45 yrs old here 🙋♀️ Something no one ever told me, was the worst part of getting old is losing friends and family. Sadly it gets more frequent as we get older. Please think about finding a way to deal with this now, as it is a skill you will need more often as you get older. I'm so sorry to be the one to have to tell you this. ❤❤❤❤❤
About 2 to 3 weeks after my mom passed,( now two years ago); I came running into my boyfriend’s house;( we were both in our 60’s), crying hysterically, frantically looking for my cell phone because I needed to call my mom! He looked at me thinking;” she can’t call her mom.” It was something I had done every day and it was the hardest thing to face. It will get easier but it really never goes away no matter your age. I thought this was one of your dearest videos. I wish you much growth in your job, this channel to continue to grow, your healing to continue and that you can achieve your educational goals at a healthy pace. God bless!
I've never commented on a video before, but I've been a silent subscriber watching you for over a year now. I just want to thank you for your transparency on this platform. You're a really calming presence for me and I love how honest you are! Truly one of my favorite creators and I value all the time you dedicate to your channel amongst balancing your work and social life. Your videos have brought me to tears and made me really introspective and I can't say that about every creator. Keep doing you, and I look forward to more content in the new year ❤
Julia, thanks for opening up to us. It’s easy to see someone online and think their life is perfect. You handle yourself with such grace, and I’m sure I’m speaking for all when I say how proud of you we all are. You are beautiful and smart. I watch your videos and am in awe of all you have accomplished. I have a daughter close in age to you and I’m feeling all the “mom” feels and just want to give you a big hug. 😊
I def would not share where you work. Like ever. This is the internet and there are a lot of unhappy people looking to project their hurt and pain on others for little to no reason.
Agreed. There are way more cons than pros. Knowing you currently still enjoy your job is enough for us. You've worked hard for this position. Take care.
I totally see where you’re coming from & really appreciate your concern! I try to be mindful about what I share online and will make that call if it feels right in the future :)
Thank you for opening up and sharing julia!! I always enjoy your videos and appreciate how mature and down to earth you are! Proud of all you’ve achieved this year :)
Julia, I can’t explain it - but I’m super proud of you! You are sooo mature in ways I could have ONLY wished I was at your age. I’m so sorry you had so many peaks and lows this year, but I pray 2025 is nothing but magical for you. Your channel has gotten me through COUNTLESS remote work days! Your boldness is admirable. Continue to be you. You’ll see nothing but reward from doing so. God bless! Happy Holidays & a Happy New Year
This was such a vulnerable and open way to discuss your life, and your feelings. I didn't realise how much I would identify with you on these topics, especially thinking about death or ageing and sad thoughts revolving around family. You have so much opportunity and growth awaiting you, and I promise things will ease and you will be able to wear these burdens much easier. It's so raw and new. Give yourself the time and grace you so kindly give everyone else 🩷 lots of love xxx
Thank you for sharing so much about your life, the good and the bad. You’ve experienced so much this year and I can only imagine how much of a toll that’s taken on you, but I really appreciate you talking us through your grief and sharing the reality of aging with us. I’m 30 and have been having those same feelings and anxieties around aging and my appearance and change and everything that comes with it as I entered this new decade of my life. I can’t tell you how important it is for me (and I’m sure so many people) hearing someone else talking about these topics, so thank you. Wishing you a happy, healthy, and successful 2025.
When watching your videos I always admired how naturally beautiful you are. Its odd how we cant see our own beauty and worry about the most insignificant flaws!
I agree! I was actually shocked when you said that there are things about your physical appearance that you don't like. You are really so pretty and stylish. That said, if a procedure here and there helps with your confidence, go for it. Just don't lose sight of your beauty.
Julia, thank you for being so vulnerable with us and opening up about how you're going through grief. I also turned 28 last month so I'm right there with you, seeing my parents age and feeling like I'm never going to be this young again. I'm hoping that with age and time, I'll come to accept and love myself more and more. sending you lots of love! 💞
Julia, I started following you while I was searching for an apartment in Manhattan and have been hooked ever since. You are a very thoughtful and engaging content creator and I wish you all the best in 2025. As a 46 year old, your thoughts on aging are very relatable but you're only 28 so please don't burden yourself with these kind of thoughts! Leverage your age and dream big things because you have the capability of doing anything that you set your mind to! 😉
This video was so healing and validating for me. I’m 27 and lost my grandma this year, a month before I got married. I’ve been struggling with the notion of getting older and those around me leaving me one day. Thank you for talking about such a difficult topic. Whether you think so or not, your videos help others heal ❣️
I had a freak out about aging around 29, turning 30 was like saying goodbye to my youth. Now I'm 39, turning 40 next year, it's actually less depressing than turning 30. One good thing about aging is that you learn to accept yourself more, less comparison to others, and be more comfortable in your own skin. However, from time to time, the thought of losing my parents, and being wrinkling and immobile does scares me too....
thanks for being real Julia! this year has been a difficult year for me as well. i lost my dad 100 days ago and it's so sudden and we were having a good time 2 months before that and then he was gone. to this day, i was hoping he was still around, it's so strange to visit my parent's house to see his things are all still there but he just won't be turning up ever. it feels final. it's not easy losing someone you are close to and cry all the cries that you can cry cos that's how our body knows we need to have an outlet. cheers my friend, you are stronger than you think. p/s and yes, i think having a community name is kinda cool!
BABE I LOVE 2024 BECAUSE I DISCOVERED YOUUUU !!! thank u so much for the inspiring and realistic content 🥹🥹 as an aspiring tech girlie, i quickly saw myself in you and im excited to see how i navigate this life :))) keep doing what ur doing, because ure great at it !!! have a great holidays
Julia I am having a really hard day and was looking for something comforting to watch and when I saw your video I felt so happy instantly. I didn’t realise just how much I enjoyed your videos until this reaction. Thank you for your content x
hi, julia! it's so good to see you opening up and talking about things that you've been through this year, bc i believe when we share with people that cheer us up, some parts of ourselves heals too, i hope 2025 will be more kinder with you and you can feel more comfortable with the things that you want, lots love and hugs 🤎✨
Hey Julia, I just wanted you to know that your videos have been a big comfort to me. Earlier this year I went through a lot of things at the same time, from graduating in EE and trying to find a good job, to a breakup of a nearly 9 year relationship, to the death of my grandfather. I myself am in NYC area and remember watching your videos of you quitting your job and job searching and how difficult that was and it felt validating to me when I struggled. I teared up listening to this video when you talked about your grandma since it reminded me so much of when my grandpa passed and I still feel like I'm coping with it myself (I'm pretty bad at coping I think, don't really know). But anyways just wanted to let you know your content is amazing and feels very genuine to me. I hope you have a wonderful start to 2025.
hi julia, i feel your pain so bad. during the pandemic i lost 3 of my grandparents in the span of a year, losing both of my grandpas in a month. it was undoubtedly the worst thing i've ever experienced, and they also live on the other side of the world so we were not able to see them (because of lockdown). i still feel that pain, i still can't believe they're gone, but i know i carry them with me in everything i do and i like to believe that they're watching over me and proud of me. i'm so glad you have a support system to lean on, but your feelings are so valid and you don't have to turn them off because letting yourself feel them is the best way of reminding yourself how much you (still) love your grandparents.
Julia, thank you for opening your heart and sharing such a vulnerable and honest part of yourself with us. It felt like we were just friends on a FaceTime call, having a heartfelt conversation. Your words were a beautiful reminder to hold our loved ones close and cherish the moments we have with them. I'm sure you've touched many people with your openness and courage, and I hope you find comfort in knowing how much your story resonates. Wishing you strength, love, and all the best in this new year-take care of yourself!
I stopped drinking a year and a half ago. It was one of the best decisions I've ever made! No more crying, hangovers, hangxiety etc. If you think about it, it's not doing much good for us anyway!
The sadness and struggle you are experiencing are related to growing up. You are 28, still very young, and the process of maturing takes a long time and goes through phases. I think returning to therapy would be good for you, as it was a positive experience for you before. I am much older than you and am still going through life's crises. I think you will learn that hard times and problems are just part of life; you cannot get away from them, but you can learn how to handle them and to not let them overtake your happiness. I hope this helps a little. You are a lovely person -- inside and out!! -- and doing everything right. It's nice to get a glimpse into your life through your videos. Thank you for being you!!
Grief is love with nowhere to go because the person has passed. I think being able to cry and express all those emotions are the very best way to feel better. Crying literally regulates your nervous system and that's what your body needs.
I was 26 the year I lost my remaining 3 grandparents. That was kind of how I integrated ancestral veneration into my spiritual practice & it has been so crucial for me. It’s good that you talk to them and remember them with intention. Grief isn’t linear & they’re still with you.
Hi Julia, I don't usually comment but I have been watching you more than a year now and I just wanted to say thank you for opening and having this thoughts with all of us, I am proud of you and all that you have become, I really hope 2025 is you year and that you will have a better time than 2024, happy new year and merry christmas! (english is not my first language sorry haha)
Julia, like many others have said, you are naturally beautiful and also stylish. As someone who also has a round/big face, I’m so glad to see someone with a similar facial shape. I hope you feel better about your insecurities ❤
Thank you, Julia, for being so vulnerable with us! I’ve been watching your vlogs for awhile now and I can definitely see how much more of your personality has shown this past year! I’m sure it’s never easy putting yourself out there in the internet, but I truly feel connected with you through your channel. Thank you for always being so authentic. 💗🫶🏼
When I was 28 I went through the exact same thing, thank you for sharing! I can relate to experiencing loss, as I have also had to experience losing loved ones and sick family members as well. I also can tell when my mental health is bad when I don’t drink, because I drink when I’m happy not when I’m sad (which is good!). Now that I’m 31 I’m much more comfortable with my thoughts. When it comes to aging, it helps me to realize that aging is a blessing not a curse, I’ve unfortunately had loved ones pass very young, and when I see my 95 year old grandmother I think to myself, I’ll be happy to have wrinkles if it means I’ve lived a full life. Experiencing loss teaches us to be more present and grateful, allowing us to live life to the fullest, and being old looking back at your life is a beautiful thing ❤ Missing people means that you appreciated them, and helps us appreciate everyone else around us while we have them. Recognizing your fears is the first step to accepting them, and I hope me sharing this helps even a little.
sending you lots of hugs and lots of love, julia! so proud of you for getting through such a tough year and i hope 2025 brings you a lot of joy and success
happy new year julia! thank you for being so open and honest, something thats not commonly found on my feed nowadays. I really resonated with your struggles with grief, as i have been experiencing something similar in my life. i like to remind myself that whenever i get sad and start grieving about my grandma, it just means that she’s also thinking about me and missing me too at that same exact moment. I hope your year is filled with lots of healing, peace, and abundance. btw your cookies turned out beautifully ❤
Thank you Julia for being so open and vulnerable. I hit the biggest existential crisis after witnessing my grandpa's passing four years ago. It just hit me on one random night, half a year after grandpa passed. I'm still dealing with that fear of aging and death. Sending love to you Julia💟
Thankyou for sharing your deepest thoughts and feelings, I lost my mum this year and it's been so hard to deal with the loss. So I totally understand your grief. Hoping 2025 will be a better year for us 😊
Happy New Year, Julia! You are such an amazing person. I'm way, way older than you yet find your videos so sweet and interesting. I can tell you that grief is definitely a journey. Not only different for each person, but it's a two steps forward, one step backward kind of thing. Eventually, your tears will turn to smiles when you remember your loved ones. And you will realize that they are always with you. Aging is a privilege, and believe me over the years you will definitely worry less about looks as you gain the confidence that comes with age and wisdom. Thanks for sharing so honestly.
Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing story of your grandparents with us. The part you said you try to remember her even when she’s gone really hits me hard. Your insight gives me more clarity on my journey of handling grief, so thank you Julia, and I’m excited to see how your journey unfolds in future videos ✨
Julia, happy holidays! You are one of the few UA-camrs that I really resonate with. I’m happy that despite how busy you are you still constantly put out videos for us. Looking forward for another year with you next year!
I lost my grandma not too long ago and with one of my parents having a health scare earlier this year, I've been experiencing a lot of similar thoughts regarding aging/grief/change and it was comforting to hear that I'm not alone in learning to tackle these thoughts in my 20s.
Julia, you are so beautiful and strong. I am so sorry for all the loss you have experienced this year. I got masseter botox for migraines and TMJ and it gave me jowls after the muscle loss. After doing it for a year I actually stopped grinding my teeth and never needed it again. Eventually the muscle came back but not nearly as large as before and my jowls went away.
Going through the same. Family and relatives getting older is really scary because I always worry about them. When someone passes away it hits you. Every birthday you have is even worse. When you turn 28 you're closer to 38 than 18, now that's weird. Makes you realize better enjoy yourself because you never know what happens. Keep your family close and realize you need to visit, call or text them to let them know you love them.
There is no right or wrong way to grieve. Everyone experiences it differently. It may come and go for some time. You don't get over the death of someone you love, but you will find your way back to the joy that you know they would want for you. Remember the happy times with them and be grateful for the time you did have with them. There's a reason we say "time heals all wounds" and "this too shall pass."
If you start the white icing by drawing a circle around the perimeter and then fill it in, that'll prevent it from spilling over the cookie. They're really cute ☺and thanks for your vulnerability!
Happy holidays Julia, I followed your channel when you posted your first job hunting episode and still couldn't believe it's the end of the year. I got laid off by my previous company but then I found another job which was my dream company, I feel like you were with me all the time through my job hunting period. I wish you a very happy and fulfilling 2025 and will always support you!
Lost my grandmothers growing up so it makes sense but grief takes time. Lost my mom last year horrifically but it comes with time. Allow yourself to feel the feels and spend the time that matters to those who are there for you. Time is the best gift you can give anyone. You can give time but you can't take back time. If you're afraid of losing time, spend and call those who matter.
I hope 2025 will be your best year yet. Just remember that it’s okay to make mistakes. You’re doing a great job on UA-cam and you don’t know how much I’m proud of your hard work. I been watching your videos for two years now and I seen you grow. You’re the best UA-camr that I ever watched and that’s facts. Happy holidays Julia❤
You're doing a great job! I commented on a video when u had like 11k subscribers bcuz u were worried about ur views n I told u that u were awesome n to keep goin, and look at u at over 100k! I'm so happy for u!
Happy Holidays Julia & Happy New Year!!!! 🎉 2024 was a rollercoaster, but definitely a opportunity to grow. Wishing you all the Best in life! Thanks for uploading
i watched this whole video and i resonate with so many things said on this video on a different level…. there were so many things from corporate, grief, your take on content creation, i really relate to it - as a new content creator it was really useful in helping me navigate some of the tougher inner conflicts that comes with content creation. thank you for being vulnerable (yet you still spoke so eloquently). Sending love and hugs for the new year ❤❤
I’m so sorry for your loss, and my heart goes out to you during this incredibly difficult time. Grieving is such a deeply personal journey, and there’s no right or wrong way to feel right now. If the tears come, let them flow, they’re a natural and necessary release for the pain you’re carrying. Grief is a process, and while it might feel overwhelming now, please know that little by little, you will find your way through. We’re here for you, your community that cares deeply about you. If creating and sharing through your videos helps you process your emotions or brings you some sense of release until you’re able to talk with your therapist, know that it’s okay to lean into that. This space is yours, and we’re here to support you however you need. Sending you love, strength, and all the comfort your heart needs during this time. ❤
I work at a university So many people "feel" the need to finish once they start. It can cost alot of money and cause depression if you don't love it. Cutting back is a great way to keep you sane ❤
Julia, thank you for being so vulnerable about your grief. I also wanted to validate your decision to reevaluate your alcohol use. I am a clinician, and I often have conversations with my patients about their relationship with alcohol and what they consider to be a "normal" amount of alcohol. As a society, I think we have normalized unhealthy alcohol use, to such a degree that most people don't recognize their alcohol use is actually quite harmful to their health. In women, we know that > 7 drinks/ week is associated with increased risk of cancer, liver disease, cardiovascular disease, and more... and many women drink far more than this due mommy wine culture, work culture, etc. We can still have vibrant social lives without obligatory drinking....but it's so hard to detangle this when it's a big part of your social circle. Easier said than done! Stay well, friend 💜
Hey Julia! Thank you for your content. I wanted to say that you are worthy. We're all lucky that you want to share a slice of your life with us and share your struggles and your ups nd downs with us. We're here watching and rooting for you! 💕 I've started to record my life too and you're one of the inspirations! Thank you for sharing your life on UA-cam.
Your content is really good and satisfying, in a way. I could really see you part time working and part time content creating in the future. And if the channel really grows, even full-time content creation. Julia you don’t need to be insecure about your looks. You’re so beautiful. Everybody is too busy worrying about themselves anyways
Thank you for this video! I’ve been watching your videos since 2024 and I’m really enjoying of your content. it’s indeed very hard to lose our loved ones. My brother passed away six years ago and I’m still grieving his loss However I still love life and appreciate the time I have here Happy New Year ❤ I wish you all the best
I totally get what you're saying. When my final grandparent died, I examined my own mortality. That one layer of family is gone. You start looking at things differently.
Much older here....losing people sadly is part of life. I miss my parents every day and they have been gone for awhile now. Please always be gentle with yourself and let yourself experience whatever you need to experience. Aging....you are still so very young. Thanks for making this video. Take care of yourself and therapy cannot hurt.
Sending love to you, Julia. I like Julia’s Jewels/Joules xxx thank you for being so vulnerable. I can relate to a lot of the things that you talked about on this video xxx
I've been feeling a lot of mixed emotions about getting older. I totally share the same fears about aging because it means my parents are getting older too, and the idea of losing them really hits me hard. At 43 and still single, I'm super close to them, and it just makes me think about how precious our time together is.
I'm so sorry for all your loss you've had this year, and good on for realizing you had a problem with alcohol. I hope this doesn't sound mean, or come across the wrong way, but instead of finding a way to include alcohol in your life, I think you might be happier if you found a way to go out and have fun without drinking. Sobriety is a lot easier than moderation (I'm 5 years sober in May and I never had any issue with alcohol). Mocktails are awesome and they make a lot of alcohol free alcohol dupes now. Then you don't have to worry who you're with, or count how many drinks you've had, or worry that you're going to have a panic attack. It's just way easier! 💜
I second this! Alcohol IS a depressant and its effects become more severe as we age. I recently had to attend a triggering family event. I made the decision not to have any alcohol and felt more calm and centered.
wow, don’t know who needed this video more 🥺 24 here. following you for a few years now ✨💛 this year, the concept of “death” really got to me. like never before. just worrying i don’t give enough of me to the people i love, missing the moments with my family INSTANTLY because the thought of them dying broke my soul. i am so grateful to have lived another year with no funeral planned… im so deeply sorry for anyone who has lost a loved one this year. but death was surely around me at all times. 2 weeks ago an old middle school friend my age was just shot by her ex & killed. i would have never imagined this fate for her. & just like that she was gone… i feel like this reminded me to just be present. in the moment. and cherish every moment. turning worrying into appreciation. thank you for this talk, i’m glad to know im not the only one who sinks in this thought🤍
Hey Julia! Just watched your latest video and wanted to say how much I admire your honesty and courage in sharing such personal struggles. It really hits home when you talked about juggling school, work, and those feelings of impostor syndrome - we've all been there! As someone who's been following your content for a while, I've always loved your editing style and authentic approach. I'm actually a video editor and would love to help take some of that workload off your plate so you can focus on what matters most right now. Your aesthetic and storytelling are exactly what I love working with. Let me know if you'd like to chat about possibly collaborating! Keep taking care of yourself 💕
Hi Julia! I think it makes sense to pull back on content creation as you have done while you complete your masters. The masters has an end date, and we'll be here for what you are able to put out, as we support your masters journey! For aging- Megan Tan recently did an episode on her podcast 'Millennial' which really resonated - it's got some good perspective in there. Have a wonderful New Year's Julia! Give yourself grace, and take a minute to recognize how far you've come in your own journey ❤ - Loyal Gem Juicebox
Hopefully the new year will bring much intentional happy. We all go through thing, so its ok Julia.Please dont say the name of your company, you dont need to tell every thing, keep somethings private.
I've been so scared of aging since I turned 26, now I am 30 and this doesn't get better! I think the reason being I haven't been where I want career, relationship wise - still figuring things out and single, but losing my energy and youth(beauty) and it feels like time has gone so fast. Also living on my own I realise health is so important and can definitely can feel a difference now I'm older.
grief is something that always demands to be felt bcoz grief is love with nowhere to go. Definitely no need to say sorry about crying/grieving, it is perfectly normal. and these loved ones I'm pretty sure they wouldn't want you to live your present worrying about the future. Yes it's scary but I feel like it's much sadder if we forget to live in the present. When I went through the phase of worrying about the future I was already in my mid 30s. It was more panic than worrying lol but then I feel like I cannot spend my days like this being crippled by worry. That won't be good for future me, so I just prioritized what I wanted for the nearer future. I think this is how we grow as people, we realize what we want to prioritize and what really is important to us as we grow older.
I can relate so much to the school thing. In 2022 I enrolled in a masters in digital marketing and being completely honest I didn’t enjoy it as much. I hated group projects, the mount of weekly assignments and being in a rush all the time. I felt like I couldn’t enjoy my life because of school and work being on my mind. I didn’t make any friends because it was online. I was so happy when I graduated just because it was over. 😅
45 yrs old here 🙋♀️ Something no one ever told me, was the worst part of getting old is losing friends and family. Sadly it gets more frequent as we get older. Please think about finding a way to deal with this now, as it is a skill you will need more often as you get older. I'm so sorry to be the one to have to tell you this. ❤❤❤❤❤
thank you for sharing ❤ definitely something I’ll keep in mind as I navigate life
@juliafei you are doing great. Make sure to give yourself some grace. ❤️
About 2 to 3 weeks after my mom passed,( now two years ago); I came running into my boyfriend’s house;( we were both in our 60’s), crying hysterically, frantically looking for my cell phone because I needed to call my mom! He looked at me thinking;” she can’t call her mom.” It was something I had done every day and it was the hardest thing to face. It will get easier but it really never goes away no matter your age.
I thought this was one of your dearest videos. I wish you much growth in your job, this channel to continue to grow, your healing to continue and that you can achieve your educational goals at a healthy pace. God bless!
I've never commented on a video before, but I've been a silent subscriber watching you for over a year now. I just want to thank you for your transparency on this platform. You're a really calming presence for me and I love how honest you are! Truly one of my favorite creators and I value all the time you dedicate to your channel amongst balancing your work and social life. Your videos have brought me to tears and made me really introspective and I can't say that about every creator. Keep doing you, and I look forward to more content in the new year ❤
Julia, thanks for opening up to us. It’s easy to see someone online and think their life is perfect. You handle yourself with such grace, and I’m sure I’m speaking for all when I say how proud of you we all are. You are beautiful and smart. I watch your videos and am in awe of all you have accomplished. I have a daughter close in age to you and I’m feeling all the “mom” feels and just want to give you a big hug. 😊
I def would not share where you work. Like ever. This is the internet and there are a lot of unhappy people looking to project their hurt and pain on others for little to no reason.
Agreed. There are way more cons than pros. Knowing you currently still enjoy your job is enough for us. You've worked hard for this position. Take care.
Agree! 💯
I totally see where you’re coming from & really appreciate your concern! I try to be mindful about what I share online and will make that call if it feels right in the future :)
Thank you for opening up and sharing julia!! I always enjoy your videos and appreciate how mature and down to earth you are! Proud of all you’ve achieved this year :)
Julia, I can’t explain it - but I’m super proud of you! You are sooo mature in ways I could have ONLY wished I was at your age. I’m so sorry you had so many peaks and lows this year, but I pray 2025 is nothing but magical for you. Your channel has gotten me through COUNTLESS remote work days! Your boldness is admirable. Continue to be you. You’ll see nothing but reward from doing so. God bless! Happy Holidays & a Happy New Year
This was such a vulnerable and open way to discuss your life, and your feelings. I didn't realise how much I would identify with you on these topics, especially thinking about death or ageing and sad thoughts revolving around family. You have so much opportunity and growth awaiting you, and I promise things will ease and you will be able to wear these burdens much easier. It's so raw and new. Give yourself the time and grace you so kindly give everyone else 🩷 lots of love xxx
Thank you for sharing so much about your life, the good and the bad. You’ve experienced so much this year and I can only imagine how much of a toll that’s taken on you, but I really appreciate you talking us through your grief and sharing the reality of aging with us. I’m 30 and have been having those same feelings and anxieties around aging and my appearance and change and everything that comes with it as I entered this new decade of my life. I can’t tell you how important it is for me (and I’m sure so many people) hearing someone else talking about these topics, so thank you. Wishing you a happy, healthy, and successful 2025.
When watching your videos I always admired how naturally beautiful you are. Its odd how we cant see our own beauty and worry about the most insignificant flaws!
I agree! I was actually shocked when you said that there are things about your physical appearance that you don't like. You are really so pretty and stylish. That said, if a procedure here and there helps with your confidence, go for it. Just don't lose sight of your beauty.
i’ve always thought she looked a bit like gemma chan!
@@EmmaR I kinda see apink's naeun or loona's hyunjin! but beautiful regardless ♥
Julia, thank you for being so vulnerable with us and opening up about how you're going through grief. I also turned 28 last month so I'm right there with you, seeing my parents age and feeling like I'm never going to be this young again. I'm hoping that with age and time, I'll come to accept and love myself more and more. sending you lots of love! 💞
Julia, I started following you while I was searching for an apartment in Manhattan and have been hooked ever since. You are a very thoughtful and engaging content creator and I wish you all the best in 2025. As a 46 year old, your thoughts on aging are very relatable but you're only 28 so please don't burden yourself with these kind of thoughts! Leverage your age and dream big things because you have the capability of doing anything that you set your mind to! 😉
This video was so healing and validating for me. I’m 27 and lost my grandma this year, a month before I got married. I’ve been struggling with the notion of getting older and those around me leaving me one day. Thank you for talking about such a difficult topic. Whether you think so or not, your videos help others heal ❣️
I had a freak out about aging around 29, turning 30 was like saying goodbye to my youth. Now I'm 39, turning 40 next year, it's actually less depressing than turning 30. One good thing about aging is that you learn to accept yourself more, less comparison to others, and be more comfortable in your own skin. However, from time to time, the thought of losing my parents, and being wrinkling and immobile does scares me too....
thanks for being real Julia! this year has been a difficult year for me as well. i lost my dad 100 days ago and it's so sudden and we were having a good time 2 months before that and then he was gone. to this day, i was hoping he was still around, it's so strange to visit my parent's house to see his things are all still there but he just won't be turning up ever. it feels final.
it's not easy losing someone you are close to and cry all the cries that you can cry cos that's how our body knows we need to have an outlet.
cheers my friend, you are stronger than you think.
p/s and yes, i think having a community name is kinda cool!
You experienced a lot of loss in a short period of time. It’s no wonder your grief is overwhelming. ❤
BABE I LOVE 2024 BECAUSE I DISCOVERED YOUUUU !!! thank u so much for the inspiring and realistic content 🥹🥹 as an aspiring tech girlie, i quickly saw myself in you and im excited to see how i navigate this life :))) keep doing what ur doing, because ure great at it !!! have a great holidays
Julia I am having a really hard day and was looking for something comforting to watch and when I saw your video I felt so happy instantly. I didn’t realise just how much I enjoyed your videos until this reaction. Thank you for your content x
thank you for opening up about your grief, it was so profound. your mama will be so proud of the person you are today! (mama is grandma in canto)
😭😭💗💗 stop it you’re going to make me cry again thank you for the kind words
hi, julia! it's so good to see you opening up and talking about things that you've been through this year, bc i believe when we share with people that cheer us up, some parts of ourselves heals too, i hope 2025 will be more kinder with you and you can feel more comfortable with the things that you want, lots love and hugs 🤎✨
Hey Julia, I just wanted you to know that your videos have been a big comfort to me. Earlier this year I went through a lot of things at the same time, from graduating in EE and trying to find a good job, to a breakup of a nearly 9 year relationship, to the death of my grandfather. I myself am in NYC area and remember watching your videos of you quitting your job and job searching and how difficult that was and it felt validating to me when I struggled. I teared up listening to this video when you talked about your grandma since it reminded me so much of when my grandpa passed and I still feel like I'm coping with it myself (I'm pretty bad at coping I think, don't really know). But anyways just wanted to let you know your content is amazing and feels very genuine to me. I hope you have a wonderful start to 2025.
hi julia, i feel your pain so bad. during the pandemic i lost 3 of my grandparents in the span of a year, losing both of my grandpas in a month. it was undoubtedly the worst thing i've ever experienced, and they also live on the other side of the world so we were not able to see them (because of lockdown). i still feel that pain, i still can't believe they're gone, but i know i carry them with me in everything i do and i like to believe that they're watching over me and proud of me. i'm so glad you have a support system to lean on, but your feelings are so valid and you don't have to turn them off because letting yourself feel them is the best way of reminding yourself how much you (still) love your grandparents.
You’re absolutely stunning… and don’t ever feel the need to explain to people why you do or don’t do something to make yourself feel better. 💐
Julia, thank you for opening your heart and sharing such a vulnerable and honest part of yourself with us. It felt like we were just friends on a FaceTime call, having a heartfelt conversation. Your words were a beautiful reminder to hold our loved ones close and cherish the moments we have with them. I'm sure you've touched many people with your openness and courage, and I hope you find comfort in knowing how much your story resonates. Wishing you strength, love, and all the best in this new year-take care of yourself!
I stopped drinking a year and a half ago. It was one of the best decisions I've ever made! No more crying, hangovers, hangxiety etc. If you think about it, it's not doing much good for us anyway!
The sadness and struggle you are experiencing are related to growing up. You are 28, still very young, and the process of maturing takes a long time and goes through phases. I think returning to therapy would be good for you, as it was a positive experience for you before. I am much older than you and am still going through life's crises. I think you will learn that hard times and problems are just part of life; you cannot get away from them, but you can learn how to handle them and to not let them overtake your happiness. I hope this helps a little. You are a lovely person -- inside and out!! -- and doing everything right. It's nice to get a glimpse into your life through your videos. Thank you for being you!!
Grief is love with nowhere to go because the person has passed. I think being able to cry and express all those emotions are the very best way to feel better. Crying literally regulates your nervous system and that's what your body needs.
your vulnerability is so cherished, julia 🥺 it's so hard to share these thoughts to the camera but so brave of you. rooting for you ❤
I was 26 the year I lost my remaining 3 grandparents. That was kind of how I integrated ancestral veneration into my spiritual practice & it has been so crucial for me. It’s good that you talk to them and remember them with intention. Grief isn’t linear & they’re still with you.
Hi Julia, I don't usually comment but I have been watching you more than a year now and I just wanted to say thank you for opening and having this thoughts with all of us, I am proud of you and all that you have become, I really hope 2025 is you year and that you will have a better time than 2024, happy new year and merry christmas! (english is not my first language sorry haha)
thank you for trusting us enough to be vulnerable!! i personally absolutely love your videos, and all online content. cheers to 2025 Julia
Julia, like many others have said, you are naturally beautiful and also stylish. As someone who also has a round/big face, I’m so glad to see someone with a similar facial shape. I hope you feel better about your insecurities ❤
I appreciate your honesty and Julia’s jewels is cute! Wishing you healing and peace in 2025 ❤
Thank you, Julia, for being so vulnerable with us! I’ve been watching your vlogs for awhile now and I can definitely see how much more of your personality has shown this past year! I’m sure it’s never easy putting yourself out there in the internet, but I truly feel connected with you through your channel. Thank you for always being so authentic. 💗🫶🏼
When I was 28 I went through the exact same thing, thank you for sharing! I can relate to experiencing loss, as I have also had to experience losing loved ones and sick family members as well. I also can tell when my mental health is bad when I don’t drink, because I drink when I’m happy not when I’m sad (which is good!). Now that I’m 31 I’m much more comfortable with my thoughts. When it comes to aging, it helps me to realize that aging is a blessing not a curse, I’ve unfortunately had loved ones pass very young, and when I see my 95 year old grandmother I think to myself, I’ll be happy to have wrinkles if it means I’ve lived a full life. Experiencing loss teaches us to be more present and grateful, allowing us to live life to the fullest, and being old looking back at your life is a beautiful thing ❤ Missing people means that you appreciated them, and helps us appreciate everyone else around us while we have them. Recognizing your fears is the first step to accepting them, and I hope me sharing this helps even a little.
Thank you for being such a lovely human being. s2 have a great new year Julia!
Thank you for being here 🥹💗
sending you lots of hugs and lots of love, julia! so proud of you for getting through such a tough year and i hope 2025 brings you a lot of joy and success
Excitedd to watch, happy holidays ✨
Hope you are having a wonderful holiday season 🫶
happy new year julia! thank you for being so open and honest, something thats not commonly found on my feed nowadays. I really resonated with your struggles with grief, as i have been experiencing something similar in my life. i like to remind myself that whenever i get sad and start grieving about my grandma, it just means that she’s also thinking about me and missing me too at that same exact moment. I hope your year is filled with lots of healing, peace, and abundance. btw your cookies turned out beautifully ❤
Thank you Julia for being so open and vulnerable. I hit the biggest existential crisis after witnessing my grandpa's passing four years ago. It just hit me on one random night, half a year after grandpa passed. I'm still dealing with that fear of aging and death. Sending love to you Julia💟
Thankyou for sharing your deepest thoughts and feelings, I lost my mum this year and it's been so hard to deal with the loss. So I totally understand your grief. Hoping 2025 will be a better year for us 😊
Happy New Year, Julia! You are such an amazing person. I'm way, way older than you yet find your videos so sweet and interesting. I can tell you that grief is definitely a journey. Not only different for each person, but it's a two steps forward, one step backward kind of thing. Eventually, your tears will turn to smiles when you remember your loved ones. And you will realize that they are always with you. Aging is a privilege, and believe me over the years you will definitely worry less about looks as you gain the confidence that comes with age and wisdom. Thanks for sharing so honestly.
Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing story of your grandparents with us. The part you said you try to remember her even when she’s gone really hits me hard. Your insight gives me more clarity on my journey of handling grief, so thank you Julia, and I’m excited to see how your journey unfolds in future videos ✨
Julia, happy holidays! You are one of the few UA-camrs that I really resonate with. I’m happy that despite how busy you are you still constantly put out videos for us. Looking forward for another year with you next year!
Julia! Thank you so so much for sharing everything with us! Just know that we always love and support you!
I lost my grandma not too long ago and with one of my parents having a health scare earlier this year, I've been experiencing a lot of similar thoughts regarding aging/grief/change and it was comforting to hear that I'm not alone in learning to tackle these thoughts in my 20s.
Julia, you are so beautiful and strong. I am so sorry for all the loss you have experienced this year. I got masseter botox for migraines and TMJ and it gave me jowls after the muscle loss. After doing it for a year I actually stopped grinding my teeth and never needed it again. Eventually the muscle came back but not nearly as large as before and my jowls went away.
Julia my parents have been gone for 30 years and I still tear up when I think of them 😭
Going through the same. Family and relatives getting older is really scary because I always worry about them. When someone passes away it hits you. Every birthday you have is even worse. When you turn 28 you're closer to 38 than 18, now that's weird. Makes you realize better enjoy yourself because you never know what happens. Keep your family close and realize you need to visit, call or text them to let them know you love them.
Hi Julia. Happy 2025. Wishing you a better year ahead. Stay safe, happy and healthy. ❤
There is no right or wrong way to grieve. Everyone experiences it differently. It may come and go for some time. You don't get over the death of someone you love, but you will find your way back to the joy that you know they would want for you. Remember the happy times with them and be grateful for the time you did have with them. There's a reason we say "time heals all wounds" and "this too shall pass."
If you start the white icing by drawing a circle around the perimeter and then fill it in, that'll prevent it from spilling over the cookie. They're really cute ☺and thanks for your vulnerability!
Happy holidays Julia, I followed your channel when you posted your first job hunting episode and still couldn't believe it's the end of the year. I got laid off by my previous company but then I found another job which was my dream company, I feel like you were with me all the time through my job hunting period. I wish you a very happy and fulfilling 2025 and will always support you!
We love real thoughts!!! And these are very REAL thank you for creating this space of vulnerability
Lost my grandmothers growing up so it makes sense but grief takes time. Lost my mom last year horrifically but it comes with time. Allow yourself to feel the feels and spend the time that matters to those who are there for you. Time is the best gift you can give anyone. You can give time but you can't take back time. If you're afraid of losing time, spend and call those who matter.
I hope 2025 will be your best year yet. Just remember that it’s okay to make mistakes. You’re doing a great job on UA-cam and you don’t know how much I’m proud of your hard work. I been watching your videos for two years now and I seen you grow. You’re the best UA-camr that I ever watched and that’s facts. Happy holidays Julia❤
You're doing a great job! I commented on a video when u had like 11k subscribers bcuz u were worried about ur views n I told u that u were awesome n to keep goin, and look at u at over 100k! I'm so happy for u!
Julia promised and Julia delivered (a video before new year) ❤🧡❤️
Out of topic but I love how your skin looks glowing and your skin is clear. Do you mind sharing your skincare routine please!🫶🏻
Happy Holidays Julia & Happy New Year!!!! 🎉 2024 was a rollercoaster, but definitely a opportunity to grow.
Wishing you all the Best in life!
Thanks for uploading
i watched this whole video and i resonate with so many things said on this video on a different level…. there were so many things from corporate, grief, your take on content creation, i really relate to it - as a new content creator it was really useful in helping me navigate some of the tougher inner conflicts that comes with content creation. thank you for being vulnerable (yet you still spoke so eloquently). Sending love and hugs for the new year ❤❤
I really like this video Julia! Thank you so much for the inspirational content, hoping to see a better 2025 for all of us 🫂
I’m so sorry for your loss, and my heart goes out to you during this incredibly difficult time. Grieving is such a deeply personal journey, and there’s no right or wrong way to feel right now.
If the tears come, let them flow, they’re a natural and necessary release for the pain you’re carrying. Grief is a process, and while it might feel overwhelming now, please know that little by little, you will find your way through. We’re here for you, your community that cares deeply about you. If creating and sharing through your videos helps you process your emotions or brings you some sense of release until you’re able to talk with your therapist, know that it’s okay to lean into that. This space is yours, and we’re here to support you however you need.
Sending you love, strength, and all the comfort your heart needs during this time. ❤
I work at a university
So many people "feel" the need to finish once they start. It can cost alot of money and cause depression if you don't love it. Cutting back is a great way to keep you sane ❤
Yes I’m trying to not get caught in the sunk cost fallacy 😭 going to give it another semester, take it slow, and see how things go 🤞
Julia, thank you for being so vulnerable about your grief. I also wanted to validate your decision to reevaluate your alcohol use. I am a clinician, and I often have conversations with my patients about their relationship with alcohol and what they consider to be a "normal" amount of alcohol. As a society, I think we have normalized unhealthy alcohol use, to such a degree that most people don't recognize their alcohol use is actually quite harmful to their health. In women, we know that > 7 drinks/ week is associated with increased risk of cancer, liver disease, cardiovascular disease, and more... and many women drink far more than this due mommy wine culture, work culture, etc. We can still have vibrant social lives without obligatory drinking....but it's so hard to detangle this when it's a big part of your social circle. Easier said than done! Stay well, friend 💜
Julia you sweet sweet girl
I vote for juice boxes. Also, this was a very real sit down chat. Thanks for sharing and take care.
Hey Julia! Thank you for your content. I wanted to say that you are worthy. We're all lucky that you want to share a slice of your life with us and share your struggles and your ups nd downs with us. We're here watching and rooting for you! 💕
I've started to record my life too and you're one of the inspirations! Thank you for sharing your life on UA-cam.
Your content is really good and satisfying, in a way. I could really see you part time working and part time content creating in the future.
And if the channel really grows, even full-time content creation.
Julia you don’t need to be insecure about your looks. You’re so beautiful. Everybody is too busy worrying about themselves anyways
Thank you for this video! I’ve been watching your videos since 2024 and I’m really enjoying of your content. it’s indeed very hard to lose our loved ones. My brother passed away six years ago and I’m still grieving his loss
However I still love life and appreciate the time I have here
Happy New Year ❤ I wish you all the best
You are so honest,so sweet,you are one of the best bloggers,vloggers to show your content so real,you are still so young,live your life in 2025❤
I totally get what you're saying. When my final grandparent died, I examined my own mortality. That one layer of family is gone. You start looking at things differently.
Julia---you are a jewel. Your vulnerability here is going tou help so ,many. You got this. Much love to you.
Much older here....losing people sadly is part of life. I miss my parents every day and they have been gone for awhile now. Please always be gentle with yourself and let yourself experience whatever you need to experience. Aging....you are still so very young. Thanks for making this video. Take care of yourself and therapy cannot hurt.
Sending love to you, Julia. I like Julia’s Jewels/Joules xxx thank you for being so vulnerable. I can relate to a lot of the things that you talked about on this video xxx
I've been feeling a lot of mixed emotions about getting older. I totally share the same fears about aging because it means my parents are getting older too, and the idea of losing them really hits me hard. At 43 and still single, I'm super close to them, and it just makes me think about how precious our time together is.
I'm so sorry for all your loss you've had this year, and good on for realizing you had a problem with alcohol. I hope this doesn't sound mean, or come across the wrong way, but instead of finding a way to include alcohol in your life, I think you might be happier if you found a way to go out and have fun without drinking. Sobriety is a lot easier than moderation (I'm 5 years sober in May and I never had any issue with alcohol). Mocktails are awesome and they make a lot of alcohol free alcohol dupes now. Then you don't have to worry who you're with, or count how many drinks you've had, or worry that you're going to have a panic attack. It's just way easier! 💜
I second this! Alcohol IS a depressant and its effects become more severe as we age. I recently had to attend a triggering family event. I made the decision not to have any alcohol and felt more calm and centered.
@@suem.1392 Good for you! 💜
wow, don’t know who needed this video more 🥺 24 here. following you for a few years now ✨💛 this year, the concept of “death” really got to me. like never before. just worrying i don’t give enough of me to the people i love, missing the moments with my family INSTANTLY because the thought of them dying broke my soul. i am so grateful to have lived another year with no funeral planned… im so deeply sorry for anyone who has lost a loved one this year. but death was surely around me at all times. 2 weeks ago an old middle school friend my age was just shot by her ex & killed. i would have never imagined this fate for her. & just like that she was gone… i feel like this reminded me to just be present. in the moment. and cherish every moment. turning worrying into appreciation. thank you for this talk, i’m glad to know im not the only one who sinks in this thought🤍
Julia’s Jewels.
would love to see a video about friendships in your 20s!! about to move to a new city post-grad and feel like your advice would be really helpful :)
Thank you for everything, big hugs!❤ you can get through this
Hey Julia! Just watched your latest video and wanted to say how much I admire your honesty and courage in sharing such personal struggles. It really hits home when you talked about juggling school, work, and those feelings of impostor syndrome - we've all been there! As someone who's been following your content for a while, I've always loved your editing style and authentic approach.
I'm actually a video editor and would love to help take some of that workload off your plate so you can focus on what matters most right now. Your aesthetic and storytelling are exactly what I love working with. Let me know if you'd like to chat about possibly collaborating! Keep taking care of yourself 💕
‘Grief is just unexpressed love’ - Andrew Garfield
Your part about grief made me tear up, have been dealing w it. More love to you❤
Hi Julia!
I think it makes sense to pull back on content creation as you have done while you complete your masters. The masters has an end date, and we'll be here for what you are able to put out, as we support your masters journey!
For aging- Megan Tan recently did an episode on her podcast 'Millennial' which really resonated - it's got some good perspective in there.
Have a wonderful New Year's Julia! Give yourself grace, and take a minute to recognize how far you've come in your own journey ❤
- Loyal Gem Juicebox
Hopefully the new year will bring much intentional happy. We all go through thing, so its ok Julia.Please dont say the name of your company, you dont need to tell every thing, keep somethings private.
I've been so scared of aging since I turned 26, now I am 30 and this doesn't get better! I think the reason being I haven't been where I want career, relationship wise - still figuring things out and single, but losing my energy and youth(beauty) and it feels like time has gone so fast. Also living on my own I realise health is so important and can definitely can feel a difference now I'm older.
Such a relatable and open video. Sending you so much love and peace ❤
Thank you for sharing! You're amazing! Looking forward to seeing your videos in the new Year!
julia's family jewels!
I really enjoyed this video. Happy new year 🎉
I love your videos and how you open up about your family. ❤
Such a raw vídeo Julia ❤
Hi Julia...you inspired me to apply for my masters in Data Science. I wish you all the best as you juggle work, school and life 💜💜
Ugh good luck to us both!! 💪💗
@@juliafei 💪😊
i wouldn’t say where i work either ! its more than ok to not say more than you should. I really like that video thank you for sharing with us ❤
misssssed you, happy holidays bookie
grief is something that always demands to be felt bcoz grief is love with nowhere to go. Definitely no need to say sorry about crying/grieving, it is perfectly normal. and these loved ones I'm pretty sure they wouldn't want you to live your present worrying about the future. Yes it's scary but I feel like it's much sadder if we forget to live in the present. When I went through the phase of worrying about the future I was already in my mid 30s. It was more panic than worrying lol but then I feel like I cannot spend my days like this being crippled by worry. That won't be good for future me, so I just prioritized what I wanted for the nearer future. I think this is how we grow as people, we realize what we want to prioritize and what really is important to us as we grow older.
I can relate so much to the school thing. In 2022 I enrolled in a masters in digital marketing and being completely honest I didn’t enjoy it as much. I hated group projects, the mount of weekly assignments and being in a rush all the time. I felt like I couldn’t enjoy my life because of school and work being on my mind. I didn’t make any friends because it was online. I was so happy when I graduated just because it was over. 😅
I really support you NOT sharing where you work, after all it is personal info and it would just be practising safe internet things anyway
The smile at the end 🥰
Lost my grandma this august. Hurt like hell. Totally understand your pain.
would love a video on friendships in your twenties, i love the way you think through things and i think it will help me a lot too :(