 weeks with us. she slept on the pull out we had for guests. right away the first thing she says walking into the apartment is, "would you be offened if I cleaned this.... place?" and "I hope your cats dont climb all over me at night" Yes mom. i would be incredibly offened as Im decently clean. and ive spent the last 24 hours prior scrubbing top to bottom to please your OCD ass.
The most annoying thing about this is how much of a doormat each of these OP's are. 😕 I really can't understand how you can just sit there and allow a "guest" to come into YOUR home and openly disrespect you. Its honestly INFURIATING listening to how much of a pushover some of these OP's are. The truth is that people can *ONLY* treat you as bad as you *ALLOW* them to. So if they are used to disrespecting and abusing you and you just sit there ALLOWING it, then guess what? They will _continue_ to do so, and you can't even really blame them because *YOU* invited them in and are *ALLOWING* it. Honestly, why you would even allow *TOXIC* people like this into your life is utterly baffling. The sad thing is that even after these incidents many of these OP's continue to associate with these narcissistic, entitled people just to "keep the peace" or to "be the bigger person." 🙄
My cousin. Broke up with his girlfriend and got kicked out of his parents house. Came to stay at my house for a few days. Lasted one night. He tried to steal my service pistol. (I used to be a Sheriff’s Deputy many years ago.)
13:49 (Serious question) Why would this OP have a problem with their guest “wearing shoes in my house”? Who DOESN’T do that? If I had visitors at my house, I would want them to be shod, not barefoot. Why would anybody have a problem with visitors wearing shoes in their house, unless the visitor was wearing (i.e. attempting to steal) the shoes of their host or somebody else that lives there? Somebody please explain this to me, because it makes no sense.
because your shoes touch the filthy ground, general filth and dirt, spit, dog crap etc. Who wants that trampled all over the carpet? My kid crawls around down there. Shoes off, socks please.
I remember my ex-boyfriend's family had a rule that you had to take off your shoes in the garage before you entered the house. His parents kept their home very clean.
@MasterChief0522 🤦♀️ It's so obvious when someone tells me the answer! I blame all the results of unappetizing one-pot meals with muddying my thoughts.
most annoying thing any house guest does is show up.
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Hate it when guests show up 😂😂😂😂
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Absolutely. Spot on. And how DARE they…
Facts
My brother-in-law . . . tossed cigarette butts in my garden after we made him go outside to smoke during a visit. We found a dozen of them among the tomatoes. Said it wasn't his fault because we'd made him go outside and "hadn't provided him a butt can." We live in a resort town and bring family up every year--that was the first and last year he was invited.
My buddy and his drunk gf came for a movie night. He had failed to tell me until halfway through the film that they both have covid. I told them to leave because my roommate and I could NOT afford to get sick because we had JUST moved in to our new apartment that same week.
His girlfriend started to get upset at my roommate and I as my buddy tried to get her to leave as he apologized. She raised her voice at me screaming "You're such a f*cking asshole!" So I told her she is permanently banned from our apartment.
We ended up getting covid and missing 9 days of work and being behind on a few payments. My buddy apologized by for paying our wifi and get us groceries. It made up formit and he can still come hang out.
His gf is still banned.
Not mine but my friends house while I was over. She started vaping in the house knowing my friend has asthma, started yelling when she was told to do that outside...
My brother was staying with me, our father and late mother for Christmas from the US. He was taking a few things from our house so he could bring them to the US, like a picture of our mother.
He was walking around the house making noise around the house while we were sleeping, leaving lights on in rooms that he wasn't in while he was in the other part of the house, telling me how to cook while I was cooking, and bitching how "hot" the house was to our late mother who was sick at that time.
One time when my brother was still here, our sister (the oldest) was visiting for a couple hours. Near the tail end of her visit, she decided to have a temper tantrum, by saying to our mother that I and our brother were her golden children.
I was about to knock her a couple notches by telling her that our mother loves us equally, but our brother beat me to the punch by knocking some sense into her.
One of my sisters friends stayed the night and, without asking, raided our kitchen for cereal and milk while my mom was actively making breakfast.
One of my other sisters friends got into a fight with his mom, she kicked him out, and we decided to be courteous and let him stay until he and one of his parents (they're divorced) could figure something out. Wound up staying with us a couple of months. Between a couple minor gripes (mostly us barely seeing him, and to my knowledge him not seeming to make any effort in almost anything, especially to fix the issue that got him here in the first place), everything started to pile up mentally and legally because this kid was 17 at the time. Eventually, we got him back in with his mom, and he, in not so few words, said how we (my mom especially) were basically a bunch of a-holes and how we wouldn't let him do his own thing. Tldr, I see why he got kicked out.
We invited our aunt and she ordered pizza only for herself
My mother in law criticized the type of garlic i had on hand. She also commented on how i wash dishes ( i have literally seen dishes at her home that still have bits of dried food on them) she also made a down low comment about how our family room is being taken over by our toddler ( yes our family room has lots of toys but they are organized) she made faces the whole time during her visit criticized the things my husband ate at the restaurant she picked
Love the Judge Judy saying! Fish and company stink after 2 days! 😉 I never answer the door anymore and i’m much happier for it!💯
The baby and the pitbull story is infuriating 😳 pitbulls were used in victorian times for childcare (why they were nicknamed 'nursery dogs') but this was with animals that had been trained for this purpose and were taught how to gently handle toddlers. The dog owner in this story did the right thing separating his gentle though untrained dogs from the baby. What was wrong with the mom though is beyond me!
Yea like the Pitbulls back then were the same as they are now. 😅 I would never let one of those agressive inbreed dogs near my children
bullshit mate pits were never "nursery dogs" are you actually mad? They were purposefully bred for fighting other dogs.
@arthurshort6619 That’s a myth. Google, “Were pit bulls actually nanny dogs?”
When I was 6, my mom invited a friend over. The friend had a five year old son, so while the moms were making cookies, I was to be a host for the son (I hated people and didn’t like other children coming over but I sucked it up). I had an easel that I drew dinosaurs on, I had kept one drawing op there for MONTHS because I was so proud. I told him he could do anything as long as he didn’t break my things or erase my dinosaurs. I turned on the tv and looked over, and HE. ERASED. MY. DINOS. I cried. His mom felt bad and lectured him about respecting boundaries. I never saw him again.
I've said this before, but our friends used to come over and make out on our couch and to the point it seemed like foreplay. My partner and I just sat there awkwardly waiting for them to separate. It made us incredibly uncomfortable.
One time when they asked me to housesit, they asked me to sleep in the guestroom and not to sleep in their bed. So naturally we did it on their bed. Technically didn't sleep in it.
Duck those two.
Back in the day my brother-in-law (let's call him Tom) was one of those guys who wandered the streets trying to sell fake watches to strangers. He lived with his parents at the time. He came to stay with us for a while because we lived in a bigger city with more marks. Not a big deal. He was with us for about a week. Slept on the sofa. Sold watches all day and drank beer all night. Then one day he vanished without saying goodbye. He didn't go home either, so we had no idea where he was. A couple days later we started getting phone calls from some angry Russian man (possibly associated with organized crime) demanding his money! Tom owed money to the guy who provided the watches. He had given this guy our address and phone number as his own. The guy refused to believe Tom didn''t live there. After several days of these phone calls the guy said he was coming to my house to beat me up. I told him to bring it, I'd be waiting with a snub-nose .38! That was a total bluff I didn't even own a gun. Butg no more phone calls after that.
Showed up, without warning, and just invited themselves into our house. We were in Junior High and my dad let her in to talk to me and she just took off her jacket and started following me upstairs???
Another time when she was staying over she just went into our fridge without asking.
Her parents seemed trashy, and her house was trashy, so I kiinnnddaaa don't blame her fully, but still.
Different guys, decades apart:
Chopped up my free-standing wardrobe for firewood because I had begun sleeping next door with my future wife and "didn't need it".
Shot up in my bathroom and stuck the used needle in the overflow slot of the handbasin. Found it years later when I re-housed the basin.
Played knife-juggling with my best carving knife, dropped it and broke the point off.
14:47 if you punched my dog, who is my baby in the snout, that would’ve been one of your final acts on this earth, or at least I would’ve attempted to make it so.
5:52, I think that's my mother visiting my niece and her family!
That poor kelpie at end of vid. I had a kelpie for 9 months (was meant to be a till death thing) BUT i had a health issue arise that made it so I could barely walk let alone keep up with his energy. I tried for a month to get help for him literally just wanted someone to run him down the river, couldn't get anything and he started going stir crazy destroying house I didn't care about that but had to put his needs before my wants and he moved in with a very active spaniel. 11yrs down the line I still can't walk much so was definitely for the best
Years ago someone who came to my house with an adult group from a church tried to get my cat to play with him. My cat didn't want to, so he kicked my cat. I then kicked him out of my house (figuratively). My cat was fine.
When I was a Jr in high school, my only 2 friends (and a friend of them 2 friends) decided to come to my house uninvited. No calling, no texting, nothing. Needless to say, I had to cut them both off. It's been about 2 and a half years as of right now, and I have been friendless ever sense. I couldn't be happier with that decision. F them
14:50 that dog is Leonidis
Good boy Stubbie.
They were a visitor, that is annoying enough.
Oh god the baby one
Someone threw up in the crisper during a party and told nobody
The 19 year old "friend" who asked my 10 year old sister if she was a virgin. My dad basically lost his shit and made him leave.
A 14 year old boy made a beeline towards my older sister’s room and locked himself there. It took us a while to get him out but when we did, my other older sister scolded him
these are the people you should knock out cold and leave in a field 20 miles from anything
You hurt my animals, you’re getting a full blown beat down from me.
So many of these have guys hurting dogs. If someone EVER put hands(or feet) on my dog I'd do it back to them 10 fold and a bit extra to really send home the message. You. Don't. Mess, With. The. Pets!
I had a friend that decded one day that he was going to pee in the bathroom sink. With the door open. Just staring at me while he peed. he no longer is allowed back. Have not talked to him in nearly a decade. Not sure what was wrong with him but I never could get that stench out of that sink. Nearly ten years later and the smell from that thing smells like an unflushed urinal that has sat for a week.
Eh, i just moved so whatever. it is the next peoples problem.
Puked all over my floor all the Way to the bathroom and all over the back of the toilet
I've had a few bad ones. The worst one was when I was still a teenager. A kid who was a friend of a friend tried to get my dog to blow him. I was into knives at the time and always had one or two near me and sharpened to a razors edge. Upon seeing what he was trying to do to my dog, using one of my larger knives, I swung and attempted to remove his member. Harsh words were had as I chased him out of my house. More harsh words and chasing followed every time I saw him around the neighborhood. Sick fcker.
My uncle took over my bed room so I had to sleep in the living room for a while
Anyone comes in my house and gets physical with my animals is demanding to be unalived.
I refuse to allow houseguests. I’ll meet you in public, your place, or not at all. there are two people I allow to come over and they are my wife’s close friends of 16 plus years and they call or text firs. In this day and age you never know who you can trust around your kids
Attempt to smoke. What sort of fogducker "thinks" they have permission to do that in the home of a non-smoker? It's why I never invite them over anymore, they can't be trusted.
Even if the home owner was a smoker and had ashtrays everywhere, I would still think you should ask first. Suppose they only like guests to use certain ashtrays. Never encountered that myself, just saying.
A friend of a then roommate would stay for a few hours and inevitably need to use the bathroom. One day when he’d been drinking he told us to look through the pages of our National Geographic magazines. I told him my grampa wasn’t rich but that he’d left his collection to me in his will. Suspecting something was up, my roommate said, “Tell us what you did!” It turns out he’d been fapping and emptying his fluids into the pages. He thought we’d find it funny. My roommate and I were livid! It took everything we had not to throw him out into the street! We let him sleep over so that he wouldn’t drive home (as was usual) and told him that he was very much UNWELCOME from our home and our lives!
11.19 wow ok so they have two massive Pitbulls, weapons, drugs, toxic plants and a pool😅 sounds like a pretty dangerous place no matter what your age is
Yeah. what??? Girl baby proof your home a LITTLE.
@@sereously If you don't have kids, why?
My cousin's ex. They stayed at our place since she was kicked out for not following her Jehova Witness father, and she met this loser, who ate an entire platter of lasagna (With individual servings, could have lasted for two days) in an evening, he stole our stuff all the time, and was a total mooch.
And yet, I prefer him over her current husband. She has such an Electra complex, and wanted to get together with someone just like her dad.
I (at the time, 26 or 27 Female[I am not out as a trans male] ); paid to fly my mother over from Newfoundland to Ontario just before the summer. (I had moved from home directly after high school.) She's never been to any of her children's graduations (No fault of hers.) I never stayed home for the walk across the stag and my sister left home before graduating. So skip many years and I am graduating from my now 3rd College program, as a Pastry chef from the biggest college for culinary in my area. Also accepting a prestigious award/grant that only one person can get a year can get in my program and only teachers can submit students names for it.
She's staying at mine and my partners place instead of us paying for hotel for her as I was paying for everything myself. unfortunately, we only lived in a small one bedroom as it was litterly our 2nd apartment of our own. She was staying for 2 weeks with us. she slept on the pull out we had for guests. right away the first thing she says walking into the apartment is, "would you be offened if I cleaned this.... place?" and "I hope your cats dont climb all over me at night" Yes mom. i would be incredibly offened as Im decently clean. and ive spent the last 24 hours prior scrubbing top to bottom to please your OCD ass.
The most annoying thing about this is how much of a doormat each of these OP's are. 😕 I really can't understand how you can just sit there and allow a "guest" to come into YOUR home and openly disrespect you. Its honestly INFURIATING listening to how much of a pushover some of these OP's are. The truth is that people can *ONLY* treat you as bad as you *ALLOW* them to. So if they are used to disrespecting and abusing you and you just sit there ALLOWING it, then guess what? They will _continue_ to do so, and you can't even really blame them because *YOU* invited them in and are *ALLOWING* it.
Honestly, why you would even allow *TOXIC* people like this into your life is utterly baffling. The sad thing is that even after these incidents many of these OP's continue to associate with these narcissistic, entitled people just to "keep the peace" or to "be the bigger person." 🙄
My cousin. Broke up with his girlfriend and got kicked out of his parents house. Came to stay at my house for a few days. Lasted one night. He tried to steal my service pistol. (I used to be a Sheriff’s Deputy many years ago.)
13:49 (Serious question) Why would this OP have a problem with their guest “wearing shoes in my house”? Who DOESN’T do that?
If I had visitors at my house, I would want them to be shod, not barefoot. Why would anybody have a problem with visitors wearing shoes in their house, unless the visitor was wearing (i.e. attempting to steal) the shoes of their host or somebody else that lives there?
Somebody please explain this to me, because it makes no sense.
because your shoes touch the filthy ground, general filth and dirt, spit, dog crap etc. Who wants that trampled all over the carpet? My kid crawls around down there. Shoes off, socks please.
I remember my ex-boyfriend's family had a rule that you had to take off your shoes in the garage before you entered the house. His parents kept their home very clean.
Pot food? There's tons of definitions, none seem to fit here 🫤
Food cooked with marijuana.
@@MasterChief0522 I was thinking that, but also obviously, in a pot.
@MasterChief0522 🤦♀️ It's so obvious when someone tells me the answer! I blame all the results of unappetizing one-pot meals with muddying my thoughts.