@@sharleenkmar2237 this is the internet. Get over it. People can spend their time doing what they want, watching what they want and saying what they want.
@@sharleenkmar2237 and he is not wrong lol. If you're gonna be making polarizing jokes at the expense of certain communities then at least make it funny.
Oh man! We dont share a bathroom, bedroom or closet! And it's the happiest we both have been. It's really about a comfort zone. If someone likes to share it all, so be it. But every couple should find their own comfort zone and not depend on some age old customs and traditions. As long as the 2 people are happy, nothing else should matter.
Priscilla Amal Hey if it’s isn’t broke don’t fix it but I draw the line at different blankets (mostly cause I like to completely wrap myself in mine) but other than that we’ve been sharing the same bathroom, bedroom and bed for the past ten years.
@@amalzuhair4495 Like I said, to each couple, their own. My point is, they shouldn't force themselves to follow customs, just because someone said it a million years ago. We tried the traditional way, didn't work out because we have completely different body clocks and sleeping schedules. Lol...yes I have gotten a few stares along the way when I mention "twin beds" or "different blankets". At the end of the day, it is just convenient.
My friend has been attending so many 'Indian' weddings his whole life, that after he married his gf in a court marriage he told me, "This doesn't feel like we are married". The traditional shit is real here.
LILY'S ISN'T FREE: Had to return here to comment. Lilly, may be when you do away with make up and fake eyelashes you can complain about sexism. You use every bit of what women who are getting married do. Except you do it everyday. A new outfit everyday, make up, hair, fake eyelashes, lipstick....stop that first, and then may be talk about anything. Its just sad how wrong these are. (very aware that studios make you do much of this stuff, but sweetie, you are not that FREE, are you??????
@@amazon6856 I don't really get your point. Are you implying unmarried women should not be spending money on clothes, makeup, 'eyelashes' etc? What? She literally makes and spends her own money, and does it in a boss way to boot. Also if that is why you think women should get married, then that is just sad my dude.
Once when I was a kid, I was pressured by a bunch of people at a wedding to participate in the bouquet catch because... I don't know. Apparently being 10 was "close enough" to a marrying age. 🤢 So then when I caught the bouquet, the women who had pressured me to participate were so angry - as in, they were angry-crying or acting really catty toward me. One of the women legitimately snapped at me by saying, "YOU WEREN'T SUPPOSED TO ACTUALLY CATCH IT." I was an emotional kid and ended up apologizing profusely because I felt bad about how infuriated they were, even though I didn't understand why they were so mad. Now, at 26? I'm just baffled by that memory. Like, were those women okay...?
Oh man, that sucks! I was sort of on the opposite end of that awhile ago when I was 22. My friend was a second-grade teacher, and several of her students attended, and they were very excited about getting to be in the bouquet toss. It was so weird that us young adults were outnumbered by 8 year olds, lol. Anyway, I ended up catching it simultaneously with a kid. She was excited, and I was "meh" about it, and I kinda thought she might've slightly beat me to it. I didn't want it, and she did, but everyone insisted that I should have it. I felt so awkward.
@@katyscott87 That's such a wonderful story! I'm so glad the kid got the flowers that she wanted. It's very kind of you. 😊💕 That wedding sounds like it was a lot of fun. It sucks that everyone weirdly wanted you to be the one to have it, though. In the end, they're just flowers!
Jeez that sucks! I empathize; every wedding I ever went to growing up had my mom and aunts just saying the most hurtful, rude things about the bride behind her back then smiling big to her face; now they wonder why I never want to get married!!
Anyone who is a Lilly's fan, and I have been ever since Seven Types of Teachers, remembers that wedding. She was already living in L.A. She flew back. She video taped some it but I remember her in a car and talking about how she was not going to one part of the wedding. You can watch it you if you go to her vlogs. I think it was three to four years ago. Or maybe longer. ...
so basically saying, 'money is everything.' he will be crying and running away if the woman he marries turns into a man she has complained about "i make more money than you'. if this is her attitude and not companionship and togetherness, he may not cry then, but later for sure.
@@ranjitsreeram a bad one at that...I mean what she is doing is not 'just a joke' she is also trying to establish some norms and ways of thinking. having said that....her youtube was much better than this. This is not that funny and definitely not intelligent.
@Amna S It's a sweet little cultural tradition, but its not mandatory as she makes it sound to be, and most people skip the part even here in India, mostly due to practical reasons like logistics, costs and time. And take it from me, no bride in India cries nowadays, let alone those in countries like Canada, US.
I really don't get why there's so much hate against Lilly... she's doing a pretty good job, she's not perfect, but she can improve and just like we all did and do, she started from somewhere and she'll get better with time, nobody is perfect since the beginning and nobody gets to be perfect anyway. Keep going Lilly, you have a lot of potential.
it's racism. seriously. Some youtubers that make "reaction videos" made them about Lilly and she joked about white men (and they are also white men) they shat themselves. pretty disgusting
First of all I have watched several reviews done by non white guys, so you are lying. 2nd of all white guys cant have a view without it being racist? 3rd of all Lilly is the one that says racial bs non stop, do you sound dumb af accusing the other side being racist.
It’s simply because she’s not funny. People like original comedy. “I’m a brown, bi woman and hate white people” gets old real quick. Her timing and delivery is also horrible.
Omfg! Same! It's insane how they've convinced me I'M the crazy one because I don't like the concept of 'giving your daughter away', and everyone makes a joke out of it. If you giving her away why the fuck you having her in the first place? 😂 Taking surnames and living with your in laws (not always but most desi brides do) its just something I was never able to see me doing for myself but God forbid I ever deviate from the norm. Glad to know I'm not alone too, sorry this was so long 😂
My husband and I nixed a ton of these “traditions” because they are so weird, no bouquet toss, no gater, we made the vows our own. Was funny though her hot takes on marriage was more hot takes on weddings 😂
I wholeheartedly agree with that suggestion of both parents walking the bride down the aisle. When I do get married, that's going to be a part of the ceremony.
I especially hate when they say "I now pronounce you man and wife". Like here's a man, and then here's his property. God, it's disgusting. What's so painful about "husband and wife"??? Or man and woman? MAKE IT EVEN.
Only if you have a really weak mind and ego you get worked up about words like that. No man who is right in his mind to begin with, will turn into a possesive monster because someone said "man and wife". The snowflake is strong here. You just want to be upset about some shit.
@Sky Dome "originally" women where never meant to be proberty to begin with and most people, especially in western countrys who get married THESE DAYS know this. Humans during the course of history messed that up. I was talking about SJW´s freaking out about a phrasing that doesnt really do any harm here but the little feminazi in them just cant help it. Bye.
and when your future husband has to ask your father's permission/blessing. and your father has to walk you down the isle to give you another man? :D you may kiss the bride? why not you may kiss the groom? and don't get me started about taking your husband's last name, and also giving it to your children. and let's say your husband's name is Tom Smith. you're not just Mrs. Barbara Williams, you are Mrs. Tom Smith. they basically make women disappear :D
Don't worry sleeping Cindy nobody will kiss you to wake you up. It is simply not worth the feminist heartache and poison. I will gladly hitch my wagon with a woman, a real woman who is ok with the program. Enjoy the cats and tea parties alone, or just well, grow up.,,
@@hydjrasierra1557 good luck getting a girl after saying dumb shit like "feminist heartache and poison" if you want a slave, I have bad news: slavery is over. which is too bad for you because no one will ever be with you willingly. no one normal at least. enjoy being friendzoned for the rest of your pitiful life. and don't forget to join incels, you will meet your soulmates there.
Apparently we’re possessions of the men. I don’t like the idea at all. If it didn’t cost a fuck ton of money I would get my surname changed to a non-patriarchal one. Maybe even make one up for myself.
@@an_impasse Firstly it doesn't take a fuck ton of money to change your name. Secondly if you want to deny yourself an identity to be a robot type non gender non entity "individual" you know thats actually dystopian and dysfunctional, right?
I love her but some times she shows off too much like with the money thing. Idk I don't really find it funny because she's bragging about stuff all the time.
Even Raksha Bandhan seems a bit sexist to me. Instead of teaching children that women need to be protected how about we teach them to respect each other.
Hi Soumya: Read this article to learn more about your own culture and step away from what colonial forces taught you. To first stay away from reading and understanding your culture and then to hate it by seeing everything through the eyes of westerners. Read, re-read: shaktitva.org/blog/festivals/rakshabandhan-whose-protection and if you incorporate some of this, then learn more about Indian traditions and move way from hating your own culture and ancestors. Thankyou.
@@amazon6856 The story seems correct..but not many are aware of it and they still think of women as a weaker gender that needs constant male protection.Thus the story must be told before tying the rakhi itself.I also don't agree with the woman of the house applying vermilion on a man's forehead before leaving for war.
@@pranalih8215 well, now you know. You can tell the story rather than say that this festival is not equal. Also, please tell why do you not agree with women applying vermillion to men? And let us not forget, women are weaker (not emotionally but physically. That is how nature designed them. so the protection part has some of that understanding. Men need emotional support, and women definitely physical. Stop getting mad at what nature decided. It was not you or I who decided what role goes to whom? Since women bear children, they also play a much bigger civilizaitonal role. In countries where that is removed you start to see emotional and psychological issues. Does not happen right away but starts after a few generations.
@Sky Dome Agreed. Women are always looking for special rules and regulations. In europe they are working on giving special days for PMS and during those special days. When women were asked not to enter kitchen during those days, for obvious reasons, stupid women said, 'its inequality'. and went against their own well being
@Sky Dome Funny---here is a 'break' in your understanding. There are places and countries that are ...as we speak, deciding to give women off during the days they bleed. Well, good right. because many have it hard, it is difficult to work. Not entering the kitchen was the same thing. INSTEAD THAT TIME WAS USED TO REST AND REJUVENATE, REFLECT EVEN. now it can rub you the wrong way because you have not understood it or thought about --here a friend shared this....and there are other books on the subject. Don't assume that it other cultures did not have knowledge or understanding of human body. Now after you have read this or similar books....should you hold an opinion....thanks www.amazon.in/gp/product/9386473461/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i0
ALLWLS is just intelligent quirky weird funny fun. We need that in Late Night 2023 and beyond. In the meantime keep giving us these re-runs! Thank you! Gracias!😂😂😂
I was a bridesmaid this summer for a wedding, the bride and groom wanted their wedding to be very untraditional, so both of them were escorted down the aisle, her with her parents and him with his mom and grandma (the "parents" in his life) and instead of "you may now kiss the bride" it was "you may seal your promise with a kiss". Was definitely taking notes !
LILY'S ISN'T FREE: Had to return here to comment. Lilly, may be when you do away with make up and fake eyelashes you can complain about sexism. You use every bit of what women who are getting married do. Except you do it everyday. A new outfit everyday, make up, hair, fake eyelashes, lipstick....stop that first, and then may be talk about anything. Its just sad how wrong these are. (very aware that studios make you do much of this stuff, but sweetie, you are not that FREE, are you??????
I love this so much and feel the SAME WAY! There are so many wedding traditions that don't hold the same significance to us as they did when our parents were getting married and need to be fine tuned and changed to better cater towards the bride, groom, and guests! And your last comment slayyyyyyed me! I love when you have those BAWSE moments because you're always so humble and down to earth, but OWN your success and keep letting it rip!!!!
On our wedding, when it came time for the bouquet tossing, I grabbed the mic and told everyone that I’m changing the tradition - I made all women - young and old, married and single to participate and the girl who caught the bouquet received a gift bag with cosmetics 😀
All the traditions and rituals she talked about as Indian wedding are actually Punjabi wedding. Indian weddings are very diverse, one can't generalise them. But of course, it was funny as always. Go Lilly ❤️
Yep, I had a traditional tambram wedding in Bangalore. Basically the priest doesn’t even address the bride. I think because it traditionally stems from a trading child marriage. You can guess how much, I, a progressive Singaporean woman, loved that.
When my aunt was getting married and her husband was taking her away, she started laughing and whispering "i am OUT of here" ... So they had to take her to the bathroom and put water near her eyes so that it would look like she was crying... Thr sacrifices we make...
In Brazil there are already some brides that walk down the aisle with both their parents. I've seen some walking with just their moms too. I 100% believe that if it's YOUR wedding, you're allowed to do whatever you want
I don't know why so many people are obsessed with hating Lilly, and I don't want to know. What I do know, is that Lilly is keeping me mostlysane for a long time now. 👑💯
LILY'S ISN'T FREE: Had to return here to comment. Lilly, may be when you do away with make up and fake eyelashes you can complain about sexism. You use every bit of what women who are getting married do. Except you do it everyday. A new outfit everyday, make up, hair, fake eyelashes, lipstick....stop that first, and then may be talk about anything. Its just sad how wrong these are. (very aware that studios make you do much of this stuff, but sweetie, you are not that FREE, are you??????
Lots of families include the women during the Milni now. Plus, no one I know in my family considers the dolhi the bride becoming apart of the grooms family anymore. Now it’s just considered like “you’re married. Time to go to the house you’re going to be living in to meet his family.” It’s not like a passing of ownership anymore. Things can have a poor origin but it’s also what you make of it. Plus, most brides genuinely cry when they are leaving the house because usually it’s the first time they are leaving home. If they aren’t that emotional they just keep their eyes downcast and lots of brides now-a-day’s simply just be happy they are married. I just felt like a needed to clear that up cuz I feel as if she was slightly misrepresenting it in today’s day and age. Don’t get me wrong though, so people do it that way but it’s not common and it’s just not seen that way anymore.
"Let's be real. He won't be crying when I take him away from his parent' home in a Tesla".. Well, she can also break that tradition with a woman because she can definitely take me anywhere she wants and I won't be crying either 😁
I love Lilly I mean m watching her videos from 2012 but honestly leaving a few episodes am not liking the show at all not because the concept isn't nice. But because it's shown on Lilly's face every episode the fear of what if it doesn't work out and she is trying way to hard where it's becoming cringgy 🥺🥺🥺
why does she keep saying "indian" ...these are all punjabi traditions.....india is a diverse place with many cultures and languages. looks like lilly is trying to appeal to the hindu state by homogenizing the region and erasing diversity
Why is Lilly acting like these girls don’t wanna get married and be poked and prodded for hours and be placed in the middle of the room so everyone they asked to attend the wedding can say that it was beautiful? Almost every wedding I’ve been to, the bride and groom/bride and bride (I’ve yet to be asked to two men’s wedding, I’m hoping for you friends 🥰) are completely happy and content and actually want to look good. It is their day, not just the brides but both. They’re not signing their life away, yes weddings used to be really sexist but we live in the 21st century right now. Yeah, this happens in other countries, but she's talking about America and Canada??? Calm the hell down, Lilly. If you don’t wanna get married you don’t have to. How about caring about all of the bullshit laws that Trump and his team has passed taking away women’s and LGBT+ rights instead of being fake woke?!
ummm america and canada are full of immigrants. so yes, those weird weddings do occur here. maybe go beyond your circle or acknowedge that the world is not just about what YOU expereince
This is why you need to get a Stedman. We are not doing the garter thing at my wedding. I can’t even believe that’s a tradition, but I guess I shouldn’t be surprised. We will do the bouquet toss, though.
Talk about an Arab tradition when groom's men will actually steal the bride and take her somewhere until she cries!!! I was at a wedding in the US that did this, bride wasn't crying but was visibly frustrated because she didn't expect this!!
Why is every comment in every comment section like y’all need to chill the eff out use this comment to spread positivity also if you don’t like her and anything got to do with her leave her page if you go to someone’s page channel or show etc you don’t have a life and instead of hating on them you could leave constructive criticism to help improve it that will make you wanna watch it you don’t have to spread hate and negativity
OF YOU LIKE THE SHOW OR IF YOU DON’T JUST READ THIS WHOLE THING : leaving constructive criticism will help not hateful comments for this show to improve obviously it’s not the best yet and neither is anything else there’s many things that could be improved but we all need to support it and leave feedback so it improves of this show succeeds it’s paving a path for so many other people and is the type of representation we should see on TV movies and etc Pope should be able to relate to or hear another perspective and she mentions being a ‘bisexual woman of colour’ because she is that and sometimes her opinion or her experience has got to do with that and I personally can relate to what she says and I’m sure other people can too for example not moving out until your married and that’s a typical Indian thing so why should she mention it if it’s happened also just because your experience isn’t the same as someone else’s doesn’t mean it’s not valid it still happened to them and if your leaving a hate comment it’s got to do with you not Lilly it just means you don’t have a life and better things to do and is just stupid rude and just a waste of time hating on someone
"That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh." Genesis chapter 2, verse 24 (New International Version) Ima just leave that there for y'all.
Lilly, You need to have a great family marriage belgian psychologist on your show. She is a consultant on a show called the Affair. She is just great!! Her name is Esther Perel
My wife said.. and I quote... "I promise to love, honor, and o... wait, what? Ain't gonna be no 'obeying' of nothing here, got that? Mmmmhm."
And you still married her? You're the man!!😘
Lol 😂😂
And that’s when you knew she’s the one.
Keeper!
She sounds black
"I'm probably gonna be making all the money anyways" AHAHAHQHAHAHAHAHA
The comedy standards around here are rock bottom
@@dylanvlogs4303 then why are you watching
@@sharleenkmar2237 Because people can watch whatever they want
@@sharleenkmar2237 this is the internet. Get over it. People can spend their time doing what they want, watching what they want and saying what they want.
@@sharleenkmar2237 and he is not wrong lol. If you're gonna be making polarizing jokes at the expense of certain communities then at least make it funny.
This is my favorite part of the show brings me back to the old rants
i heard someone say having separate bathrooms is the best thing if you want a good marriage😂
Saba Sadia I don’t think that’s right we
Oh man! We dont share a bathroom, bedroom or closet! And it's the happiest we both have been. It's really about a comfort zone. If someone likes to share it all, so be it. But every couple should find their own comfort zone and not depend on some age old customs and traditions. As long as the 2 people are happy, nothing else should matter.
Priscilla Amal Hey if it’s isn’t broke don’t fix it but I draw the line at different blankets (mostly cause I like to completely wrap myself in mine) but other than that we’ve been sharing the same bathroom, bedroom and bed for the past ten years.
Saba Sadia it was a decent joke with a TERRIBLE delivery. Her show is getting cancelled soon. You can bet on it.
@@amalzuhair4495 Like I said, to each couple, their own. My point is, they shouldn't force themselves to follow customs, just because someone said it a million years ago. We tried the traditional way, didn't work out because we have completely different body clocks and sleeping schedules. Lol...yes I have gotten a few stares along the way when I mention "twin beds" or "different blankets". At the end of the day, it is just convenient.
My friend has been attending so many 'Indian' weddings his whole life, that after he married his gf in a court marriage he told me, "This doesn't feel like we are married". The traditional shit is real here.
It doesn't feel real because you've never experienced a wedding like this. Indian weddings are festive, no need to be traditional to be festive.
wedding day is a brides day is like saying that thanksgiving is a turkey's meal 😂😂 .... *GENIUS*
LILY'S ISN'T FREE: Had to return here to comment. Lilly, may be when you do away with make up and fake eyelashes you can complain about sexism. You use every bit of what women who are getting married do. Except you do it everyday. A new outfit everyday, make up, hair, fake eyelashes, lipstick....stop that first, and then may be talk about anything. Its just sad how wrong these are. (very aware that studios make you do much of this stuff, but sweetie, you are not that FREE, are you??????
@@amazon6856 what? it doesn't make any sense what you are saying. 🙄
@Brad Childress it's like before you sacrifice an animal in front of a deity, you have to give it lots of food it'll find delicious.
except it literally makes no sense.
@@amazon6856 I don't really get your point. Are you implying unmarried women should not be spending money on clothes, makeup, 'eyelashes' etc? What?
She literally makes and spends her own money, and does it in a boss way to boot.
Also if that is why you think women should get married, then that is just sad my dude.
Once when I was a kid, I was pressured by a bunch of people at a wedding to participate in the bouquet catch because... I don't know. Apparently being 10 was "close enough" to a marrying age. 🤢 So then when I caught the bouquet, the women who had pressured me to participate were so angry - as in, they were angry-crying or acting really catty toward me. One of the women legitimately snapped at me by saying, "YOU WEREN'T SUPPOSED TO ACTUALLY CATCH IT."
I was an emotional kid and ended up apologizing profusely because I felt bad about how infuriated they were, even though I didn't understand why they were so mad. Now, at 26? I'm just baffled by that memory. Like, were those women okay...?
Oh man, that sucks!
I was sort of on the opposite end of that awhile ago when I was 22. My friend was a second-grade teacher, and several of her students attended, and they were very excited about getting to be in the bouquet toss. It was so weird that us young adults were outnumbered by 8 year olds, lol. Anyway, I ended up catching it simultaneously with a kid. She was excited, and I was "meh" about it, and I kinda thought she might've slightly beat me to it. I didn't want it, and she did, but everyone insisted that I should have it. I felt so awkward.
@@katyscott87 That's such a wonderful story! I'm so glad the kid got the flowers that she wanted. It's very kind of you. 😊💕 That wedding sounds like it was a lot of fun. It sucks that everyone weirdly wanted you to be the one to have it, though. In the end, they're just flowers!
Girl don't worry about it. Those women clearly have issues. Probably why I don't even talk to my relatives.
Jeez that sucks! I empathize; every wedding I ever went to growing up had my mom and aunts just saying the most hurtful, rude things about the bride behind her back then smiling big to her face; now they wonder why I never want to get married!!
Girl what the fuck hahshaha
Can't believe it has already been a month since lilly started her show.
im waiting for the day it ends
@@jasonlimweizen get out hater
@@Berries20 no u
Jason Lim Wei Zen damn you must be free all the time
@@kaenatyasa3997 you must have a lotta freetime if you spend time watching this garbage.
Lilly dancing like a 6 year old at 3:40 xD
*I died* xD xD
Literally!!! That was way accurate
A woman at my mum’s wedding literally TACKLED me to grab bouquet!
And yes the garter belt thing in front of the family and KIDS is awkward 🤢
Lol. I'm sorry I find this funny 😂
At my cousins wedding the groom did that while let’s get it on by Marvin Gaye was playing and I am pretty sure the kids are still traumatized
I'm glad I've never seen that tradition in any weddings I been to. And yeah they're christian weddings but it's just not a thing here
@@samanthasanchez9925 I think you are the one thats traumatized FOR the kids lol, don't think the kids will have cared at all...
@@DatCrazyOokamii I had a Christian wedding and had a tasteful garter toss. It can be done.
Anyone who is a Lilly's fan, and I have been ever since Seven Types of Teachers, remembers that wedding.
She was already living in L.A. She flew back. She video taped some it but I remember her in a car and talking about how she was not going to one part of the wedding. You can watch it you if you go to her vlogs. I think it was three to four years ago. Or maybe longer. ...
6 years I think
"Let's be real. He won't be crying when I drive him away from his parents' house in my Tesla."
He, for sure, won't😏
so basically saying, 'money is everything.' he will be crying and running away if the woman he marries turns into a man she has complained about "i make more money than you'. if this is her attitude and not companionship and togetherness, he may not cry then, but later for sure.
@@amazon6856 That was a joke!
Kid, when you grow up. You will realise that Lily is just a big old meme.
@@jasonlimweizen jokes on you, I'm a big old meme too.
@@ranjitsreeram a bad one at that...I mean what she is doing is not 'just a joke' she is also trying to establish some norms and ways of thinking. having said that....her youtube was much better than this. This is not that funny and definitely not intelligent.
"Adult talent show that nobody asked for"
Gah, I couldn't agree more!
imagine smiling to that for continuously for 1 hour. haha lol
I've never sat through a single one. And never will since planning on dying alone
we still never heard how lilly boycotted her friend’s wedding
She mentioned this in a vlog.
She left the wedding halfway through after the vows and didn't attend the Doli ceremony
@Jaya Two yeah me too!
@Amna S It's a sweet little cultural tradition, but its not mandatory as she makes it sound to be, and most people skip the part even here in India, mostly due to practical reasons like logistics, costs and time. And take it from me, no bride in India cries nowadays, let alone those in countries like Canada, US.
@@DurgeshSirwani Exactly
@@DurgeshSirwani I have never seen a bride leaving her parents without crying. Even parents cried too.. you probably leaving in a hella rich society
I really don't get why there's so much hate against Lilly... she's doing a pretty good job, she's not perfect, but she can improve and just like we all did and do, she started from somewhere and she'll get better with time, nobody is perfect since the beginning and nobody gets to be perfect anyway.
Keep going Lilly, you have a lot of potential.
it's racism. seriously. Some youtubers that make "reaction videos" made them about Lilly and she joked about white men (and they are also white men) they shat themselves. pretty disgusting
First of all I have watched several reviews done by non white guys, so you are lying. 2nd of all white guys cant have a view without it being racist? 3rd of all Lilly is the one that says racial bs non stop, do you sound dumb af accusing the other side being racist.
You're just pathetic 😂😂😂
It’s simply because she’s not funny. People like original comedy. “I’m a brown, bi woman and hate white people” gets old real quick.
Her timing and delivery is also horrible.
Yepp - and while you are at the apprentice stage, you should only get an apprentice's slot
I literally have been struggling with these thoughts and my family thinks I'm crazy, glad to know I'm not alone
Omfg! Same! It's insane how they've convinced me I'M the crazy one because I don't like the concept of 'giving your daughter away', and everyone makes a joke out of it. If you giving her away why the fuck you having her in the first place? 😂
Taking surnames and living with your in laws (not always but most desi brides do) its just something I was never able to see me doing for myself but God forbid I ever deviate from the norm. Glad to know I'm not alone too, sorry this was so long 😂
My husband and I nixed a ton of these “traditions” because they are so weird, no bouquet toss, no gater, we made the vows our own.
Was funny though her hot takes on marriage was more hot takes on weddings 😂
"He probably won't be crying when I drive away with him in my Tesla" AHAHAHAAHHAHAHAHH
I love Lilly with every passing moment! Loved that line " I am anyways going to make all that money" and also the Tesla joke
I wholeheartedly agree with that suggestion of both parents walking the bride down the aisle. When I do get married, that's going to be a part of the ceremony.
"-Previously on "A Little Late with Lilly Singh"..."
Yes, please! It's so dramatic, I need more of that.
I especially hate when they say "I now pronounce you man and wife". Like here's a man, and then here's his property. God, it's disgusting. What's so painful about "husband and wife"??? Or man and woman? MAKE IT EVEN.
Like bro wasn't a man before he got married?? Someone ordained needs to pronounce that for him on his wedding day?
he your man and your his wife, absolutely nothing wrong with it.
Only if you have a really weak mind and ego you get worked up about words like that. No man who is right in his mind to begin with, will turn into a possesive monster because someone said "man and wife". The snowflake is strong here. You just want to be upset about some shit.
@@calista8822 Lily would lmao
@Sky Dome "originally" women where never meant to be proberty to begin with and most people, especially in western countrys who get married THESE DAYS know this. Humans during the course of history messed that up. I was talking about SJW´s freaking out about a phrasing that doesnt really do any harm here but the little feminazi in them just cant help it. Bye.
When the around went:
"WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO"
I felt that
same, i vomited
Ah have had these thoughts , love to know someone else out there feels the same way, I'm not the only one. Thanks Lil. 🌸
♥️
WOAHHH..LILLY JUSTTT ROCKED THIS MONOLOGUE
and when your future husband has to ask your father's permission/blessing.
and your father has to walk you down the isle to give you another man? :D
you may kiss the bride? why not you may kiss the groom?
and don't get me started about taking your husband's last name, and also giving it to your children.
and let's say your husband's name is Tom Smith. you're not just Mrs. Barbara Williams, you are Mrs. Tom Smith.
they basically make women disappear :D
So true!!!
Don't worry sleeping Cindy nobody will kiss you to wake you up. It is simply not worth the feminist heartache and poison. I will gladly hitch my wagon with a woman, a real woman who is ok with the program. Enjoy the cats and tea parties alone, or just well, grow up.,,
@@hydjrasierra1557 good luck getting a girl after saying dumb shit like "feminist heartache and poison"
if you want a slave, I have bad news: slavery is over. which is too bad for you because no one will ever be with you willingly. no one normal at least.
enjoy being friendzoned for the rest of your pitiful life. and don't forget to join incels, you will meet your soulmates there.
Apparently we’re possessions of the men. I don’t like the idea at all. If it didn’t cost a fuck ton of money I would get my surname changed to a non-patriarchal one. Maybe even make one up for myself.
@@an_impasse Firstly it doesn't take a fuck ton of money to change your name. Secondly if you want to deny yourself an identity to be a robot type non gender non entity "individual" you know thats actually dystopian and dysfunctional, right?
“... you think I’m gonna stop but I’m not.” CRYING 😭😭
I love her but some times she shows off too much like with the money thing. Idk I don't really find it funny because she's bragging about stuff all the time.
So proud of her!... Lily you are amazing!!
4:50 You stone cold stunnered Denise for that bouquet 😭😭😭💀
she hasn’t made me laugh in so long man
Because she isn't funny
I'm shook Lilly didn't do her Indian accent when she talked abt her parents
" I am probably be making all the money" whoooo that was lit🔥🔥🔥
🙌🙌🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Even Raksha Bandhan seems a bit sexist to me. Instead of teaching children that women need to be protected how about we teach them to respect each other.
Hi Soumya: Read this article to learn more about your own culture and step away from what colonial forces taught you. To first stay away from reading and understanding your culture and then to hate it by seeing everything through the eyes of westerners. Read, re-read: shaktitva.org/blog/festivals/rakshabandhan-whose-protection and if you incorporate some of this, then learn more about Indian traditions and move way from hating your own culture and ancestors. Thankyou.
@@amazon6856 The story seems correct..but not many are aware of it and they still think of women as a weaker gender that needs constant male protection.Thus the story must be told before tying the rakhi itself.I also don't agree with the woman of the house applying vermilion on a man's forehead before leaving for war.
@@pranalih8215 well, now you know. You can tell the story rather than say that this festival is not equal. Also, please tell why do you not agree with women applying vermillion to men? And let us not forget, women are weaker (not emotionally but physically. That is how nature designed them. so the protection part has some of that understanding. Men need emotional support, and women definitely physical. Stop getting mad at what nature decided. It was not you or I who decided what role goes to whom? Since women bear children, they also play a much bigger civilizaitonal role. In countries where that is removed you start to see emotional and psychological issues. Does not happen right away but starts after a few generations.
@Sky Dome Agreed. Women are always looking for special rules and regulations. In europe they are working on giving special days for PMS and during those special days. When women were asked not to enter kitchen during those days, for obvious reasons, stupid women said, 'its inequality'. and went against their own well being
@Sky Dome Funny---here is a 'break' in your understanding. There are places and countries that are ...as we speak, deciding to give women off during the days they bleed. Well, good right. because many have it hard, it is difficult to work. Not entering the kitchen was the same thing. INSTEAD THAT TIME WAS USED TO REST AND REJUVENATE, REFLECT EVEN. now it can rub you the wrong way because you have not understood it or thought about --here a friend shared this....and there are other books on the subject. Don't assume that it other cultures did not have knowledge or understanding of human body. Now after you have read this or similar books....should you hold an opinion....thanks
www.amazon.in/gp/product/9386473461/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i0
ALLWLS is just intelligent quirky weird funny fun. We need that in Late Night 2023 and beyond. In the meantime keep giving us these re-runs! Thank you! Gracias!😂😂😂
Gotten in the element..😹😹
Also that costume is looking fire
I was a bridesmaid this summer for a wedding, the bride and groom wanted their wedding to be very untraditional, so both of them were escorted down the aisle, her with her parents and him with his mom and grandma (the "parents" in his life) and instead of "you may now kiss the bride" it was "you may seal your promise with a kiss". Was definitely taking notes !
She didnt boycott, she just didnt go...and no one cared.
A comment for no apparent reason, just to stumble upon 2+ years from now:
I was here all along. Proud of Lilly.
LILY'S ISN'T FREE: Had to return here to comment. Lilly, may be when you do away with make up and fake eyelashes you can complain about sexism. You use every bit of what women who are getting married do. Except you do it everyday. A new outfit everyday, make up, hair, fake eyelashes, lipstick....stop that first, and then may be talk about anything. Its just sad how wrong these are. (very aware that studios make you do much of this stuff, but sweetie, you are not that FREE, are you??????
I love this so much and feel the SAME WAY! There are so many wedding traditions that don't hold the same significance to us as they did when our parents were getting married and need to be fine tuned and changed to better cater towards the bride, groom, and guests! And your last comment slayyyyyyed me! I love when you have those BAWSE moments because you're always so humble and down to earth, but OWN your success and keep letting it rip!!!!
On our wedding, when it came time for the bouquet tossing, I grabbed the mic and told everyone that I’m changing the tradition - I made all women - young and old, married and single to participate and the girl who caught the bouquet received a gift bag with cosmetics 😀
Cool
I always wondered why it says
" it's the bride's day" on Weddings... Like as if the men doesnt have his biggest day of his life too...
Exactly.
I've always thought grooms are sort of left out/abandoned at weddings.
They should be made a fuss of too.
ok that crying tradition pls nail it down XD
All the traditions and rituals she talked about as Indian wedding are actually Punjabi wedding. Indian weddings are very diverse, one can't generalise them. But of course, it was funny as always. Go Lilly ❤️
Yep, I had a traditional tambram wedding in Bangalore. Basically the priest doesn’t even address the bride. I think because it traditionally stems from a trading child marriage. You can guess how much, I, a progressive Singaporean woman, loved that.
@@lilacfunk that's so weird. Every village has some unique rituals related to not only wedding but other occasions as well.
Ladies sangeet, milni ( sagai), vidai etc are all part of every north indian(hindu, muslim both) wedding not just punjabi.
Her energy reminds me of the early seasons of Ellen.
I LOVE this video. And the intro too, with all the quotes! Especially the quote at 0:56.
When my aunt was getting married and her husband was taking her away, she started laughing and whispering "i am OUT of here" ... So they had to take her to the bathroom and put water near her eyes so that it would look like she was crying... Thr sacrifices we make...
😂😂😂😂😂dying
It amazes me that this show still is making new episodes
I don't know why people hate this program so much I think it's great it's always good for I need to fall asleep
I love the music in the beginning and the end
In Brazil there are already some brides that walk down the aisle with both their parents. I've seen some walking with just their moms too. I 100% believe that if it's YOUR wedding, you're allowed to do whatever you want
Lilly is literally the most adorable yet most slaying personality.
she has the personality of a bland cabbage
@@jasonlimweizen you have the comment that may get you featured in another episode where she does the hater's comments!!! Congratulations 👍
@@drishtimukherjee7625YAY
@@jasonlimweizen :p
Okay your outfits and style are so good ❤❤❤
The last part thooo!!😜❤🔥🔥
THE DRAMA! Love it 😹😹😹
Also I think the garter moment is pretty fun 💁😆😜
I love the openings to her show! always really funny
6:16 I cringed so hard
i vomited
Euw that face was so ugly. Puke puke puke
Actually... she not expected to cry. She and her family cry naturally because of how emotional it is.
Oh, this is comedy gold! 🤦♀️😂
We have the same tradition in Mozambique. It is the day where you have to officially move out and it happens on the last day of the wedding.
So well said
That's how it's always done! If I had a penny for everytime I heard this!
I don't know why so many people are obsessed with hating Lilly, and I don't want to know. What I do know, is that Lilly is keeping me mostlysane for a long time now. 👑💯
LILY'S ISN'T FREE: Had to return here to comment. Lilly, may be when you do away with make up and fake eyelashes you can complain about sexism. You use every bit of what women who are getting married do. Except you do it everyday. A new outfit everyday, make up, hair, fake eyelashes, lipstick....stop that first, and then may be talk about anything. Its just sad how wrong these are. (very aware that studios make you do much of this stuff, but sweetie, you are not that FREE, are you??????
@Jo Sephine SO agree with you....
Kids and choreography. Hahahah you think I’m gonna stop but I’m not. 😆
I actually really like this
Lots of families include the women during the Milni now. Plus, no one I know in my family considers the dolhi the bride becoming apart of the grooms family anymore. Now it’s just considered like “you’re married. Time to go to the house you’re going to be living in to meet his family.” It’s not like a passing of ownership anymore. Things can have a poor origin but it’s also what you make of it. Plus, most brides genuinely cry when they are leaving the house because usually it’s the first time they are leaving home. If they aren’t that emotional they just keep their eyes downcast and lots of brides now-a-day’s simply just be happy they are married.
I just felt like a needed to clear that up cuz I feel as if she was slightly misrepresenting it in today’s day and age.
Don’t get me wrong though, so people do it that way but it’s not common and it’s just not seen that way anymore.
3:39 this is astonishingly accurate
"Let's be real. He won't be crying when I take him away from his parent' home in a Tesla".. Well, she can also break that tradition with a woman because she can definitely take me anywhere she wants and I won't be crying either 😁
I love Lilly I mean m watching her videos from 2012 but honestly leaving a few episodes am not liking the show at all not because the concept isn't nice. But because it's shown on Lilly's face every episode the fear of what if it doesn't work out and she is trying way to hard where it's becoming cringgy 🥺🥺🥺
Spitting facts and I'm getting old ranting lilly vibes, refreshing.
in our country both parents walk the bride down the aisle
What country is it?
Audience: *cheers*
Their families: 🏹👻👻👻🔫
Me, a female: Oh shit she’s hot.
Me, a closeted pansexual female: We are not unpacking this today.
why does she keep saying "indian" ...these are all punjabi traditions.....india is a diverse place with many cultures and languages. looks like lilly is trying to appeal to the hindu state by homogenizing the region and erasing diversity
but otherwise good job with the show Lilly. Just had to point that out. I support you otherwise
I will only get married in a grey onesie
love seeing the studio audience having such a good time - and its growing
Lilly Singh is the only host that comes with her own bgm..😂
6:11 YAAASSS GUUUURL 😂👌🏾🔥❤️✅💪🏾🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
Why is Lilly acting like these girls don’t wanna get married and be poked and prodded for hours and be placed in the middle of the room so everyone they asked to attend the wedding can say that it was beautiful? Almost every wedding I’ve been to, the bride and groom/bride and bride (I’ve yet to be asked to two men’s wedding, I’m hoping for you friends 🥰) are completely happy and content and actually want to look good. It is their day, not just the brides but both. They’re not signing their life away, yes weddings used to be really sexist but we live in the 21st century right now. Yeah, this happens in other countries, but she's talking about America and Canada??? Calm the hell down, Lilly. If you don’t wanna get married you don’t have to. How about caring about all of the bullshit laws that Trump and his team has passed taking away women’s and LGBT+ rights instead of being fake woke?!
ummm america and canada are full of immigrants. so yes, those weird weddings do occur here. maybe go beyond your circle or acknowedge that the world is not just about what YOU expereince
This is why you need to get a Stedman. We are not doing the garter thing at my wedding. I can’t even believe that’s a tradition, but I guess I shouldn’t be surprised. We will do the bouquet toss, though.
Talk about an Arab tradition when groom's men will actually steal the bride and take her somewhere until she cries!!! I was at a wedding in the US that did this, bride wasn't crying but was visibly frustrated because she didn't expect this!!
'Indian people out there?'
'Yaaa .... The loudest ones'
She's correct af😂😂
HAHA HASHTSG RELATABLE KILL ME
Her glam photoshoot makes me so awkward. She is our awkward queen.
yea, and unfunny queen.
That dance though 😂😂Accurate
Wow she is so creative
I love Lilly's monologues! I think that's my fav part of the show
I WANT A SEASON 3!!!
So relevant, Lilly!
Your show is refreshing, different, funny and very needed!!! Thank you, keep shutting down the haters who secretly want to be you. 😍
Why is every comment in every comment section like y’all need to chill the eff out use this comment to spread positivity also if you don’t like her and anything got to do with her leave her page if you go to someone’s page channel or show etc you don’t have a life and instead of hating on them you could leave constructive criticism to help improve it that will make you wanna watch it you don’t have to spread hate and negativity
OF YOU LIKE THE SHOW OR IF YOU DON’T JUST READ THIS WHOLE THING : leaving constructive criticism will help not hateful comments for this show to improve obviously it’s not the best yet and neither is anything else there’s many things that could be improved but we all need to support it and leave feedback so it improves of this show succeeds it’s paving a path for so many other people and is the type of representation we should see on TV movies and etc Pope should be able to relate to or hear another perspective and she mentions being a ‘bisexual woman of colour’ because she is that and sometimes her opinion or her experience has got to do with that and I personally can relate to what she says and I’m sure other people can too for example not moving out until your married and that’s a typical Indian thing so why should she mention it if it’s happened also just because your experience isn’t the same as someone else’s doesn’t mean it’s not valid it still happened to them and if your leaving a hate comment it’s got to do with you not Lilly it just means you don’t have a life and better things to do and is just stupid rude and just a waste of time hating on someone
Emotional pressure😂 and I really like your intro music.
"That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh."
Genesis chapter 2, verse 24 (New International Version)
Ima just leave that there for y'all.
Toph’s parent does “that’s how it’s done
Love you Lilly u are my stress reliever.
IM SO EARLYYYY THIS WAS RELEASED 20 MINUTES AGO
I'm reading this 20 minutes later
Books are published. Videos are released.
Mazvita Selemani my bad
i love the intro so much
Was her #1 fan.
Too good❤️
... My brother-in-law didn’t have to pull off my sister’s garter belt with his teeth.
Lilly, You need to have a great family marriage belgian psychologist on your show. She is a consultant on a show called the Affair. She is just great!! Her name is Esther Perel