Saving an Argument for Later
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- Опубліковано 14 кві 2015
- Have you have been so upset with your man that you wanted to give him a piece of your mind… but it wasn’t a good time? “The Real” ladies know all about expiration arguing, and they’re spilling their tea in this Girl Chat.
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Adrienne: *"Papi, you still maddd?"*
LMAO. She had me ready to get undone
I laughed so hard.. I guess is a Latina thing, I say that too to my Bf.
Vanessa Agosto It is Latin thing specially in Puerto Rico
Dina Sevilla im Puerto Rican girl.! "😂😂
me too lol boricua girls on top
Vanessa Agosto But does it work on him? lol I think that's such a playful thing to do. Like it seems like a good way to break the ice and tension and still be goofy too
"STUBBREN"😂😂😂
Aurie Belle lol
Aurie Belle lol I just wanted to write that
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
Lmao
ReNae TV was just gonna write that
"Papi you still mad?" 😂😂😂 major key
Tamar makes the best faces when Loni jokes about Vince.
"He's soooooo stubboren." 😂😂
According to Tamar's reality show with just her and her husband , her husband does appear to come off the way she is describe him . So I really don't think she is lying
She telling the truth because he has said that to her several times
Bea Marks she never lie though
Michie Oo exactly lol Tamar ain't Loni who be making up stories like her life depended on it lol
Bea Marks I agree. She is always the one that has to say sorry first. If I didnt watch her reality show, I would never believe it. Tamar looks like a tough cookie, but Vince is tougher than her
Bea Marks yess because he walks away from her all the time and says, don't go there, you want me to embarass you! but she tells him say it Vince, embarass me!LOL
Tamar that's an accurate description of when an Aquarius is angry lol, trust me I can't help it, its the Aquarius in me.
Lol me too!
Cosign Aquarius here as well....we aren't shallow so those mind tricks don't work on our brilliance lol
CandyTre1 same here :D
I'm so glad there are so many Aquarius's here :) bless us lol,
we hold grudges and no sweet and sour sauce can sugar coat that and Don't Ignore me either :p
-Candice- shikster9 Aly
CandyTre1 aries are the same !
Tamar is so REAL. This lady said she worked very hard the whole year to earn these gifts.... Hello Tamar
When Tamar picked up that mug. LOLOLOL!!!!! Soooo funny; can't wait til her show starts.
leeleefromthed she looked like Toni when she did that 😂😂
Ikr
She has a podcast now, hopefully that turns into something visual soon
"I worked all year long to get me something nice!" ME AS HELL
I watch Tamar and Vince and Vince does that angry I'll embarrass you angry whisper all the time
Yes!
She definitely wasn't lying about that.
I heard him say it too
knp814 Vince is secretly a female. I swear I couldn't deal with his little episodes. Tamar a trip too but damn! Vince is just.....no words.
***** So true they both know how to deal with each other.
OnikaInDaMatrix They divorced now 💀
Mr. Teen Executive he was abusive that’s why
Adrienne: "Papi, you still madd??"... Tamar: "Oh yea that do work!"
ctfu.. Adrienne looked sooo good at that moment lol.
Tamar's dress is *EVERYTHING!* 😍
Mariah Braxton-Wyatt YES!!!
Mariah Braxton-Wyatt That would be Alexander McQueen. Her favorite.
Mariah Braxton-Wyatt And she has her GOOD wig on too!
Mariah Braxton-Wyatt I feel like she has stepped her wig game up too!!
Yes she looks GORG
Tamar had me rolling in this lol!
Jeannie has a point, sometimes you need to gather your thoughts and really think about how you are going to handle the situation. Tamara also has a point, I think its important to handle it right away to lessen tension and build communication skills :)
yeah better to at least apologize and lessen the tension than to put it off and neglect it, while allowing the resentment to build. If u needa blow off steam, do it at a convenient time.
Tamar's dress! Adrienne's Dress!
SCREAMING laughing!! "You want me to embarrass you in front of your family?" I can so see this argument happening between Tamar and Vince too
Tamar truly adores Tamera, I can always tell by the way she interacts with her.
I'm an Aquarius and everything Tamar said is so true 😂😂😂
For real??
Avin21 im a Aquarius too☝️️
I thought he was a Capricorn 😂
Tamar is a Pieces but I get your point.
Not really I know people with that sign who are peacemakers
LOL I am an aquarius and I am EXACTLY like this. I get mad and tell my bf not to call/text but then I'm looking at the phone like "he's not gon text me?" haha I miss the Vince and Tamar show :(
lol! Too funny! And so true!
Girll Yess thats so me!!!😂😂😂😂😂 naw but sometimes im dead serious like really dont message me. were so unsure i swear 😂 #Aquarius
That's me too..Lol😂😂😂
haha,so true im the same
Wow that’s me 😂 thought I am the only one who act like that 😂. Aquarius team
I'm an Aquarius and I approve everything Tamar said about my sign.
I am a proud Aquarius and I can confirm Tamar's description of my zodiac is very true! We are stubborn and can be very distant and detached. An Aquarius can switch between lovey dovey and cold hearted in two seconds honey.
Am I the only one who doesn't believe in personalities having anything to do with zodiac signs...?
Kashief Mc I used to feel that way until I read a book about signs that was wayyy to accurate to not believe.
+thickyvick what book? if you dont mind me asking..
cookiemonster6829 there were two. I can only remember the title is one, unfortunately. It's, "Black Sun Signs" I believe.
+Kashief Mc me, its a form of witchcraft. people are too deep into this stuff
nope
Aha I love Tamar's honesty, but damn that car ride home must have been intense after she spilled all the tea loooool
she drives herself home vince leaves before her she’s said it in braxton family values a few times 😂
Dyingggg " im just on instagram duuude! You wont speak to me" ahh tamar 😂😂👏🏼
Tamar's face at 2:38 is everything LOL
I replayed it multiple times 🤣🤣🤝🤝
Tamar's description of Aquarius men is giving me life right now. It's way too accurate. In fact we just got into a petty argument last night and he's still giving me the cold shoulder lol
waiting a few hours is fine so u can collect ur thoughts and see the situation rationally, but a full 24 hrs or longer is problematic.
"Do you want me to embarrass you in front of everybody " DEATH 💀😂
"Papi you still mad ?" (with the cute face) lmao...Love Adrienne !
I'm an Aquarius no joke what tamar said is so true like everything she said is so true
I can’t deal with Tamars voice breaks I cry every time 🤣🤣🤣
Adrienne never ceases to amaze! I've always wanted to have a fight with a significant other where she'd ask me that so we could make up. If I was your man, I could never stay mad at you! Lol
Then I better not ever get with an Aquarius... I am not kissing your ass and I can ignore the ish out somebody very very very well. It can get very very real.
Oh off topic...... I love Tamar's dress!
Risse H @me. I can ignore with the best of them and be happy and content while doing it.
Omg I'm fighting my Aquarius bf now they are a trip! 😕
Risse H ignore an Aquarius and see how quick he leave.
Jody Simmers 👋 bu-bye!
Risse H Girl....please.
Watching old clips makes me realize how much I miss Tamar :(
Moments like this-story-telling and sharing, laughter, Munchkin's latina-ness, Tamar 'bout to beat Loni, the Tay/Tam dynamic, Jeanine being Jeanie- are why I love all of The Real ladies
I THOUGHT IT WAS TAMERA TOO!!! I kept having to rewind!!!
Nice to know I wasn't the only one who noticed:)
I have never delayed an argument, I wear my heart is on my sleeve, when Im emotional I say everything that's on my mind.
Tamar: HE'S SOO STUBB-OR-ENN
XD
Vince does do that though! I've seen it on their show, lol. But seriously I think when he's says that it's just eh..not okay. I just see it as threat like what are you going to do or say to bring me down to such a low to feel so embarrassed..that's the way I see that. And that's not right. You don't do that to your woman
I'm an Aquarius and I surely get Tamar . If I'm mad am mad
Can you get more mad than an Aries?
fenny taylor My dad is an Aries so you know how it goes. And my granddad is an Aquarius. He's pretty cool
Muriel Melly lol I'm a young Aries and that is true. Lol I'm a young tamed Aries cuz I can't get as mad as I want to because that will get me in trouble by my Taurus mom😂😂
Kaleigh Walters My mom is a Leo so I stay out of trouble 😆😆😆
Fenny Yah Taylor same
It’s so amazing how quickly life changes. Back then Tamar was married to Vince, Tamera had one kid, Jeannie was married to Freddie and Adrienne was with Vince. Fast forward 2 years later....Tamar is divorcing Vince, Tamera has 2 kids, Jeannie is divorcing Freddie and Adrienne is married to Israel.
This is hilarious because I'm an Aquarius Moon and a Pisces Sun. When I'm upset, give me space I'll get whatever off my chest when I'm good and ready. But I can hold onto things just as easily as I drop the anger. I leave the emotions where they are resolved or not but I never forget if what happened was that bad.
I'm exactly like Tamera. If I have an argument with my man we have to sort it out then and there or I won't leave and I won't let him leave until we sort it out and have peace again.
Anyone else a Sagittarius?
I am. Was born in December
hello there :) turqoiseandpurple
Born the first week of December
GilbertEffendy I am
GilbertEffendy Me! #December8th
I'm a Pisces and my sign is known for being brutally honest. What Tamar said about Aquarius's is true. They are so stubborn and so are Gemini's!!
I love this...well i'm a Gemini. If I don't receive attention or see the person I like flirting with someone else, i will legit be mad at you for 4-5 months, block your number, unfollow you on social media lmaooo. Extra I know. Is there anyone else that does this? I find it so funny and "caring" how they go crazy trying to find out wtf they did wrong 😂😂😂😂😂
omg I'm a Gemini woman and that's SO TRUE ! lol can I just say, you're sexy ;)
I'm a gemini as well, but if someone causes a tantrum with me and refuses to tell me what I did wrong or misunderstood...that's childish to me and I automatically get turned off. If I truly like somebody whether they're a romantic interest, family, friends or whoever, my goal is to keep you content and happy as consistently as I can. Bc when your happy I'm happy. Whoever thinks causing problems just to create so called "excitement" must be a very boring person with a simple mind.
I can't give you attention 24/7 because not everything is about you. My ex was also a Gemini & I did snapped at him for not caring about what I was going through at the time we were dating. Now, it just makes me laugh. He even texted "I feel like you don't care about us"
Thank you Miss Lambert!! Us Gemini always have something up our sleeve loool
But Miss Kindah, you don't get upset seeing the person you like, flirt with someone else? After so much time invested in this person, they just turn away to someone else? That really puts me in a childish mood no lie 😣
Tamar and adrienne got me LMFAO. loni chill
Team Aquarius ♒️♒️♒️♒️ lol our pride is no joke
Facts #Aquariysgang
NoirReine AQUARIUS ♒️ GANG
Yep the hardest sign to deal with cause of it
Yea it’s not cute either that’s soo annoying y’all just urk my nerves
Feb 15th baby I love being an Aquarius 😊
Adrienne is the BEST in this chat lmaoooooooo papi you still mad?
ADRIENNE IS ONE OF A KIND. She will make a great wife and mother. Hope Lenny treat her right forever!
I'm a pieces. We just cry and wonder what we did wrong 😂😂
Not always! I'm a Pisces but I'm also born closer to Aries so I kind of flip flop. my mom doesn't cry and she's born in the middle of Pisces and she just acts like she did nothing wrong and blames everyone else.
+Emily Altemus aww maybe just me then lol
+Xk8rsx oh it's not just you. I know plenty of Pisces who cry and wonder what they did wrong and even I've had those moments. :)
Xk8rsx bdbshshshshsg LITERALLY SAME
Nooo that's me all day #Libra
Tamar described an Aquarius perfectly. And I’m an Aquarius.
Girl if I'm mad he better not ask what I'm talking about.
The Aquarius thing is SOOOOOOO true! I praise my mom for dealing with my dad for the past 15 years... My mom is a Virgo and she is the most patient person I've EVER met. Tamar ✅
“Papi you still mad” I’d curl up in a ball. I can’t 😂cause omg that works on me
Tamar was right on point about our Aquarian stubbornness😂😂
" *Papi you still mad?* " is my new secret weapon 😂🤣
As an Aquarius myself - I feel so bad for those who have to put up with us. Tamar was 100% right about that. 😬
Oooh, I'm a Gemini and I would never go for that mess Vince does. "You want me to embarrass you in front of everybody?" Don't you challenge me. Geminis love to debate in general so in an argument we will definitely go shot for shot. Anyway... I'm a person who has to get it out right then. One of the things I've learned, just this year of 2015, is that recognizing the time and place for an argument is apparently "a thing" most people do. I can't get into that. I can't wait until after something is over to go back and talk about something in the correct "time and place." I just can't. So if he were to say "You want me to embarrass you in front of everybody?" I would be like "BRING IT!"
I'm exactly the same, I'm a Gemini also and boy do we love to argue lol
OneLoveRSR I'm a Gemini. I love debating, but I do believe there's a time and place. It's easier to win an argument when we're not in an open forum. He has no backup. :)
+OneLoveRSR lol you geminis are so cute, like what you rambling about
Thenotorious studtimmie Don't try me.
OneLoveRSR LOl
Adrienne dodged a bullet in not marring Lenny
Taurus is worse, trust me I'm a Taurus. Bull headed stubborn, i don't know how my fiancé deals with me
Agreed, I live in a house full of Taurus's
Agreed. My boyfriend is a Taurus. augh. He's exhausting
Agreed, my dad is a Taurus. "Stubbrun as all get up." (Country voice.)
All the horned animals really: capricorn, aries and taurus, stubborn as hell, from my personal experience...my father is taurus hasn't spoken to my sister in 20 years. S-T-U-B-B-O-R-N
Brooke lederer yep my mama is a taurus but to be honest I'm a young Aries so I can't get as mad as I want to cuz I'll get in trouble.
Me and mine can get REALLY upset sometimes, so we take 5-15 minutes to ourselves to calm down and THEN we talk about it. If we don’t take that time to calm down...we might loose our tempers really say/do things we regret.
2:12 Tamar was too real lol.
Adrienne had Tamar rolling
tamar and loni. oh lord. that cute little moment made me laugh hahahaha. tamar is about to throw her mug. haha
Adrienne: Papi you still mad??
Me (hypnotized and immediately taking my clothes off): Girl, it ain’t even like that. You just gotta show me a little more respect sometimes 😂😂😂
4 years late but LMFAOOOOOO😂😂😂😂
"Papi, you still mad" 0:55 😂😂😂😂 (❤2015)
I'm so HAPPY Tamar gave Lonni that look @ 2:38, Glad to know I am not the only one who is SICK of her Desperate antics. She's SOOOO inappropriate. Its like she gets a kick out of being the "funny fiending fat friend" - She could be a really beautiful classy woman if she tried... but she doesn't even TRY to make herself truly desirable. I WISH I could give her a counseling session. There are some true issues deep rooted in there.
-Tko
It’s not that serious it was a joke relax
Adrienne is gorgeous 😭😭😭
I'm an Aquarius too and when I'm angry at somebody, I don't say nothin'. I will not talk to you because if I do end up talking to you, you gon' get your feelings hurt.
I'm an Aquarius 😭😂 & everything Tamar said is so true lmao
Meh I'm an aquarius and NOPE. leave me alone.....100% and don't keep asking me anything. That part is true but Vince is just mean. smh Aquarius' aren't mean spirited. We're aloof but not mean.
clevawoman I agree. Aquarian men aren't mean spirited. However, if they are upset that can say some really hurtful things. From my experience with Aquarian men,they like their space, especially with they're upset. Me being a Gemini, I can respect anyone that needs space.
+clevawoman liessssss
+Thenotorious studtimmie Lol
Shiiiiiid 😂 no my mother is mean as hell and stubborn. I just think it's funny
How can you say all Aquarius aren't mean spirited? That's a general/wrong statement lol.
Tamar is partially right, as an Aquarius I just don't care, and don't secretly want to be bothered, I can act like you don't exist. I will wash my hands of the situation If there is no compromise in the conflict, I just won't mess with you. Meaning I will go into anti-don'tmesswiththisperson space, and keep distance, at anytime don't interfere in my bubble doing those little tricks Adrienne & Tamar was doing trying to manipulate my feelings, (Aquarius are masters at mind games - it's insultive to us intellectually), that will get your feelings hurt. This doesn't mean I'm not willing to comply or squash, it just means come correct.
Everyone is bringing up zodiac signs so I must say, as a Scorpio, if have a problem with you, trust me, you'll know then and there.. I personally don't hold anything in lol!
Im a scorpio too and im like that too :) lol
coosmart Yes!!!
I hate holding in stuff cuz it will turn in a grudge lol
coosmart OMG, get out of my head! lol that is so me!
Lol #teamScorpio ♏
As an Aquarius I can say everything Tamar said was true 😂😂😂
TAMAR LOOKS STUNNING
Y did Tamar go 🤣🤣🤣🤣
She was extra, but in a fun way
Nope! For me, there is no need to let an argument/grudge fester when I'd rather remove it from the scene and reach the happy and or hugging/cuddling time :D Lmao Adrienne! I don't know why anyone wouldn't want to clear the air before stepping outside (because life is too short) or going to bed. Be happy as much as possible.With Adrienne & Tamera then - I absolutely wear my heart on my sleeve and its very obvious if I'm not happy around you/happy to see you. HATE distance - I like closeness/togetherness etc.
Just like you Tamera, I'm pretty obvious when I'm mad or whatever. But I actually open up everything through text/call or when we are just alone and doing nothing at all.
Lol she's right about the Aquarius thing
Libras know how to put Aquarius in check. We can act so cold that they'll be apologizing to us.
Hmm...that might work one or two times bc we don't hold grudges like that. BUTTTT...keep up with that and our aloof and "don't care" manner will pop up and we'll be outta there and on to the next. We don't like mind games. We know what you are doing....😏😉
So true!
I'm a Libra and that is extremely accurate. I can go from chill to ice cold in a flash.
that is so true n libras always give ppl benefit of the doubt. thats just libra we know how to get them mad but also make them happy again
+C G My mother is a Libra but I don't know if she fits into that category.
Tamar's face when Loni said Vincent was sexy lml she so pretty😂😂😍😘
it's so true what Tamar is saying. 😂 I am an Aquarius 😂 but what's even worse are Libras 😂 they are more stubborn and hard to talk to when they are upset.
That's the truth. I always get like that lol
This made me lol :D and I'm just like Tamera--I need to fix the problem before we stand in front of company.
-Larianne
Tamar was preaching about that Aquarius thing. I was like yessss girl.
My facial expressions tell a thousand stories, so if I'm upset about something, it _will_ show. On the contrary, I'm also very stubborn, so I may refuse to respond when someone asks me what's wrong. I usually say "nothing," but don't take my word for it.
This segment is hilarious, but I just wish Loni would stop with the Vince "jokes"
Lol why ? They're so funny
Joking about flirting with someone else's man isn't funny 😕 Maybe that's just me...
***** I agree. It's expired.
***** i think Loni can do these jokes 'coz she is friends with Tamar. i dont c anything wrong with making flirty jokes with your friends man
***** Id rather Loni continue the Vince jokes, but quit the fake stories, especially when she's taking time talking over the others who have legitimate experiences to speak of. Its only an hour show, let the show be *REAL*.Just saying lol
"I worked all year long to get me something nice.. " lol
“Where are not breaking up anytime before November December. Get your life okay” 😂😂😂
Omgosh..I loooveee your show! Wake up, The Real. Shower, listening to The Real. cooking, eating, washing clothes, sweeping...GURLS I BREATH THE REAL.!! Nothing better.💋
Loni really kills me at 2:37 I was dying laughing I couldn't breathe after watching that !! God I love those giiirls :-)
1:02 Adrienne is so cute 😂😂
I really worry about Tamar and Vince's marriage sometimes... yes they are very cute together but seems Vince gets mad at her a LOT and refuses to talk about it... recipe for disaster
Vince is a bully. He always saying mean things to her in front of other people. He is very bossy.
Remember when they went to that retreat and he was being a butt because Tamar looked at IG when she was on the toilet.
He has to be in control even when she is on the toilet. That's not a healthy marriage.
Yeah, have you been keeping up with all the "rumors" about their marriage? Even her parents said on BFV that they think Tamer and Vince are just putting on a show for others.
Well, they’re divorced now
LOL!!! Adrienne was too funny with that "hey papi." I like Tamera's way of seeing things--resolve them sooner rather than later :)
and Tamar looks beautiful!!!
Team Aquarius
i don't get why people believe in astrology, i am an aquarius and i don't ave such qualities in me.
+Red Cherry Lollipop I feel the same about pisces or any other zodiac signs, the horoscope stuff they don't apply to me
+Nellie K. Adaba That just means you are unique 😊
Thanks
+Red Cherry Lollipop You won't see it in yourself. An Aquarius lives in their own world and don't believe anything that they don't want to believe in. They only believe what they want. So you by saying that is exactly like an aquarian.
"I work all year to get me something nice!!"😂😂😂😂
I am an Aquarius and this is true!😂😂
Anyone here a *Gemini* man or know of one? why do you/they hide the way you feel behind sarcastic humor...how can i make you more comfortable??? do you want me to be forward or??? If your so confident why do you pretend you dont care about things??? .sincerely shy Pisces.
I'm guilty of hiding behind sarcasm. It's hard not to and it's almost a habit.
Gemini seems outspoken to me idk..they r sarcastic by nature lol smh .
immi's snow globe I'm a gemini girl and my boyfriend gets mad at me all the time for not being expressive or my feelings and laughing at lovey dovey moments. A gemini is very vocal and they will tell you exactly what they. I guess the sarcasm and humor is just a way to take away the seriousness of everything, but they do mean what they say when they say it. So just take the person for what they say and try not to think too much of it. If the person is still with you, its because they see something worth while.
Thats a good question. And I feel bad that this gemini male cannot answer that for you, cause I still havent figured that out for myself, but I know it drives my friends and family crazy. But I think it's because we like to feel more intelligent than the other person. Like we feel the need to dumb people down just to win an argument. But it might also depend on if they're a May or June gemini.
immi's snow globe I was married to gemini. I don't know, most of them are pretty much straight forward on telling you like it is. I couldn't deal with all the split personalities tho, so I had to leave.
This segment had me dying lmao
Yesss! Us Aquarians are stubborn as hell 😂😂
I'm really liking Tamera's hair today and I really like Jeannie and Adrienne's looks!