Silicon Valley Software Engineer Living Alone in a Car for Half a Year | Hannah's Diaries Intro

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  • Опубліковано 27 тра 2024
  • I have been living in my car for the past 6 months, while balancing my tech career in software engineering. I know my choice is controversial, but I wanted to test if living in a car is sustainable and if I can survive in a lifestyle that is far from the conventional idea.
    This is the first episode of this journey, where I want to show you why and how I embarked on this journey, offering some glimpses into my life: moving to a new city alone, living out of my car, balancing my tech career, etc. Initially, this experiment was just about practicality. However, it has helped me to understand and discover who I am and has led to profound self-growth. These six months feel like six years of life lessons, and I will gradually unfold all my learnings in my diaries.
    Initially, I wanted to directly post a day in my life/week in my life video, but I feel that with this episode, which is more like an intro to my journey, it will be easier to understand how I got here.
    I am still very nervous about sharing this raw version of myself online, but I hope my stories can inspire, challenge, and open up a dialogue about living differently.

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  • @Elion5564
    @Elion5564 Місяць тому +916

    My heart broke when you tried to socialize and got rejected like that. I'd understand wanting to stay with your group but JOIN US would be my solution. People really do grow up to be villains like wtf. From what I can see you have a pure heart and I wish you the best, much love from NYC.

    • @trockid
      @trockid Місяць тому +114

      It's a tech company, so social skills, emotional awareness, etc. are probably severely lacking.

    • @Dom-zy1qy
      @Dom-zy1qy Місяць тому +31

      Yeah it might not be malicious in nature. I'm also a software engineer and it would be fair to say I'm not well adjusted socially. Social things just stress me out, a lot of other people who work in tech are like this too.

    • @pankajdhyani6102
      @pankajdhyani6102 Місяць тому +3

      😢😢😢

    • @MrTresto
      @MrTresto Місяць тому +42

      She's in California, the land of fake niceness, it's to be expected. In NYC, not my favorite place, people might be a bit rough but at least they have a heart and a soul ...

    • @FrootNinja
      @FrootNinja Місяць тому +12

      Yeah try moving the midwest or east coast for work if you can. It's socially warmer here. I Lived in west coast culture for 20 ish years and the fake is real.

  • @2696yogesh
    @2696yogesh Місяць тому +307

    I feel you. It's awfully hard to make friends as adults for some reason. I can totally relate to this; everyone just prefers to be in their bubble. I even went as far as connecting with people from business, marketing, design, accounting, HR departments, but it is hard to find relatable topics and build lasting connections. Sometimes all you want is to share a nice lunch, find out the best bowl of ramen in the town, talk about a bit of your day, know about someone else's, and feel that you belong to this place.
    Kudos to you though for staying strong and not giving up. Kudos to you for putting yourself out there. Kudo to you for being at Microsoft. I see you crying, but hey, you're crying in a Tesla, that's positive. You're doing great. Keep going! I hope you find your kind of people soon.

    • @boymonster2949
      @boymonster2949 Місяць тому +6

      yeah it hard to make friends in a office. if you open your mouth on how you talk and be cheeky or take a joke out of each other then chance to lose your job for acting who you are as a person. I try and do my best to be social as a developer but I have to careful as some are in their own bubble.

    • @PriyaAmar848
      @PriyaAmar848 28 днів тому +2

      This is true. Having friends in same team is a joke. Even with other teams, it's pretty hard for a friendship to happen. But it's easy if you have similar culture people working for the same vertical. Go and meet people from other office Hannah.

    • @JohnLee-ot5ed
      @JohnLee-ot5ed 25 днів тому +3

      I've only seen this one video. Not sure what her hobbies are. The best way to make friends as an adult is to pic an interactive hobby where the same people go every week. I did karate for a year,. We have to go regularly to get our belts so everyone start to get to know each other pretty well.

    • @Seashellstardust
      @Seashellstardust 22 дні тому +7

      I’ve never made friends at work nor plan to. It’s drama you can save.

    • @veryslyfox
      @veryslyfox 21 день тому

      I've been saying this for years now: WFH is only good for couples with young children. For everyone else, it's a detriment. It's especially detrimental to young single people, because it stunts their professional network and because it reduces social opportunities. 25 years ago, half of all married couples met at work; those days are long gone with WFH.

  • @Account-fi1cu
    @Account-fi1cu 29 днів тому +62

    Hannah this was very emotional for me to watch.
    I moved to Van Island for my bsc, completed it and found a job on the island.
    few months later I felt like you: that I do not belong there.
    I just didnt click with society there... my only friend was my roommate, and i havent dated anyone in a year.
    Then I just snapped, I stopped crying and flew back home. Found a job as a software developer and made friends within the 1st weeks of my return. Started dating few days I returned.... Everything felt so natural and it finally clicked for me. Found the girl of my dreams at work, and built strong confidants over the next few months.
    Keep looking for your place. DO NOT SETTLE FOR LESS ! I compromised my salary, which is slightly lower that what i would had made, but my mental health, and the people that are in my life, are much more valuable to me. Keep looking for your place in this world, Im sure youll find it xoxo

  • @Dreameruy
    @Dreameruy 26 днів тому +12

    I had to write this comment because you are one of the bravest people I have come across on UA-cam. Also the fact that you decided to your share your honest story in an era where social media and UA-cam is about people showing off of their wealth, your story is inspiration for all of us who are struggling to build something for ourselves coming from very humble backgrounds. It’s okay to be different than social norms if that’s the most practical way according to our situation. I am looking forward to seeing your journey towards great success! ❤

  • @HannahWurld
    @HannahWurld  Місяць тому +350

    Thank you all so much for your kind words. I’ve been really curious to see if this lifestyle could actually be sustainable, especially since it feels like our generation is trapped in this earn-to-spend cycle: we’re told to make more money, only to spend it all. With housing prices skyrocketing, it got me thinking-if all my efforts are vanishing into housing, what’s the point? I want to test if there's another way to escape this matrix. Thanks again for all your encouragement. I’m trying my best to editing my footage and will get more vlogs out soon. If you have any questions, feel free to reach me on Ins: HannahWurld ❤

    • @taku6157
      @taku6157 Місяць тому +9

      Hope it gets better. Stay safe dear❤

    • @AppraisedVoice
      @AppraisedVoice Місяць тому +2

      Honestly enjoying this journey a lot you should upload more about it it’s amazing

    • @WhiteCoatFinanz
      @WhiteCoatFinanz Місяць тому +8

      Hey. Hannah, your story just let me remind my first few years in Germany. Trust me, slowly, you will set down there. Now, I am living in Germany almost 10 years and work as a medical doctor for almost 5 years. Trust yourself. Keep trying. Things will become better.

    • @gabrielmuktan2051
      @gabrielmuktan2051 Місяць тому +2

      Why don't you try to move out to a different country where the cost of living is lower? You're already working remote so you can give it a try if it's feasible.

    • @projectsspecial9224
      @projectsspecial9224 Місяць тому +12

      Hi Hannah, you should reach out to my good friend and his wife in Palo Alto. He built comfortable tiny homes for tech workers and a dog sitter too! 😊

  • @TheFangGirl
    @TheFangGirl Місяць тому +125

    Hey! I'm based in San Francisco and run a community for Asian women who travel and work abroad. Would love to invite you to some events and meet up with us if you're looking for a community. I worked abroad and know exactly how you feel. Sending hugs!

    • @HannahWurld
      @HannahWurld  Місяць тому +10

      Thanks.

    • @Namewee4896
      @Namewee4896 25 днів тому

      Scam?

    • @kathytran8788
      @kathytran8788 21 день тому +1

      Your dog is so cute! Costs for living in CA is insane 🥲

    • @mylinhluongthi5751
      @mylinhluongthi5751 21 день тому +1

      Can I join your community? I'm very interesting about the community that has mutual working status as I am an abroad worker too. I'm looking forward to hear from you. Thank you.

    • @RickiHockersmith83
      @RickiHockersmith83 19 днів тому +2

      Asian Br0-thel

  • @user-db3qy1zi2s
    @user-db3qy1zi2s Місяць тому +280

    Living in the bay in a car is wild. Please reconsider this type of life. I am located in Sacramento and it's not that bad. A lot of bay area residents moved here and bought homes to settle and raise families while they commute to the bay. With FSD and public transits and/or company shuttles, you will find it way better. As for your dog, there is a huge dog park presence in downtown and midtown. Good luck on your journey. Coming from someone looking to break into tech, this is inspirational.

    • @tear728
      @tear728 Місяць тому

      Yea great! All those idiots who voted for the degenerate, incoherent woke nonsense that ruined their cities are cashing out from inflated home prices and moving to our small towns.

    • @nicogreco7855
      @nicogreco7855 Місяць тому

      @@mikealexander5428 She said that the average salary in the LA area was 80k, not that she makes 80k. I really doubt Microsoft is paying a SWE $80k anywhere on the west coast. Source: I work as a SWE, once for a bit in Seattle. Lower end salaries for SWE are around 115-120k in that area. All that said, I don't really think the car life is a great choice, considering she seems very lonely, there is no reason she cannot hit up people on FB marketplace or Craigslist and find folks that need a roommate. That solves part of her loneliness prob and will reduce the cost of living to a more reasonable level.

    • @sfrealestatedealmaker6001
      @sfrealestatedealmaker6001 27 днів тому +4

      I’d move to Sacramento too rather than live in a vehicle for sure.

    • @nevarosa76
      @nevarosa76 26 днів тому +3

      Lol 100miles one way…

    • @mrsleep0000
      @mrsleep0000 25 днів тому +5

      Yeah, everything is more expensive in Sac. If you really want to save money, move to somewhere like Modesto or Fresno. Or just GTFO out of California, this states sucks all around.

  • @fehmelar8764
    @fehmelar8764 Місяць тому +66

    Beautiful, Hannah! Thank you so much for sharing your honest experience. Your journey is a courageous and difficult one and I admire the genuineness and kindness with which you lead. As a Silicon Valley native and local I know how hard cultivating meaningful community can be, but I know that you will find your people sooner than later! Sending you hugs and love!

    • @HannahWurld
      @HannahWurld  Місяць тому +5

      Thank you for the thoughtful words❤

    • @ericthornton5252
      @ericthornton5252 26 днів тому +2

      Beautiful is right. That’s the part I don’t get. Sitting alone for lunch all that time? Looking like she does. There must not be any red blooded boys there. Or girls if that’s your choice. Or maybe it’s a strict policy or s’’ harassment rules. I mean even unwanted attention. I just think something is wrong with this picture.

  • @rogerwinright2290
    @rogerwinright2290 29 днів тому +6

    This is part of the reason why I've always been happier as an engineer working for smaller companies and by myself.
    I worked for a large hotel reservation organization for some time but even then, nothing ever felt like I was ever part of one crowd or another and that there weren't many people who even cared that I existed. That left a bad taste in my mouth for a long time.
    However, I did give you a sub! The power to leave your home to venture into the unknown is an incredibly courageous thing to do! I'll be happy to engage with more of your story in the future!

  • @TonyBlount
    @TonyBlount Місяць тому +51

    Love this vid. It was honest and transparent. You could have pretended everything was great, but instead you were open about your loneliness. Things will get better! Keep pushing and keep pivoting when you need to.

  • @LeoDalross
    @LeoDalross Місяць тому +20

    Hey, Hannah! Just met you and loved the video. Thanks for being so transparent. Gtk that there's more people questioning the pricing of housing. We need more Hannahs in the world! All the best for you!! Greetings from Brazil

  • @Mindfulnessdiaries
    @Mindfulnessdiaries 24 дні тому +8

    Ohhh Hannah!!! I feel you, felt your emotions from this video!! People are so blinded so preoccupied in their own bubbles they forget basic nature of humanity! Love, compassion, kindness…. If I was there I wouldn’t think about my team instead I’d involve you. Keep going stay strong!!! You’re learning more about yourself throughout the process!!!! ❤

  • @custeemade
    @custeemade 21 день тому +4

    Stumbled across your video tonight and just want to tell you how incredibly brave you are. Keep following your compass. This experience you're having is the experience you must have. I'm wholeheartedly rooting for you!

  • @davidduran8471
    @davidduran8471 Місяць тому +6

    I seriously admire you! Totally going to stick around for your journey. Blessings!

  • @ELHOUNDmx
    @ELHOUNDmx Місяць тому +4

    you got this, girl!
    making friends as an adult is challenging, but the only way is to keep putting yourself out there.
    I wish you and halo success!

  • @christinzee
    @christinzee Місяць тому +18

    Hannah ❤ i truly admire your courage and perseverance in challenging yourself and going on this journey. i hope others can open their eyes and hearts to you as you are such a genuine and kind soul. keep going girl 💪 and please stay safe 🙏

    • @briang6652
      @briang6652 23 дні тому

      Right. The crime has increased terribly these years, so break ins into cars are allowed and done within minutes by these pros. Really be careful.

  • @jarrettyew
    @jarrettyew Місяць тому +13

    Hello Hannah, your story reminds me of my situation too. I applaud for your bravery and would want to do that for myself as well. Sacrifice the comfort for the adventure. Wish you the best.

  • @wellhellothere1785
    @wellhellothere1785 Місяць тому +7

    love the authenticity, I am right now struggling to find a job myself in Europe

  • @cathyyung6846
    @cathyyung6846 17 днів тому +10

    Thank you for sharing your journey with us and for your vulnerability! Subscribed now as I’m looking forward to hearing more about your story!

  • @jaylenmontez9371
    @jaylenmontez9371 Місяць тому +3

    My First video on this channel and wow! All I can is Stay strong!! You got this!! 🙌🏾

  • @HH-zz6gi
    @HH-zz6gi Місяць тому +4

    Keep your head up Hannah. Hope you upload more on UA-cam. I want to keep watching. 👍

  • @user-ll7xz6jt1z
    @user-ll7xz6jt1z 24 дні тому +4

    Hi Hannah!
    i am so proud of you!
    don't give up, you can make lots of friends here in tech industry...so many great people in SJ Sanfrancisco, ..etc

  • @cecilee.
    @cecilee. 23 дні тому +2

    You are so incredibly brave for embarking and sharing this experimental journey with us. Living in the US, especially in California isn't easy, especially with the high cost of living and an isolating social culture (value of individual over sense of community, especially at the workplace in my experience). But there are many good people out there too, and the right ones will find you. I'd personally love to sit with you because you seem like a very warm hearted and genuine person to befriend! Rooting for you 💪
    Props to Halo, such a good doggo being by your side throughout this move 💕🐕‍🦺

  • @KMCF4
    @KMCF4 24 дні тому +1

    This is such a good reminder to tell everyone you are special. First video on UA-cam and it’s already such great quality, every journey is so worth to documenting. Hannah! All the best! I can only see good things will be happening from here. And we are all here to support you! Keep posting content, and I am sure you will attract others come to your way. Help me say hi to Halo!

  • @lumium5332
    @lumium5332 Місяць тому +36

    Wow, very good editing, you're doing a great job! Things will work out!

  • @joyfulfishman5445
    @joyfulfishman5445 Місяць тому +5

    I also want to applaud you for trying out this lifestyle, I think it's an incredibly courageous and intelligent choice and I wish you health and happiness!

  • @cheryltjon164
    @cheryltjon164 25 днів тому +1

    you are so courageous for sharing this! Even though it is lonely not being able to connect with anyone, i wish you will give yourself a lot of compliments of just showing up every single day despite the situation! This too will pass and you things will get better!

  • @createinspireco1768
    @createinspireco1768 Місяць тому +2

    You deserve so much happiness, you'll find your community

  • @nimbusspacewagon
    @nimbusspacewagon Місяць тому +5

    Great video diary. Really frank about how isolating the tech sector is too.
    I moved to LA from Australia a few years ago and experienced a very similar situation. Los Angeles is a dog eat dog place, and can really put you off trusting people in general.
    It is very tough to become friends with people in this city when you are older and didn’t grow up there, I imagine it’s probably the same in San Francisco .
    Keep up the great video diaries and great work. You’ve got a friend here.

  • @DomskiPlays
    @DomskiPlays Місяць тому +4

    Amazing unfiltered look into your life, would love to see the hidden logistics of living in your car (showering, privacy, ...) if you want to show that in your next video

  • @RonoTron01
    @RonoTron01 8 днів тому +1

    Another thing you could try is to split the rent with a roommie, When I was first moved to Fremont, CA, we split the rent 3 ways, which is def nicer than living inside the car. And eventually when your salary increases (for SWE, it shouldn't take too long) you can start to reduce the amount of roommates and perhaps find a condo for sale. This is something that I did and didn't regret after stopped renting for good - every dollar gets reinvested into your own property!

  • @peterfairlie2296
    @peterfairlie2296 24 дні тому +1

    Hi Hannah, I just found your channel and subscribed. Please keep making more videos as you are good at it and you have a very interesting life and story to be told. The fact that you have lived in your car safely for 6 months has saved you $24,000 in rent. Having your dog, not only is he your best buddy, but he's protecting you. I think a lot of people can learn from your life experiences so please keep making videos and documenting everything. You are an incredible resilient person and a survivor and I really admire you very much!

  • @FrankHuynh
    @FrankHuynh Місяць тому +10

    Just a random stranger passing, but I hope things gets easier/better!

  • @artissciencescienceisart5930
    @artissciencescienceisart5930 Місяць тому +3

    What a brave decision. Good for you! I think ultimately when you can make friends it will be easier for you. Also try doing other activities that you enjoy outside of work to create that social interaction that your missing. Don't worry about making friends at work it will come sooner or later. If you can do things like biking working out etc. Cant wait to see next video

  • @prerit791
    @prerit791 28 днів тому +1

    You are such a courageous girl. I have been deeply moved by your story. Keep growing, keep moving sis. Love from Nepal

  • @FilCanGil
    @FilCanGil 22 дні тому

    Hi Hannah, I just stumbled upon your Chanel, I’m now a subscriber. I’m from Toronto and I can feel the challenges that you’re going through. Always believe that tomorrow will be more prosperous than today, fight a good fight and never loose hope. Be safe and God bless💪🏼🙏🏼

  • @007_TY
    @007_TY Місяць тому +3

    I love to see your resiliency. Putting yourself in a situation like that and still preserving.
    That’s inspiring.
    And storytelling ability, incredible.
    btw, I work at an IT corporate office in Minnesota. I would have definitely loved to sit down and have lunch with you ❤

  • @TechGalDiaries
    @TechGalDiaries Місяць тому +4

    You've got this girl! Also lived in Vancouver and went to UBC and living in Silicon Valley now.

  • @luisrcoronado
    @luisrcoronado 28 днів тому +2

    I loved this video. Thank you for sharing your story. Keep yourself strong and keep fighting for your dream. I Hope one day you can look back and say it was worth it.

  • @JT-vy5ue
    @JT-vy5ue Місяць тому

    woah...hope everything would go well for you. Stay positive! Stay strong there❤

  • @coldclimateoffgrid3061
    @coldclimateoffgrid3061 Місяць тому +23

    You should try getting involved in some extracurriculars! Join a frisbee team, go indoor rock climbing, do something outside of work!

  • @schlemdem6200
    @schlemdem6200 29 днів тому +9

    I thought this was a joke, but it is not. Most of your life seems to be devoted to your work. This will probably damage your mental health in the long term. An apartment should not only be for sleeping. Its also a place to relax, do hobbies, hang out with friends. If you cannot get that in LA or SF then I would move away. These cities are always idealized but they are actually really distopian.

  • @bobdaawid2218
    @bobdaawid2218 22 дні тому

    I admire your strength Hannah everything will be fine.
    Please make more of a long video like this. Love your storytelling❤

    • @HannahWurld
      @HannahWurld  22 дні тому

      Thank you. I almost finished editing my 2nd vlog. Will post sometime next week.

  • @kamilkisielewicz2910
    @kamilkisielewicz2910 Місяць тому +9

    Very brave and interesting. Having worked at FAANG companies myself, I'm surprised at people's unwillingness to mingle with you. Looking forward to future vids!

    • @user39076
      @user39076 Місяць тому

      people in the bay area are like that, especially asians

  • @amarwagh6237
    @amarwagh6237 Місяць тому +93

    Felt really sad when you were having lunch alone, wish I could join but I'm miles apart. Can join on call tho and would love to talk on tech, life, etc. while having lunch or dinner or in free time 🙃

  • @Chingcharleygummy.
    @Chingcharleygummy. 22 дні тому

    Stay strong and courageous, not everyone can do what you’re doing or experiencing right now. I’m just happy that you have your dog as your family.

  • @tikachu86
    @tikachu86 День тому

    Hello Hannah, your vlog has been the highlight of my evening. I'm sorry that it's hard for you to find friends at work. For me, it's much easier to find friends outside office, maybe in a sports or a hobby community. You're very brave, and you have support from me and from everyone who watches your journey. I hope you stay healthy and safe!

  • @elizabeththaonguyen2914
    @elizabeththaonguyen2914 Місяць тому +18

    Your dog reminded me of my dog when we had a tough time together and without any friends 😢

  • @Aminotonic
    @Aminotonic Місяць тому +41

    Would love to see more of the logistics of car living! Been looking into this myself, thank you for sharing❤

    • @HannahWurld
      @HannahWurld  Місяць тому +13

      Yeah it is definitely sustainable. I’ll share more on the logistics in my future vlogs

    • @rp38
      @rp38 Місяць тому

      @@HannahWurldis there enough space in the Tesla for you and the doggo? Maybe trading it in for a van might help with space and also car traveling (EV charging network is great in Cali but not as good in other parts of USA).

    • @brodymiller9299
      @brodymiller9299 Місяць тому

      @@HannahWurld I think living in a car is fun, though I've only done it on road trips. If you have any tips for finding places to park it would be great, that's always the most difficult part for me.

  • @geraldlaurencezordilla6028
    @geraldlaurencezordilla6028 24 дні тому

    Be strong young lady.. your purpose will unfold soon. Your value will be seen❤

  • @brunamapra
    @brunamapra 7 днів тому +1

    Sometimes life is just like that, we get in that liminal space between beeing part of something and yet not connected to it at all.
    Good luck girl, I wish you to find your people to walk togheter~

  • @sevrantw8931
    @sevrantw8931 Місяць тому +5

    Thank you for sharing your story. I worked for a FANG a decade ago and was in a similar situation, moved to a crazy expensive city, my whole team was in another country anyway but they needed me there. I struggled to make friends and deal with office politics and the overall experience wasn’t great but it taught me something and that’s what I DIDNT want to do and so it helps me everyday today when I live and work the way I do to remember those times and the trials I was put through to know myself fully.
    all the best!

  • @tungdang6861
    @tungdang6861 Місяць тому

    Wow. dedication at peak. Respect

  • @numberonetopgun
    @numberonetopgun Місяць тому +1

    As a computer science student moving to the silicon valley soon this makes me nervous. Please keep posting videos!

  • @MrElipis
    @MrElipis Місяць тому +4

    Greetings from Brazil, so sorry to hear that nobody wants to have lunch with you, know that you are not alone, keep posting your videos so we can chat.
    I wish we could have lunch together though

  • @bananabaskets
    @bananabaskets Місяць тому +6

    It's hard trying to make new friends in a company where most like to stay within their own bubbles. If it's too difficult trying to make friends in the company, maybe other social places like dog parks can help? It takes a lot of willpower and strength to move to an entire different country, especially if you don't know anyone in it. I hope you can make new friends to help make your stay in the US better!

  • @MuazAtik
    @MuazAtik Місяць тому +1

    Hey Hannah, thank you you've inspired me 👍 Keep it up and I wish you the best 👊

  • @scottmcmahon7209
    @scottmcmahon7209 8 днів тому +1

    God bless this sweet girl 💝🙏
    I hope all her dreams come true and finds happiness.

  • @CodeKali
    @CodeKali Місяць тому +2

    I laughed really hard on how you acted when calling Ryan😂😂😂, but your story is really interesting. I wish you all the best, and keep updating us on any progress

    • @HannahWurld
      @HannahWurld  Місяць тому +1

      He was there. I was filming about food that day, and he just happened to walk by at that time😂. The entire footage was longer, but I cut it shorter.

  • @suryashekhardas6299
    @suryashekhardas6299 Місяць тому +3

    I wish you all the success Hannah

  • @mr.seanster
    @mr.seanster 26 днів тому +2

    Very interesting documentary. Look forward to seeing your next video and learn more about your journey.

    • @HannahWurld
      @HannahWurld  26 днів тому +1

      More to come!

    • @mr.seanster
      @mr.seanster 26 днів тому

      @HannahWurld can't wait. I'm in LA and sorry you didn't have a good experience

  • @andyzhuang3946
    @andyzhuang3946 23 дні тому

    Wish you the best luck Hannah !

  • @DIVYANSHU267
    @DIVYANSHU267 Місяць тому +6

    hey amazing to see your resilience. one query if I may please, where does your doggo live while you work ?

  • @StarAZ
    @StarAZ Місяць тому +8

    I applaud you for trying this. To me, the best way of meeting new people in a new city is by hobbies. I met many people through skiing, mountain biking and tennis.

    • @HannahWurld
      @HannahWurld  Місяць тому +4

      Yeah I’m figuring out where to settle down. Once that’s sorted, I am going to have more time to dedicate to my hobbies.

    • @mocheen4837
      @mocheen4837 22 дні тому

      It will be difficult as you do not have space to store all of your belongings. Younger people tend to be more anti social. Hang in there and you will make friends.

  • @weareallamericans7358
    @weareallamericans7358 13 днів тому +1

    You are strong. You will adapt. This chapter shall pass. You will look back and smile. God Bless 😇🙏

  • @Yue665
    @Yue665 6 днів тому +1

    I'm impressed you can sleep well in the 3. Part of the reason I switched to the model Y was that it was far more comfortable sleeping in, since you could fold the seats completely flat and there wouldn't be this bump in the middle. There was a guy who worked at Tesla many years back who did something similar and lived in his Model X. Back then you get unlimited supercharging for the S and X, so he'd just shower at the gym and do lyft/uber on the side with his free electricity. My question is did you not want to live with roommates? Most people I know here in the Bay share an apartment with roommates until they can save enough for a house or etc. Splitting usually brings down costs closer to around $1000-1500/mo for housing.

  • @Tetrax
    @Tetrax Місяць тому +7

    Oh my gosh, the tech bubble is so true. I'm based out of San Francisco, the tech bubble is real and they don't want to expand their circle. I hate remote work, I hate not working with my team in person. The best part about having an apartment/home is that you get to have roommates who can be super involved in your life. My and my buddy chill out everyday, have friends come over from time to time. Please please get a place, since you also have a dog, please bring Halo to Dolores park, its warm and everyone so friendly. Human being are social creatures and everyone would love to meet you :)

  • @gohkairen2980
    @gohkairen2980 Місяць тому +5

    if a silicon valley software engineer lives in a car, im fked

  • @streetmoney21
    @streetmoney21 17 днів тому

    Keep fighting the good fight. It’s not your loss of those people don’t see the value you bring. Keep your head down, stay focused and I am sure after this you’ll have plenty of people reaching out to you. Cool dog.

  • @mrvan12
    @mrvan12 22 дні тому

    Wishing you well from Seattle.

  • @nnamuenmada
    @nnamuenmada 27 днів тому +2

    戏有点多但是你成功了!无论是生活还是social media🎉

  • @kmh21
    @kmh21 Місяць тому +5

    Hannah, I hope you and your dog are doing well & that you will put each other first before all else even work. Perhaps, try applying to Facebook in Menlo Park. They offer on campus housing for their staff. Or maybe check out some studio apartments and do a hybrid WFH schedule. I know it’s hard to make friends especially in the tech industry. Keep staying positive and you’ll connect with a friend soon enough. You deserve a life that is happy & safe, even if that means not being able to save as much at first. Wishing all the best!

  • @JoeyBlogs007
    @JoeyBlogs007 24 дні тому +1

    Dearest blossom. It's sad to hear of this. You're young and have a job. Be brave. Be resilient. Hang in there. Life is a long journey. This is just one paving stone among many upon which you will tread. May the journey continue and ultimately for the betterment of not only yourself, but also of humankind. Spread your wings and be free. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @-CantikaNurmalasari
    @-CantikaNurmalasari Місяць тому

    I hope you will be better than before, I really enjoy watching your vlogs. May we always be given health and happiness wherever we are. If you still haven't found a suitable friend there, your online friends will wish you well too. Watching your video makes me feel warm. Keep it up!!!

  • @redshift415
    @redshift415 Місяць тому +8

    i’m a software engineer and i’m struggling too to survive with these skyrocketing costs, but just gotta stay positive and you seem like a positive person. everything works out in the end!

    • @HannahWurld
      @HannahWurld  Місяць тому +10

      I feel our generation is stuck in this endless earn-to-spend cycle, like we are told to make more money but only to spend it all

    • @redshift415
      @redshift415 Місяць тому +1

      @@HannahWurld i agree, i feel like the system is designed this way, and we just have to save or invest smarter. i also have to practice what i preach lol.

    • @asles7125
      @asles7125 Місяць тому +1

      Just move to the netherlands, they will die for software engineers

  • @DonaldKLee
    @DonaldKLee Місяць тому +5

    As a Vancouverite who moved to the states 8 years ago, you moved to the wrong state if you're looking for friends.
    SF, NYC, DC are all like Vancouver - it's high school and people have their cliques.
    If you want friendly people who want to connect move to red states.
    I had your problem in DC.
    In Texas, I literally met some random stranger vlogging in front of his house, struck up a conversation and hung out at his garage before needing to go to church.
    Best of luck,
    Donald

  • @tiffanyapril3528
    @tiffanyapril3528 14 днів тому

    You seem like a very sweet and honest person. Thank you for sharing your new adventure with us and for being so real and honest. I always teach my kids to befriend any new kids from school and make them feel welcome. So they’ve become really good with befriending the new kids and welcoming them to their group. I guess some adults never learn to be nice and friendly and welcoming to people, especially the “new kid. Which is quite sad. Try not to be bother by those people. I’m sure you will eventually find some kind hearted people out there who will understand you and welcome you with open arms.

  • @felj7118
    @felj7118 15 днів тому

    Aloha Hannah! I was scrolling through UA-cam when I happened to come upon your videos and wish to thank you for sharing your world heartfelt moments through them. As you can see here there are many supporters cheering for you. If it's OK, I wish to become a member of this team and your friend, too.

  • @CellMitos
    @CellMitos Місяць тому +24

    wait, where does your dog go when you are at work?

    • @Tiffany-uu2hq
      @Tiffany-uu2hq 23 дні тому +1

      some places let you bring your dog to work?

    • @keropic1
      @keropic1 23 дні тому

      haha.. I am thinking about the same thing… where does the dog go?

    • @MK-vc5jb
      @MK-vc5jb 22 дні тому

      Wondering the same thing…

    • @Guessguess1
      @Guessguess1 13 днів тому +1

      Good question, can the dog follow you to the office?

    • @NeilMcHenrynaut
      @NeilMcHenrynaut 13 днів тому

      I'm also wondering this, I am considering a similar option but also have a dog and don't want to do it if there's not a good place

  • @anthonyc8579
    @anthonyc8579 Місяць тому +3

    How did you convince your manager to let you move to an office where your team doesnt sit in? And where are they based in?

    • @HannahWurld
      @HannahWurld  Місяць тому +4

      I'm truly grateful for my team's support in allowing me to work in California. Our org’s culture is incredibly flexible, and there is a strong sense of trust among us all

  • @caiautumn4467
    @caiautumn4467 25 днів тому +1

    I gave up making friends here after moving US . And it just frees me up, and now I’m allowed to do things that I really enjoy doing, no strings attached. It’s hard at first, but trust me it will get better

  • @mikelee4728
    @mikelee4728 25 днів тому +1

    Things will get better. Stay Strong.

  • @TKGZONE
    @TKGZONE Місяць тому +7

    What was wrong with vancouver that u made the switch? The grass isn't always greener on the other side.

    • @cyropox8235
      @cyropox8235 Місяць тому

      Probably job opportunities. tech companies in california pay insane amounts of money compared to almost anywhere else in the world. the only places that come close are seattle and NYC. I'd guess that the average pay for software engineers in Vancouver is at least 80k less than in LA.

    • @GunnerJayx
      @GunnerJayx Місяць тому

      Insane amounts of money but cannot afford housing or social connections? Is it that really worth it in the end?
      Unfortunately Sillicon Valley/CA doesn’t seem as attractive as it once was.

    • @cyropox8235
      @cyropox8235 Місяць тому

      @@GunnerJayx she can afford housing. She just chooses not to. I'd estimate that she's making 200k-250k as a software engineer at microsoft. Even if her rent was 3.7k per month like she said the one apartment she looked at was, she would be totally fine. And by living in LA, you can very realistically see a salary of 300k-400k as you get a few years of experience. The high cost of living is super outweighed by the high compensation for software engineers in the area.
      As for making friends, it's hard to make friends as an adult. Thats going to be equally true in basically any North American city. It's not a problem exclusive to LA.

  • @1101G12646
    @1101G12646 Місяць тому +5

    I think there's be something you're not entirely telling us. I could be wrong. But I just think its crazy to decide to move from Vancouver to US just for a job which you can find anywhere else and then live in a car. Why US? Maybe that job is a once in a lifetime opportunity or its your dream job, but I can't seem to fathom the rationale of doing something like this just for a job. Otherwise perhaps i'm just trolled by this video because it's just for "content"
    You mentioned in 5-10 years or when you're older to move to US to retire that you will feel different, what difference is it? Why retire in US? You even explicitly asked to be moved to LA when you could have at least started in Vancouver first, build some capital and then maybe plan a move there someday. You work with your team remotely, and you're the only one based in LA, that's like almost going over there for no reason. If there is a huge amount of people you work with there and they are always in the office, then I get it. But this move...was a little reckless I feel
    I mean I know the main reason is the high cost of living in silicon valley, but wouldn't you have done some research before taking the job or even decide to move there?

  • @jamesdeano8093
    @jamesdeano8093 26 днів тому +1

    Awesome video, thank you for sharing. Keep trying to get into those bubbles. People are often hard to get in touch with, but it would be worth it. Please don't lose faith in it :) Can't wait to see the coming videos of your diaries. I fully understand your idea of not wasting money on rent to end up a slave of a lifestyle. It does inspire :)

  • @iDizmek
    @iDizmek Місяць тому

    First off, I applaud you for going out of your comfort zone and pushing yourself to move not once, but twice - that in it's self is a success story you'll have to tell for many years! I work in tech myself and I ended up just moving to Seattle as I found it to be a better alternative to Bay Area. Unfortunately it feels like we're all stuck in this rat race, and I hope we all make it out one day. Hopefully it'll get better. Let me know if you swing by Seattle! All the best.

  • @Lucard4433
    @Lucard4433 29 днів тому +6

    Just find a boyfriend and live with him

    • @Aminotonic
      @Aminotonic 26 днів тому +1

      That’s 1000 times harder than living in a car 😂

    • @karenphu998
      @karenphu998 25 днів тому

      What guys are suppose to be girl’s suckers or financial victim?

    • @anthonyhoang5902
      @anthonyhoang5902 24 дні тому

      You have to be more specific, "find a nice rich boyfriend who already has a home and live with him."

  • @GDoggProductions
    @GDoggProductions 26 днів тому +1

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Thank you for sharing your story!
    low-key sucks when people aren't up for expanding their bubble, but you sound like someone who ain't gonna give up on the first hurdle! looking forward to an update with your journey ^__^

  • @legacyqueenceo
    @legacyqueenceo 11 днів тому +1

    People think LA is like what we see on TV, but it can be a tough city. There are so many other beautiful towns to explore.

  • @SmoothCode
    @SmoothCode Місяць тому

    Keep up the grind 💪

  • @giaphattrinh2711
    @giaphattrinh2711 Місяць тому

    stay strong sis!

  • @Hulkdad43
    @Hulkdad43 13 днів тому

    Love the video ! I’m also about to transition to car living at end of July. Wish you the best and stay safe!

  • @HoangNguyen-xe4ex
    @HoangNguyen-xe4ex Місяць тому

    Always difficult for me to make friends in a new city. I hope you have better result. Stay strong and joyful. Respect for you in sharing your life. Wish you the best.

  • @jamesmegaman2499
    @jamesmegaman2499 Місяць тому

    Hi Hannah! Thank you for sharing your journey. As you can see in the comments, many people are cheering you on and wishing you positivity! I am also based in Vancouver and have been actively looking for work opportunities (tech companies) in US. There's a strong possibility I will also experience the same situation as you are right now. Just wanted to spread some kindness! Followed you and subscribed!

  • @francisboey6457
    @francisboey6457 26 днів тому +2

    Do come over to Singapore ! You will definitely love this country. Come and see for yourself.

  • @B33333
    @B33333 21 день тому

    Be safe out there!! ❤

  • @kreatka
    @kreatka 25 днів тому

    thanks for sharing your story !

  • @gyu7193
    @gyu7193 21 день тому

    Don't be discouraged. As you said, most ppl are like in their bubble down here. Stay strong and keep hopes alive.

  • @spagnot
    @spagnot 11 днів тому +1

    Very successful video for your first video!!!

  • @horizondevs
    @horizondevs Місяць тому

    continue to be strong and try, god bless you!