STORYTIME : HOW I BECAME A STRIPPER

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  • @KristynAlexis
    @KristynAlexis 7 років тому +6466

    I love how you incorporated the pros and cons. You were mad real and unapologetically you. Keep up the great work queen.

    • @Kleboker
      @Kleboker 7 років тому

      KristynAlexis i have crippling depresion

    • @amandajean8394
      @amandajean8394 6 років тому +7

      I'm so sorry you have had to lower your self and limit yourself to only the worldly life of a stripper. Girl Jesus loves you and he's still waiting for you to open the door.. God gotchyu...

    • @AlexPerez-ci8dm
      @AlexPerez-ci8dm 6 років тому +2

      KristynAlexis exactly

    • @ivyalexandra8053
      @ivyalexandra8053 6 років тому +28

      Harley Queen, being a stripper is not downgrading. It is power to women or men who are in the industry.

    • @BenDover-wy5rk
      @BenDover-wy5rk 6 років тому +8

      Harley Quinn you know harley quinn is a sinner right? pretty gay, a harlett/whatever.... don’t try to come for nobody about god and stripping lmfao

  • @Nitaa_Ayanna
    @Nitaa_Ayanna 6 років тому +1599

    My mom always told me, ANYTHING I do,whether it be Stripping,Rapping,flipping burgers..that I better be the best at it

    • @Unpopularopinionsbyme
      @Unpopularopinionsbyme 6 років тому +42

      Nitaa Ayanna my mama says that too! Lmfao our mamas are gangsta

    • @melvinharrell3584
      @melvinharrell3584 6 років тому +9

      I like your grooming and your hygiene.

    • @trenekabrown1150
      @trenekabrown1150 6 років тому

      Lol my grandma told me that

    • @sixteen.candles.4644
      @sixteen.candles.4644 6 років тому

      Lol damn

    • @DestinyMOrtega
      @DestinyMOrtega 6 років тому +60

      Geneiveve wtf are you talking about. You sound so ignorant, just because you’re a dancer does not mean you don’t have self respect. There are doctors & lawyers that were strippers so let’s not do that bitch .

  • @nicoslvt6768
    @nicoslvt6768 6 років тому +545

    Strippers honestly have a mad hustle, you gotta be physically fit as hell and you get tired and sweaty and do a workout for work, pay your bills girl hell yeah

  • @jazlovescoffee
    @jazlovescoffee 7 років тому +1436

    “I carry myself like a bad bitch and a good person but I would never treat someone as if they were beneath me” YESSS GIRL

    • @Avaxzs
      @Avaxzs 6 років тому +9

      I felt that

    • @aryaijadodson6332
      @aryaijadodson6332 6 років тому +3

      BuJo Mummy I agree but women shouldn't call themselves the b word

    • @princesskay9995
      @princesskay9995 6 років тому +2

      Facts‼️ love how she’s so humble 😭😍😂

    • @mariec3527
      @mariec3527 6 років тому +1

      BuJo Mummy cool good for u sis

    • @nighttalkswithnorma5861
      @nighttalkswithnorma5861 6 років тому +1

      Yessss💪🏽💯 I Love Her!

  • @lavianahampton4641
    @lavianahampton4641 7 років тому +2377

    I don't judge anyone for what they do . What you do is legal . No one can judge you they don't pay your bills .

    • @jazzmenblack
      @jazzmenblack  7 років тому +168

      exactly!!

    • @Mischa21xo
      @Mischa21xo 7 років тому +140

      Brooklyn Bred stfu, that's so ignorant. some girls literally strip to pay for their parents Cancer Treatments, other people strip so they can stay off the street. you have no idea what situation someone is in. & I'm going to say stripping for a living is a lot better than being homeless on the damn streets & being raped, cold and hungry. do what's best for you, but don't sit there and judge other people for what they chose to be best for them, because you have no idea why, Point Blank.

    • @yasyasss9896
      @yasyasss9896 7 років тому +54

      Kleboker bruh just stfu 😂😂😂hitler is like you said killing and she's just dancing not harming anyone so fuck off idiot

    • @Kleboker
      @Kleboker 7 років тому +2

      yas yasss you cant judge my boy hitler you dont pay his bills

    • @Feliciatanktop
      @Feliciatanktop 7 років тому +58

      Kleboker you’re comparing killing and torturing over 17 million people to dancing on a pole...

  • @sunnybigmc90
    @sunnybigmc90 6 років тому +2341

    I don't see anything wrong with being a stripper. I'm not one but I don't see nothing wrong with it. I don't understand the stigma around it.

    • @bryannajacqueline2100
      @bryannajacqueline2100 6 років тому +11

      SunnyBunny 🙌🏻🙌🏻😌

    • @1sweetmess
      @1sweetmess 6 років тому +39

      I'm not either but God it looks/sounds like it'd be fun! There aren't any clubs where I live or I'd probably try to do it. 😊

    • @wtfexcuseme232
      @wtfexcuseme232 6 років тому +33

      SunnyBunny fr people trying to pay bills

    • @ner5741
      @ner5741 6 років тому +29

      I mean, girl gotta get the hustle going and get her coin.

    • @amandapoon7925
      @amandapoon7925 6 років тому +49

      people just want to put girls down and call them slutz even though they just trying to make money and you don't know their circumstance like they probably buying food for their children and I know I know that strippers do drugs and they probably don't even give a fuck about their children but lots of strippers just want to pay the rent and feed their children and get through life I know this because I was a stripper I stripped because I need to pay my college tuition my best friend fuck me over and I'm the one who even got her job you just got to watch out for yourself that's the best advice I can give

  • @isabelames6876
    @isabelames6876 6 років тому +1990

    “If ur not 18 u must exit now.”
    Like ANYONE actually left🤣🤣🤣

  • @StrangexDaisy
    @StrangexDaisy 6 років тому +770

    Girl my goal is to open up a club that is completely positive and is centered around the girls and making them happy. When you have happy girls, you have happy customers.

  • @jaywalters9448
    @jaywalters9448 6 років тому +301

    Stripping in 2008 was probably lit shakin to the ying yang twins 💃🏾💃🏾

    • @jocelyncams1826
      @jocelyncams1826 5 років тому +13

      Jay Walters the ying yang twins always come to Pittsburghs strip clubs to this day😂

    • @lulug4533
      @lulug4533 5 років тому +3

      Was the Jeezy era

    • @madelineasmr926
      @madelineasmr926 3 роки тому

      Lmaooooo

    • @baddeymaddey
      @baddeymaddey 3 роки тому

      I wonder how many times she has to dance to lollipop

  • @ashleyh8898
    @ashleyh8898 6 років тому +700

    I danced for over 10 years and this is the realest stripping video. Thank you for the honesty

  • @dezimonae1214
    @dezimonae1214 6 років тому +778

    If I saw my dad in a strip club I'd be asking his ass the same questions

    • @sycxx3388
      @sycxx3388 6 років тому +6

      Dezi Monae fr 😂

    • @tiarastr8555
      @tiarastr8555 6 років тому +29

      Her aunt called him on her (!!!)

    • @tiffanyrosemarie9081
      @tiffanyrosemarie9081 6 років тому +2

      That's what I was thinking

    • @isidoraveronica
      @isidoraveronica 6 років тому

      xpapillondenuitx 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @chickenstrangler3826
      @chickenstrangler3826 6 років тому +2

      Last time he saw his daughter naked she was an infant so obviously he wanted to see his baby girl all grown up!

  • @theotherside931
    @theotherside931 5 років тому +74

    *In my side of the world, girls who dare to strip don't ever identify themselves.*
    *Of recent, Instagram has motivated them to come out but just a tiny bit.*
    *What I found funniest about your story was your Aunty part. She had no issue with watching other girls strip but when it's a family member then it's an issue.*
    *Rihanna can do a nude song video if she wants and people in my country will love her still. But if a female artist in my country tries same, she will be roasted from all sides.*
    *Human beings are ridiculously unbelievable.*

  • @nalaninationn
    @nalaninationn 7 років тому +1070

    would definitely like to see a part 2. hustle tactics, locker room chronicles, things you've seen etc.

    • @jazzmenblack
      @jazzmenblack  7 років тому +103

      got you girl!

    • @ayanabryant5839
      @ayanabryant5839 7 років тому +27

      JAZZMEN BLACK Do locker room chronicles!!! I have hilarious stories & I've only been dancing less than two years.. I know nine years in your heels come with soooo many stories

    • @mijoyford3795
      @mijoyford3795 7 років тому

      lovelybones hjkji

    • @Babyduzzit
      @Babyduzzit 7 років тому

      Difinatley

    • @Babyduzzit
      @Babyduzzit 7 років тому

      Definitely *

  • @teonnathesun6013
    @teonnathesun6013 6 років тому +517

    this is why i never judge anyone that is a stripper...

    • @damarkojones9216
      @damarkojones9216 6 років тому +1

      Faxtz I don't ethier I love the stripes

    • @chr4cles
      @chr4cles 6 років тому

      So Chawclet take cardi for example

  • @aubreyodom468
    @aubreyodom468 6 років тому +263

    I love this I danced from 2009 to 2014 GIRL YES I had some of my best memories meeting A list celebrities and even going out on dates with some. I learned my self worth dancing but at the same time had some of the lowest points in my life. I experienced rape and was almost robbed one night. Got into drugs for a little while but realized that wasn't the road I wanted to go down and changed my ways real fast. It's hard not to get sucked into it which is why everyone needs to have a game plan and an over all goal. Love your words of wisdom you spoke and all were true.

  • @bobbiholmes2274
    @bobbiholmes2274 6 років тому +561

    I've always had mad respect for strippers because they aren't looking for nothing but to make a living for themselves or their family. I never looked at stripping as a bad or sinful act. I always thought you know there's women that love to dance and are comfortable in their skin.

    • @sunnybigmc90
      @sunnybigmc90 6 років тому +4

      SwagGlam Beauty right!

    • @Andrea-ou6uu
      @Andrea-ou6uu 6 років тому +4

      Yessss

    • @averikent12
      @averikent12 6 років тому +3

      Preach it!

    • @HipsxSoxReactionz
      @HipsxSoxReactionz 6 років тому +8

      Stripping wouldn't be what it is without men😂 so it's funny when u hear a guy diss strippers when majority of them be up in the club

    • @alana9205
      @alana9205 6 років тому

      I never understood why people shamed strippers, they're just doing their jobs like everyone else and making a lot of money. You can respect their hustle

  • @courtneysimone8855
    @courtneysimone8855 7 років тому +875

    In wise words of the players club ,
    Make the money , dont let the money make you 💯

    • @jazzmenblack
      @jazzmenblack  6 років тому +3

      part 2!
      ua-cam.com/video/dW57jvcXsng/v-deo.html

    • @jazzmenblack
      @jazzmenblack  6 років тому

      part 2!
      ua-cam.com/video/dW57jvcXsng/v-deo.html

    • @christinethuo6840
      @christinethuo6840 6 років тому

      in the words of Junior Mafia,get money

    • @juliee.4252
      @juliee.4252 6 років тому

      Courtney Simone I

  • @skyealycej
    @skyealycej 6 років тому +941

    I wish I had the body to be a stripper. This 9-5 is skressfull lol

    • @sixteen.candles.4644
      @sixteen.candles.4644 6 років тому +15

      Lol skkressful

    • @Tricyyyland
      @Tricyyyland 6 років тому +6

      SkyeAlyceJ okurrr

    • @daisybravo1897
      @daisybravo1897 6 років тому +71

      SkyeAlyceJ you got a pretty face tho mama you should try it!! I’m skinny and I’m making money

    • @vibmeetup1355
      @vibmeetup1355 6 років тому +24

      SkyeAlyceJ 9 to 5 jobs are the devil.

    • @meredithbelk
      @meredithbelk 6 років тому +50

      You don't have to be skinny to be a dancer. I'm plus size and I dance. It's just a little harder to find clientele.

  • @EvaElyse
    @EvaElyse 7 років тому +1109

    You're a great storyteller! I could visualize everything you said so clearly. I also love that you listed both pros/cons...because it seems to be romanticized these days. Can't wait for part two!

    • @ANCIENT.PATH.NATSARIM
      @ANCIENT.PATH.NATSARIM 6 років тому +6

      Eva Adesuwa my thoughts exactly, she's very good with her words!

  • @-MaryPoppins-
    @-MaryPoppins- 6 років тому +131

    Ok so you dance. Half dress or naked who the hell cares. It ain’t that deep. If you’ve got your head on straight, pay your bills, get to saven, ect. then who the hell is to judge you? No one can say anything to you because they’re not YOU❤️

  • @areyoufrgirl4254
    @areyoufrgirl4254 6 років тому +291

    Cardi b even liked this😂😂💀💀💀

  • @nyadiereanok9023
    @nyadiereanok9023 7 років тому +599

    It really does sadden me that you were very hesitant when saying your occupation, being a stripper doesn't define the true you. You shouldn't feel a shamed in any sort of aspect, society is just a shameful dumb that feels as if they have the right to shame, mistreat or accuses people of things. you do you boo! ily

    • @sarahsimmons5373
      @sarahsimmons5373 7 років тому +12

      i saw that obviously she been judged before shame really .

    • @jazzmenblack
      @jazzmenblack  6 років тому +4

      part 2!
      ua-cam.com/video/dW57jvcXsng/v-deo.html

    • @zoesuss20
      @zoesuss20 6 років тому +6

      I don't think she feels ashamed I just think she just fears of other peoples perception on her job. I mean saying"I am a stripper" isn't like saying "I am a doctor" people will always view stripping as a negative thing. Not saying its right but thats how it is.

  • @EnoExplores
    @EnoExplores 6 років тому +285

    You, my dear, are a classy, inspiring and courageous woman. You kept it real.

    • @joejoe2007
      @joejoe2007 6 років тому

      @Orange Mirai of course they are. But she making videos inspiring younger kids to be strippers and comments like yours normalizes stripping which it shouldn't be

    • @joejoe2007
      @joejoe2007 6 років тому

      @Orange Mirai I don't understand nothing you talking about but ok

  • @MixonElements
    @MixonElements 6 років тому +143

    Your make up so perfect and I love how you tell stories

  • @Christina-tp4mo
    @Christina-tp4mo 7 років тому +827

    I’m a married mother with an office job, I don’t even know how I got here but this video was honestly so interesting to me. I really enjoyed it. I think I’ll subscribe! 🤗

    • @Dominiloka
      @Dominiloka 7 років тому +1

      Christina D same lol

    • @notkaitlyn5368
      @notkaitlyn5368 6 років тому +6

      Is that a blunt lol

    • @Christina-tp4mo
      @Christina-tp4mo 6 років тому +16

      not kaitlyn it sure as shit Is!! Lol

    • @HipiLoveHop
      @HipiLoveHop 6 років тому

      😂

    • @Christina-tp4mo
      @Christina-tp4mo 6 років тому +46

      The Blazin' Barbie whoa chill! I'm not insinuating anything, I KNOW she makes more than my ass! You took it the wrong way. I meant my job is boring as shit and because I'm married with children, there are no future plans FOR ME to become a stripper but I still really enjoyed the video. That's all. Good vibes only girl. I'm not into being a shit head in comments. ✌

  • @isabelgarcia7386
    @isabelgarcia7386 6 років тому +1253

    Lowkey want to be a stripper

    • @kaydancebenson283
      @kaydancebenson283 6 років тому +8

      Lollita Rose same

    • @ashnburt11
      @ashnburt11 6 років тому +6

      Lollita Rose me too

    • @elizabethnjj9655
      @elizabethnjj9655 6 років тому +16

      Don't u can do way better

    • @tamiabailey4868
      @tamiabailey4868 6 років тому +4

      You can do it

    • @country_footsteps
      @country_footsteps 6 років тому +148

      elizabeth njj Swerve. Those girls are working hard and getting money. They can have nights where they don't make money and work harder than you. OR they have good night's and make more than you in 2 weeks. I am not a stripper but damn. Girls that do, respect their hustle.
      They aren't selling themselves. They don't have to sleep with their clients. All because some do, doesn't mean every girl does. She can be sexy, and classy, work for money and go home, they make it a JOB.
      Selling yourself is called prostitution and that's illegal.

  • @lovely4013
    @lovely4013 6 років тому +37

    This is so transparent! Lawd like I’ve been dancing on an off since I was 19 . I’ve always worked a job or two and danced. It’s just so rare to find other dancers with this mindset . I’ve stayed away from dancing lately for the health of my personal relationships. But I definitely get the occasional pole withdrawal 😂 I couldn’t help but subscribe tho your beyondddd relatable ! Love it ! 🔥

  • @melaninmya8511
    @melaninmya8511 7 років тому +920

    LMFAOOOO " come down an audition? You mean interview ? Kind of job is this " 😂😂😭😭 I'm weak asf

    • @hon3ybuds
      @hon3ybuds 7 років тому +58

      She was quoting lmao😂😂😂

    • @Babyduzzit
      @Babyduzzit 7 років тому +25

      Exotica Mixed i think you took this too far up the ass, she was quoting

    • @gabriellpognon8433
      @gabriellpognon8433 7 років тому +1

      Melanin Mya Stripping?Showing off bodies to perverted men?

  • @suzettemarian
    @suzettemarian 6 років тому +1251

    Girlllll I feel like I just talked on the phone with you 😂 #heybestieee

  • @DoingNadii
    @DoingNadii 6 років тому +163

    I’m very comfortable with my body walking around naked or just bra in panties but I don’t think I could be a dancer but I would settle to be a bartender at a strip club or anywhere

    • @glory2hisname1
      @glory2hisname1 6 років тому +6

      Indecisive Nadii girl did u see some of them bodies in her go to work with me video? Not body shaming anybody but I bet u good!

    • @deniawiseone95
      @deniawiseone95 6 років тому +3

      or a house mama...l was thinking the same thing.

    • @bbydoll6680
      @bbydoll6680 5 років тому

      Doing Nadii u go girl!! 💕

    • @madelineasmr926
      @madelineasmr926 3 роки тому +1

      That’s also a good job that makes lots of $$$

    • @DoingNadii
      @DoingNadii 3 роки тому

      @@madelineasmr926 sis you know any places in Houston Texas I’ll love to try

  • @rivieradreamz2809
    @rivieradreamz2809 7 років тому +489

    I work in Texas at Dollhouse. This is probably the only club you will work at were all the girls laugh and have fun in the locker room and help eachother make money. They're always welcoming to the new girl and of course Occasionally it's some petty shit that goes on but not like other clubs.

    • @doryhill3828
      @doryhill3828 7 років тому +15

      Riviera's World girl I'm trying to work there too you think you can help me out ??

    • @rivieradreamz2809
      @rivieradreamz2809 7 років тому +15

      Dory Hill Yeah just come fill out a application if you live in Texas .

    • @doryhill3828
      @doryhill3828 7 років тому +2

      Riviera's World I do I stay In mesquite

    • @doryhill3828
      @doryhill3828 7 років тому +2

      Riviera's World and are they judging on the girls

    • @rivieradreamz2809
      @rivieradreamz2809 7 років тому +5

      Dory Hill I think you'll be better off working at a club in Dallas cause it's closer plus your possibly of making more money bc it's a big city. If you want to work at Dollhouse it's going to be almost a 3 hr drive.

  • @tenayakrill98
    @tenayakrill98 6 років тому +152

    Girl your brows are sooooo perfect

  • @khanyisilentsizwane8018
    @khanyisilentsizwane8018 6 років тому +54

    Never been a dancer but I also TOTALLY HATE the twisting nipples thing!! I hate it so much!! 😧😧😧

  • @DarkandlovelyB
    @DarkandlovelyB 7 років тому +304

    From experience... it’s NOT for the weak. It will break you down, but you gotta be able to keep grounded. One thing about energy... it can’t be created or destroyed. Just know that.

    • @CrystalMariah
      @CrystalMariah 6 років тому +6

      DarkandlovelyB I agree..

    • @ashnburt11
      @ashnburt11 6 років тому +3

      Real shit

    • @YleneP
      @YleneP 6 років тому +1

      Is this the customers that make the job this way

  • @giannavicenttin
    @giannavicenttin 6 років тому +423

    I strip at SinRock in Oregon and the environment is amazing. The dancers are all so nice to each other and there’s really no drama it’s kinda crazy, but so nice

    • @caileymurphy4862
      @caileymurphy4862 6 років тому +16

      Gianna Vicenttin sign me up! Haha but for real. They seem to understand eachother. Maturity is the best thing in people. Professionalism

    • @honeymilano447
      @honeymilano447 6 років тому +7

      Lol crazy I dance at golden dragon there is drama but thats only if you really attract it

    • @jennifermami2580
      @jennifermami2580 6 років тому

      huGianna Vicentehhhh

    • @annacompton6262
      @annacompton6262 6 років тому +2

      Oasis in Atlanta Georgia has the sweetest girls I've ever met.

    • @Abcdri
      @Abcdri 6 років тому +3

      Gianna Vicenttin do y’all know know a good one in Washington state 😭😭

  • @queenb2713
    @queenb2713 6 років тому +67

    Almost did it but my dad called me the day I was going and told me not to dance...I was so shocked about it bcuz I was like how did he know...but I always had respect strippers.. it's a job...why judge someone on their job...

  • @jesdoh1683
    @jesdoh1683 6 років тому +276

    There's such a double standard! Everyone wants to party in the strip club but nobody wants to be publicly 'outed' as a stripper. Same with porn. People want to watch it but look down on porn stars & sex workers. 'The Butterfly Effect' is a fab podcast that deals with this too.

  • @joleasatrice3325
    @joleasatrice3325 6 років тому +777

    Your such a beautiful person I’m not a a dancer but you motivated me just to be a better me and go after what I want. Thank you so much 😍😍😍😘😘😘😘😘😘

  • @Kdannyst
    @Kdannyst 6 років тому +93

    If only stripping wasn't so taboo. Or if a lot of clubs, like the ones in my area, were not dirty. Like literally dirty. Clubs can be a classy place if owners run them accordingly. I respect women who are confident enough in their body to dance and who act like a woman, not like a high school brat. Strip clubs could do a lot better for their girls in my area...

  • @madisoniris1131
    @madisoniris1131 6 років тому +225

    this is dope. I respected this 100%

  • @blackveil_sixx
    @blackveil_sixx 6 років тому +80

    You are the MOST authentic and radiant woman I have watched on UA-cam. I’ve been considering dancing and the points that you talk about are so mature and wise, you’ve sold me on not just dancing but just being a better woman period. THANK YOU BEAUTY!

  • @luisbrooks9640
    @luisbrooks9640 6 років тому +58

    I think strippers are cool. Girl I can't compete with a stripper because I can't lift my self up on a pole . PS I remember when I was like 6-10 yrs old I would act like a stripper on a pole in the park. Stripper poles are easier to dance on then a park pole 😂😇

  • @latashadupas2436
    @latashadupas2436 7 років тому +248

    Glad to hear your story. Times do get hard and I be like, "I'M THIS CLOSE TO STRIPPING"! No judging here.

    • @68_al.468
      @68_al.468 7 років тому

      Latasha Dupas literally same

    • @jazzmenblack
      @jazzmenblack  6 років тому +2

      part 2!
      ua-cam.com/video/dW57jvcXsng/v-deo.html

    • @MsGlitterBombz
      @MsGlitterBombz 6 років тому +1

      Latasha Dupas I'm at the point right now 😂😂

    • @TheBlvck1
      @TheBlvck1 6 років тому

      Me right now

  • @ishellsea_
    @ishellsea_ 7 років тому +201

    Ain't no judgment over here sis, we all tryna eat 🤷‍♀️ one way or anymore.. the hustle real

    • @tyannahill4374
      @tyannahill4374 6 років тому +2

      Chelsea Lovee yass mama say that shit for the people in the back 😘

  • @sophiadavenport3959
    @sophiadavenport3959 6 років тому +285

    You changed my entire perception of women who are exotic dancers.

    • @Geneiveve
      @Geneiveve 6 років тому +1

      Patricia the booke
      She changed your perception about prostitution?
      Call it what it really is.

    • @dum6y69
      @dum6y69 5 років тому +5

      @@Geneiveve It's not prostitution sometimes....

    • @Geneiveve
      @Geneiveve 5 років тому +1

      Sabrina Rouse
      It’s all prostitution. Sexual acts ..can include many things...using sex ..erotica.,it’s all sex.
      Please don’t try to sugar coat it. Call it what it is.

    • @dum6y69
      @dum6y69 5 років тому +26

      @@Geneiveve Exotic Dancer-A stiptease dancer
      Prostitute-A person who engages in sexual activity(sex) for money
      They're NOT the same thing.

    • @Geneiveve
      @Geneiveve 5 років тому

      Sabrina Rouse
      Strippers will have sex for money if the price is right. They don’t turn down money. Are you that naive? Seriously. The name of the game is money.
      There is no such thing as a classy stripper. Lol
      Stripping involves sex, drugs and money.
      Have you ever heard the reality show strippers NYA Lee talk about how she had orgies and had sex with rappers. Cardi B and strippers who worked with her acknowledged her cocaine use and sex. Do you think those guys and girls are throwing up ones for nothing. Those strippers have to do all kinds of nasty degrading things to get those stacks.
      You must be very young to not know these things. Money controls strippers.
      Stripping is very dangerous and it’s not glamorous.

  • @z0mbi3peach46
    @z0mbi3peach46 6 років тому +15

    Girl, I respect that hustle so much, this is the first video I'm seeing on your channel and you just made my shitty day a little bit more enjoyable. It was admirable and inspiring. I will never understand why people get so personally offended by the actions of complete strangers or an acquaintance who barely knows you because they purposely ignored you for as long as you've known them. If you aren't paying my bills, putting food on the table, clothes on my back and a warm, safe place for me to lay my head down on at night, don't tell me who and/or what I do. If it doesn't directly hurt you or someone else, what is the issue? You aren't directly affected by the way I live my day to day life, what job I choose to work, who I have a romantic interest or relationship with. Just no, I can't stand that mess.
    of the sudden you're attractive to them because you sexy as hell and they're kicking themselves in the ass for the high school shit.

  • @janessaguy6431
    @janessaguy6431 7 років тому +212

    its honest work .i dont judge anyone. atlease you not stealing

    • @jazzmenblack
      @jazzmenblack  6 років тому

      part 2!
      ua-cam.com/video/dW57jvcXsng/v-deo.html

    • @jazzmenblack
      @jazzmenblack  6 років тому

      part 2!
      ua-cam.com/video/dW57jvcXsng/v-deo.html

    • @nessaluu4949
      @nessaluu4949 6 років тому

      Omg my name is spelled the exact same way!

  • @piashadononfroy1261
    @piashadononfroy1261 6 років тому +39

    2019 TALK SHOW HOST. OR BETTER YET AN INSPIRATIONAL SPEAKER AS WE SPEAK LITERALLY. BEAUTIFUL STORY BABY GIRL.

    • @jazzmenblack
      @jazzmenblack  6 років тому +1

      Thank you

    • @piashadononfroy1261
      @piashadononfroy1261 6 років тому

      JAZZMEN BLACK YOU ARE SO WELCOME I ENTERTAIN THAT LIFE STYLE AS WELL GIRL YOU HAVE ME IN TEARS. PREACH SIS

  • @EloraJean
    @EloraJean 6 років тому +640

    I was soooo happy when she fixed her choker lmao

  • @leslies6387
    @leslies6387 6 років тому +32

    Hands down this is the best stripping advice video ever ❤️ she explained everything so clear . She went through everything that we needed to know . Let’s take a moment to appreciate this and her beauty ❤️❤️

  • @6ixdaphnevlogs459
    @6ixdaphnevlogs459 6 років тому +56

    I got toooo comfortable watching this 😂😂 damn near felt like you were in my room with me sitting on my bed talking to me about this 😭😂😂 I’m so glad I came across your channel definitely subscribing & look forward to watching more 💛🙂

  • @callmekells802
    @callmekells802 7 років тому +420

    What a classy woman. I respect you.

    • @jazzmenblack
      @jazzmenblack  6 років тому +1

      part 2!
      ua-cam.com/video/dW57jvcXsng/v-deo.html

    • @jazzmenblack
      @jazzmenblack  6 років тому +1

      part 2!
      ua-cam.com/video/dW57jvcXsng/v-deo.html

    • @Babychicken_22
      @Babychicken_22 6 років тому +11

      Classy stripper?😭

    • @nwamama7101
      @nwamama7101 6 років тому +5

      MALIKA E You sound stupid with you patriarchal ideology.

    • @crystalquintanilla5598
      @crystalquintanilla5598 6 років тому +4

      Classy??? Thats classy , to you ?? SomeOne who exposes thereself to unknown people shows off there parts ? Thats classy ? Damn this generation is really messed up

  • @Brimarieddddddddd
    @Brimarieddddddddd 6 років тому +118

    2008 was probably a lit time to strip because it was more taboo and less like a trend now people go to strip club as a club or to just take snapchats instead of throwing money 🙄🙄

    • @xxelegentlavenderxx
      @xxelegentlavenderxx 6 років тому

      add me on snapchat = sike

    • @kailabush3152
      @kailabush3152 5 років тому

      Every club I have gone to in Phoenix now is DEAD Saturday at 1130 one guy at bat and a girl in slippers on stage 👀 when I was dancing 2010/13 it was crazy idk how girls make money here now that’s why I left the clubs were never what I thought they should be here in az but what I saw a few weeks ago was just a joke Nevada was much better and Texas

  • @aubriannrivera4235
    @aubriannrivera4235 5 років тому +70

    Being a stripper isn’t bad at all. Heard from this one girl that she makes like what 10k a night?? It was a club in ATL but still. Call them what you want, they making more than you🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @Mimiroo
      @Mimiroo 3 роки тому +1

      @MrThuglife404 wow who spit in your cereal? No need to be nasty

    • @Mimiroo
      @Mimiroo 3 роки тому +1

      @MrThuglife404 no truth at all, you're just an asshole

    • @Mimiroo
      @Mimiroo 3 роки тому +2

      @MrThuglife404 don't need to be mad when I get to be surrounded by beautiful strong women. I'm a competitive pole dancer so I respect those around me, and also lol of course I like strippers. WHO DOESN'T?

    • @Mimiroo
      @Mimiroo 3 роки тому +2

      @MrThuglife404 You do realize that pole fitness is a sport just like ballet and gymnastics. I've never stripped but I train with girls who do. Pole does not equal stripper, educate yourself

    • @Mimiroo
      @Mimiroo 3 роки тому +1

      @MrThuglife404 I work in an office....how are you this misinformed and so fucking stupid 🙄🙄🙄

  • @dcardoso3342
    @dcardoso3342 6 років тому +113

    I love your energy. You should do a TEDtalk

  • @asiacoleman2289
    @asiacoleman2289 7 років тому +67

    Getting fired 4 pizza toppings is so fuckin stupid. Like come on. But at least u makin more money than anyone at Little Caesars ever will GORGEOUS!!!!

  • @lonjemariesfashions5117
    @lonjemariesfashions5117 5 років тому +1

    I applaud your transparency, this takes tremendous courage..One of the biggest signs that you are going to be very very wealthy is if you are action oriented , just like YOU , they started very very young. You’re a businesswoman, EXCELLENT!!

  • @delilahmirey7928
    @delilahmirey7928 6 років тому +19

    “I treat myself like so because I like how I am and because I know my worth” loved that thing you said! Cheers to that good definition!👏 and thanks so much for the video also!! ❤️ so complete!

  • @CherryPotPi3
    @CherryPotPi3 6 років тому +161

    Lips had me hypnotized

  • @king_._titania
    @king_._titania 4 роки тому +5

    I know this video is from 2017 but it's INCREDIBLY engaging and really well done. You did a fantastic job making this video, honest to goodness this is genuinely high quality.

  • @emaricashwell7469
    @emaricashwell7469 7 років тому +391

    I'D LOVE TO SEE A PART II !!

  • @jazzmenblack
    @jazzmenblack  6 років тому +1413

    Part 2 cominggggggggg

    • @T.House98
      @T.House98 6 років тому +4

      JAZZMEN BLACK This is a great video. I love your prospective on this. You changed my perception. You are amazing.

    • @ItsMariahDude
      @ItsMariahDude 6 років тому +10

      Can we talk about your Ombre lip tho? It's looks amazing!😍😍😍

    • @da1ulov2b
      @da1ulov2b 6 років тому +3

      How did your family treat you after they found out?? .. and i'm sorry i'm just now moving to the city and yeah .. i usually come from a small ass town in southdakota LOL nobody has a open mind here

    • @jazzmenblack
      @jazzmenblack  6 років тому +2

      Charz Maraj ua-cam.com/video/P9OtUkUs4IA/v-deo.html

    • @da1ulov2b
      @da1ulov2b 6 років тому +1

      LOL i ment now a days do they treat you any different

  • @emiemi6992
    @emiemi6992 6 років тому +14

    Middle school changed me but I don’t treat other people like shit or bully people cuz I don’t want them to feel or go through the same shit I went through 💯💯

  • @beccalynn239
    @beccalynn239 7 років тому +245

    Sometimes I think I should just be a stripper lol, then I remember I'm like 30 pounds over weight and have anxiety lol

    • @lilaw2757
      @lilaw2757 7 років тому +4

      Becca Lynn lmao true story!

    • @anita2293
      @anita2293 6 років тому +19

      Same..except I am like 5 kg underweight and I have small boobs...Nobody would want to watch this

    • @Armaldo468
      @Armaldo468 6 років тому +21

      And that, ladies, is why society sucks smelly ass. You SHOULD be able to do what you want. I'm sure you're each quite attractive, yet society's bullshit standards shun both body types. It pisses me off to no end! You should hear some of the furious rants I've been known to go on about such things.

    • @beccalynn239
      @beccalynn239 6 років тому +3

      Armaldo468
      That was the most sweetest thing I've read that someone's commented on UA-cam lol
      You're absolutely correct

    • @Armaldo468
      @Armaldo468 6 років тому +1

      Becca Lynn Thank you. I try. Mostly I just speak from pure emotion; I honestly get so…so triggered (for lack of a better word) by all the bullshit standards and shaming. It's like my "brother" (it's complicated) once said in response to some stupid commercial for some sort of diet pill or fitness product or something, I don't remember exactly what it was. He basically summarized the ad with, "You're not hot if you don't use our product." He nailed it right on the head! That's exactly what these bastards try to say! I really wish you could see the hostile way I always react to this one billboard I sometimes see that says, "If you can squeeze it, we can freeze it!" Like, excuse me?! *insert string of angry profanity* I would probably make a bunch of rant videos, except I don't have the equipment or the courage. I'm super awkward in the spotlight.
      I have pretty much endless things to say about stuff like this. If you'd like to chat and be friends with me on other social media, I'd be glad to. (I have Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and Snapchat) I always enjoy making new friends. Just let me know. That sounds so cheesy and rehearsed, but I don't know how else to address it. Oh look, I'm rambling. Crap. Sorry.

  • @RivaTheDiva
    @RivaTheDiva 7 років тому +341

    I’m 30 wishin I could make that money lol I work corporate and though money good I’m still struggling - this video makes me contemplate my career I bout to be y’all Locker room Mom

    • @msbreebree84
      @msbreebree84 7 років тому +10

      RivaTheDiva Girl me too 😂

    • @lovelydaniel8083
      @lovelydaniel8083 6 років тому +33

      CHILE , I KNOW THIS WOMAN WHO STARTED DANCING AT 40(but that was in 95) She lost her job as a loan officer.....Lets just say , she's in the front cover of a adult magazine called " Black Tail".....Theres hope

    • @RivaTheDiva
      @RivaTheDiva 6 років тому +8

      lovely Daniel girl seee u bout to have me leave my job lol 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @shadae68
      @shadae68 6 років тому +3

      Our Housemom lol

    • @IZionDawta
      @IZionDawta 6 років тому

      Do dat shit!

  • @hs-zv4yp
    @hs-zv4yp 6 років тому +128

    What an icon

  • @YoSoyRochelle
    @YoSoyRochelle 7 років тому +15

    I can not tell you how much I appreciate this video. The picture you painted was so real and I think it's important for girls who are thinking of dancing to understand that there's more to it than just the money and that it's super easy to get caught up. I also love how you kept it real and how unapologetic you work. Keep slaying Queen xx

  • @1honestlove
    @1honestlove 7 років тому +176

    I am proud of you my niece ... remember your dance on my leg...smh goofy and silly I love u

  • @agathadolan362
    @agathadolan362 6 років тому +3

    I just found your channel and I have to honestly say you should really consider becoming a motivational speaker! You speak very eloquently and intelligent but down to earth and wise and interesting. You captivate your audience and make them want to listen to you. Keep up the uplifting advice!

  • @KHALIL-dx1ze
    @KHALIL-dx1ze 6 років тому +120

    I'm an 18 yr old boy and I've​ learned something from this vid

  • @missrosee2709
    @missrosee2709 7 років тому +128

    She is such a sweet person.

    • @jazzmenblack
      @jazzmenblack  6 років тому +1

      part 2!
      ua-cam.com/video/dW57jvcXsng/v-deo.html

  • @foreverpink352
    @foreverpink352 6 років тому +6

    I look at this video at least 4 times a month. Especially when I'm omw to work. It's inspiring and motivational to watch.

  • @squanchreb54
    @squanchreb54 6 років тому +66

    I never watched a so well spoken and smart women talk and educate so well. You are gorgeous wow🌸👏💐

  • @margueritestjarna3547
    @margueritestjarna3547 7 років тому +166

    Is she made of gold? I believe so

  • @chrissie204
    @chrissie204 5 років тому +4

    I love how real you are. This is a solid video all the way around.

  • @NashvilleBraids
    @NashvilleBraids 6 років тому +200

    I love this video. I don't think I know a girl who hasn't thought about dancing at some point!

  • @EbonyNicolee
    @EbonyNicolee 7 років тому +154

    Damn that last part 😔 getting caught up n the money & being a mean girl would b my biggest problems

    • @jazzmenblack
      @jazzmenblack  6 років тому +2

      part 2!
      ua-cam.com/video/dW57jvcXsng/v-deo.html

    • @amber5910
      @amber5910 6 років тому

      pretty_ebcole same

  • @napa2981
    @napa2981 5 років тому +3

    I’m an extremely judge mental “church bitch” but I’ve found a tremendous level of respect and admiration for you. You’re an anomaly I think. I don’t believe many women who strip are as grounded and confident as you. Kudos

  • @boojieratchettv2932
    @boojieratchettv2932 6 років тому +278

    I’m not a dancer but you have great realistic advice

  • @allio7342
    @allio7342 6 років тому +617

    DAMN ur skin looks amazing what foundation r u wearing

    • @kenyettavlogs3487
      @kenyettavlogs3487 6 років тому +9

      Alli O is she wearing foundation #theblendisreal

    • @nrobes1894
      @nrobes1894 6 років тому +3

      Alli O maybelline matte & poreless

    • @lolojopp
      @lolojopp 5 років тому +2

      I think her skin is perfect, see no foundation

  • @plasticskeleton4108
    @plasticskeleton4108 5 років тому

    You are a true inspiration. You don’t let the haters bring you down and you do what you love. You are also super honest and real. The world needs kind and confident people like you.

  • @SydneeLoveee
    @SydneeLoveee 6 років тому +178

    Girl, I would have been begging them to throw him out like "GUARD!"

  • @lleturno
    @lleturno 7 років тому +12

    You are so wise, sister. I absolutely loved watching this. I've been stripping for 5 years and really related to everything you said. Props to you for speaking your truth so eloquently.

  • @annamurillo7498
    @annamurillo7498 6 років тому +3

    You just won me over with your morals! For what you stand for!! 👏👏👏

  • @NewFreeMixtape
    @NewFreeMixtape 7 років тому +109

    It's cool to hear why and how women in the mix feel about being in the mix.

    • @jazzmenblack
      @jazzmenblack  7 років тому +6

      yeah the what i wanted to show...

    • @jazzmenblack
      @jazzmenblack  6 років тому

      part 2!
      ua-cam.com/video/dW57jvcXsng/v-deo.html

  • @ageybb3535
    @ageybb3535 7 років тому +46

    Gurrrrl fuckin i was so into this video lol bitch i felt like we was sittin down havin coffee together anyways do u boo u are gorgeous, clearly an intelligent woman and fuckin DO YOU DO NOT LISTEN TO THE FUCKIN HATERS GIRL ❤ love u boo, keep it up.

  • @lydialydia235
    @lydialydia235 6 років тому +2

    By far this is the realest video I've watched on UA-cam/ internet, THANK YOU FOR YOUR HONESTY SIS.

  • @blackbeautytv1668
    @blackbeautytv1668 6 років тому +177

    New Subbie. I must say u are one stripper that got your head on straight and have respect for yourself that's rare especially where I'm from. Your story help others that doesn't get it, that it that all strippers aren't rachet or lost. I'm sure it was hard to share your story so thanks for doing so 💜💜💜💜

  • @OyBella
    @OyBella 6 років тому +20

    Your personality and mindset is absolutely beautiful. 💞

  • @BrittAnarVlogs
    @BrittAnarVlogs 4 роки тому

    I love that you took something that is considered shameful and a last resort for many and you used it become successful and you are empowered. You’re smart. You’re a hustler and I respect that.

  • @kdg143
    @kdg143 6 років тому +62

    You seem like a decent person and very mature

  • @straightheat1
    @straightheat1 7 років тому +300

    I lost my car today and thought about dancing cause it’s quick .. I get on UA-cam and boom you pop up. Not sure if I can handle that type of life though and plus I ain’t got no ass. 😭

    • @tyreneshavickers8909
      @tyreneshavickers8909 6 років тому +59

      Dashj'a girl u don’t need an ass. Just have to know how to work it 💁🏽‍♀️

    • @ToriUptown
      @ToriUptown 6 років тому +143

      Dashj'a my faves are the girls with no ass! lol i tip them more bc i feel like they working harder 😭😂

    • @LivingwiththeLongwas
      @LivingwiththeLongwas 6 років тому +2

      Wow

    • @vminhope3040
      @vminhope3040 6 років тому +1

      TheUptownGrrl lmao

    • @ashnburt11
      @ashnburt11 6 років тому +1

      Lmao

  • @michulafrance117
    @michulafrance117 6 років тому +5

    Love your honesty! You made me think a lot more about girls in this profession and that huge negative stigma around it. That’s true, celebrity lifestyle ain’t real.

  • @libraharris6594
    @libraharris6594 7 років тому +288

    Ohh gurl that lipstick~!!

  • @KP-uw7bp
    @KP-uw7bp 6 років тому +937

    Chef by day and stripper by night😂😂

  • @ariellecollins9737
    @ariellecollins9737 5 років тому

    U are authentic and genuine. U are humble and kind. Your advices are positive. U care about others. And u are smart about your money. 👏

  • @kellikall
    @kellikall 6 років тому +13

    your way of seeing life is exactly like mine! so refreshing to hear someone else say what I'm thinking

  • @ColeeSmiless
    @ColeeSmiless 6 років тому +13

    Definitely gained a subscriber, you’re clearly genuine and down to earth. Much respect.

  • @AmazingSoulJay
    @AmazingSoulJay 6 років тому +18

    I'm just seeing your videos but you have a good heart and are well-grounded. You're right. Don't let the $ change you. The same thing/environment you describe is my environment as a bartender. We joke sometimes and say that a successful bartender is skilled at entertaining. Truth is, some of us are just strippers in minimum clothing.

  • @iiANCE343
    @iiANCE343 7 років тому +405

    stripper tips video request

    • @jazzmenblack
      @jazzmenblack  7 років тому +61

      got you love!

    • @brendalorenz7359
      @brendalorenz7359 6 років тому

      JAZZMEN BLACK yes!

    • @brendalorenz7359
      @brendalorenz7359 6 років тому

      elizabeth njj stop commenting that on every post you weird low life working as a slave at a company is no better or making nothing at mcdonald’s move on bitch