Stiffing a Girlfriend
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- Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
- The plaintiff used to be friends with the defendant. However, the plaintiff gave the defendant money for a few summer trips, but she hasn't paid it back, so the plaintiff is suing. The defendant argues the plaintiff begged her to go on the trips even though she informed her she couldn't afford it. The plaintiff knew she wasn't going to pay her back, so she shouldn't have paid for the trips if she wanted the defendant to come.
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Never loan money that you can’t afford to give. Never. It ruins relationships.
It it's a loan then it's supposed to be paid back. If it wasn't made clear that it was a loan then that's the fault of the plaintiff for not stating that. I wouldn't loan someone hundreds of dollars and take the loss because they assumed that it was a gift. I typically give away lower amounts to homeless people from time to time.
BINGO!!!!! That's what my dad taught me a LONG time ago when I was a kid.
great minds! that was my first thought.....don't lend the money.
Never loan money period. Never invest in someone else either. Keep your money.
@@BREEZYM6015 The point is not to make the loan in the first place. If you can give it, then give it. Loans ruin friendships. When the person making the loan asks for it back, the recipient almost always gets pissy about it.
If your friend says that she can't afford to pay for a trip believe her and don't force her to pay and go. Save yourself the agony.
Right especially that she did it twice
Lesson learned, hopefully ❤
So true
True that.😊
And the friendship.
Judge went from Proud of the lady to Pissed off at the lady😅😅
She was never proud… she was hating and took any opportunity to belittle her.
@MsBenitaButrell Hating my a$$. The defendant owes the money full stop. Smiling with you doesn't mean we are best friends. It's a court
I was cringing so bad at that too
Most "friends" will accept regular small payments instead of nothing at all. Pay $5 here, $20 there but MAKE AN EFFORT!
One time I had a friend ask me to go to San Diego comic con, I didn’t want to go because it’s way too many ppl, it’s really has nothing to do with comics etc, but he brought tickets with another friend and they had a falling out and he asked me to go because he didn’t want to go alone, after a few days I said fuck it and went, then he wanted me to pay for it and I was like bro I’m not paying for this I’m only here so I could basically hold your pops and posters
She had no intention to pay her back. Whenever means never.
@@lkain619Did you dress as Wonder Woman?
@@bash547 lol I wish I did. I used to go to comic con back in the day like 2003 when it wasn’t that big now it’s almost impossible to see everything the ticket prices are way too high, hotel rooms are always full. I was over it
@@lkain619That’s totally different, your friend would be out that money either way. It’s like when a friend couldn’t make it to a concert we bought tickets to and we agreed to give the other ticket away since there’s no refunds, and she agreed to offer to a mutual friend of ours bc better for me to have fun with another friend than waste the ticket and go alone. Like, if someone agrees to pay beforehand, sure, but it’s not fair to assume after the fact.
Seldom lend…never borrow…saves lots and lots of sorrow
I think you mean give not lend, but I understand you needed to make it rhyme
Among my friends and family, I don't lend. If I want to help, I give/gift. I f they pay me back, Great. If they don't, that's fine. I never give what I can't afford to be without
I don’t loan money to friends. I give it. If they take advantage we’re no longer friends. Problem solved.
Agreed! I was taught don't lend what you can't afford to loose.
The defendant should write a documentary to show us how to survive without a job 😂
It's not hard
Surviving on hard working tax payers money. Section 8, food stamps etc.
@@Msggggggggg That was rude…being black has nothing to do with eligibility for government assistance. The office in my town the majority is Russian. The man who owns the store across from me lies about his earnings so that he gets food stamps, and cash aid and he is Palestinian. Your comment was nasty and uncalled for. If you can’t get government assistance that’s no one else’s fault.
Living off of us people who actually work via government support.
@@cynthiaprice3528 honestly though it is a lot of blacks who take advantage of the system and say they are owed free living due to slavery.
Judge got bi-polar on this. lol
I came here to say this LOL She went from wanting to be friends with the defendant, to wanting to throw hands with her in the end 😂😂😂
i couldn't keep up with that quick changee!
😁😁 Judge be on that strong caffeine every episode
Yeah I agree. The lady said she's had some health issues in the past year reason why she wasn't working. I would like to know what the health issues were had the judge not gone bonkers on the lady. Lady still owes the money but it would have been good to know. 🧐
Shut up mb
Did the Defendant owe? Absolutely! Do I believe the Plantiff was a bit coercing, maybe saying things like "oh come on, you've gotta go, it's gonna be fun, don't worry about it, pay me later" and when the Defendant said "Nooo, wish I could, but I don't have the money," the Plantiff proceeded to "oohh come on ,come on" again?? Hell yes I believe she did that!
Nothing wrong with that. WE ALL do it all the time to our friends!! I convinced my friend to go to the casino and eventually i said, "look i'll spot, how much you want?" He said, $800, i said "koo, when you can pay me back, he said maybe in a month, i said koo. 1.5 months my friend back in full. When you're friends know they owe and don't want to pay you back, then they not you're friend.
I’m an only child too, and my parents always taught me *“Neither a borrower nor a lender be”,* not just for clothes, but for ANYTHING! I have never asked a friend to loan me a thing, and I never will. As for the plaintiff asking to borrow the defendant’s daughter’s prom dress, I’m not cool with that. Even if she DID wear your skirt, your skirt is just a skirt, whereas a prom dress is something special, so I can understand why she wouldn’t want to loan it. What grown person really goes around boring clothes from teenagers anyway? 😂
If the size fits a lot of ppl
Man, I just love those kind of life lessons from the old folk. So much wisdom behind a seemingly simplistic statement.
So she didn't have any money to pay her back....but she wanted to buy the skirt...
Ikr
THAT BUN WITH THE BUTTERFLY PIN LIKE SHE IN PRE-SCHOOL IS SENDING MEEEE! 🤣
the way she switched up was wild😂😂 like did something else happen that they edited out for her to turn on her like this. 😭😭😭😭
Congratulations to the defendant for losing 170 pounds. You look fantastic!!!!!
She should not be so desperate for a friend to pay for everything, knowing she can't afford it!
If the friend can't afford to pay for the trip whether she's desperate or not the friend should not go.
'Whenever' is right now, lady 😂
JM to the defendant is how I am with my kids. One minute we’re laughing, joking, and having a good time then the next I gotta morph back into the authoritative figure. We can laugh and joke but I’m still the boss. I like to have that balance.
It didn't JM long to go from adoring and showing the defendants picture to "you don't look, you should shut your mouth." Zero to sixty in less than 3 seconds.
Why are people ashamed to say they had gastric bypass surgery? I can almost guarantee that's how she lost the weight and the reason she now has medical issues.
I just wish people would be more transparent.
If she did lose it just by eating well and working out well then I'm the a-hole, but I very highly doubt it.
I knew someone who lied about having bariatric surgery, and I feel that doing so kinda gives overweight folks a false sense of hope.
There's nothing shameful in having surgery. I just wish people were more honest with themselves and others.
Yeah I know! I think she did the surgery too! That was what first came to mind.
Riiiiiight. I think it's because they know they took the easy road. I hate how people will clap when they say they had the surgery it's like dont clap 4them clap 4the surgeon
People lie to avoid being shamed. They don't want to hear that they took the easy way out, and they shouldn't have to. Why work harder when there's an option to work smarter? Either way who cares if they lie? Nobody is obligated to share their medical records with you.
@@ZovaBe People are also not obligated to go on national TV and look a fool, but go off!
We're so proud of you for losing 170. I would love to lose 150. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Damn!!! Judge Millian looked like she wanna throw hands with the defendant!!!
😂😂😂😂😂
Be funny if she did😂
That serious caffeine fix has Judge Milian going every single episode 😁😁
maybe that's acceptable in your household
LMAO
WOW. WONDERFUL B4 and afters pics.... amazing
Gastric surgery is what she did. Her friend didn't want to tell her secret 😊
That's exactly what I just commented as well. You can totally tell by how she was responding to the judge when asked about it.
I'm not sure why she is ashamed of it? Should everyone who has gone that route be ashamed? No. It honestly looks bad on her.
Hats off to the defendant that she had the drive and dedication to drop 170 pounds over two years.
CONGRATULATIONS on the weight loss! You’re dynamite!!!!!!
Her body looked fine either way. It’s who she is inside that counts. How you treat your friends and family is the only thing that matters. Hopefully she sees that and pays her friend back, soon. Not the day before she dies or better she’ll leave her $620 out of her life insurance policy, oh wait. Life insurance would mean she cares about others, and we know that’s not going to happen.
@@jameshuntsman6046I'm sorry, but her body did not look fine before. I bet never in your life have you intentionally tried to gain that much weight, and there's a reason you haven't
Idc what anybody says about the defendent she did that !!!!!! Losing all that weight is so good !!!!!! People don’t understand the consistency the mind set you have to have to lose weight like that !and she’ looks so young didn’t think she had a 15 year old
they have a weird friendship lol
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Chile it’s the butterfly clip for me ! 🤦🏾♀️
I cannot STAND folks like this. What does her not getting along with her family has to do with her trip?! You AGREED to pay, so, what is the problem?!
Pay the damn lady!
Im sorry but when she said “Im broke, I cant go,” the first 3 times, thats not code for “Ill have it later.” You cant decide to pressure her and offer to pay, then act surprised that she is too broke to pay you.
Its no different than women ignoring red flags when they date men. They be so desperate for love and attention they ignore the words coming out the person mouth and continue to pursue. That’s literally what happened here.
Money always ruin relationships/friendships
Whenever doesn’t mean forever
Judge Judy always says don't eat the steak if you can't afford it. That woman went on the trip and did not want to pay for it.
What the hell is up with judge. Seemed a little unhinged.
Exactly! The judge was a psychopath!😂
Nah she had a proud momma type moment with the weightloss then had to get back to judge mode......
@@Brandi.Alexandria Going from sweet to crazy… isn’t normal!🤦♀️
@elainevankat5353 she wasn't going crazy tho, unless you have a different definition of what going crazy is....to me she seemed irritated that the defendant felt entitled not to pay and a year passed......seemed she was trying to get the defendant to understand how ridiculous she was for that
Damn Doug..she gave you a detailed answer..accept it! Shes not a weight loss professional 🙄
I encountered people like the defendant always got their hand out and take take take
😂she couldn't afford to pay her friend? How much did those nails cost?😮
The judge got my anxiety up.... I don't even have anxiety issues!
I knew the judge had something coming for her when she gave her that compliment 😂
Girl should have just said no to the trips!!!!!
Neither a borrower nor a lender be...do not forget, stay out of debt....
Judge went from 0-100 real quick.
To be honest, I feel like people who allow others to borrow money from them and jobless, she not get repayment. You have no idea how long it will take to gain employment or if they will ever pay back. Lesson learned
I agree in part, the first time she fronted money and she did not pay any bad decision after that should have been written off . so she would only pay the first money owed, the rest is on the plaintiff.
JM let the defendant have it. All she had to do was pay a little here and there. She is not a true friend. What else did Doug want th3 defendant to say abt her weight loss lol he kept saying it's more to it than that. He must have a weight loss story too. Fair judgement
Never loan money you can't afford to lose and aren't willing to write off.
I'm doing you a favor by going on a trip with you.And you're footing the bill but remember it's a favor to you
"I didn't have it" but the judge just said to give a few dollars (called GOOD FAITH) and defendant still has no clue! NEVER EVER loan money to
anybody without a written agreement. ME? I never loan. I'd rather give to my close friends and not expect payment.
I kind of wonder if the Plaintiff OFFERED at least ONE trip to her friend as a GIFT for the defendants hard work in becoming healthy and feel good about herself 🤔
I appreciate the defendant bringing her skirt back on a hanger and not stuffed and wrinkled in a bag. She seems like a good friend. She has a problem with her leg and if she's having surgery she can't work. I think that if someone tells you that they can't afford it, don't press the issue of them going on an expensive trip with you. I never understand how people expect payments from someone who has no money. I would not have taken her on the trip because it's obvious that she can't afford it. The plaintiff seems like she has a lot more than the defendant, and she should've taken someone else. Oh! That's right...she couldn't because they weren't messing with her. I also agree that you should try and pay something if you owe someone. At least $20 here and there shows good faith. It's not good business if you don't. Now you can never borrow money if you ever need to. I say your word is your bond...so just try your best to honor your word.
People use their disabilities as an excuse not to handle their responsibilities 🙄
Congratulations to her surgeons. She aint ran not one mile
I have never asked a friend for a loan but I have had friends ask me if I’d loan them money. I always tell them I do not have any extra money to loan out. I’ve seen what happens when it comes to friendships & loans, never ends well!
Judge switched up on the defendant real quick. 😄
Damn...judge was on one today. Smh
Oh you did that, congratulations on the weight loss. That’s awesome 👏🏾 👏🏾
She wasn’t a good friend at all as soon as she heard “no” she turned into an angry mean girl
“You should shut your mouth very soon!” 🤣🤣🤣
Maaan, she could do youtube or zoom classes on how she lost the weight and make money that way, shes just being lazy
You don't know she's being lazy. She said she had some health issues and some kinda surgery. But the judge didn't let her finish speaking.
@@valariehunter5389 no excuses! She has the ability to go on trips, Make it make sense
@@YoungBlaze boy she's literally limping into court and is walking with a cane. Also just start up a class about losing weight, you really think you can go ahead and make piles of money like that on the internet from the start? How out of touch are you. Do you believe those commercials that play before youtube videos saying that you can start your own social media empire by following my simple 3 step plan...? Those ppl make money based on foolish people that believe that crap. Those social media ppl pay money to buy more views. They pay money to "fix" the algorithm to boost their presence on social media.Its not just a couple of bucks. Its 1000s of dollars. To even get up to be making money that can support themselves, they will need MILLIONS of subscribers.
Losing weight is not a special corner of the internet that has been untapped. There are countless fitness gurus on the internet. They have books to buy, zoom meetings, social media lives. And these people have to be remotely modelesque and crazy fit. This girl can barely walk. Like broooo be seriousss. Youre so out of touch. lol
She looks amazing! JM went postal on her though... sheesh!!
I agree with everything else that was said but for the judge to assume she’s able bodied by appearance is wrong. That’s equivalent to seeing a person who can walk with a handicap placard and assuming they’re not handicapped. She has no clue what that girls health issues are. I have my assumptions on her health issues but not for me to say nor for the judge to assume. She needs to deal in fact. Period.
We go to food eateries 🤔
😂😂😂
The plaintiff was being petty. You cannot fit in the daughters dress, or the daughter didn’t want to lend you her dress, so now you want the mom to pay for the trips that you knew she couldn’t afford. She’s being petty and she’s not a very good friend!
Stop lending these ppl money
Why do you keep doing the borrow money thing if you know you have issues with that. How does the defendant support herself if she doesn't work?????
I gave bus trips🤔girl everyone don’t understand hood slangs😂😂she didn’t even realised judge corrected her
If a friend ask me to borrow money I ask for collateral, something of greater value to hold until pay back. If they can't put up, I don't put out. Friends can turn into enemies pretty fast when it come to money. Keep a friend, say no.
So she has kids, pretty sure she had gastric bypass, and she hasn’t worked for over a year. Work harder taxpayers.
The defendant was making all of us only children look bad. I have no idea what that had to do with anything (in her bringing it up), but I can tell she was probably the “stereotype” that many of us were not…well I know I wasn’t spoiled 😅
The judge can be very rude
Where money starts, friendship ends.
Fake need for a cane
If you don't have it then don't go. A trip is a luxury and unless its 100% understood to be a gift then you are not entitled to go on somebody else's dime. Good friendships don't come along often and when money ruins one its a shame.
She made it seem like she was forced to go on the trip. If you know you don't have the money, doesn't work and wont pay it back anytime soon don't go on the trip. She thought pay back later meant anytime she wanted to.
Grown women wearing each others clothes? GROWN WOMEN?
So?
Good job and GOD BLESS THE DEFENDANT. ALWAYS BEAUTIFUL BUT NOW HEALTHY AND BEAUTIFUL ❤🙏
Amazing that the Defendant reached that weight loss goal. 👍
It's time get a job and stop living off of other people and making excuses.
Honestly, if someone said they can’t afford something don’t pester them… and the other be firm not to accept it
How is she paying her cell phone bill... does she eat...
She probably didn't have extra for luxury. That's why she didn't want to go on these trips and etc
You had money for that surgery though talking about she feel light 😅 yup just like them pockets
Yeah I flew straight to the comments when she said yeah you don’t even look good …
Team Milian!!!
plaintiff is a giver; the defendant is a taker! it wouldn’t have hurt her to let her friend borrow that dress?? her daughter had already wore it to the prom anyway…
Totally agree, but when you think about it she openly admitted her mom taught her to not borrow other peoples clothing so im sure thats why she did not lend the dress to her
The daughter was not willing to let her have it since she just wore it. Prom is a special time in teens life just like a wedding. Not the same as wearing an everyday dress or skirt.
Do not tell me she didn't get gastric bypass or some type of weightloss surgery. 170 lbs in 2 years, that is very difficult. No job, but does have all the time in the world to lose weight. Nah she spent money on those surgeries, but didn't have money to pay her back.
By the way, no shade to the surgeries she looks amazing! Just be honest
She was honest you sound jealous
@Lenasevilla-yb4ei 🤣 um no! Like I said though she is beautiful. My husband is a personal trainer. I know what it takes to lose that amount of weight. Just her response shows she didn't want to say what she did.
I don't care, just don't lie.
My thoughts exactly!
@@Web19814 but you’re not a personal trainer and everybody is different. I’ve personally known ppl to lose more weight than that in a year without surgery so her saying two years is way more than enough time.
@Lenasevilla-yb4ei Hey if you're going do the work, do the work. If you're going to get surgery, say you got surgery. Personally, I don't care either way. I would love surgery, but... I know plenty of people that got surgery and say they did it all natural 🤣. It's not like surgery is a piece of cake, it isn't. Just be honest.
The plaintiff reminds me of the late actress Rosalyn Cash.
A little bit. maybe even Paula Kelly
Yes woman! She did that!
If you don't have it to give, don't lend it out at all.
Just because someone looks able-bodied, is able-bodied! My husband stage 4 cancer, to look at him, you can't tell, but he hasn't been able to work in years. Although I feel the defendant still needs to pay, reasonable time is also based on the circumstances.
😅😅if u end a friendship over money u was never truly friends cuz if u was u would know how they are and just give freely or not give at all cuz u know their character
I really hate to see JM. Congrats you for anything and turn around i get in your sh.t . Thats a real judge.🤣she got tuff love . I really believe it was about the dress but the plantiff didn't have to accept the trips. I would paid her no matter thats what appreciated people do ijs. Congratulations on her weight loss journey ❤️💯
If I can afford to give money as a gift they can’t have it. Loans between friends can go really bad.
The judge be tripping smh
Exactly!!!
Doug didn't say "Harvey"😕
Well damn...she came IN limping.. wth how can she work right now?
We all should, by now, time has zero weight on friendships...
I hate when people say if they had it, they would pay. Make an attempt to pay something. And if you can't afford it, don't go or say no.
I would only loan money to those I love and trust and only If I can afford to. If they don't pay it back then I just never loan to them again. I should add, I don't think anyone should borrow money for enjoyment. Bills or food, AKA necessities.
Don’t eeeeeeeevvvvvvvvvvah trust a kitten heel 👠
What's wrong with a kitten heel 😂🤔🤔
@@delenareed9731 the heeel to close to the devil and not high enough to god! Doooo Jesus !
@@AbadScratchingHabit I like that one!!! 😆😆😆😆
This episode is straight up ninja shit..
"I feel more energetic" energetic enough to get a job?
aw they are all wearing the same color
I honestly thought I could take in a new judge show but I can't lol this is too much