Badgering Over Bills
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- Опубліковано 14 жов 2024
- The plaintiff dated the defendant for eight years. He says they broke up several times a year, but there was lying and cheating in their relationship. The defendant says he cheated on her over 60 times. The plaintiff claims he loaned the defendant money to pay for an energy bill, but she hasn’t paid him back, so he’s suing for the balance on a loan. The defendant denies owing him anything because he has never paid child support.
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Don’t keep going back to a cheater. They both keep going back to the dysfunction of each other
You dealing with a cheater rite now
@@1cheeseakamulti In your imagination, I'm sure I am
“Don’t give me a headache.”😂🤣
He loaned her money to keep his child warm? He’s tripping!!! Talking ab “this is ab business.” He need to be ab the business of taking care of his child.
He should get joint custody. That way when the heat goes out their child can stay warm under his roof
@@Big_Bake if he wanted to he would but 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏾♀️
@@nikkif9873 Yea. The update said he was filing for custody now but he should've been did that smh First thing I inquired about when me and my ex wife separated was custody of my son
@@Big_Bake in order to get joint custody he has to have a pit to piss in and a window to throw it out of.
@@nikkif9873 he can’t bc he doesn’t have a pot to Piss in or a window to throw it out of
“Ain’t got a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of” that’s my gmas favorite saying 😂😂😂😂
That’s my mommas line too. But I have no doubt she got it from my crazy granny.
First time I heard it was from my dad over 50 years ago.
@@leggs4113 lol that was my mom’s favorite line, especially to my sister everytime she brought a dude home & was “in love” with the guy 😂😂😂
Let me say this, that’s the price people pay for only relying on the person’s physical aspects when trying to start a relationship!
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Right! Something is wrong with her.
@@Proverbspsalms He had a habit of cheating, so that means something is wrong with her🤔?
@@birdchoyce4332 first off ma’am- him cheating does not make her right, normal, and not crazy! She’s the one who said he cheated on her since day one- which means before she even decided to get knocked up by him. I said what I said
AMEN 🙏🏾
If he reverted within a day to his old habits, that means he never changed! Multiple breakups is toxic.
The key is to be careful who you decide to decide to have children with and also be respectful to that woman. My oldest daughter's mother is the meanest most hateful person you could ever meet but ever meet but the fact that I was always so nice and respectful towards her she couldn't do me dirty. Problem is ya'll treat these women like crap and then expect them to play fair after you done did them dirty
She'll be back with him. . .women like this make no sense to me. She stayed with this jerk for 8 YEARS knowing who he was.
He is the same fool she is bc he said at the start that SHE CHEATED ON HIM…. but HE STAYED W HER‼️
Yup and she’s very attractive
@@ryanrattray1658 see where looks got him.
That woman has hauled ass on his ass..🙄
@@Proverbspsalms I was making mention that she’s attractive. However, she made the choice to keep going back after the many times that he’s cheated on her and unfortunately he knows that no matter how many times he cheated she will always be there and take him back. I was saying she’s attractive and I’m sure it would not be hard for her to find someone and needs to make a stand that she won’t be disrespected
Why did the defendant keep going back to a cheater? Multiple times??? She needs to look at herself.
Low Self Esteem and she's using her daughter and move to the most expensive State (California) as a pawn
what's crazy is she lied in child support court
Yess that's what I said at what point do you walk away for good. If not for yourself for your child. The child is seeing all this craziness!!
Men, go to the child support courts and get put on a payment plan. Do it all through the courts. Make sure it's documented with the courts. You will always have to pay regardless. It's best to do it the right way instead of having it held over your head. Get visitation rights and everything. DOCUMENT IT ALL WITH THE COURTS.
Preach. It is the only way to keep these vindictive women in check
I tell men that all the time...some are so scared of child support yet don't even know that alot of the time they may be giving more than they would be ordered to pay from the courts on their own. Its better for all parties involved, child, mother and father.
Or Option B: Don't have a child with a American woman.
Absolutely right...especially if they refuse to use protection and avoid having children.
It could alll be sooo simple. Child support is nothing to be afraid of and it ensures she will follow the judges rules and not hers! Court order is the way to go.
Ma’am hush, you stayed right there for it all AND had a baby by him. She seems like just what he said, a damn headache
You missed the whole point
That comment is coming from a man boy because men know the deal. If she's a headache he caused it. She stayed then but that is over n she left him and the state they were residing in to start a 🆕 life.
She's thirsty with low self esteem
@@thegrouphomegoddess9684 exactly
Exactly! Because she’s giving me a headache. Something is wrong with her
She loud & annoying, talking over the plaintiff AND the judge when he was on her side. And if he's such a cheater, then LEAVE ma'am.
Exactly
My sentiments exactly
Child support varies from state to state. My daughter’s mother didn’t file on me until she was 15 years old. When it got to the courts it wasn’t about what I’d been doing the past 15 years, they only wanted proof of what I’d paid since she filed. I was paying cash for years, many got ahold of me, said I was a fool and that she could turn on me at any moment and I wouldn’t be able to prove jack. I’m am soooo glad I listened because she did turn on me but I’d already been sending her electronic payments for years thanks to the advise of a few good women. Fellas if you don’t want the state in your business electronic is the way to go. If she ever turns on you you’ve got an indisputable paper trail. It saved my hide because the state was trying to say I owed over 6 grand and if I hadn’t of been able to prove any it I’d be paying long past the age of 18
My uncle was paying his ex wife's mortgage and child's tuition and giving her money all the time. When the child was 16 she took him to court and they made him pay for all those years. It put him in a huge hole, I was in shock. Couldn't believe how she lied. It's scary out here for some men.
I know for a fact that wasn't Texas, that receipt electronic are not don't mean ish, they feel its your child u should provide, state way is the only way to not get f over, this coming from a women.
Good thing you had proof because it's some bitter women out here that will turn your life upside down knowing your a good father 👏🏽👏🏽
@@kianamechelle6987 yup I know a person by the name Mathis the 🤡
@@darrenbennett9132 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The look on Mr Mathis face says alot about what he was thinking when the Plaintiff said the biggest headache 😂😂😂😂😂😂😩
It’s you being so comfortable airing him out knowing YOU kept going back. Him and all his actions (good and bad) are a reflection of YOU. Tighten up sis.
That part lol 😂
@@Sunshine134chick,
Everytime ppl air they spouse out I be looking at them crazy like you talking bout them wanting me to look at them strange bt I'm looking at you the craziest fr
He still wouldn’t choose you. Stop tearing down women cus it sounds good to men. Judge Mathis was very clear about this guys behavior and he was spot on. 😒
So he has no responsibility in this?? This is exactly why niggas get away with so much there's always a BW there to rid him of accountability, its sickening
But she stayed for 8 years😒😒 Yeah as long as you allow his behavior, he will continue and he spit in your face too. PLEASE!! They split up a month ago, yeah, she's not done with him yet.
Did you not see the end? She moved from Michigan to California. She done with that fool. Good riddance.
Judge Mathis is putting the batteries in her back… he’s a mess
Facts
Apparently, they died out after the show, because she never filed. Instead, she skipped states with their daughter, which is a big mistake on her part.
Best description of plaintiff: An old FOOL was once a young FOOL😉
He wants to sue for custody but hasn’t been paying child support. Ok buddy I’m sure you will win it. 😂😂
Judge Mathis is one of the best when it comes to dry snitching and putting batteries in the back of a scorn women's back.
Thank you for the "where are they now" video afterwards. We always want to know where the litigants are!
And to be honest every time when a parent say that their child wants to live with them that can also mean that they miss their other parent as well. So I don't believe that is she don't like where she lives..just an observation🤷🏾♀️
He could be lying just to try and look good for tv. You see the lady packed up and moved far away from that fool. Don't make sense to even take her to court.
“& I did stop after 60”
Me: 😂😂, wait, every 1 out of 5 women have an STD 🤔!! Or lord lol
oh wow really?
@@timoaksproductions yes, so be safe out here love
Young black boys need to grow up watching shows like this so they understand the importance of using protection because I’m tired of hearing grown black men complaining about child support for the children they created.
EXACTLY
Oh please! Women need to learn to keep their legs closed until they get a husband.
Judge: "We can take care of the child together, or otherwise, Lady: "it's going down"😂🤣😅
People laugh at me because I'm 43 single without kids 😆😅😂🤣 #Brooklyn #BachelorGang #NYC #NoKidsGang #GigoloGang
Just her flipping him off as soon as the judgement was done shows she’s definitely a handful. Girl, just take your L & hold it.
😭😭😭 I never said she didn’t have the right to be upset, hurt, or fed up. There’s a time & place for everything. Being in a courtroom and on national tv is not the place for that. When you get outside & off the premises, do & say what you please.
When a woman’s fed up.
She has a father of her child suing for a couple hundred(on national television), he’s not on child support and plays house when it’s convenient. She has a right to feel some type of way.
@@tl99449 thats wut im thinking, once a man has hurt & disappointed a woman over & over & she loose respect for you, you really expect her to be polite and all christiany? 🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️
@@tl99449 y’all better talk y’all shit ! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
She kept going back to him so her & him need to look in the mirror but her actions afterwards has nothing to do wit him, she’s a handful
Well...off to child support court.
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Him spitting on me, he would have surely been laid to rest, I bet that.
Receipts mean nothing in some states fellas, protect yourself and get your paperwork straight asap.
These women always crack me up trying to trash the man character. Yet you stayed with the man, slept with him knowing all of this.
That essentially means that you are not worth much yourself lady.
Unfortunately, you're right.
Exactly
HUSH Truth!!!
Thank you for these throwback and UPDATES!
I like how at the end they had an update about the couple. I wondered why they stopped doing that.
It's sad people don't want to take care of their kids. So it's okay for your child to freeze? Just because you want to spite the woman you habitually cheated on. My gosh!
Exactly. So many men who she wouldn’t sneeze on and women who are jealous hating on this woman and it’s about him not providing for his daughter.
So she doesn't have the responsibility to keep her child warm in her own house? He has a house for which he has heating. If she can't sustain the payments send her to her dad where he has heating.
@@roxeaguebryan7629 Assuming he'd actually take her. I don't know many single father's who have their kids primarily or even half of the time.
@@josl1345 he would. Listen how distraught he is at the fact he can't see his daughter. No father who takes care of their child as the mom states would allow their child to freeze. He may not pay the mothers bills but would allow the kid to come stay with him for the period
@@roxeaguebryan7629 You're right about that. That's what the mindset should be.
"🗣IT'S GOIN DOWN❗" & that's exactly where it went 😁🤞🏼😅🤣
Why did you stay with him I don't feel sorry for women like this.
I was saying the same thing!!!!
They needed judge judy for this one. "You chose him! Now you have a baby with him so you're stuck with him!"
You can't help who you love
She has a child with him
They have 8 years of history
Love makes you blind
The list goes on but apparently she's woke now because she's not with him n taking him to court
@@beb5407 love makes women and beta male simps blind not men...
She moved on.
Seems that he is for the streets and truly doesn't want her.....she continues in this cycle hoping one day he'll see that she is enough. Girl know your worth and stop waiting for him to choose you!
She’s for the streets too.
As pretty as she is I would walk over him to get to someone else. I understand what she saw in him.
Matching outfits 👀👀 they still “doing it” 😂😂
He should've listen to judge Mathis cuz I believe she coming back for that child support backpay.
No he shouldn’t of because she could still do all that
As she should 🤣🤣🤣🤣
She did worse she took the child and moved to another state something tells me he isn't as motivated to get his child back the the hard way
Giving her ideas to child support wow
Ideas? What? You think she's never thought of it!?! Seriously?
Exactly! That’s why his name is judge messy
@@Proverbspsalms your slow and that's why he didn't have to pay
She's angry n complaining but YOU chose to put up with it for so many years. I don't feel bad for her. How many times a man has to show u who he is before u believe it? Women have a hand in their own heartache when they keep taking guys like this back
I don't feel sorry for her, either. Plus, she had a baby with him. Bad judgment on both of their parts
How many BM do you know that stays with a BW after she’s cheated on him⁉️ He stayed with her bc that’s his preference and also bc SHE IS SOOO SUBMISSIVE 😀😀😀😀
as a man its very tempting to cheat on a woman who you cant wait to get home to but 80% of time you come home she rejects you and being verbally abusive, petty, no food prepared, house a mess, on the phine & social media running u down to her friends & family, and you out here holding down yo part as a man
Me either because if he's so horrible why have you been there 8 years!! Then you had a baby with him. Girl bye she's as bad as he is!!!!
U can tell she a piece of work frfr. Whoa!!!!
She ran to child support court right after this 🤣🤣🤣🤣
You can see what type woman she is nobody got time for that bs
Defendant ' UGLY Is A' Behavior, NEVER A' Look..😒
She moved to Cal with the child ???
WELL THE PLAYA GOT PLAYED
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They never want to be quiet and just listen to the Judge! 🥴😂😂😂😂
Did she say that he spit in her face!!!!!???? What the 🧐😳🧐🧐🧐
He seems like he always take care of his child, she just wants a child support bill for herself.
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👄 if she excepts him cheating( she keep taking him back) spitting🗣in her face is nothing some women don't know their WORTH😩 #STRONG QUEENS👑👠KNOW THEIR WORTH🤗
He's a vile dogg.
I had a friend who put himself on child support from when the baby was born even though he was still with the child's mom he said he didn't want her saying he never did anything for the baby from the jump
You can see it in her face that she's disgusted by but at the same time she don't want to let him go. Typical
I loved that the Judge provided a update on this case
There is a saying: that no matter how fine you are there somebody somewhere thts sick and tired of you
Orrrrrrr he could have just left her instead of damaging her with promises of being a better man.
We built this hell. He will live in it.
@@thetruth-zb7cj orrrrrrr she could of left him knowing he was cheating.
@@latonyasmith4395 orrrrrrrr we could stop victim blaming! you roach!
I'M LOVING THIS ↪️ " WHERE THEY ARE NOW!!!! KEEP THIS UP!
Judge Mathis: cause otherwise…
Defendant: It’s going down!
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You can tell they both a mess. I know this is years old but people still be dealing with these sorts of situations like paying in case. Are you allergic to bank accounts or money orders at the least? Stop paying for stuff in case or at least write out a receipt or something.
She said "TICK FOR TACK" lmfaooo
As she said, they paid half on everything for their child. Now he has a copy of this show to use in court. Thanks to the judge, from her own mouth. Lol!!!
I remember this episode she was something else 😂😂
women...get serious about relationships. she allowed him to leave his seed inside creating a child. why have a child by him if he is no good? make better decisions and marry before you carry.
I guess you didn’t hear the Judge, ppl should be careful not just a woman. He left a seed in her and have to deal with her and she can go to court and say he never paid anything. Adults in general need to make better decisions about who they have kids with.
Thank you. She said he was cheating from the day they met. She’s a whole toxic mess. I don’t feel bad for him. He should have been thinking also
The black man in the blue was trying to look so slick as she walked in 😆 🤣 😂
That defendant is a piece of work. 🤦🏽♀️
I did stop after 60. 😆 🤣 smdh
It's annoying when people talk over the judge.
Judge Mathis busting out laughing after “I did stop after 60”. 🥴🤣 Plaintiff is trifling. Yuck.
So…….. She found a soft spot of JM. Now she rides that tide. It’s no secret that he does have his faults. However, she’s very manipulative and also displays toxic tendencies.
I find it funny when these shows coach them with "big" words like tumultuous and you can clearly see the guest doesn't understand the word.HA lol
She calling another female ugly but her looks didn't keep him for cheating.
Ugh 😒 all of the loud, overtalking she's doing drives me nuts! JM must've been having a good day lol
They got on matching color (purple) 😂😂😂 they still dealing with each other😭😭
I'll never understand why a Man pursues a Woman for over a year and still CHEAT..🙄
Men talk about us, but they really are odd asf
Because men are hunters. Once the food is caught and eaten. Time to hunt again.
@@laurensimonee 🤣🤣🤣
Its the innocent child that resulted from that mess.
WHOA! Y’all giving us updates now? 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Keep it up!
If Trifling were a couple.... 🙄
Doyle's face at the end was priceless!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
What is she complaining about? A black woman’s favorite man is a cheater. She should be ecstatic.
They always be lying when they sign an agreement
“He ain’t got a pot to piss in” but he let you borrow $1700. They need to just go there separate ways and coparent!
I hope they start posting more of the weekly throwback cases
I did stop after 60🤣🤣
The saddest part in all of this.... this woman is using her child as a form of revenge. By not allowing the father to see his child only causes emotional damage to the child. This woman needs to grow up before its too late
You don’t know that. You’re assuming. She could be protecting her daughter from him.
Right! Something is seriously wrong with her.
I was excited to see an update, but was disappointed that it didn’t mention if he was on child support 😒
She fled. She knew he was just going to try to get custody so he wouldn't have to pay her. What a loser.
She already admitted she pays half... of everything so why is Judge Mathis threatening him not to get his judgment...
Dude in dat turtleneck had to get him a look in🤣🤣
Rick James was a habitual line stepper - Dave Chappelle
Homie better keep this video because she said he pays half on all kid expenses cause she seems like a vindictive liar because she lied to judge Mathis she will lie to the next judge
The video shows he forced her to repay his alleged portion.
@@higher_pwr8178 video shows she said what she said and if another judge see that she lied to one judge
@@delonjuan Even JM offered plaintiff an out. He foolishly pursued her.
She won't be quiet.
“It’s going down.” And I sincerely hope it eventually does
I feel like the defendant is just as toxic as the guy.... GOD bless their daughter
I was attempting to date men again after years for the Lord but due to what I've been hearing and seeing online I am so good I will be by myself ✋🏽✋🏽💢🚩🚩🚩
It might be too close to the end for marrying and giving in marriage.
Well date a cow or horse
@@jomaw0875 right exactly
@@freegame1k Lol of course not sweet heart..I will treat you well
@@jomaw0875 What do you consider is going to end? Also, not question of debate, because I truly accept that we are in the last days. I've just heard different views of what is going to end.
Your honor, your honor, your honor, your honor...both of them are silly.
That’s sad to threaten a man with child support
They still together.....just looked at them matching🤦♂️
He loves ❤️ her, and she loves ❤️ him.
Naw, I looked her up. She's engaged to another man. They're daughter is a cutie.
Good 4 her. She got a man in Cali who respects her and daughter. Plaintiff is a foolish womanizer.
@@dg1593 oh no! He’s a whole idiot if he marries this toxic woman.
Are you sure. He may be but she's not... It's time she had to move on with somebody better
It was over after she said 'Child Support' Lawd Lawd...🤦♀
You stand around!!! For how long ? Damn Shame!!!! Ruining the child's life 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
JM is sweet on the defendant 🤣🤣🤣
It’s a reason she hasn’t took him to CS and that’s because he’s a good father
Facts. Now he has this show to bring as evidence that he was taking care of his kid
JM tried to advise him, but the plaintiff being the fool that he is bragged and boasted and didn't heed JM's comments 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DEAR UNMARRIED MEN,
When your relationships produce children. Your first step
1.Go to your local COURTHOUSE and file for PARENTAL CUSTODY!!
2.Be aware that this will PISS OFF said mother.
3.Stay the course, don't let her trap you into frivolous ARGUMENTS!!👀
STAY PRAYED UP!!🙏🦾 You got this!
She'll never have to worry about her heating bill again sunny California
The plaintiff decided his life right there on national TV he pushed his family away she clearly loved him work it out with the mother of your child or she can pick up and move with your child smh
She admitted they split everything while they lived together for eight years so show that to the child support judge.