Dealing In Laws | How to priortize your options in susral when you become old| Akhter Abbas Video

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    Marriage brings with it a new set of relatives, including in-laws, who can create confusion and friction, potentially leading to a marital breakup. Challenges of living with in-laws include preconceived notions, competition for the same man, house rules, privacy matters, personal freedom, lifestyle choices, managing conversations, raising children, and caring for elderly in-laws.
    To manage these relationships, it is essential to change perceptions, know your in-laws before marriage, start with a positive mindset, spend time together, assign duties, divide financial responsibilities, communicate, and provide complete privacy. This will help both parties feel loved and appreciated, and help them develop a healthy atmosphere in the family.
    Spending time together, such as morning tea, breakfast, and dinner, can develop a sense of coexistence and mental closeness. Engaging in activities like festivals and shopping can also foster a healthy atmosphere. Assigning daily chores and dividing financial responsibilities can help avoid confusion. Communicating and discussing family problems together can help create a happy, peaceful life.
    Providing complete privacy for new couples, if possible, should be given to ensure a happy and peaceful life. Understanding the importance of this relationship is crucial, as it can help prevent conflicts and maintain a healthy relationship.
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  • @AmjadKhan-fb6sh
    @AmjadKhan-fb6sh 15 днів тому +3

    Allah apko dunia aor aakhrat mn jzaaye khair ata Kray ameen

  • @isrz1381
    @isrz1381 16 днів тому +8

    سر میرا دل کرتا ہے میں ہر لڑکی کو پکڑ پکڑ کر آپ کی وڈیو سناو۔ آپ بہت اچھا سمجتے ہیں۔ آج کل کی لڑکیاں اتنا برا لکھتی ہیں سسرال والوں کے بارے میں۔سارے سسرال والے برے نہیں ہوتے ۔ بچیوں میں بھی تو خامیاں ہیں۔جو کہتی ہیں شوہر کی آمدنی میرے ہاتھ ہوں۔اور کام ایک نہ کرنا پڑے۔

  • @elegant.ideazzskills
    @elegant.ideazzskills 12 днів тому +1

    سر honestly مجھے اتنا ہوتے کہ کاش یہ مزید چند سال پہلے ویڈیوز آتی

  • @mughalbaig8863
    @mughalbaig8863 15 днів тому +2

    سر آپ ہمدرد ہیں سب کے آجکل فیملی ہی ٹوٹ رہی ۔ ہماری گھریلو لائف بہت اچھی چل رہی اور لڑکے لڑکیوں کو اچھا سمجھتے

  • @almasraheelskitchenvlog
    @almasraheelskitchenvlog 10 днів тому +1

    Very nice talk....really appreciated

  • @fasiahtahir452
    @fasiahtahir452 16 днів тому +2

    Assalamualaikum sir ap ke wife Mashallah Mashallah bhot achi hn Allah pak ap ko bhot khush rakhy aameen or ap ko buri nazr sy bachy aameen 😊

  • @azharrehman7982
    @azharrehman7982 16 днів тому +2

    Kash😢 ap mly hoty to zindgi ky sb sy bry dukh sy bach jati m sir

  • @AshKhu-be6pj
    @AshKhu-be6pj 15 днів тому +2

    Healful speech

  • @rockyhero8218
    @rockyhero8218 16 днів тому +1

    Aslkm.sir sir aise khudgarz loog ki batey ap Dil per maat ley ap UA-cam key asman key Chand hai n hum sab sitare.aur sitare Chand hi roshni hasil kartey hai.jazakallah salamat rehey kush rahey sir

  • @user-lz9fq4vf9i
    @user-lz9fq4vf9i 16 днів тому +2

    Sir ap training classes dia kren

  • @AmjadKhan-fb6sh
    @AmjadKhan-fb6sh 15 днів тому

    Allah apko slamt rkhay aor ap humain smjhaatay rahain ameen

  • @ayeshashaikhjamil1410
    @ayeshashaikhjamil1410 16 днів тому +2

    جزا ك الله خيرا

  • @AmjadKhan-fb6sh
    @AmjadKhan-fb6sh 15 днів тому

    Family s related TMam issues smjhna aor smjhaana asan ho gya

  • @pinkyskitchen4614
    @pinkyskitchen4614 15 днів тому +1

    Asalamueleikum bhai kehna Assange hy sehna bhot mushkil hy

  • @AmjadKhan-fb6sh
    @AmjadKhan-fb6sh 15 днів тому

    Bohat acha topic h Apka

  • @elumadnan8589
    @elumadnan8589 15 днів тому +1

    Asslam alikum sir main kpk si ho. Main ne SS trough commission pora suba top kya. Lekn jab main job per jati ho. To ger dakhel huti e muji buhut masli huti ہے. Main har kisi ka khyal rakti ho. Plz گائیڈ me.

  • @sameenkazmi2244
    @sameenkazmi2244 15 днів тому +1

    Assalam o Alaikum
    Sir once i asked few questions about in laws and you scolded me like a mother. I told you I'm living separately now and you didn't like this and told me to work on my verbal actions.
    Sir i worked on my words and I'm politer than before but sir with the passage of time i am realizing that my decision of living separately from in-laws is good.
    Allah SWT gave me this right to have my own house after marriage and i struggled for this right and got it.
    Sir i try to see my life through the believes of religion and these are worth believing❤it seems like everything in islam benefits me.
    I know you are concerned about us that's why you try to give ideas to live happily with in-laws but sir in few cases its impossible and when Allah gave me the right to stand for my self i took it.

  • @Zararafridi-hy1ps
    @Zararafridi-hy1ps 16 днів тому +1

    Sir jassa AP nai bataya Mai assi Hite.lakin Mai Kafi change ho Gai ho.kod ko bohat samjaya lakin demagh besakon raha.q k shoro shoro Mai Mai ignor Karti te lakin AK waqt ab assa Hy k agnor Karna dor ki bat Mai halat say bag bi nahi sakti.sir Mera shohar pehlay din say Mera nahi ta wo apni bah no or maa ka ta.mai nai Jan mall sab Kuch AP NY susral ko dia ta lakin badly Mai mujay bezti k swa Kuch nahi Mila.

  • @azharrehman7982
    @azharrehman7982 16 днів тому +1

    Kash ap phly mly hoty sir kash....ab sirf pechtva rh ga h

  • @abunabira3640
    @abunabira3640 16 днів тому

    Sir yeh aap ki muhabat hai Jo aap apni wife ki mehmaan nawazi ko appreciate kar rahey hain .warna Yahan to husband kehtey k aap ka farz hai .koi anokhi baat thorri hai .

  • @fatimaamir-mv9wy
    @fatimaamir-mv9wy 9 днів тому +1

    Mare bati ki abhi Shaadi hoi h mashallah sab thik hmagar us KO is bat p aitraz h Ka has and cigarette pita h Woh kahti h k ap NY asylum admin s Mari Shaadi kun karai Jo cigarette pita h us KO ya Bhi Bura Lagta h k Woh 3 pita h Roz to mujhy say kahta h Ka 1 pi h Woh jhut bolta h or tension ly gi

    • @AkhterAbbas
      @AkhterAbbas  7 днів тому

      بیٹی دے کہیں عقل کرے ۔۔۔زیادہ اعتراض کرے گی تو میاں کو غصہ آے گا اور تعلقات خراب ہونگے ۔۔۔یہ کام شادی سے پہلے کرنے کا ہوتا ہے ۔۔۔بیوی مرد پر شرطیں لگاے یا پابندیاں ۔۔۔وہ جھوٹ ہی بولے گا

    • @fatimaamir-mv9wy
      @fatimaamir-mv9wy 7 днів тому

      @@AkhterAbbas ap sy bat kasy hosaktii h or agar voice msg Karna ho to Kia kary .Mary JIS bati ki Shaadi hogi h m us KO Ap Ka online course karwana chati hu

  • @fahmeedaahmed8756
    @fahmeedaahmed8756 16 днів тому

    Aaj kal susrali log hi hot topic hai,aap beehad achey mashwarey khuloos se dety hain ,please aik topic, larka medicaly un fit ho phir us per ghurata bhi ho bachi per k apne gharwalon ko mat batana,warna talaq de dunga,ab 2 maheny shadi wali bachi kya karey,ye masla aaj kal bohooot dikh raha hai muashrey mai sir hul sulution bataein.

    • @lifechallenges9945
      @lifechallenges9945 16 днів тому

      Ilaj krwaien unka. Otherwise never hesitate to open this among your family members bcz it's your life and your right. Your are not meant to be caged.

  • @elumadnan8589
    @elumadnan8589 15 днів тому +1

    Asslam alikum sir main kpk si ho. Main ne SS trough commission pora suba top kya. Lekn jab main job per jati ho. To ger dakhel huti e muji buhut masli huti ہے. Main har kisi ka khyal rakti ho. Plz گائیڈ me.