It is weird how we can actually feel it in our chest and stomach when something is not right in our relationship. Sometimes when the people u love the most hurt you the most. It is better to stay quite because if your love wasn't enough do you think ur words will matter? It is the worst thing when the only person who can make u better is the same person who's making u cry.
I am empathic to this man and I cannot imagine what he went through. Pole Sana and may God heal your heart. Please desist from any form of violence against your spouse. Violence is a NO NO. May God give wisdom!
Pastor,it's true whatever is done in darkness will one day come to the light in a day broad day light.The best thing is to hope in the lord,The God Almighty.
Pole sana for what happened to you.Being cheated on is not easy.May you find true love ,but kwanza I hope you will never put your hands on any woman ever again.Please deal with anger management.
So long as we are in this world, we are subject to betrayal. We are all also subject to temptation. The bottom like in all this is to fear God and keep his precepts.
Young man,God loves you.Always listen to your inner self.Some pastors and men of God cannot tell you to divorce,they can only advocate for forgiveness and reconciliation.However my advise,is that you go get a legal divorce,heal,learn from your mistakes,and move on with life.You can never justify another person's choice of action.Secondly,never fight under all circumstances.I pray that God washes that dirty past and make your future brighter.Go for professional counseling as well.Good luck.
Hold strong Pastor ! God loves you Renember,Ngai akwirire uragera maundu maya niguo akuhonokie.........Ngai ni agukuhe mutumia ngatha. Your former wife needs God in her life.....na sio mungu wa kujificha naye, Mungu kweli. Ni wona nginya niakuguithia ndugu uturite etereire Mwathani amuhe mundu ? Muririkanage mahoyaini kaingi. Ngai agitire muoyu waku.
It is possible. But this world please note, the best are also attacked. Sometimes you may not understand how things happen, but may be even the wife was initially ok and sound....let me te you the principalities of the realms of darknes needs lot of ZEAL. Anyone can fall. Especially ministry bound people get attacked from many sides.... You may not know but perhaps just like eve, this man's destiny is big and full of ministry... Satan just penetrated the marriage thru spouse. Sad to imagine.
And so is the wife that he publicly with no shame said he beat her up. I am sure that was not the first time. I dont support the cheating, but violence is not the way to solve the problem.
It once happened to me I used to feel there is something happening that is not right ,I bowed down and prayed God to show me up what's happening and one day my prayers were heard and I revealed the truth behind it
This world is so funny. In most cases When you are a faithful woman, you connect with a player. When you are a faithful man you meet with a player kind of a woman. God have mercy
If humans were to kill for a partner's cheating there would be countable men in the world. Let us pray for self control knowing vengeance is for God because He sees all
Power of Prayer -the hardest part is to ask God to review ...but God is awesome because He gives one strength beyond human understanding it's never easy
I would like to hear the other side of story ,bcoz so many men don't creat time for their family,my dea friends loneliness is killing families and relationships kimchezo mchezo tu,my view.
Pole for what you went through...No matter what, let no one judge you.. Immortality is not to be tolerated in marriage.. You did the right thing.. May God see you through.
Wen a woman cheats mnaachna waat about wen a man cheats ...unaambiwa umsamehe na mnaendelea.its not fair cheating shud be discouraged for both partners
Pastor I think this was your trial to test your faith as servant of God coz many breaking marriages from your church may come to you in such a hard time as yours for your counseling. Every trial and temptation to a Christian comes to you for a purpose which ends up to be a testimony with victory. I am glad the Lord stopped you from committing murder and I know you will be to encourage someone who maybe in the same problem. God bless you. Wishing you all the best and seek God's face to direct your future and take care if your kids regardless of your broken marriage.
Yes in deed, he is so cute, humble, stylish and great voice. He deserves someone who sees all these and many more beautiful n valuable things about him
Surely, sexual sin, especially for a married person is indeed too much. This sin was not done ones, twice, even more than one year. Is that accidental??? No. adultery is a sin one knows it's going to happen way before it happens. She heart this pastor too much to an extent of wanting to finish his life. Pastor no go zone to that lady ever. Forget her for life. My personal opinion pls.
@@beatricewanjiku8454 sure here no justification,when it come to adultery,as u said not once not twice .....even in the house of God she was not participating,but participating in immorality mchwwwwe
I thank GOD for preserving you Pastor. now HE will restore and strengthen and expand your ministry and a suitable, loving, caring and submissive helpmate is what GOD has for you. Everything was restored unto JOB in doubles. But unlike the livestock, for the 10 children which died, only 10 more children were born. Meaning we don't lose those that go into heaven, it still counts. So Job ends up with total 20 children ( i.e10 in heaven + 10 on earth). You could have lost a bad relationship but you will not lose your children. They have a seed of truth in them which will sprout one day
No one takes advantage of their husbands like women married to saved men. because they know they wont go overboard rest they report the 'good pastor'.kai Ngai atangihe ithuie airitu aria eega athuuri ta aya , aime acio matary bata nao
God😭,this life no balance,a good husband,bibi anakuwa shetani,my God 😢,Rev there is God in heaven,hakukufikisha hapo ndio akumaliza alikuwa n new plans about u,may the favor of God be with you 🙏🙏,earth I really hard
Beating up a spouse because they cheated, and talking about it with no remorse? Justifying one evil while condemning the other. Aren't we full of double standards? Hard times and challenges reveal what we have hidden in our hearts. It is okay to grieve, but being bitter towards God is already a lost war. Anywho....healing to all who are wounded.
Anne W. Clearly you have never faced a storm. May you never experience one. Please remember that we are all human, even our pastors! Our saving grace is Jesus
I think so too. His story is not adding up. Where did he get the guys number and he says he called the wife's number on that Sunday sending money to his wife. His story would be half true but not absolutely.
Sorry for you pastor I'm a Reverend nilipitia iyo nikafukuzwa kwa my matrimonial house ,my ex hubby akauza na watu wao wakashare the money ,niliamua nitumukie mungu
Your x wife is exactly likemy husband James . Even me i have alot peace. James left home n went to live with adultress who is patner in crime but the good thing anything they do it fails after 3 months. They have conned people alot of money. Fear God n He will show the way.
Pastor Elijah b strengthened God is with you.. n God will come thro for you in a mighty way n He'll show you His goodness n wipe away your tears n now tears of Joy will roll down your checks going forward n total restoration ..whatever the caterpillars, locusts have eaten the LORD will restore to you in Jesus precious mighty name!
It's well ...I know how it feels ......I went through the same thing and whoever betrayed me was someone I helped ...Everything happens with a reason more Grace man of God
After kupiga bibig how comes she didn't think of calling the guy kumwambia vile kuko such that by the time mupatane the following day jioni jamaa still dint know? Jamaa alifikiria aje kukupigia simu? This is fishy... coz boyfriend ni ngumu apigie brother ya girlfriend yake kama girlfriend hayuko..
Nimaa ngoro nikamotitu,,, if people choose not to open their heart, we can't know what is inside,,,,, waah life is a box,,, when u open it u see what is inside...
I am appalled that no one is condemning domestic violence but only concentrating on cheating bit.Violence is not the way to solve things. A full pastor should know better. Shame on him. And the interviewer should have told him too that is not the way to solve things. Horrible!
@@ameliaab131 why r u overreacting..he is human...he was angry, anger as a result of betrayal is very dangerous.....not that we support domestic violence.
It is weird how we can actually feel it in our chest and stomach when something is not right in our relationship. Sometimes when the people u love the most hurt you the most. It is better to stay quite because if your love wasn't enough do you think ur words will matter? It is the worst thing when the only person who can make u better is the same person who's making u cry.
The things that happens in this world are just so unbelievable. Wickedness never goes unpunished.
I am empathic to this man and I cannot imagine what he went through. Pole Sana and may God heal your heart. Please desist from any form of violence against your spouse. Violence is a NO NO. May God give wisdom!
I have never had an honest man like you speaking and standing with the truth.May God bless you and the kids.May happiness find you.
Thanks mr Jeremy for this opportunity 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Is this you🤔
Ur amazing man kumbe kunawao amembaki wazuri
Pole for what you went through
Pole sana mungu atubaliki na family huyuko pekeyako
Muriithi brother ya Kamande
Pastor,it's true whatever is done in darkness will one day come to the light in a day broad day light.The best thing is to hope in the lord,The God Almighty.
I wish God would give me such a wonderful man who loves treasures and open minded na family God give me another chance
He will definitely give you one, men we are just many going through the same thing.
Apostle Ngatia my spiritual father,ur at the right hands bro.
Wow am so happy too see many men telling their stories this is very encouraging God is good,pst God will give you a loving wife & thank you our CEO
Pole sana for what happened to you.Being cheated on is not easy.May you find true love ,but kwanza I hope you will never put your hands on any woman ever again.Please deal with anger management.
So long as we are in this world, we are subject to betrayal. We are all also subject to temptation. The bottom like in all this is to fear God and keep his precepts.
Your testimony has encouraged so many people. God bless Bishop Ngatia, i love IM F fellowship where i met these servants. I like your stand for God.
Young man,God loves you.Always listen to your inner self.Some pastors and men of God cannot tell you to divorce,they can only advocate for forgiveness and reconciliation.However my advise,is that you go get a legal divorce,heal,learn from your mistakes,and move on with life.You can never justify another person's choice of action.Secondly,never fight under all circumstances.I pray that God washes that dirty past and make your future brighter.Go for professional counseling as well.Good luck.
This is not the voice of God ... but carnal person talking.... so have heard God hates divorce ..... divorce is self will but Not God's will
Servant of God Mungu atakkumbuka na akupe mke mwema.. God's grace is sufficient for you.
Oohh jeremy thanks fr bringing us nabii Elijah.. i know him with a kiremba. May GOD fight all his battles.ameni ombea sana
Tuko same whasap group but i thank God for showing me to pray..riria wanyonirie kuhoya nindakenire ...my daily song
I feel his pain,may God bless him with the right partner,Amen.
You are strong pastor ..God bless you so much ..ihope God one day will bless me with such kind of Man...
Hold strong Pastor ! God loves you Renember,Ngai akwirire uragera maundu maya niguo akuhonokie.........Ngai ni agukuhe mutumia ngatha.
Your former wife needs God in her life.....na sio mungu wa kujificha naye,
Mungu kweli.
Ni wona nginya niakuguithia ndugu uturite etereire Mwathani amuhe mundu ? Muririkanage mahoyaini kaingi.
Ngai agitire muoyu waku.
It is possible. But this world please note, the best are also attacked. Sometimes you may not understand how things happen, but may be even the wife was initially ok and sound....let me te you the principalities of the realms of darknes needs lot of ZEAL. Anyone can fall. Especially ministry bound people get attacked from many sides.... You may not know but perhaps just like eve, this man's destiny is big and full of ministry... Satan just penetrated the marriage thru spouse. Sad to imagine.
God loves you pastor, he has a purpose for your life.
You are a blessing
You a true shepherd
Of God. Take time and Wait pone the Lord He will give you a loving partner
@@dorcaswairimu5675 í Ii ii ii Ii men and in
And so is the wife that he publicly with no shame said he beat her up. I am sure that was not the first time. I dont support the cheating, but violence is not the way to solve the problem.
Such a handsome guy. Pole for what you went through it's well.
This woman can never change.move on
May God give you a predict wife and fill your heart with joy pastor Elijah
Theirs no perfect wife, but pray he finds a woman who wants a family and knows what is all about.
Maybe he dint have time for the woman
@@bettywamae2000 their's a predict wife .......
@@shixsshixs4191 😂let us not judge ...God knows him better
It once happened to me I used to feel there is something happening that is not right ,I bowed down and prayed God to show me up what's happening and one day my prayers were heard and I revealed the truth behind it
I am going through that ,I need lots of prayers to push through
Pole sana pastor... Wicked people never have peace.. You are a good man continue serving God
@@hannahwanjiku8670 Shiku if you're prayerful just let God lead you. Some people are unfaithful from courtship.
This world is so funny. In most cases When you are a faithful woman, you connect with a player. When you are a faithful man you meet with a player kind of a woman. God have mercy
It's not a must.
Jeremy utige kwenjera Kiremba weee😂😂😂😂😂😂, Ndi Mukurinu Civilian
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣kiremba wohete kuu?? Nwanga kuguru
😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣wanyoike Jesu ni muriithi wa mburi ciake😂😂😂😂
Anga genes cia uthaka ciaregeire kwanyu. I am trying to visualize you with a kiremba 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Kiremba nituroka gukuoha
If humans were to kill for a partner's cheating there would be countable men in the world. Let us pray for self control knowing vengeance is for God because He sees all
🤣🤣🤣🤣that's very true
Precisely! They dish it but can't be served!
k0ànnb
Power of Prayer -the hardest part is to ask God to review ...but God is awesome because He gives one strength beyond human understanding it's never easy
Omg! MOG we go through so much! Annoiting attracts good and evil people! I love families that are united! God bless you
I would like to hear the other side of story ,bcoz so many men don't creat time for their family,my dea friends loneliness is killing families and relationships kimchezo mchezo tu,my view.
Yes you can be married and lonely.
True
So you get lonely you cheat, that petty excuse.
You're not alone brother. This things happen too so many people. I know the feeling
It is well
It is well.
You feel sick dizzy as if you wanna vomit but its life😪
I feel you pastor ,GOD is in control and the future is bright.
It's painfull
I can only pray for this Man of God to give him the best woman to help him through the ministry
Wina utangata munene thiini waku no nginya Ngai eherie tuthuki njiraini wira wake urutike
Stay blessed servant of God...
Elijah was fed mysterious,God will give you a Love of your life n ua Joy Will be restored
Wamucoka niguo uriaga mundu,niuzie nikwambie,Wachana na yeye kabisa kabisa.
True,, once a cheater always a cheater
@@gladyssheraw4951 Mimi mwenyewe ni shawahi pitia hii njia, husuni machozi ,Wacha tu,better to be single .na mungu ambaki kuwa mungu.
The things that happen behind the scene are painful,traumatizing and humiliating.May God help his people.
Pole for what you went through...No matter what, let no one judge you.. Immortality is not to be tolerated in marriage.. You did the right thing.. May God see you through.
Immorality
@@lucynjuguna9653 🤔🤔
i love this pastor he is very humbled.GOD WILL ALWAYS BE WIH YOU.YOU WERE CHOOSEN.Continue doing the work of GOD.HE WILL PROVIDE A GOOD WIFE FOR YOU
Pastor Elijah you are a very strong man, blessed and very handsome. Simama imara katika Imani God loves you so much.
I bless the name of the lord for your life,you went through fire and you were not consumed.
Thahabu njega igeragio na Mwaki, waimbaji hua tunapitia Moto.
You look good n different pst Elijah, more Grace
It is an honour and a blessing to hear a remnant. men who stand the test of time.
God is good all the time. Be strong my bro. Gud that God revealed the truth. Prayer is powerful.
Wah we looking for people like you who have this love for to their wife aki si mungu anipatie mungu kama wewe uii kuja UK
Pole sana pastor.you have a big heart.sijui nirushe application
Carol Wanjau ,plz do if you are qualified,😂😂how I feel for him n how I wish he stand again,oh God may you remember him
Wen a woman cheats mnaachna waat about wen a man cheats ...unaambiwa umsamehe na mnaendelea.its not fair cheating shud be discouraged for both partners
JD get us the other side of this story. I am not a psychologist but hi story kuna mashimo hapa na pale. Overall good interview.
You speak my thought out . Most of the pastors , bishop's and the so called men of God's wives go through a lot 😞I would love to hear her side too .
Yes I agree, iko na Mashimoshimo mahali
Thankyou for noting that
When it's a woman saying how his husband cheated sionangi mkisema alete the other side
@@judywairimu8730 where in my comment did I talk about who is cheating here?
wow!handsome man of God sauti nayo!we are blessed
Pastor I think this was your trial to test your faith as servant of God coz many breaking marriages from your church may come to you in such a hard time as yours for your counseling. Every trial and temptation to a Christian comes to you for a purpose which ends up to be a testimony with victory. I am glad the Lord stopped you from committing murder and I know you will be to encourage someone who maybe in the same problem. God bless you. Wishing you all the best and seek God's face to direct your future and take care if your kids regardless of your broken marriage.
He is soo cute 🥰🥰
We wangari we
Me too I can witness this,kwani wanawake wengine mnatakanga nini? God bless me this year 🙏🤪
I thought I was only who see this..Mr handsome 🥰🥰🥰🥰
@@poulinemurima1165 this is crazy 😂 anyway big up
Yes in deed, he is so cute, humble, stylish and great voice. He deserves someone who sees all these and many more beautiful n valuable things about him
I like his humbleness,May God bless u with the right woman
Surely,he has humility.
People go through alot in life
But God is faithful..
This life...you never know who is who...Mungu aturehemu...
Ruo rwa cheating ni ruritu
Pole aki haki Dunia ni vise versa
If a man is good mwanamke haoni
Ciana ciakwa ndigikana kaba ndure single ucio ni muno .
I think it is good to hear from the lady... why would she deny her children and why all these no one is talking about her as a good person
Surely, sexual sin, especially for a married person is indeed too much. This sin was not done ones, twice, even more than one year. Is that accidental??? No. adultery is a sin one knows it's going to happen way before it happens. She heart this pastor too much to an extent of wanting to finish his life. Pastor no go zone to that lady ever. Forget her for life. My personal opinion pls.
@@beatricewanjiku8454 sure here no justification,when it come to adultery,as u said not once not twice .....even in the house of God she was not participating,but participating in immorality mchwwwwe
I thank GOD for preserving you Pastor. now HE will restore and strengthen and expand your ministry and a suitable, loving, caring and submissive helpmate is what GOD has for you. Everything was restored unto JOB in doubles. But unlike the livestock, for the 10 children which died, only 10 more children were born. Meaning we don't lose those that go into heaven, it still counts. So Job ends up with total 20 children ( i.e10 in heaven + 10 on earth). You could have lost a bad relationship but you will not lose your children. They have a seed of truth in them which will sprout one day
Oo
Jeremy let's hear the wife's side
wife's side is self explanatory. she stands as accused
Pole sana iwas avictim one day aki was stressed up
Pastor the lord is preparing you for a greater Glory.
No one takes advantage of their husbands like women married to saved men. because they know they wont go overboard rest they report the 'good pastor'.kai Ngai atangihe ithuie airitu aria eega athuuri ta aya , aime acio matary bata nao
True ithui twonaga turi ega tutiheyagwo athuri ta aya
Very true speaking from experience
Arume thiku ICI mureruturura kiriu very sad 😭 akih .niukuona Mundu wina call 🙏🙏🙏more grace in ministry 🙏
Very handsome.
Can make a good husband!!!
Mungu nipee mzee
May God grant you your wish
@@cucumami4188 Amen!!!
God bless you
God😭,this life no balance,a good husband,bibi anakuwa shetani,my God 😢,Rev there is God in heaven,hakukufikisha hapo ndio akumaliza alikuwa n new plans about u,may the favor of God be with you 🙏🙏,earth I really hard
I like it nowadays men coming to kwiiturura instead of dieing in silence.... pastor Elijah may God give you the right woman.... Jeremy be blessed
Beating up a spouse because they cheated, and talking about it with no remorse? Justifying one evil while condemning the other. Aren't we full of double standards? Hard times and challenges reveal what we have hidden in our hearts. It is okay to grieve, but being bitter towards God is already a lost war. Anywho....healing to all who are wounded.
Act of anger. Jesus fell to anger, when he found selling stuff in church. I dont condone.
Anne W. Clearly you have never faced a storm. May you never experience one.
Please remember that we are all human, even our pastors! Our saving grace is Jesus
Try to cheat on your partner n he knows about it then bring your story ..
Hypocrites
Basically, he ignored the rule; " You cannot a whore into a housewife"
Uyu msee hakai straightforward
I find him quite truthful. Even to talk about it is painful.
Never judge no one is perfect but infidelity is not allowed hata Kwa bibilia
I think so too.
His story is not adding up.
Where did he get the guys number and he says he called the wife's number on that Sunday sending money to his wife.
His story would be half true but not absolutely.
Yeah. He needs to mention what he did to contribute to the situation
@@gracedwoman2219 wewe haujui wanaume hawajui kupeana story? They are not into details like us women,huyu ata amejaribu kucome out.
Pole sana pastor. I Know it's such a painful experience. I thought I've been through alot. Waah. Mungu akusaidie
I also went through this. It was not easy at all. I too almost committed suicide. Thank God I was able to overcome. I now have a beautiful family
Kumbe I can overcome too
I went through this but God has been gracious. You will overcome bro
Did u forgive her or u married another wife?
Am here but am not kikuyu but am born again
May our good Lord bless you to get a God fearing woman...you seem to be a good man of God
Ngano(husband) na thawani(wife) in the church. This servant has really tried. That's a tough thing to go through. God will lead you.
Sorry for you pastor I'm a Reverend nilipitia iyo nikafukuzwa kwa my matrimonial house ,my ex hubby akauza na watu wao wakashare the money ,niliamua nitumukie mungu
Your x wife is exactly likemy husband James . Even me i have alot peace. James left home n went to live with adultress who is patner in crime but the good thing anything they do it fails after 3 months. They have conned people alot of money. Fear God n He will show the way.
Why do bad people get good husband or wives,and good people like us we don't get, thank God that pastor you have healed
You can have this one he's cool. 😄😄. Uwache kujifunga na Jam.
I wonder the same.
I wonder too
I praise God that men are not dying in silence 🤐🤐
Pole.Pastor.Take courage. Some of us Ladies this has happened to us but God has sustained us.It shall be well.
God is good all the time I don't know why good people always face challenges being one of them but I truly believe and trust God
Great interview, tuned from saudia
ngai maundu mamwe nimakumakania Mwathani tuigure tha, nitwahera biu. strong
pastor may God see you through,
Pole sana mchungaji kwa mapito hayo ,zidi kutumikia mungu kwa haki na uzidi kujipa moyo God above all, All is well in jesus name
GOD Loves you pastor he has a purpose for your life
🙊🙊Kwa wenye hatuna call let wait upon the Lord tutapatana tu wakutulea
Tutapata akhi
Pastor Elijah b strengthened God is with you.. n God will come thro for you in a mighty way n He'll show you His goodness n wipe away your tears n now tears of Joy will roll down your checks going forward n total restoration ..whatever the caterpillars, locusts have eaten the LORD will restore to you in Jesus precious mighty name!
Carterpillar,,,
It's well ...I know how it feels ......I went through the same thing and whoever betrayed me was someone I helped ...Everything happens with a reason more Grace man of God
God give us grace,I understand your situation, aki watu why all this
Jeremy very powerful am moved to high value
You will never know whether somebody loves you unless you stay away from them about a month you will see her true colors.
Mmmh
Mmh
The humiliation I went through it’s very painful indeed sorry pastor it’s well God will see you through
Kwi ndeto na hi !!!!...waah n the way he's cute
He is very handsome indeed
Most handsome men do not make good husbands though am not judging him just an observation
@@janetmwangi7927 n most handsome guys r not that intelligent ni slay kings in a way.
He doesn't look wise ata kaa ni pastor
After kupiga bibig how comes she didn't think of calling the guy kumwambia vile kuko such that by the time mupatane the following day jioni jamaa still dint know?
Jamaa alifikiria aje kukupigia simu? This is fishy... coz boyfriend ni ngumu apigie brother ya girlfriend yake kama girlfriend hayuko..
Nimaa ngoro nikamotitu,,, if people choose not to open their heart, we can't know what is inside,,,,, waah life is a box,,, when u open it u see what is inside...
May God reward you heavily.
God has someone for you. twihokaga o Ngai when it comes to a life partner
This is like a movie...it beats all reasons y a woman denounces her own kids....but then thiku cia muici ni fote.
Lol pastor Elijah live for God ,He truly loves you if He reveal for you the second time..for sure you serve God
Ur strong man of God"""Ngai witu nìatwikage wa gùtùgworìria Maria mothe tùragerera
God is powerful in all ways in our hearts and minds in this journey of life
You have a big heart pst God bless you
Powerful testimony....it is well MOG
I am appalled that no one is condemning domestic violence but only concentrating on cheating bit.Violence is not the way to solve things. A full pastor should know better. Shame on him. And the interviewer should have told him too that is not the way to solve things. Horrible!
He keeps talking of killing 🙆🙆, shocking
He is human
@@judithnjoroge162 people like you glorifying domestic violence disgust me. He is a monster, not a human. O
@@ameliaab131 why r u overreacting..he is human...he was angry, anger as a result of betrayal is very dangerous.....not that we support domestic violence.
I like it nowadays men coming to kwiiturura instead of dieing in silence.... pastor Elijah may God give you the right woman.... Jeremy be blessed