Very useful and informative as always ... It's great to get the guidelines , how to make the partnership strong and healthy , to keep the flame burning in a marriage . Great talk ....carry much food for thought Jazak Allah khair
What I understood is that one has to have patience. If I also give an analogy like you. There are two rivers join at Attock. One has clear water while other has muddy. For miles these two waters can be identified and seen as two distinct waters but gradually they start to lose their individuality and after a while they start to become homogeneous and indistinguishable. Often we do not allow ourselves to reach this stage where two become one. Like bank, patience is required. Where there is patience, understanding and love, even their facial features start to resemble in some cases after a long and loving relationship according to a study. رانجھا رانجھا کردے میں آپے رانجھا ہوئی۔
I always wanted to find a forum to listen to you and and very recently i came across your channel, this is very good thing that you have started. This video specifically very good to give us a direction to strengthen our relationship with the partner, thanks and regards.
Ghina, good question; here are some thoughts on how to proceed: Steps 1. Accept and find concrete examples 2. Discuss with your partner or the concerned relation if this was a valid observation 3. Seek support and help as much as possible alongside mutual reinforcement for the shift to a Bankable relationship 4. Make investment in the area of feelings and emotions of the partner with an aim of genuinely making your partner feel special important and trustworthy 5. Reflect daily on efforts made 6. Seek feedback on efforts made 7. Wait. Don’t be in hurry to see dividends. It may take weeks and months before you start to see results
Very useful and informative as always ...
It's great to get the guidelines , how to make the partnership strong and healthy , to keep the flame burning in a marriage .
Great talk ....carry much food for thought
Jazak Allah khair
Thank you
What I understood is that one has to have patience. If I also give an analogy like you. There are two rivers join at Attock. One has clear water while other has muddy. For miles these two waters can be identified and seen as two distinct waters but gradually they start to lose their individuality and after a while they start to become homogeneous and indistinguishable. Often we do not allow ourselves to reach this stage where two become one. Like bank, patience is required. Where there is patience, understanding and love, even their facial features start to resemble in some cases after a long and loving relationship according to a study.
رانجھا رانجھا کردے میں آپے رانجھا ہوئی۔
Thank you for adding to the conversation.
Mashallah bohat ounchy perwaiz hy.
I always wanted to find a forum to listen to you and and very recently i came across your channel, this is very good thing that you have started.
This video specifically very good to give us a direction to strengthen our relationship with the partner, thanks and regards.
Welcome aboard!
Is it too late to convert a ‘restaurant style’ into a ‘bankable relationship? How do we make that intervention?
Ghina, good question; here are some thoughts on how to proceed:
Steps
1. Accept and find concrete examples
2. Discuss with your partner or the concerned relation if this was a valid observation
3. Seek support and help as much as possible alongside mutual reinforcement for the shift to a Bankable relationship
4. Make investment in the area of feelings and emotions of the partner
with an aim of genuinely making your partner feel special important and trustworthy
5. Reflect daily on efforts made
6. Seek feedback on efforts made
7. Wait. Don’t be in hurry to see dividends. It may take weeks and months before you start to see results
Pak Psychiatrist Thankyou for such a detailed response. Taking it step by step
Very important and useful talk 👍
Glad you liked it
MashaAllah very well said
Thanks