The Single Biggest Mistake You Must Fix In Order To Improve Your Business Networking Skills

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  • @09wrxin17
    @09wrxin17 8 років тому +434

    I've learned more from tai in a few videos than I did in all of high school

    • @Superam22
      @Superam22 8 років тому +2

      same

    • @ericvaldez1621
      @ericvaldez1621 8 років тому +1

      so true

    • @alfrerobles3
      @alfrerobles3 8 років тому

      Yeah. I think I´m barely in the same situation than yours. Professors didn't
      teach " this" when I was at school, at least on my own situation.

    • @DETHKLOWN
      @DETHKLOWN 8 років тому

      SAME

    • @Ryan-um6ow
      @Ryan-um6ow 8 років тому +2

      Aw man don't even get me started about high school.. so fucking useless :S

  • @AdamSecousse
    @AdamSecousse 8 років тому +151

    “Pretend that every single person you meet has a sign around his or her neck that says, ‘Make me feel important.’ Not only will you succeed in sales, you will succeed in life.” - Mary Kay Ash
    Thank you, Tai, for making me feel humble, capable and inspired.
    What's the one most prevalent thing that you have asked yourself over the course of your life?

    • @realMartinHamilton
      @realMartinHamilton 8 років тому +1

      Great quote and thanks for sharing that. It's very true.

    • @AllucB
      @AllucB 8 років тому +1

      I love that

    • @yoyoli4138
      @yoyoli4138 8 років тому

      Very true!

    • @arkano6204
      @arkano6204 8 років тому +1

      What if both person are being nice? What if both person are listening? Doesn't go forward, a probably I been facing

    • @DrPhoenyx
      @DrPhoenyx 6 років тому +1

      One of my favorite quotes and excellent advice for business and life.👌

  • @desmond8400
    @desmond8400 8 років тому +31

    This is the realest, i have ever seen Tai. Things to learn from this video
    --ALWAYS ASK QUESTIONS, YOU DONT KNOW EVERYTHING
    --STOP JABBING
    --STOP TALKING AND START DOING BECAUSE IN LIFE RESULTS RULE.
    --BE NICE (have something to back that up)
    --DON'T BE PROUD ALWAYS STAY HUMBLE.
    --ALWAYS ASK QUESTIONS, EVEN THE RICH STILL ASK.
    --DONT BE PASSIVELY AGGRESSIVE
    These are the things i learnt.
    Thank you so much Tai for this heart felt video.
    #teamknowledge

  • @Andyskull360
    @Andyskull360 8 років тому +8

    You have changed my life. I took your 67 steps and now I'm doing things I never thought I'd be capable to do.

  • @johnjohnphenomenon6132
    @johnjohnphenomenon6132 8 років тому +74

    I was so skeptical of you at first but have been soaking up your vids Tai. Thanks brotha!

    • @moxistarcraft
      @moxistarcraft 8 років тому

      yeah there is a lot of stuff that makes sense if you think about it what Tai says. I just skip the sale stuff:p

  • @realMartinHamilton
    @realMartinHamilton 8 років тому +47

    I've seen 50 of you're videos Tai. This is by far the greatest of them all. Me, what have I done? I've failed more times than anyone on your list. All I can say is I try harder everyday. Even though I'm broke I manage to give time to the homeless. Love to hear their stories and always find a reason to say I'm proud of them and love them.

    • @jollygood9071
      @jollygood9071 8 років тому +7

      he has a lot of great videos really

    • @jollygood9071
      @jollygood9071 8 років тому

      MrMagee78 i can prove it thats not true. He helped me a lot !!

    • @YevgeniyL1989
      @YevgeniyL1989 7 років тому

      ur broke and u give time to the homeless soon u gona be homeless fuck the homeless go help ur self u fucking idiot its about making money and fuck everyone else

    • @jackiechan6460
      @jackiechan6460 6 років тому

      Spoken like a true asshole Yev. That is all.

  • @declangarrity
    @declangarrity 8 років тому +9

    Sometimes I forget how much I owe Tai. I look to my left and see stacks of books that wouldnt be here if it wasnt for the 67 steps program and have started my 1st company. Thanks Tai! :)

    • @AiePro26
      @AiePro26 8 років тому

      Good luck with your company! 👍👌

  • @DeadbeatSuperAffiliate
    @DeadbeatSuperAffiliate 3 роки тому +2

    This is one of Tai's best videos for sure.

  • @NatralSelection
    @NatralSelection 8 років тому +26

    All of the logic in this video was bulletproof. How can anyone still argue that being a good person and a nice person isn't the way to go?
    It bewilders me how anyone on UA-cam could hear the content of Tai's words and then claim there is something fake about his advice. I guess, to lesser minds, those who seek to maximize their lifestyle and profits cannot possibly at the same time be benefiting society with the best intentions for those around him/her. Biases are cancer.
    Well done Tai.

    • @hiyouseemcool
      @hiyouseemcool 8 років тому

      Biases can be useful sometimes. They just need to be checked and managed.

    • @OleTimHerr
      @OleTimHerr 8 років тому

      in order to grab people's attention he had to do some of that stuff. marketing. but now that they're tuned in, he will really tell them interesting new advice. but its the marketing people dont buy into cause theyve seen so much of it elsewhere. idk my thoughts your choice to agree

    • @leozanna2861
      @leozanna2861 8 років тому

      The problem with those people is that they do not put Tai's information to the test. They've just been helpless their whole life.

    • @VISOVNI
      @VISOVNI 8 років тому

      It's a reflection of what he said, they seek validation for their bullshit pessimism.

    • @Newfuturebuilder
      @Newfuturebuilder 8 років тому +2

      I almost gave into the scam hype before taking time to listen to him and glad that I did. He is always giving out great points to think about.

  • @sandycandy6691
    @sandycandy6691 8 років тому +52

    lol whuut?! what are those girls doing.. they look bored af.

    • @OrbelisAlmeida
      @OrbelisAlmeida 5 років тому +1

      Now Im not fan of Tai Lopez, Im here checking out his videos for the first time. Having said that, what you are saying might actually be a projection of your insecurities, They might actually be quietly listening to the knowledge of a millionaire who is giving good advice. Even further, when you are successful and personally confident , you are not seeking validation making sure people are always jumping up and down in joy around you. You have your own world and you let them come into it and enjoy it. If they dont like it , they can leave.

  • @TricellFilms
    @TricellFilms 8 років тому +31

    I'm a director/producer. in production of a zombie series that I am funding myself (Private capital). inspired by Tai's 67 step disk.I help kids from all over the United Kingdom get into acting and performance. I have done this by avoiding the dead end people in my city, and also by avoiding the film makers with massive egos; when all they have done is make a typical short film. In my city of Nottingham, United Kingdom; the film makers here all stick together in there network. I do not roll with them, I have experienced what they are like, (I foresaw this anyway, I can pick up on things almost instantly; but in physical I just wanted to confirm it by spending a small amount of time around them). I don't know shit about business, (I do want to learn, as I have built strong relations and trust with a large number of parents and chaperones over the past year; and could possibly set up my own casting agency) but I do feel myself that I'm nice person.Thanks.Damien.

    • @kimdavis1378
      @kimdavis1378 8 років тому +5

      Hello I am a Zombie film script writer. I would like to network with you!

    • @TricellFilms
      @TricellFilms 8 років тому

      Hi Kim, yes sure, if you like you can contact me on Facebook and I will forward you my details via inbox. Damien L Kage. Look forward to networking with you.

    • @michaelburton1970
      @michaelburton1970 8 років тому +1

      soubds brilliant.

    • @TricellFilms
      @TricellFilms 8 років тому

      Thank you Michael.

    • @nitishkannan2919
      @nitishkannan2919 8 років тому

      Like wise I produce at universal would love to network with you

  • @avantnarde2815
    @avantnarde2815 8 років тому +1

    I went around cities, and bought food and clothes for the homeless, the people who are struggling, out of my own pocket. No one told me to do anything, I love to help people, I'm really genuine. I've never seen smiles that big from anyone else except the people I gave back to, because they're the ones that needed it most. I just try to give people more hope, tai. And I really really want to meet you in person. you're the biggest inspirational, uplifting, truthful, and spontaneous person I know of.

  • @lawrencekennedy.
    @lawrencekennedy. 8 років тому +102

    learnt so much from Tai 👌

  • @Sparkles
    @Sparkles 8 років тому +68

    Always inspiring videos, thanks Tai
    "You know who's a nice person? Mother Teresa" that killed me

    • @Ninololcss
      @Ninololcss 6 років тому

      The CSGO people are becoming smarter this is some good shit here

    • @lmaolmfao3611
      @lmaolmfao3611 5 років тому

      Lmao

  • @azeman98
    @azeman98 8 років тому +14

    "I did a thing with rihanna" goals af

  • @brandonyost7755
    @brandonyost7755 8 років тому +1

    I'm not at a point in my life where I've made any substantial improvements for myself or others, but it is definitely helpful that you're willing to share all of these important tips with your supporters and fans. Arrogance will get you virtually nowhere in life so it's best to be humble and stay true to yourself and others. Genuine people are the ones that will make the greatest difference in the world! You're proof of that!

  • @jsongzzhd3874
    @jsongzzhd3874 8 років тому +22

    love that he is having that rant, and there at like 7 hoes just standing around looking bored af.
    but great video man.

  • @breakthedamninternet
    @breakthedamninternet 8 років тому +1

    Loved the rant Tai! Truth bombs all over this. The more you learn the more you realize you know nothing. I dedicated 8 years of my life to helping others at a non profit. Didn't make a dime. But now I'm learning how to help more people AND provide for my family as well. Thanks for everything

  • @jonojon2245
    @jonojon2245 8 років тому +11

    I don't know shit yet , but I will when I'm done listening to Tai .

  • @Yauty_
    @Yauty_ 8 років тому

    Often times, I'm told I'm a really laid back and nice guy, my mother always told me, regardless of how I'm treated to always treat people better, that's how you succeed in life in every expect of it. Don't ever let someone get the upper hand of you because then you've lost.
    Sometimes loosing can be okay, you can't win them all but you're still not loosing if you look at it from this perspective, you always learn something, as to why you failed or ways to improve yourself, Tai Lopez, great video! Love all the information and wisdom you share with us!

  • @TheAutisticTrucker
    @TheAutisticTrucker 8 років тому +17

    I delivered a free bed to someone who desperately needed it. I went to their house. Roof caved in, broke down cars everywhere. In midst of it all, they were willing to offer me gas money for delivering it. I turned it down. I said they looked like they could use it more than me. So keep it. They commented that they hadn't lost faith in humanity. It made my day and their's too.

    • @flamingowilliams9664
      @flamingowilliams9664 8 років тому

      Bless you for doing that. I always say 'Those with nothing will give you everything.'

  • @MehulRami
    @MehulRami 8 років тому

    1. be humble.
    2. be polite, generous.
    3. be sweet.
    4. expand your network.
    5. always be open to new ideas and people.
    6. be nice.
    7. earn the respect you think you deserve.
    thanks a lot tai.. this is what I've learnt... please correct me if I am wrong anywhere ✌👍😇

  • @008oli
    @008oli 8 років тому +3

    "To succeed you gotta be likeable" quote of the day 👌🏽♻️

  • @wrist_drip_limp9268
    @wrist_drip_limp9268 8 років тому

    Being nice, has created so many opportunities for me that I wouldn't have had if I was aggressive, or rude. Being nice has also led me to to meet people that have changed not only my life but how I thought/my mindset. I always leave those conversations with this sense of remarkable admiration, and knowledge gained from such exceptional people, that other (not nice people) would never get to experience. That right there is worth it's weight in being nice, just getting new knowledge or new ideals from unexpected people, is just amazing to me.

  • @therisingsun8823
    @therisingsun8823 8 років тому +12

    I fed two homeless people and one had children. No regrets!!! I can't say I'm an angle, but I feel guilty if I see a homeless person and not give them food, and if they played me, then that's on them.

    • @samfournier1143
      @samfournier1143 8 років тому +20

      I dont think you're an angle either, maybe an angel though.

    • @therisingsun8823
      @therisingsun8823 8 років тому +2

      Lol, it's funny because i fed a guy again today. And then, ironically my manager was doing the same thing without telling him. He was extra lucky.

    • @goldentash1436
      @goldentash1436 8 років тому

      Right angle?

    • @MingusTale
      @MingusTale 8 років тому

      If ou give them food that's the safest way to not get played, mate. Just don't give them money.

  • @joonshilovely
    @joonshilovely 8 років тому +1

    I spent months planning a color run to support agriculture in villages in Ecuador. We had over 200 participants. It was amazing and humbling to see people being part of such an awesome event. We raised $6000!

  • @sonnyhall1212
    @sonnyhall1212 8 років тому +12

    Thanks for the kick up the ass Tai. Not enjoyable but sometimes needed.

  • @walteraldana8257
    @walteraldana8257 6 років тому

    Tough love is what we need in this world! I would not have the mindset I have if I didn’t listen to you! Thanks Tai God bless you

  • @prettybrittany_
    @prettybrittany_ 8 років тому +6

    I've met you and been around you a couple of times, even went to your house warming party months back. I genuinely wonder how you're doing. Sometimes you text me and never respond back because you're so busy. But happy to see that you spread these motivational videos

    • @iansimmons8826
      @iansimmons8826 8 років тому

      You are BEAUTIFUL...

    • @VariantZilean
      @VariantZilean 8 років тому

      I'm 20 years old, male, live in the UK. Pls may I ask you your personality type? im an INFP. Judging by your comment I'd say your ESFP. Sorry for being so abrupt but if you could talk to me, give me any tips about anything it would be great. I understand you have met him, which is something I can't really do, so your the next best thing. Thanks

    • @SWISSMUSICFC
      @SWISSMUSICFC 8 років тому

      That's quite comedic and not funny at the same time !

    • @iansimmons8826
      @iansimmons8826 8 років тому

      *****
      OK... She's ugly. TF...!

  • @fairwaystl5418
    @fairwaystl5418 8 років тому +1

    I've started my own car washing business thanks to watching your videos. Business is booming and I've made great strides in the past few months. I owe a lot to you! Thanks Tai, keep on doing you
    -Wyatt

  • @thesteamteam3697
    @thesteamteam3697 8 років тому +38

    Here in my garage

  • @BriannaMeighan
    @BriannaMeighan 8 років тому +1

    LOVE, LOVE, LOVE THIS VIDEO! The first 7 minutes about being NICE was my favorite! I shared this with my husband! THANK YOU TAI LOPEZ!!!!!!!! KEEP GOING!!!

  • @JV-tk9yn
    @JV-tk9yn 8 років тому +7

    Definitely good advice (I have no idea who Tai is) but I'm sorta tired of seeing UA-camrs and their charmed lives. Whether that's life/business advice like this or just fitness/lifestyle dudes, all of these people living large in the big cities, I'm looking at you Greg O'Gallagher, are coming off negatively. We get it. You have super fast cars, immaculate women, a network that puts Verizon to shame, and multimillion dollar homes.
    Call me crazy or jealous I don't care, but I'm telling it how I see it. It's like this: we're either in the best time to be a viewer or the worst scamming era ever. These personalities make cash off views/likes. They feed you fun stuff while flashing their exorbitant lives, we watch, they make more money. Now their advice may or may not be good but it's still happening.
    I'd rather watch successful people who don't take every opportunity to show off their above average wealth.

    • @davidcarter3049
      @davidcarter3049 8 років тому

      I think the whole point is to show that anyone can have a charmed life. He shows his life to say "You can have this, if I have done it, so can you, if you create it for yourself." Whether it makes someone happy is another thing?

  • @dextrinix703
    @dextrinix703 8 років тому

    one thing I can appreciate about you Tai is that you never talk about any qualifications or education people need to be successful in this world like anyone can tell me.
    you talk about how a person can improve themselves as a person. and that's why I watch these videos and follow you on social medias. because every one I watch, I feel like I've learned something.
    like this video for example, you spoke for 16 minuets with the message to just be a nicer person and I genuinely feel like I've learned a crucial lesson that I can apply to my life.
    I hope you continue making videos like this because every one I watch is a lesson worth learning.

  • @EyeOnlyHaveEyes42
    @EyeOnlyHaveEyes42 8 років тому +27

    the one in the tights 😍

    • @bobbyb1233
      @bobbyb1233 8 років тому +1

      the brunette with the thick legs at the end for me

    • @EyeOnlyHaveEyes42
      @EyeOnlyHaveEyes42 8 років тому

      Good eye on that one. I didn't even notice the first time through. +Trébor Drofdarb

    • @Vestu
      @Vestu 8 років тому

      ikr

    • @gingerlindsey3002
      @gingerlindsey3002 5 років тому

      I didn’t see any of these ladies people commented on?

  • @maxwellwanjohi5327
    @maxwellwanjohi5327 2 роки тому

    Broo, you have no idea how much I needed this message Tai.. This is 100% truth

  • @crothert
    @crothert 8 років тому +5

    I find it interesting how Tai is motivational and charismatic and tells people to get out and DO SHIT like work on your craft yet here are people standing around him listening to him day in day out when they could be hustling. They look like leaches and I could totally have this perception wrong, but if I was there I'd be listening to Tai while programming on my laptop not standing against the wall with a ping pong paddle looking like a deer caught in headlights

  • @tanjah209
    @tanjah209 8 років тому

    Business networking 101: be nice, beware the wrath, ask questions, don't think you're smart, humble. !!!Excellent video!!! Tai showing Extra Passion Here.

  • @Pengboys
    @Pengboys 8 років тому +26

    "lets play table tennis on high heels"
    Come on dude, you just ruined your whole point of "at the top they are real"

    • @Nathan-vj1tr
      @Nathan-vj1tr 5 років тому

      Pengboys pretty sure this is a lecture 😂

  • @abudichaaban5920
    @abudichaaban5920 8 років тому

    I love the idea of starting of nice. No reason to start off hostile, but rather be respectful.

  • @billdollarmovie140
    @billdollarmovie140 8 років тому +7

    Observation Rant, It's funny, in LA the word "nice" has a double meaning, because there are so many entitled minded people there. Then there's new people to the city that are really nice, the ones that may fall victim to (nice guys finish last syndrome) My take away is, be really nice but be smarter than you are nice. And, remember no matter how smart you are, there's always someone that knows more than you about something.

    • @flashhd8785
      @flashhd8785 7 років тому

      be wise as serpents and harmless as a doves.

  • @Puff12102
    @Puff12102 8 років тому

    So true. Negative attitudes foster negativity towards you, this inhibiting good business relationships. You may lose relationships you never knew you could've had.

  • @Eng.Creation
    @Eng.Creation 8 років тому +4

    put the whole room in check... master status lol

  • @kennethsmith8755
    @kennethsmith8755 8 років тому

    What I learned from Tai's vid of the day-Be humble, READ MORE, ask questions,be nice to people: also if you call yourself nice back it up with events which you showed compassion towards people. FUN FACT an event where I consider me being a nice person. For my senior grad project I volunteered at shelter in Norristown PA for about a Mont each Saturday that I could before I went to church. About a month in I hosted a concert at my church to collect donations for the shelter. We had a great turnout and donated hundreds of items to better the shelter and it was also a great experience for me to be humble and to serve others, and to be greatful for the small things that I have access to like heat, warm food etc. it did change my look on life a tad bit. That's my observation on the video

  • @MariahFan09
    @MariahFan09 8 років тому +4

    I know from having wealthy relatives that the wealthier people actually are nice.

  • @josezuniga9220
    @josezuniga9220 8 років тому

    "the man who does not read, has no advantage over the man that cannot read"
    reading, knowledge, & learning to read people. 👍 thank you Tai

  • @Moliminous
    @Moliminous 8 років тому +24

    what's with the girls?

    • @kaylaramos450
      @kaylaramos450 8 років тому +6

      I know. I need to unsubscribe. Something is off with this guy. Ridiculous

    • @OleTimHerr
      @OleTimHerr 8 років тому +3

      he has daughters you know

    • @SteveSpeakGlockanese
      @SteveSpeakGlockanese 8 років тому +6

      Tai smashed

    • @VariantZilean
      @VariantZilean 8 років тому +9

      seems like one of them was giving him sh#t. so he had to bring them back to reality ;)

    • @speedbird737
      @speedbird737 8 років тому

      Tai is trying to be like Yotta Life - goole it and see the couples pictures!

  • @dominicg7668
    @dominicg7668 8 років тому +1

    I love how you continue to share your knowledge. One thing I learned from you is that you're never too smart to stop learning new things. I admire your motivation to learn more even though you're already successful. Every time I go to a social event, there's questions that I want to ask certain people, I don't always get to ask those question. But, you basically confirmed that if i don't ask questions I'm going to walk out knowing the same stuff I already knew. I'll be sure to ask more questions. Thanks tai

  • @seanfeeney8170
    @seanfeeney8170 8 років тому +13

    Tai's looking bigger

    • @innocentoak3437
      @innocentoak3437 8 років тому +3

      He's been training and working out.

    • @feenix1014
      @feenix1014 8 років тому

      He is raking in da GAINZZZ

  • @anchelaat
    @anchelaat 8 років тому

    I've always thought of myself to be a nice person. But recently I've noticed myself thinking that I could be more compassionate. I think the hard times i've experienced over the past 5/6 years has made me like this. Because I am aware of this, I'm now taking the steps to get back to the person I once was.

  • @cactusjack-sama2716
    @cactusjack-sama2716 8 років тому +16

    Knawledge

  • @JahSun711
    @JahSun711 8 років тому

    I'm actually liking this guy the more I listen to him. He sincerely likes to share his knowledge, be props to what you've accomplished buddy, you have a knack for helping others understand these big ideas. Much appreciated!!!
    What I have done: I serve as a personal trainer every day for the last 4 years and the way I feel I've helped society is to really reach into my clients' lives and help them rise to a higher level of potential.

  • @againstthemachine86
    @againstthemachine86 8 років тому +14

    I get what he's saying but if you're always too nice you gonna get stepped on.

    •  8 років тому +5

      Yes! It's important to say no again and at some point to be an ashole as well. Not to fight or make someone down or discrimiating someone, but to show people the boundries.

    • @Romellowilliams
      @Romellowilliams 8 років тому +6

      and that my friend is why he is successul and why you are watching his videos you could get stepped on but when you unleash well just say you win

    • @NessyMathew
      @NessyMathew 8 років тому +2

      There's a difference between being nice and being a doormat. So yes, be nice, but be smart about it too. You don't have to resort to being mean in order for people to treat you with respect.

    • @rudbin1403
      @rudbin1403 7 років тому

      There is a difference in being nice and being a doormat, i suppose.

    • @flashhd8785
      @flashhd8785 7 років тому +1

      he means with quality people, you're nice. he also thinks the reciprocation principle or chastising to people who are passive aggressive.

  • @1of1style
    @1of1style 8 років тому

    I don't know everything and I know that. I try to absorb all the information I can and sometimes ask business people or people that are successful in the fields I aspire to be, so many questions that they feel uncomfortable. This video confirmed for me that you can never ask too many questions. As Lao Tzu quoted, "Those who know do not speak. Those who speak do not know." Much appreciated Tai!

  • @estevanicoyacc4774
    @estevanicoyacc4774 8 років тому +3

    I like tai and i like the fact that his brag have a message behind, he is truly trying to help the young lads like us.From paris.

  • @seanstout227
    @seanstout227 8 років тому

    I HAVEN'T DONE ENOUGH!!! I LOVE HEARING YOU TALK REAL!!

  • @theabundanceaffirmations
    @theabundanceaffirmations 8 років тому +25

    Tai is way too logical. These women are EMOTIONAL. That's why they are SOOO bored in his videos LOL.

    • @forho2
      @forho2 7 років тому +10

      Mind Development Studio He doesn't care or need to impress them

    • @ja994
      @ja994 6 років тому +1

      at least he can speak his mind and maintain his confidence around so many of them all the time.

  • @danekolbaba8983
    @danekolbaba8983 8 років тому

    Love it Tai! Networking is key in business. Partnering with the wrong people can make life very difficult. the right people will bring you happiness and money!

  • @zionn184
    @zionn184 8 років тому +10

    Nice girls bro in your room

  • @IAmCbob
    @IAmCbob 8 років тому

    Im gonna remain humble and just say that i have nothing to show for myself as far as being a nice person, but after watching this video and being able to understand the concepts of being nice and being humble and asking questions, i now know what i need to do in order to be an even nicer person, and an even smarter person. I've decided im going to make a list of nice things i've done, and a list of questions i've asked and gotten the answers to, and i cannot stop until both lists(probably going to make multiple lists of each) are completely filled. Your videos are really inspiring, thank you Tai! -Cristian Anguiano

  • @tf2dudebot
    @tf2dudebot 8 років тому +8

    Tai why do you always show off your wealth and your girls and your stuff? I think you're sincere about teaching this stuff to us, but I really think you are materialistic.

  • @will01819
    @will01819 8 років тому

    I think a lot of aggression is a product of fear. People are afraid of what they don't understand. Knowledge is the cure. Love the vids Tai.

  • @Shivam_1942
    @Shivam_1942 8 років тому +5

    1:06 Governor of California

  • @GeorgeAzide
    @GeorgeAzide 8 років тому

    Challenge accepted Tai.
    When I started my last company almost all of my business partners wanted to market online with a blog but didn't have the tech savvy-ness to get started. So I started making their blogs for em from scratch. After about 19 free blogs (being nice), I got smart and started a membership site to teach people how to make a blog from beginning to end for $7. Now I've taught almost 200 people in the last 2 weeks how to share their value online. Being nice turns into opportunities.

  • @DavidElCid300
    @DavidElCid300 7 років тому +5

    The true story about Theresa is that in reality, she was not very nice. That was all a facade. A public persona.

  • @joshiphone7827
    @joshiphone7827 8 років тому

    I'm 16 and I've learned more things by watching your snapchat,Facebook live videos and you UA-cam videos than I have at school. Thank you Tai keep up the videos.

  • @packrack1
    @packrack1 8 років тому +7

    "How smart are you? Prove it. Show me your bank account" - did you really mean this? I mean, there are plenty of intelligent people that aren't rich, and wealth and knowledge are not connected...

    • @tokyorain3984
      @tokyorain3984 8 років тому +1

      he went into it further later, i think that is just the surface interpretation, not his actual point. I know he knows that many intelligent people are not monetarily rich, because that is not the goal for everyone. However his point was about the people who talk the talk but don't walk the walk, the ones who think they know business and have pride about it but don't have a succesfull business, or those who have pride in how nice they are but have not done anything for the world.

    • @OleTimHerr
      @OleTimHerr 8 років тому

      there's a difference between the smart and the wise you're missing out on.

    • @lilamejia4660
      @lilamejia4660 8 років тому +1

      I think he is referring to the people who claim to be Big-Shots in the business world

    • @fruenever625
      @fruenever625 8 років тому

      I am pretty sure he means 2 different things. Like if you say you are smart you shall prove it, and then he goes on to a second point which which is probably like something like if you believe you are a good business man prove it, for example show me your bank account.

    • @gabrielminville738
      @gabrielminville738 8 років тому

      Can you walk on water?

  • @aaronrobinson769
    @aaronrobinson769 8 років тому

    This is a great video. I've learned that I should be humble, less of an ass, listen more, and ask questions. I love the illustrations bc now I can follow their foot steps and not "jab" people. I'm 18 trying to learn more about business so when I get started it can be a piece of cake. Thanks Tai 👌

  • @SuperCollosus
    @SuperCollosus 8 років тому +5

    Who else clicked on the video cuz of the hot chicks?

    • @TheCornbeefsoup
      @TheCornbeefsoup 8 років тому +1

      nope. I actually find them distracting. Unless they have something to say too.

    • @Fwankin
      @Fwankin 8 років тому

      i did

  • @OlOlOIIO
    @OlOlOIIO 8 років тому

    It's nice to hear an honest and personal thought process towards networking.
    Very blunt, very cut and dry, very true.

  • @Thastor
    @Thastor 8 років тому +4

    Tai ive learned alot from u, ur epic mentor, Check my music out and maybe use in ur videos ? :) all free if u just credit us ! Thanks so much!!! KNOWLEDGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @MrOrangefuse
    @MrOrangefuse 8 років тому

    Since Monday, I have been directing traffic around a construction site, although traffic control is not in my job description, I still do it willingly and happily because I see it as an opportunity to make every person I see in traffic smile simply by smiling at them. I lost count, but it is well over 300 smiles after today. I am proud of brightening up peoples day in this hectic world, even if it's just for a moment.

  • @RobinJohnson
    @RobinJohnson 8 років тому +7

    Wealthiest black woman!? LOL Dude. What does that even mean.

    • @EyeOnlyHaveEyes42
      @EyeOnlyHaveEyes42 8 років тому +16

      she has 3 billion dollars. no other black woman in America has that. which makes her the wealthiest black woman at least in the US.

    • @RobinJohnson
      @RobinJohnson 8 років тому

      What does her being black have to do with it? She is the wealthiest woman.

    • @thebest3702
      @thebest3702 8 років тому

      ever heard of oprah?

    • @RobinJohnson
      @RobinJohnson 8 років тому +3

      I dont think you are understanding what im driving at. The fact she is black doesnt matter. She is just an amazing human. Her colour doesnt define her.

    • @EyeOnlyHaveEyes42
      @EyeOnlyHaveEyes42 8 років тому +10

      ***** that is exactly why it matters. To other black people who deal with poverty every day, and all the negative messages constantly targeted at us, we need to see a black person defying the odds. Most black people would look up to our own for added inspiration.

  • @ivanzavala8648
    @ivanzavala8648 8 років тому +1

    Powerful, powerful talk. As far as contributing to society I've helped alleviate and heal much of my Mother's mental health problems. She has suffered deeply for the past decade with mental issues. Because she won't go get help I decided it would be best for me to stay with her to best understand the problem and figure a way to nudge her in the right direction. When most of my peers were enjoying the freedom of moving out on their own I decided to stay home to care for my Mother. I know you can't make someone want to grow, but I stayed due to my faith and belief that I will find a way to help her. I've witnessed first hand that you can definitely influence someone over a given period of time to take better care of themselves. She no longer comes home and goes straight into her bedroom without talking to anyone. Or yells at me when I ask her how her day has gone. Many of her other disturbed behaviors that are more alarming have quieted down to some degree as well. Although it is an on going struggle, her capacity to enjoy life is higher now and she continually shows signs of becoming more self aware. I have confidence that I can leave my Mother to herself and that her issues won't get dangerously worse and her quality of life won't degrade into serious irreversible problems. Now I can take what I've learned into the future and use the wisdom I have to help others find their own path for self healing. This brings me much joy!!!! I'm an artist and entrepreneur, and I will use this experience as an advantage in my future creative endeavors.
    I love the notion Tai shared that pride comes AFTER you've accomplished something worth the respect. I will take this jewel of thought with me and allow it to keep me focused on what matters; RESULTS that actually add value to others lives.
    Thanks Tai for this real talk of wisdom, and the deep inspiration. Peace from Boston+

  • @themtoniraniremaxbroker2447
    @themtoniraniremaxbroker2447 8 років тому

    I Tip My Hat Off to this Very Practical Man...Blessings Sir!! May You Do this for the Next Hundred Years!! Many Thanks...

  • @tonytaylor4147
    @tonytaylor4147 8 років тому

    Being nice has always been important to me. In fact it's one of my biggest compliments. I've went on mission trips, volunteer at a youth center for a decade. Volunteer at a horse ranch that's a youth rehabilitation & mentor facility. Very rewarding:)

  • @calvinmassey7561
    @calvinmassey7561 8 років тому

    The advice in Mr. Lopez gives in this Video is very KEY because mentors are KEY and being an early player in this game of life trying to make it big and putting in the hard work to gain that knowledge that is so IMPORTANT in having the good people skills and gaining respect only happens when you Give respect.

  • @dboywtc541
    @dboywtc541 8 років тому

    Truth ! Nice guys finish first . I'm a quite guy, when I'm in a room full of people I like to listen to everyone .find the most interesting conversation and listen in on it . I have learned a lot that way. I was raised on being nice to everyone no matter what . I do believe everything he has said .

  • @MrRed-cf6gk
    @MrRed-cf6gk 8 років тому +1

    Good advice.
    Simple numbers show not all of us will be successful in life. But you should try to become more successful. If you don't try you will never get there. Be prepared to fail and don't let it destroy you.

  • @TimmyTrades
    @TimmyTrades 8 років тому

    I did some, but not enough. But i consider myself a student not a teacher, a listener not a talker. But from any book you read on self improvement, working well with people will grow you and your bank tremendously!!
    Thank you for the knowledge Tai lopez!

  • @sarah_ferguson
    @sarah_ferguson 8 років тому

    You know what I did... I stood by my mum when nobody was there. She got divorced and had trouble with men and I was there when she needed a comforter. I'm studying Psychology so it was not only good practice to help her but also gave me a fuller understanding of people and how they work and live.

  • @oscarhikuroa1479
    @oscarhikuroa1479 8 років тому

    I give money away when I cant really afford it because they need it more...I once took home an old man who I found in an old broken abandoned car in a park much to the amusement of my wife and kids,,he was able to shower,we fed him and he stayed a couple of days until we sorted out some accomodation for him. He paid us back with stories of his time in the airforce and his time as a pilot in the pacific islands at the end of WWII. Was a rewarding experience for us all. Thank you Tai for everything you post especially the 67 steps.👍

  • @travelwithgoose
    @travelwithgoose 8 років тому

    Crucial skills, too many underestimate how to treat others and cut themselves off from opportunities they may not even be aware of. People should commend you for being on point, punctual, prompt to response, professional and friendly.

  • @ronniemcmullen9684
    @ronniemcmullen9684 8 років тому +2

    In 2011 October I had a surgery on my lower back and during this time I was in the bed for five months. I read a book called The Greatest Miracle in the World. This book changed me so much that I stopped on the highway and gave this couple a ride. I ended up getting them a bus ticket and the cash in my wallet and the same book.
    What I do is on a small level, I stop and give people change or loose cash when I see people on the side of the road. I never judge them on how they got there, and I never assume it's a scam. I treat them as if it was me out there. I don't have much but my dream and the desire to not put it aside. I've never had wealth and I don't know how smart I am.
    What I do know is I have the capacity to be smart, wealth, compassionate. That's all I know. Thanks, this was the first thing I listen to this morning and it was good to hear. I truly believe our greatest power is in being gentle so this was good to know.

  • @ThunderKat2012
    @ThunderKat2012 8 років тому

    Man 100 years ago. We would never have had this knowledge. Ty Tai many blessings on you

  • @rubenmorales7911
    @rubenmorales7911 8 років тому

    I learn so much from your snaps Tai , I didn't read books before , but I've started to now . KNOWLEDGE !

  • @MARKELL9999
    @MARKELL9999 8 років тому

    You have to want it and believe it to get it. This guys words are gold.

  • @DakotaMclearn
    @DakotaMclearn 8 років тому +1

    I've invested a lot of time here in Colombia at a local foundation in one of the poorest parts of the country teaching english to children and families. Honestly I felt like I left with more energy than when I came, or that I pulled more value than the people in the class, something about giving is so fulfilling.

  • @MARKELL9999
    @MARKELL9999 8 років тому

    Mr Lopez is so knowledgeable and informative. He is a genuine human being with a heart and soul of pure goodness. All he does is make videos to help people help themselves. Pay attention world.

  • @Romiem621
    @Romiem621 8 років тому

    Truth!!! Good Stuff Tai... Thanks for the 1. reminder and 2. confirmation that people at the top really are nice.

  • @Harryhimselff
    @Harryhimselff 4 роки тому

    I see that people always complain about you showing off. But if you have money to show off why not ? You achieved that you have all the right to show off. Thanks for the great content dude!

  • @PatDaley
    @PatDaley 8 років тому

    I hitchhiked across the United States and filmed the people who picked me up. I'm now canoeing to Mexico from NYC via the intracoastal waterway.
    All on my UA-cam channel! Thanks for another valuable video Tai.

  • @GodzKim
    @GodzKim 8 років тому

    Tai I admit. I'm 44 yr single mom who has a degree and don't know shit. What I did do was raise 2 amazing kids on my own and I'm still here fighting the good fight to become better and more knowledgeable everyday. I value and appreciate how you have gotten kids to read again. I love it ! STAY STRONG. Hope to meet you at an event one day ! Kimmie

  • @ThisisyourForte1
    @ThisisyourForte1 8 років тому

    Definitely the end is great. Find a mentor and shut up until you can put up. My goals are always to listen more. Thanks Tai!!

  • @Raleighkleeb1
    @Raleighkleeb1 8 років тому

    Thanks for your leadership, Tai. Following you every day.

  • @ninomk1037
    @ninomk1037 5 років тому

    I saw this video like a few months after it came out and trust me, just by being nicer to people that were mean to me, made all my interactions improv like crazy and believe me, here in Lima, Perú, people are not like the typical "latinos" you see in the movies all happy and shit, here most people on the street are negative as fuck and just by applying what Tai said here with NO EXCUSES in not to do it, man it was a life changer. Making negative people get sucked into your positive vibe makes life soooo much easier and especially when i want to learn about business from others or making relationships with friends that I know are good and real fking friends. This may be the best video in your channel, and people don't realize how great this is

  • @robhassing8881
    @robhassing8881 8 років тому

    I try to share my love and knowledge of Kung Fu techniques and philosophy with this generation and the next to keep alive a 900 year old tradition and philosophy. Love your videos Tai I just started the 67 steps and watched the smart reading and I read more than I ever have before. Thank you so much for the program, it has changed my life!

  • @siobhanglynn7662
    @siobhanglynn7662 8 років тому

    I'm not wealthy, but I have worked in social services for 10+ years, in homeless shelters and in foster care agencies. I am now going to school to get my MSW at NYU, and last semester I provided supportive counseling for elderly clients. I am taking a risk by going into debt for the MSW, but I feel like it's the step I need to take to better myself and help others. And I appreciated the info about how the Amish don't complement appearances; my mother is Pennsylvania Deutsch (Reformed Mennonite) and she has never once told me I was pretty. It was always kind of a mystery to me, now it's solved! Thank you.

  • @startmoving3925
    @startmoving3925 8 років тому

    Tai, out of all of the entrepreneurs that I follow, I think you are the most humble and have exactly the kind of lifestyle I'm looking for. I'd be extremely privileged if I ever get to hang out around you.

    • @startmoving3925
      @startmoving3925 8 років тому

      ( I'm using my business profile but my name is Randy viggiani)

  • @kristinabuelna1278
    @kristinabuelna1278 8 років тому

    It's in your personal life too!!! Just like you say you have to leave people behind on ur way up. I just had to be Arnold and walk away from negative people trying to bring me down. Thanks Tai!