MARRIAGE, INFERTILITY AND THERAPY WITH TALAMA MATSEPE & KABELO MOHALE

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  • Опубліковано 6 вер 2024
  • This week on B.Connects we talk to Therapist, Wife and Mother, Talama Matsepe about marriage, her experience with infertility and being a therapist.
    What an informative conversation. Her perspective was refreshing and we are honoured to have received from such an incredible human!
    Enjoy

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  • @Dooble_Phakade
    @Dooble_Phakade 3 місяці тому +37

    Kabelo is really out of her comfort zone hey🔥🔥🔥
    The improvement is amazing…
    From not being active “that much” on youtube, to this beautiful setup, beautiful conversations, with guests that speaks so much sense, the consistency?? I love it
    All the best❤

  • @kokikoketso9253
    @kokikoketso9253 3 місяці тому +9

    I was blown away by how open and honest Talama Matsepe was. Her testimony was a real beacon of hope 🌟. It really drove home the point that we need to lean on God, not just science, for strength and guidance. I was on the edge of my seat the whole time. Hats off to B.Connects for sharing such a powerful and uplifting conversation! 🙌

  • @thandiwempumiloved
    @thandiwempumiloved 3 місяці тому +13

    wow!!!! this has touched me a lot, as a student trying to discover her identity, I've had a hard time accepting myself and for a long time I imitated people who I thought were cool, and this has left me more broken and confused. I wanna be what God intended for me to be when He created me.
    when she spoke about what her mother said to her "You're too loud for a married woman, you need to tone down" bru!!!!! I felt it! lately, I've been feeling like I don't qualify to be a wife because of how loud and bubbly I am, my personality is literally all over the place. I've been disqualifying myself of things I'm worthy of, I've been feeling like the entire me has to change in order for me to be deserving of something.
    yet forgetting that I was uniquely made by the Lord... Thank you Kabelo for bring Talama Matsepe to B.Connect, may God bless yall❤

  • @jloveclothingzaweartheword1315
    @jloveclothingzaweartheword1315 3 місяці тому +16

    When you reject your identity you reject your maker... Shoo. 💚😮❤

  • @lungelothando9384
    @lungelothando9384 3 місяці тому +6

    Sis Kabelo thank you for inviting sis Talama.. I was diagnosed with PCOS and it’s been 4 years and we’ve been trying conceive you’ve literally renewed hope for me that soon I will give birth to a healthy bouncing baby and it will be an alter that “God has answered our prayers”
    Thank you

  • @mottatravelwealth
    @mottatravelwealth 3 місяці тому +9

    Yooooh! She said "those are his roles, what do you love about your..." welele 🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @Talama_m
      @Talama_m 3 місяці тому

      Yep, there’s a lot we need to unpack. 😁

    • @khathutshelonetshipale844
      @khathutshelonetshipale844 3 місяці тому

      I really felt that😃😃😃😃it’s his roles

  • @debramontymmatau5136
    @debramontymmatau5136 3 місяці тому +18

    Yhooo the setup is breathtaking..listen!!! Gorgeous bathong.

  • @KhanyiMsibi
    @KhanyiMsibi 3 місяці тому +7

    I love Talama and the work that she does. An absolutely wise woman she is. I love what she said about therapy. Therapy isn’t just for “sick” people, it’s so much more. She has my heart ❤
    Thank you Kabelo for another impactful conversation. God bless you mama!

    • @Talama_m
      @Talama_m 3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much Khanyi! ❤❤

    • @Talama_m
      @Talama_m 3 місяці тому +1

      It was absolutely amazing! @Kabelo, I rarely do these interviews, but I just want to thank you and your community for welcoming me! It feels like home!

  • @mercymsezeni838
    @mercymsezeni838 3 місяці тому +4

    The issue of love only being limited to actions is true. As a DIL it feels like my r/ship with my MIL is limited to me serving her rather than her getting to know me. It's as if I must prove myself and I really dislike it and I'm hesitant going to her house because it's always about her and what she can benefit.

  • @mphosehlatsana7311
    @mphosehlatsana7311 3 місяці тому +5

    watching all the way from Mountain kingdom 🇱🇸 ,what a interested conversations 🥰❤️

  • @MurunwaP-Zoe
    @MurunwaP-Zoe 3 місяці тому +6

    Sessy Talama you are full of wisdom❤

    • @kabello_mohale
      @kabello_mohale  3 місяці тому +2

      She truly is hay 🙂

    • @Talama_m
      @Talama_m 3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you sesi ❤❤❤

  • @fitnessaddictmpati3185
    @fitnessaddictmpati3185 3 місяці тому +1

    Talamas voice always put me so close to God, used to attend church with her from 2006 to 2009. Your voice heals you chose the right career ❤

    • @Talama_m
      @Talama_m 3 місяці тому +1

      🙏🏾🙏🏾 awwww thank you sis! ❤❤

  • @MissCombs1511
    @MissCombs1511 3 місяці тому +9

    I love the fact that you are challenging the 5 Love Languages... I also am..

    • @kabello_mohale
      @kabello_mohale  3 місяці тому +2

      Those need to be challenged lol. Are you challenging them too? ❤

    • @MissCombs1511
      @MissCombs1511 3 місяці тому +1

      @@kabello_mohale I am.. Part of learning myself means deconstructing or unlearning what I've been taught. I'm dynamic.

  • @LizekaMM
    @LizekaMM 3 місяці тому +4

    I looooove Talama ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Talama_m
      @Talama_m 3 місяці тому +1

      I love you too sesi ❤

  • @nosiization
    @nosiization 3 місяці тому +5

    Oh wow 🎉🎉 I love her!!! Powerhouse! ❤

    • @Talama_m
      @Talama_m 3 місяці тому

      ❤❤❤ thank you Nosi! It was lovely!

  • @RefiloeLebitso
    @RefiloeLebitso 3 місяці тому +3

    Beautiful interview Kabelo ❤, loved your guest.

    • @Talama_m
      @Talama_m 3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you Refiloe! ❤❤ it was wonderful

  • @puseletsosekhoto6989
    @puseletsosekhoto6989 3 місяці тому +4

    Hey honies💗I'm loving the setting and this conversation is mind blowing,,,we all need therapy,,we need to heal,to deal and to face our issues in order to fully develop and evolve holistically,,thank you woman of God👏🥂💐🙌😘

    • @Talama_m
      @Talama_m 3 місяці тому

      Absolutely!!!❤ glad you enjoyed it. Thank you sis! ❤❤

  • @seemanadiy1755
    @seemanadiy1755 3 місяці тому +5

    I remember her from GPS and the local church I used to attend back in those days. Refreshing conversation.
    Thank you.

  • @andiswamaseko1428
    @andiswamaseko1428 3 місяці тому +2

    Oh my word Sesi Talama! I relate so much to what you said about being an extrovert, people constantly expect you to be the life of the party and when you choose to be quiet, they will ask if you had a bad day or label you as if you’re “moody” today 😖😆

    • @Talama_m
      @Talama_m 3 місяці тому +1

      Yes, sis! Let’s create space to be whatever we want! ❤❤❤

  • @ntombinakeli3327
    @ntombinakeli3327 3 місяці тому +1

    "Making a room to be whatever I wanna be"😭❤️🥺

  • @CAROS_FITNESS
    @CAROS_FITNESS 3 місяці тому +3

    She's amazing I look forward for the next potcast

    • @Talama_m
      @Talama_m 3 місяці тому

      Looking forward to it! ❤❤

  • @beverleyshamu5353
    @beverleyshamu5353 3 місяці тому +4

    Can we just come and stay at your home Kabelo 😆🤭while we wait for the next podcast.

  • @kholekilemotloi
    @kholekilemotloi 3 місяці тому +4

    Removing the fig leaves! Your podcast is so important, never came across an episode that wasn't important. I love it. ❤

  • @andiswamaseko1428
    @andiswamaseko1428 3 місяці тому +2

    What an amazing interview! It was incredibly enlightening and thought-provoking. We appreciate you sharing your thoughts and experiences with us. God bless you both! ❤️

  • @LeratoSophiaMabulana
    @LeratoSophiaMabulana 3 місяці тому +1

    I’m definitely gonna come back to listen again,this time with a pen and paper because there’s a lot to takeaway.

  • @rosemkhwanazi5960
    @rosemkhwanazi5960 3 місяці тому +2

    So humble ladies siyabonga

  • @NeliNgema
    @NeliNgema 3 місяці тому +3

    Wow, we definitely need her back! ❤

    • @Talama_m
      @Talama_m 3 місяці тому +1

      ❤❤❤❤ it would be an honor!

  • @tshego_ceodesk
    @tshego_ceodesk 3 місяці тому

    This was a God breathed conversation! The part when you guys spoke abour about the fig leaves and when Tamala shared about the conception journey of her son was so faith inspiring and encouraging. Thank you ladies❤

  • @sparklessweets10
    @sparklessweets10 3 місяці тому

    what stood out for me was the story about rice crispy … it hit me that our reaction /feeling offended by a simple instruction is deeper than we think. m looking forward to the next conversation with Talama 😇😇

  • @user-ph6ft8vp9x
    @user-ph6ft8vp9x 3 місяці тому +1

    This was just amazing 31:08

  • @fulufhelomatodzi649
    @fulufhelomatodzi649 3 місяці тому +1

    Talma. I love you so much my sis. Please keep up the good work you have been doing with heart sync. Please don’t give up. There is a place for what you are offering us. Thank you Kabelo for opening up this space for us to grow

    • @Talama_m
      @Talama_m 3 місяці тому +1

      ❤❤ you are so kind, I’m thankful for your support and encouragement.
      Thank you, Kabelo, for creating this space for all of us to grow together.

  • @thembisambo
    @thembisambo 3 місяці тому +1

    Its so refreshing the event for couples ❤❤ and is needed 🎉

  • @Miss_veee
    @Miss_veee 3 місяці тому +3

    Interesting conversation.thank you ❤

  • @naledipetuniamaruping5741
    @naledipetuniamaruping5741 3 місяці тому +5

    First of all you ladies are gorgeous ❤❤❤

  • @nenesibanda4171
    @nenesibanda4171 3 місяці тому

    I loved this episode...thank you Kabelo continue to share your light with all of us.❤

  • @gugundlovu5222
    @gugundlovu5222 3 місяці тому

    When we spoke of how we constantly seeking validation from other people, yoh it hit home.

  • @konelemtshiyo2834
    @konelemtshiyo2834 3 місяці тому +1

    I can't wait for the next podcast,she is good.

  • @lemikhayamemka964
    @lemikhayamemka964 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you 🙏🏾 just exactly what I needed to hear ❤️🙏🏾

  • @apiweswaartbooi4377
    @apiweswaartbooi4377 3 місяці тому +1

    Queendom!👑👑❤️❤️

  • @fearless0122
    @fearless0122 3 місяці тому +1

    Amazing conversation 🇳🇦❤

  • @nenesibanda4171
    @nenesibanda4171 3 місяці тому

    I have met Talama such an extraordinary woman she is❤

  • @inga_toyi
    @inga_toyi 3 місяці тому +1

    This episode🥹🥹🥹whuuu!!!

  • @lethabomokobake
    @lethabomokobake 3 місяці тому +1

    Loved everything about this video, we need the whole day with Talama😢. Can we also talk about the quality of the video and setup🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @Talama_m
      @Talama_m 3 місяці тому +1

      🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍 thank you sis. It was incredible ❤

  • @tshegofatsontabane584
    @tshegofatsontabane584 3 місяці тому +1

    This was short.. would like to hear more

  • @bonolopelaelo7895
    @bonolopelaelo7895 3 місяці тому +2

    Woow❤❤❤

  • @lynejosephs
    @lynejosephs 2 місяці тому

    Deep conversation❤❤❤. Please invite Mpoomy Ledwaba

  • @Vision_94
    @Vision_94 3 місяці тому +1

    She must come back again

  • @jloveclothingzaweartheword1315
    @jloveclothingzaweartheword1315 3 місяці тому +2

    Family 💚

  • @nomondenomabhongo7323
    @nomondenomabhongo7323 3 місяці тому +1

    Love Talama❤❤

  • @nkepengmarumo3648
    @nkepengmarumo3648 3 місяці тому +3

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @TsheM
    @TsheM 3 місяці тому +3

    Skeem Saam girls🙌

    • @Talama_m
      @Talama_m 3 місяці тому

      Always❤❤❤

  • @LizekaMM
    @LizekaMM 3 місяці тому +3

    You are both so gorgeous 4:44

  • @kholofelomakena7030
    @kholofelomakena7030 3 місяці тому

    Powerful session.. ❤❤

  • @MissCombs1511
    @MissCombs1511 3 місяці тому +6

    Beautiful interview ❤ I love the name Talama. May I ask what it means?

    • @powercouplesmovement657
      @powercouplesmovement657 3 місяці тому +2

      Hi sis! Talama means “A precious stone”(including beryl, carbuncle, diamond, emerald, gold, jasper, onyx, sapphire, sardius, and topaz) - Ezekiel 28:13

    • @MissCombs1511
      @MissCombs1511 3 місяці тому +1

      Really? Wow I love it. My name means something similar but not as unique as yours.

    • @powercouplesmovement657
      @powercouplesmovement657 3 місяці тому

      @@MissCombs1511 thank you! 😊 ❤️

    • @powercouplesmovement657
      @powercouplesmovement657 3 місяці тому

      @@MissCombs1511 and yours is?

    • @MissCombs1511
      @MissCombs1511 3 місяці тому +1

      @@powercouplesmovement657 Mine is Gugulethu.. so it means "Precious Treasure".

  • @thobekileradebe9121
    @thobekileradebe9121 3 місяці тому +2

    See you on the 01st of June ❤

  • @rosemkhwanazi5960
    @rosemkhwanazi5960 3 місяці тому +1

    Hi lebo may u please invite man we want to hear them if its possible 🙏

  • @albinaesihle1253
    @albinaesihle1253 3 місяці тому +1

    Hi sis did you forget to insert the link I can't find it?

  • @tabbywaithera9112
    @tabbywaithera9112 3 місяці тому

    Shes deep

  • @portialekobane227
    @portialekobane227 3 місяці тому +1

    Stuck on "removing the fig leaves".

  • @thinavhuyoportiaramakuela3896
    @thinavhuyoportiaramakuela3896 3 місяці тому

    💐💐💐❤️❤️❤️

  • @thetradingcheff
    @thetradingcheff 3 місяці тому +1

    It must feel good to sit back and say the wait was worth it. Sex after marriage

  • @CAROS_FITNESS
    @CAROS_FITNESS 3 місяці тому

    Then if we were all not rejecting identity and atc we should not be worrying wigs as Africans

  • @DimphoMoile
    @DimphoMoile 3 місяці тому +2

    Wow❤🥹

  • @inga_toyi
    @inga_toyi 3 місяці тому +1

    This episode🥹🥹🥹whuuu!!!

  • @nokulungasimelane896
    @nokulungasimelane896 3 місяці тому +3

    ❤❤❤

  • @cebilethemba
    @cebilethemba 2 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kgao1697
    @kgao1697 3 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤