Who should apologize first between husband and wife?

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  • @racheldteye
    @racheldteye 2 місяці тому +7

    The fact that these two are actually married in real life makes this a lot funnier😂

  • @dagotustv569
    @dagotustv569 9 місяців тому +44

    I remember when I and my wife had a misunderstanding. The next morning I said let us pray, I couldn't pray because of that...suddenly I boost into laugh and I hugged her immediately telling her am sorry now. She boost into laugh at the same time I laughed mine. She said I know you "your heart is mine, you can't hold anything against me" ...I don't know when I silent her with a kiss. Marriage is very practical, simple word 'am sorry can heal and as well when it's not said it can be the genesis of the marriage's downfall.

    • @ruthabigaild.nehemie6748
      @ruthabigaild.nehemie6748 9 місяців тому +1

      PRAISE THE LORD!🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

    • @adeolatoriola8304
      @adeolatoriola8304 9 місяців тому +2

      Powerful piece! The man should apologize first, when a woman is working outside of home, caring and cooking in the house is a second full time job. Noodles is not what most African men want truly but it’s not enough reason to shout at any woman but let her know you are not pleased with it and she will be the one apologizing with reasons especially if she has not done it before.

  • @CPfaith
    @CPfaith 9 місяців тому +30

    I've been married 17 years to a man who works in the construction industry. I don't understand the noodles issue. Food is food. If noodles was what God provided that day, bless and eat.
    This is kind of what my marriage looked like in about it's third year....who was wrong, who should say sorry. Now I can look back and smile at all the things the Holy Spirit has taught me.
    One of the things I have learnt is that we are the ones who find things to be offended by. The other person may be blank about it. That is why you say something as soon as it happens. If you don't like something just say it. Do not shut down each other's feelings. If you have to speak angrily then understand each other's anger. Contrary to popular belief, there is no one right and the other wrong in marriage. You are both wrong. And the one who is right (God) is standing by looking at you.
    Now my husband and I can have a disagreement that most people would think is a quarrel, and go right back to being our normal selves. Interacting as we should.
    I thank God.

  • @folasadeadeleke7414
    @folasadeadeleke7414 9 місяців тому +18

    😂😂😂 I sincerely love the way this movie end, *just apologize*. Everyone in marriage must sincerely learn how to swallow their pride and stay in the school of the Spirit for growth and strength.

  • @beautifulblesseddestinywin5995
    @beautifulblesseddestinywin5995 9 місяців тому +5

    This one tough ooo!!! Why is it men expect women to hold jobs and hold their weight in finances but never want to help with chores? And on top of it you're yelling Ike I'm your maid that got paid and didn't do my job. Kaiiiii

  • @samueleleko8228
    @samueleleko8228 9 місяців тому +9

    Both of them should read Proverbs 15:1
    “ A soft answer turns away wrath,but a harsh word stirs up anger.
    (ESV)”

  • @akinremielijah4141
    @akinremielijah4141 9 місяців тому +20

    It's wisdom and maturity to apologize.
    I remembered a time my wife offended me and I was expecting her to apologize, she was also expecting me to apologize for the way I reacted to her. Then the holy spirit spoke to me and said, would you drop your ego and chose peace in your home?
    And I went to her and apologize with style 😂.
    Apologizing first does not mean you are wrong, it only shows how strong you are.
    I'm sorry it's a great show of strength.

    • @ruthabigaild.nehemie6748
      @ruthabigaild.nehemie6748 9 місяців тому +1

      🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰MY LORD!!!!! HOLY SPIRIT OF GOD ESE......

  • @user-jf4vt6nb4m
    @user-jf4vt6nb4m 9 місяців тому +10

    She goes to work, you go to work.
    Those "African" women you refer to, do only the women duties. If she's sharing in the burden of providing for your family, you should share in the burden of taking care of the home.
    Anyway just apologize, heaven will not fall. Me self I dey this table 😂
    God bless PRODRAM!

    • @CS2RN2005
      @CS2RN2005 2 місяці тому

      Sir, ma please help me to understand. If the woman is not working by choice, does the husband have the right to demand food? I honestly don't think that women are physically built to work outside the home for 8 hours then come home and still do all the house chores and cook. Please, no one should say that the man should help because that one sink of dishes that he does is not equal to the 5 daysx8hours of work she has to do to "help" him provide. I don't think this is fair.

  • @onlyforjesusinfinity7179
    @onlyforjesusinfinity7179 9 місяців тому +4

    Abiketerians😂
    Sis Abike in husband and wife

  • @onebody700
    @onebody700 9 місяців тому +7

    Saying sorry is an act humility and a mature mine, so anyone can say it. It's not in the place of the man or woman, who so ever is matured should do that

  • @user-gs3lx5sk1v
    @user-gs3lx5sk1v 9 місяців тому +6

    Abike baby good to see you again. When did you want to start your carpentry course o😂? I think the husband should first apologize first as the head of the house. But if I were Abike I won't mind to go on and apologize cos I love my oeace so much. I love this guy too in the abatior movie. You guys are doing a good job. May God reward you all in Jesus name 🙏🏾 🙌

  • @st.jn3v169
    @st.jn3v169 9 місяців тому +22

    They should do on your mark, set, go and both shout I AM SORRY together 😁😁😁😂😂

  • @blessingeyo7077
    @blessingeyo7077 Місяць тому

    GOD abegooooo
    When it's time to apologize that is when you remember women first 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @user-fq6ox8ck4p
    @user-fq6ox8ck4p 9 місяців тому +8

    We need a Series of these two actors 😅😅😅😅

  • @doowuesedamaris1536
    @doowuesedamaris1536 9 місяців тому +1

    A woman whisper in my ear on my wedding day and said 'dont ever feels too big to say sorry to your husband, even if it's your right'. I'm in marriage for 10yrs now, and that 'sorry' formula works very well. There's no big deal in be the first person to say sorry.
    Thanks for the ministration

  • @babygirlrina
    @babygirlrina 9 місяців тому +4

    The husband should be more mature. . lol children marriage . Your argument is about noodles born pikin first we go see the real argument 😅😅😅😅…. So cute oo lol like brothers and sisters arguing 😅😅
    Love from NYC

  • @annenwakuche2422
    @annenwakuche2422 9 місяців тому +5

    Sometimes it's can be difficult shai especially when you have worked and still prepared kids and cook you just expect the man to understand Abba😂

  • @tryphenaaderonke5350
    @tryphenaaderonke5350 9 місяців тому +3

    This matter is a seriously serious one o. 😂 Someone should just bell the apology cat. The man should go first though.

  • @user-os7tj6ik1m
    @user-os7tj6ik1m 9 місяців тому

    Just Apologize. Opeyemi Lameed just apologize. I am learning and blessed through this message. Seeing Abike in this short clip. Sister Abike learning this Queen's English we want to listen to Kings and Queens English at Husband and wife series. God bless you sir and ma at Prodam

  • @comfortoyelowo
    @comfortoyelowo 9 місяців тому +2

    Wow.. May God beat down our pride in Jesus name. God bless you sir

  • @lolaezra48
    @lolaezra48 9 місяців тому +2

    Both husband and wife owe each other an apology. You don’t score less or more points for apologising first or second. The key thing is doing whatever it's going to take to ensure peace in the home.

  • @ilerioluwaakinbade9988
    @ilerioluwaakinbade9988 9 місяців тому +5

    Thank you daddy and mummy for always bringing edifying contents our ways. May your home be preserved by mercy in Jesus name.

  • @sussanchinelo6555
    @sussanchinelo6555 9 місяців тому +1

    I can't deny that Ayobami Adegboyega Gospel Films Tv has been doing justice to family issues and crisis.
    God please help me and make sensitive to leave our all I have been learning 🙏🙏

  • @MwaleWaGitau
    @MwaleWaGitau 9 місяців тому +3

    The mature one between the two 😂

  • @amenvalerieolufala7414
    @amenvalerieolufala7414 9 місяців тому +6

    😂This is so good ....funny, but it happens. God bless this ministry real good.
    It's so good to see our Abike on another level 😍😘
    Welldone, sir, Welldone all👏👏👏

  • @theresaodey3355
    @theresaodey3355 9 місяців тому +4

    May d Lord bless & increase ur anointing in Jesus name. Thank you for being an instrument of instruction from the Lord to our generation sir.

  • @elizabethoyeniyi5017
    @elizabethoyeniyi5017 9 місяців тому

    A simple sorry that could have given them a good sleep stole their sleep. Whosoever says sorry first is the owner of the family, because that maturity

  • @michaelawoniyi
    @michaelawoniyi 9 місяців тому +4

    If you know you are at fault, husband or wife, be humble enough to say I AM SORRY. It won't make you to be less a husband or a weaker wife. In this clip, either of them should have swallowed their prides and say sorry 'for serving you noodles' or sorry I shout at you ' the explanation can follow thereafter.

    • @dammyPrayz
      @dammyPrayz 9 місяців тому +1

      Sometimes you say sorry even when you are not at fault just for peace to reign. Then later the explanation and cause of offence can now be spelt out so it won't repeat itself again.

  • @yemisiokelade3756
    @yemisiokelade3756 9 місяців тому +2

    Yes o just apologise heaven will not fall if we both say I am sorry. Thanks team.

  • @laizerlusiana9215
    @laizerlusiana9215 9 місяців тому +3

    Happy to see you Abike 😅

  • @laizerlusiana9215
    @laizerlusiana9215 9 місяців тому +2

    The one who was first at fault should humble him or herself.....

  • @MrGracee12
    @MrGracee12 9 місяців тому +2

    Husbands, love your wife as Christ loves the church. So the husband should first ap... if the wife is slow to.

  • @ruthabigaild.nehemie6748
    @ruthabigaild.nehemie6748 9 місяців тому +1

    😭😭😭😭🙏My LORD. Thank you so much. Ese......, merci, gracias, obrigada.....

  • @victoriaadebayo6515
    @victoriaadebayo6515 9 місяців тому

    Either of them can apologize for their peace of mind and the joy of the home.
    In addition, the husband should lead by example in all things, it will make it easy for the woman to follow.

  • @jesustraineewithstar463
    @jesustraineewithstar463 9 місяців тому +4

    This movie is very funny and educative. Thank you Sir for this movie.

  • @evelynmawunyo8590
    @evelynmawunyo8590 9 місяців тому +2

    Both of them but the woman should take lead because wise woman build her home.
    Daddy please can make husband and wife series off both of them
    We will like to watch their series together . God bless you sir🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭

  • @vivianhorsfall6591
    @vivianhorsfall6591 8 місяців тому

    "Am sorry" will save the stress of shouting and feeling headache at the end

  • @PeterAsigri
    @PeterAsigri 2 місяці тому

    3 WORD WAR " I AM SORRY"
    Why is it so difficult to say 😂😂

  • @Agu-042
    @Agu-042 7 місяців тому

    The snoring part got me, with her uncontrolled laughter😅

  • @gracechukwubuko7717
    @gracechukwubuko7717 9 місяців тому +2

    Wow nice one
    If you want the both of them to be husband and wife in a new series gather here

  • @todzibrightfrancis9507
    @todzibrightfrancis9507 9 місяців тому +2

    FOR ME ANYONE CAN BECAUSE APOLOGY DOESNOT LOWER BOTH IN MARRIAGE RATHER MAKE YOU STRONGER ESPECIALLY CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE MUST BE THE EXAMPLE BECAUSE WE ARE TO IMITATE CHRIST SINCE WE BEEN BORN OF HIS SEED FORGIVENESS AND TENDERNESS IS OUR PRODUCE.UNTIL WE UNDERSTAND THAT IN MARRIAGE THERES NO LOSER OR WIN. LETS US LOVE EACH OTHER AS CHRIST LOVE THE CHURCH. ABIKE AGAIN

  • @grencell6375
    @grencell6375 9 місяців тому +2

    This is some how funny anywhere, Father Lord may you help us to be like you

  • @wrparent_child
    @wrparent_child 9 місяців тому +1

    This is a very interesting one. It just show how little thing can be a big deal between couples.
    What I have seen and noticed, is that men seems to say sorry in different ways. I think wives just need to know how their hubby say their sorry.
    Thanks Evangelist Ayobami and your team. More inspirational movies in Jesus mighty name

  • @toluige8231
    @toluige8231 9 місяців тому +1

    Any of the couple can apologize first. If a man love the woman should first apologize and if the woman is humble enough can apologize even when u are wrong. Doesn't matter u are the head or neck😂. Once one u so the other will also do

  • @enitanize
    @enitanize 9 місяців тому +2

    The wife should have served the noodles with apologies since it has never happened before. That way, the husband will not take offence

  • @blessingidialu7839
    @blessingidialu7839 9 місяців тому +5

    Im here laughing my head out ... This is exactly what goes on in many marriges today. The wife should have first apologize for making noodles and then explained why....,..the husband should have understood better, must you eat shallow or rice every day? (Husband)

  • @joannabwire2482
    @joannabwire2482 9 місяців тому +2

    As longer as you are wrong apologize

  • @adelowosamuelsunday
    @adelowosamuelsunday 9 місяців тому +2

    The man should say sorry oooo

  • @user-fq6ox8ck4p
    @user-fq6ox8ck4p 9 місяців тому +2

    I can't stop laughing 😊😊😊😊😊😅😅

  • @nwachinemerejoy6715
    @nwachinemerejoy6715 9 місяців тому

    Very very interesting real life issues. God bless you Sir.

  • @user-fq6ox8ck4p
    @user-fq6ox8ck4p 9 місяців тому +2

    Egoooo😊

  • @lannikbeautyinstitutel.b.i1921
    @lannikbeautyinstitutel.b.i1921 9 місяців тому

    I believe both parties should apologise. But men see recieving applology as their right even when they are obviously wrong. Men seeks for validation, they must be correct and the Women wrong 😅.. so I have added apologies to their daily dose. Once you are a man. I will say sorry sir before you even ask for it. Its like a patient and nurse situation. The men are the patient wihile we women are their nurses. Saying sorry doesn't mean much to me any more. THANK YOU TO HUSBAND AND WIFE SERIES

  • @successezeukwu6873
    @successezeukwu6873 9 місяців тому +2

    A great lesson...prov. 13:10

  • @KehindeAyantola-yy4zu
    @KehindeAyantola-yy4zu 9 місяців тому +2

    Just say I am sorry. Period

  • @user-fq6ox8ck4p
    @user-fq6ox8ck4p 9 місяців тому +2

    Its very funny 😅😅😅😅

  • @olowatobilobakolawole298
    @olowatobilobakolawole298 9 місяців тому +1

    For me I will say the man to apologize so has to avoid peace to rein so has the lady to begged him too

  • @user-fq6ox8ck4p
    @user-fq6ox8ck4p 9 місяців тому

    Me too i hate shouting i think its all women , men need to learn to speak in calm voice....

  • @YeshuaMuzic
    @YeshuaMuzic 9 місяців тому +2

    What's the name of this movie??

  • @user-fq6ox8ck4p
    @user-fq6ox8ck4p 9 місяців тому

    Saying sorry is hard to most people i don't know why...

  • @chiamakachukwuemeka3770
    @chiamakachukwuemeka3770 9 місяців тому

    Sometimes you will apologise and it won’t change anything

  • @enanguko2237
    @enanguko2237 9 місяців тому

    So nicely portrayed

  • @dagotustv569
    @dagotustv569 9 місяців тому +1

    Husband go first now...say sorry. You are the head

  • @ilesanmifunmi9224
    @ilesanmifunmi9224 9 місяців тому

    Marri iiiaaage!!!! Different strokes different people this video speaks volumes.. more anointing sir

  • @joyajisafe7467
    @joyajisafe7467 2 місяці тому

    Whats the title of this wonderful movie

  • @eunicea.y5404
    @eunicea.y5404 9 місяців тому +1

    The husband shou play maturity in d home because he is d head .by so doing the wife will realise next thier if theirt is miundestanding. She will quickly say am sorry to allow peace in d home.

  • @SiaHawaJohnbull-hs2su
    @SiaHawaJohnbull-hs2su 9 місяців тому

    Wow
    What's the title of this movie please

  • @onlyforjesusinfinity7179
    @onlyforjesusinfinity7179 9 місяців тому

    Hmmmmm
    God will help us

  • @Martino1980
    @Martino1980 9 місяців тому

    Pls brethren what is the title of this movie?

  • @56manya
    @56manya Місяць тому

    Which movies was this Abikeeeeee?

  • @olaideowokoniran813
    @olaideowokoniran813 9 місяців тому +1

    😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @kolawoledavid4682
    @kolawoledavid4682 6 місяців тому

    😂😂😂

  • @afterHisheart4eva
    @afterHisheart4eva 9 місяців тому

    Pls what is wrong with noodles ejo???

  • @onlyforjesusinfinity7179
    @onlyforjesusinfinity7179 9 місяців тому

    Kneel down until a husband finish eating, this is slavery and Jesus will not be happy about this
    Marriage is not a slave market but a mutual relationship

  • @lawrenciaaseye6164
    @lawrenciaaseye6164 9 місяців тому

    This lady is not a marriage material at all even if they are married for twenty years she should not give his husband a food he never likes, more so her way of talking should seasoned as a Christian lady wife but here no she has to say am sorry l did not come home early due to such and such reason but you came home giving y ok Ur husband nodules am very sorry

  • @Agu-042
    @Agu-042 7 місяців тому

    The snoring part got me, with her uncontrolled laughter😅

  • @lannikbeautyinstitutel.b.i1921
    @lannikbeautyinstitutel.b.i1921 9 місяців тому

    I believe both parties should apologise. But men see recieving applology as their right even when they are obviously wrong. Men seeks for validation, they must be correct and the Women wrong 😅.. so I have added apologies to their daily dose. Once you are a man. I will say sorry sir before you even ask for it. Its like a patient and nurse situation. The men are the patient wihile we women are their nurses. Saying sorry doesn't mean much to me any more. THANK YOU TO HUSBAND AND WIFE SERIES

  • @user-fq6ox8ck4p
    @user-fq6ox8ck4p 9 місяців тому +1

    😂😂😂😂😂