My Core Understanding Of How To Be Social After 20 Years

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  • @OwenCookFreeTour
    @OwenCookFreeTour  2 роки тому +60

    Transform Your Life with www.blueprintreloaded.com/
    Insanely excited about this video, I shot it in Philadelphia recently and I think this will be a fav for everyone. A lot of O.G. fundamentals that have taken me 20 years to master and understand, laid out in here. This is the original wisdom, laid out in a way that we are able to share here.
    The mirror effort you're seeing in the intro is from the Bonneville Salt Flats, where it had just rained. I was a bit tired when I recorded the intro, because I'd been recording there for a few hours and was pretty spent, but decided "Why not throw on a new intro onto the Philadelphia video before the sun goes down" - and so I did. But I'll have a few FULL videos coming out from there, where the mirror effect looks even a lot crazier.
    Anyway, headed to San Francisco for the free event tomorrow, and Chicago and Dallas / Houston / Austin coming up in September! Running these last few seminars while on the road, and then going to do ACL surgery in December and take some time away from traveling. let me know how you liked the video -Owen

    • @increase8849
      @increase8849 2 роки тому

      Dude both freetours were dope!!!

    • @Wingedmagician
      @Wingedmagician 2 роки тому

      THANK YOU SO MUCH. You speak the language of my soul man no joke

    • @briankelly1817
      @briankelly1817 2 роки тому +1

      That intro was wholly beautiful. Nicely done!

    • @amisonrocky3007
      @amisonrocky3007 2 роки тому +1

      U r awesome Owen, love from India...I have seen ur videos since 2 years how deep insight u have.Most important our" hindu granth "bhagwat geeta message u eloquently spoken about.."freedom from outcome".Ur msg that spiritualism is not escapism but "presence work"and world is staged to test your presence went so deep to me that it filled me with new vigour and enthusiasm is life.Words r short for me to say thanks to u.Mainstream media would never understand what and how much u r doing to mankind for its benefits.I thank God which manifested in u to take out veils of world 🌎"so that we can see truth".Even after knowing thruth u got married further reinforces my belief how much challenge u give to yourself

    • @monetarymusashi5732
      @monetarymusashi5732 Рік тому

      Great speech Owen , really great layout of so many valuable concepts . I really needed this message. Thanks allot

  • @tristandavis6060
    @tristandavis6060 2 роки тому +102

    I am just grateful Owen is still alive. Please don't take Owen for granted guys he won't always be here to give his gift to the world❤️🙏

    • @OwenCookFreeTour
      @OwenCookFreeTour  2 роки тому +60

      Thanks bro, I'm just getting started -Owen

    • @bobthebuilder9416
      @bobthebuilder9416 2 роки тому +4

      Hopefully he will be man. Longevity, health, & anti-aging technology will hopefully improve. Im fine with going out, but im not fine with quitting without at least trying to make it out of the solar system's eventual heat death.

    • @IncredibleMet
      @IncredibleMet 2 роки тому +8

      I wouldn’t worry. We are gonna upload his consciousness to the mainframe and enjoy him forever.
      See you in the Metaverse!

    • @eoh6708
      @eoh6708 Рік тому +6

      @@IncredibleMet I won't be in the Beta verse

    • @jackoboyle7749
      @jackoboyle7749 Рік тому +1

      Thanks to his videos he always will be. God bless him.

  • @aaronbell5994
    @aaronbell5994 2 роки тому +21

    Owen, many years ago, after half a decade of egoic "straight pickup", you were the first person I came out as gay to, and you helped me accept myself at the Omni hotel in Chicago. I've been more relaxed and authentic and have come out everywhere since. Also, I've been severely suicidal for a few years, so hearing people like Jordan Peterson (and Akira the Don) and you talk about depression is really helpful. Thank you.

  • @FrancisTrach
    @FrancisTrach 2 роки тому +59

    They key I've found to building great connections and living the life we actually want. Is having our top value be to move forward and not get stuck on old stagnated energy. When we live into a consistent reality of auto pilot and living into the familiar patterns, there's not much room to be who we REALLY are. When we step out of that shell and start to act in alignment with our ACTUAL values and STOP BELIEVING in the AUTO PILOT programs, that's when everything shifts. Great video Owen ! Thanks for being one of the people that inspires me to post videos every single day : ) Much Love 🙏

  • @lazk4848
    @lazk4848 2 роки тому +50

    Jesus Christ this man is dropping masterclasses with nuanced lessons on psychology, spirituality, game, and critical thinking.
    Can’t thank you enough Owen! This channel has been a light when the world seems dark.

  • @kibreabseyfu2386
    @kibreabseyfu2386 2 роки тому +60

    Wow, your content is timeless. Future generations can watch and apply this. Well done bro

  • @Caryeezy
    @Caryeezy 2 роки тому +30

    I am introverted, or so did I think. Owen's clips motivated me to get out of my comfort zone (firstly it was about meeting girls but he made me see that it's beyond that.. it's about business and LIFE ITSELF!) I try my best to expand wherever I'm at... it's so great... lol getting better at meeting and retaining (naturally) relationships with people, I'm starting to be convinced that I am EXTROVERTED🤣🤣🤣

    • @OwenCookFreeTour
      @OwenCookFreeTour  2 роки тому +6

      Perfect! -Owen

    • @cankaya2412
      @cankaya2412 2 роки тому

      @@OwenCookFreeTour Hi Owen! - CanKaya

    • @cankaya2412
      @cankaya2412 2 роки тому

      @@OwenCookFreeTour Can you come to turkey

    • @DESTRAKON
      @DESTRAKON 2 роки тому

      Well from an evolutionary standpoint people are designed so be social so basically you’re like a clapped out z that just got the motor rebuilt so congrats, keep it up

    • @who_is_dis
      @who_is_dis Рік тому

      Introverted doesn’t mean socially inept. Something a lot of people conflate these days.

  • @stagbeetle195
    @stagbeetle195 2 роки тому +7

    Dude, Owen I've been watching your videos for about a decade & have been to a couple of your live events.
    I gotta say this speech was hittin'.
    It's as pertinent as ever, & your delivery is great, maybe more clear and smooth than ever. You are an inspiration my guy.

    • @superseiyan
      @superseiyan 10 місяців тому

      Does this all apply for older folks 35-45? No longer have access to house parties and not really in the 20s shiny object party girl IG scene.

  • @ThomazCorrea
    @ThomazCorrea 2 роки тому +2

    It is simply unbelieveble that a video with so much value exists on the internet

  • @vancedvanced5682
    @vancedvanced5682 2 роки тому +9

    One of the better Owen speeches (I've watched the first 15 mins so far), really appreciated, it's so much easier for me to get into the right space when there is someone I can mimic.
    Edit: I'm already 5-10 mins away from the end and this video is actually one of the best. Owen doesn't stop exploring different angles with great examples and I kinda prefer diving deep in a few topics rather than so many, because it's easier for me to concentrate and now, by the end, I am feeling fidgety and tired, but the man is relentless. No joke, Owen is on a much higher level than me prob than you too (just assuming), but I tried to follow. I've watched about all of his stuff and there's usually a lot of things that I don't like/agree with about his ways of teaching mainly I find him too manipulative and accepting subordination to social/platform rules and dogmas (I know that in a way he is doing it so that we can keep enjoying whatever we can), but his infields are very helpful if you pay very close attention and dissect them by yourselves. This particular video focuses on stuff that if I were to absorb it would lead to HUGE change in results IMO and I would STRONGLY advise all of you that haven't watched it yet to do so with great interest and focus because it's worth it 100%. I sent it to certain people and I kinda envy them for not having followed Owen or RSD or any of the pick-up/self-help guys and arriving upon such a gem with so little effort. Big thank you, Owen!

  • @sihawumyeni9951
    @sihawumyeni9951 Рік тому +1

    That "I am an opportunity not a sale" line really did take a while to sink in. Here I am today 9 months later finally getting it. WELL DONE MR. COOK, WELL DONE.!

  • @abel_9918
    @abel_9918 2 роки тому +3

    Great speech. Owen is getting better and better at going to the core of those issues. He puts those ideas in plain and simple words, for everybody. Talking about both the practical exemples and the spiritual, philosophical, psychological principles behind them. Our potential to create is scary, and we do look for people or things to obsess over, in order to escape what we could be doing instead.

  • @bagpakpark7097
    @bagpakpark7097 2 роки тому +1

    Owen cussin towards the end with passion. I love it. Get into the burning building and face fears if need be. It is true that most views are on derping/ low level vibration material. Owen keeps preaching this and day by day I see more examples.. crap/poop gets more views than actually things that help many of the times...not always.. always exceptions to rules

  • @adibkahatt219
    @adibkahatt219 2 роки тому +5

    Fuck. I just rewatched this for the third time after a month and i have to say this is the best video ive seen in my entire life. Its amazing how now i am catching up somethings i didnt payed attention earlier. This videos are meant to be rewatched forever.

    • @ifeelhalfnaked484
      @ifeelhalfnaked484 2 роки тому

      on my third time, but i try to refocus sometimes i will stop half way

    • @chocolatewheelchair
      @chocolatewheelchair Рік тому

      Brother if this is the best video you’ve ever seen in your life you need to expand your horizons

  • @eaglelionshark6703
    @eaglelionshark6703 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you Owen for saving my life and making me human

  • @redarrow111
    @redarrow111 2 роки тому

    No better videos has ever been made on this topic by Owen. Psychological assession of the soul. Get the abundance. Thank you.

  • @Mateogon1
    @Mateogon1 2 роки тому +3

    It's amazing how aligned I am with all you said in this video. It arrived just in time. Thanks Owen.

  • @noamdayan8261
    @noamdayan8261 Рік тому

    Owen, I just love you man! you're oozing positivity! you really want to help humanity and I appreciate that!

  • @hootboon5323
    @hootboon5323 7 місяців тому

    55:00 and forward is crazy🎉

  • @komeitakano7976
    @komeitakano7976 11 місяців тому

    This video is very healing for a broken heart. I will comeback after every heartbreak

  • @m.sb.1806
    @m.sb.1806 2 роки тому +2

    The more of Owens videos I see, the more I’m convinced that in due time he will be incredibly impactful and known way beyond the pickup Niche. Also applying these principles have immensely improved my life

    • @OwenCookFreeTour
      @OwenCookFreeTour  2 роки тому +1

      Thanks, perhaps after I'm dead moreso than now, as well -Owen

  • @josec705
    @josec705 6 місяців тому

    Great video Owen! Thank you!

  • @nasredineimezar8775
    @nasredineimezar8775 2 роки тому +4

    Best content in UA-cam when it comes to self development high paradigm level thinking !!

  • @bodhitreesocial
    @bodhitreesocial 2 роки тому +2

    There is one contrast to the early part of this video where I would say at a VERY high level sometimes the unwillingness to commit to someone who you do have a strong mutual connection with will inevitably sabotage the relationship if you are too much into constantly meeting new people. Again this is a VERY advanced level I’m talking 10+ years of neurotically working on social skills at the very beginning I remember my needy little crushes and they were completely and totally delusional.

    • @nishanalfred
      @nishanalfred 2 роки тому

      Yup! Just that most people arent t here

  • @justinengelby122
    @justinengelby122 Рік тому

    One of my all time favorite videos

  • @JulienHimself
    @JulienHimself 2 роки тому +8

    🔥🔥🔥

    • @OwenCookFreeTour
      @OwenCookFreeTour  2 роки тому +3

      Excited for San Francisco and Chicago free events coming up! www.selfhelpfreetour.com -Owen

  • @johndodson8464
    @johndodson8464 Рік тому

    53:00 Somehow I zoned out the first 3 times I listened to this when he talked about running across Philadelphia.

  • @chr1staki
    @chr1staki 2 роки тому +14

    The Victory Lap 🏁
    I love that, feels good
    Loved Nipsey’s business mindset too 🙏

  • @AndrewZambetti
    @AndrewZambetti 2 роки тому +2

    The speeches you give to audiences are world changing

  • @johndodson8464
    @johndodson8464 2 роки тому

    First 5 min, the dude is a freakin genius. Brings that first point home so convincingly.

  • @taitalexander7511
    @taitalexander7511 2 роки тому +2

    This is the best talk you’ve ever given.

  • @sosinati3358
    @sosinati3358 Рік тому +4

    Ive realised that 90% of the people only remember how you make them feel. Yesterday is wiped out of their memory unless high energy is felt.. -/+.. INTP-A here

  • @anvu5523
    @anvu5523 2 роки тому +1

    54:00 "you are an opportunity, not a sale". This is the shit. I lost this frame of mind along the journey. thanks for the reminder.

  • @Rogerkonijntje
    @Rogerkonijntje 2 роки тому +2

    This feels both the same as before, an evolution of what you thought applied to all aspects of socialising, and compatible with current platform limits, while 0 detail has been lost. Thanks brother :)

  • @enriqueolmeda8157
    @enriqueolmeda8157 2 роки тому +1

    Owen this feels personal man, did it really feel this way at some point.
    You sure are ahead of the curve at this point
    love the content keep it coming

  • @hadihamade5455
    @hadihamade5455 10 місяців тому

    expressing godly gratitude to you

  • @WillbWriting
    @WillbWriting 10 місяців тому

    Absolute pinnacle of wisdom.
    Dude, when you say yeah you can’t even absorb it…
    That’s fucking terrifying .

  • @bagpakpark7097
    @bagpakpark7097 2 роки тому +1

    Owen you are the most practical help out there even though I read, listen, view other mentors. You put the knowledge to be easily understood and "TO USE PRACTICALLY" for people today. Thanks Angel Pak.

  • @otakuharu331
    @otakuharu331 2 роки тому +2

    Okay just clicked on this video and I KNOW this one IS GOING to be CLASSIC!

  • @123sanoon
    @123sanoon Рік тому

    So let’s shine in our light with zero need, fear, or judgment and rejoice in love, and stay strong in our love 🙏❤️

  • @Happy-I-Am-
    @Happy-I-Am- 8 місяців тому

    Preach !!

  • @SteveWiIIDolt
    @SteveWiIIDolt Рік тому +1

    What talk show was Owen on? He mentioned it about 1/4 of the way into this video.

  • @fuego3517
    @fuego3517 2 роки тому +3

    "in ways you can't even, imagine now" nice NLP 😉
    Amazing content as always!

    • @OwenCookFreeTour
      @OwenCookFreeTour  2 роки тому +4

      Lol I'm not an NLP guy, but I've heard I do some similar things -Owen

  • @TotallyChase
    @TotallyChase 2 роки тому +1

    One of the best things I have done in the last few months is deleting all news and apps from my phone. I have like 8 necessary apps on my phone. Changed my life.

  • @bobthebuilder9416
    @bobthebuilder9416 2 роки тому +1

    Owen you are one of the only lights in this world that I know

    • @OwenCookFreeTour
      @OwenCookFreeTour  2 роки тому +1

      Thanks bro, read the classical spiritual texts too! -Owen

  • @thanosv9177
    @thanosv9177 2 роки тому

    I have no words. OWEN does god's work

  • @raistrue4976
    @raistrue4976 2 роки тому

    watching all the free content intensely - Thanks Owen, LETS GO

  • @dalhoumijasser8182
    @dalhoumijasser8182 2 роки тому

    Thank you for this Owen. I really appreciate this.

  • @ericwolfe666
    @ericwolfe666 2 роки тому

    There's always so much I could say about this gold, but I'm really excited for the content on eyes.

  • @christian3583
    @christian3583 2 роки тому

    Just in the first 5 seconds I think anyone can feel that this video is in a next level production

  • @koyoteval4338
    @koyoteval4338 2 роки тому

    Amazing video, what a great summary of the OG foundational principles! Keep them coming Owen!

  • @brads5254
    @brads5254 2 роки тому

    Wooooww. The revelation of giving to reverse the negative downward spiral energy 🤯🤯🤯. Thank you Owen

  • @mizclix
    @mizclix 2 роки тому

    this coaching is incredible

  • @tomgordon5590
    @tomgordon5590 Рік тому

    Owen thank you 🙏

  • @valentin_hmmrl
    @valentin_hmmrl 2 роки тому +2

    Holy moly this is amazing, can't wait to watch this at home in peace. Cheers Owen! 👍

  • @JohnDeacon-iam
    @JohnDeacon-iam Рік тому

    Owen is a true legend. People will talk about him long after he's gone. I'm not a buyer but it's dawning on me that this is a master at play. Well done! His Great Work is spectacular! Thank you for sharing with us. Much love my brother.

  • @mcaldwell27
    @mcaldwell27 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks for the help and advice. See you in Chicago!!!

  • @movingamountain
    @movingamountain 2 роки тому +1

    "When your eyes light on it, it is gone, for suddenly it sprouts wings, flying like an eagle toward heaven."
    Proverbs 23:5

  • @matanmatan2023
    @matanmatan2023 2 роки тому

    Thank you for another amazing video

  • @Mr3012berncity
    @Mr3012berncity 2 роки тому +1

    beautiful video, wow.
    someone knows where that talk show interview is? would love to watch it

  • @Quniverse
    @Quniverse 2 роки тому

    You've brought your content up even further 🙏

  • @bytecode5834
    @bytecode5834 2 роки тому

    Respect.

  • @ezmoney2008
    @ezmoney2008 2 роки тому

    Owen is the 🐐

  • @S.McCall_ICNPro
    @S.McCall_ICNPro 2 роки тому

    I love the messages here and the energy behind it was amazing to see escalating the longer you spoke, Owen. A real diamond of value in a place where that is so hard to come by. A rather abrupt end though (yes, I watched and listened the whole way through lol)

  • @tonyednalvo
    @tonyednalvo 2 роки тому +1

    met my first celebrity "mentor" and he said he likes me too
    if it wasn't for you, I woudn't be here, thanks Owen, thanks for helping me out getting out of my derpy haze and understand outreach, value and investment😂💓💓💓

  • @syrupgoblin4920
    @syrupgoblin4920 2 роки тому

    Thank you

  • @otakuharu331
    @otakuharu331 2 роки тому +1

    JOHN CARLTON Preach!!

  • @Jac0bIAm
    @Jac0bIAm 2 роки тому +1

    Amazing stuff Owen! Thank you for sharing this 😉

  • @johndodson8464
    @johndodson8464 2 роки тому

    45:40 to 45:50 Great.

  • @AnG-wq2fi
    @AnG-wq2fi 2 роки тому

    Love you Owen, cant wait for the Eye-content, that really interests me. Have been having some really eye-opening experiences with eyes, no pun intended, to the point where I get superconfident and present for a few days only because I had a revelation about my eyes. I also struggle with eyecontact, so I’m looking forward to it 👏☝️
    Thank you man!

  • @noamdayan8261
    @noamdayan8261 Рік тому

    Hi Owen! I live your new material, but how can I get to your videos from 10-15 years ago?
    pretty much miss these classics

  • @sgtmusic
    @sgtmusic 2 роки тому +2

    Not caring = “Reclaiming Swagger”🙌 “Having energy to spare”. Amazing stuff Owen!

  • @samuraisaint2360
    @samuraisaint2360 2 роки тому

    Love your energy and message “”! Your a Rock Star Owen “

  • @bobby-and2crows
    @bobby-and2crows 2 роки тому

    I hear owen and julien, i have sucess, they repeat the same thing that helped and blows my mind again, even tho i have practiced and heard it before, its just so true what they ssy.

    • @ifeelhalfnaked484
      @ifeelhalfnaked484 2 роки тому

      the original beliefs never dies, it's just those superficial flashy things happened around the world that blinded our sights

  • @Cedrou21
    @Cedrou21 2 роки тому +1

    Always awesome when I see a 1-2 hours long video 🔥

  • @Rozmatronicles
    @Rozmatronicles 2 роки тому

    you are coming back to boston? Owen, you have changed my life. I saw you in boston a few years back. everything is different now. I have found success. I will make an effort to see your next event.

  • @matthiashofmann9
    @matthiashofmann9 2 роки тому

    Wow, this video is insanely amazing, I love it ❤️

  • @MrMadisonSocial
    @MrMadisonSocial 2 роки тому

    Loveeeee this shot! Always wanted to go here 👀

  • @AmateurHour1111
    @AmateurHour1111 2 роки тому +1

    I have been listening to you very closely last few weeks 😌I missed the Seattle event, and I am local! 😭But you are still helping me out a lot Owen. Appreciate you dude.

    • @OwenCookFreeTour
      @OwenCookFreeTour  2 роки тому +15

      Fantastic. I need to tell you something important. When I see someone who truly loves this content, and misses the LOCAL event in SMALL markets, it scares the crap out of me for them. Cause I lose soooooo much money to do those smaller markets in "opportunity cost" - it literally costs me so much, I won't scare you with the number. So when I see that, I think "Damn man, this person wanted to be there and couldn't find a solution! That's so messed up! And I did this FREE specifically for people who cannot afford to do a paid program!!!" That said, I'm sure you had your reasons, but you gotta look at your life closely and really PROMISE YOURSELF you will not turn down FREE HELP like that in the future!! God reaches out to help only so many times my man -Owen

  • @oncedesigned8318
    @oncedesigned8318 2 роки тому

    Very inspiring talk! Love that intro you're doing with a fresh approach! Wish you a great time and thank you a lot for the powerful content

  • @mieszko1985
    @mieszko1985 2 роки тому

    Great speech, your voice was so crisp and your aura was so strong today. Your content is revolutionary and so much of it is for free, its honestly a shame that so many young men dont learn from you while growing up. I try my best to show them your stuff but so many just dont even want to learn, which baffles me!
    Sad for a lot of your older videos which was legendary and taken down, but I understand that in this woke age you gotta be carefull. Perhaps Elon can help us out on UA-cam also lol.
    Your stuff made me discover and see things in life I was convinced was impossible to experience as a mere mortal. Hope your family is good, you deserve it.
    Much love from Norway.

  • @banterabc5135
    @banterabc5135 2 роки тому

    thx for reuploading, wanted to watch - much love

  • @zona5825
    @zona5825 2 роки тому +1

    so inspiring 💫💫

  • @jamesmarsh3842
    @jamesmarsh3842 9 місяців тому +3

    Bro is literally Jesus walking on water

  • @bohohobo962
    @bohohobo962 9 місяців тому

    This is painful sometimes to listen to because even though I hear his points, I often don't apply them. Then, when I finally get tired of failing, I try some of Owen's advice and get a better outcome.

    • @MikaelWallentin.
      @MikaelWallentin. 4 місяці тому

      It’s about find something you enjoy and practice the teaching, it could be painting. I mean, it applies to everything really. I have hard time to with it

  • @Frank-cw5dg
    @Frank-cw5dg 2 роки тому +1

    Like Sun Tzu laid out the principles for a win-lose paradigm, Owen Cook lais out the principles of a win-win paradigm. Specifically to dating and social settings but when abstracted also applicable in other contexts

  • @godofmischief4059
    @godofmischief4059 2 роки тому

    Thank you, great gift for my birthday

  • @gravitalis
    @gravitalis 2 роки тому

    Awesome.

  • @aichi337
    @aichi337 11 місяців тому

    engaging but unattached

  • @williamdevonshire356
    @williamdevonshire356 Рік тому

    Owens awesome! ✨🙏🚀

  • @johnguish1290
    @johnguish1290 2 роки тому

    Thanks own

  • @initiatorhater0688
    @initiatorhater0688 Рік тому

    it makes perfect sense as to why guys, men, need a lot more social skills or social dynamics training, mentoring, than women do or ever will

  • @CryptoGrady
    @CryptoGrady Рік тому

    LFG!! 🔥🔥

  • @anibalmoraga1172
    @anibalmoraga1172 2 роки тому

    Loved it, Super clear, is about to go down XD

  • @beemo9
    @beemo9 2 роки тому

    Great talk.
    What talk show was Owen on?

  • @chr1staki
    @chr1staki 2 роки тому +1

    Owen, did you up the production value for this one? Looks crispy 🥶

  • @LunaticoSan
    @LunaticoSan 2 роки тому

    Amazing video Owen!

  • @AmanDeep-ye1df
    @AmanDeep-ye1df 2 роки тому

    Stop being needy is the favour you do to the other person. This is the universal hack for attraction.

  • @chriswftdj
    @chriswftdj 2 роки тому

    Big fan of the long videos!
    Big up and thanks

  • @edwardpendragon
    @edwardpendragon 9 місяців тому

    this is quite profound - which are the videos that developed the 'beating yourself up' understanding of obsession?