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i thought the mom thing was weird until you made your point, and then i remembered that one time i met my mom and a couple of her friends at a bar for her birthday. at that bar, i started flirting with a cute girl who then sat at the table with all of us for a couple hours and then she and i made out outside. its not wild to be attracted to someone that has a good relationship with their mom.
Thats a different situation; it was her birthday. Context matters. "Wingmom" is not what you did.
@@beepbopboop7727 i mean my mom absolutely did wind up wingmomming me in that situation so it's really not that different. i mean we didn't go out with that intent no, but that's still definitely what happened.
No but being a mama's boy and trying to include her in his forced dates is the tip of the iceberg.
And also, pretty sure he's not a virgin because rape is a thing... he keeps bringing this back but "coming from a super cute super charming good-looking guy it would be ok" no, it would not! That's just double standards. They can be sexual assaulters/rapists/whatever too! And she called him a great kid. KID. And yes, she would never date him otherwise. And no that's not normal questions or comments on a first date. Not an unforced one anyway. And I hope that if he hired you to coach him, you'd call the cops real quick or at least tase him! Advice won't help because he doesn't understand/listen to "No means no."! WHERE IS HE MEETING THEM ISN'T THE PROBLEM. Dude works delivery for domino's! I'm sure he's got a list of girls' addresses and he'd make excuses to show up at their house! THE PROBLEM IS THAT HE'S BEEN RAISED TO BE A "MONSTER" (so to speak) and he's not a molester at the very least! Likely has zero connection? How many "I don't want anything to do with you" signs do they need to give until you see it too? And people/communities he can actually relate with are in prison because unlike them, he hasn't gotten arrested for it yet! His interests are getting what he wants from women whether they like it or not!
And please do NOT say to blend in with people, he doesn't need to be a sociopath on top of it, or more than he is already! And bold of you to assume anyone wants to be his friend!
But I've seen other videos about this dude and it's not being quirky and awkward flag after red flag! Like not just the mum part but keeping on trying to get kisses from them and even at least once kissed her on the cheek, justifying his actions by saying she's cute so she should expect a kiss even if she doesn't want one(what the literal fuck!!!), repeatedly calling/messaging and brushing off getting ignored so showing up at her house, guilting them into dates, guilting her into eating ice cream with him, doing all sorts of cringy things and ignoring her denial, saying "I can't wait to watch this back to see if you're terrified! lol", saying people telling him off that they're weirdos and creeps, and after she made an excuse to get out asap of the date she got guilted into, stalking her on her actual date after and suddenly trying to play wingman for the other guy and being pushy about him kissing her because look at her... etc... AND THIS IS ONLY FROM 2-3 VIDEOS I'VE SEEN, THERE'S MORE!
@@Zvox you didn’t explicitly go out so she could wingmom you 💀 she just helped in that very rare situation that’s as presented
@@Zvoxwheb it happens naturally, that makes sense. When it's inte tional and forced- no way does that ever work!
His main issue is that he thinks that he will only be happy when he has a girlfriend. That makes him desperate. Being desperate makes him unattractive.
Yes totally.
Absolutely, desperation is a bad look on anyone
no, his main issue is that he thinks he's entitled to whatever from females because he wants it and they're cute to him. If someone calls him out they're weirdos/creeps. And also, pretty sure he's not a virgin because rape is a thing... he keeps bringing this back but "coming from a super cute super charming good-looking guy it would be ok" no, it would not! That's just double standards. They can be sexual assaulters/rapists/whatever too! And she called him a great kid. KID. And yes, she would never date him otherwise. And no that's not normal questions or comments on a first date. Not an unforced one anyway. And I hope that if he hired you to coach him, you'd call the cops real quick or at least tase him! Advice won't help because he doesn't understand/listen to "No means no."! WHERE IS HE MEETING THEM ISN'T THE PROBLEM. Dude works delivery for domino's! I'm sure he's got a list of girls' addresses and he'd make excuses to show up at their house! THE PROBLEM IS THAT HE'S BEEN RAISED TO BE A "MONSTER" (so to speak) and he's not a molester at the very least! Likely has zero connection? How many "I don't want anything to do with you" signs do they need to give until you see it too? And people/communities he can actually relate with are in prison because unlike them, he hasn't gotten arrested for it yet! His interests are getting what he wants from women whether they like it or not!
And please do NOT say to blend in with people, he doesn't need to be a sociopath on top of it, or more than he is already! And bold of you to assume anyone wants to be his friend!
But I've seen other videos about this dude and it's not being quirky and awkward flag after red flag! Like not just the mum part but keeping on trying to get kisses from them and even at least once kissed her on the cheek, justifying his actions by saying she's cute so she should expect a kiss even if she doesn't want one(what the literal fuck!!!), repeatedly calling/messaging and brushing off getting ignored so showing up at her house, guilting them into dates, guilting her into eating ice cream with him, doing all sorts of cringy things and ignoring her denial, saying "I can't wait to watch this back to see if you're terrified! lol", saying people telling him off that they're weirdos and creeps, and after she made an excuse to get out asap of the date she got guilted into, stalking her on her actual date after and suddenly trying to play wingman for the other guy and being pushy about him kissing her because look at her... etc... AND THIS IS ONLY FROM 2-3 VIDEOS I'VE SEEN, THERE'S MORE!
@@Cassxowary I totally agree with you, but I think that his desperation is also there, which makes him even creepier. I rather watch videos from "Sixteenleo", he's not a relationship coach, but he's someone who better opinions about it.
@@CassxowaryYES. Even beyond “signs,” these women have flat out SAID NO.
"I wanna be able to sway her like at a concert." THEN TAKE HER TO A CONCERT, NOT YOUR BASEMENT
Lol
she still wouldn't want to go!
All the pressure Skippy put on her to give him what he wants really makes me uncomfortable. Guy loves his mom? Awesome! Mom is his go to person? Fantastic! But... the way he pushed himself on his date? That would have freaked me right out 🤢🤢
I agree. I don't like the whole pleaasseee can I kiss you and she says no and he still is like pleaseee
He’s soo much worse now! He has a UA-cam channel where he films his dates and it’s painfully cringey. He’s 45 and still a Virgin. I wish that Anthony would’ve watched his UA-cam channel because it’s more current and it shows skippy’s misogynistic side
Is your name a reference to/inversion of Arm Fall Off Boy?
@@The_Boys_Archive it is!!!!! Wow you are the first person to catch the reference, that's awesome 😍😍😍
And also, pretty sure he's not a virgin because rape is a thing... he keeps bringing this back but "coming from a super cute super charming good-looking guy it would be ok" no, it would not! That's just double standards. They can be sexual assaulters/rapists/whatever too! And she called him a great kid. KID. And yes, she would never date him otherwise. And no that's not normal questions or comments on a first date. Not an unforced one anyway. And I hope that if he hired you to coach him, you'd call the cops real quick or at least tase him! Advice won't help because he doesn't understand/listen to "No means no."! WHERE IS HE MEETING THEM ISN'T THE PROBLEM. Dude works delivery for domino's! I'm sure he's got a list of girls' addresses and he'd make excuses to show up at their house! THE PROBLEM IS THAT HE'S BEEN RAISED TO BE A "MONSTER" (so to speak) and he's not a molester at the very least! Likely has zero connection? How many "I don't want anything to do with you" signs do they need to give until you see it too? And people/communities he can actually relate with are in prison because unlike them, he hasn't gotten arrested for it yet! His interests are getting what he wants from women whether they like it or not!
And please do NOT say to blend in with people, he doesn't need to be a sociopath on top of it, or more than he is already! And bold of you to assume anyone wants to be his friend!
But I've seen other videos about this dude and it's not being quirky and awkward flag after red flag! Like not just the mum part but keeping on trying to get kisses from them and even at least once kissed her on the cheek, justifying his actions by saying she's cute so she should expect a kiss even if she doesn't want one(what the literal fuck!!!), repeatedly calling/messaging and brushing off getting ignored so showing up at her house, guilting them into dates, guilting her into eating ice cream with him, doing all sorts of cringy things and ignoring her denial, saying "I can't wait to watch this back to see if you're terrified! lol", saying people telling him off that they're weirdos and creeps, and after she made an excuse to get out asap of the date she got guilted into, stalking her on her actual date after and suddenly trying to play wingman for the other guy and being pushy about him kissing her because look at her... etc... AND THIS IS ONLY FROM 2-3 VIDEOS I'VE SEEN, THERE'S MORE!
Sad thing is I don't think Skippy would even listen to this advice because he thinks he's a "nice guy" and it's women's fault.
I m afraid you are right...
Ick... "nice guy "🤮
I know he doesn't because he reads the comments and calls people that call him out weirdos/creeps.
@@kokiekokie7608 they are. In a video where he showed up at a girl's house after she ignored his four emssages that day asking why she doesn't like him, he said that he reads the comments and there's a lot of weird people/creeps/whatever, aka people calling him out.
He’s a total incel.
Other videos show Skippy being creepy and caring way to much about sex. I feel like because he’s a virgin he wants to lose his virginity so much he doesn’t care about making connections with girls so when it comes to intimate parts of the date the women don’t want to reciprocate because no connection has been formed.
I had a similar problem when I was a virgin. Because I’d been bullied for being a virgin and being ugly and I got a little bit of confidence I was then starting to meet girls and the ones I was meeting I didn’t actually a connection with them. We might have found each other attractive but we didn’t have much in common and because I was so obsessed about losing my virginity and just getting her into bed I didn’t actually try and be charming (I didn’t really know how to be honest) aswell as being nervous and not knowing what to say I didn’t make a connection with them.
There’s only really a few girls I’ve made a connection with and have things in common with unfortunately because I cared about losing my virginity so much I didn’t really no what to do and it can come across as creepy to some people. Not skippy level but wanting to kiss someone so much or get their number it can come across as weird, desperate or creepy and if I was a woman I wouldn’t be attracted to a man like that
When i was 20 I was so desperate to lose my virginity and "get it over" with that i downloaded this dating app to hook up with the first decently attractive girl i connected with. So after talking with one girl for a few days we set up a date and i actually somehow lost my virginity that night.
I honestly did not feel any sensation my first time, not worth it lol. I said, well let me hook up with her again maybe after a few times i'll enjoy it more since I had no idea what i was doing the first time. We had sex maybe 4-5 more times and sure it was fun and all but I was so set on the sex that I lost a potentially meaningful relationship with her.
I'm not saying she's someone I would've married or anything, but she was honestly pretty cool. We had some quirky things we related on like knowledge of different film scores or liking the same random musical. She also sang pretty damn well and I played a bit of guitar so we had joked about me bringing my guitar to the park or beach and jam out or something.
Pretty sure he's not a virgin because rape is a thing... he keeps bringing this back but "coming from a super cute super charming good-looking guy it would be ok" no, it would not! That's just double standards. They can be sexual assaulters/rapists/whatever too! And she called him a great kid. KID. And yes, she would never date him otherwise. And no that's not normal questions or comments on a first date. Not an unforced one anyway. And I hope that if he hired you to coach him, you'd call the cops real quick or at least tase him! Advice won't help because he doesn't understand/listen to "No means no."! WHERE IS HE MEETING THEM ISN'T THE PROBLEM. Dude works delivery for domino's! I'm sure he's got a list of girls' addresses and he'd make excuses to show up at their house! THE PROBLEM IS THAT HE'S BEEN RAISED TO BE A "MONSTER" (so to speak) and he's not a molester at the very least! Likely has zero connection? How many "I don't want anything to do with you" signs do they need to give until you see it too? And people/communities he can actually relate with are in prison because unlike them, he hasn't gotten arrested for it yet! His interests are getting what he wants from women whether they like it or not!
And please do NOT say to blend in with people, he doesn't need to be a sociopath on top of it, or more than he is already! And bold of you to assume anyone wants to be his friend!
But I've seen other videos about this dude and it's not being quirky and awkward flag after red flag! Like not just the mum part but keeping on trying to get kisses from them and even at least once kissed her on the cheek, justifying his actions by saying she's cute so she should expect a kiss even if she doesn't want one(what the literal fuck!!!), repeatedly calling/messaging and brushing off getting ignored so showing up at her house, guilting them into dates, guilting her into eating ice cream with him, doing all sorts of cringy things and ignoring her denial, saying "I can't wait to watch this back to see if you're terrified! lol", saying people telling him off that they're weirdos and creeps, and after she made an excuse to get out asap of the date she got guilted into, stalking her on her actual date after and suddenly trying to play wingman for the other guy and being pushy about him kissing her because look at her... etc... AND THIS IS ONLY FROM 2-3 VIDEOS I'VE SEEN, THERE'S MORE!
@@Cassxowary Angry bitter feminist spotted.
I think his social skills are a larger issue than you depict, but more so in how he is able to read other peoples social cues. There are moments where he is goofy and his own type of charming, and the woman he’s with seems to be enjoying herself. The issue lies where he can’t read how uncomfortable he was making her on their date, but continues to try and “charm” her in to doing the things he wants. It felt mildly manipulative, but he is so caught up in his own internal fantasy that he doesn’t seem to realize how it’s making the other person feel. That… was a longer comment than intended. Lol. Hope you make another vid!
I do think a lot of it was for the camera. And he was acting childish as a defense mechanism. But I’ll need to watch the deeper vids.
@@AnthonyRecenello good point! And I hope you’re right, lol. It’s always hard to know how genuine some of these takes are we get from tv shows.
@@AnthonyRecenello he has ten plus years of videos on his youtube. Honestly it's WORSE than this video. This is him toned down for the cameras, not the other way around. I would reccomend watching his videos on HIS channel, not this show.
@@AnthonyRecenello please check his UA-cam channel…. I promise you. This comment is right on point…
No, nothing goofy or charming or mild about him. And also, pretty sure he's not a virgin because rape is a thing... he keeps bringing this back but "coming from a super cute super charming good-looking guy it would be ok" no, it would not! That's just double standards. They can be sexual assaulters/rapists/whatever too! And she called him a great kid. KID. And yes, she would never date him otherwise. And no that's not normal questions or comments on a first date. Not an unforced one anyway. And I hope that if he hired you to coach him, you'd call the cops real quick or at least tase him! Advice won't help because he doesn't understand/listen to "No means no."! WHERE IS HE MEETING THEM ISN'T THE PROBLEM. Dude works delivery for domino's! I'm sure he's got a list of girls' addresses and he'd make excuses to show up at their house! THE PROBLEM IS THAT HE'S BEEN RAISED TO BE A "MONSTER" (so to speak) and he's not a molester at the very least! Likely has zero connection? How many "I don't want anything to do with you" signs do they need to give until you see it too? And people/communities he can actually relate with are in prison because unlike them, he hasn't gotten arrested for it yet! His interests are getting what he wants from women whether they like it or not!
And please do NOT say to blend in with people, he doesn't need to be a sociopath on top of it, or more than he is already! And bold of you to assume anyone wants to be his friend!
But I've seen other videos about this dude and it's not being quirky and awkward flag after red flag! Like not just the mum part but keeping on trying to get kisses from them and even at least once kissed her on the cheek, justifying his actions by saying she's cute so she should expect a kiss even if she doesn't want one(what the literal fuck!!!), repeatedly calling/messaging and brushing off getting ignored so showing up at her house, guilting them into dates, guilting her into eating ice cream with him, doing all sorts of cringy things and ignoring her denial, saying "I can't wait to watch this back to see if you're terrified! lol", saying people telling him off that they're weirdos and creeps, and after she made an excuse to get out asap of the date she got guilted into, stalking her on her actual date after and suddenly trying to play wingman for the other guy and being pushy about him kissing her because look at her... etc... AND THIS IS ONLY FROM 2-3 VIDEOS I'VE SEEN, THERE'S MORE!
Yeah looking for love in all the wrong places isn't really a solution. I do hope he figures out what works though.
he's not looking for love. He's looking for girls to make them do what he wants and get what he wants from them. And in this context, "figures out what works" means finding a way to sexually assault, rape, kidnap, torture, kill females without being discovered.
And also, pretty sure he's not a virgin because rape is a thing... he keeps bringing this back but "coming from a super cute super charming good-looking guy it would be ok" no, it would not! That's just double standards. They can be sexual assaulters/rapists/whatever too! And she called him a great kid. KID. And yes, she would never date him otherwise. And no that's not normal questions or comments on a first date. Not an unforced one anyway. And I hope that if he hired you to coach him, you'd call the cops real quick or at least tase him! Advice won't help because he doesn't understand/listen to "No means no."! WHERE IS HE MEETING THEM ISN'T THE PROBLEM. Dude works delivery for domino's! I'm sure he's got a list of girls' addresses and he'd make excuses to show up at their house! THE PROBLEM IS THAT HE'S BEEN RAISED TO BE A "MONSTER" (so to speak) and he's not a molester at the very least! Likely has zero connection? How many "I don't want anything to do with you" signs do they need to give until you see it too? And people/communities he can actually relate with are in prison because unlike them, he hasn't gotten arrested for it yet! His interests are getting what he wants from women whether they like it or not!
And please do NOT say to blend in with people, he doesn't need to be a sociopath on top of it, or more than he is already! And bold of you to assume anyone wants to be his friend!
But I've seen other videos about this dude and it's not being quirky and awkward flag after red flag! Like not just the mum part but keeping on trying to get kisses from them and even at least once kissed her on the cheek, justifying his actions by saying she's cute so she should expect a kiss even if she doesn't want one(what the literal fuck!!!), repeatedly calling/messaging and brushing off getting ignored so showing up at her house, guilting them into dates, guilting her into eating ice cream with him, doing all sorts of cringy things and ignoring her denial, saying "I can't wait to watch this back to see if you're terrified! lol", saying people telling him off that they're weirdos and creeps, and after she made an excuse to get out asap of the date she got guilted into, stalking her on her actual date after and suddenly trying to play wingman for the other guy and being pushy about him kissing her because look at her... etc... AND THIS IS ONLY FROM 2-3 VIDEOS I'VE SEEN, THERE'S MORE!
Can you do a part 2 please because this is just skimming the Skippy surface.
On the other hand this is the only sound advice I've heard anyone give Skippy, everyone normally just lists everything wrong with him.
that's because this guy doesn't see it's all red flags, and everything IS wrong with him...
pretty sure he's not a virgin because rape is a thing... and he keeps bringing this back but "coming from a super cute super charming good-looking guy it would be ok" no, it would not! That's just double standards. They can be sexual assaulters/rapists/whatever too! And she called him a great kid. KID. And yes, she would never date him otherwise. And no that's not normal questions or comments on a first date. Not an unforced one anyway. And I hope that if he hired you to coach him, you'd call the cops real quick or at least tase him! Advice won't help because he doesn't understand/listen to "No means no."! WHERE IS HE MEETING THEM ISN'T THE PROBLEM. Dude works delivery for domino's! I'm sure he's got a list of girls' addresses and he'd make excuses to show up at their house! THE PROBLEM IS THAT HE'S BEEN RAISED TO BE A "MONSTER" (so to speak) and he's not a molester at the very least! Likely has zero connection? How many "I don't want anything to do with you" signs do they need to give until you see it too? And people/communities he can actually relate with are in prison because unlike them, he hasn't gotten arrested for it yet! His interests are getting what he wants from women whether they like it or not!
And please do NOT say to blend in with people, he doesn't need to be a sociopath on top of it, or more than he is already! And bold of you to assume anyone wants to be his friend!
But I've seen other videos about this dude and it's not being quirky and awkward flag after red flag! Like not just the mum part but keeping on trying to get kisses from them and even at least once kissed her on the cheek, justifying his actions by saying she's cute so she should expect a kiss even if she doesn't want one(what the literal fuck!!!), repeatedly calling/messaging and brushing off getting ignored so showing up at her house, guilting them into dates, guilting her into eating ice cream with him, doing all sorts of cringy things and ignoring her denial, saying "I can't wait to watch this back to see if you're terrified! lol", saying people telling him off that they're weirdos and creeps, and after she made an excuse to get out asap of the date she got guilted into, stalking her on her actual date after and suddenly trying to play wingman for the other guy and being pushy about him kissing her because look at her... etc... AND THIS IS ONLY FROM 2-3 VIDEOS I'VE SEEN, THERE'S MORE!
I'd love a part 2!! But it's been so long, I doubt we'll get one...
Skippy needs to change. Or nothing for him will change.
When I was in my early 20s I wasn't as bad as Skippy is I just felt because I'm not a douchebag a hole I felt like I was owed a reason why women like the douchebag a hole and not someone like me who's not going to not appreciate. Let me tell you something I chilled out on that I look back on it and thought I was stupid changed my whole approach decided to relax when it came to women and now I can say I'm doing okay. Don't always have women come through for me like they do with studs but I am at least doing a little bit better. Change is very good indeed.
Skippy's problem is his desperation. He is 34, so he had more than enough time to pursue relationships, and even experience with how to approach women.
I feel like he postponed it, and then hit his 30s, and now he is as eager as a 15 year old boy.
Not cool.
He is not 34,i think he is forty years old or more today
He has a UA-cam channel where he films his dates. He is 45 and still a Virgin and is super creepy towards his dates. He is aggressive and pushy towards his dates, he’s borderline misogynistic.
That's a good point, his relationship age might be more like a 12 year old. Which would explain his behavior
He’s been doing this with girls since he was in his 20s and probably earlier. He’s just extremely immature and he thinks life is supposed to be like in the movies. I can actually relate to that, if you don’t have life guidance growing up you can turn to media as an example, even if that’s a subconscious thing. His attitude toward women reminds me of me when I was 15, but unlike myself skippy seems to not be able to mature past that.
We need part two for sure, especially the episode that calls a girl bitch. It s not in his Chanel. I ll try to find it though.And the episode with the ice cream bar, where he is going uninvited to a girl's place. 🙏
Oh jeez cmon Skippy
He kissed the girl knowing full well that she was very uncomfortable
He's THAT kind of guy.... The 'NICE' guy.. he's not nice.
yah after she ignored his four messages in one day asking why she doesn't like him, and that time he also said "I can't wait to watch this bad to see if you're terrified! lol" among other things
@@Jadedgems it's much worse than you think too!
The videos of him on his dates and being petty toward girls is where the issues lie 💀💀
no, the main issue is that their consent means nothing to him. If a girl says no, he just starts begging and even kissing them without consent and showing up at their house and everything! Besides everything else creepy and stalkery and assaulty and rapey and just otherwise illegal that he says and does.
This is terrible advice. Dating is discriminatory. This hypothetical of "if a dream guy did it it would be fine" is pointless because Skippy isnt that guy. It doesnt work for him. This is Skippy. And quite frankly its not helpful.
It's about the whole picture. In general Skippy doesnt have the people skills to navigate the goofy guy persona. Instead it just comes across as overbearing and forceful. His lack of social skills and his tendency to be overbearing, teamed with the tshirts and gimmicks all point to immaturity that is offputting.
Stop decontextualising his behaviour.
No but hes trying to be fair. By dping so he is trying to find the necessary conditions of having a good date. To find those conditions, they have to apply to all cases in a non-descript fashion.
@@canyildiz5966 Dating isnt fair unfortunatrely. And this is the thing - everyone is a little weird. And qwerkiness can be endearing. But having good social skills and being able to make real deep connections help mitigate that. Unfrotunately Skippy is too weird, too overbearing, too creepy for most people to be interested.
Nailed it
This is gonna be a doozy.
Cool! I showed up on the request screen! The Virgin Diaries video is only the tip of the iceberg, but this was a refreshingly objective take on our friend Skippy.
YEEESSS! the reaction i never thought i'd need
I have a hard time believing that the shirts and having his mom at the club are not part of the problem. Saying that an attractive, confident guy could pull those things off may be true, but it's because he clearly is NOT desperate for sex and is doing it as a joke/just for fun, the way Skippy acts and talks instantly gives away that he IS desperate, and that all the t-shirts are really something he wants to exchange for sexual favors. I guess I'd be fine meeting a girl's mom or dad right off the bat but definitely not with the expectation that I'm going to have to be best friends with him/her. I don't think all these extra things he's doing are just a natural extension of his personality either, I think he subconsciously thinks if he puts enough pressure on girls, or at least tries hard enough to be different from other guys, that one of them will fold and be with him. Your videos on being authentic so the right people can find you were really eye-opening for me, but I think Skippy has almost the opposite problem, he tries to be so different from everybody else that he forces it and does all this creepy shit that makes everyone uncomfortable.
Then it’s not the shirts, it’s the desperation. I disagree that it’s just a tactic for pressure. I think it’s his personality. And I think most people watching him don’t have his personality. I grew up thinking I was weird until I found my tribe. Then I realized how all the things nobody liked before were because they are not like me. I don’t think he’s trying to be different. I think he just is different.
yess, and also, pretty sure he's not a virgin because rape is a thing... he keeps bringing this back but "coming from a super cute super charming good-looking guy it would be ok" no, it would not! That's just double standards. They can be sexual assaulters/rapists/whatever too! And she called him a great kid. KID. And yes, she would never date him otherwise. And no that's not normal questions or comments on a first date. Not an unforced one anyway. And I hope that if he hired you to coach him, you'd call the cops real quick or at least tase him! Advice won't help because he doesn't understand/listen to "No means no."! WHERE IS HE MEETING THEM ISN'T THE PROBLEM. Dude works delivery for domino's! I'm sure he's got a list of girls' addresses and he'd make excuses to show up at their house! THE PROBLEM IS THAT HE'S BEEN RAISED TO BE A "MONSTER" (so to speak) and he's not a molester at the very least! Likely has zero connection? How many "I don't want anything to do with you" signs do they need to give until you see it too? And people/communities he can actually relate with are in prison because unlike them, he hasn't gotten arrested for it yet! His interests are getting what he wants from women whether they like it or not!
And please do NOT say to blend in with people, he doesn't need to be a sociopath on top of it, or more than he is already! And bold of you to assume anyone wants to be his friend!
But I've seen other videos about this dude and it's not being quirky and awkward flag after red flag! Like not just the mum part but keeping on trying to get kisses from them and even at least once kissed her on the cheek, justifying his actions by saying she's cute so she should expect a kiss even if she doesn't want one(what the literal fuck!!!), repeatedly calling/messaging and brushing off getting ignored so showing up at her house, guilting them into dates, guilting her into eating ice cream with him, doing all sorts of cringy things and ignoring her denial, saying "I can't wait to watch this back to see if you're terrified! lol", saying people telling him off that they're weirdos and creeps, and after she made an excuse to get out asap of the date she got guilted into, stalking her on her actual date after and suddenly trying to play wingman for the other guy and being pushy about him kissing her because look at her... etc... AND THIS IS ONLY FROM 2-3 VIDEOS I'VE SEEN, THERE'S MORE!
You're very insightful and kind, Anthony. You see the truth and give very compassionate advice. I'm not looking for a relationship but I can resonate with what you teach. I love your advice about treating people like your best friend. That's helpful and lovely.
no, he really doesn't... I mean maybe in other cases he does but here it's scary he doesn't see the tens of red flags!
Pretty sure he's not a virgin because rape is a thing... he keep bringing this back but "coming from a super cute super charming good-looking guy it would be ok" no, it would not! That's just double standards. They can be sexual assaulters/rapists/whatever too! And she called him a great kid. KID. And yes, she would never date him otherwise. And no that's not normal questions or comments on a first date. Not an unforced one anyway. And I hope that if he hired you to coach him, you'd call the cops real quick or at least tase him! Advice won't help because he doesn't understand/listen to "No means no."! WHERE IS HE MEETING THEM ISN'T THE PROBLEM. Dude works delivery for domino's! I'm sure he's got a list of girls' addresses and he'd make excuses to show up at their house! THE PROBLEM IS THAT HE'S BEEN RAISED TO BE A "MONSTER" (so to speak) and he's not a molester at the very least! Likely has zero connection? How many "I don't want anything to do with you" signs do they need to give until you see it too? And people/communities he can actually relate with are in prison because unlike them, he hasn't gotten arrested for it yet! His interests are getting what he wants from women whether they like it or not!
And please do NOT say to blend in with people, he doesn't need to be a sociopath on top of it, or more than he is already! And bold of you to assume anyone wants to be his friend!
But I've seen other videos about this dude and it's not being quirky and awkward flag after red flag! Like not just the mum part but keeping on trying to get kisses from them and even at least once kissed her on the cheek, justifying his actions by saying she's cute so she should expect a kiss even if she doesn't want one(what the literal fuck!!!), repeatedly calling/messaging and brushing off getting ignored so showing up at her house, guilting them into dates, guilting her into eating ice cream with him, doing all sorts of cringy things and ignoring her denial, saying "I can't wait to watch this back to see if you're terrified! lol", saying people telling him off that they're weirdos and creeps, and after she made an excuse to get out asap of the date she got guilted into, stalking her on her actual date after and suddenly trying to play wingman for the other guy and being pushy about him kissing her because look at her... etc... AND THIS IS ONLY FROM 2-3 VIDEOS I'VE SEEN, THERE'S MORE!
A part 2 for sure would be great
This actually gave me a lot of perspective into my own life. I suffer with chronic pain that completely changed how I survive day to day.i can't relate to others my age & so have never been able to connect with anyone. You've given me the drive to find health community I can relate with. So thank you for this video. Love from Ireland x
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@Eustass D. CAPTAIN Kidd I'm sorry you're suffering, it can be such a lonely experience, especially if no one believes you. I was 11 when the pain started and I'm 31 now. I hope you have some support system around you, don't know what I'd do without family. Be safe over there 🙏❤ x
Alot of people would be intimidated, put on the spot, weirded out by meeting a strangers mom right away, no matter how charming or attractive... you also do have to take into account all the things hes doing wrong..
Omg you did it! You actually took my suggestion (or someone else's). I'm so sorry your eyes had to witness this, but thank you!!
I have a different take. Skippy treats women like they are objects, or vending machines. In his mind, he thinks: give them a shirt, get a kiss in return. Or, plan a date for her in mom's basement, get a kiss because you're now entitled to it. He does this on his channel too. I think that he has Autism, and that means he really needs to be intellectually trained into the right things to say and how to respond, rather than emotionally and socially, because he wasn't built with those already in his brain. My daughter is Autistic, and I see many of the same traits. It's very hard for Autistic people to find love, but it can happen, especially in the mildly Autistic group. In some of his videos, he sexually assaults girls by kissing them without their consent, and he always makes them feel uncomfortable. He is broke, still lives in mom's basement at 43 years old now, he is overweight and awkward and cringey and throws tantrums when he doesn't get his way. He became addicted to opiates at some point and wasted a lot of his 30s struggling through addiction. There is a lot more to the Skippy story, if you'd like to do a deeper dive.
Based on videos I haven’t seen and everyone’s comments, I think I didn’t get the whole story on him. I’m keeping this video up because the advice I give outside of Skippy, can be valuable.
It would be awesome if you could do more videos on him once you watch them. I'd like to see your new take after seeing his patterns.@@AnthonyRecenello
Great video and very educational
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You need to react to some of Skippy's own youtube videos (he records the dates he goes on) they paint a very different picture than this video does.
👍 true
Those are sooooo cringy
Very true, I also think he should react to the deleted video of skippy where you can see how shallow and creepy he can get.
personally, if he begged for a kiss and i (like the girl he was on a date with) said no and he still asked for one, that would be a huge turn off b/c he wouldn't be respecting my boundaries. i think he moved too fast and the girl was UNCOMFORTABLE.
also, last week i asked if u could react to someone and u said to dm u, but i don't have instagram/twitter. can i comment my video choices for brent rivera & pierson wodzynski (brierson)?
Very very true. But it was clear much before that that she was not interested
@@peterwallis4288 i feel like instantly having a first date for this situation was the wrong move. i wonder what would happen if skippy and that girl started out as friends and moved from there. if anything, skippy would have a girl-friend who can give him advice about how to get a girlfriend from a women's perspective
At least this girl he didn't kiss her anyway, thankfully. Poor other one though. And this one called him a great kid. KID. And yes, she would never date him otherwise. And no that's not normal questions or comments on a first date. Not an unforced one anyway. And I hope that if he hired you to coach him, you'd call the cops real quick or at least tase him! Advice won't help because he doesn't understand/listen to "No means no."! WHERE IS HE MEETING THEM ISN'T THE PROBLEM. Dude works delivery for domino's! I'm sure he's got a list of girls' addresses and he'd make excuses to show up at their house! THE PROBLEM IS THAT HE'S BEEN RAISED TO BE A "MONSTER" (so to speak) and he's not a molester at the very least! Likely has zero connection? How many "I don't want anything to do with you" signs do they need to give until you see it too? And people/communities he can actually relate with are in prison because unlike them, he hasn't gotten arrested for it yet! His interests are getting what he wants from women whether they like it or not!
And please do NOT say to blend in with people, he doesn't need to be a sociopath on top of it, or more than he is already! And bold of you to assume anyone wants to be his friend!
But I've seen other videos about this dude and it's not being quirky and awkward flag after red flag! Like not just the mum part but keeping on trying to get kisses from them and even at least once kissed her on the cheek, justifying his actions by saying she's cute so she should expect a kiss even if she doesn't want one(what the literal fuck!!!), repeatedly calling/messaging and brushing off getting ignored so showing up at her house, guilting them into dates, guilting her into eating ice cream with him, doing all sorts of cringy things and ignoring her denial, saying "I can't wait to watch this back to see if you're terrified! lol", saying people telling him off that they're weirdos and creeps, and after she made an excuse to get out asap of the date she got guilted into, stalking her on her actual date after and suddenly trying to play wingman for the other guy and being pushy about him kissing her because look at her... etc... AND THIS IS ONLY FROM 2-3 VIDEOS I'VE SEEN, THERE'S MORE!
Great analysis, and you’re such a good guy. Most videos I’ve seen just ridicule the behaviour instead of trying to find a sensible solution.
Another great video Anthony!
He's kind of a walking, talking contradiction because he seems very confident, easygoing, and sure of himself but, when he interacts with the girl, there are visible moments of extreme desperation which is really off putting. Either way, I hope he finds what he's looking for.
Also, I feel like you cut him a little too much slack, while wearing a shirt with your name on it isnt the worst thing, I do think bringing your mom to social outings as your wing woman is definitely borderline cringey or at the very least uncomfortable for whoever he might be approaching.
Nah not at all. It’s just hard for you to step out of Skippy’s way of doing it. I’m just not looking at the superficial in order to make jokes for no reason. The truth of the matter is you don’t want Skippy. That doesn’t mean he needs to cater to what you want. There’s a diff between changing who he is and improving his social skills and headspace.
@@AnthonyRecenello I in no way was implying that you should makes jokes about him at all , I just think had Skippy been one of the conventionally good looking, super charming guys that you speak of you may have been a little more critical.
I absolutely think he should be who he is while at the same time looking at his actions through a realistic lens and how women may react if put in the situation of meeting a man who uses his mom as a wing woman.
That's simply my opinion I'm sure theres a finite amount of women who dont care at all and I truly hope he finds one of them.
Love your videos btw
@@samanetha89 that’s the whole point of dating! It’s not to open yourself to the widest amount of people. It’s to focus on your “niche”. Skippys perosnality is out there… now he has to find his tribe. I’m going to reach out to him.
I'm grateful that you have compassion for him. He clearly has challenges that he cannot change on his own. I hope he finds someone, too.
Ohhhhh please part two (and three!)
The most charming guy in the world wearing these shirts and bringing his mom is still a huge turnoff for me. So yes, it is part of the problem
Edit: sorry dude but who made this guy a dating coach…
Yes. It is part of the problem for you. Not for others. Don’t be confused between what is universally unattractive versus what is subjectively unattractive. Important distinction.
@@AnthonyRecenello I'm sure theres the occational person who dont mind. But I've not met them yet xD
Go part 2! Love the Skippy
Skippy part 2, please and thank you.
I think other videos of skippy will reveal other issues he has.
Friendly reminder Ted Bundy was good-looking and charming and look what he was like...
Loving the diversity in the reaction vids recently!
Hoping for 400 comments & pt 2 soon 😁
Do part 2 please!
“Wouldn’t it be a great world if insecurity and desperation made us more attractive?”-Albert Brooks
Thats great advice.
"Such a great kid"
You are very kind and understanding. Honestly if he’s Mormon it would be easier to find someone that’s in the same religion then they will have something in common. I’m wondering what his job is. The type of person he wants probably won’t be found at a bar. Especially if he wants a conservative religious person that doesn’t drink and wants to get married quickly and have kids.
So basically what I got from this is Skippy’s main problem is that he isn’t charming and attractive enough to pull off the antics he’s trying and he’s acting like he’s a Chad at the bar when he’s really not lol
That’s literally the opposite of what I said.
"coming from a super cute super charming good-looking guy it would be ok" is pretty much the same thing as him justifying his actions by saying she's cute so she should expect a kiss even if she doesn't want one!!! Like what. Just what. That's just not the least bit ok in any way shape or form. And one time he did kiss the girl even if she clearly didn't like him or wanted it!
"Worst dating coach in the world doesn't understand why Skippy doesn't get girls"
Here's a comment to get one step closer to those 400 comments! ;D
Really cool video and interesting analysis! 👍 I agree that finding places that you enjoy being in and/or like-minded communities can really give a boost in confidence and social acceptance/improvement within that space - which can lead to new friends or even more.
Ssskippy,- my friend, my dude... That made me laugh :3
This guy needs to see more of Skippy's videos
Skippy's ideal woman has to be a 10. He only wants to date the most attractive people out there, and attractive by general standards, not just his standards. Skippy's problem is that he doesn't bring anything to the table. He was a pizza delivery boy when this video was made, and now he works at a thrift store. He still lives at home and is always broke. He's also the prototypical "nice guy" and acts like a stubborn, spoiled child when he doesn't get his way. His frustration at not being able to get kissed on the lips at the end of the date is just absolutely disgusting. Skippy is beyond help, and will die a virgin. Even if he pays for sex just to lose his virginity, he's never going to be in a long term, committed relationship.
There are many women in their 30's and even 40's who work these types of jobs to get by and do not make much money, and are always broke. He would be a match for them, but these women are often not physically attractive, so Skippy would probably not be interested in them. Many economic studies show that more than half of working Americans do not have sufficient funds to pay for an unexpected $500-$1000 expense. If you're correlating his expectations for a woman's physical beauty compared to his financial attractiveness, then yes, I have to agree with you. Women on the low end of the physical attractiveness spectrum do not have a reason to expect men who do well financially to be interested in them.
I honestly think that Skippy has some type of cognitive disorder that will not allow him to function in the type of job that makes the kind of money you are expecting him to make. I am in his position, and I am trying to teach myself a technical skill that might be marketable. I, too, am always broke, but no one can accuse me of not trying.
I cannot defend many of the things that he has done, but I do hope that he is able to find happiness despite his struggles to meet the standard that you and society expect.
Part 2!
Good one
Can you please react to more pickup artists? Your reactions to them are the funniest
I laughed so hard at 11.30🤣🤣🤣
Yes!!! Thats gonna be good, i can tell already! :-)
HEY ANTHONY I seem to only hang out with a certain group of friends I’ve known from a longgg time ago but we’re growing and changing and I’d very much like to find other friend groups but the problem is when I hang out with other people I don’t know how to make them my friends? I’d very much like a video of you explaining how to make friends, I’m 21 btw and thanks
10/10 advice at the end of the video.
here in Brazil, it's very common to live in your parents house well into your 30's, because here is expensive af to own a house, my parents actually never got to buy their own house and always rented it
How would you suggest a young disabled woman should date? I'm 23 years old and I find that my disability is a main factor for men to not be interested in me. How do I make sure that I catch that early on and not be too hurt about it?
We should talk about this in detail. I’m thinking of starting a twitch.
Thank you, I don't have a twitch account but if you'd like to talk in detail I could get one lol I'm just so tired of having to try to make people see that I'm a person too, not just a wheelchair.
DM me!
@@AnthonyRecenello okay, I just sent you one on Instagram! Look for maryowen17
The most attractive charming person in the world could come to me with that t-shirt and I would be instantly turned off. But that's just me. 😂
To clarify, I'm talking about the "I made out with Skippy for 3 minutes" shirt
part DEUX!
You need to react to skippy's own channel its amazing and you really start to see some problems with needing and not wanting
funny thing is that Skippy is my mom’s cousin and i’ve met him and his mother numerous times during family gathering and other times as well.
Part deux s’il vous plaît!
I 100% disagree with a lot of the things you said. Having your mom get you girls at a bar is weird it doesn’t matter how hot or charming you are. If you were that charming you wouldn’t need your mom to get you girls at a bar.
It’s not a tactic, he just wanted to have her there.
Your recommendation at the end is pretty much exactly what Skippy is doing now and he's still unsuccessful. He dates almost exclusively women who are Mormon (which means they have the same values as him) and are looking for a serious relationship.
do 2 part do 2 part!!!
It’s my worst rated video so I guess that part 2 will never come
@@AnthonyRecenello oh wow man you're very dedicated to your comments section. By the way first video i ever watched of ye
So how dows one become a dating coach?
comment for part 2
Yey my comment got to him!
lol good video
This is so cringe with the shirts idk man
I was having trouble thinking of one, but if Tom Holland was out to a bar with his mom they would need to put out flood warnings.
If there’s one thing I learned a long time ago as a teenager, is that girls DO NOT like to be called “sweet”
Yeah part 2 would be interesting. I say do it.
I hope Skippy sees this!
You got to react to Ludwig and QTcinderella
DM me links of vids
Pleaaasseee do Ronan Farrow and Jon Lovett, Anthonyy :)))) i think there's a lot people can learn from their relationship
the level of cringe actually physically hurt my body anthony 😂😂😂
His UA-cam channel is much worse
That was a good different perspective of Skippy from what I've heard before. I'm not sure about him yet. To me he comes across as creepy, overly horny & extremely "full of himself". But, maybe I feel that way because I don't find him attractive. (No offense - I'm not Marilyn Monroe over here) I do hope he finds love though.
the girl is sooo sweet love her
Woman here 🙋🏼♀️ Skippy’s issue is he’s a 3 (takes zero care of himself) and he wants at least a 7-8 then proceeds to push physical touches on her way too soon and makes her extremely uncomfortable. He FILMED Tracy’s chest and called out she didn’t wear a bra after making a move on her in a confined elevator. He has no sense of boundaries. There’s nothing attractive about his personality when it comes to an intimate relationship.
Do ittttttttt
I really hope Skippy hired you. That dude needs help. I have seen many video people's reaction of Skippy. Most of the the reaction has helpful but hostile advices. The hostility is debatable deserved but it's hard for most people to accept advice if the advices seem like insults.
Your reactions to Skippy, the "Ugly'" videos, and many other videos has always seem been sincere because it seem kind without looking like virtue signaling
I’ll reach out to him.
He is Mormon, that's all!
You don't honestly think he'd ask for help, do you? He doesn't even agree with consent! If a girl says no, he just starts begging and even kissing them without consent and showing up at their house and everything! Besides everything else creepy and stalkery and assaulty and rapey and just otherwise illegal that he says and does.
part 2
Where can I get ur help I am desperate I have terrible social skills I can't even have a simple conversation with someone 😕
I think he has a book and you can book sessions with him
Hey Anthony you should consider reacting to ludwig and QTCinderella . I think they're super funny and I'd be interested to hear what you say about the dynamic they have in their relationship
I moved across the world 😂 and I am happily committed
Tell me more!
@@AnthonyRecenello I moved to Japan to fulfill a lifelong dream and to find somewhere I could belong, I didn't find it. But I got online , met a wonderful guy and moved across the country to live with him and I've never been happier
pleaseeee anthonyyyy give me a kisss
Even if he was the most attractive guy in the world as soon as he'll come with his "wanting to meet my mom?" and we are not even dating or anything I'll be GONE
Dude...these questions are NOT ok for a first date. I don't care how attractive or awesome a guy is, if the first two questions he asked me on our first date were "how many guys have you gone on a date with this year." LET ALONE "lived in their parents basement" I would run. Then the follow up "do you have it future kids names picked out" no dude. No.
I'm not judgemental, I've dated guys who lived at home and whatever, but the shit he does would be unacceptable no matter who was doing it.
nah skippy is a weirdo man HUGE red flag
pt 2
you should react to more camila and shawnnnn :))) please
You should check out his UA-cam channel. He films his dates and shows how he try’s to kiss the girls…. It’s so cringe. He’s a typical incel. He’s creepy & thinks he’s entitled to sex when a girl is nice to him. He’s also the type that gets verbally abusive when a girl decides she’s not interested in him. He’s nutty
Idk if I wanna watch this or if it'll make me angry but here we gooooo 🤣
Okay so your point about the t shirts and bringing his mum is valid... however I know for me personally either of those would be a complete turn off 😂. If I met someone I liked while either of us were out with parents (I do go to gigs in clubs with my dad, and pubs, but I don't go OUT out) - I would maybe flirt a little IF we were away from any parents, and exchange numbers to talk later, and maybe meet up on our own. I could never flirt with someone who has a "wing-mom" there with them, and the whole idea of looking for someone to date specifically taking a parent along icks me out beyond belief 😂.
Also he just comes across as SO intense and desperate, it's awful interacting with someone like that and makes me wanna run for the hills 😳. I think that with the right person for him he would just click, but I don't think that's a lot of people. He needs to find things he enjoys and just do those and hopefully someone will come up for him.
Side note - I've had a similar conversation with a guy in a club about him wanting a kiss. He thought he was owed a kiss for having a conversation with him. I said no and ran off, but it's not a nice thing to have to deal with 😫
the desperation is a completely diff conversation 🤣
@@AnthonyRecenello the desperation is certainly... something! And I get it, I've been that person at times (to a lesser extent) but I've learnt and grown from it and understood how it isn't a good thing at all 😅. I'm way more chill now - getting an ADHD diagnosis helped tons!
Idk if I'm the minority of people who wouldn't find these behaviours attractive on "conventionally" attractive people, I guess I'm really not into any gimmicky stuff? My personality clashes with that I think 😅
Just
DO
IT
You shouldnt ask for a kiss when its clear that your date doesnt like you at all.
Let’s reach this comment goal!!
Watching this I think so many things is wrong with this guy. The girl wouldn't go on a date with him if it weren't for the cameras and all that. She was so uncomfortable. I think the main problem he has is his mindset and attitude. He thinks he's so nice and cool but he's actually acting like a 12 year old,and is a bit creepy too. Even if a very charming guy was acting like this I'd still see it as a big red flag.
Yes I agree.
Thats why the boys i dated never liked me back... Because we didnt share the same community