Hi lovely people! Thanks for watching my video. I hoped it helped some of you for current or future deployments. One tip I did forget to mention is surround yourself with people who love and care about you! Doesn’t matter if they are military affiliated, as long as they love and support you! We’ve got this! 😃 If you are currently going through a deployment and have another tip, be sure to comment it down below so that we can help each other remain strong! Love you guys!❤️ xoxo Britt
Why should I care about the opinions of others? Let them think what they want. We live in a fallen world where that happens not only in the military community but everywhere. Also, my identity is in who Jesus says I am and that's all that matters to me.
Your videos are pure GOLD! My boyfriend isn’t deployed, but he’s been at Army Basic Training for about a week now & all of these tips still apply to my situation! Thank you for being a source of comfort for me during this time ❤️
Needed this 😭 our first deployment was extremely extremely hard & even almost caused us to have a divorce. By the grace of God, so much prayer and fasting, there’s been a ton of restoration in our marriage that I’m so thankful for 😭 he just left again, & my anxiety has tried creeping & I felt that so much when you said to stop crying 😞 I’m thankful I haven’t cried nearly as much as the first time around, but this loneliness is still very difficult for me💔 I’m AD as well, finding christian friends in the military is so hard, it gets a little discouraging, but I know I just need to fight a little harder through. Praying for all the brave men and women out on deployment 🥺😭 praying so hard this time flies by fast, I miss my husband a ton, but I also pray that we can both come back to each other so refreshed 💗
So grateful for your videos 💕 My boyfriend of 4 years just announced today that he is going for his 1st deployment in October, it is a 6-8 month assignment. I was truly excited for him and was very positive with him, but as soon as we hung up, I literally was upset and cried. I felt so guilty for feeling upset as I don’t want to be selfish. I immediately found this video and it has given me peace and clarity that we are only human and that all will be okay and just BREATHE. Thank you very much for shedding your light 💕 Praying for you and your family.❤️
My boyfriend is in the Navy, and we just recently started dating. He's deploying in April and I know it's still pretty far away, but it's going to be my first time experiencing something like this. We are already in a long distance relationship, but we talk everyday and have plans to visit every month. So I'm really nervous for when he deploys, it's gonna be so hard not to talk to him. Thanks for the tips!
Your videos really help me. My husband just deployed Friday and I’m shattered. I’m in El Paso and I literally have no family or friends. It’s our first deployment and I’ve never been alone. So I’m still trying to figure out my emotions and I just want more of your videos. Thank you.
This the moment for you to grow! I am in a state that is across the country from my home state. However, I have gone out made new friends, learned new things, and created joy in this time of heartache. Don't use the words I can't or I am too sad to leave or I am too shy. Our minds lie to us. We are strong and courageous women who God continues to mold each day. I won't say that I didn't have days that I just stayed in bed, because I totally did. But let your good days be greater and more often than your bad days!💕
This video really hit home for me! My husband just deployed and I am trying very hard to find tips and encouragement on how to get through the next 10 months. I love watching your videos! Thank you for being so strong and inspiring!
My second cousin is going through this. I told her about your video, sent it to her, it helped a lot. They don't have kids yet which gives her less to do , so she started arts and crafts, painting, she started college online. She's found herself being alone, it has made the marriage happy, she's happy and radiates joy.
I was a little worried at first but everything turned out so nicely. :) I've seen her grow as a person, and her husband has too. They're both 20 and makes me happy to see such mature young adults who handle responsibility so well. I love your videos! Your videos inspire and that's what makes us all connect > INSPIRATION. :) Getting a routine and staying focused. She said her focus is better.
Coming from the view of a man, you are a certainly strong lady especially even after having to be the one waiting for your husband!! :) I love how you name all these things to keep yourself occupied because now I can make my girlfriend watch your videos to keep her busy before I leave for MCRD San Diego and SOI in 1 year from now. Many thanks for doing these videos! :)
My Bf is deploying for a year tomorrow. I’m anxious but excited to experience this together and I’m trying to just look forward to the next part of our journey together when he returns. God has placed him in my life for a reason. We just need to have faith. Thank you for this video!! ❤️
You're videos are so helpful, thank you for doing them. My husband isn't deployed but has been gone at army basic training for about a week and it has been so hard, but It's nice to hear your perspective on how to get through it. I don't know any other military wives that are my age, so it's nice to know that I'm not alone.
I'm 1 week away from being halfway done with deployment & it sucks knowing I still have the same amount of time I just went through that I still have to go through. Missing my husband isn't easy he keeps me going and so do your videos!! 💗💗💗💗
omggggggg i’m currently waiting on my sailor to get back right now 😩 i see you put this 3 years ago but i do have a question did you ever find yourself feeling like deployment is going to last forever because it’s only been 2 weeks and it feels like the days are going by super slow and it’s tough.. im not ready for that feeling !!!!
These videos are amazing. I love who you are as a person. Yesterday my boyfriend of a year and a half told me he is going into the army. I am absolutely terrified of how this will affect us. I’ve been watching your videos and they’re so helpful for the future. Hopefully we’ll still be together and I plan to continue watching. I subscribed after one video! Prayers for you and your husband and thank you guys!!
Thank you so much for your videos! I'm living in Germany, I would have never thought to fall for a soldier, and now I'm in this situation of being in love with somebody who's going to deployment at the end of the year... We just met a few weeks before he got the order, so it's little time to stablish something, and we are both struggling with it. As for me, I don't have any experience with military, on the opposite... My ex partners would more be on the "never going to military" side... We are now in the process of thinking through options, and I'm really grateful for your input on everything. I don't know where this will lead me, if there will be an "us" at all, but I just expanded my horizon so much. So, again, thank you ❤️
I love this video. thank you so much. i love how close you are with god and how you have such a positive attitude!! i’m going to use your tips this summer when my boyfriend is going away to basic training with the army national guard. i definitely have it WAY better than a lot of others in the military because he’s only going to be gone for about 9 weeks. not months. so after realizing that and knowing that i’m not physically alone, i’ll be fine. thank you so much❤️
Thank you for posting this. My husband is on a 7 month deployment and I’m only a month in and I hate it. I catch myself crying every night. I just got news that they might send his unit to Iran and that doesn’t sit right with me. I just hope he comes back home healthy and safe
How else can you deal with fear of him giving into temptations? I've seen other videos from people who went through training or deployment saying that it's easy to give into temptations because of loneliness or stress. I'm so scared that he will give into peer pressure or need a way to relieve his stress and not be honest about it if he does.
Angela Cai The only thing you can really do is have a conversation about it. How to avoid temptation, how to keep himself accountable etc. Every relationship needs set boundaries that you both will follow. Honesty is one of those things you can kind of predict. If they have lied to you in the past they will lie in the future. People who have a problem opening up or lying about small things usually lie because of shame. The only way to fix this is to always remind them you are a safe place that will not shame them. With all that said don’t let the fear of the unknown scare you. If you think he will do that, why are you with him? If it’s just a fear and he hasn’t given you a reason to think that then again, have a serious and open conversation with him, set boundaries and again pray that you both remain strong. xoxo Britt
My hubby is resigning from national guard to active duty in a few weeks! I’m excited but scared for this new journey but your videos have definitely helped me with information! You’re awesome!
i’m currently waiting on my sailor to get back right now 😩 i see you put this 2 years ago but i do have a question did you ever find yourself feeling like deployment is going to last forever because it’s only been 2 weeks and it feels like the days are going by super slow and it’s tough..
My boyfriend is in the army and his deployment is going to be sometime next fall. we aren’t too sure of when that will be but nonetheless I’m trying to kinda just wrap my head around the whole thing. This is his first deployment and we want to get married before then. After we get married, I’m making the move from California to Kansas and I’ll be out there by myself while he’s on deployment which is terrifying. I’m emotionally just preparing myself for all of it because it’s big changes in such a short amount of time.
My boyfriend just left the other day for a 10 month deployment and I am surprisingly doing very well. I prepared myself for the absolute worst case scenario and I watched all your videos about deployment before he left and I feel like it’s such a relief that it has started. This has been weighing on me heavy for the past 6 months and I’m glad we are finally in this so we can get through it and have it be over. Is it bad that I’m not a total mess and I’m handling it well??
You totally can! Not to say it won't be rough, and you will have tough days, but strength comes from overcoming the hard times. So it is definitely possible to get through!
You actually calmed me down. You definitely made really good points. I appreciate you for this, Bri. I would love to connect with you. I don’t know anyone else going through the same thing as I am. If possible could we chat private ?
Oh god. 9 month deployment is coming up in a few weeks. Can’t do it lol. Can’t stop crying and he’s not even gone yet 😭 just need him to leave so pre deployment is over and he can leave and just come home already. The anxiety of saying goodbye and actually saying goodbye is the worst part. 💔 send help lol
New subscriber here!! 🙋🏽 these tips are very very helpful! Well Iv only been dating my bf since the beginning of August and he’s in the army... we’ve dated when we were teens which was 7yrs ago but yet have to meet! Which will happen very very soon! ☺️ we have big plans & dreams which include marriage. Very excited yet a little nervous due to our situation. We’re staying positive that it’ll work out
Hey Brit, I just wanted to say that this is very helpful to me. I’ve already gone thru boot camp and that was fine because I was still back home in Miami and had a busy season at work to keep my time occupied. This time around, hell be leaving for C school in December and I’ll be alone with my dog in Chicago. I’ve never experienced a Midwest winter, I’ve never seen snow! (Born and raised in Miami) so I’m really fearful having to drive to work for the first time in the snow and navigating all that. At least back home I was in familiar territory and had family and friends. He’ll only be gone till March when he comes back and we then relocate to Norfolk but I’m basically spending winter alone... any advise?
I’m going to be going through my first time with my boyfriend being deployed in like another year or so. But I’m already all worried and worked up about it.
hi girl do you have an ig ? i have a question i want to ask! i’m currently going through a deployment and it’s so hard but i am letting god be in control and this video helped me so much💕
Brooke Benedict I would definitely encourage you to try and conquer that fear! It’s very freeing and it always you to have a more personal relationship with God.
i’m currently waiting on my sailor to get back right now 😩 i see you put this 3 months ago but i do have a question did you ever find yourself feeling like deployment is going to last forever because it’s only been 2 weeks and it feels like the days are going by super slow and it’s tough..
Hi lovely people! Thanks for watching my video. I hoped it helped some of you for current or future deployments. One tip I did forget to mention is surround yourself with people who love and care about you! Doesn’t matter if they are military affiliated, as long as they love and support you!
We’ve got this! 😃
If you are currently going through a deployment and have another tip, be sure to comment it down below so that we can help each other remain strong! Love you guys!❤️
xoxo Britt
Brit+Con good call on the care packages.
Thanks haha!
How does it feel that everybody looks at military wives as women who cheat on their husbands?
Why should I care about the opinions of others? Let them think what they want. We live in a fallen world where that happens not only in the military community but everywhere. Also, my identity is in who Jesus says I am and that's all that matters to me.
Your videos are pure GOLD! My boyfriend isn’t deployed, but he’s been at Army Basic Training for about a week now & all of these tips still apply to my situation! Thank you for being a source of comfort for me during this time ❤️
Ofcourse! Glad I could help and be that comfort❤️
Megan Parker i’m in the same situation!! but a year later lol!
My husband just deployed the other day this is our first deployment this video helped me so much thank you so much 💕
Glad I could help! Yall can do this! ❤️
Needed this 😭 our first deployment was extremely extremely hard & even almost caused us to have a divorce. By the grace of God, so much prayer and fasting, there’s been a ton of restoration in our marriage that I’m so thankful for 😭 he just left again, & my anxiety has tried creeping & I felt that so much when you said to stop crying 😞 I’m thankful I haven’t cried nearly as much as the first time around, but this loneliness is still very difficult for me💔 I’m AD as well, finding christian friends in the military is so hard, it gets a little discouraging, but I know I just need to fight a little harder through. Praying for all the brave men and women out on deployment 🥺😭 praying so hard this time flies by fast, I miss my husband a ton, but I also pray that we can both come back to each other so refreshed 💗
So grateful for your videos 💕 My boyfriend of 4 years just announced today that he is going for his 1st deployment in October, it is a 6-8 month assignment. I was truly excited for him and was very positive with him, but as soon as we hung up, I literally was upset and cried. I felt so guilty for feeling upset as I don’t want to be selfish. I immediately found this video and it has given me peace and clarity that we are only human and that all will be okay and just BREATHE. Thank you very much for shedding your light 💕 Praying for you and your family.❤️
Great video, I am living through this. Prayer is so important. Thanks for sharing ! Your husband is blessed!!
My boyfriend is in the Navy, and we just recently started dating. He's deploying in April and I know it's still pretty far away, but it's going to be my first time experiencing something like this. We are already in a long distance relationship, but we talk everyday and have plans to visit every month. So I'm really nervous for when he deploys, it's gonna be so hard not to talk to him. Thanks for the tips!
enchantinglymeganxo awe how did y’all meet? I’m freaking out bc my I’ve been w my navy bf Thomas for 2 yrs and he will be gone a year😭
Your videos really help me. My husband just deployed Friday and I’m shattered. I’m in El Paso and I literally have no family or friends. It’s our first deployment and I’ve never been alone. So I’m still trying to figure out my emotions and I just want more of your videos. Thank you.
This the moment for you to grow! I am in a state that is across the country from my home state. However, I have gone out made new friends, learned new things, and created joy in this time of heartache. Don't use the words I can't or I am too sad to leave or I am too shy. Our minds lie to us. We are strong and courageous women who God continues to mold each day. I won't say that I didn't have days that I just stayed in bed, because I totally did. But let your good days be greater and more often than your bad days!💕
This video really hit home for me! My husband just deployed and I am trying very hard to find tips and encouragement on how to get through the next 10 months. I love watching your videos! Thank you for being so strong and inspiring!
So glad I could help. You've got this! 💕
My second cousin is going through this. I told her about your video, sent it to her, it helped a lot. They don't have kids yet which gives her less to do , so she started arts and crafts, painting, she started college online. She's found herself being alone, it has made the marriage happy, she's happy and radiates joy.
Wednesday Riding That’s amazing!! I’m so glad she has found joy in the lonely moments. That is so important ❤️
I was a little worried at first but everything turned out so nicely. :) I've seen her grow as a person, and her husband has too. They're both 20 and makes me happy to see such mature young adults who handle responsibility so well. I love your videos! Your videos inspire and that's what makes us all connect > INSPIRATION. :) Getting a routine and staying focused. She said her focus is better.
Coming from the view of a man, you are a certainly strong lady especially even after having to be the one waiting for your husband!! :) I love how you name all these things to keep yourself occupied because now I can make my girlfriend watch your videos to keep her busy before I leave for MCRD San Diego and SOI in 1 year from now. Many thanks for doing these videos! :)
I’m on my first deployment. I feel that counting down by days is much better then months for me lol
Prayer is definitely the answer!! Thank you for the reminder. Place it in God’s hands.
My Bf is deploying for a year tomorrow. I’m anxious but excited to experience this together and I’m trying to just look forward to the next part of our journey together when he returns. God has placed him in my life for a reason. We just need to have faith. Thank you for this video!! ❤️
So true! God has a plan! ❤️ Blessings to you both!
You're videos are so helpful, thank you for doing them. My husband isn't deployed but has been gone at army basic training for about a week and it has been so hard, but It's nice to hear your perspective on how to get through it. I don't know any other military wives that are my age, so it's nice to know that I'm not alone.
I'm 1 week away from being halfway done with deployment & it sucks knowing I still have the same amount of time I just went through that I still have to go through. Missing my husband isn't easy he keeps me going and so do your videos!! 💗💗💗💗
Yes, girl, I know that annoying half way feeling 🙃.... but you've got this!
Glad my videos are helping 😊
omggggggg i’m currently waiting on my sailor to get back right now 😩 i see you put this 3 years ago but i do have a question did you ever find yourself feeling like deployment is going to last forever because it’s only been 2 weeks and it feels like the days are going by super slow and it’s tough.. im not ready for that feeling !!!!
These videos are amazing. I love who you are as a person. Yesterday my boyfriend of a year and a half told me he is going into the army. I am absolutely terrified of how this will affect us. I’ve been watching your videos and they’re so helpful for the future. Hopefully we’ll still be together and I plan to continue watching. I subscribed after one video! Prayers for you and your husband and thank you guys!!
Thank you ❤️and glad I could help! Blessing to both of you and your future together!
Thank you so much for your videos! I'm living in Germany, I would have never thought to fall for a soldier, and now I'm in this situation of being in love with somebody who's going to deployment at the end of the year... We just met a few weeks before he got the order, so it's little time to stablish something, and we are both struggling with it. As for me, I don't have any experience with military, on the opposite... My ex partners would more be on the "never going to military" side... We are now in the process of thinking through options, and I'm really grateful for your input on everything. I don't know where this will lead me, if there will be an "us" at all, but I just expanded my horizon so much. So, again, thank you ❤️
I love this video. thank you so much. i love how close you are with god and how you have such a positive attitude!! i’m going to use your tips this summer when my boyfriend is going away to basic training with the army national guard. i definitely have it WAY better than a lot of others in the military because he’s only going to be gone for about 9 weeks. not months. so after realizing that and knowing that i’m not physically alone, i’ll be fine. thank you so much❤️
Thank you for posting this. My husband is on a 7 month deployment and I’m only a month in and I hate it. I catch myself crying every night. I just got news that they might send his unit to Iran and that doesn’t sit right with me. I just hope he comes back home healthy and safe
How else can you deal with fear of him giving into temptations? I've seen other videos from people who went through training or deployment saying that it's easy to give into temptations because of loneliness or stress. I'm so scared that he will give into peer pressure or need a way to relieve his stress and not be honest about it if he does.
Angela Cai The only thing you can really do is have a conversation about it. How to avoid temptation, how to keep himself accountable etc. Every relationship needs set boundaries that you both will follow. Honesty is one of those things you can kind of predict. If they have lied to you in the past they will lie in the future. People who have a problem opening up or lying about small things usually lie because of shame. The only way to fix this is to always remind them you are a safe place that will not shame them. With all that said don’t let the fear of the unknown scare you. If you think he will do that, why are you with him? If it’s just a fear and he hasn’t given you a reason to think that then again, have a serious and open conversation with him, set boundaries and again pray that you both remain strong.
xoxo Britt
My hubby is resigning from national guard to active duty in a few weeks! I’m excited but scared for this new journey but your videos have definitely helped me with information! You’re awesome!
Oh wow, big step. I can imagine it is scary, but I am so excited for this new journey God is going to take you on! 💕
Blessings to you both!
xoxo Britt
Same
Thank you so much! Going on my first deployment and your tips are just what I needed! Thank you again! Blessings!
I just wanted to say. This was helpful my boyfriend just left (yesterday) it's so weird and hard but I know it will be okay, and you helped confirm
I’m currently waiting for my Airman to comeback from deployment. Thank you Brit ❤️ God bless you and your husband
i’m currently waiting on my sailor to get back right now 😩 i see you put this 2 years ago but i do have a question did you ever find yourself feeling like deployment is going to last forever because it’s only been 2 weeks and it feels like the days are going by super slow and it’s tough..
My boyfriend is in the army and his deployment is going to be sometime next fall. we aren’t too sure of when that will be but nonetheless I’m trying to kinda just wrap my head around the whole thing. This is his first deployment and we want to get married before then. After we get married, I’m making the move from California to Kansas and I’ll be out there by myself while he’s on deployment which is terrifying. I’m emotionally just preparing myself for all of it because it’s big changes in such a short amount of time.
I am a new subbie and I absolutely LOVEEEE your videos. They are so helpful. 👏🏽💚😊
My boyfriend just left the other day for a 10 month deployment and I am surprisingly doing very well. I prepared myself for the absolute worst case scenario and I watched all your videos about deployment before he left and I feel like it’s such a relief that it has started. This has been weighing on me heavy for the past 6 months and I’m glad we are finally in this so we can get through it and have it be over. Is it bad that I’m not a total mess and I’m handling it well??
Woaaa! Thank you so much! 😍😍😘 It really works.
I just wanna say that my husband deployment is a month away but I’ve been watching your videos and now I actually think I can get through it
You totally can! Not to say it won't be rough, and you will have tough days, but strength comes from overcoming the hard times. So it is definitely possible to get through!
So good looking. Thanks for the video. Deploying in January time period.
Hubby is deploying in a week. Thank you for this
You actually calmed me down. You definitely made really good points. I appreciate you for this, Bri. I would love to connect with you. I don’t know anyone else going through the same thing as I am. If possible could we chat private ?
Oh god. 9 month deployment is coming up in a few weeks. Can’t do it lol. Can’t stop crying and he’s not even gone yet 😭 just need him to leave so pre deployment is over and he can leave and just come home already. The anxiety of saying goodbye and actually saying goodbye is the worst part. 💔 send help lol
Kerrilynne Basman I’m going through the same thing thing my boyfriend just left the other day for a 10 month deployment. Where are you from?
Care package machine over here too 😂
My boyfriend left for basic training today, I've been watching your videos all day and they really help. 💗
Yay! Glad they could help! He will be home before you know it!
My husband left a few days ago. Stay strong 💪🏼
Dominique Dixon thank you love! You too, we're all in this together 💪🏼☺️
Omg that scared me @ 5:21 by her shoulder !
New subscriber here!! 🙋🏽 these tips are very very helpful! Well Iv only been dating my bf since the beginning of August and he’s in the army... we’ve dated when we were teens which was 7yrs ago but yet have to meet! Which will happen very very soon! ☺️ we have big plans & dreams which include marriage. Very excited yet a little nervous due to our situation. We’re staying positive that it’ll work out
Half way through deployment with the gf of 4 years, this video helped, deployments are so hard on all
New subscriber! Love your holy advice ❤️
Thank you! 😍
Hey Brit, I just wanted to say that this is very helpful to me. I’ve already gone thru boot camp and that was fine because I was still back home in Miami and had a busy season at work to keep my time occupied. This time around, hell be leaving for C school in December and I’ll be alone with my dog in Chicago. I’ve never experienced a Midwest winter, I’ve never seen snow! (Born and raised in Miami) so I’m really fearful having to drive to work for the first time in the snow and navigating all that. At least back home I was in familiar territory and had family and friends. He’ll only be gone till March when he comes back and we then relocate to Norfolk but I’m basically spending winter alone... any advise?
Thank you for this 💓
No problem! 💕
I’m going to be going through my first time with my boyfriend being deployed in like another year or so. But I’m already all worried and worked up about it.
Thank you so much 💕
No problem💕
I’m in college and my boyfriend is leaving for 10 months. I really don’t have any other friends and am kind of freaking out.
Needed this!
Thank you Jesus! Always in Your perfect timing 👌🏼
Amen! ❤️
You should put in the title or description that it's not actually you who deployed 🙃
Alexis Brown Great suggestion! I will add “as a milso” or something!
hi girl do you have an ig ? i have a question i want to ask! i’m currently going through a deployment and it’s so hard but i am letting god be in control and this video helped me so much💕
Yes! @BrittaniKrebbs ❤️
Hi! I just found your channel and subscribed! I just posted my first military spouse video 💙 love from a fellow NAVY WIFE!
I loved this video sooo much! It was very much needed!!! P.s...I love your hair ❤️
Thanks😊
Thank you :)
You're welcome(:
I have the sameeeee fear... going to church alone is awful. I still can't go by myself.
Brooke Benedict I would definitely encourage you to try and conquer that fear! It’s very freeing and it always you to have a more personal relationship with God.
It's so hard. I emailed you just a little bit ago I am not sure If you have recieved it yet.
Brooke Benedict it’s only in the hard things that we are able to grow. Haven’t checked my email but I️ will(:
Told me mum bout this she survived thx 😊
Day 2 into deployment I'm so happy I found this video
So glad you did too! You are not alone ❤️
First tip: Cry
One week left for me til my boyfriend is outta bootcamp!! ❣️❣️❣️
My boyfriend is deploying in July 😭 he leaves in 4 months.
gosh, I love Samuel! so cute!
Videos starts at 1:30
My boyfriend is deploying in 2 years and these tips will help me
Bri I need your help. How can we chat ?
My husband is getting deployed in October I'm so scared he's not gonna come back
Two months left of this deployment and I am dying rn 😭
i’m currently waiting on my sailor to get back right now 😩 i see you put this 3 months ago but i do have a question did you ever find yourself feeling like deployment is going to last forever because it’s only been 2 weeks and it feels like the days are going by super slow and it’s tough..
idk how you got through the first 3 months omg i feel like this month is never going to end
@@biancaalyssa_ when he gonna be back? Mine is getting deployed next week.
This is our first deployment and he’s gone for a YEAR 😑
I feel ur pain,Stay strong
Wait i thought this is about server deployment
It's another DEPENDAA !!
#8 NEVER SPEND ANY OR ALONE TIME WITH ANOTHER MAN!!!
Once she brought jesus into the video I was like oh no lol no no no no no
My boyfriend is deploying in July 😭 he leaves in 4 months.