From the perspective of an older woman I can say with assurity the ONLY things in life I've regretted are the things I didn't do, never the things I did. Now a lot of the things I did do were embarrassing, didn't work, left me unhappy etc etc, but maybe around 30% of the time, but zero regret. The things I didn't do were 100% failures, with 100% regret. You just have to take the blows with the kisses, and ask her out. She might say yes, okay, maybe. If you don't ask, it's NO.
Well well well, if it isn't JUST the video I needed! Thank you for making this :) As a femme lesbian who is kind of shy and doesn't really give off "gay vibes", I really appreciate it. I realised kind of late in life (I'm 28) that I'm pretty eye contact avoidant, which sucks. I think it's come from years of trying to avoid inviting male attention (I'm mixed and I live in Spain where blatant staring is culturally acceptable and men are obsessed with WOC because we're "exotic" [it's a long, bullshit story]) so that's something I know I need to shake off. I'll work on it. Anyway, thanks again! I've subscribed and am looking forward to seeing more of your lovely content xx
Omg I so agree with what you said. The way I dress it's always the boyish/tomboyish t-shirt and sneaker. And since I'm the shy type I don't make a move. I just gave a hint or flirt a little lol. Most of the time it's the other way around, the woman make the move 🙂🌈
The best thing is that you don't need to do ANYTHING to change yourself to let someone know you're gay! Just be unapologetically you and that really does the trick.
@@rachelgeraci True and the only thing I regret is the chances I did not make, a move or say hello. I might be friends with one them or maybe or maybe i'm in a relationship with one of. Oh well lol 🙂🌈
I'm married to my husband of 21 years but finally admitted to him that I'm bi-sexual I knew since I was young because of being molested by a female babysitter after that I became bisexual but I had many religious family members that scarred me so I suppressed it and then hid it until a few months ago. My husband has been very supportive. Which is awesome because I love him very deeply and am attracted to him, I am still attracted to women too.
@@CapriSun81 Not what she did explicitly but what she did to justify it. Thr circumstances of the situation not what actually happened, trust me i dont wanna hear that
You're so good looking..such a pity that you have not found your love one yet...hope you will find it sooner..if only i am younger at lives around you..i will try to make a move...even if i am sure you will just ignore me....ha ha..thank you very much for reading this messy message..i'm from a far away land of Philippines...i'm a new fan..by the way..im filipino leabian fan..ha ha..
Could you do a video for how to tell a boy that you're a lesbian without directly telling them? If u could, that would be awesome bcz I really need help on that!
From the perspective of an older woman I can say with assurity the ONLY things in life I've regretted are the things I didn't do, never the things I did. Now a lot of the things I did do were embarrassing, didn't work, left me unhappy etc etc, but maybe around 30% of the time, but zero regret. The things I didn't do were 100% failures, with 100% regret. You just have to take the blows with the kisses, and ask her out. She might say yes, okay, maybe. If you don't ask, it's NO.
🤗🤗👍👍💜💜 I feel the same way but it is what it is we can't change the past we just work on the future whatever's left
What if she says she's married?
@@BlueberrieLovezz What if she is?
Well well well, if it isn't JUST the video I needed! Thank you for making this :) As a femme lesbian who is kind of shy and doesn't really give off "gay vibes", I really appreciate it. I realised kind of late in life (I'm 28) that I'm pretty eye contact avoidant, which sucks. I think it's come from years of trying to avoid inviting male attention (I'm mixed and I live in Spain where blatant staring is culturally acceptable and men are obsessed with WOC because we're "exotic" [it's a long, bullshit story]) so that's something I know I need to shake off. I'll work on it.
Anyway, thanks again! I've subscribed and am looking forward to seeing more of your lovely content xx
You're so welcome Natalie! I'm very glad this video has been helpful to you.
Same!!!!
Video really starts @3:00 if you want to skip the intro.
The moment she said Cate Blanchet i was likee "yesss yessss👏"
Hahahaa oh my!
0:59 lol the doggy started walking on the edge of the sofa lmao but he knows you were filming and decided to step back😂
Omg I so agree with what you said. The way I dress it's always the boyish/tomboyish t-shirt and sneaker. And since I'm the shy type I don't make a move. I just gave a hint or flirt a little lol. Most of the time it's the other way around, the woman make the move 🙂🌈
The best thing is that you don't need to do ANYTHING to change yourself to let someone know you're gay! Just be unapologetically you and that really does the trick.
@@rachelgeraci True and the only thing I regret is the chances I did not make, a move or say hello. I might be friends with one them or maybe or maybe i'm in a relationship with one of. Oh well lol 🙂🌈
The way she says “her legs” 4:46 hahaha
LMAO
your makeup looks great!
AriWilson thank you Ari 🥰
I'm married to my husband of 21 years but finally admitted to him that I'm bi-sexual I knew since I was young because of being molested by a female babysitter after that I became bisexual but I had many religious family members that scarred me so I suppressed it and then hid it until a few months ago. My husband has been very supportive. Which is awesome because I love him very deeply and am attracted to him, I am still attracted to women too.
Molested by a babysitter? Omg what did she do
Wow. Completely inappropriate to ask what she did! Details are non of your or anybody else’s business! So rude!
@@CapriSun81 Not what she did explicitly but what she did to justify it. Thr circumstances of the situation not what actually happened, trust me i dont wanna hear that
@@CapriSun81 who would actually ask that
@@CapriSun81 since when asking is consider so "rude" it's just to know idiot 😒😒
I just tell them straight out! Let the chips fall where they may! ;)
Hi Rachel, You look fantastic !!
gazman100 thank you darling
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The woman may not respond because she may already have a girlfriend and not want to encourage you.
What lipstick are you wearing? its such a cute colour
Hi Pixie! I believe it was just a lip liner (not sure which color, just a neutral shade) with the Ofra cosmetics Madison Miller lipgloss
If not that, my guess it was Faux by Mac with a lipliner and gloss over top xx
@@rachelgeraci thank you :))
*tries to think of a joke about Lipstick Lesbians 💄 *
Wish there were Gay podcasts or radio shows!
You're so good looking..such a pity that you have not found your love one yet...hope you will find it sooner..if only i am younger at lives around you..i will try to make a move...even if i am sure you will just ignore me....ha ha..thank you very much for reading this messy message..i'm from a far away land of Philippines...i'm a new fan..by the way..im filipino leabian fan..ha ha..
Was just wondering if ur in U. S. A or Canada and I agree u look great 😉I am.37 yrs old just wondering
Could you do a video for how to tell a boy that you're a lesbian without directly telling them? If u could, that would be awesome bcz I really need help on that!
That would be helpful :)