Exactly... Need some help regarding one thing .. How can a non Muzlim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muzlim come to our mosque, leave everything."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
@@Unknown-us5gc 📌 *REALITY OF ALLAH* ⚠️ *WARINING* ⚠️ 🎊 *HUMOUR ALERT* *ALLAH IS AN ABUSER BECAUSE HE SAYS:* *ALL PRAISES ARE FOR ME* *IF YOU LOST IN A WAR, ITS YOUR MISTAKE* *IF YOU WIN, THEN ALL THE CREDIT OF YOUR VICTORY BELONGS TO ME* *MY ENEMY SHOULD BE YOUR ENEMY* (EVEN IF HE IS KIND AND SINCERE TO YOU) *THOSE WHO REFUSE TO SUBMIT TO ME ARE THE WORST OF "MY" CREATIONS; HOWEVER, I AM THE BEST OF CREATORS, Oops I FORGOT, THE ONLY CREATOR* *KEEP FIGHTING TILL EVERYONE SUBMITS TO ME* *DON'T BE UNGRATEFUL TO ME* *DON'T GET DECEIVED BY THE WORLDLY CHARMS, ONLY LOVE ME EVEN THOUGH I AM THE BEST OF DECEIVERS* *I WILL GIVE YOU MORE ONLY IF YOU THANK ME* *I AM THE ONE WHO KNOWS THE BEST BUT YOU CAN'T QUESTION ME* *YOU ARE MY SLAVE* *FIGHT FOR ME AND DIE FOR ME* *I LOVE YOU MORE THAN 72 MOTHERS (EVEN THOUGH A LOVING MOTHER NEVER CALLS/MAKES HER SON HER SLAVE)* *IF YOU EVER DECIDED TO LEAVE ME, I WILL KILL YOU* *THOUGH THERE IS NO COMPULSION IN RELIGION*
I haven't joined the program but i must say, this channel has been a huge part of my growth in the past two years. I'd always been someone who was looking to learn and grow. Having grown up with crippling (and I mean Crippling) social anxiety, I was always forcing myself outside of my comfort zone with karaoke, door-to-door sales, public speaking and more so that by the time I was about 20 I'd gotten myself to a point of just being shy instead of completely incapable to speaking to anyone new and having constant panic attacks. Then I discovered this channel a couple years ago, met a supportive girl and worked my way up at my job and now I walk into parties and bars like I'm already everyones best friend 😅 it feels great to have this much progress and I can't express enough how amazing the free content alone is from you guys!
would advise you to go back to the content of the original owner of this channel, start from the first videos. If's miles ahead of what the new owners did.
It was between 2017 and 2019 when I saw one of yalls videos for the first time. Im 22 now... Really big thanks to this channel for jumpstarting my self-actualization journey. The content still holds up to this day.
Guys, I MISS YOU. So many commentaries & even voices remind me of yall. Please come back!!!!!! I know it takes a lot to upload a video but.. it’s been a year!!!!!!
Thank you. I've been living in a nightmare, being judged by other people for as long as I know. This video really made me change my view on the entire world.
Most of the people in my life don’t know this, but I didn’t have friends during my middle school. I was completely alone for years, and struggled to make friends even later in life because of my terrible social skills. Then I ran into this channel years ago, and it helped me become a better leader, friend and sister and aunt. I created relationships, and help so many people I can support with what I learned from you. Your channel is a huge part of what made me who I am today, and I can’t even describe how thankful I am to you for that. Yet I still want to write you - thank you so much, because of you, I can smile ❤️
Your point about surrounding yourself with an inner circle really resonated with me, and it touches on the ingroup bias. We often give too much weight to the opinions of those close to us, sometimes limiting our growth. I watched someone close to me go through this, holding themselves back for fear of disappointing their small group. This video is a fantastic reminder that even trusted voices shouldn't hold you back from personal evolution
Thank you so much for making the clarification that saying you don't care about what people think is not narcissism. To me. It really does sound very narcissistic so I don't say it. What I say instead is I don't let other people's cynicism stop me.
My key takeaways: - Reframe the question "How to stop thinking about what other people think of you?" to "How do I not let other people's opinions stop me?". - You should have something more important to care about. What would be your ideal life? - Have a set of core values, such as honesty, and promise yourself to not break them, even if it's bad for you in the short-term. - You are not going to like everyone. You should aim to be liked by, at most, your inner circle, but ideally just yourself. - Leave the validation casino. Don't rely your happiness or unhappiness on people you don't care about. - Other people's judgments affect you, because you think a hint of it, it's true. They can't make you feel shame, they can only trigger you to feel it. That's why you should fully accept yourself. - Use the best friend friend trick. - "You can't get where you want to go, until you accept where you are".
Not always. If the person being talked about is a terrible human being, then the problem is them. Not everything is some convoluted, psychological projection.
@@Nmdixon-cu7vm Yes I understand that, but for a lot of situations this is the case, I understand sometimes people are just jerks, just like my coworkers who don’t like me, but I understand your point.
This is so true. A few years ago hearing someone said something bad about me. Made me feel aweful. Like it shook me. But now that I get this. If I know it's untrue or just to be unkind. I genuinely look at that person and think. How sad must your life be that you think that. Or have time to think that about me. Changes everything. Its freeing
Hey, today at school I got an award for the most socially improved student. You are only one of the people who's advice on learning how to speak well helped me to acheive this big W in my life, can't thank you enough.
Need some help as I am suffering from low confidence.. How can a non Muzlim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muzlim come to our mosque, leave everything."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob I think the real question you're dealing with is, what do I hate about myself so much that turned me into an online troll, and how do I fix that so I get satisfaction in areas of life that doesn't depend on hurting other people. Good luck with your self improvement journey!
@@Vivi_9 Yes.. A kind of like that... You are so experienced... You just reached the depth of my comment... Fantastic... ! Anyway... If I answered them like this "I am not interested" 👳 Why you aren't interested? 🕵Because its a waste of time for me. 👳 How dare you called going to mosque as a waste of time for you? What will I reply.... Also what would ypu have replied if they said. " Is that the arrogance you have towards Allah?"
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob I think you can defuse the situation the same way with any proposition you aren't interested in: "I appreciate your enthusiasm, but I have already made my decisions about this. Have a nice day." Respectful, but firm. No value judgments, simply letting them know that you are not vulnerable to their pitch and you are now choosing to move on with your life. Then--here's the important part--DO move forward. Keep walking, head held high, eyes straight ahead. You are silently communicating as your stride matches your words.
@@WynneL Also another thing...... How can a non Muzlim🐬🏵 (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim👳 if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Accept islam otherwise Allah will throw you in hell."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation? Also sometimes they say this sentence.. *"is that the level of arrogance you have with Allah?"* How to respond to these mean statements from them?
The biggest confidence game changer is progress and achievement towards the things you value. Once you are living your dream and pursuing it, you care 10x less.
@@RussellClausse I am suffering from low confidence while dealing with bullies.. How can a non Muzlim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muzlim come to our mosque, leave everything."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation? Help me... Please reply
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob it depends, what happens if you refuse, saying that it's not for me? since you're saying the word "diffuse" i assume it gets quite confrontational and perhaps even violent. any way you can get help from somebody or avoid this person completely?
The channel went downhill. Back when Game of Thrones was at it's peak Charlie's breakdown of characters and their behavior felt like watching previously unseen footage of Game of Thrones. This channel went from breaking down famous people and their charisma into quick cookie cutter tips.
Self acceptance isn't always an easy thing, and if it was - there probably would be too much peace and not adequate progress. And often times, self-esteem; which is similar to self acceptance is meant to be a barrier to shield us from harm or danger, and is often interchangeable. But I suppose it depends on the situation.
Thank you so much this was the exact video i needed its so weirdly specific my problem. I struggle with insecurity and trauma that costed me my self esteem and this video gave me great advice. Thanks
5:41 Dropping bars man. Only way I was truly able to find peace and happiness within myself was through fasting. Took me years to figure that out and have a consistent energy level💁🏽♂️
You guys have changed my life in such a great way. I started watching your videos 3 years ago and I have come a long way with my conversation skills. Thank you guys🎉❤
Thanks to the videos, I have finally developed the courage to become what I truly am, and I find that I resemble God Of War's Brok in many ways. I am very brutally honest, I speak what's on my mind with no filter, and I am not bothered if I have to pay consequences for it. If something is good, I'll say it is good, if something is bad, I'll say it is bad. And I have developed more friends than enemies this way.
“This video is so inspiring! 🌟 It’s amazing how much our confidence can impact our lives and how we live them. The reminder about the number one regret of people on their deathbeds really hits home. It’s a powerful nudge to stop living for others and start embracing our true selves. Thanks for sharing such valuable insights!”
I don't know about other people, but i'm 34 and all these inner demons and doubts i feel like i don't have them on my own, but my parents make an effort to remind me to instal these flaws to "self regulate". The feeling of not being as good as others or not deserving of something or to bash yourself is to fuel improvement as other examples... I know it's taboo to blame the parents for your weaknesses, but i trully feel that i am a "perfect" healthy human by myself before their active meddling.
I’d like your analysis of The Breakfast Clubs interview with Vivek Ramaswamy. It’s a very fast paced back and forth with so much material to unravel between him and the female Q&A.
It's been awhile since I've watched your channel but I dropped by to say this: ever since I watched your videos on body language, behavior, correct speech, I have been a wreck. I've become so hyper vigilant of everything I do down to how I speak, posture, eye contact, everything, trying to do what you say in these videos I just can't relax and be myself anymore. Every ounce of my behavior has to be micromanaged now. I'm hyper aware of myself and every imperfection that's there and it's hell
because you must not force yourself to become like said in the video, it must become an habit which means that it takes time. You can't change everything in one day, just take your time
That’s called anxiety. I agree to some extent that watching videos like these can negatively affect you if your goal is to become socially accepted. However if you use it as a tool to improve certain parts of your personality. It can be extremely helpful. It’s more information on how you can act if you want to be more open, genuine and confident in yourself. Not to affect others
If you're having these issues, I suggest just forgetting all the tips they give. A lot of these tips focus on communication skills, but the most important thing, just like they often talk about, is really just relaxing and being genuine. So, not micromanaging everything you do will probably make you more charismatic than being so hypervigilant - even if you are not applying all their tips. To improve, you must first accept yourself. It sounds paradoxical, but think about it this way: to improve who you are, you need to first know who you are. Otherwise, you won't really be improving who you are, you'll just try to be someone you aren't. Remember that you're imperfect and you will always be. However, you shouldn't ever think you are not enough because of that. No one is perfect, and I don't think you hold anyone else to that standard, so don't hold that standard to yourself. I know that everything I'm talking about is easier said than done, it's close to telling someone who's depressed "just be happier", but sometimes I find that I need to be reminded of everything I just said, and hearing it helps and motivates me just a little, I'm hoping it helps you too, however slightly it may be. If that really continues to be an issue, then just seek professional help if you have to. I know there's still a stigma about that but it makes no sense to hold a stigma against trying to feel better, and seeking the help of someone qualified for that.
Brother please help me.. How can a non Muzlim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muzlim come to our mosque, leave everything."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
Hi guys, I hope everything is going well for you; I was wondering why I didn't make videos, why the book can't be bought anymore, and why the free video course can't be seen anymore (at least in Italian) however they are things in the background; I hope you always live in health given the good you have done to all of us who follow you. A warm hug, Lorenzo
Just came to your most recent video to say that you guys should take a look at Action Bronson, not like you should do a video on him or anything like that, but I think he is extremely good at meshing with all sorts of people. When I think of a charismatic person he's the first person that comes to mind for me.
I got recommended a video from this channel today after a long time. OG CoC had some good tips on conversations but it looks like it devolved into a manipulation channel. Charlie did always have a dead expression on him. Happy to see its been 9 months since an upload.
Thanks for the video Ben :) You provide a lot of value. How much of this video reflects your personal experiences? Charlie spoke about his feelings of co-dependence on you and you stopped hanging out. Hope the two of you are doing well!
Please advise me about what are the best dialogues to use. How can a non Muzlim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muzlim come to our mosque, leave everything."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob "I am happy for you that you have found your spirituality, but I too have a spirituality which is different," and then smile. And in "Pentimento," Lillian Hellman said she finds spirituality in all places. You do not have to be forced into anything. You have your own feeling and beliefs,
@@melindaaimeeroth5580 But how will we respond to diffuse the situation... Please tell me some dialogues.... You seem to be very intelligent... I am fond of your response..
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob No one should be pressuring you to be anything except what you yourself think and believe-Christian, Moslem, Jewish, Hindu, Buddhist atheist, deist, or agnostic. . . have you read "The Pit and the Pendulum," by Edgar Allan Poe when the narrator asks what proof is there of God, and the prisoner thinks that when humans dream they dream of loved ones who are deceased and that is our proof of God. Every human has a theory of an Afterlife, because this is a very difficult life because we humans leave at different times. The most important thing is that the humans respect other people's theories as long as they are not committing violent crimes. Don't worry what other people think. You have your beliefs and you are important and entitled to that. Smile and say, "We can agree to disagree."
@@melindaaimeeroth5580 Absolutely correct... I don't worry what other people think... I just worry about what extremists think because such a situation gets quite confrontational and I am afraid of their violent behavior... You know na that anger and anxiety kills spirituality..? Actually I am an exmuslim and I am sick of hearing the word "Allah"... I also wana get rid of Allah how can I do that with spiritual support.... Also I had a dream in which i saw that I am entering somewhere by a gate and the word Jehova is written on a board above it... It felt so calming in the dream... But, I don't know the spiritual meaning of the dream..
Very helpful advice. I do think it's telling that Tate proved his own words right not personally, but by how easily Greta Thunberg controlled *him* with dismissive amusement at his fronting on Twitter. This is a kid who's known for passionately ranting at politicians, displaying a tremendous amount of emotion--but she deemed him so far beneath her that her mocking was absolutely lowkey stuff, and he came across as the kid instead. Losing his cool like that was ultimately the reason he was collared by authorities. Should've taken his own advice. I guess she knew her core values and self-validated better than her adult opponent. Age clearly doesn't govern personal strength. A valuable lesson.
Nonsense. Passionately ranting at politicians and showing emotions is not indicative of intelligence, but her resorting to body-shaming and amateur insult is rather indicative of her actual mental capability; that of a toddler groomed by her activist parents and serving as a puppet for politicians to push flawed policies. Her "core" values are rooted in naivety of a toddler and her only "strength" stemming from fallacious appeal to emotions.
Hello Charisma on Command, as a long time subscriber I want to know how I can personally comfort someone that has lost a loved one? Can you maybe post a video helping how to be more sympathetic?
I don't care so much about what people think; but, I do care very much about what those thoughts propel them to do against me. Furthermore, when they make their thoughts known to others and those people also take the actions against me.
"if you live by people's praise, you'll die by their criticism" - Bill Johnson
Exactly... Need some help regarding one thing ..
How can a non Muzlim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muzlim come to our mosque, leave everything."*
How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
This is so trueee
@@Unknown-us5gc 📌 *REALITY OF ALLAH*
⚠️ *WARINING* ⚠️
🎊 *HUMOUR ALERT*
*ALLAH IS AN ABUSER BECAUSE HE SAYS:*
*ALL PRAISES ARE FOR ME*
*IF YOU LOST IN A WAR, ITS YOUR MISTAKE*
*IF YOU WIN, THEN ALL THE CREDIT OF YOUR VICTORY BELONGS TO ME*
*MY ENEMY SHOULD BE YOUR ENEMY* (EVEN IF HE IS KIND AND SINCERE TO YOU)
*THOSE WHO REFUSE TO SUBMIT TO ME ARE THE WORST OF "MY" CREATIONS; HOWEVER, I AM THE BEST OF CREATORS, Oops I FORGOT, THE ONLY CREATOR*
*KEEP FIGHTING TILL EVERYONE SUBMITS TO ME*
*DON'T BE UNGRATEFUL TO ME*
*DON'T GET DECEIVED BY THE WORLDLY CHARMS, ONLY LOVE ME EVEN THOUGH I AM THE BEST OF DECEIVERS*
*I WILL GIVE YOU MORE ONLY IF YOU THANK ME*
*I AM THE ONE WHO KNOWS THE BEST BUT YOU CAN'T QUESTION ME*
*YOU ARE MY SLAVE*
*FIGHT FOR ME AND DIE FOR ME*
*I LOVE YOU MORE THAN 72 MOTHERS (EVEN THOUGH A LOVING MOTHER NEVER CALLS/MAKES HER SON HER SLAVE)*
*IF YOU EVER DECIDED TO LEAVE ME, I WILL KILL YOU*
*THOUGH THERE IS NO COMPULSION IN RELIGION*
I just realized that by the beginning of the video
@@_EGM_ Yes. Its true.
I haven't joined the program but i must say, this channel has been a huge part of my growth in the past two years. I'd always been someone who was looking to learn and grow. Having grown up with crippling (and I mean Crippling) social anxiety, I was always forcing myself outside of my comfort zone with karaoke, door-to-door sales, public speaking and more so that by the time I was about 20 I'd gotten myself to a point of just being shy instead of completely incapable to speaking to anyone new and having constant panic attacks. Then I discovered this channel a couple years ago, met a supportive girl and worked my way up at my job and now I walk into parties and bars like I'm already everyones best friend 😅 it feels great to have this much progress and I can't express enough how amazing the free content alone is from you guys!
would advise you to go back to the content of the original owner of this channel, start from the first videos. If's miles ahead of what the new owners did.
Don't, I did and now I am so in love with myself nobody else will ever be good enough to fill those shoes
@@daarom3472 Do you know when did the change of ownership take place? I want to work through the backlog and stop around the time it changed.
@@meatpopsicle8798 3-4 years ago, around the "how to leave a rude person speechless".
@@daarom3472 I appreciate it Homie. Thanks.
Looks like he's said everything he needed to say, thank you for your service
Brother, you don't understand how great this channel is.. please continue your work.
yeah
I think he covered almost all topics, i found here everything i needed, he did a great job
How much $ did you, or most people, put in the creators pocket through purchasing his course or patreon? If it's zero, that's the answer.
@@DanielAngelLuna wym
It was between 2017 and 2019 when I saw one of yalls videos for the first time. Im 22 now...
Really big thanks to this channel for jumpstarting my self-actualization journey. The content still holds up to this day.
I miss these videos! They helped me so much over the years! I guess I'll need to start rewatching old ones to refresh my memory.
Guys, I MISS YOU. So many commentaries & even voices remind me of yall. Please come back!!!!!! I know it takes a lot to upload a video but.. it’s been a year!!!!!!
I''ve been waiting for a new video, Sir. Please don't abandon this channel.
Thank you. I've been living in a nightmare, being judged by other people for as long as I know. This video really made me change my view on the entire world.
its really insane how something we are already introduced to can be something completely new to others.
When the world needed him most he vanished
he'll be back
Who
What happened why aren't they uploading?
he's not the hero we deserve but the hero we need
@@chaitanyavasamsetti8177he*
The self-flagellation certainly makes every step 100x harder. This video came at the perfect time. Thank you 🙏🏼
💯♥
Most of the people in my life don’t know this, but I didn’t have friends during my middle school. I was completely alone for years, and struggled to make friends even later in life because of my terrible social skills. Then I ran into this channel years ago, and it helped me become a better leader, friend and sister and aunt. I created relationships, and help so many people I can support with what I learned from you.
Your channel is a huge part of what made me who I am today, and I can’t even describe how thankful I am to you for that. Yet I still want to write you - thank you so much, because of you, I can smile ❤️
Your point about surrounding yourself with an inner circle really resonated with me, and it touches on the ingroup bias. We often give too much weight to the opinions of those close to us, sometimes limiting our growth. I watched someone close to me go through this, holding themselves back for fear of disappointing their small group. This video is a fantastic reminder that even trusted voices shouldn't hold you back from personal evolution
Thank you so much for making the clarification that saying you don't care about what people think is not narcissism. To me. It really does sound very narcissistic so I don't say it. What I say instead is I don't let other people's cynicism stop me.
My key takeaways:
- Reframe the question "How to stop thinking about what other people think of you?" to "How do I not let other people's opinions stop me?".
- You should have something more important to care about. What would be your ideal life?
- Have a set of core values, such as honesty, and promise yourself to not break them, even if it's bad for you in the short-term.
- You are not going to like everyone. You should aim to be liked by, at most, your inner circle, but ideally just yourself.
- Leave the validation casino. Don't rely your happiness or unhappiness on people you don't care about.
- Other people's judgments affect you, because you think a hint of it, it's true. They can't make you feel shame, they can only trigger you to feel it. That's why you should fully accept yourself.
- Use the best friend friend trick.
- "You can't get where you want to go, until you accept where you are".
nice
OK: How to put your self-opinion above all other opinions.
Better: How to Become Dominant
"What other people think of you I none of your business. "
When people think bad about you or say bad things about you is, for the most part, is a reflection of how they feel about themselves
Not always. If the person being talked about is a terrible human being, then the problem is them. Not everything is some convoluted, psychological projection.
@@Nmdixon-cu7vm Yes I understand that, but for a lot of situations this is the case, I understand sometimes people are just jerks, just like my coworkers who don’t like me, but I understand your point.
agreed
This is so true. A few years ago hearing someone said something bad about me. Made me feel aweful. Like it shook me. But now that I get this. If I know it's untrue or just to be unkind. I genuinely look at that person and think. How sad must your life be that you think that. Or have time to think that about me. Changes everything. Its freeing
@@hollynelson2626 Exactly like how sad do you have to be to talk bad about other people for no reason
Just wanted to thank you for your role in my personal development.❤
Just here to say I miss this channel! 😢
do you change my man?
Hey, today at school I got an award for the most socially improved student. You are only one of the people who's advice on learning how to speak well helped me to acheive this big W in my life, can't thank you enough.
Guys the fact that you searched this up and that you’re watching right now means that you already have accepted where you are
Great job
1. Find your fire
2. Create an inner circle
3. Decide your core values
4. Leave the validation casino
5. Self-acceptance
Need some help as I am suffering from low confidence..
How can a non Muzlim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muzlim come to our mosque, leave everything."*
How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob I think the real question you're dealing with is, what do I hate about myself so much that turned me into an online troll, and how do I fix that so I get satisfaction in areas of life that doesn't depend on hurting other people. Good luck with your self improvement journey!
@@Vivi_9 Yes.. A kind of like that...
You are so experienced... You just reached the depth of my comment... Fantastic... !
Anyway... If I answered them like this "I am not interested"
👳 Why you aren't interested?
🕵Because its a waste of time for me.
👳 How dare you called going to mosque as a waste of time for you?
What will I reply....
Also what would ypu have replied if they said. " Is that the arrogance you have towards Allah?"
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob I think you can defuse the situation the same way with any proposition you aren't interested in: "I appreciate your enthusiasm, but I have already made my decisions about this. Have a nice day." Respectful, but firm. No value judgments, simply letting them know that you are not vulnerable to their pitch and you are now choosing to move on with your life.
Then--here's the important part--DO move forward. Keep walking, head held high, eyes straight ahead. You are silently communicating as your stride matches your words.
@@WynneL Also another thing......
How can a non Muzlim🐬🏵 (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim👳 if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Accept islam otherwise Allah will throw you in hell."*
How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
Also sometimes they say this sentence..
*"is that the level of arrogance you have with Allah?"*
How to respond to these mean statements from them?
A wise man once said “it’s none of my business what other people think of me”
... "As long as it doesn't Physically affect my Life or the Life of my Child" a Wise Man added.
Definitely a good way to look at it.
Amen
Marcus Aurelius
@@nevermindmyname9153 your addition was irrelevant. what does it have to do with the original message? I agree with the originall message completely
Thank you alot brother, you are a blessing to not only mine, but millions of people. May God bless you ❤✝️
You guys put together some amazing videos. I hope you're still doing it and put out more...
The biggest confidence game changer is progress and achievement towards the things you value.
Once you are living your dream and pursuing it, you care 10x less.
100% - if you have a passion for career or such and see success in it, all else kinda falls short of what matters to it.
@@FatTonyTheSkipper exactly. Most people have barely any confidence because they are living inauthentically - the dreams of society, not theirs
Spot on ❤
@@RussellClausse I am suffering from low confidence while dealing with bullies..
How can a non Muzlim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muzlim come to our mosque, leave everything."*
How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
Help me... Please reply
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob it depends, what happens if you refuse, saying that it's not for me?
since you're saying the word "diffuse" i assume it gets quite confrontational and perhaps even violent.
any way you can get help from somebody or avoid this person completely?
What happened to this channel? Charlie we need more! Thanks for everything.
Same. I still recommend it to people.
I think it's just Ben now. Him and Charlie had a falling out of sorts and Charlie left the channel in Ben's hands, I believe
@@ArchIVEDCinema then the channel is left to perish in the wastes of the internet archives. Who knows what's to come of these marvelous machinations.
The channel went downhill. Back when Game of Thrones was at it's peak Charlie's breakdown of characters and their behavior felt like watching previously unseen footage of Game of Thrones. This channel went from breaking down famous people and their charisma into quick cookie cutter tips.
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Damn that last point hit home. My therapist has been telling me about self acceptance because I haven’t accepted my anxiety/perfectionist self 😅
Self acceptance isn't always an easy thing, and if it was - there probably would be too much peace and not adequate progress. And often times, self-esteem; which is similar to self acceptance is meant to be a barrier to shield us from harm or danger, and is often interchangeable. But I suppose it depends on the situation.
Hey miss these videos.
Hope you are doing well mate
And hope to hearing something form you or your team
Waiting and cheering you all on
Thank you so much this was the exact video i needed its so weirdly specific my problem. I struggle with insecurity and trauma that costed me my self esteem and this video gave me great advice. Thanks
5:41 Dropping bars man. Only way I was truly able to find peace and happiness within myself was through fasting. Took me years to figure that out and have a consistent energy level💁🏽♂️
This had a lot of really good points. One of the best videos on this topic.
You guys have changed my life in such a great way. I started watching your videos 3 years ago and I have come a long way with my conversation skills.
Thank you guys🎉❤
Gotta say this is my fav video of yours, everything is well put and said very concisely.
always loving your work, your contents are a game changer for anyone who looks for growth in personality❤
Thanks to the videos, I have finally developed the courage to become what I truly am, and I find that I resemble God Of War's Brok in many ways. I am very brutally honest, I speak what's on my mind with no filter, and I am not bothered if I have to pay consequences for it. If something is good, I'll say it is good, if something is bad, I'll say it is bad. And I have developed more friends than enemies this way.
So beneficial... I feel like this is what should be taught at school
This video got me to the core, thank you!
Absolutely beautiful video, guys. Just what i needed to hear.
This video is life changing!
Yep
Thank you charisma on command ❤
🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much for your videos, they are life changing!❤
Why'd you stop posting videos? I love your content! Come back into the charisma game!
Will miss this channel
just noticed you guys stopped uploading. Where y'all at?
Any new videos coming up? Miss watching your content man...
For real it’s the best motivatio
Charlie has a podcast. Dropping in podcast
@@abrilcb5749 whats the podçcasts name?
“This video is so inspiring! 🌟 It’s amazing how much our confidence can impact our lives and how we live them. The reminder about the number one regret of people on their deathbeds really hits home. It’s a powerful nudge to stop living for others and start embracing our true selves. Thanks for sharing such valuable insights!”
I truly needed this thank u❤
We all did.
Easier said than done, but I keep trying!
I don't know about other people, but i'm 34 and all these inner demons and doubts i feel like i don't have them on my own, but my parents make an effort to remind me to instal these flaws to "self regulate". The feeling of not being as good as others or not deserving of something or to bash yourself is to fuel improvement as other examples... I know it's taboo to blame the parents for your weaknesses, but i trully feel that i am a "perfect" healthy human by myself before their active meddling.
I.. have had these thoughts before
I’d like your analysis of The Breakfast Clubs interview with Vivek Ramaswamy.
It’s a very fast paced back and forth with so much material to unravel between him and the female Q&A.
Video is like made for me, thanks a lot guys! Pure gold!
Same 💯
It takes loads of effort to create these videos. Thanks
I think as long as the people you like, like you, you're doing something right, but true about the tip of not letting that necessarily limit you.
Really miss your videos one of the few channels on UA-cam I actually looked forward to seeing new posts!
Missing your videos. I'm saving up to join Charisma University. Keep us or me posted.
It's been awhile since I've watched your channel but I dropped by to say this: ever since I watched your videos on body language, behavior, correct speech, I have been a wreck. I've become so hyper vigilant of everything I do down to how I speak, posture, eye contact, everything, trying to do what you say in these videos I just can't relax and be myself anymore. Every ounce of my behavior has to be micromanaged now. I'm hyper aware of myself and every imperfection that's there and it's hell
because you must not force yourself to become like said in the video, it must become an habit which means that it takes time. You can't change everything in one day, just take your time
That’s called anxiety. I agree to some extent that watching videos like these can negatively affect you if your goal is to become socially accepted.
However if you use it as a tool to improve certain parts of your personality. It can be extremely helpful. It’s more information on how you can act if you want to be more open, genuine and confident in yourself. Not to affect others
If you're having these issues, I suggest just forgetting all the tips they give. A lot of these tips focus on communication skills, but the most important thing, just like they often talk about, is really just relaxing and being genuine. So, not micromanaging everything you do will probably make you more charismatic than being so hypervigilant - even if you are not applying all their tips. To improve, you must first accept yourself. It sounds paradoxical, but think about it this way: to improve who you are, you need to first know who you are. Otherwise, you won't really be improving who you are, you'll just try to be someone you aren't. Remember that you're imperfect and you will always be. However, you shouldn't ever think you are not enough because of that. No one is perfect, and I don't think you hold anyone else to that standard, so don't hold that standard to yourself. I know that everything I'm talking about is easier said than done, it's close to telling someone who's depressed "just be happier", but sometimes I find that I need to be reminded of everything I just said, and hearing it helps and motivates me just a little, I'm hoping it helps you too, however slightly it may be.
If that really continues to be an issue, then just seek professional help if you have to. I know there's still a stigma about that but it makes no sense to hold a stigma against trying to feel better, and seeking the help of someone qualified for that.
What a great video! It is evident that this was well thought out.
Know thyself. Decision is the ultimate power.
Brother please help me..
How can a non Muzlim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muzlim come to our mosque, leave everything."*
How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
This was really good and not what I expected and something I needed thank you
The hero you are a hero
The clip in the elevator from "Mad Men" says it all.
Michael Ginsberg: "I feel bad for you."
Don Draper: " I don't think about you at all."
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Thanks ❤
Hi guys, I hope everything is going well for you; I was wondering why I didn't make videos, why the book can't be bought anymore, and why the free video course can't be seen anymore (at least in Italian) however they are things in the background; I hope you always live in health given the good you have done to all of us who follow you. A warm hug, Lorenzo
We miss your videos!!!!
Just came to your most recent video to say that you guys should take a look at Action Bronson, not like you should do a video on him or anything like that, but I think he is extremely good at meshing with all sorts of people. When I think of a charismatic person he's the first person that comes to mind for me.
I got recommended a video from this channel today after a long time. OG CoC had some good tips on conversations but it looks like it devolved into a manipulation channel. Charlie did always have a dead expression on him. Happy to see its been 9 months since an upload.
good quality video, keep up the original content
who else misses CoC??
😂
Me😢
Elite Level of Editing
6:59. Omg. I have watched this movie but for what the title is about. I thought I was the only one who had seen it.
Thanks for the video Ben :) You provide a lot of value. How much of this video reflects your personal experiences? Charlie spoke about his feelings of co-dependence on you and you stopped hanging out. Hope the two of you are doing well!
some hot internet tea being spilled here
This was brilliant, thank you.
Please advise me about what are the best dialogues to use.
How can a non Muzlim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muzlim come to our mosque, leave everything."*
How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob "I am happy for you that you have found your spirituality, but I too have a spirituality which is different," and then smile. And in "Pentimento," Lillian Hellman said she finds spirituality in all places. You do not have to be forced into anything. You have your own feeling and beliefs,
@@melindaaimeeroth5580 But how will we respond to diffuse the situation... Please tell me some dialogues.... You seem to be very intelligent... I am fond of your response..
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob No one should be pressuring you to be anything except what you yourself think and believe-Christian, Moslem, Jewish, Hindu, Buddhist atheist, deist, or agnostic. . . have you read "The Pit and the Pendulum," by Edgar Allan Poe when the narrator asks what proof is there of God, and the prisoner thinks that when humans dream they dream of loved ones who are deceased and that is our proof of God. Every human has a theory of an Afterlife, because this is a very difficult life because we humans leave at different times. The most important thing is that the humans respect other people's theories as long as they are not committing violent crimes. Don't worry what other people think. You have your beliefs and you are important and entitled to that. Smile and say, "We can agree to disagree."
@@melindaaimeeroth5580 Absolutely correct... I don't worry what other people think... I just worry about what extremists think because such a situation gets quite confrontational and I am afraid of their violent behavior...
You know na that anger and anxiety kills spirituality..?
Actually I am an exmuslim and I am sick of hearing the word "Allah"... I also wana get rid of Allah how can I do that with spiritual support....
Also I had a dream in which i saw that I am entering somewhere by a gate and the word Jehova is written on a board above it... It felt so calming in the dream... But, I don't know the spiritual meaning of the dream..
The point, I liked most was, " Behave kindly to others but ignore the the discriminatory things which they tell about you and your passion"
These guys not posting anymore or smth?
367 days since he posted this video?
Thanks for this video.
this is awesome🙌
We need a video on Neal Caffrey from White Collar, the most charismatic character of all time
Charlie your the best you have helped me so much with your videos thanks for everything.
Very helpful advice. I do think it's telling that Tate proved his own words right not personally, but by how easily Greta Thunberg controlled *him* with dismissive amusement at his fronting on Twitter. This is a kid who's known for passionately ranting at politicians, displaying a tremendous amount of emotion--but she deemed him so far beneath her that her mocking was absolutely lowkey stuff, and he came across as the kid instead. Losing his cool like that was ultimately the reason he was collared by authorities. Should've taken his own advice.
I guess she knew her core values and self-validated better than her adult opponent. Age clearly doesn't govern personal strength. A valuable lesson.
Nonsense. Passionately ranting at politicians and showing emotions is not indicative of intelligence, but her resorting to body-shaming and amateur insult is rather indicative of her actual mental capability; that of a toddler groomed by her activist parents and serving as a puppet for politicians to push flawed policies. Her "core" values are rooted in naivety of a toddler and her only "strength" stemming from fallacious appeal to emotions.
Plz come back
Another one bites the dust.
lmaoo
Waiting for your next video
Thank you so very much for this! 🙏💞
Miss this channel glad you still killin' it
is he ok?!?
Hello Charisma on Command, as a long time subscriber I want to know how I can personally comfort someone that has lost a loved one? Can you maybe post a video helping how to be more sympathetic?
Just discovered this channel! Loveeeee it
Please can you do a review of Lip Gallagher from Shameless. Very charismatic and strong character.
THANK YOU SO MUCH
11 months... I used to live these videos. Sad to see this channel fade.
Why did Charisma on Command stop making videos??
He started the Dropping In Podcast
❤there's no embarrassement in struggle🤔🤔🤔💯🎯🍓🌶🌞
I don't care so much about what people think; but, I do care very much about what those thoughts propel them to do against me.
Furthermore, when they make their thoughts known to others and those people also take the actions against me.
Bro please come back I’m becoming more insane by the day
Visualizing is powerful my friends ❤
Thank you!
Thank you. I needed this.
Perfectly timed
This video change my totally mindset