Toxic people often thrive on drama and emotional reactions. Maintain your composure, avoid getting drawn into arguments, and don't take their behavior personally.
My dad drinks a lot....he doesn't harm us directly but yesh we get insulted very often and even doesn't feel good fir him ...i had a very serious fight with hin and said several times to him to leave drinking but he is still yhe same I feel stuck with him ....and even my belief in god is also shaken....that what did i did that I'm seeing these things today But this video gave a big relief.❤ Hope he realise these things and be a. Better person ....a better dad.... manifesting all the positive energy for him❤ Thank you Major KP❤ love your videos
I’m partially agree with your opinion regarding forgiveness and ignore. I know some toxic people turns more violent when you will remain silent and start ignoring their bad temper or behaviour. They will provoke you to say or to do something to be satisfied. What’s the solution for those situations?? Just keeping mum would not work and those creatures will never change even if you say them politely. Anyway I don’t have any boss as I run my own company based in New York and London but I feel very pity for those people who everyday being molested by their crazy boss. Regarding family toxicity it’s no less than office culture rather sometimes level of toxic culture is far more in home than someone’s office or outer life. In my opinion it’s always better to say tata bye bye after few sessions of forgiveness and never keep any connection even they could be our parents till they realise their own faults in true manner. Again thanks God I’m all alone and extremely happy without a single toxic person in my life. Thanks for bringing up this type of serious issues . I’m your subscriber and I respectfully watch your most of the video which are unique in nature and I respect your simplicity in your video. Regards for you 🙏
I'm also politely ignoring and removing myself away from a toxic person but she has become more violent and is constantly abusing and provoking me to start a fight. My only option now is to move away to another place.
maine aaj tak yt pe bahut sari video dekhi but 1st time mujhe lag rha jo mujhe chahiy vo mil rha 😊 and mujhe bahut relax feel ho rha... you are like elder sister.. love you di your videos really add values in our life...thnk u😍
Thank you mam ❤ if i would found you 3 years ago 👀 however, now you are with me take love ❣️ from your little sister. your every video increase my confidence level 🙏 you are inspiration 💕
Mujhe aapki baatein bahat achhi lagti hai.. whenever i listen to you, i just feel motivated and elated.. ek positive vibe saa aata hai aako dekh ke sun ke ❤❤
एक गंभीर समाजिक मुद्दे पर संवाद का प्रस्तुतीकरण दीदी बहुत बढ़िया है किसी भी बच्चे के भीतर मूल्यों के विकास में परिवार, शिक्षा संस्थाएं व समाज की भुमिका होता है। हालांकि बच्चे जन्म के समय ना तो वे समाजिक, ना ही असमाजिक व समाज विरोधी होते हैं वे समाज से तटस्थ होते हैं। और समाजिकरण कि प्रकिया के तहत समाज से तटस्थ बच्चे को समाजिक बनाने की एक प्रकिया है।
different people had different experienced , at first i was like you ,thought like why would it,s need to give attention to this kind of people, this was my big 1st and last mistake, they took your silence in weakness, they crossed their limits sucked your energy, tried to make your life miserable ,keeping silent is not going to work for long term, here how i dealt with them in real life , without reacting , with dominating body language , without raise voice , with strong eye contact , with bitter but wise words with in one sentence, i walk away with slight smile(being unbottered ) obviously never stepped in arguing with them, several time they feel ashamed , but within one week they repeat the cycle coz this kind of people have no self respect , i kicked at their weakness point again . and when there a times comes , they stay in their limits. but there is nothing wrong to change places , to change atmosphere , if conditions are extremes , for self growth healthy atmosphere is very compulsory .coz its impacts at your mind a lot .
Thanx a ton ma'am for this video..i was going through similar situation ...someone said me harsh words...i was also frustrated and said bad words jo ki nhi sahi tha becoz i was hurt by his words...but now i m realizing ...mujhe nhi react krna tha at that time... maine sekha,, aaage se i will try to implement myself..thankyouu soo much ma'am...u r the great😊❤
Litterelly it works believe me apne bhut ache se msg convey kiya hai we all are facing all these things and can relate about situation and solutions thankyou Maam for such amazing content lots of love ❤
Humein pata hein humne bohot jaga sein sikha tha kii toxic kogo ko ignore kare par tab kiya kare jab woh rozana aishi ulti sidhi baatein kareen hamare bhare mein, har koi mentally itna strong nahi hota kii har bhar khud ke bhare mein bhala bura sunkar bhi chup reh jaye.Thanks ❤
Mam today you have made VIDEO on tht topic which I have felt... And before watching it I was thinking about a similar kind of situation you have told in it.... This video is a sign.. and a solution also thankyou mam❤😊 and God bless you
Kindly make video on what opportunities lie in defence sector for girls.... Not just joining armed forces, but defence technology, cyber warfare. Breaking down narrative threatening law and order...etc... hope you can share your insightful wisdom on the same 🙏
Bahar waalo KO to hum ignore Kar bi de but jab ghar me hi aapke mom aapko rooj bura bhala kahe to unko aap kab tak maaf Karo .. Unke saath hum Bach pan se rahte hai .. Unki kahi gyi haar baat dil pe lagti hai .. Hum kaise unki baato KO ignore kare jab Wo khud hi hamre liye personal hai .. Sorry di agar aap ye padh rahi ho but i am not able to do things that you have said .. ❤❤❤ love you
Since I got failed in my previous examinations It seems like that the whole world also my family members criticize me When they got chance to they bullied me continuously I think they enjoy it..😢 But only my parents understands me and support me But my grandfather literally said to me Ki tujhse ye kabhi pass nhi hoga😢 He always demotivates me😢 . . Thanks didi for this topic 🙏❤️
Nice topic, I understand after mixing with my way be water in problem revolve,recall and restructure to the solution. And sometimes becoming a salt when noone take (use) toomuch for there taste 😅 only limited 😂.and try to multiply yourself with 0 when opponent provoke you😂❤
Toxic behavior can make you feel like you did something wrong, even when you know you didn’t. It’s tough to face attacks from someone who behaves in a toxic manner. They might get personal, try to twist your words, or accuse you of wanting to hurt them. At some point, you might even second guess yourself and rack your brain for something you might’ve done.But remind yourself their behavior has nothing to do with you. Restate your boundaries and try not to take their spite personally. Take deep breaths to calm yourself or mindfully acknowledge their words so you can let them go without being affected❤❤
Mam how you know this things in deep . Thanku mam i am highly influenced by your thoughts in each topic ,theirs always a new perspective to learn with you .i know i am good enough to change myself and always work towards its and yes i am also one of them who is fortunate enough that's find 😊😊you mam. Stay calm campoesd and blessed with good health and mind.love you you don't know how much love i hold within me for you mam its all because your genuiness and humbleness toward people that allow you to share your wisdom of thoughts with us .(You younger siblings).
Mam aapaka skin bahut fresh aur glowing dikhta h ........ek AAP apne skin care ka video bana dijiye n plzzz😁😁
Btaya hai unhone exercise karo ....
@@anshikakanak5188inko exercise nhi krna bss baithe baithe skin thik ho jaaye 😅
😂😂 ok i will try
Mackup k backup hai bhai😂
Filter..... 😅
Toxic people often thrive on drama and emotional reactions. Maintain your composure, avoid getting drawn into arguments, and don't take their behavior personally.
My dad drinks a lot....he doesn't harm us directly but yesh we get insulted very often and even doesn't feel good fir him ...i had a very serious fight with hin and said several times to him to leave drinking but he is still yhe same I feel stuck with him ....and even my belief in god is also shaken....that what did i did that I'm seeing these things today
But this video gave a big relief.❤
Hope he realise these things and be a. Better person ....a better dad.... manifesting all the positive energy for him❤
Thank you Major KP❤ love your videos
"Jahaan AApki Drishti jayegi....Vaahaan AApki Shrushti banegi"....This line I liked..Thankyou Major Saab.
. when I realized this...
जो भी होता है, हम को नहीं होता, हमारे लिए होता है.
Very powerful video.. Ma'am ,💥
Aapki baat hi alag hai 💥
thanks v much
Thank you mam ❤ me exactly yahi krta hu ignore krta hu unse behes nhi krta pr ye apne bilkul sahi kha inko ek kick milti h apke reaction se
I’m partially agree with your opinion regarding forgiveness and ignore. I know some toxic people turns more violent when you will remain silent and start ignoring their bad temper or behaviour. They will provoke you to say or to do something to be satisfied. What’s the solution for those situations?? Just keeping mum would not work and those creatures will never change even if you say them politely. Anyway I don’t have any boss as I run my own company based in New York and London but I feel very pity for those people who everyday being molested by their crazy boss. Regarding family toxicity it’s no less than office culture rather sometimes level of toxic culture is far more in home than someone’s office or outer life. In my opinion it’s always better to say tata bye bye after few sessions of forgiveness and never keep any connection even they could be our parents till they realise their own faults in true manner. Again thanks God I’m all alone and extremely happy without a single toxic person in my life. Thanks for bringing up this type of serious issues . I’m your subscriber and I respectfully watch your most of the video which are unique in nature and I respect your simplicity in your video. Regards for you 🙏
true thanks v much
I'm also politely ignoring and removing myself away from a toxic person but she has become more violent and is constantly abusing and provoking me to start a fight. My only option now is to move away to another place.
I am trying my best to ignore those toxic peoples but the thing is that is my some own family members and even sometimes i started crying also!!😢💔
U r so natural, it doesnt take time to connect with ur thoughts... instantly i can relate.and i understand ur videos
tony thanks
Exact point video mam.. loved it
a very nice life lesson to all those working in toxic environment also this defines that silence is the best answer for heated arguments
Well said
It is so easy to say, don't take it personally but in reality its far difficult not to take things personally its quite automatic. We all are human.
But time makes it easy ❤❤
You are such an inspiring soul ❤️
maine aaj tak yt pe bahut sari video dekhi but 1st time mujhe lag rha jo mujhe chahiy vo mil rha 😊 and mujhe bahut relax feel ho rha... you are like elder sister.. love you di your videos really add values in our life...thnk u😍
Thank you ma'am for providing us such great advices,it really helped me in my workplace..
It's my pleasure
Aapke andar knowledge bhut hai ....sachhi me 😮
I want to spend you whole day ...for getting so much experience
Always welcome
@@MajorKhushbooPatani
Sure ma'am
Thanks! Dealing with a lot of office politics lately.. i think fearlessness hi bachaa skti hn hume..
kunal thanks for your support
Thank you for giving us a grateful knowledge on different types of tropics ❤
So nice of you
Thank you so much for this clarity❤
Thankyou so much......I already unknowingly practice this.......glad for this ❤❤❤
Definitely dii we must never hate own ones.They are a major part of our lives❤😊
Thank you mam ❤
if i would found you 3 years ago 👀
however, now you are with me take love ❣️ from your little sister. your every video increase my confidence level 🙏 you are inspiration 💕
My pleasure 😊
Mujhe aapki baatein bahat achhi lagti hai.. whenever i listen to you, i just feel motivated and elated.. ek positive vibe saa aata hai aako dekh ke sun ke ❤❤
एक गंभीर समाजिक मुद्दे पर संवाद का प्रस्तुतीकरण दीदी बहुत बढ़िया है किसी भी बच्चे के भीतर मूल्यों के विकास में परिवार, शिक्षा संस्थाएं व समाज की भुमिका होता है। हालांकि बच्चे जन्म के समय ना तो वे समाजिक, ना ही असमाजिक व समाज विरोधी होते हैं वे समाज से तटस्थ होते हैं। और समाजिकरण कि प्रकिया के तहत समाज से तटस्थ बच्चे को समाजिक बनाने की एक प्रकिया है।
Ma'am your words were definitely needed for me right now 🙏🏻💞 I can't thank you enough
sattvic shine emanates from your eyes.
Mam you are like those guiding light for me who always try to lighten our path in the darkest night.
different people had different experienced , at first i was like you ,thought like why would it,s need to give attention to this kind of people, this was my big 1st and last mistake, they took your silence in weakness, they crossed their limits sucked your energy, tried to make your life miserable ,keeping silent is not going to work for long term, here how i dealt with them in real life , without reacting , with dominating body language , without raise voice , with strong eye contact , with bitter but wise words with in one sentence, i walk away with slight smile(being unbottered ) obviously never stepped in arguing with them, several time they feel ashamed , but within one week they repeat the cycle coz this kind of people have no self respect , i kicked at their weakness point again . and when there a times comes , they stay in their limits. but there is nothing wrong to change places , to change atmosphere , if conditions are extremes , for self growth healthy atmosphere is very compulsory .coz its impacts at your mind a lot .
we can always move out thats the biggest strength rather wasting our words on them . not worth it
You are literally beauty with brain❤
Your voice has that academy trained tone🎉
Thanx a ton ma'am for this video..i was going through similar situation ...someone said me harsh words...i was also frustrated and said bad words jo ki nhi sahi tha becoz i was hurt by his words...but now i m realizing ...mujhe nhi react krna tha at that time... maine sekha,, aaage se i will try to implement myself..thankyouu soo much ma'am...u r the great😊❤
My pleasure 😊
Simple way to deal toxic people - just ignore them like a barking dog 🐶😂
Litterelly it works believe me apne bhut ache se msg convey kiya hai we all are facing all these things and can relate about situation and solutions thankyou Maam for such amazing content lots of love ❤
It's my pleasure
@@MajorKhushbooPatani ✨💃
I love the quotes you share ❤
thanks
Very helpful video for me... Thanku thanku thanku mam 😊
Om shanti om
Wow, u stole my heart ❤️
God bless you..bht achhi lagi aapki batein❤
Thank you Mam ❤❤❤❤
Humein pata hein humne bohot jaga sein sikha tha kii toxic kogo ko ignore kare par tab kiya kare jab woh rozana aishi ulti sidhi baatein kareen hamare bhare mein, har koi mentally itna strong nahi hota kii har bhar khud ke bhare mein bhala bura sunkar bhi chup reh jaye.Thanks ❤
Thank you di etni achhe se motivate krne ke liye
Mam apko dekh se he motivation ki vibe ati hai
Mam today you have made VIDEO on tht topic which I have felt... And before watching it I was thinking about a similar kind of situation you have told in it.... This video is a sign.. and a solution also thankyou mam❤😊 and God bless you
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Each word of this vedio...have deep meaning..so nice mam...
Much needed video!❤️thank youuu❤️ i love your perspective 🫶
I'm so glad!
V good information ❤
Thanks you maam really apke videos bhut help krte h ❤❤❤love u maam
Mam i genuinely meet myself through your energy .
Love all your videos❤..aap kitni acche se samjhate ho baate..ese he aur video aap dalte rehna❤
ji
Thankyou So Much ❤❤
Kindly make video on what opportunities lie in defence sector for girls.... Not just joining armed forces, but defence technology, cyber warfare. Breaking down narrative threatening law and order...etc... hope you can share your insightful wisdom on the same 🙏
aapka samjhane ka tarika bahot achha hai
Thanks khush ji.luv u.take care.
Mam aapko dekh kr Mai kafi motivate hoti hu 😊
Thankyou so, much mam for your great opportunity to understanding the situation in our life...
Well said!!!🙌
Thank you ma'am❤🙏
Salute ha apko
Thanks lots maam❤
this was needed didi thankyou aj hi is toxicity se gaye hai khud pe frustration niklata hai
Mam please make a video on "Military routine or discipline which is most important for students"..
I'll definitely try these things in upcoming days & I believe that these things will work 🥰
So much helpful thanks. 😌
Live Safer and Let protect other Safer Lives.
Wonderful video ❤, thanks 😊😊😊
Thank you so much
Thank you so much I love your videos ❤
Your confidence and voice 💯💯 ❤
Major साहब = on point actionable suggestions है आपकी l
How you have acquired this in depth knowledge. Great respect for you and your knowledge...
Great sister 👍🏻
Thank u for choose this topic
My pleasure 😊
thanks mam 🙃
Most welcome 😊
Bahar waalo KO to hum ignore Kar bi de but jab ghar me hi aapke mom aapko rooj bura bhala kahe to unko aap kab tak maaf Karo .. Unke saath hum Bach pan se rahte hai .. Unki kahi gyi haar baat dil pe lagti hai .. Hum kaise unki baato KO ignore kare jab Wo khud hi hamre liye personal hai .. Sorry di agar aap ye padh rahi ho but i am not able to do things that you have said .. ❤❤❤ love you
Since I got failed in my previous examinations
It seems like that the whole world also my family members criticize me
When they got chance to they bullied me continuously
I think they enjoy it..😢
But only my parents understands me and support me
But my grandfather literally said to me
Ki tujhse ye kabhi pass nhi hoga😢
He always demotivates me😢
.
.
Thanks didi for this topic
🙏❤️
Pass hue kya bro ab 😶
@@hackstargaming1253 Abki baar fir se exam h 1 September
Ko
@@defencewarrior1341 kis chiz ka
@@hackstargaming1253 NDA
its ok vo sabkae boltae hai . unkae bolnae se kuch nahi hota ap karkse dikhao do . hoga ?
Very helpful vedio ❤
Apke samjhane ka tarika bahut acha h ❤😊
Very good highly appreciated ❤
Mam the moment you said om shanti❤......😊
Didi please if you can do a skin care routine jo bhi aap skin ke liya karte hai. Your skin looks so clear and glowy I want that too!
Thanks ma for such clarity, Jai Hind
Nice topic,
I understand after mixing with my way be water in problem revolve,recall and restructure to the solution. And sometimes becoming a salt when noone take (use) toomuch for there taste 😅 only limited 😂.and try to multiply yourself with 0 when opponent provoke you😂❤
Thanku so much di....
Radhe krishna thank you mem 🙏❤❤❤❤
apka bahut bahut dhanyawaad
Thanku so much sister...
I learned to much thing from this video... I Appreciate your content..
Next video on :- How to develop good personality.
Thanks🥂
Noted
@@MajorKhushbooPatani yes mam personality development pr ek video ho jaye
Yes sbsolute.
Toxic behavior can make you feel like you did something wrong, even when you know you didn’t.
It’s tough to face attacks from someone who behaves in a toxic manner. They might get personal, try to twist your words, or accuse you of wanting to hurt them. At some point, you might even second guess yourself and rack your brain for something you might’ve done.But remind yourself their behavior has nothing to do with you. Restate your boundaries and try not to take their spite personally. Take deep breaths to calm yourself or mindfully acknowledge their words so you can let them go without being affected❤❤
Well said major mam❤
Such a powerful and needed video...!!💯✨
thanks
कंडीशनिंग दो प्रकार से की जाती है एक Socialization And Social Control ( पुरस्कार/दंड) ।
Mam how you know this things in deep . Thanku mam i am highly influenced by your thoughts in each topic ,theirs always a new perspective to learn with you .i know i am good enough to change myself and always work towards its and yes i am also one of them who is fortunate enough that's find 😊😊you mam. Stay calm campoesd and blessed with good health and mind.love you you don't know how much love i hold within me for you mam its all because your genuiness and humbleness toward people that allow you to share your wisdom of thoughts with us .(You younger siblings).
thanks❤❤❤
Very helpful video..thank you so much ma'am!! ❤
Ap bohot achhe kam kar rahi ho👍🏽
Thank you🙏
And you started the video with most toxic person's quote !
nazariya ki baat hain
This was really helpful!
Super helpful video mam… Thank you so much ❤
Most welcome 😊
Hi mam all of your videos are very helpful for me. I've been following you for the last month. "I really wish to meet you in the future".😊
Sure 😊
Please mam , make a video on how to cope up with demotivation once after being distracted😢
Ma'am thanks for this video please keep ma'am such content 😊
Most welcome 😊
Your Best Video Till Date 💙
Thank you so much 😀
Please make a video on consistency mam🙏
🙏Thank You Ma'am