Little Miss Sunshine | Accepting the Absurd

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  • @SherinSilalahi-y9v
    @SherinSilalahi-y9v Місяць тому +2

    just stumbled upon this video upon countless search of videos about hopelessness and this wow-ed my mind!!
    i just happened to recently rewatch little miss sunshine and i love how you describe everyone's suffering and their journey to acceptance, and also LOVE the ending quote when it said that "in this struggle, one must imagine the hoovers happy"

    • @TheStoriesWeTell303
      @TheStoriesWeTell303  7 днів тому

      you're the only one who noticed the reference, so congrats you're now pinned 🌟

  • @mrsmriylyva9939
    @mrsmriylyva9939 3 місяці тому +71

    I am obsessed with how accessible and captivating the information is laid out. The way you edited it also deserves a pay rise. Well done!!

    • @TheStoriesWeTell303
      @TheStoriesWeTell303  3 місяці тому +2

      thank you very much. I will talk to UA-cam about raising my pay... from $0 to $0

  • @shayloren7329
    @shayloren7329 3 місяці тому +43

    Little Miss Sunshine got me through some hard times and was a very pivotal piece of art in my life. Recently, I lost my religion after leaving a cult, and absurdism is the only philosophy that was able to keep me here and help me make it through losing everything and having to face nihilism for the first time. Seeing those two things combined in this video essay was so lovely, interesting, and eye opening. Little Miss Sunshine really was my first introduction to absurdism, I just didn’t have the words or concepts to understand it :) This is a great essay, thank you!

    • @TheStoriesWeTell303
      @TheStoriesWeTell303  3 місяці тому +1

      thanks so much :) I'm glad it resonated with you

    • @LiberatedNotes
      @LiberatedNotes 14 днів тому +1

      I had to see your name just to make sure it wasnt an old comment i left and forgot about
      Some of us live the same life huh😊

  • @mrsmriylyva9939
    @mrsmriylyva9939 3 місяці тому +68

    Omg why did this video just make me want to live a full life

  • @colonelweird
    @colonelweird Місяць тому +21

    This is a banger, but I want to argue about suffering. Art Spiegelman takes this on in Maus: his father suffered unspeakably in the Holocaust, but when he appears in the early pages of Maus, at a time when Art is first thinking about creating what became his masterpiece, he's a cranky old man. Eventually we see his racism, his bitterness, his pettiness. He's not a good person. The point is unmistakable, and I think we can all recognize it. Most people have to deal with suffering, but that doesn't always make them better. Often they become worse. Or they remain the person they always were. The truth is, suffering is meaningless, and not recognizing this truth can lead to some very dark places, as we now see in the way the state of Israel politicizes the Holocaust for their own ends.
    Now I'm arguing this way because I recognize the truth in what you said about suffering in this video, both the suffering depicted in the film and your own. But I'm saying I don't think it's suffering as such, in any of these cases (as well as in the suffering in my own life, which has been considerable), which leads to personal transformation, or even insight. I think that, at most, we can say that suffering can peel away our superficial self-deceptions, if we let it, and reveal us more deeply to ourselves. But we then have to act on what we discover. I think a lot of people decide that's just not what they want to do, so they cover the truth back up and return to their self-deceptions.
    There's nothing to guarantee any particular outcome in this. That seems to imply it's all chance, but I wouldn't say that either. Honestly I doubt there's any real answer to this question, or at least not an answer that can remove the mystery so as to make the full truth evident to our rational minds. I think this is the point where one can begin to look at spiritual explanations for things, but that does open up another whole can of worms. I do think the inner structure of the world is what you can call "love," so there is in everything an inner dynamic towards acceptance, communion, and care. But that's the sort of thing that can be so easily misunderstood I'm reluctant to talk much about it.

    • @TheStoriesWeTell303
      @TheStoriesWeTell303  Місяць тому +3

      Honestly, this is an excellent point and very well said, thanks for the thoughtful reply. A couple things based on what you said.
      I think your overall argument of suffering not being the thing that causes transformation is fair. I think you and I are getting at the same idea that it's all about how you deal with the inevitable suffering that is important. You can choose to be jaded, nihilistic, or mad at the world. Or you can choose to examine your suffering, accept it, find meaning and grow through it. That's what I wanted to convey in the video. It could very well be, like you said, that suffering only reveals the person underneath. But there is still value in looking at your own suffering with kinder eyes.
      Also want to emphasize that I am only speaking to personal suffering that comes with life, not the societal suffering brought on by oppression and war and corruption, etc. So the holocaust, or genocide in Israel, these things are decidedly avoidable, and I am cetainly not qualified to say how the suffering and trauma from such extreme examples would affect a person. I also have not read Maus but really really want to.

    • @drebugsita
      @drebugsita 26 днів тому

      @@TheStoriesWeTell303*genocide in PALESTINE by Zionists

  • @agnesingeraxelsdottir6342
    @agnesingeraxelsdottir6342 13 днів тому +1

    i had forgotten about this movie. i have been working on a short film for Uni and have been suffering from a lot of Imposter sindrom. as I sat down to draw some concept art I put on this video to listen to and it really helped. your interpretation and magical words definitely helped me fight the imposter off at least for the day, and for that I thank you

  • @greenviolist34
    @greenviolist34 2 місяці тому +14

    I think you could argue that the grandpa was battling to stay relevant. Only Olive thought he was still valuable as a guiding figure and when given the chance to be that figure, the grandpa was able to shine. He was positive and encouraging(not superficially like his son), sober, and invested with whomever he was speaking. However, his brand of these qualities miss the mark in a variety of ways and can come across as out of touch with the family and society. Though despite the grandpa dying, leaving a fair amount of film time left, his absence isn't all that obvious, rather his influence is still felt between the family.
    Zooming out a little, it's interesting because the grandpa will often give advice similar to what the uncle, would later give when on the pier. In reference to Proust having suffered... concludes with "do what you love and fuck the rest". How the father desperately clings to what success looks like, often steamrolling his family to make a point, only to realize that his family is his greatest success.
    So on and so on.

  • @jeronimorubim
    @jeronimorubim 13 днів тому +1

    Really incredible read, this movie is a gem. Hope your channel reaches the heights!

  • @ompiloomp7130
    @ompiloomp7130 Місяць тому +2

    I almost never comment on videos, no matter my thoughts, but I just really want to tell you or whoever’s reading this that I’ve been trying to understand Cammus ideas and the concept of the absurd for years. This video, is finally the one that I felt really broke through to me. I get it. I see it now, in my own life too. Thank you.

  • @fairlyclassy
    @fairlyclassy 7 днів тому +1

    I'm making it a choice to delete my socials, and only consume this sort of long term content that provides value over crap that rots my brain.
    THANKYOU for your channel really,
    Also you've got a real calming voice ✨👄

  • @Ghost-iv9dd
    @Ghost-iv9dd Місяць тому +1

    little miss sunshine is my favourite movie and the myth of sisyphus is one of my favourite books absolutley loved how you communictae!! cant wait for more essays like this xx

  • @rabbitferris1848
    @rabbitferris1848 2 місяці тому +2

    I related so much with this movie, it was nice to see this breakdown so many years later. Keep doing what you're doing, more people appreciate it than you know.

    • @Saritabanana
      @Saritabanana 2 місяці тому +1

      Yes I so much agree! I’m almost 46 so I’m seeing everything in a new light also thanks to EMDR. I watched this movie so many times back then. This guy’s analysis really helped me understand why and gave me some clarity I’m currently in great need of. Young adults these days are the sh!t. They teach me so much! They’re so dang smart

  • @shanebattistv2165
    @shanebattistv2165 2 місяці тому +6

    Wonderful video essay! Little Miss Sunshine is a beautiful story and you really elevated the themes with this breakdown. I’m looking forward to more videos from you!

  • @tr3snt
    @tr3snt 2 місяці тому +2

    i almost cried watching this video, is so beautiful. thank you for this awesome video essay

  • @mikaelaarnone6017
    @mikaelaarnone6017 2 місяці тому +1

    No way this channel only has ~300 subs. This is some really great content both in thought and visually. Made it through half the video, really marveling at how it’s put together, before realizing i’m one of the lucky early watchers! Thank you for sharing.

  • @carlacadena9008
    @carlacadena9008 2 місяці тому +2

    Thank you, I needed this. Thank you deeply

  • @isgravysoup1175
    @isgravysoup1175 2 місяці тому +2

    The quality of your videos is consistently incredible. Please keep this good work up!!

    • @deltastripes
      @deltastripes 2 місяці тому

      Same, he’s got a new subscriber

  • @sera_phim42069
    @sera_phim42069 2 місяці тому +1

    this movie has always been so special to me and i feel like you really did it justice with this video and reminded me its been too long since i watched it ☺️ amazingly done 🩷

  • @yasminekebir9666
    @yasminekebir9666 2 місяці тому

    I'm impressed! Truly.
    Little Miss Sunshine is one of my favourite movies of all time, and by watching your insightful video you made me treat the movie from so many angles. I've never been able to analyse as you just did.
    I thank you so much for what you did, and I can't wait to see more of your analysis.

  • @Saleh-le2zf
    @Saleh-le2zf Місяць тому

    now i understand why i love Little Miss Sunshine! thank you for making this wonderful video.

  • @sinnsage
    @sinnsage 2 місяці тому +12

    fucking brilliant. i knew i enjoyed this movie but wasn’t much into philosophy when i watched it. i since have developed an interest and done light studying on it all, and stoicism, nietzche, frankl, and camus have risen to the top. your video made me want to rewatch the movie now! truly a work of art.

    • @anonfornow359
      @anonfornow359 2 місяці тому

      @sinnsage me either! Now I want to see it again with fresh eyes

  • @MakingScents
    @MakingScents 2 місяці тому +1

    Great message, thanks.

  • @shea1462
    @shea1462 2 місяці тому +1

    proud to be one of the first 200 some subscribers. i think your content is very high quality :) wonder how many people will be here in 6 months

  • @steamedyam
    @steamedyam 24 дні тому

    Watched this in theaters as a kid this was a heavy ass movie for a 12 year old 😂 still one of my favorite movies.

  • @hasssubh4093
    @hasssubh4093 3 місяці тому +3

    thank u for being in my recommended

  • @Saritabanana
    @Saritabanana 2 місяці тому

    So glad UA-cam recommended your video! Keep goin man. This is really good work. I definitely needed to hear your take on this movie today. I’m going into a 30 day treatment center for intensive trauma and grief treatment this Friday. Again, I needed this and thanks 😊

  • @isabellaa7777
    @isabellaa7777 2 місяці тому

    Wow just finished the video and you have such a special talent at putting together the true meaning of this movie. I honestly teared up while you were talking about suffering because i related to it so much and the way it was shown in the movie. Pls keep making videos! ❤️

  • @yuemessias316
    @yuemessias316 27 днів тому

    Loved your content! Please keep going

  • @Raymando
    @Raymando Місяць тому

    Great video. Loved the visual parallel you drew between Sisyphus pushing the rock and them pushing the van.

  • @crazy9ist777
    @crazy9ist777 2 місяці тому +1

    Great video. Very informative-I also resonated with the Dwayne/Frank scene near the end, it’s always the moment I go back to when I feel down.

  • @JonJosephKuhn
    @JonJosephKuhn Місяць тому

    Pah! Devil take you! Thank you for allowing me to relive the magic that this film filled me with when I saw it for the first time in 2006. Watching a 20 plus minute Little Miss Sunshine video essay wasn’t on the bingo card today. The internet is wild.

  • @halffilter1548
    @halffilter1548 2 місяці тому +1

    Such a good video, as a camu fan i just loved the way you tied it up 🙏

  • @lucypalacios1364
    @lucypalacios1364 2 місяці тому

    This might be one of my fav videos ever. You put it all together so seamlessly and eloquently, everything just flowed and clicked so well. Immediately subscribed ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

  • @minahilkhan7293
    @minahilkhan7293 2 місяці тому

    ur such a good storyteller

  • @combatninjaturtle
    @combatninjaturtle Місяць тому

    I loved it. Thank you.

  • @Catlover102794
    @Catlover102794 2 місяці тому

    Absolutely loved this. One of my favorite movies, and what a great analysis!

  • @fishwatcher
    @fishwatcher 2 місяці тому

    Great movie choice and analysis of the characters. There was a lot going on with the characters
    in that one for sure! Thank you. Look forward to another video.

  • @whozsteezo
    @whozsteezo Місяць тому

    this video is beautiful great job

  • @diagon5711
    @diagon5711 2 місяці тому

    I'm surprised that this channel is not immensely popular! Lovely analysis and enjoyable vid, can't wait to paint more paintings while listening to your takes

  • @yekutiailblaustein9286
    @yekutiailblaustein9286 2 місяці тому

    I love this movie. It takes a village to raise a child, and it takes worthy successors to elevate a village ❤

  • @jineshgomai217
    @jineshgomai217 2 місяці тому +1

    Never been this early in the life of a youtube channel. This one has legs. Keep it up.

  • @malpal777
    @malpal777 2 місяці тому +1

    I made it to the end and gasped because I'm currently reading that book right now too!! So glad I stayed 😂 my current favorite word is Verbosity which I heard in a song by the band of Montreal

    • @TheStoriesWeTell303
      @TheStoriesWeTell303  2 місяці тому

      I have a video on Crime and Punishment when you're done ;)

  • @christianangelos3224
    @christianangelos3224 3 місяці тому +2

    Excuse me while I watch this movie and come right back for the first rate analysis!

  • @anonfornow359
    @anonfornow359 2 місяці тому

    You did a really good job analyzing and presenting this film. Keep going. You did great

  • @DigitalAcid420
    @DigitalAcid420 2 місяці тому +3

    I really liked this video…. 😊

  • @lulazere8209
    @lulazere8209 2 місяці тому

    This is hand down my new favorite channel 🙌

  • @indigosnow_
    @indigosnow_ 2 місяці тому +1

    Awesome video! Super throrough. Love the phrase ahaha wish you well with your youtube journey

  • @iggy.p-mv4po
    @iggy.p-mv4po 2 місяці тому +1

    im invested, you talk like no other. What a profound human being... i love your content. Pah! The devil will not take you haha

  • @vivalavalerie8780
    @vivalavalerie8780 2 місяці тому +1

    This was very well done. Keep up the good work

  • @TheTiredPotato
    @TheTiredPotato 2 місяці тому

    This is a great video, I hope I get to see more interesting video essays from you.
    Your channel is seriously underrated!

  • @alexpotebnya2100
    @alexpotebnya2100 2 місяці тому

    all I have to say is-great job!

  • @CH4OffsetsLLC
    @CH4OffsetsLLC 2 місяці тому

    Well done

  • @dulcegonzalez6072
    @dulcegonzalez6072 Місяць тому

    I loved this, all the way through!!
    Esperando el próximo :)

  • @gowthama2950
    @gowthama2950 Місяць тому

    Loved the video, definitely recommending it... I feel a profound comfort, don't even know what that means, but i do

  • @miel550
    @miel550 2 місяці тому

    What a beautiful video, thank you so much

  • @BrandonMcEachern19
    @BrandonMcEachern19 Місяць тому

    This was a great video essay. Keep up the good work.

  • @crazygreek6341
    @crazygreek6341 2 місяці тому

    You showed the acceptance of the absurd is pretty good in this video, probs man, but for me the revolt, with passion and love against the absurd is missing, which really puts a bow on camus philosophy. It's the facing of the absurd and the embracing and the rebelling that makes it so wonderful for me

    • @TheStoriesWeTell303
      @TheStoriesWeTell303  2 місяці тому +1

      @@crazygreek6341 100% I barely scratched the surface on Camus. For this video didn’t want to get too overwhelming!

  • @Fkisa04
    @Fkisa04 2 місяці тому

    So I really needed to hear this today 👌🏾 Thank u

  • @Гпник-д3ч
    @Гпник-д3ч 3 місяці тому +1

    I wish the devil would take me if you catch my drift. Great video as always. Much love. ❤

  • @TeacherIlham
    @TeacherIlham 2 місяці тому

    Thanks for this amazing work! I love this movie so much plz do some more movies in the same genre. Appreciated

  • @mysteriousurl1368
    @mysteriousurl1368 2 місяці тому

    Great video, so gad I stumbled across this, looking forward to more!

  • @larsilovesfideos
    @larsilovesfideos 2 місяці тому

    thank you for this amezing interpretation. I know your content will be recognized, I can see a lot of effort, love and quality in your videos, thank you for talkig about this lovely film. greetings from Argentina

  • @meenerzzzzz
    @meenerzzzzz 2 місяці тому

    Really enjoyed your content!! Great job

  • @msjkramey
    @msjkramey 2 місяці тому +4

    Suffering may have made me who I am today, but I would have absolutely preferred to skip most of it. I think many people who glorify suffering are just trying to reclaim terrible moments as something that didn't happen for "no reason," that maybe it was a good thing, actually. I think that it's just a coping mechanism, but it's one that I do understand. The people who make me mad are the ones that glorify suffering from the outside, from a place of privilege. If they get to be themselves without having to go through it, how can they sit there and say that all the trials that I went through (and am still going through) are a good thing? It feels like a rich person indulging in poverty p0rn or a person going on a self-indulgent "humanitarian" trip to feel inspired in their own lives. Oh, did seeing all those starving kids "enlighten" you? Eff all the way off

    • @msjkramey
      @msjkramey 2 місяці тому +2

      BTW, when I say "you," I don't mean you specifically. I'm saying "you" in the general sense

  • @lofi.cinema
    @lofi.cinema Місяць тому

    love it! subscribed :)

  • @Francesco6961
    @Francesco6961 Місяць тому +1

    “Acceptance is the way out of hell.”

  • @DavidLee-bf2pe
    @DavidLee-bf2pe 2 місяці тому +3

    Devil take me. I'm a new subscriber.

  • @patrickcunningham2776
    @patrickcunningham2776 2 місяці тому

    Sick yo

  • @deemah1237
    @deemah1237 2 місяці тому

    Amazing video very enjoyable👏👏

  • @joaopedrofranco7573
    @joaopedrofranco7573 2 місяці тому

    Love the video!! I will watch this movie again with my gf if possible (since she likes another genre of movies like those asians as Wong Kar-Wai etc) and if I can move her to watch it, I will share this video with her to be sure of complementing the whole meaning of it!
    Also, since you're starting this channel, I really don't seem to appreciate a lot those kind of movies and I wish I could understand better. Maybe someday you could do a video of Chungking Express? It would mean the world for me and I know many people would be happy to be introduced to this piece of art through one of your decent videos!
    I'm asking because I trust what you said in the beggining of the video. Your channel has a great potential of growing and being one of the greatest about those thematics!
    Writting with gratitude, your new subscriber,
    John.

    • @TheStoriesWeTell303
      @TheStoriesWeTell303  2 місяці тому +1

      appreciate this, john! I actually have not seen Chunking Express but will check it out.

  • @JackSteele-om9df
    @JackSteele-om9df 2 місяці тому +1

    Tired of living, scared of dying! 😁😄

    • @erikeippel
      @erikeippel 2 місяці тому

      Check out the movie "Diving In" from 1990. You will understand later.

  • @trixielove
    @trixielove 2 місяці тому

    ahhhhhhhh so good

  • @escoworld
    @escoworld 2 місяці тому

    Instant sub.

  • @yazanborhan8427
    @yazanborhan8427 2 місяці тому

    Amazing analysis! The only feedback I would give is that the background music is sometimes too loud and distracts a bit from what is being said by you. Otherwise, top-notch content. Looking forward towards more reviews/analyses.

  • @masterxk
    @masterxk Місяць тому

    Sisyphus would be so ripped after lifting the rock

  • @Maria-iv8te
    @Maria-iv8te 2 місяці тому

    The music is a little distracting from the wonderful insight you provide in your essay :( Love your ideas though great vid!

  • @jkoenig
    @jkoenig 2 місяці тому +1

    Tip: back up from your microphone by like 4-6 inches, or you’ll get all these pops and plosives

    • @crazygreek6341
      @crazygreek6341 2 місяці тому

      Tbh the distance is good, but the technique is off. For dynamic mics, the best practice especially in rooms without heavy post processing like in live situations, is to speak a bit of axis, so the tip of the mic should point, at 4 inches away, to the corner of your mouth and never speak to a dynamic capsule from the vertical side, because the build in plosive filter is on the top infront of the capsule. Podcastage has a great video to mic technique

  • @joeyhandles
    @joeyhandles 2 місяці тому

    good

  • @MatsubaAgeha
    @MatsubaAgeha 2 місяці тому

    👍👍 ❤️

  • @MiBox-jn6vx
    @MiBox-jn6vx Місяць тому

    Do you have other recommendations of movies with absurdist themes? Loved the analysis!

    • @TheStoriesWeTell303
      @TheStoriesWeTell303  Місяць тому +1

      Synecdoche, New York comes to mind.

    • @LiberatedNotes
      @LiberatedNotes 14 днів тому +1

      I wouldnt say it draws any parallel. But as someone who loves LMS, one other movie that also comes to my minds is The Banshees of Insheerin

  • @IvanIvanoIvanovich
    @IvanIvanoIvanovich Місяць тому

    Call me crazy, but watching this movie after the Big Lebowski is a wonderful experience.

    • @TheStoriesWeTell303
      @TheStoriesWeTell303  10 днів тому

      elaborate??

    • @IvanIvanoIvanovich
      @IvanIvanoIvanovich 10 днів тому

      @@TheStoriesWeTell303 I am no film critic or philosopher, but I draw a lot of comparisons between the two movies. The introduction of a dysfunctional and at times downright bizarre cast that is surreal if you don't have friends or family like them. Said cast of characters bumbling through a series of misadventures towards an ultimate goal that most are reluctant to pursue. The death of one character in both films and the inherent dark humor derived from how the deceased is treated in the same well-meaning but inappropriate way. Both films end with the grieving characters showing acceptance of the flaws and quirks in those they love. The only difference is that The Big Lebowski is about friendships and Little Miss Sunshine is about family. Two of the best movies ever made, but that's just like my opinion man.

    • @TheStoriesWeTell303
      @TheStoriesWeTell303  10 днів тому

      @@IvanIvanoIvanovich intriguing take. I honestly haven’t seen big Lebowski in many years, a rewatch sounds like it’s in order.
      “That’s just like my opinion man” 😂

    • @IvanIvanoIvanovich
      @IvanIvanoIvanovich 10 днів тому

      @@TheStoriesWeTell303 I hope it gives you a few good laughs. Just finished watching your most recent two videos on Timothy Treadwell and Chris McCandless and wanted to say they were fantastic. Thanks!

    • @TheStoriesWeTell303
      @TheStoriesWeTell303  10 днів тому

      @@IvanIvanoIvanovich appreciate the support! Inside scoop: next breaking bad video drops in T-105 minutes

  • @shaunblue8631
    @shaunblue8631 2 дні тому

    Well sed

  • @TheMeritCoba
    @TheMeritCoba 2 місяці тому

    Did not make the first 100 :P Anyway. This is a gripping video essay, but consider leaving out or minimizing the background music. You have a soft voice, and the music, while not annoying, sometimes equals your voice in strength, making it hard for people like me to hear you. Don't fear the silence. Anyway, without his stone, what would Sisyphus do and be? And what will become of his stone? Not to mention the faith of that mountain?

  • @christianangelos3224
    @christianangelos3224 3 місяці тому +3

    Like this comment if you were in the first 💯

  • @mohammadaminfatemi6219
    @mohammadaminfatemi6219 Місяць тому

    W

  • @kmyzg
    @kmyzg 10 днів тому +1

    Friedrich Nietszche is not a nihilist. On the contrary, he is an anti-nihilist.

    • @TheStoriesWeTell303
      @TheStoriesWeTell303  10 днів тому

      @@kmyzg correct. I was referring to Dwayne being nihilistic at the beginning of the film.

    • @kmyzg
      @kmyzg 9 днів тому

      @@TheStoriesWeTell303 Oh okay. My bad.

  • @mikeharrison1868
    @mikeharrison1868 2 місяці тому

    Sounds kinda similar to Buddhism.

  • @voradorhylden3410
    @voradorhylden3410 2 місяці тому

    Um no!. Or you could realize how pointless it is and do something else or try another way. The definition of insanity is do the same thing over and over and expecting different results! CHANGE!

  • @alohm
    @alohm 2 місяці тому

    7:10 = do not ask if everyone can accept suffering as our lot? Ask as Fred would: would you redefine your labels, and accept the good and bad as ordered. Amor Fati. GesamtLiebe. To love our existence, all of it. The English word that is closest is vicissitudes... The good and bad both make up who we are - Gestalt.