Not wanting to date someone who works in the sex industry doesn’t mean that person is insecure. Not many want to be with someone sharing what many consider an intimate part of themselves with anyone who will pay. You desensitising that part of intimacy for money doesn’t mean others should to.
Not to mention all the millions of spirits within them. Them putting that on you. There is nothing pure about such a relationship. So some people are not willing to risk that and always questioning is it possible my partner possibly caught and STI/STD
How insightful. I think the world needs to remember that people in adult industries are still people. They’ve had a childhood, they’ve had relationships, feelings, desires. This really showed that. I love how raw and human this is. I love understanding other perspectives
I find it baffling that someone who would not be comfortable with their partner being fucked by random strangers everyday is labelled as insecure. It's got nothing to do with being insecure, it's completely understandable not to want different people sleeping with your partner
There is usually a double standard though. Some men will hate sex workers or wouldn’t date them but use their services, have affairs, etc If both partners see sex as intimate and sacred, I understand. However most users of sex workers are married men. So… clearly they don’t think sex is a strong emotional connection. They are trying to bang.
Yeah, that is usually what this type of women say to blame shift. They want the man to look bad instead of them. What they do is not well regarded pretty much anywhere in any time in history. And there is a price to be paid for that, and they do not want to assume the consequences of their decisions, so they blame it on men. They can do whatever they want with their bodies and have their preferences and opinions, but men can also. And many of us wouldn't like to have such a woman. It's the the rules for thee but not for me thing.
@@bluetheangelofdeath Stop your gaslighting, nobody believes you. Sex is the most intimate thing that has always been reserved for committed couples. It’s so powerful that sexual abuse has longer lasting psychological and emotional effects than physical. Acting like it’s nothing and then labelling somebody as ‘insecure’ for not wanting an unfaithful partner shows who YOU are.
scary how young women seem to be obsessed with facial surgeries the way belle is. seeing too many people praising people for unnecessary surgeries and cosmetic procedures. just think pete burns, jackie stallone and mickey rourke. surgery eventually will ruin your face
What a diverse group. Really enjoyed this discussion. Made me think about my own preconceived ideas about sex workers. Traditionally sex workers were seen as vulnerable or troubled and victims, this is outdated thinking as this group show very clearly. Not saying that doesn't apply to some people! Just not these people. They all seem comfortable and confident and in control of their careers. Very interesting. Edit to add: Wow, the negative comments... any need? Smh
Yeah, but it's also a bit of a self-selecting bias going on here. I live next to the red-light district in the capital of a European country where prostitution is legal, and the sex workers are nothing like these in the video by large. There are different categories of sex workers, of course, but those working the street, are almost always part of vulnerable groups (such as migrant women or people struggling with drug addiction) and you would never see them in these discussion rounds.
@@Kaniballoy yeah I guess you are right on this. There are different levels of sex workers and the ones in this discussion are not maybe typical. Maybe i need to take off my rose tinted spectacles! But i do stand by the fact that the sex worker industry has changed and attracts people from all walks of life now rather than it solely being people who are being taken advantage of in some way.
I don't see the problem as long as it's consensual from all parties involved (and of legal age). I live in Sweden where it's illegal to buy. The Swedish model assumes a woman selling sex has been coerced or is trafficked so legally speaking it's impossible to sell sex volunarily. However crossing the border into Denmark it's completely legal as long as you're 18+ and not trafficked. So naturally lots of Swedish people visit Denmark because it's a beautiful country. They have Legoland and stuff.
Traditionally sex was trade very early on and powerful without judgement. If we go all the way back in some tribes women were the shamanic healers who offered their services and were seen as priestess. It’s only when religion sought to take away the power implored through sex did it become shameful. I believe wholeheartedly that the judgements created have made it so the boundaries keep being pushed when actually sex used to be sacred and spiritual, no matter how many partners one had.
Kudos to these people! They're so strong and brave for being open and sticking to who they are and how they want to spend their lives, even when frowned upon by hypocritical politicians, religious lunatics, and pesky internet anons.
This was so interesting! Shoutout to everyone, it's not easy to openly talk about sex work - especially if you are one. I hope nothing but success and happiness for all these cool folks!
many people who work in the sex industry sadly damage their personal sex life for ever , but at the end end of the day we have to accept that we are all humans not just object´s ... there is a big philosphical debate about all of that and its a interesting topic that society should talk about ...
Working with something means you may be less interested in it personally. Like chefs buying takeways, cleaners not doing their chores at home or food processing people dislike whatever they work with. OTOH, they get experience. But working with sex means you can get lonelier off-work, and that's just a draw-back that some people are willing to accept. But poly people and SWers marrying another one from the industry is all too common. In porn, this seems to count for like half the population.
This was great! I do not fit under the umbrella of any of this content. Fascinating!!! Not my jam. This group's confidence gives me confidence. Thank You for a great interview & participates!
Really interesting! I work in the sex industry but as a photoshop retoucher so it's quite different... it's nice to watch interviews like this! Also the last thing they talked about is very important. I've seen many times models asking us to be removed from our websites because their family saw the content and it didn't go well... My bosses are nice people and they always remove it even if they are not obligated too, but I guess many owners of adult content wouldn't say agree to. And anyway, once you are on the internet, it can spreads on many MANY websites...
Sex work - if that's your passion, absolutely be honest and go for it, but don't give us this shit about relationship partners not being open enough or insecure. You're asking someone to give any sense of intimacy away because you've put something ahead of your partner - I'm sure you'd let the partner know in advance, but at least recognise how much you're asking of the other person.
I loved this video! So insightful you can feel the freedom of them living in their truth. Many people hide behind a facade. I applaud those who stand in the light. If their choices/ careers were something people truly hate/ despise, it wouldn’t be so lucrative. Wishing many blessings & fulfillment to them ❤
That was a great roundtable interview, very entertaining and even quite profound. Danny is always a great interviewee, charismatic and witty. I remember seeing Mercedes on 'First Dates'! 😉
Well, as long as you're grown, do your thing. These people are necessary imo. There are lonely people out here who might need some companionship, or just need sex. If a person wants to pay someone to do shit on only fans, who am I to judge?
Do you ever consider that by providing such services they're actively preventing these people from going out and forming actual fulfilling relationships? Because if they can scratch the itch with porn or prostitutes they have less incentive to seek out meaningful connections. Let's be real, OnlyFans girls are just exploiting lonely men for money. They're not performing some act of community service out of the kindness of their heart. That's like saying drug dealers are pillars of society because smackheads need their heroin.
nice people. I couldn't be in a relationship with a woman who was in sex work myself, because I'd get jealous. but I wish them all happiness. Danny is a great guy, Michelle seems like she'd make a great friend, and I wish nothing but good things for the younger people here.
@@kolaoshun6298 why are you being so rude? all they said is that _they_ couldn't do it, not that it's a bad thing. and they were pretty respectful. so why the unnecessary toxicity?
I have to say that as someone who was raised in a traditional, Christian home but has since become a more progressive, non-Trumpist Christian. This was really interesting to watch, simply to understand the lives of people that I have never encountered before. I will be honest and say that I still disagree with the idea of doing this but it was interesting to learn that there are sex workers out there who actually love what they do! The way it was presented to me when I was growing up was that it was people being taken advantage of and people who didn't have a choice but to do it to be able to survive but watching this showed me that that wasn't true. I have to say that this was a really fascinating video and it made me subscribe to the channel to learn more about things that were lacking in my education growing up!
@daemontargaryen6757 Because he ruined how people see Christians and stood for things that don't align themselves at all with Christianity but despite that, lots of Christian leaders followed him as though he were God himself.
@@jcfreak2007 which is weird for them bc Trump wasn't religious. But yeah! I did sociology research into SW and while there are still sex trafficking victims, some people did it willingly. But when it comes to economic pressures, who can say they weren't reluctant to do their job, eh?
Like they said, not all Sex workers do it freely or even make a lot doing it. Not just anyone can do what they do so not all girls can make a ton of money on only fans or escorting etc.
Here I was looking on UA-cam for the dark side of sex work and some “how to ward people away” from this line of work material - but stumble upon this bunch just having a jolly time with it and enjoying their life
Society has seen sex work as demeaning and the people within it lacking morals in some way. Which is very far from the truth. I have seen so much change in my lifetime. It's still evolving and long may it continue.
I talk to sex workers every week on my podcast and overall, most of them LOVE THEIR JOB! So much so that they also love helping other cam girls, its a pretty amazing community 😀
Do you talk to many who have left the industry? Was in it for 17 years been out for a year but been working my way out of it for a few years. Could probably give you a perspective of the mental anguish that comes when you choose to take that mask off.
Yeah I'm guessing the ones who've been trafficked into sex work, are being abused and coerced or have been turned into drug addicts by their pimps probably aren't in a position to reach out and do podcasts. There's a very strong selection bias going on here.
@10:00 Caroline, honey, yes! The body keeps going, all parts working, until it decides it has had enough. I think you are the perfect example of what we all need in life - those who understand us at every life stage. It's fitting for a mature gentleman to want a mature lady for fun who understands him without generational gaps.
Friends are the family you choose. Just because you’re related to someone doesn’t mean you have anything in common. People who love you unconditionally don’t judge.
Wrong, people who love you unconditionally can and often times do judge, as they want what's the best for you and, if your not on that path, they will critique your choices in life in a heartbeat (aka judging). Plus judging is a natural human instinct: you can't truly help it. If you judge in your subconscious, guess what? You still judges. Note: this is not pointed toward the choices of the women in this video it's a general rule.
People who love yopu unconditionally look out for your best interests and can often judge a situation they believe may not be good for you. It sounds like you are trying to say that the only way someone can actually love you unconditionally would be for them to shut up if you don't like their opinion.
People who don’t love you will agree with everything you do. People who do love you will set your right and judge what needs to be judged. You will never be a better person with a bunch of “yes people” around you.
I went to school on a street where the sex workers are, downtown of a major city, and when I tell people about them, they're floored. Are there young pretty women? Of course. But two of the nicest sex workers - who helped me buy cigarettes - that I met was a black trans woman with a thick full beard along with her sparkly little dresses and red lipstick. Another was a white man in his 60-70s who wore floral print smocks and straw woven hats like a British grandma. There's a market for everything lol. They were obviously working like they were there everyday. They had clients. Some people want a thick beard and penis on a glam girl and some want a real life Mrs Doubtfire. It is what it is lol.
I work in health care specifically for adults with minor learning difficulties . So many of my patients would like to experience a sexual encounter . I can't arrange anything because I would be considered a pimp ! I truly wish I could set up some sort of service for them 😶 Isn't it natural to want that encounter / it's perfectly normal to want that
@@judescinnamon There are a few private services , but sadly only for clients with physical disabilities . Learning disabilities is a minefield 😥 It's very sad .
I can’t see a problem with helping them find services for that part of their mental well-being! Having a functional sex life is a vital part of anyones mental health and there shouldn’t be any stigma attached to helping people with disabilities find those services if they want them 💜
Same, especially supporting younger lads in their late teens / early twenties whose hormones are in a full rage and who desperately want that contact and can't express it properly. You can feel their frustrations.
@@DoctorBastard I totally understand, I have a son in his early 20’s and it’s hard for young men now with the way they are treated and looked down on for being men! And dating is a minefield of rules, my heart goes out to teens and young men in today’s society
Wow so much hate in the comment section Oo. Most people consume/consumes porn at home. How do you think those videos are made? AI? Do you find yourself disgusting and abnormal too after watching one or only the actors? Why do you judge their relationship with their (birth)families when you don't know those people? I don't talk to mine either, I prefer the family I made myself. People have reasons you know. I am sure a lot of people are not in the industry by choice, and I am also sure a lot of them repeat past trauma by doing this. But this vid is about the people sitting in that room, and some of them are still very very young and have a lot of life to live. I don't see a reason to be so hostile, they are not hurting anybody.
You guys need never be ashamed about what you do for work… you all provide a service and sex workers need a lot more salutary graces in my opinion I mean what you do is a job to put food on your table just like any other… it’s your body and you’re allowed to choose you do with it after all… no one should judge you just for what you do for a living… as long as you take your sexual health seriously and you’re not spreading disease then I don’t see what the issue is with it… It’s not my calling but the stigma that sex workers still face from bigoted others is quite sad and shameful actually… sex workers are a modern form of social worker and sometimes it isn’t even about the sex and more so befriending of some clients… loneliness is an epidemic in the UK and these people fulfill a duty to those who feel this on the regular… fair play guys… thanks for being so open and honest… y’all are fabulously fabulous… Ciao;)
When the one woman said “my family doesn’t talk to me, and that’s fine with me”, I feel like that summarized everything. When all you have is superficial liaisons because you can’t maintain real ones.
Yeah, I didn't believe that either. Of course one would state "this is me and makes me happy screw others" when they cannot, by other means, establish those real ones. People are forgetting it is easy to use sex work as a facade as well. To run away from problems. Which is almost always reason NUMBER ONE to go into this industry.
@@sitcomsTV How often is problems the cause? Some people seem to come from other backgrounds. Like Dee Williams, Angela White, Casey Calvert, Cherie Deville, Rocky Emerson… And about what counts as "family"… Your family is the people that accept you for what you are, stand for and want to do. The other people don't share your worldview anyway.
Wonder how many people would be ok if they find their partners to be regular customers of sex workers. And a habit is a habit, it wouldn’t stop just because you got married and especially when it is considered acceptable and rendered legal.
If you really want validation, you'll find it. The fact that you're apparently seeking external validation is quite telling though. It suggest you have some degree of guilt and deep down feel like what you're doing is wrong.
IF you enjoy doing a job and people are willing to pay you for it, Why not! Just do not make anyone feels uncomfortable about it to try and understand your needs for justification. Respect is earned both ways I believe. Last, I do not think it's just tough on someone who is in a serious relationship with a sex worker, Its tough for everyone period, especially where I live where half of the marriages end with divorce. I enjoyed the commentary and I believe that this video helps me understand an industry I did not know at all.
Are you proposing - maybe rightfully so - that on main reason why a person may go into this business is the understanding that otherwise it would not receive the praise and attention they crave for?
I love how there’s so many people judging them yet I know you this same people all watch porn and/or would pay for their services (lmao why’s everyone getting so pressed, it’s not that deep)
Never had any desire to be with a sex worker, I need intimacy and love to get myself going. However I think as long as it's safe and regulated it could be beneficial, not an expert but it's an interesting conversation that needs to be had.
Understandable. This newest generation was brought up a bit more on lines of the "fast food" superficial values. They start sex to experiment, they start performing certain types so to be able to "provide" a wider performance, they just forget or are not told how to get to intimacy and love. So most of them are quite lost, really. Eager for this intimacy they don't understand, it only exist in books and they don't think it is real.
@@thearmchairjournalist566 wouldn't be paying for it, obviously they are still human capable of having a relationship. Don't really see your point mate.
@@christyhennessy7621 I meant that if you met a SW in their private life, how would you know? You said you need intimacy and love, why couldn’t they give you that?
@@thearmchairjournalist566 fair enough, in my opinion the act of paying it removes the intimacy and love, it becomes almost like a show. I'm not saying they are incapable of love, each to their own I guess.
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@@mpat100 sick????? 😂😂😂😂😂 So you've never ever watched porn ever in your life 😂😂😂😂 don't be such a hypocrite
@@mpat100 No they don't.
@@mpat100 yet you're still here
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Not wanting to date someone who works in the sex industry doesn’t mean that person is insecure. Not many want to be with someone sharing what many consider an intimate part of themselves with anyone who will pay. You desensitising that part of intimacy for money doesn’t mean others should to.
Well said
Thank you for saying this
Exactly
In a nutshell....
Not to mention all the millions of spirits within them. Them putting that on you. There is nothing pure about such a relationship. So some people are not willing to risk that and always questioning is it possible my partner possibly caught and STI/STD
Caroline gives us women hope that we retain our feminine, sexual power at 70.
hell yeah!!
I've heard of prostitutes who are in their 80s so yes! Women can do that 🙌
fuck you should meet my grandmother... sex is alive and well in your older years. Just work to take care of your body and try to eat decent.
..My wife is 75 & loves sex. Orgasms just about every time, but who wouldn’t with me. I’m 60 yo. All True 😊
really ? most men will shag anything. It is not a flex.
How insightful. I think the world needs to remember that people in adult industries are still people. They’ve had a childhood, they’ve had relationships, feelings, desires. This really showed that. I love how raw and human this is. I love understanding other perspectives
A group of sex workers sitting in a circle discussing their escapades in detail and the word SHIT is bleeped.
What a world we live in.
That's hilarious lmao
🤣🤣🤣
on youtube as well???
It's just clever marketing. If they don't make it pg rated, you tube will demonetise it or ban them.
My thoughts exactly!
Wish this was longer... I'm curious about for instance, how did OF impact stripping, and what made Granny want to enter this industry. So fascinating!
There are one on one interviews with the whole cast. Carolines' one is great.
She had a bad experience apparently n abstained for 40 years thats y lol
@@tashaax1993xanimalloverx some men can do that to a woman!
That Granny made me laugh every time. :D Gosh, she's the best. :D
the granny lady is so funny
Danny really seems like a really down to earth guy and what he did at 16:55 was hilarious and that shows he’s got a sense of humour
I nearly fell out of my chair laughing.😂
Tbf, with that "weight" is easy to down to earth, basically dragging.
the old lady is the perfect person to interrupt Richard Dawkins in Ted Talk😁😁
"I've been celibate for the last year"
"My name's Danny"
I was not prepared for that. His wit there was hilarious!
This was a weird p*** intro i was waiting for danny to bang em all by the end.
Danny seems like the most down to earth person never judge what someone does to the person they are
I just looked him up and he has a HUGE mini Danny 🫣
What?
His dong is the size of someone’s leg
@@Harsh_Singh1111 is that really hard for you to understand?
so you cool with hitler if he's "down to earth" too
I find it baffling that someone who would not be comfortable with their partner being fucked by random strangers everyday is labelled as insecure. It's got nothing to do with being insecure, it's completely understandable not to want different people sleeping with your partner
A lot of the time it is insecurity. It could just be a preference. You're taking it Hella deep and it ain't that serious
There is usually a double standard though. Some men will hate sex workers or wouldn’t date them but use their services, have affairs, etc
If both partners see sex as intimate and sacred, I understand. However most users of sex workers are married men. So… clearly they don’t think sex is a strong emotional connection. They are trying to bang.
Yeah, that is usually what this type of women say to blame shift. They want the man to look bad instead of them. What they do is not well regarded pretty much anywhere in any time in history. And there is a price to be paid for that, and they do not want to assume the consequences of their decisions, so they blame it on men. They can do whatever they want with their bodies and have their preferences and opinions, but men can also. And many of us wouldn't like to have such a woman. It's the the rules for thee but not for me thing.
@@Bellaa4578 It is both...
@@bluetheangelofdeath Stop your gaslighting, nobody believes you. Sex is the most intimate thing that has always been reserved for committed couples. It’s so powerful that sexual abuse has longer lasting psychological and emotional effects than physical. Acting like it’s nothing and then labelling somebody as ‘insecure’ for not wanting an unfaithful partner shows who YOU are.
scary how young women seem to be obsessed with facial surgeries the way belle is. seeing too many people praising people for unnecessary surgeries and cosmetic procedures. just think pete burns, jackie stallone and mickey rourke. surgery eventually will ruin your face
its more about how addictive it gets and most of them that get this bad have body dysmorphia and dont really see how bad they look but yeah its sad
The Pete Burns story always saddened me a bit. I thought I had read that he had some underlying issues that caused him to make all those changes.
This interview is so honest! Not to mention how chill they are. I truely enjoyed it.
What a diverse group. Really enjoyed this discussion. Made me think about my own preconceived ideas about sex workers. Traditionally sex workers were seen as vulnerable or troubled and victims, this is outdated thinking as this group show very clearly. Not saying that doesn't apply to some people! Just not these people. They all seem comfortable and confident and in control of their careers. Very interesting.
Edit to add:
Wow, the negative comments... any need? Smh
Yeah, but it's also a bit of a self-selecting bias going on here. I live next to the red-light district in the capital of a European country where prostitution is legal, and the sex workers are nothing like these in the video by large. There are different categories of sex workers, of course, but those working the street, are almost always part of vulnerable groups (such as migrant women or people struggling with drug addiction) and you would never see them in these discussion rounds.
Many respects it is still the case.
@@Kaniballoy yeah I guess you are right on this. There are different levels of sex workers and the ones in this discussion are not maybe typical. Maybe i need to take off my rose tinted spectacles!
But i do stand by the fact that the sex worker industry has changed and attracts people from all walks of life now rather than it solely being people who are being taken advantage of in some way.
I don't see the problem as long as it's consensual from all parties involved (and of legal age). I live in Sweden where it's illegal to buy. The Swedish model assumes a woman selling sex has been coerced or is trafficked so legally speaking it's impossible to sell sex volunarily. However crossing the border into Denmark it's completely legal as long as you're 18+ and not trafficked. So naturally lots of Swedish people visit Denmark because it's a beautiful country. They have Legoland and stuff.
Traditionally sex was trade very early on and powerful without judgement. If we go all the way back in some tribes women were the shamanic healers who offered their services and were seen as priestess. It’s only when religion sought to take away the power implored through sex did it become shameful. I believe wholeheartedly that the judgements created have made it so the boundaries keep being pushed when actually sex used to be sacred and spiritual, no matter how many partners one had.
Kudos to these people! They're so strong and brave for being open and sticking to who they are and how they want to spend their lives, even when frowned upon by hypocritical politicians, religious lunatics, and pesky internet anons.
I thought the older lady was going to say she's been doing it for decades. lol
@@lNowHerel knock yourself out
These people certainly have very distinct and straightforward opinions and experiences to share. Bless them.
👍👍👍. They’re great
This was so interesting! Shoutout to everyone, it's not easy to openly talk about sex work - especially if you are one. I hope nothing but success and happiness for all these cool folks!
Yeah so cool 🤡
many people who work in the sex industry sadly damage their personal sex life for ever , but at the end end of the day we have to accept that we are all humans not just object´s ... there is a big philosphical debate about all of that and its a interesting topic that society should talk about ...
Working with something means you may be less interested in it personally. Like chefs buying takeways, cleaners not doing their chores at home or food processing people dislike whatever they work with. OTOH, they get experience. But working with sex means you can get lonelier off-work, and that's just a draw-back that some people are willing to accept. But poly people and SWers marrying another one from the industry is all too common. In porn, this seems to count for like half the population.
it makes me so mad when people involve animals in their kinks .
That’s the most annoying thing. Leave children and animals alone!
This was great! I do not fit under the umbrella of any of this content. Fascinating!!! Not my jam. This group's confidence gives me confidence. Thank You for a great interview & participates!
*participants
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What a guy!!!
TOP D
Wish I could meet him so I could give him a fist bump and play playstation with
He is a genetic legend no one can mimic.
Really interesting! I work in the sex industry but as a photoshop retoucher so it's quite different... it's nice to watch interviews like this! Also the last thing they talked about is very important. I've seen many times models asking us to be removed from our websites because their family saw the content and it didn't go well... My bosses are nice people and they always remove it even if they are not obligated too, but I guess many owners of adult content wouldn't say agree to. And anyway, once you are on the internet, it can spreads on many MANY websites...
Hi I join how
interesting perspective. thank you!
There certainly is a niche for Grannie sex
How nice of your bosses.🙂
Your job is making boobs shinier on photos?
Was really clear that Danny and the Granny were saying their last bits to the onlyfans people.
'Danny and the Granny' sounds like the movie that needs to be made starring those two lol.
Sex work - if that's your passion, absolutely be honest and go for it, but don't give us this shit about relationship partners not being open enough or insecure. You're asking someone to give any sense of intimacy away because you've put something ahead of your partner - I'm sure you'd let the partner know in advance, but at least recognise how much you're asking of the other person.
I kinda feel wrong about how it still kinda misrepresents how the industry of sex workers is also run by ppl who never got a say in it
I loved this video! So insightful you can feel the freedom of them living in their truth. Many people hide behind a facade. I applaud those who stand in the light. If their choices/ careers were something people truly hate/ despise, it wouldn’t be so lucrative. Wishing many blessings & fulfillment to them ❤
bro danny has no right to be this funny and also wow what an insightful, elucidating video, thanks :)
There’s a full interview with him on the channel I think it’s really good
Well done all! And so good to see Danny he here one of my favs! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🖤
That was a great roundtable interview, very entertaining and even quite profound. Danny is always a great interviewee, charismatic and witty. I remember seeing Mercedes on 'First Dates'! 😉
The Granny is really cool! Caroline I'll be your family if you need!
Aaawww thanks xx
danny d is the most normal looking person with down to earth personlity in that group .. love him more ..
His wang is definitely down to earth too.
The ins and outs.. hahaha
funny
I entered ten of my best puns into a contest, thinking at least one of them would win. No pun in ten did.
@@StreetHierarchy😂
Literally
Well, as long as you're grown, do your thing. These people are necessary imo. There are lonely people out here who might need some companionship, or just need sex. If a person wants to pay someone to do shit on only fans, who am I to judge?
Lonely MEN. Not people.
Do you ever consider that by providing such services they're actively preventing these people from going out and forming actual fulfilling relationships? Because if they can scratch the itch with porn or prostitutes they have less incentive to seek out meaningful connections.
Let's be real, OnlyFans girls are just exploiting lonely men for money. They're not performing some act of community service out of the kindness of their heart. That's like saying drug dealers are pillars of society because smackheads need their heroin.
@@Feliciationsyou’d be very surprised to see how many women pay for OnlyFans.
@@Feliciationsyou’ve misunderstood how much are actually female. It’s more men but there’s a lot more women than you think.
You are a blessing understanding person with a sensible approach so rare nowadays !
nice people. I couldn't be in a relationship with a woman who was in sex work myself, because I'd get jealous. but I wish them all happiness. Danny is a great guy, Michelle seems like she'd make a great friend, and I wish nothing but good things for the younger people here.
Don’t worry, SWers aren’t missing anything by dating you.
@@kolaoshun6298 why are you being so rude? all they said is that _they_ couldn't do it, not that it's a bad thing. and they were pretty respectful. so why the unnecessary toxicity?
@@deadbunnys I bet he/she is escort and got rejected by their partners
You must of dated a sex worker and suffered the insecurities as a partner, self projection dosnt come from no where😊@kolaoshun6298
Loser detected@@kolaoshun6298
I have to say that as someone who was raised in a traditional, Christian home but has since become a more progressive, non-Trumpist Christian. This was really interesting to watch, simply to understand the lives of people that I have never encountered before. I will be honest and say that I still disagree with the idea of doing this but it was interesting to learn that there are sex workers out there who actually love what they do! The way it was presented to me when I was growing up was that it was people being taken advantage of and people who didn't have a choice but to do it to be able to survive but watching this showed me that that wasn't true. I have to say that this was a really fascinating video and it made me subscribe to the channel to learn more about things that were lacking in my education growing up!
@daemontargaryen6757 Because he ruined how people see Christians and stood for things that don't align themselves at all with Christianity but despite that, lots of Christian leaders followed him as though he were God himself.
@@jcfreak2007 which is weird for them bc Trump wasn't religious. But yeah! I did sociology research into SW and while there are still sex trafficking victims, some people did it willingly. But when it comes to economic pressures, who can say they weren't reluctant to do their job, eh?
@@jcfreak2007Well said. The Trump evangelicals have accomplished the biggest sin - driving people away from God rather than to God.
Like they said, not all Sex workers do it freely or even make a lot doing it. Not just anyone can do what they do so not all girls can make a ton of money on only fans or escorting etc.
@@edl6398 🙄🙄🙄 #Trump2024.
Good work to LADBible for hosting these discussions
Love the age range and different stories here.
Here I was looking on UA-cam for the dark side of sex work and some “how to ward people away” from this line of work material - but stumble upon this bunch just having a jolly time with it and enjoying their life
This was absolutely awesome!! Thank you so much for this video!
"my names Danny" absolutely gold 🤣🤣
Granny and the guy next to him need to do a podcast together. I love watching and listening to them together
There needs to be a legalised international union for all sex workers. These guys should be ambassadors.
This was absolutely fascinating! Thankyou!
When can we see you🎉
listen, learn, and understand.
reflect why you feel so negatively towards these people who are living their lives.
Society has seen sex work as demeaning and the people within it lacking morals in some way. Which is very far from the truth. I have seen so much change in my lifetime. It's still evolving and long may it continue.
Now, will you keep that same energy when you reflect on people of faith as well?
Love how danny D says "my winky" when he has a third leg...bruh
Ha thought the same
I’ve never heard of him but I warmed to him immediately his “winky” was mentioned….😊
This needs to become a podcast !!! ...
I talk to sex workers every week on my podcast and overall, most of them LOVE THEIR JOB! So much so that they also love helping other cam girls, its a pretty amazing community 😀
Do you talk to many who have left the industry? Was in it for 17 years been out for a year but been working my way out of it for a few years. Could probably give you a perspective of the mental anguish that comes when you choose to take that mask off.
Yeah I'm guessing the ones who've been trafficked into sex work, are being abused and coerced or have been turned into drug addicts by their pimps probably aren't in a position to reach out and do podcasts. There's a very strong selection bias going on here.
Another brilliant respectful interview ❤❤❤
If had my experience with sex work and hearing this conversation is very relatable
Your pick would suggest you still do.
Not judging. Just stating.
@@sitcomsTV I couldn't understand what she was saying
22:01 I'm glad he mentioned that day it flips because it will. The south asian guy isn't in complete agreement because he's not there yet.
Wtf has the Irish girl done to her lip is that deliberate or is it a cleft palate
cleft palate 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 this absolutely made my day, thank you!!
@@9teen9t4I know lolzzz. Wonder if they meant cleft lip. She obviously likes that look on herself.
@10:00 Caroline, honey, yes! The body keeps going, all parts working, until it decides it has had enough. I think you are the perfect example of what we all need in life - those who understand us at every life stage. It's fitting for a mature gentleman to want a mature lady for fun who understands him without generational gaps.
This is delightful. Thank you.
Danny D seems like such a great guy
Granny has the best advice. She's really cool. 👍🙂 Love her!
Friends are the family you choose. Just because you’re related to someone doesn’t mean you have anything in common. People who love you unconditionally don’t judge.
Wrong, people who love you unconditionally can and often times do judge, as they want what's the best for you and, if your not on that path, they will critique your choices in life in a heartbeat (aka judging).
Plus judging is a natural human instinct: you can't truly help it. If you judge in your subconscious, guess what? You still judges.
Note: this is not pointed toward the choices of the women in this video it's a general rule.
People who love yopu unconditionally look out for your best interests and can often judge a situation they believe may not be good for you. It sounds like you are trying to say that the only way someone can actually love you unconditionally would be for them to shut up if you don't like their opinion.
People who don’t love you will agree with everything you do. People who do love you will set your right and judge what needs to be judged. You will never be a better person with a bunch of “yes people” around you.
We are all soooo happy, honest!
Danny is so sensible! And I'd love to watch more of Granny, she should have her own channel!
Thanks
I went to school on a street where the sex workers are, downtown of a major city, and when I tell people about them, they're floored.
Are there young pretty women? Of course. But two of the nicest sex workers - who helped me buy cigarettes - that I met was a black trans woman with a thick full beard along with her sparkly little dresses and red lipstick. Another was a white man in his 60-70s who wore floral print smocks and straw woven hats like a British grandma.
There's a market for everything lol. They were obviously working like they were there everyday. They had clients. Some people want a thick beard and penis on a glam girl and some want a real life Mrs Doubtfire. It is what it is lol.
I love the diversity. It's a great view.
I work in health care specifically for adults with minor learning difficulties . So many of my patients would like to experience a sexual encounter . I can't arrange anything because I would be considered a pimp ! I truly wish I could set up some sort of service for them 😶 Isn't it natural to want that encounter / it's perfectly normal to want that
its ripe for sex workers to service Special Needs clients. i hope someone out there specializes in this.
@@judescinnamon There are a few private services , but sadly only for clients with physical disabilities . Learning disabilities is a minefield 😥 It's very sad .
I can’t see a problem with helping them find services for that part of their mental well-being! Having a functional sex life is a vital part of anyones mental health and there shouldn’t be any stigma attached to helping people with disabilities find those services if they want them 💜
Same, especially supporting younger lads in their late teens / early twenties whose hormones are in a full rage and who desperately want that contact and can't express it properly. You can feel their frustrations.
@@DoctorBastard I totally understand, I have a son in his early 20’s and it’s hard for young men now with the way they are treated and looked down on for being men! And dating is a minefield of rules, my heart goes out to teens and young men in today’s society
Best background material for drawing :3
I think the shelf life isn't in terms of the person's age but more like how long you want to do it or not
Dam you reckon Danny D gets the badge in during the business
what an amazing video, thank you!
its such a weird feeling to see these normal ordinary people discussing here but then search them up on the hub and you see a whole different side.
All of them are sweet, especially the Granny.
Still waiting for the table to appear at some point 😅
Underrated comment
I don't see a problem at all with the industry. Its just providing a service like a person who works at cafe and provides people with a service
Does anyone else think that Danny looks like a mix between Macklemore, Chris Martin from Coldplay?
Yes
Wow so much hate in the comment section Oo. Most people consume/consumes porn at home. How do you think those videos are made? AI? Do you find yourself disgusting and abnormal too after watching one or only the actors?
Why do you judge their relationship with their (birth)families when you don't know those people? I don't talk to mine either, I prefer the family I made myself. People have reasons you know.
I am sure a lot of people are not in the industry by choice, and I am also sure a lot of them repeat past trauma by doing this. But this vid is about the people sitting in that room, and some of them are still very very young and have a lot of life to live. I don't see a reason to be so hostile, they are not hurting anybody.
Love this video ! ❤
You guys need never be ashamed about what you do for work… you all provide a service and sex workers need a lot more salutary graces in my opinion I mean what you do is a job to put food on your table just like any other… it’s your body and you’re allowed to choose you do with it after all… no one should judge you just for what you do for a living… as long as you take your sexual health seriously and you’re not spreading disease then I don’t see what the issue is with it… It’s not my calling but the stigma that sex workers still face from bigoted others is quite sad and shameful actually… sex workers are a modern form of social worker and sometimes it isn’t even about the sex and more so befriending of some clients… loneliness is an epidemic in the UK and these people fulfill a duty to those who feel this on the regular… fair play guys… thanks for being so open and honest… y’all are fabulously fabulous…
Ciao;)
Keep justifying it to yourself. You know the truth.
@@ryu4045 yeh and that truth is you’re a damn fool hahahah… we are not all ignorant nomarks even if you are my dear !
Just curious how much money they all make in their own niche
Only Danny D deserves to be listen
of course everyone’s favorite is the straight white guy
Loved this 🙌🏾
Must be real bad in Ireland when you feel UK is open minded :D
Everyone knows everyone in Ireland
Granny ain't playing no games baby.
When the one woman said “my family doesn’t talk to me, and that’s fine with me”, I feel like that summarized everything. When all you have is superficial liaisons because you can’t maintain real ones.
Yeah, I didn't believe that either.
Of course one would state "this is me and makes me happy screw others" when they cannot, by other means, establish those real ones. People are forgetting it is easy to use sex work as a facade as well. To run away from problems. Which is almost always reason NUMBER ONE to go into this industry.
Her family was probably dicks tbh
Maybe her family is horrible?
@@sitcomsTV How often is problems the cause? Some people seem to come from other backgrounds. Like Dee Williams, Angela White, Casey Calvert, Cherie Deville, Rocky Emerson… And about what counts as "family"… Your family is the people that accept you for what you are, stand for and want to do. The other people don't share your worldview anyway.
Granny has more sex not thinking about sex than you have at all...thanks internet.
What a frightening job to do with all the nutters in the world.
Danny saying “winky” made me laugh aloud 😂
Shit hit the fan when the granny's snapping in the beginning
Wonder how many people would be ok if they find their partners to be regular customers of sex workers. And a habit is a habit, it wouldn’t stop just because you got married and especially when it is considered acceptable and rendered legal.
As a stripper/onlyfans model, this video is so validating
"so validating" 🙄
@@abceckswhyzee7169 LOL
If you really want validation, you'll find it. The fact that you're apparently seeking external validation is quite telling though. It suggest you have some degree of guilt and deep down feel like what you're doing is wrong.
I love how nobody in this group judges
How iconic it's an industry in your open society
Eva o's voice sounds exactly like dita von teese
IF you enjoy doing a job and people are willing to pay you for it, Why not! Just do not make anyone feels uncomfortable about it to try and understand your needs for justification. Respect is earned both ways I believe. Last, I do not think it's just tough on someone who is in a serious relationship with a sex worker, Its tough for everyone period, especially where I live where half of the marriages end with divorce.
I enjoyed the commentary and I believe that this video helps me understand an industry I did not know at all.
This onlyfans is gonna get out of hand I’m telling you. Maybe a year or 2 then shut it down permanently. I really hope it does.
Get the badge in Danny D 😂
Correct me if I'm wrong but wasn't Mercedes on a blind date show too? I think it didn't end up working out between her and the dude
Are you proposing - maybe rightfully so - that on main reason why a person may go into this business is the understanding that otherwise it would not receive the praise and attention they crave for?
I love how there’s so many people judging them yet I know you this same people all watch porn and/or would pay for their services (lmao why’s everyone getting so pressed, it’s not that deep)
bit of a bold assumption
@@xalnilam2739 Why are you offended you’ve been caught?😢
@@obedbhiziki no ? i dont watch either or pay for anything i have a gf lol why would i
@@xalnilam2739 God bless you! Good thing you said no to pornography
@@xalnilam2739What you've never watched porn or shagged a prostitute? Most guys have.
0:21 Sounds like the PS3 start up.
It's the same source of sound, it's an orchestral tune up.
That danny dude wields mjolnir
Big love. Just big love 🖤
Never had any desire to be with a sex worker, I need intimacy and love to get myself going. However I think as long as it's safe and regulated it could be beneficial, not an expert but it's an interesting conversation that needs to be had.
Understandable. This newest generation was brought up a bit more on lines of the "fast food" superficial values. They start sex to experiment, they start performing certain types so to be able to "provide" a wider performance, they just forget or are not told how to get to intimacy and love. So most of them are quite lost, really. Eager for this intimacy they don't understand, it only exist in books and they don't think it is real.
If you had been with a sex worker in their private life, what makes you think you would know 😂
@@thearmchairjournalist566 wouldn't be paying for it, obviously they are still human capable of having a relationship. Don't really see your point mate.
@@christyhennessy7621 I meant that if you met a SW in their private life, how would you know? You said you need intimacy and love, why couldn’t they give you that?
@@thearmchairjournalist566 fair enough, in my opinion the act of paying it removes the intimacy and love, it becomes almost like a show. I'm not saying they are incapable of love, each to their own I guess.
Real talk...great people
Danny D the absolute legend