Lisa, I'm so thankful God has made our paths cross. He's heard my cries! God knew I needed you and the gifts He has blessed you with. Finding you is my miracle.
Here I go back to my heart. I am counting on allowing the flow and change me. Staying meek and open is imperative to stop resisting the truth. Getting out of the maze indeed. Thank you for bringing up the truth and reality of consciousness. ❤ Acceptance 🙏🦋
Thank you Lisa...glad you say we need our ego for a little while as we recover. I get a little lost between needing to recover who I was before the abuse and eventually letting go of my ego identifcation...listening to you and to David Hawkins a lot...getting there 🙏
Brilliant …Lisa you and your work are essential for these times we are navigating…..evolving our consciousness,healing our souls and awakening to our own inner worth and power and exposing narcissism for the cowardly evil it is…….street angels and home devils are who narcissists are. We focus on our healing and remove our energy and focus off of the narcissists. No more giving our energy to feed their impoverished inner beings. They’ll suck u dry. Heal, block and delete them.
I changed a lot of myself since the narcissist abuse and it still happens! This time a female doctor gaslighted and narcissist attacked me last week in worst way. Treated me so horrible but I recognized her extreme Narc sickness! I am so anger triggered I complained about her but of course the mgmt ganged up and discarded me from their clinic. Unbelievable! Just lost my entire healthcare system here. We lose so much from narcissists! 😫 I get more isolated with each abusive event. So hard to find my way out of this state of anger. 🥺☹️😢
@Juke582 you are not alone in this. Some of us are also navigating life from narcissistic abuse including anger. We just need to keep our heads above the waters and God will help us through prayer 👏👏.
@@rakelpeneyambeko thanks for the support 🙏 I just can’t shake the narcissist abuse! Nearly everyone I come across is a bad one! It’s so upsetting 😢 I isolate so much after encountering it and ai wish it would stop! It affects my health. Meds for anxiety help but this evil is unforgettable, except with time. As I put one event behind me, another one occurs! It’s never-ending! Gonna look for a Lisa video about controlling anger triggers.
@@Juke582 man 😭😭 i am telling you now i can confidently confirm the sayinh "you are not the only one going through what you go through". What did you just say 😳😳? I am not being extra but trust me you just described what i have gone/ am going through. What is exhausting is the fact that it is an internal turmoil and no one really seems to understand or take you seriously because you do not look "it". Topping it off with a toxic environment full of toxic people including those with traits similar to the abuse you went through in childhood (controlling, manipulative and bullies). Mine is a toxic work environment situation and it's really affecting me and it's obviously not the cause but it has it's pulling factors. But all in all, i know this too shall pass and i getting healed from evrything. Yeah you should def check her out, i was just watching one of her videos. All the best 👏👏.
What is radical acceptance? Will that help me with more narcissist abuse I keep encountering? This time a evil doctor narcissist abused me in the worst way and I got banned from the clinic after I complained about her. Ugh it’s so disheartening I need a way past it. Tks 🙏
@@Juke582 Radical Acceptance is accepting shame and disgust and toxic shame when bad and totally unfair things like that happen to us. Usually due to exposure to ACoA ACE in childhood, we will tend to believe we are contaminated when narcissists hurt us when we protest against injustice. We will believe we caused them to be evil and we will believe that our behavior can stop them being evil - and that it is our fault when they are still evil even after we are fawning to them and using Negative politeness as learned in AcoA. Negative politeness is when we shut up and self censor and hence enable abusers to keep on with abuse and criminal acts and them being intrusive. Radical acceptance is to accept all our survival techniques no matter how much they are dysfunctional, shameful and how they backfired on us.
You bring so much up from inside of me to the surface that I knew was there but didn't know how to get to it. I was in therapy for a year and this didn't happen at all. Your voice and the words that you use and the way you use them really connect with me. I am very happy to have come upon your channel and I am going to take your class. Thank you so much, I feel like you are saving me in so many ways.
Lisa, I heard you say we cant change our children. My daughter is a minor with an attitude problem. Ive tried to ignore it but she just continues with the attitude for days then acts like nothing is wrong. I don't like folks with unessary bad attitudes. I try not to gice her the same energy because i feel childish. Nothing works. I do nothing and she continues her bad attitude. I do something and she continues her bad attitude.
@a.pieceofpie Teenagers are rough to deal with. Something I realized when one of my kids started acting up was 'Who' she was hanging around with. When that person moved away, my daughter changed back to her normal self Literally overnight. Take a look at her close friends. And the friends mother and father. You may find the influence in her life. I wish I had more wisdom for you, but each situation is different. Good Luck and God Bless. ❤
For me I was obsessed with cleaning and thinking I was in control.when I stopped focusing on the cleaning and projecting I got better. I do have boundaries now. Other people's thoughts, feelings and behaviors are not in my control. For example pausing and non resisting what my programming is. I can only change me. I highly recommend you listen again as Lisa has addressed your question in this podcast. You are amazing for questioning and seeking change. Lisas work will continue to give you tools to shift. It takes time ❤
Tell them what you’re ready to clean and what you aren’t going to clean. If they don’t listen then you should change and stop cleaning everything, stick to your words.
I feel like there is so much i dont know. I am not sure it is about being worthy for me. It is about not understanding my current relationship when to help and when to step back
This is beautiful. I want to make an intention today to accept what I’ve heard and act on it
Im extremely guilty of seeking outside validation. Thank you
Lisa, I'm so thankful God has made our paths cross. He's heard my cries! God knew I needed you and the gifts He has blessed you with. Finding you is my miracle.
Here I go back to my heart. I am counting on allowing the flow and change me. Staying meek and open is imperative to stop resisting the truth. Getting out of the maze indeed. Thank you for bringing up the truth and reality of consciousness. ❤
Acceptance 🙏🦋
🥰🥰🥰💃💖
Satan bless 🥰
This video changed my life. And I've been studying psychology and trying to heal for 12 years and done dbt therapy. So thank you.
Thank you Lisa...glad you say we need our ego for a little while as we recover. I get a little lost between needing to recover who I was before the abuse and eventually letting go of my ego identifcation...listening to you and to David Hawkins a lot...getting there 🙏
So blessed to have your content in my life. Thank you
Lisa you are a genius, Thank you for becoming so smart thru your pain, what a gift to us THANK YOU!
There is a flow inside of everyone. It is love which we can connect with. Thank you Lisa❤
Brilliant …Lisa you and your work are essential for these times we are navigating…..evolving our consciousness,healing our souls and awakening to our own inner worth and power and exposing narcissism for the cowardly evil it is…….street angels and home devils are who narcissists are. We focus on our healing and remove our energy and focus off of the narcissists. No more giving our energy to feed their impoverished inner beings. They’ll suck u dry. Heal, block and delete them.
Lisa ,i thank God for finding you❤
I changed a lot of myself since the narcissist abuse and it still happens! This time a female doctor gaslighted and narcissist attacked me last week in worst way. Treated me so horrible but I recognized her extreme Narc sickness! I am so anger triggered I complained about her but of course the mgmt ganged up and discarded me from their clinic. Unbelievable!
Just lost my entire healthcare system here. We lose so much from narcissists! 😫
I get more isolated with each abusive event. So hard to find my way out of this state of anger. 🥺☹️😢
@Juke582 you are not alone in this. Some of us are also navigating life from narcissistic abuse including anger. We just need to keep our heads above the waters and God will help us through prayer 👏👏.
@@rakelpeneyambeko thanks for the support 🙏 I just can’t shake the narcissist abuse! Nearly everyone I come across is a bad one! It’s so upsetting 😢 I isolate so much after encountering it and ai wish it would stop! It affects my health. Meds for anxiety help but this evil is unforgettable, except with time. As I put one event behind me, another one occurs! It’s never-ending! Gonna look for a Lisa video about controlling anger triggers.
@@Juke582 man 😭😭 i am telling you now i can confidently confirm the sayinh "you are not the only one going through what you go through". What did you just say 😳😳? I am not being extra but trust me you just described what i have gone/ am going through. What is exhausting is the fact that it is an internal turmoil and no one really seems to understand or take you seriously because you do not look "it". Topping it off with a toxic environment full of toxic people including those with traits similar to the abuse you went through in childhood (controlling, manipulative and bullies). Mine is a toxic work environment situation and it's really affecting me and it's obviously not the cause but it has it's pulling factors. But all in all, i know this too shall pass and i getting healed from evrything. Yeah you should def check her out, i was just watching one of her videos. All the best 👏👏.
Love your videos. Thanks ❤
I've been reading Radical Acceptance, and this just spoke to what I've been learning ❤
What is radical acceptance? Will that help me with more narcissist abuse I keep encountering? This time a evil doctor narcissist abused me in the worst way and I got banned from the clinic after I complained about her. Ugh it’s so disheartening I need a way past it. Tks 🙏
@@Juke582 Radical Acceptance is accepting shame and disgust and toxic shame when bad and totally unfair things like that happen to us. Usually due to exposure to ACoA ACE in childhood, we will tend to believe we are contaminated when narcissists hurt us when we protest against injustice. We will believe we caused them to be evil and we will believe that our behavior can stop them being evil - and that it is our fault when they are still evil even after we are fawning to them and using Negative politeness as learned in AcoA. Negative politeness is when we shut up and self censor and hence enable abusers to keep on with abuse and criminal acts and them being intrusive.
Radical acceptance is to accept all our survival techniques no matter how much they are dysfunctional, shameful and how they backfired on us.
Thank you 🎉💚🌻
You bring so much up from inside of me to the surface that I knew was there but didn't know how to get to it. I was in therapy for a year and this didn't happen at all. Your voice and the words that you use and the way you use them really connect with me. I am very happy to have come upon your channel and I am going to take your class. Thank you so much, I feel like you are saving me in so many ways.
❤❤❤ your words is really important to me
Lisa, I heard you say we cant change our children. My daughter is a minor with an attitude problem. Ive tried to ignore it but she just continues with the attitude for days then acts like nothing is wrong. I don't like folks with unessary bad attitudes. I try not to gice her the same energy because i feel childish. Nothing works. I do nothing and she continues her bad attitude. I do something and she continues her bad attitude.
@a.pieceofpie
Teenagers are rough to deal with. Something I realized when one of my kids started acting up was 'Who' she was hanging around with.
When that person moved away, my daughter changed back to her normal self Literally overnight.
Take a look at her close friends. And the friends mother and father.
You may find the influence in her life.
I wish I had more wisdom for you, but each situation is different.
Good Luck and God Bless. ❤
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Hi Lisa, I'm a cleaner and they are so messy they expect me to clear up after them like their mother what do I do about it?
For me I was obsessed with cleaning and thinking I was in control.when I stopped focusing on the cleaning and projecting I got better.
I do have boundaries now. Other people's thoughts, feelings and behaviors are not in my control. For example pausing and non resisting what my programming is. I can only change me. I highly recommend you listen again as Lisa has addressed your question in this podcast. You are amazing for questioning and seeking change. Lisas work will continue to give you tools to shift. It takes time ❤
Tell them what you’re ready to clean and what you aren’t going to clean. If they don’t listen then you should change and stop cleaning everything, stick to your words.
where are you Lisa?...lol...miss seeing your face....
I feel like there is so much i dont know. I am not sure it is about being worthy for me. It is about not understanding my current relationship when to help and when to step back