NikkieTutorials and the Taboo Topic
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- Опубліковано 2 жов 2024
- Oh lord. If the kids don't get where I'm coming from. I will be getting dragged. But seriously, it can be really hard for a person who does not identify as Trans to talk about anything that is related to a Trans topic. And it often can turn a conversation into invalidation. But it's a conversation that I think we should be able to have when a person is truly wanting it and mean no harm.
I myself have dated people who identify as Trans, so I can only speak from the other side of the relationship.
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Baby, everyone should be BLESSED to catch those hands!!
Hahaha tyyyy
I love that you brought up a bunch of important points. Personally identifying as something doesn't negate their responsibility for their actions. It didn't bother me at all when she came out but to be honest, I wish she could have kept her business her business not only for her but for her man. If he ever chooses to exit the relationship you know a select few of people will accuse him of being transphobic.
People don't learn well when they're feeling attacked, i think your approach to educating the person was correct. You treated her with compassion and recognized that she came from a place of ignorance, which can easily and respectfully be rectified. You did well and i support you in that.
I've never thought Nikki was born the wrong gender but what shocked me was the reason why she had to come out. When she flipped the bird at those vile persons I cheered. What a strong, brave lady she is! You being transphobic because you talked about Kai is such bs. Transgender or not, whoever grooms minors must be called out, exactly as everybody called out Onision. I so agree with you; our gender doesn't define us, but our actions do. Much love 💖
I got worried real quick when you said you were going to change talking with your hands. You're great.
Hahaha well that was a lie
I was gonna saaay. Do it how you do
Loved the hot take on commenters trying to change the way you act
Let them have it!
Lol yass!
I totally agree, and I love that Nikki even mentioned it as well. Years ago I dated a trans man for about a couple months. He was pre-op and didn’t know until we finally decided to get sexual and he didn’t have a penis. I do not like vaginas or dealing with them (I barely like my own lol) and I’m simply not sexually attracted to them. I told him I was upset he didn’t tell me and I wasn’t attracted to him anymore. I said it would be best to end it then and there. The next day I was hit multitudes of comments and messages and death threats calling me hateful and transphobic and homophobic from his friends and family. The thing is, even if he had been post-op, I would still have liked to know also due to the fact that we wouldn’t be able to have biological children between us. Trans people should tell their partners because it gives them a chance to decide wether or not they want to move ahead with the relationship. I completely understand that it’s hard and intimidating and you might lose them, but your partner has a right to know before things get serious and like you said, if they choose to leave it was simply not meant to be and they’ll probably find someone better suited. I just hope Nikki’s relationship lives on after this, but again if her fiancé chooses to end it, I would understand that as well.
*First of all.....I love you gesticulate ( talk with your hands)! I do that too especially when I'm excited. I'm glad Nikkie stood in her truth. I always enjoy your topics Marie! Also.....your necklace is GORGEOUS!* 🙌🏿🖤🦇
Lol thank you so much! I have a couple of these necklaces/chokers. It’s sad that she had to beat someone to the punch but I’m happy she feels free now.
@@MarieMunsterful *You're very welcome & I agree with you. I don't y anybody would use her being trans to blackmail her. Shame on them* 😕😔
Many people speak with their hands. Why tf is that a problem? Honestly? Who hurt you??
I talk with my hands. Tarantino talks with his hands. Bernie Sanders talks with his hands. Good people talk with their hands. 💜💜💜
Your video on Kai wasn't transphobic imo, you were trying to use the right pronouns and Kai genuinely is a bad person, regardless of gender. Most videos on Kai use "she", most people don't even try. And as far as Nikki not telling her boyfriend, I personally think you should tell your partner if you're trans, I made sure my ex knew I was trans before we started dating. If someone else chooses not to tell their partner, that's fine, but I personally disagree. As a trans man, I love your videos and your viewpoints on this subject.
Honestly telling your partner or someone you're planning on having sex with as soon as possible is very important imo. Not just because it's "their right to know", but for your safety. Almost half of the trans people that get murdered is as a result of the person they were going to have sex with or hadn't told their partner early enough finding out and getting pissed about it. It's super sad and I wish it wasn't like that, but for trans people's safety I believe it's important to be open and honest right off the bat
I love that you talk with your hands! Keep doing you boo❤
As a trans person myself I agree that snapping at people does nothing. We should communicate and educate. Also, trans people are human which means there are bad trans people, it is not transphobic to call out a bad trans person. You are very respectful with your points, I definitely agree with most you have to say.
Thank you. I try to be respectful to everyone as long as the is a mutual respect of course lol I like talking things out because sometime with the lack of communication comes a lack of clarity.
@@MarieMunsterful I'm glad you have that mindset. Honestly people who are not trans are often too scared to talk about these things but the lack of communication only causes more problems in all communities, not just the trans community.
I understand what people are trying to say better when they talk with their hands. Even if it’s not ASL, I still am able to get the vibe of a conversation with hand movements! I do the same thing when I talk lol
Came for the story but stayed for the personality !
Yessss I fucking heard tf out of this!!!!💯👏🏽
Oh yeah I was shocked to say the least but in the end she's wonderful woman. I am seriously angry with the bastards that tried to blackmail her. But she preserved and now she is living her truth. As I told her in my comment after her video. I said straighten that crown queen and keep walking like the boss that you are.
A: no lies detected
B: no such a thing as too much hand gesture
C: eye makeup on point
Just subscribed came to your channel because I heard Deity talking about you and saw you on his livestream. Great content , love it💕
I was gonna say when you were talking about your hands and earrings. DO YOU! We come to see YOU and what you're all about. This is the package!! You're beautiful. Straight up gorgeous. Lovely taste in hair and outfits. And i love your dark tastes
Thank you so much peach!
You’re so REAL?? I love it so much. It’s so welcoming. Absolute goddess
Just because somone is trans doesn't mean they are exempt from criticism. Just because they are trans it dose not mean they are given an excuse to be a bad person. You are allowed to call somone out for being a shitty person regardless of sexual identity/orientation etc.
Hey i loooove your channel. Just my 2cents on your thumbnail- if you'd put the viral star AND your image in the thumbnail i'd've clicked so much faster bc honestly, you're so gorgeous and captivating.
Edit: was scared you were gonna actually stop the magical hand gestures bc of some fool. You are amazing. Thanks for having the confidence to share some of yourself with us
Listen. Thumbnails are not my thing! Lol I’m terrible with thumbnails! Hahaha sometimes I forget to pose for them and just take a screenshot from my video
Do you got any decent artitsts in the family/pals/fans pool?
A dramatic but simple cartoon with some of your most distinct features (eyes and raised brows, mouth, tattoos/hair/piercings) and then whenever you use the celebratory image in thumbnails to generate views just paste your equally fine-af animated self on there. /
Missed you
🖤🖤🖤
I’m proud of you on the side bar “this is me” 👏 yassssss momma yasssss 👏
As far as the “taboo topic”
I have the pleasure of chatting with you and I know you are all LOVE and ACCEPTING so let the HATERS HATE. I KNOW YOUR HEART is Right baby! Girl I was SHOOK that she was trans. And yesss you are more than a gender I agree! 👏 👏 👏 👏
I agree she was the same to me. Nikki said she should have told sooner. So I agree you NEED to tell baby.
Fantastic views , fantastic video!
Much love ❤️ always!
Tetra!
Thank you so much. Her coming out was interesting because it wasn’t expected but not much surprises me I guess because people are people and thanks Tetra!!!
MarieMunsterful I know! It was Soooo unexpected and after I had it sink in. It really didn’t make any difference at all she’s a woman always was and always will be to me at least. Xoxox of course!!!
Talking with your hands just makes you more expressive!!! I love it!
Thank you!
I don’t understand what you talking about, can you tell me what it about? Thank you.
There is a Makeup guru who has been on UA-cam since 2008 who has just recently made a video letting her audience know that she was born male but is now female
What I've learned is if you validate a person's opinion by saying that it's real and valid, they're more likely to listen to your side. I may not agree with someone's opinion but it's their right to have it. I've had civil conversations with the worst of the worst people. People want to feel heard, and that's what I do. I listen. As for transgender people.... I've noticed that the majority aren't the ones yelling "transphobia" at everyone. It's the VERY loud SJWs of them. (And their supporters.) And lastly, you do you. Move those hands around!! I speak with my hands a lot too girl!
You are speaking nothing but the truth. That’s why when I am in a conversation that I don’t fully agree with I always state. “ okay I definitely hear what you are saying” just so they know I am engaged in the conversation.
MarieMunsterful You learn a lot more with an open mind. People think you're giving up your values, ethics, etc when you give someone validation. It's not true. Once we stop listening, and believe our way IS the right way, we're no better than tyrants, communists, and so on. I'll give someone my ear because it takes a lot more energy to fight them. Besides, it gives me an opportunity to educate them on something they may know little about. 😉
Girl the drama on your comments though wooo wee.
What if Deaf peoples are on the channel with hands by sign language? It’s not bother but it’s can’t help it. How you know to explain to them. Can’t be ingro. They must understand how to feeling about deaf peoples with hands? 👍😊🤟🏽😘🖤💜📱
Diane Fields I adore you Diane!!! You know I’m very expressive with my hands and especially when I’m excited about a topic. I wish I still remembered ASL or I would sign too! Lol
Gosh I love your commentary for real, and I love how you talk w your hands. Really feels like you're talking to a close friend, and btw I love your earrings always
Thank you Alex🖤
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Who is Nikki? What to say about her? 👍😊😘🤟🏽🖤📱
Diane Fields NikkieTutorials came out as being a Transgendered woman
TBH my jaw hit the floor because it never entered my mind. It has ZERO bearing on my love for Nikkie because she's fun and talented. I'm a strange person because when I meet people, I don't think about their genitalia or who they're attracted to. I also don't care what color pill you choose-red or blue, who or what you believe in or how much of anything you have. I care about the kind of human being you are. The content of your character. I also think ALL sides need to be tolerant of each other. I'm happily 56 so I have had to be educated A LOT to keep up with all the changes our society has gone through. When I was a kid, there was a trans lady in our village. No one really talked about it, outloud at least. It was whispers and stares. This was the early 70s. Same with gay people. Only by asking honest questions and being lucky enough to have been given straight answers, by EDUCATING MYSELF, did I change the way I saw things. People fear what they don't understand. Asking questions doesn't make you phobic, it means your actually trying to learn something. The more you know 😉
I definitely agree. A lot has changed even from the 90’s! And I’m into it!
I only found your channel today and I'm liviiiing for you. You're amazing! Talk with those hands lady!!
Shout out to youtube recommendations for getting one right. 💜
This! Glad you're out here!
It was a surprise but I also commented."You Slay Girl! Just keep on slayin!"
NEECE
I didn’t even notice your hands, I’m too busy focusing on how much you look like a goddess!!!
Thank u gurl, been waiting for u to make a video on this💯💕💘😍
It’s JB from Deity’s livestream, I just wanted to say your style is everything 😍 And I love this video by the way, the Nikkie situation really bothered me!
Hey girl hey! Yeah my heart was bleeding only for a second for her because though someone was blackmailing her, she was so happy and feeling like the weight of the world was off her shoulders. Ps during the livestream I was editing this video and at work haha that’s why towards the end I wasn’t talking much just listening
People get labeled as transphobic and shit constantly. Hell, my partner is only attracted to transgender women but they have to call themselves asexual as there is no label for this, mainly because of A) people crying wolf and B) too many people fetishizing us. Our communities aren’t really communities anymore, we’re pitted against each other anymore. I tried to post something explaining how gender fluid isn’t a thing, and this SJW who believes age play/regression is pedophelia told me “Well how do you explain DID/MPD?” Honestly, the conversations surrounding us have left me with no hope for humanity anymore.
New subscriber, love you're channel.
I just wanted to add to this discussion, I honestly didn't hear her say that she didn't tall her bf, I heard she didn't tell him until they wanted to take their relationship to a sexual one. I could be wrong but I would need to go back and watch the original video
Move them hands girl
I'm so sorry that you've experienced these idiots telling you how to act, I like the talking of hands! I feel so sorry for Nikki being outted while not being ready. On an unrelated topic I love that you have Pokemon gym badges on your shelf! *_*
Hahaha you clocked the badges!?
@@MarieMunsterful Hell yes! :D ♥
I love the way you talk! I feel like you might live in the same area as me because you have a very similar dialect and accent as me and the people that live around here. And I talk with my hands as well. 💜
Just don’t say the era out loud.. it will date us hahaha
Makes me feel good to see people from our "era" (lol yikes) online contextualizing this stuff for the zoomers and boomers... We were socially connecting on the internets bf boomers/gen x'ers could figure out dial up, and before zoomers were born/outta diapers. To summarize...
Education > Cancellation.
Ignorance =/= Hate or Bigotry.
Shunning humans doesn't fix shit.
I usually ask pitchforkers this "what matters more? Your convictions or your ego? Bc if it's not the latter, then patience and education should be the go-to answer."
I kinda felt that in her voice
I figured something was up
But other wise she's fire tho regardless 😻
Omg, just gotta say that necklace is glorious