I was abused when I was a child by my parents and others. I suffered from flashbacks and night terrors all of my life They scapegoated me and would never answer my questions about what happened to me. I think it kept me childlike in my adulthood. Partners abused me also. I still have a faith 🙏
The false teachings of Bill Gothard have had a horrible impact on my life. I wasn't even aware that my parents attended his seminars long after I left the home. After being saved, and joining church, I was unaware of how much these false teachings on patriarchy, superstition, men being in positions of authority but without accountability twisted my christian life. I was condemned, accused of being rebellious, blamed for things I had no control over. This system in the hands of a malignant narcissist ( who is very covert) has been a nightmare. A good man considers the life of his beast, but the tender mercies of the wicked are cruel.
I almost lost my mind and life because of some of the things you mentioned. I'm getting better I think because at least I know better. I can't over emphasize the God factor. The level of trauma is off the chats, can't trust no one easily. ITS A CRAZY WORLD WE'RE LIVE IN. But Christ shines His light to help us see our way through the journey. Thank you for this video.
Thank you very much Dr Cloud. You're a blessing to many people that may never have the opportunity of meeting you. Please keep up the good work. I really needed this. I'm currently reading one of your books " Changes that Heal".
You can make good at 18, but still you can carry childhood traumas with you. You could be earning money but you still don't have emotional intelligence. Working on your emotional issues is different than working on your degrees and making money.
Would you help with being taken advantage of. I have felt one down and like a child my whole life, I’m 51, and I think I let off signals to users…how do we stop being taken advantage of!
His book "Changes that Heal " is a great help. Getting involved in a community of people that don't want to parent you but help you grow is a great start as well.
I was abused when I was a child by my parents and others. I suffered from flashbacks and night terrors all of my life
They scapegoated me and would never answer my questions about what happened to me. I think it kept me childlike in my adulthood. Partners abused me also.
I still have a faith 🙏
Your are a Father to many❤
You can disagree WITHOUT being disagreeable!!
The false teachings of Bill Gothard have had a horrible impact on my life. I wasn't even aware that my parents attended his seminars long after I left the home. After being saved, and joining church, I was unaware of how much these false teachings on patriarchy, superstition, men being in positions of authority but without accountability twisted my christian life. I was condemned, accused of being rebellious, blamed for things I had no control over. This system in the hands of a malignant narcissist ( who is very covert) has been a nightmare. A good man considers the life of his beast, but the tender mercies of the wicked are cruel.
You explained my church dynamics that I grew up in
@@viktoriavak4117 I hope you are in a much healthier place now.
I almost lost my mind and life because of some of the things you mentioned. I'm getting better I think because at least I know better. I can't over emphasize the God factor.
The level of trauma is off the chats, can't trust no one easily.
ITS A CRAZY WORLD WE'RE LIVE IN. But Christ shines His light to help us see our way through the journey.
Thank you for this video.
Thank you very much Dr Cloud. You're a blessing to many people that may never have the opportunity of meeting you. Please keep up the good work. I really needed this. I'm currently reading one of your books " Changes that Heal".
Much appreciate this amazing teaching Dr Cloud. You are surely a God sent gift to many!
You can make good at 18, but still you can carry childhood traumas with you. You could be earning money but you still don't have emotional intelligence.
Working on your emotional issues is different than working on your degrees and making money.
Dr. Cloud, you make me laugh about the lighting & "vampirish nail polish" HAHA.
Just brilliant! Thank you!
i see myself as an adult but often get treated like a child
Would you help with being taken advantage of. I have felt one down and like a child my whole life, I’m 51, and I think I let off signals to users…how do we stop being taken advantage of!
His book "Changes that Heal " is a great help. Getting involved in a community of people that don't want to parent you but help you grow is a great start as well.
THSi S is so good!,!!
I am a 64 yr old female married 22 yrs no kids feel like we are both still kids feel like a failureb
Same here and it hurts. But I still trust God's goodness because I'm here today only because of His mercy and grace.
We are loved by HIM