The fact that you seem to have found the most personal peace and contentment you may ever have felt perhaps means that you’re now more reluctant to allow in floods of opinions and comments that could overshadow even a tiny bit of that. You’ll figure out what works for you, but you’ll always be someone worth listening to in my book. 😊
Yeah that sounds pretty bang on to be honest! It's a lovely place to be but I also just miss having a little more freedom when it comes to UA-cam. Gonna work on finding a nice little balance. And I really appreciate your kind words!
@@Carrieand with getting more famous, you know that it's not just fans like me who've followed you for a decade who could be watching, whilst we are for you and happily watch your thoughts and celebrate in your successes, not everyone is a friend! It's wonderful that you've found joy and peace in your personal life and we would want you to protect that over anything you feel you want to share with us!
The way I think about UA-cam and the whole 'saying what's already been said/making something that's worth watching' thing ... imagine your best friend in the world and all of the conversations you have with them ... you'd never sit there feeling bored, because you've heard someone else talk about a similar issue THEY are having, you've heard a similar opinion on this book or that movie ... you've heard similar jokes before, etc. You love the person and they are interesting because you love them. Parasocial relationships are SO like that! It might not be 'love' and it might be one-sided but as a viewer, I'd sooner listen to someone I've followed for a long time talk about something than someone totally new ... so while it might be out there online already, you might be the first/last person your followers will go to for thoughts on certain subjects (for example, you're the only 'theatre' person I follow! If it weren't for you I wouldn't have a NOTION of what's going on in the theatre world, I probably wouldn't even know what shows are running haha I've found out about half the shows that exist because you've mentioned them!). ANYWAY. I relate to so much in this video. Didn't mean to leave such a long comment on this one part of the video because so much of what you said, a lot of us are feeling (the over saturation, the cannot-be-arsed-anymore with voicing opinions on extremely divisive topics) so just want to send a virtual hug
Came here to say something similar. While it may be over saturated information in Carrie’s world, for someone like me this is the only place I’d see it (in terms of theatre). Maybe starting with videos that come off more as “here’s what’s happening” vs “here’s my opinion” will be easier to make?
Carrie, the world has changed massively over the last few years, not necessarily for the better. I love your content, but do it when it's right for you. ❤
"It's overwhelming having people tell you what they think" oh my goodness, I'm glad I'm not alone in that. I find it so tiring that there are so many opinions on the smallest things that I do or don't do. It makes me feel so conscious and bizarre. You've had it so much more than me so I can't even imagine, I've never been as vulnerable as you in a video and I don't think I ever will to be honest, but I'm glad you always have been. You've always provided such a safe space on the internet for me and for everybody. We're able to have what feels like a friend chatting to us when we've not got anybody, and that's so special. I shared a video recently where I went on a cruise with my brother and I asked for a room with twin beds (LOVE your Disney cruise videos) and the comments ranged from saying all kinds of horrible things about how I must be doing nasty things (that I can't say here) with my brother to want to share a room with him to the other end of the scale saying what a prude I am for not wanting to share a bed with my brother. It definitely feels like you can't ever get away unscathed with the internet sometimes. Appreciate you millions though and I have done for years. You're not alone in these weird feelings. I think we need a support group. 💕😅
When i saw a classic carrie in front of her bookcase video i got so excited! Lovely to hear from you like this again, made me feel like a teenager (god it really has been 10 years)
I can only speak for myself, but to me, I follow you, and have done for years, for you. I'm loving this calmer, wiser, more assured version of you you have grown to be, as that in many ways reflects my own growth through the years. It feels authentic. With that in mind, as long as you remain authentic to whatever on earth you might want to post/weigh in on, we will always be here to watch! Because we follow you for where your content comes from, you, not purely the content for contents sake. So everything is always a fresh perspective! Even if you were to start remaking videos you've made 10 years ago, they'd still feel fresh, as you've grown and developped since, and that's only healthy, and that is what brings us back.
I am a cat person too, and I agree that Pineapple does have a place on pizza. I also have found a love for books, more than ever this year. It truly doesn't matter if you have the same opinions that others have already made videos of. Sharing similar opinions brings people together. You always speak so openly, honest and eloquently, and that is why I am excited when I see a notification for a chatty Carrie vlog.
You should share whatever you feel safe & comfortable sharing. You shouldn't feel as though you have to speak out about things at the expense of yourself. I'm glad your finding a balance between doing what you want to do and making this type of video but also trying to do the right thing for you at the same time. For what it's worth, I love when you do these types of videos and your opinion is always one I'll listen to
Carrie I love this video. Todays world is hard to say anything and the fear of being “cancelled” must be ever present. You’re awareness is impressive and refreshing. You will never make a blunders like the others because you’re amazing at this. Dw. You got this x
I've always believed that as long as your true to you, the people who are likeminded will watch, make videos about things you love, say what you want to say if its new or not, as long as it still makes you happy. your sharing your life and that's one of the bravest things a person can do.
Carrie! I'm American but have been following you since Heathers. I made sure to get tickets to your Sheffield show when I was in England and forced my boyfriend and family to come with me. They left being blown away by your performance. Just wanted to give props to you for an outstanding show! Can't wait to see what's next :)
It doesn't matter if you add your voice to a discussion that many others are having. There are always people who haven't heard any of them who will discover you first and what you have to say. It's still worth it.
I know you don’t want to post any old crap, but I will honestly watch any old crap! 😅 seen the Barbie movie? Let us know your thoughts! Bought any Halloween goodies? Show us! Your sit down videos have always felt like sitting down with a friend and a cup of tea. Please try not to over-analyse how entertaining or “worth watching” you are 💜
To me, your videos will always still be unique whether 10 or 1000 people have shared their thoughts on the same topic before, because it is through YOUR lense and voice we get to see things. I've watched you for probably as long as you've been on youtube, and I've always enjoyed your videos a lot because of your charisma and the energy you put into the world. Thank you for still making videos after all these years, it brings so much joy and it's so comforting whenever I get to watch another upload from you! Hoping to one day get to see you in theatres too. 🥰
Hey Carrie, I've been watching you for over 10 years now, started when I was 12, and I'm nearly 23 now. These types of videos always gave me great comfort back then in a time when I was feeling very lonely and like an outsider, and I'm immediately feeling that same type of tranquility now as I'm watching this video again. Life has been a rough rollercoaster, I even started out as a girl with the same curly hair as you watching these and being inspired in life, to now having transitioned a few years ago and being a guy with the same curly hair as you, still feeling inspired. I respect you greatly as a person, and I hope you find the exact balance you're looking for regarding producing content, and just know that all of it has meant a lot to me. Much love
I have May Myself and I videos still saved to a playlist on my phone and I often have them playing on my walks. I know them word for word. But I have always found a comfort in Carrie chatty videos. So hopefully that gives you a wee boost to make more ❤
take as much time as you need because we’re not going anywhere!! but this little corner of the internet is so so special and ANY video that you upload brightens my day and i love watching them🤍 im watching the crown jewels 4 weeks today and i CAN NOT WAIT!!! xxx
Long time viewer/fan here, Everything in the world that could be said, has already been said. No ideas are new ideas, but that doesn't stop the 8 billion people on Earth talking about it! People listen and watch your videos for *you* and *your* opinions on things. There's plenty of Disney/Theater vlogs out there but yours are unique because it's you in them!
Just to completely sidetrack from the actual content of the video (which is great btw, you're so lovely Carrie), your hair looks amazing!!✨ Not sure if the colour-grading is just really good on this video, but it's so vibrant!! 🤩
Take your time, I know the internets changed over the years (even though some attitudes never have) and ofcourse you would grow and change and react to that. I can completely understand that it's more human to focus on the nasty comments than the kind ones but I think it shows how good you are as a person that you are still willing with this video to be open and vulnerable. Please know that there are people who will always be in your corner, I've followed you and supported you for years, from your clearing out my closet video. I know this is one comment among hundreds but I hope it can make you feel even 1% better. 💕
You speak from the heart. Your heart is proudly worn on your sleeve. We see that love shining and glimmering and glowing. Imagine if you didn't feel this way? Imagine if you were just plodding along doing the same old thing that most others do? Nah, you're questioning the path, and we thank you for that. That way you're keeping the path fresh and new and exciting. By the way, you're looking incredible! Your hair, with those specs and that jumper. The colours are perfect! And married life is ensuring that you glow in ways most make-up wishes they could use in their ads! Nah, so just do what's right for you. Life is too short not to be true to yourself. We will still be there... not in the stalkerish kinda way, but in the faithful youtuber follower (non-sheepish) kinda way! Love to the 3 of you! x
you've got this- you are so strong. The internet is everchanging and it can make anyone feel powerless. Just keep one foot in front of the other. You have been my role model for so long, and its refreshing to know that even my role models can feel overwhelmed and need breaks. We love you Carrie ❤ stay strong
Hey Carrie! I’ve been watching your videos since the start - I’ve skipped most of your recent vlogs because I always preferred this kind of video (e.g. one where you just talk to us!). I hope you continue to make the content that makes you happy and feel good. I just wanted you to know that, literal YEARS after watching your video about street awareness and not just walking around on your phone, your voice popped into my head today when I was about to cross the street while texting. It always does. Your words matter and the hopefuls still love you. Cheers!
you could defo do content based around *something* the way a disney vlot etc is, yk? shows, books, films that you like and stuff. new disney film/product launches? colouring your hair? honestly i’d love to see book reviews.
I have followed you for so long Carrie. I love your content and find you as a person such a Ray of sunshine. Keep posting on your terms when you want, and we’ll be here for it x
Even if you end up sharing a similar opinion on a topic as someone else, I, for one, am absolutely gonna watch it purely because it's you. Thats the kind of fan base you have created. People love listening to you talk about different topics because you are genuinely such an interesting person. You're the reason I had the confidence to pursue Drama school and try to turn my hobby of community theatre into something I can do on a bigger scale. There is a real genuineness that anyone can see from miles away on your videos, that is missing from so many content creators these days, that is part of why your content stands out. Just take things one day at a time, and know how loved and supported you are ❤❤
The most important thing is that you feel good and content with your choices! That being said, to me your voice is always worth listening to, and I actually don't follow much other content about the things you talk about. So I am always always interested in hearing what you have to say!!
I love your jumper! Seeing a video like this was lovely; I totally get all those feelings. All I hope for is content that you love putting out. Also hello Edgar
Thank you, it's my favourite jumper! I'll always put out content I enjoy because I think that's the main thing! As long as I'm having a good time, hopefully others will, too!
Maybe to get your confidence back you could do a QnA? What's married life like? Did you see yourself in where you imagined you would be as a kid? React to an old video of yours? Are you still writing? I could go on but those are just a couple of ideas :)
The whole singing in theatres thing really annoys me. I pay my ticket price to see the amazing, professional performers on the stage, not the people in the audience murdering the songs. If I wanted to hear them, then I would go to a karaoke bar. Don’t stop being you, you’re amazing! x
just about to sit down and watch this video. Not sure what exactly you might be covering but whatever it is I just want you to know that I always love watching your videos and no matter what your content always feels so welcoming and wholesome xx
Every now and then, I'll have a look back through some of your older videos and it brings such joy to go back into that world for a while. It's priceless to just remember how life felt back then. Your audience has grown up, UA-cam has changed, the world feels a different place! Everything you are saying makes such sense - and I think so much of it is a reflection of how everyone feels in today's society. So don't be harsh on yourself... if vlogs feel right for now, go with it. A few years down the line, everything might change again. All we can do is run with it :) x
It's amazing how watching your videos seems to always voice ideas that have floated around my brain but never quite come into complete, understandably worded thoughts or opinions. I think it shows bravery even admitting anything like this online, and it's completely valid and understandable. Personally, I've always loved hearing different opinions and points of view, but in this modern world of people feeling increasing detachment from what they say online and who it affects, and everyone seeming to believe that it's OK to decimate anyone who doesn't share their precise views, I know I would be unimaginably overwhelmed and completely terrified to say anything! All I can say is that anybody who even deserves to comment on your open, honest and lovely channel/social media will *always* be respectful of any differing opinions. I've missed these sit-down, chatty videos; they feel sort of full-circle, like the videos you used to make at the very start of your channel, but with a newfound confidence and perspective, and perhaps this slightly more grounded maturity and wisdom. It makes me really sad that you might have felt scared or hesitant to make them because of the rudeness on the Internet. But I'm glad you're making them again, and I hope you know that we'll love any content you put out, regardless of whether we've already heard it a thousand times, or not even once!!
I'll add my own opinion. I'm a 54 year-old French woman raising American teenagers, including a daughter who loves you. After 5 years, we finally visited my parents in Paris, then went to London to see you. We missed your concert, but got to see you in the Crown Jewels. Such a joy and pleasure. Your humility is adorable and one of your qualities. However, some of us appreciate your voice, because we appreciate you. I do not follow influencers. But I love watching your videos because I find your personality enchanting, and refreshing, and you have achieved plenty, given us plenty to make us want to root for. You're not a just a youtube personality. You're an artist. I like hearing from you just like I enjoy hearing from my friends, and other people with talent. My 16 year-old feels the same way. She introduced me to you, despite the fact that we live in Arizona. It is wonderful, exciting that you are so often busy doing a lot of wonderful things, shows, concerts, blogs, books. Do what feels right in the moment and share that.
The fact that you care so much about what you say out here makes you even better! Something that occurred to me while I was listening is that what you're feeling seems like what all of us in our early 30s are feeling, so it's nice to know we're not alone!
for what it's worth, these days i prefer longer form content on UA-cam rather than something like clippy vlogs because of Reels and TikTok. It's a nice break to be able to sit down for longer than 10 minutes and focus on one person talking. And I love hearing your perspective and opinion on various topics!
Yes, I follow you for you, for 11 years now! Not for Disney content or even your career, but I understand that those vids are easier to make. The occasional vid about you is lovely.
We love watching your videos (and seeing you in the theatre) as I am Disney and MT mad as is my 16 year old daughter. She is full of the insecurities you often talk about and her shyness and lack of body and self confidence will likely stop her from following her MT dreams which breaks my heart as she is beautiful and talented but doesn’t have the courage to be one of the ‘look at me’ kids. We also love watching creative people who bring beauty to the world (like yourself) and those who use their privilege to help others and make the world a better place - we definitely need more people like that in this crazy world. Keep being you and we’ll keep watching as you are so inspiring and a kind and gentle soul. 💕
Sometimes Carrie, its not so much about what you make that is worth watching or not, but that you ARE worth watching. You as a person, an individual, are worth investing our time and attention in right now. Sometimes we focus so much on what we do and not who we are. And yeah that's also scary because when people get invested in other people (people they don't even know in reality) they are more likely to act out when the person they invested in changes. But nonetheless, I'd like to say the above to take pressure off of creators to think of the most beautiful idea and make the best thing, when sometimes them being around is enough to help a viewer like me feel less lonely in the world.
Dear Carrie, I appreciate your sit-down-type videos so much. You are a joy to watch because of who you are. Personally I always enjoy someone sharing what they're excited about or what they want to talk about. I don't care if you have "nothing to add", I still love to hear your thoughts. You being unapologetically yourself has been and is inspiring. Besides, it would kind of be nice to have that kind of content we had 10 years ago, where videos didn't have to be either 1 minute or an hour or very deep or meaningful or a vlog but just... a casual chat. Anyway, I hope you'll find a way to balance the (very logical) anxieties with your desire to film and share. ❤
I am just glad you’re making videos again. But I think it was a video by Alfie and Zoe where they said they’re just posting the videos mostly for themselves now.
great video carrie:) as always! AND INDEED THE SPOOKY SEASON IS NEAR. truly, we adore everything you post carrie, no matter what you happen to post: we love it. but the long form sit down videos do happen to be my favourite!! i completely understand the fear of change within social media atm, especially youtube. it’s scary how different things are now then they used to be, in fact i’m not a fan of social media at all now. i only have youtube these days, i no longer even have the others. short form content is just not for me!! as you said, now EVERYONE is on youtube, EVERYONE has an opinion, but as your subscribers, and people who adore you, we want to hear YOUR opinion:) such as the example of singing along in theatres. i’d love to hear your take:)) in my personal opinion, especially with the spooky season nearing, my favourite videos of yours would be anything to do with halloween, books, fashion, theatre as a whole including experiences and opinions, cats, stories!, and absolutely everything like that. we love you carrie
Would love it if you would do a ‘fallmas’ / autumn vlogs. There is a lovely corner of the internet that loves autumn, cosy vlogs, cuppa and read alongs, Gilmore girls, homesense autumn shopping etc. your genuine love for autumn would make for some great videos!
It's nice to hear someone actually put into words how I feel about sharing online. I keep thinking I don't have anything interesting or unique to give, and can't help worrying that I'll say something and receive backlash for it. There's so much I'd love to talk about and share but never make a video and don't post about the things I'd like to. Maybe it's self-preservation, maybe it's anxiety. It's something I'd like to worry about less.
I feel like a "Theatre Dictionary" of terms you should/would know from working in theatre could be really useful coming from someone like you. Either that, or "Theatre Tips" like the do's and don'ts of UK theatre/auditions maybe? I feel like your unique experience of living and breathing theatre your whole life would be a really helpful insight, as your experience would be completely different to someone who has been through drama school xx
Your videos pop up on my page and I think to myself, today is going to be a good one because watching carrie’s videos ALWAYS brighten up my day and I’m sure there are many others who would agree with me. Don’t let those floods of opinions control what you would like to share. Keep enjoying your personal life. Your voice (for me at least) is usually the only one I want to hear on social media. Can not wait to come and watch you in Milton Keynes for my birthday in October. ♥️♥️♥️ PS hello Edgar! 🐱
Oh my goddess! Compared to you I am a teeny tiny fish in this UA-cam pond, but I totally get what you’re saying. I was meant to do a live stream on Wednesday night but the anxiety around doing it was so bad I cancelled it, but when it comes to making edited, pre-recorded content I am fine…. So good to know I’m not alone. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability with us.
Girl....I feel you on this! I have left Twitter over a month ago and haven't looked back since and I do not miss it one bit! It was getting so exhausting and it made me so anxious. I can only imagine what comment sections on UA-cam videos can be like sometimes.... I haven't been on UA-cam for a while either. There are multiple reasons for that, but one of them surely was anxiety and feeling overwhelmed by so many people making videos with their opinions on the same subject and they then came with tons of comments full of hate and opinions in the comment sections so I just.... ignored it I guess? And I'm not even a content creator! So again, I can only imagine how it must be for you as a creator! I have a ton of catching up to do on vlogs here on UA-cam, so I'm slowly trying to do that now... But I loved seeing this video, I love listening to you and I love watching your videos and other content you put out in the digital world for us :-) Thank you for always kinda being there for me somehow... I feel like you are one of few who can put me back at ease, you know? Also, I am really hoping for a new book of yours soonish.... Are you writing at the moment? Or taking a small writing break because of your theatre work etc.? Just curious, not judging of course! Take care, dear Carrie. And again: Thank you! Just because. :-) x
I love your videos, I love most that your so down to earth and so easy to watch. I have watched for many years and as a mother I smile when I see my teens use their wreck it journals or when they sing songs from musicals or add to their Disney collection. You make me smile, think and stop and reflect. You keep doing what’s good for you- that’s what’s good for us. The authentic you is always appreciated. Thank you ❤
You radiate wisdom and positively in your videos. Watching you feels like I'm sitting with an old friend catching up. You'll find the content you want to put out and when you do, we will all be here watching and cheering you on ❤
Aww, this video reminded me of old school UA-cam. Just another person, talking straight to camera and sharing their thoughts in a really simple & human way. Missed this and missed seeing you on UA-cam, Carrie! ❤
There’s a difference between being vulnerable and ignoring your boundaries. You are not allowed or expected to ignore your boundaries, but you are allowed to be vulnerable. For example, I had to mute someone I worked with online because they were just “sharing their opinions” but it was causing me anxiety. Last time I spoke to them in person, they said they were making money online as a “TikTok ranting account”. I set that boundary of “I will not let negative energy enter my safe space” and because that’s all they do, I cut it off. Also, instead of viewing it as “sharing your opinion”, it should be seen as “joining/engaging in a conversation”. But in order to do that, you need to cultivate a safe space and community (which I believe you have) that will agree to engage in conversation and agree to a shared set of agreements. We want to have conversations with you.
Excellent video! Can absolutely understand the thought behind not wanting to add to an oversaturation of opinions, especially when you don’t believe you bring anything new to the table. Where I think you can find joy and comfort in reclaiming that want to share, is the fact that your opinion will come from a perspective that is COMPLETELY UNIQUE FROM THE MAJORITY OF YOUR AUDIENCE. I know as someone who works in regional fringe theatre, I certainly am fascinated by hearing about sides of theatre discourse and such from someone who works so heavily in the west end and much more commercial theatre spaces! The different backgrounds between you and your community might cause divisiveness, but if it’s clear that it’s coming from your place and your background, I think your voice is super valuable and BLOODY FASCINATING! And if you wanted, you could always collaborate with people who have different backgrounds to you, and so may look at things from a different angle. They’ll bring something new that you hadn’t considered and vice versa! I don’t comment often, and ironically, I clearly have an opinion about your thoughts on the oversaturation of opinions 😂 but you’ve started a really excellent conversation here, and I hope anything I’ve said has been helpful. ❤
This is so interesting! My point of view on it has been that there is no original thought anyway but how you say something is important and different. Sometimes you can hear the same thing over and over and someone says it slightly differently or at the right time and it just hits perfectly and that's what I focus on. Also love seeing my book in the corner haha! :) xx
I am still very interested in your hair routine. Your hair is so pretty! I am trying to get my curls back and your color is something I inspire to have.
Carrie, so many things one wants to say... all positive of course...keeping it brief-ish... 1. I have learned something new from everything of yours I've watched... this one, for example...no idea there was conflagration re: singing while attending theatre performances!...as an 🇺🇲 with 🇬🇧 ancestry, even just the cultural isms are informative and comforting. 2. (With a nod to your busy schedule) have you considered livestreaming this type of content and having trusted moderators nix the negative comments? Seems to work well for the Disney livestreams to remain family friendly. Just a thought. Finally, 🐈 & 🍍 on 🍕 for the win! Thank you for whatever you choose to share publicly as it is always a blessing to find a kindred spirit, even way across the pond! 🤗
Thats the beutifull thing about this industry. Nothing is ever going to be simple but there are plenty of peeps willing to engage in a conversation. Art is always subjective. The industry is always complex and constantly changing. But its starting these conversations that makes me love the peoole in it. I also love the way your brain works.
Just because someone else has voiced the statement before, does not mean that every member of your audience has heard that viewpoint before. Not everyone that follows you will have heard that the topic even exists.
The reason I watch you is for you-You are the channel. There is no other. I love your book insights, your life events, and you are just interesting. I watch other channels because of the persons' uniqueness-Ie: Scott Paige, Gary C. and many others. They are unique as you are- as we all are. You do you! If you don't want to do these one on ones-don't. However, I do love me the tour, Disney, and theatre vlogs as well. Wishing you all the best, Sincerely, Dean
I would looove to see some book recommendations- yeah, there’s a lot of people doing these kinds of videos but I‘d love to know about YOUR favourite books because I value YOUR opinion and the vibes in YOUR videos are just uniquely bookish and cozy 🧡 we are watching you for you!
I love your videos so much Carrie!! Make them when you feel ready! One of my favorite series of your was the may myself and I because I loved hearing your creative response to each word each day-if that's something of interest would love to see something like that again :)
i seems very common for early stage youtubers like you and many others who were used to share being unable to share. as weird as it is when internet says its more tolerant it is far more aggressive than it used to be. it used to be one two or 15 bad comments that could have been avoided or ignored now its one person screen recording and posting it to 3 different social media and boom you have 4 thousand people yelling here there every where. even support is overwhelming. i miss that era of less chaos.
Carrie, I am coming to London from the US and will be seeing you Onstage Wednesday!! I am a community theater actress and so looking forward to seeing West End caliber shows 😀 I've been watching your UA-cam content through the pandemic and I am blown away by your talent!! Best Wishes in all you do ! Michaela
I fully understand where you are coming from. Its hard because theres a power in numbers. The more people talking about a topic, the better. It might not be new for the internet, but it could be new for someone in your audience. But the internet is so lacking in nuance and people can be genuinely cruel when they disagree.
I have subscribed to your channel for nearly 10 years now. I can definitively say that some people might say something before you do, but they have very little chance of saying it more eloquently.
Carrie, to a degree you don’t have to worry about whether we will like videos on new topics that interest you, as people tend to be drawn to individuals who have similar interests, or make videos about similar interests to themselves. For example, I love musical theatre, books & reading, Disney & Marvel, Halloween and behind the scenes type videos (especially in theatre). Most of us share interests with you. And we are interested in your voice and what you have to say. There will be many many other UA-cam channels that make musical theatre content, so I could go elsewhere to watch that type of content, but I enjoy hearing what you have to say. And as we enjoy your voice and thoughts on areas we already have an interest in, if you bring up a topic that is new to us, chances are we will listen because we already like listening to you as a person, not just the content. So make whatever you want because chances are, we will either also be really interested in that area, or we will be willing to learn about something new from someone whose voice we already like to hear from
I may be in the minority of people who aren't very aware of what's going on elsewhere online (especially twitter and tiktok) but sometimes you can add your voice to a big conversation and yours is the first/only time someone hears about it! At least I didn't hear any about whether audiences should be able to sing along in the theatre. So those conversations aren't universally oversaturated with opinions, just in certain circles/platforms. In other words, I think the people subscribed to your UA-cam are people who want to hear your thoughts on things, even if lots of other people have already said the same thing. You're the one we're interested in listening to!
Don't underestimate the fact that people like to listen to what you have to say just because its you and people like your video format/personality/opinions! Even if someone has said it before, it doesn't necessarily matter. Not everyone has watched everything on the internet and even if they have already seen a similar point of view, it's not exactly yours. I can't imagine how overwhelming it must be to receive comments, tweets etc and that anxiety is of course completely valid - but your opinion is still valid and interesting to people who like you and your content - even if someones said it before and even if it isn't worded completely eloquently!
Take as long as you need to figure stuff out, we'll still be here, and I love your content whatever it's about. (I nearly mentioned something but I realized it sounded like really bad advertising for my book so I just thought "...nope" lol)
On the idea of not making videos because you feel like you’re not sharing new ideas, it might be worth framing it like this: a lot of people love the trope ‘enemies to lovers’. And they’ll read a thousand different forms of the ‘same’ idea, even though they’ve read it before.
Part of what you said resonated with me for this reason... I'm a cosplayer and in the cosplay community there's a lot of people that say "Why should I bother making this particular costume because so and so made it and theirs is amazing!" Okay, so yeah someone else made it but if they were the only one that ever made it you would miss out on all the unique and creative perspectives that you could see on the same thing if other people didn't make it too! So What if there are other opinions out there (Maybe some very similar to your own), you have your own unique perspective that you can bring to a situation! So Make the thing! The creation of the thing is part of the journey! Maybe while speaking your own opinion out loud, you'll come to additional or other conclusions! Maybe the conversation in the comments will help change other people's minds!
On the topic of whether or not to sing along in a theatre, why not both? It would be so much fun to sing along to Mamma Mia or Grease, it'd be like adult pantomime theatre. There's plenty of musicals/songs that would sound great with audience participation.
This is completely relatable - I don’t have a UA-cam channel or anywhere near the same size following on socials, but over the past couple of years the only thing I post regularly on has become tumblr 😅 for all the reasons you listed! I just don’t have the energy, or rather the patience, for how the internet can be. But I do miss it! I miss chatting with people about things I find interesting, I miss these more rambling conversations. People naturally love to connect and the internet is the most far-reaching connection we have (pun mildly intended)! I hope you can find that happy balance and we’ll be here while you do 💜💜💜
I feel I'm starting to have the energy of an internet grandma. "Back in my day...blah blah blah!" 😂 But I totally get what you mean! It's patience. I don't have as much as I used to which isn't a bad thing! It means I tend to stay in uncomfortable places for a shorter amount of time. But it also means I miss out on this! Engaging with lovely people on the internet like you!
Even if other people make their opinions (that you share) known, I for one, would be most interested in hearing your take. The only opinions I truly listen to are from people I trust. You present everything you do with thoughtfulness, compassion, and intelligence, so your opinion is one I would like to hear. 💕
I find it amazing that some people like yourself try to put themselves out there to the public where I don't even post on my Facebook page to my friends and family. I value my privacy and am awed that any of you would put yourself out to the public, and all their nasty feedback. I completely understand why you would get tired of that part of sharing yourself, especially since you have found such peace and stability in your life. YOU know what is real so why do you need strangers to either validate or challenge that? ❤
I feel that Carrie. I have kept a blog for years, and recently am struggling. I feel like the stuff I write is stuff I’ve already written about. Then I get frustrated that it’s because I am rubbish at writing
Paused this video to comment: If you made videos about theatre opinions (like whether audience members should sing along etc) I would definitely watch them!
A very interesting video about a topic that is not often talked about. You should never have to be afraid to say what is on your mind no matter if other people think it is controversial or awkward. As always, keep being you and ignore and block the haters!
The fact that you seem to have found the most personal peace and contentment you may ever have felt perhaps means that you’re now more reluctant to allow in floods of opinions and comments that could overshadow even a tiny bit of that. You’ll figure out what works for you, but you’ll always be someone worth listening to in my book. 😊
Yeah that sounds pretty bang on to be honest! It's a lovely place to be but I also just miss having a little more freedom when it comes to UA-cam. Gonna work on finding a nice little balance. And I really appreciate your kind words!
Perfectly said
@@Carrieand with getting more famous, you know that it's not just fans like me who've followed you for a decade who could be watching, whilst we are for you and happily watch your thoughts and celebrate in your successes, not everyone is a friend! It's wonderful that you've found joy and peace in your personal life and we would want you to protect that over anything you feel you want to share with us!
And the more you have, the more you have to lose ❤ happy to see your face on camera though Carrie!
The way I think about UA-cam and the whole 'saying what's already been said/making something that's worth watching' thing ... imagine your best friend in the world and all of the conversations you have with them ... you'd never sit there feeling bored, because you've heard someone else talk about a similar issue THEY are having, you've heard a similar opinion on this book or that movie ... you've heard similar jokes before, etc. You love the person and they are interesting because you love them. Parasocial relationships are SO like that! It might not be 'love' and it might be one-sided but as a viewer, I'd sooner listen to someone I've followed for a long time talk about something than someone totally new ... so while it might be out there online already, you might be the first/last person your followers will go to for thoughts on certain subjects (for example, you're the only 'theatre' person I follow! If it weren't for you I wouldn't have a NOTION of what's going on in the theatre world, I probably wouldn't even know what shows are running haha I've found out about half the shows that exist because you've mentioned them!). ANYWAY. I relate to so much in this video. Didn't mean to leave such a long comment on this one part of the video because so much of what you said, a lot of us are feeling (the over saturation, the cannot-be-arsed-anymore with voicing opinions on extremely divisive topics) so just want to send a virtual hug
Came here to say something similar. While it may be over saturated information in Carrie’s world, for someone like me this is the only place I’d see it (in terms of theatre). Maybe starting with videos that come off more as “here’s what’s happening” vs “here’s my opinion” will be easier to make?
Carrie, the world has changed massively over the last few years, not necessarily for the better. I love your content, but do it when it's right for you. ❤
"It's overwhelming having people tell you what they think" oh my goodness, I'm glad I'm not alone in that. I find it so tiring that there are so many opinions on the smallest things that I do or don't do. It makes me feel so conscious and bizarre. You've had it so much more than me so I can't even imagine, I've never been as vulnerable as you in a video and I don't think I ever will to be honest, but I'm glad you always have been.
You've always provided such a safe space on the internet for me and for everybody. We're able to have what feels like a friend chatting to us when we've not got anybody, and that's so special.
I shared a video recently where I went on a cruise with my brother and I asked for a room with twin beds (LOVE your Disney cruise videos) and the comments ranged from saying all kinds of horrible things about how I must be doing nasty things (that I can't say here) with my brother to want to share a room with him to the other end of the scale saying what a prude I am for not wanting to share a bed with my brother. It definitely feels like you can't ever get away unscathed with the internet sometimes.
Appreciate you millions though and I have done for years. You're not alone in these weird feelings. I think we need a support group.
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When i saw a classic carrie in front of her bookcase video i got so excited! Lovely to hear from you like this again, made me feel like a teenager (god it really has been 10 years)
I can only speak for myself, but to me, I follow you, and have done for years, for you. I'm loving this calmer, wiser, more assured version of you you have grown to be, as that in many ways reflects my own growth through the years. It feels authentic. With that in mind, as long as you remain authentic to whatever on earth you might want to post/weigh in on, we will always be here to watch! Because we follow you for where your content comes from, you, not purely the content for contents sake. So everything is always a fresh perspective! Even if you were to start remaking videos you've made 10 years ago, they'd still feel fresh, as you've grown and developped since, and that's only healthy, and that is what brings us back.
I am a cat person too, and I agree that Pineapple does have a place on pizza. I also have found a love for books, more than ever this year. It truly doesn't matter if you have the same opinions that others have already made videos of. Sharing similar opinions brings people together. You always speak so openly, honest and eloquently, and that is why I am excited when I see a notification for a chatty Carrie vlog.
You should share whatever you feel safe & comfortable sharing. You shouldn't feel as though you have to speak out about things at the expense of yourself. I'm glad your finding a balance between doing what you want to do and making this type of video but also trying to do the right thing for you at the same time. For what it's worth, I love when you do these types of videos and your opinion is always one I'll listen to
Carrie I love this video. Todays world is hard to say anything and the fear of being “cancelled” must be ever present. You’re awareness is impressive and refreshing. You will never make a blunders like the others because you’re amazing at this. Dw. You got this x
I love these sit down talks makes me feel much less werid when other people show things they love etc or they think. Super awesome stuff here ♡
I've always believed that as long as your true to you, the people who are likeminded will watch, make videos about things you love, say what you want to say if its new or not, as long as it still makes you happy. your sharing your life and that's one of the bravest things a person can do.
Carrie! I'm American but have been following you since Heathers. I made sure to get tickets to your Sheffield show when I was in England and forced my boyfriend and family to come with me. They left being blown away by your performance. Just wanted to give props to you for an outstanding show! Can't wait to see what's next :)
It doesn't matter if you add your voice to a discussion that many others are having. There are always people who haven't heard any of them who will discover you first and what you have to say. It's still worth it.
I know you don’t want to post any old crap, but I will honestly watch any old crap! 😅 seen the Barbie movie? Let us know your thoughts! Bought any Halloween goodies? Show us! Your sit down videos have always felt like sitting down with a friend and a cup of tea. Please try not to over-analyse how entertaining or “worth watching” you are 💜
Agreed definitely
To me, your videos will always still be unique whether 10 or 1000 people have shared their thoughts on the same topic before, because it is through YOUR lense and voice we get to see things. I've watched you for probably as long as you've been on youtube, and I've always enjoyed your videos a lot because of your charisma and the energy you put into the world.
Thank you for still making videos after all these years, it brings so much joy and it's so comforting whenever I get to watch another upload from you!
Hoping to one day get to see you in theatres too. 🥰
Hey Carrie, I've been watching you for over 10 years now, started when I was 12, and I'm nearly 23 now. These types of videos always gave me great comfort back then in a time when I was feeling very lonely and like an outsider, and I'm immediately feeling that same type of tranquility now as I'm watching this video again. Life has been a rough rollercoaster, I even started out as a girl with the same curly hair as you watching these and being inspired in life, to now having transitioned a few years ago and being a guy with the same curly hair as you, still feeling inspired. I respect you greatly as a person, and I hope you find the exact balance you're looking for regarding producing content, and just know that all of it has meant a lot to me. Much love
I have May Myself and I videos still saved to a playlist on my phone and I often have them playing on my walks. I know them word for word. But I have always found a comfort in Carrie chatty videos. So hopefully that gives you a wee boost to make more ❤
take as much time as you need because we’re not going anywhere!! but this little corner of the internet is so so special and ANY video that you upload brightens my day and i love watching them🤍
im watching the crown jewels 4 weeks today and i CAN NOT WAIT!!! xxx
Long time viewer/fan here, Everything in the world that could be said, has already been said. No ideas are new ideas, but that doesn't stop the 8 billion people on Earth talking about it! People listen and watch your videos for *you* and *your* opinions on things. There's plenty of Disney/Theater vlogs out there but yours are unique because it's you in them!
Just to completely sidetrack from the actual content of the video (which is great btw, you're so lovely Carrie), your hair looks amazing!!✨ Not sure if the colour-grading is just really good on this video, but it's so vibrant!! 🤩
Take your time, I know the internets changed over the years (even though some attitudes never have) and ofcourse you would grow and change and react to that. I can completely understand that it's more human to focus on the nasty comments than the kind ones but I think it shows how good you are as a person that you are still willing with this video to be open and vulnerable. Please know that there are people who will always be in your corner, I've followed you and supported you for years, from your clearing out my closet video. I know this is one comment among hundreds but I hope it can make you feel even 1% better. 💕
Your videos ✨feel✨ like when you’re quietly sitting with friends by a fire, just introspectively enjoying watching it and the warmth it brings.
You speak from the heart. Your heart is proudly worn on your sleeve. We see that love shining and glimmering and glowing.
Imagine if you didn't feel this way? Imagine if you were just plodding along doing the same old thing that most others do? Nah, you're questioning the path, and we thank you for that. That way you're keeping the path fresh and new and exciting.
By the way, you're looking incredible! Your hair, with those specs and that jumper. The colours are perfect! And married life is ensuring that you glow in ways most make-up wishes they could use in their ads!
Nah, so just do what's right for you. Life is too short not to be true to yourself. We will still be there... not in the stalkerish kinda way, but in the faithful youtuber follower (non-sheepish) kinda way!
Love to the 3 of you! x
you've got this- you are so strong. The internet is everchanging and it can make anyone feel powerless. Just keep one foot in front of the other. You have been my role model for so long, and its refreshing to know that even my role models can feel overwhelmed and need breaks. We love you Carrie ❤ stay strong
Love you Carrie, whenever you're ready to share i'll always be here
Hey Carrie! I’ve been watching your videos since the start - I’ve skipped most of your recent vlogs because I always preferred this kind of video (e.g. one where you just talk to us!). I hope you continue to make the content that makes you happy and feel good. I just wanted you to know that, literal YEARS after watching your video about street awareness and not just walking around on your phone, your voice popped into my head today when I was about to cross the street while texting. It always does. Your words matter and the hopefuls still love you. Cheers!
you could defo do content based around *something* the way a disney vlot etc is, yk? shows, books, films that you like and stuff. new disney film/product launches? colouring your hair? honestly i’d love to see book reviews.
I have followed you for so long Carrie. I love your content and find you as a person such a Ray of sunshine. Keep posting on your terms when you want, and we’ll be here for it x
Even if you end up sharing a similar opinion on a topic as someone else, I, for one, am absolutely gonna watch it purely because it's you. Thats the kind of fan base you have created. People love listening to you talk about different topics because you are genuinely such an interesting person. You're the reason I had the confidence to pursue Drama school and try to turn my hobby of community theatre into something I can do on a bigger scale. There is a real genuineness that anyone can see from miles away on your videos, that is missing from so many content creators these days, that is part of why your content stands out. Just take things one day at a time, and know how loved and supported you are ❤❤
The most important thing is that you feel good and content with your choices! That being said, to me your voice is always worth listening to, and I actually don't follow much other content about the things you talk about. So I am always always interested in hearing what you have to say!!
I love your jumper! Seeing a video like this was lovely; I totally get all those feelings. All I hope for is content that you love putting out. Also hello Edgar
Thank you, it's my favourite jumper! I'll always put out content I enjoy because I think that's the main thing! As long as I'm having a good time, hopefully others will, too!
Keep doing what you do and voice your opinions, Carrie; I’ll never stop watching your videos
Maybe to get your confidence back you could do a QnA? What's married life like? Did you see yourself in where you imagined you would be as a kid? React to an old video of yours? Are you still writing? I could go on but those are just a couple of ideas :)
The whole singing in theatres thing really annoys me. I pay my ticket price to see the amazing, professional performers on the stage, not the people in the audience murdering the songs. If I wanted to hear them, then I would go to a karaoke bar. Don’t stop being you, you’re amazing! x
just about to sit down and watch this video. Not sure what exactly you might be covering but whatever it is I just want you to know that I always love watching your videos and no matter what your content always feels so welcoming and wholesome xx
Every now and then, I'll have a look back through some of your older videos and it brings such joy to go back into that world for a while. It's priceless to just remember how life felt back then. Your audience has grown up, UA-cam has changed, the world feels a different place! Everything you are saying makes such sense - and I think so much of it is a reflection of how everyone feels in today's society. So don't be harsh on yourself... if vlogs feel right for now, go with it. A few years down the line, everything might change again. All we can do is run with it :) x
It's amazing how watching your videos seems to always voice ideas that have floated around my brain but never quite come into complete, understandably worded thoughts or opinions. I think it shows bravery even admitting anything like this online, and it's completely valid and understandable. Personally, I've always loved hearing different opinions and points of view, but in this modern world of people feeling increasing detachment from what they say online and who it affects, and everyone seeming to believe that it's OK to decimate anyone who doesn't share their precise views, I know I would be unimaginably overwhelmed and completely terrified to say anything!
All I can say is that anybody who even deserves to comment on your open, honest and lovely channel/social media will *always* be respectful of any differing opinions. I've missed these sit-down, chatty videos; they feel sort of full-circle, like the videos you used to make at the very start of your channel, but with a newfound confidence and perspective, and perhaps this slightly more grounded maturity and wisdom. It makes me really sad that you might have felt scared or hesitant to make them because of the rudeness on the Internet. But I'm glad you're making them again, and I hope you know that we'll love any content you put out, regardless of whether we've already heard it a thousand times, or not even once!!
I'll add my own opinion. I'm a 54 year-old French woman raising American teenagers, including a daughter who loves you. After 5 years, we finally visited my parents in Paris, then went to London to see you. We missed your concert, but got to see you in the Crown Jewels. Such a joy and pleasure. Your humility is adorable and one of your qualities. However, some of us appreciate your voice, because we appreciate you. I do not follow influencers. But I love watching your videos because I find your personality enchanting, and refreshing, and you have achieved plenty, given us plenty to make us want to root for. You're not a just a youtube personality. You're an artist. I like hearing from you just like I enjoy hearing from my friends, and other people with talent. My 16 year-old feels the same way. She introduced me to you, despite the fact that we live in Arizona. It is wonderful, exciting that you are so often busy doing a lot of wonderful things, shows, concerts, blogs, books. Do what feels right in the moment and share that.
The fact that you care so much about what you say out here makes you even better! Something that occurred to me while I was listening is that what you're feeling seems like what all of us in our early 30s are feeling, so it's nice to know we're not alone!
for what it's worth, these days i prefer longer form content on UA-cam rather than something like clippy vlogs because of Reels and TikTok. It's a nice break to be able to sit down for longer than 10 minutes and focus on one person talking. And I love hearing your perspective and opinion on various topics!
Yes, I follow you for you, for 11 years now! Not for Disney content or even your career, but I understand that those vids are easier to make. The occasional vid about you is lovely.
This video felt like a heartfelt conversation with a dear friend. Welcome back, Carrie
We love watching your videos (and seeing you in the theatre) as I am Disney and MT mad as is my 16 year old daughter. She is full of the insecurities you often talk about and her shyness and lack of body and self confidence will likely stop her from following her MT dreams which breaks my heart as she is beautiful and talented but doesn’t have the courage to be one of the ‘look at me’ kids. We also love watching creative people who bring beauty to the world (like yourself) and those who use their privilege to help others and make the world a better place - we definitely need more people like that in this crazy world. Keep being you and we’ll keep watching as you are so inspiring and a kind and gentle soul. 💕
Sometimes Carrie, its not so much about what you make that is worth watching or not, but that you ARE worth watching. You as a person, an individual, are worth investing our time and attention in right now. Sometimes we focus so much on what we do and not who we are. And yeah that's also scary because when people get invested in other people (people they don't even know in reality) they are more likely to act out when the person they invested in changes. But nonetheless, I'd like to say the above to take pressure off of creators to think of the most beautiful idea and make the best thing, when sometimes them being around is enough to help a viewer like me feel less lonely in the world.
it’s so lovely to see you in front of your bookshelves again! it’s like catching up with an old friend 🥰
We're here for whatever you choose to share with us!
Bring the joy, bring the chaos! You can always turn off comments, or--set a boundary there for us, or for you. Love your videos Carrie
Dear Carrie, I appreciate your sit-down-type videos so much. You are a joy to watch because of who you are. Personally I always enjoy someone sharing what they're excited about or what they want to talk about. I don't care if you have "nothing to add", I still love to hear your thoughts. You being unapologetically yourself has been and is inspiring. Besides, it would kind of be nice to have that kind of content we had 10 years ago, where videos didn't have to be either 1 minute or an hour or very deep or meaningful or a vlog but just... a casual chat. Anyway, I hope you'll find a way to balance the (very logical) anxieties with your desire to film and share. ❤
I am just glad you’re making videos again. But I think it was a video by Alfie and Zoe where they said they’re just posting the videos mostly for themselves now.
great video carrie:) as always! AND INDEED THE SPOOKY SEASON IS NEAR.
truly, we adore everything you post carrie, no matter what you happen to post: we love it. but the long form sit down videos do happen to be my favourite!! i completely understand the fear of change within social media atm, especially youtube. it’s scary how different things are now then they used to be, in fact i’m not a fan of social media at all now. i only have youtube these days, i no longer even have the others. short form content is just not for me!! as you said, now EVERYONE is on youtube, EVERYONE has an opinion, but as your subscribers, and people who adore you, we want to hear YOUR opinion:) such as the example of singing along in theatres. i’d love to hear your take:))
in my personal opinion, especially with the spooky season nearing, my favourite videos of yours would be anything to do with halloween, books, fashion, theatre as a whole including experiences and opinions, cats, stories!, and absolutely everything like that.
we love you carrie
Would love it if you would do a ‘fallmas’ / autumn vlogs. There is a lovely corner of the internet that loves autumn, cosy vlogs, cuppa and read alongs, Gilmore girls, homesense autumn shopping etc. your genuine love for autumn would make for some great videos!
It's nice to hear someone actually put into words how I feel about sharing online. I keep thinking I don't have anything interesting or unique to give, and can't help worrying that I'll say something and receive backlash for it. There's so much I'd love to talk about and share but never make a video and don't post about the things I'd like to. Maybe it's self-preservation, maybe it's anxiety. It's something I'd like to worry about less.
I feel like a "Theatre Dictionary" of terms you should/would know from working in theatre could be really useful coming from someone like you. Either that, or "Theatre Tips" like the do's and don'ts of UK theatre/auditions maybe? I feel like your unique experience of living and breathing theatre your whole life would be a really helpful insight, as your experience would be completely different to someone who has been through drama school xx
Your videos pop up on my page and I think to myself, today is going to be a good one because watching carrie’s videos ALWAYS brighten up my day and I’m sure there are many others who would agree with me. Don’t let those floods of opinions control what you would like to share. Keep enjoying your personal life. Your voice (for me at least) is usually the only one I want to hear on social media. Can not wait to come and watch you in Milton Keynes for my birthday in October. ♥️♥️♥️
PS hello Edgar! 🐱
Oh my goddess! Compared to you I am a teeny tiny fish in this UA-cam pond, but I totally get what you’re saying. I was meant to do a live stream on Wednesday night but the anxiety around doing it was so bad I cancelled it, but when it comes to making edited, pre-recorded content I am fine…. So good to know I’m not alone.
Thank you for sharing your vulnerability with us.
‘Get ya bats out’ 😂🤭
Whoops! 😂
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I prefer longer forms of content over TikTok, Reels etc. I look forward to your videos, it's like sitting down and having a conversation with a friend
Girl....I feel you on this! I have left Twitter over a month ago and haven't looked back since and I do not miss it one bit! It was getting so exhausting and it made me so anxious. I can only imagine what comment sections on UA-cam videos can be like sometimes.... I haven't been on UA-cam for a while either. There are multiple reasons for that, but one of them surely was anxiety and feeling overwhelmed by so many people making videos with their opinions on the same subject and they then came with tons of comments full of hate and opinions in the comment sections so I just.... ignored it I guess? And I'm not even a content creator! So again, I can only imagine how it must be for you as a creator!
I have a ton of catching up to do on vlogs here on UA-cam, so I'm slowly trying to do that now... But I loved seeing this video, I love listening to you and I love watching your videos and other content you put out in the digital world for us :-) Thank you for always kinda being there for me somehow... I feel like you are one of few who can put me back at ease, you know?
Also, I am really hoping for a new book of yours soonish.... Are you writing at the moment? Or taking a small writing break because of your theatre work etc.? Just curious, not judging of course!
Take care, dear Carrie. And again: Thank you! Just because. :-) x
I love your videos, I love most that your so down to earth and so easy to watch. I have watched for many years and as a mother I smile when I see my teens use their wreck it journals or when they sing songs from musicals or add to their Disney collection. You make me smile, think and stop and reflect.
You keep doing what’s good for you- that’s what’s good for us. The authentic you is always appreciated. Thank you ❤
You radiate wisdom and positively in your videos. Watching you feels like I'm sitting with an old friend catching up. You'll find the content you want to put out and when you do, we will all be here watching and cheering you on ❤
Aww, this video reminded me of old school UA-cam. Just another person, talking straight to camera and sharing their thoughts in a really simple & human way. Missed this and missed seeing you on UA-cam, Carrie! ❤
There’s a difference between being vulnerable and ignoring your boundaries. You are not allowed or expected to ignore your boundaries, but you are allowed to be vulnerable. For example, I had to mute someone I worked with online because they were just “sharing their opinions” but it was causing me anxiety. Last time I spoke to them in person, they said they were making money online as a “TikTok ranting account”. I set that boundary of “I will not let negative energy enter my safe space” and because that’s all they do, I cut it off.
Also, instead of viewing it as “sharing your opinion”, it should be seen as “joining/engaging in a conversation”. But in order to do that, you need to cultivate a safe space and community (which I believe you have) that will agree to engage in conversation and agree to a shared set of agreements. We want to have conversations with you.
Excellent video! Can absolutely understand the thought behind not wanting to add to an oversaturation of opinions, especially when you don’t believe you bring anything new to the table.
Where I think you can find joy and comfort in reclaiming that want to share, is the fact that your opinion will come from a perspective that is COMPLETELY UNIQUE FROM THE MAJORITY OF YOUR AUDIENCE.
I know as someone who works in regional fringe theatre, I certainly am fascinated by hearing about sides of theatre discourse and such from someone who works so heavily in the west end and much more commercial theatre spaces! The different backgrounds between you and your community might cause divisiveness, but if it’s clear that it’s coming from your place and your background, I think your voice is super valuable and BLOODY FASCINATING!
And if you wanted, you could always collaborate with people who have different backgrounds to you, and so may look at things from a different angle. They’ll bring something new that you hadn’t considered and vice versa! I don’t comment often, and ironically, I clearly have an opinion about your thoughts on the oversaturation of opinions 😂 but you’ve started a really excellent conversation here, and I hope anything I’ve said has been helpful. ❤
This is so interesting! My point of view on it has been that there is no original thought anyway but how you say something is important and different. Sometimes you can hear the same thing over and over and someone says it slightly differently or at the right time and it just hits perfectly and that's what I focus on. Also love seeing my book in the corner haha! :) xx
That jumper is truly beautiful. And it looks great with the red hair.
I am still very interested in your hair routine. Your hair is so pretty! I am trying to get my curls back and your color is something I inspire to have.
im honestly in awe of your memory at the end. I would have needed to look at a schedule or a list of names 😂
Carrie, so many things one wants to say... all positive of course...keeping it brief-ish...
1. I have learned something new from everything of yours I've watched... this one, for example...no idea there was conflagration re: singing while attending theatre performances!...as an 🇺🇲 with 🇬🇧 ancestry, even just the cultural isms are informative and comforting.
2. (With a nod to your busy schedule) have you considered livestreaming this type of content and having trusted moderators nix the negative comments? Seems to work well for the Disney livestreams to remain family friendly. Just a thought.
Finally, 🐈 & 🍍 on 🍕 for the win! Thank you for whatever you choose to share publicly as it is always a blessing to find a kindred spirit, even way across the pond! 🤗
Thats the beutifull thing about this industry. Nothing is ever going to be simple but there are plenty of peeps willing to engage in a conversation. Art is always subjective. The industry is always complex and constantly changing. But its starting these conversations that makes me love the peoole in it. I also love the way your brain works.
I miss you just chatting videos, people are here for you and love to hear what you have to say. Hope you and your little family are doing amazing ❤
Just because someone else has voiced the statement before, does not mean that every member of your audience has heard that viewpoint before. Not everyone that follows you will have heard that the topic even exists.
The reason I watch you is for you-You are the channel. There is no other. I love your book insights, your life events, and you are just interesting. I watch other channels because of the persons' uniqueness-Ie: Scott Paige, Gary C. and many others. They are unique as you are- as we all are. You do you! If you don't want to do these one on ones-don't. However, I do love me the tour, Disney, and theatre vlogs as well. Wishing you all the best, Sincerely, Dean
I absolutely love this type of videos more than any other 🥰 they feel like a mini podcast
I would looove to see some book recommendations- yeah, there’s a lot of people doing these kinds of videos but I‘d love to know about YOUR favourite books because I value YOUR opinion and the vibes in YOUR videos are just uniquely bookish and cozy 🧡 we are watching you for you!
I love your videos so much Carrie!! Make them when you feel ready! One of my favorite series of your was the may myself and I because I loved hearing your creative response to each word each day-if that's something of interest would love to see something like that again :)
You look gorgeous in this video and continue to be gorgeous inside with your creativity, positivity, and honesty.
i seems very common for early stage youtubers like you and many others who were used to share being unable to share. as weird as it is when internet says its more tolerant it is far more aggressive than it used to be. it used to be one two or 15 bad comments that could have been avoided or ignored now its one person screen recording and posting it to 3 different social media and boom you have 4 thousand people yelling here there every where. even support is overwhelming. i miss that era of less chaos.
Carrie, I am coming to London from the US and will be seeing you Onstage Wednesday!! I am a community theater actress and so looking forward to seeing West End caliber shows 😀 I've been watching your UA-cam content through the pandemic and I am blown away by your talent!! Best Wishes in all you do ! Michaela
Carrie your views will change as time goes by, that's part of getting older. On the other had try not to over think things. Your always delightful.
I fully understand where you are coming from. Its hard because theres a power in numbers. The more people talking about a topic, the better. It might not be new for the internet, but it could be new for someone in your audience.
But the internet is so lacking in nuance and people can be genuinely cruel when they disagree.
I have subscribed to your channel for nearly 10 years now. I can definitively say that some people might say something before you do, but they have very little chance of saying it more eloquently.
YOU’RE WORKING WITH SLANNEN FROM ELLA ENCHANTED???? That’s incredible!!! I wish I could see it 😭
Carrie, to a degree you don’t have to worry about whether we will like videos on new topics that interest you, as people tend to be drawn to individuals who have similar interests, or make videos about similar interests to themselves.
For example, I love musical theatre, books & reading, Disney & Marvel, Halloween and behind the scenes type videos (especially in theatre). Most of us share interests with you. And we are interested in your voice and what you have to say.
There will be many many other UA-cam channels that make musical theatre content, so I could go elsewhere to watch that type of content, but I enjoy hearing what you have to say.
And as we enjoy your voice and thoughts on areas we already have an interest in, if you bring up a topic that is new to us, chances are we will listen because we already like listening to you as a person, not just the content.
So make whatever you want because chances are, we will either also be really interested in that area, or we will be willing to learn about something new from someone whose voice we already like to hear from
I may be in the minority of people who aren't very aware of what's going on elsewhere online (especially twitter and tiktok) but sometimes you can add your voice to a big conversation and yours is the first/only time someone hears about it! At least I didn't hear any about whether audiences should be able to sing along in the theatre. So those conversations aren't universally oversaturated with opinions, just in certain circles/platforms.
In other words, I think the people subscribed to your UA-cam are people who want to hear your thoughts on things, even if lots of other people have already said the same thing. You're the one we're interested in listening to!
Don't underestimate the fact that people like to listen to what you have to say just because its you and people like your video format/personality/opinions! Even if someone has said it before, it doesn't necessarily matter. Not everyone has watched everything on the internet and even if they have already seen a similar point of view, it's not exactly yours. I can't imagine how overwhelming it must be to receive comments, tweets etc and that anxiety is of course completely valid - but your opinion is still valid and interesting to people who like you and your content - even if someones said it before and even if it isn't worded completely eloquently!
Don't know about anyone else but I can listen to you talk for hours even if you're saying utter nonsense. (Which you never do!) ❤
Take as long as you need to figure stuff out, we'll still be here, and I love your content whatever it's about.
(I nearly mentioned something but I realized it sounded like really bad advertising for my book so I just thought "...nope" lol)
On the idea of not making videos because you feel like you’re not sharing new ideas, it might be worth framing it like this: a lot of people love the trope ‘enemies to lovers’. And they’ll read a thousand different forms of the ‘same’ idea, even though they’ve read it before.
Part of what you said resonated with me for this reason... I'm a cosplayer and in the cosplay community there's a lot of people that say "Why should I bother making this particular costume because so and so made it and theirs is amazing!" Okay, so yeah someone else made it but if they were the only one that ever made it you would miss out on all the unique and creative perspectives that you could see on the same thing if other people didn't make it too! So What if there are other opinions out there (Maybe some very similar to your own), you have your own unique perspective that you can bring to a situation! So Make the thing! The creation of the thing is part of the journey! Maybe while speaking your own opinion out loud, you'll come to additional or other conclusions! Maybe the conversation in the comments will help change other people's minds!
Carrie the world has changed alot. But we all still love and appreciate you bc who wouldn’t ❤❤
If you love Carrie
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On the topic of whether or not to sing along in a theatre, why not both? It would be so much fun to sing along to Mamma Mia or Grease, it'd be like adult pantomime theatre. There's plenty of musicals/songs that would sound great with audience participation.
This is completely relatable - I don’t have a UA-cam channel or anywhere near the same size following on socials, but over the past couple of years the only thing I post regularly on has become tumblr 😅 for all the reasons you listed! I just don’t have the energy, or rather the patience, for how the internet can be. But I do miss it! I miss chatting with people about things I find interesting, I miss these more rambling conversations. People naturally love to connect and the internet is the most far-reaching connection we have (pun mildly intended)! I hope you can find that happy balance and we’ll be here while you do 💜💜💜
I feel I'm starting to have the energy of an internet grandma. "Back in my day...blah blah blah!" 😂 But I totally get what you mean! It's patience. I don't have as much as I used to which isn't a bad thing! It means I tend to stay in uncomfortable places for a shorter amount of time. But it also means I miss out on this! Engaging with lovely people on the internet like you!
Related to spooky time/a little Disney - have you seen the madame leota loungefly backpack? It’s phenomenal and kinda looks a little like you.
Even if other people make their opinions (that you share) known, I for one, would be most interested in hearing your take. The only opinions I truly listen to are from people I trust. You present everything you do with thoughtfulness, compassion, and intelligence, so your opinion is one I would like to hear. 💕
I find it amazing that some people like yourself try to put themselves out there to the public where I don't even post on my Facebook page to my friends and family. I value my privacy and am awed that any of you would put yourself out to the public, and all their nasty feedback. I completely understand why you would get tired of that part of sharing yourself, especially since you have found such peace and stability in your life. YOU know what is real so why do you need strangers to either validate or challenge that? ❤
Great to see you back. Love to watch your videos ❤
I feel that Carrie. I have kept a blog for years, and recently am struggling. I feel like the stuff I write is stuff I’ve already written about. Then I get frustrated that it’s because I am rubbish at writing
I miss these videos SO MUCH!!! Your book videos, too! I need mooore 😂🙏🏻.
Paused this video to comment: If you made videos about theatre opinions (like whether audience members should sing along etc) I would definitely watch them!
lol just watched the rest...it doesn't have to be controversial topics necessarily - just any theatre topics in general
A very interesting video about a topic that is not often talked about. You should never have to be afraid to say what is on your mind no matter if other people think it is controversial or awkward. As always, keep being you and ignore and block the haters!