SELF LOVE SESH EPISODE ONE || Validation, Removing Toxicity + Social Media

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  • @maeguardini204
    @maeguardini204 6 років тому +279

    Meanwhile, that bunny has been staring into my soul for 15 minutes straight

  • @hannahroseloftus97
    @hannahroseloftus97 6 років тому +53

    This video couldn’t of come at a better time. I love how real this video is, it doesn’t sugar coat or romanticise self love, because social media can make it seem all sunshine and rainbows and as you said, it isn’t. I love your videos, they always leave me inspired! Xx

  • @athinagorre5912
    @athinagorre5912 6 років тому +83

    this is so timely for the current society and status. thanks for spreading a significant message gal!

  • @SophieJayne
    @SophieJayne 6 років тому +68

    in LOVE with this! So good seeing fellow aussie youtubers doing so well! xx

  • @lucyselina4294
    @lucyselina4294 6 років тому +7

    can this become like a weekly podcast or something, because i could listen to her talk for hours on end. This video couldn't of come at a better time in my life, and i'm so grateful for the impact you have made on my life and so many others. Thank you for everything x

  • @elenac3819
    @elenac3819 6 років тому

    I’ve watched so many videos that talk about self care and a lot of them talk about pampering yourself more, but when it comes down to it self care is truly just being gentle with yourself and I love that you focused on what we can do mentally rather than doing something to make us feel physically more loved.

  • @hannahbessinger8216
    @hannahbessinger8216 6 років тому +38

    You need to do a mini series or podcast about self love and care plese consider you can save so many people if they can hear these words

    • @shira2468
      @shira2468 6 років тому

      omg, i'd love to listen to a podcast by freya!

  • @francescarm4282
    @francescarm4282 6 років тому +9

    I love how serious you are about this subject which some people think is touchy. In my eyes, this subject shouldn’t be touchy because of its great importance and impact on society. THANK YOU!!

  • @aman.4701
    @aman.4701 6 років тому +53

    beautiful video, freya🌈💛 “you wouldn’t talk about your best friend in that way, so why would you talk about yourself in that way?” that really got me thinking! shouldn’t we all be our own best friends? you’re truly inspiring and this has helped me a lot. can’t wait for the next episodes! lots of love from germany🌞

    • @Freyahaley
      @Freyahaley  6 років тому +5

      We Should all be our first priority. Little do we realise that the way we treat others is a reflection of our inner state and the way we are used to treating ourselves. Love begins from within. Thank you darling!! So nice to have u here with me xx

  • @SandyM1993
    @SandyM1993 5 років тому +5

    I experience self-love every time I watch her videos.

  • @lunanova369
    @lunanova369 6 років тому +3

    I sense a fellow old soul in you. ✨🖤 I’ve seen hundreds of self love videos and this is the only one that truly resonated. Sending you love and blessings in exchange for this beautiful video. Thank you. 🙏🏼☺️

  • @HannahMarie1908
    @HannahMarie1908 6 років тому +52

    This is beautiful. It's crazy how my friend and I just today had a deep conversation about the exact topic of how what we see on social media really is just mostly the highlights of our lives and not everything we see on there is genuine. We had both confessed to each other how we feel slightly jealous of each others lives, and quickly began to realise that we're all on the same level as one another, and if we feel this way about each other looking at each others posts on instagram, imagine how other people on social media feel when they follow such perfected accounts on instagram. Anyways that went on for too long, I basically just wanted to say Thank you for putting this video up and sharing your voice.

    • @Freyahaley
      @Freyahaley  6 років тому +1

      I completely agree! Those conversations really open ur eyes huh? Thank u for the kind words, much love to u!!

  • @inesg1304
    @inesg1304 6 років тому +21

    you are a beautiful person and everything you say is so inspiring

    • @Freyahaley
      @Freyahaley  6 років тому +3

      thanku darling honeyyyyy!

  • @annaburke8537
    @annaburke8537 6 років тому +9

    I am at a loss with what to do about my toxic person-my father. He criticizes me every time we talk, and I leave our time feeling depressed and it takes a while to shake. It is just the way he is and if I talk to him about it, he will make it my fault....I have recently just stop responding to his calls, texts etc. He's my father so I don't want to cut him out of my life. It's a really confusing relationship.

    • @kythefairy2029
      @kythefairy2029 6 років тому +1

      anna burke maybe distance yourself from him a little bit, try and find behaviours and actions he does that are positive, find things you are grateful for about him n try heal the relationship? xx

    • @sofooiaa
      @sofooiaa 6 років тому

      do you have a therapist?

    • @annaburke8537
      @annaburke8537 6 років тому

      literally angelic Nope!

    • @sofooiaa
      @sofooiaa 6 років тому

      you definetely should. it helps so much i cant even explain. things will get easier

    • @annaburke8537
      @annaburke8537 6 років тому

      literally angelic I'm glad it's helped you! ❤

  • @bambiccino
    @bambiccino 6 років тому +7

    although i chat with my mum a lot, i tend to bottle things up inside. what i love about you is that in your videos, it feels as if you talk to us directly and not the camera- you’re like an older sister! so thankyou for being you and i am so glad you learnt to love yourself as you are now helping others (including me) love ourselves too💛🦋 thankyou, we love you x

  • @shaetaylor7653
    @shaetaylor7653 6 років тому

    You've genuinely changed my perception and thoughts about how I think of myself and others. I'm currently on a weightloss journey because I feel like i'm not beautiful enough compared to other people. This video is genuinely my favourite fucking thing I have watched and changed my perception on so many things. Thank you so much freya xx you're genuinely an inspiration and someone who goes to show that life is special and everyone is unique xxx

  • @caitlincottrill6002
    @caitlincottrill6002 6 років тому

    you radiate happiness, i’m absolutely in love with your presence and self love. thanks for this video it’s lovely.

  • @kristinabeck2174
    @kristinabeck2174 9 місяців тому

    I just found your channel after I seen a recommendation on a reddit thread and I am already obsessed! I am 44 years old and I have learned so much from you already you are so wise beyond your years! ❤

  • @SiddaDAWG
    @SiddaDAWG 6 років тому +3

    Thank you so much for posting such a beautiful and raw video online. I have been struggling this week with comparing myself to others and judging myself quite harshly. This could not have come at a better time. I really needed to hear your words. I’m excited to watch the rest of your episodes on your Self Love Advice. Sending you so much love and light 🙏💕🌈💛✨

  • @juliaobrien50
    @juliaobrien50 6 років тому

    Beautiful video Freya, I feel you’ve made self love easier to understand and more attainable in an everyday way, rather than just saying ‘love yourself.’ Keep creating inspiration, honest and beautiful content!❣️

  • @willmaan3854
    @willmaan3854 6 років тому

    Ive been waiting for this kind of video for such a long time. I'm subscribed to such a lot of intelligent women but they rarely talk about selflove and gratefulness. And these are the subjects that have been playing such an important role in my life. So it means a lot to me that youve filmed a video like this because although lm doing a good job figuring out what selflove and gratefulness means to me, it really helps me to hear how other people feel and think about these subjects. Thanks a lot for inspiring me once again, Freya! You and your way of living has been such an inspiration for me the past six months. Lots of love

  • @abbyshenton8996
    @abbyshenton8996 5 років тому

    Oh yes, thank you Freya! I’m so ready for the rest of these episodes. Much needed.

  • @cameron7426
    @cameron7426 6 років тому +2

    your channel is such an amazing dose of positivity and love :) thank for making amazing videos like this

  • @oliviarose4436
    @oliviarose4436 6 років тому

    I randomly came across your channel and I'm so glad i did youtube needs more content like this!! I myself have been going through this self discovery journey, reflecting more and transcendental meditation. keep spreading the word girl!!!

  • @minamathilde7437
    @minamathilde7437 6 років тому +7

    Thank you, this couldn’t come at a better time. Bless you🌻

  • @okokclaudi
    @okokclaudi 6 років тому

    wow

  • @itsYenLopez
    @itsYenLopez 6 років тому

    currently unfollowing toxic people and people who made me feel insecure (FINALLY!!!) thank you so much for this, Freya! Keep inspiring! love from the Philippines

  • @adelegigandet3958
    @adelegigandet3958 6 років тому +1

    Thank you for spreading and sharing such an inspriring content, and contributing to better and open people's mind ! Love your 70's vibes editing

    • @Freyahaley
      @Freyahaley  6 років тому

      thank u chicky p!! much love x

  • @vay8494
    @vay8494 6 років тому

    This message was super important, it really made me think about the people I follow and if they are making my life better or worse.

  • @friendly_selkie
    @friendly_selkie 6 років тому

    Hey Freya! I had a beautiful experience with just being myself and not pretending somebody I'm not: I got a lot more validation than before, and this really helped me. I know that people talk or find that I'm weird, but I like myself that way and that's the only thing that matters (as long as I'm not hurting anybody with it). But even though I am happy with me, I still trashtalk myself in my head sometimes, I don't know where this even comes from! I still have to work on that.
    I also found out that I am very different and a "better" me when I'm not at home. Traveling just gives me more freedom and happiness and takes a lot of stress away, so I have more time just being.

  • @willow42424
    @willow42424 6 років тому

    I love you Freya it’s honestly like i can feel ur energy projecting through my phone and trust me it’s a beautiful energy to experience 🌞

  • @veniapoulaki4612
    @veniapoulaki4612 6 років тому

    Such an amazing video, made me feel so much better and it cleared things up in my mind. Can't wait for the next episode!

  • @geekybliss123
    @geekybliss123 6 років тому

    I don't know if I'm the only one, but I feel incredibly frustrated with myself whenever I feel like I'm not 'progressing' fast enough or hard enough on this self love journey. It's like I have this idealized version of myself that so incredibly unrealistic that I can't help but feel that my current self doesn't match up. And as someone who gets extremely anxious, borderline neurotic at times, this sort of thinking really puts a dent in my self esteem.
    But I've started to realize that it's likely that I'll never be the idealized version of myself that I aspire to be.
    And that's okay! Who I am now is just as good, if not, better! :)
    So, yes, thank you, Freya, for letting people know what it really means to love yourself. Something that took me AGES to figure out.
    By the way, if you guys have seen that burnt chicken nugget meme, watch it again. What that kid says is filled with so much truth and is a mantra I live with to this day.

  • @freyamcbrearty2398
    @freyamcbrearty2398 6 років тому

    From one Freya to another, thank you for this! Definitely needed this reminder at the moment. You are such a beautiful soul x

  • @linneajohansson3796
    @linneajohansson3796 6 років тому

    You are my inspiration ❤ Watching your videos always makes me feel better, I'm looking forward to these series ❤

  • @elisarivas8768
    @elisarivas8768 6 років тому

    This video was so helpful. Thank you so much for being such a positive inspiration on my life. Your words give me hope that I have the ability to heal and love life again someday.

  • @rachel-ud7ex
    @rachel-ud7ex 6 років тому

    Thank you Freya, you are such an inspirational soul.
    I really care about you.
    Thank you for being who you are and for spreading your beautiful vibes on here.

  • @emmmy_v
    @emmmy_v 6 років тому

    So nice to see UA-cam is used for positivity and not only ideals of beauty. I hope you can help more people as much as you have helped me, Frey!

  • @meaghanveitch6791
    @meaghanveitch6791 6 років тому

    You look so cute and cosy in that jumper! Makes me wanna give you a big hug hahah, lovely message

  • @georgiaserginson9402
    @georgiaserginson9402 6 років тому

    Thank you for this, we need to talk about this more and the fact that you are so down to earth and real with everything makes this all the more powerful. You have no idea how much I needed to hear this. You're helping me and others through the hard times with this and I am so grateful, love ya girl keep it up! 😘💕

  • @andreiaspost
    @andreiaspost 6 років тому

    Really good video, thank you so much for being real and honest! We need more videos like this one because social media has become a big thing in our society and we need to educated on that, so once more thank you!

  • @camilamartinez3787
    @camilamartinez3787 6 років тому

    I'm crying so much rn. I just feel the love rn. And it's just so beautiful.

  • @KlozhoRawr
    @KlozhoRawr 6 років тому

    Thank you so much for this

  • @ocean-em908
    @ocean-em908 6 років тому

    Ah , I really needed to hear this. So many tears flowing out of me. Much love

  • @rahnisnow
    @rahnisnow 6 років тому +3

    Freya you are an incredible inspiring human being, this video was much needed Thankyou ✨❤️

  • @sfs95101
    @sfs95101 6 років тому

    thank you freya! this really helped me and inspired me. i have social media just like everyone else, but on my instagram and youtube i only follow people that are artistic, genuine, inspiring, and enlightening. like me!

  • @hollyhaughey1914
    @hollyhaughey1914 6 років тому

    i can imagine seeing you as a great inspirational speaker/life coach 😍 your amazing!!!

  • @celeste5863
    @celeste5863 6 років тому

    I am so grateful for you. I’ve been having a rough day and this helps me calm down so much so I just wanted to say thank you

  • @dajahmoses7953
    @dajahmoses7953 6 років тому

    Love you Freya! This is such a great video, insightful and intelligent

  • @fietjethedinga641
    @fietjethedinga641 6 років тому

    Thank you. I needed to hear this from someone else. Although I already knew this internally, I needed a reminder. You are just lovely 🧡

  • @juliarominger117
    @juliarominger117 6 років тому

    Thank you so much for posting this Freya!! Your words resonate so deeply with me, I really needed to hear this💖💞 love from Canada🇨🇦

  • @rubyangel5658
    @rubyangel5658 6 років тому

    thank you so much for making this, i'm sending you lots of love and positive vibes back

  • @loveazlen
    @loveazlen 6 років тому

    i love you so much freya !!! im so excited for this new series on your channel !!! greetings from philippines

  • @briannakaitlyn3652
    @briannakaitlyn3652 6 років тому

    love love love your channel!! Thank you for your existence & your positivity. Keep it up girl 💗

  • @hof1971
    @hof1971 6 років тому +4

    I love you so much. bloody legend and inspiration! you’ve helped me through so much. bets youtuber ever 🧘🏽‍♀️🍊

  • @pizzaqueen6084
    @pizzaqueen6084 6 років тому

    This is the first self-care Video that actually helped me love myself(and others ) more thank you💗

  • @lilyjensen8173
    @lilyjensen8173 6 років тому

    Love love love love this so much. I have only recently learnt to love myself and you have inspired and helped me to do that so much. Thank you so so much, you are a beautiful person. Love you xx

  • @morecoffee2463
    @morecoffee2463 6 років тому

    Idk but the fact that you recognize and acknowledge the fact that you are a “pretty, skinny white girl” talking about self love made the entirety of what you said so much more authentic (to me at least)

  • @solanadiaz4849
    @solanadiaz4849 6 років тому +2

    Thank you so much for this 💘 this is exactly what i need at my point in life right now.

  • @minasophie5115
    @minasophie5115 6 років тому

    Beautifully said Freya! Although I thought I love myself and care for myself enough, this video still taught me a lot!! Really exited for the next Episode! Keep on shining 💫

  • @KiaraaVelez
    @KiaraaVelez 6 років тому

    Thank you for this video. I have been stressing cause I have a pool party with my friends today and I was nervous of being looked on as gross. This video really helped. I’ve been toxic to myself and I really shouldn’t. I have to try to look at my pimples and beauty marks as..well beautiful. It’s a beautiful day to be alive

  • @snuggels95
    @snuggels95 6 років тому

    You have such a beautiful attitude and you give off amazing vibes. I'd really love to see more day in the life videos, here in England all I'm surrounded with is new houses being built. All the nature that has been lost in my village is so sad to see. I find your surroundings so beautiful and inspiring. The appreciation you have for the world is beautiful.

    • @Freyahaley
      @Freyahaley  6 років тому +1

      aww! Thank you! I would love to do more vlogs. the only issue for me is that i don't like shoving a camera in my friends faces. A lot of my life is very private and it can be conflicting for some to have that all up on the internet. I do love making those vids tho!

  • @french_brayd
    @french_brayd 6 років тому

    spoke directly to me when i most needed it. thank you for always inspiring me

  • @oprahvevo
    @oprahvevo 6 років тому

    this was cathartic to watch. adore you and your words frey.

  • @laurad17845
    @laurad17845 6 років тому

    Really needed this going through my exams and assignments at the moment. So refreshing. Thank you xx

  • @eleanorscott7510
    @eleanorscott7510 6 років тому

    Such a beautiful talk and so true and pure. I agree with everything you had to say and I think everyone needs to her this 💗

  • @valentineheaven
    @valentineheaven 5 років тому

    i just wanna say thank u for everything you said. it's amazing

  • @thuhanguyen2367
    @thuhanguyen2367 6 років тому

    This video is so refreshing thank you so much for making this!!!

  • @madeleinebolding9263
    @madeleinebolding9263 6 років тому

    I loveee this so damn much. thank you for sharing, gonna look at this when I'm not feeling so positive.

  • @14BlackGoddess
    @14BlackGoddess 6 років тому

    LOOOOOOOVE Love Love Love can't wait for this series!!

  • @reneeullrich7678
    @reneeullrich7678 6 років тому

    This is incredible and the editing is so on point what the hell do you use?! i adore this so much

  • @phoebeyee7625
    @phoebeyee7625 6 років тому

    I LOVE this and you, you’re so calming and I love your vibes, I cannot get over it

  • @starryy222
    @starryy222 6 років тому

    This is exactly what I needed tbh. I love your whole vibe sm

  • @Sofia-iy8cy
    @Sofia-iy8cy 6 років тому

    I’ve been thinking a lot about self love these past days, so thank you thank you thank you for this video!!

    • @Freyahaley
      @Freyahaley  6 років тому

      no problem, hope u enjoyed darlin!

  • @sadie_higgins
    @sadie_higgins 6 років тому

    i needed this today 🙌🏻 thank you freya for helping me to become happier, one day i will be as radiant as you 😊💛

  • @hannahlynn3096
    @hannahlynn3096 6 років тому

    I love u so much, you inspire me constantly and since watching you, I no longer seek validation or happiness through other people, but I now seek through myself. I now do everything that I do for myself, to make myself happy, nature is where I find myself happiest, a lil 60’s era loving gal, who is trying to live a happy, fulfilling life✨ (also where did u get your rings from?! I love them!!) xx -hannah

  • @justagirl6315
    @justagirl6315 6 років тому

    So inspirational! I freakin love you gal grateful for this videos!!

  • @btari7942
    @btari7942 6 років тому

    hi freya! thank you for making this, it's very helpful and inspiring. i'm really looking forward to more episodes, much love from indonesia!

  • @Lourdes-wf9hm
    @Lourdes-wf9hm 6 років тому

    I cried during some parts of this video. This is what I needed just now. Thank you so much.

  • @NelliandRimma
    @NelliandRimma 6 років тому

    You are such a beautiful person, your channel is my favourite to watch❤

  • @YouthIsWaisted
    @YouthIsWaisted 6 років тому

    Aside from how much I love you and this video, THAT SWEATER OMG. Where did you find that beautiful thing?!?! Great video btw, as always xx

  • @mangocowboy
    @mangocowboy 6 років тому

    yes baby, i'm early! i love you so much frey, been here since the freckleclub days. you're so gorgeous and such an inspiration, thank you for your love and your presence, i wouldn't be who i am if it weren't for you xxx

    • @Freyahaley
      @Freyahaley  6 років тому +1

      oh my gOD the freckle club days girl you've been here for ages. THE OG
      love u xx thank you for growing with me

    • @mangocowboy
      @mangocowboy 6 років тому

      gaia in human form you truly are, have a wonderful night dear frey - i hope to meet you one day xx

  • @isabelle9857
    @isabelle9857 6 років тому

    Watching this video was a lovely and refreshing way to start my day, thank you for this!

  • @nathalieluna6185
    @nathalieluna6185 6 років тому

    This video comes exactly when I need it most. Thank you so much.

  • @hannahlynn3096
    @hannahlynn3096 6 років тому

    you are so inspiring, since watching you from the beginning, I have stopped seeking validation through other people and seek out my own happiness and happiness through myself. we are all loved and should be true to ourselves. amen sister🙏🏼 (also love ur rings, where are they from?!)

  • @rozaglugla3218
    @rozaglugla3218 6 років тому

    Keep going girl! 👊✨ these series are much needed🙏

  • @ericalondero2101
    @ericalondero2101 6 років тому

    i loved your concepts please keep doing this!!

  • @lolaandlee8529
    @lolaandlee8529 6 років тому +11

    HEY PEOPLE SCROLLING
    you're beautiful

  • @lauren8919
    @lauren8919 5 років тому +1

    Does anyone know where Frey’s sweater is from?! I love it and need it in my life!

  • @ileniag2555
    @ileniag2555 6 років тому

    you are the reason I got a new haircut. I mean, I needed a haircut anyways, but I love your fringe so thank you for inspiring my new look :,) And thank you for this lovely video, your honest talk is motivational and inspiring xx 🌺✨

  • @zacharykidd2644
    @zacharykidd2644 6 років тому

    You are my main self-love resource, thank you

  • @hayley2422
    @hayley2422 6 років тому +3

    Really need this right now. Couldn’t have come at a better time. 😘💕

  • @lexixfit
    @lexixfit 6 років тому

    Love this video so so much! You are so inspiring

  • @Skullgrin140
    @Skullgrin140 6 років тому

    One of the things that I think really does benefit greatly from removing and cutting out toxic people (purely those that do nothing but make you feel like shit) is that your life gets better and you get better and more happier because of it. But sadly we do live in an era now where people are at the mercy of opinions on Social Media even when we want them or not and I think we could do so much better. Luckily I feel as though this has come along at the best time when we need it right now, What I also think is important which falls into this is that you really cannot please everyone. Pure and Simple.
    There are people out there who will love you and support you and what you stand for and then there are those that won't, which is honestly fine as we are all different, You have to work on making a positive impact on people and making sure that what you are doing and what you are saying will mean something to them when they are looking for love and support and they can come to you for it and use it to give them strength when it's needed.
    Thank you for this Freya.

  • @jadef8204
    @jadef8204 6 років тому

    thank u for this :) looking forward to more self love sessions

  • @emilywheatley1669
    @emilywheatley1669 6 років тому

    love your videos, love this series, please keep creating

  • @cambellhess3584
    @cambellhess3584 6 років тому

    the most inspirational, beautiful person 🌞💛💫

  • @ImmyLucas
    @ImmyLucas 6 років тому +1

    love this x

  • @summersoriano6516
    @summersoriano6516 6 років тому +18

    Your videos are so inspiring

  • @sanne4419
    @sanne4419 6 років тому

    Such an important video! Love you so much Freya you amazing human!