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  • @11216mel
    @11216mel 2 місяці тому +49

    I encountered his older sister, who is a narcissist, as I was getting out of my 2024 car. She seemed astonished by my appearance. "The Lord will put you back together in front of those who tried to break you." His cousin came to me and said “you look so good.” He prepared a table before me in the presence of my enemies.

    • @cassandrawhite5527
      @cassandrawhite5527 2 місяці тому +5

      I’m waiting for my table lol Amen

    • @11216mel
      @11216mel 2 місяці тому +5

      @@cassandrawhite5527 It will happen. Continue to focus on your healing journey. I’m 9 years free from that monster. it’s a process but GOD.

    • @ladyvirgo013
      @ladyvirgo013 2 місяці тому +2

      Amen to this

    • @never4saken165
      @never4saken165 2 місяці тому +2

      Amen

    • @netsanetabraha2218
      @netsanetabraha2218 2 місяці тому +2

      Yesss I love that. You motivated me. 😊

  • @AnthonyJoseph756
    @AnthonyJoseph756 2 місяці тому +29

    Most of the time the narcissist. Paints you in bad light to there family members.

  • @11Nashie
    @11Nashie Місяць тому +3

    Definitely felt like everyone knew something I didn't know and was just waiting to see how long I would last. Smh

  • @brokenbuthealed5652
    @brokenbuthealed5652 2 місяці тому +36

    They couldn't stand me because I put up boundaries with them as well and I would not allow them to directly use me.

  • @tashie20
    @tashie20 2 місяці тому +38

    You so correct…..most dysfunctional set of people I’ve ever met🤦‍♀️

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust 2 місяці тому +9

    The narcissist smeared me to his Aunt and uncle and cousins me and him went over to his family house for dinner and his aunt served everyone food except for me once we left, I said you bad mouthed me to your family why your aunt act like that towards me ? I told him I am no longer dealing with your family not to long I put that backwards walking giraffe out of my place into the street the pigeon with the missing feathers tried to come back NO I refuse to take him back I value my peace 😊🙏🏾

  • @Fullgrace061
    @Fullgrace061 2 місяці тому +22

    They were the worst I ever met now my life is moving on God is good😊

  • @lindabest3171
    @lindabest3171 2 місяці тому +19

    I've experienced the 2 faced back stabbing with the Narccistic family members!It's a double-2 edged sword with them . They pretended to like me over the ex- girl friend,but talked about me like a dog, behind my back!

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust 2 місяці тому +7

    The narcissist sister warned me she said my brother isn’t a easy person to deal with I should’ve ran for the hills that was a big warning ‼️

    • @reddmann4340
      @reddmann4340 Місяць тому +1

      Shirl when I rewind the tape over a 25 year relationship, her family dropped so many hints that I couldn't see clearly .

  • @Summermoon7.
    @Summermoon7. 2 місяці тому +7

    That’s the truth. You could always tell cause it’s always a grown man still in tangled with his whole family system no boundaries. The family love bombs you just like the narcissist and then when all hell breaks loose, the family is against you too. They talk about each other like dogs and they say the most filthy things about you too-unwanted. Always a problem with money always addictions going on.
    They will act like you are the first one yet they have done this cycle again and again with every person the narcissist brings around. It’s one big demonic program and let not forget about the PARANORMAL activity that surrounds the family.

  • @tarekahmad2978
    @tarekahmad2978 2 місяці тому +9

    This is very true once you get out of it and you look back and reflect you realize they're all were just a whole bunch of birds

  • @sassy46201
    @sassy46201 2 місяці тому +8

    And aren’t their dirty colours showing now.

  • @Blessedone995
    @Blessedone995 2 місяці тому +8

    The truth… I saw this info in the beginning and kept my distance… no regrets

  • @uniquelyyourscreationllc-k6191
    @uniquelyyourscreationllc-k6191 2 місяці тому +4

    Oh my!! The face you made when you were talking about the family would give you, was the same as my ex mother in law would give to me! Pretends to be nice after I ask her about the face she’s making towards me! She would always ask me for money, charge to keep her granddaughters when she knew me and her son were struggling. He would mess up great jobs, and I would have to handle all the bills. The family would have their hand out for money, and talk about us behind our backs! Never again! Thank God for revealing evil spirits that is driving him, and I will never forget or go back to him!

    • @reddmann4340
      @reddmann4340 Місяць тому +1

      We would go to her family gatherings, and I always felt out of place. Years later I found out she was smearing my name.

    • @uniquelyyourscreationllc-k6191
      @uniquelyyourscreationllc-k6191 Місяць тому

      @@reddmann4340 it’s sad, these people are so weird, and they don’t understand that they have/are a problem!

  • @techauntie
    @techauntie 2 місяці тому +3

    Your insight on this is unmatched! Whew!!!! Clan of Crows 🐦‍⬛

  • @Terri302
    @Terri302 2 місяці тому +1

    What's worse is thay are so unaware of their narcissism they see it as blood is thicker than water....

  • @PurpleReels
    @PurpleReels 2 місяці тому +7

    They sure do talk about each other like dogs! And I knew then that they would talk about me. One time didn't even know that I was downstairs and they were talking about my soon to be ex narc husband. Then they saw me come out of the bathroom and said, "Oh heeeeeeeey!"

  • @Queening948
    @Queening948 2 місяці тому +5

    Truth! Because I remember the ex narcissist told me things the his older sister narcissist would say about me before I got married mind you without even knowing me, he even told me she is conniving. Only for everything to be a chaos nightmare I didn’t know I signed up for; the narcissist family have a fake love and hate and competition relationship. His conning narc sister couldn’t control me so they linked up to come against me and the enabling father of theirs! They all WICKED! and will defend the narcissist in their lies and approve of them committing adultery on you and they all knew for years and played along side the narcissist. So glad I’m happily divorced, shut it down! They create this much hell for you to end it so they can play victim. When they are the monster.

  • @energyjohnson4198
    @energyjohnson4198 2 місяці тому +2

    She must be the wisest woman on the planet ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @vincentrawlins5266
    @vincentrawlins5266 2 місяці тому

    Thank You Ms. T and may the MOST HIGH YAHUAH keep You in HIS will, guide and protect You. Much blessings unto You 🙏🏿🙏🏿Shalum.

  • @Payday-ky7mb
    @Payday-ky7mb 2 місяці тому +3

    Please believe they hate what you have that they don’t have access to and you are the standard of living they can’t reach. No they don’t like you.

  • @veefore264
    @veefore264 2 місяці тому

    You are spot on! I’ve been listening for a few weeks now denying that I actually chose someone so foul to waste my time. This is it! I am no longer in denial. Glad I’m recovering and focusing on myself. Thanks for all that you do. ❤

  • @beverlyjackson5053
    @beverlyjackson5053 2 місяці тому +1

    I was Bougie and Rich.....Here comes miss Bougie!!! I was always very quiet around them. I never let them in at all. I never felt close to them. I gave all of them a Christmas gift and they just all of a sudden LOVED me!!! They talked about that Christmas forever!!!!!

  • @InnocentPufferFish-wn5zq
    @InnocentPufferFish-wn5zq 2 місяці тому

    Real talk sis 🙏 Halleluyah Holy Spirit Revelation and Confirmation Abba Thank you Always 🙏💜

  • @serenamoon248
    @serenamoon248 2 місяці тому +5

    Yes !!!! The mother would always give me passive aggressive comments, and even, I was super shy, and she thought being shy was a "mental illness" if I needed to see a doctor because I'm shy, or why I dint speak my mind,
    She couldn't get into my head so she HATED ME. but she smiled to my face, and talked about me being my back. She would tell me ALL her daughters girlfriends had crushes on him, even now, and I came to HER about the abuse , her son was doing to me, she cried with me, but in court, she lied. She said that was not true at all. And she even said that my child is "behind" in learning because I don't teach her words at 2 months old ??? they always hated me. I always knew it, but I ignored it . I trusted them, I trusted HER, and I didn't expect her to just act like I was trash so quick.

  • @spencerbrando4242
    @spencerbrando4242 2 місяці тому +1

    I'm gonna make a shirt that says.. "enables are narcissist too" undercover haters! When the narcissist tells you that you're too good to be true, tell them that you are good & true. If you driving they ain't driving....

  • @TheCurlyBeauty
    @TheCurlyBeauty 2 місяці тому

    I couldn't agree more with this video. This is validating to hear. I was so hurt when, after I was discarded, his family never reached out to me. Not once. I was so confused and felt like my whole relationship with them, especially his mother, was a lie. After listening to this, it confirms so much. You're right about the family dynamics with these clowns. His family talked about each other like dogs when they weren't around. My n-ex did it all the time. Even about his own parents. So it makes sense why they totally went silent on me. They are heavy enablers. They had to go along with him, because he's all they have left in the world. They need him so they're going to be his supply.

  • @Discerningthetimes777
    @Discerningthetimes777 2 місяці тому +2

    Do all narcissistic people mimic you like a dual personality, whereas they actually try to be you.

  • @candicrush
    @candicrush Місяць тому

    You speaking Sis!!! This is facts💯

  • @etaokha4164
    @etaokha4164 2 місяці тому +1

    I still remember when i had the baby and he said let go visit his elder brother so they see the baby. We went and omg! This people made me feel so unwelcome and very cold. No communication and they left me in the living room and i was a visitor i couldnt wait to leave the next day. I quickly packed my bags and told him to never invite me to his brothers house ever again because i was treated like i wasnt welcomed and given cold shoulder. Disgusting and he too was following their footsteps instead of standing up to them and calling their Disgusting behaviour towards me out he instead stood by their side and stayed quiet and brushed it under the rug because they enabled his behaviour so he was loyal to them and he used them for their money. Later down the line his elder brother kicked him out because he was owing them money and refused to pay them back and now his elder brother is now his enemy. His elder brother became very jealous of my son because his children are not British citizens but mine Is. Its a competition with narcs and their family members and the fool played along because he wants them to give him attention 🙄. I kicked him out of our lives too slammed that door and went no contact blocked. His son has never met his mother, sibling or any other family member of his except for that one elder brother we met once. Birds of a feather flog together. He came from a family of 11 and he is baby 11 ( covert narcissist)

  • @iknowfool4590
    @iknowfool4590 2 місяці тому +1

    my ex narc family couldn't stand me because of the lies she told on me

  • @esthersibindi4612
    @esthersibindi4612 2 місяці тому +1

    Telsha
    You are looking so beautiful!

  • @kayakins3051
    @kayakins3051 2 місяці тому

    Great video!!There is people at work who may not be related but do this at work too ! Where there’s one they are more!!! So good!!!! Thanks for the video! 💜

  • @marcusxsara8896
    @marcusxsara8896 2 місяці тому

    Awoman 🙏🏾my daughters home going was Friday and this word is so true 🤎

  • @belindalicerio8306
    @belindalicerio8306 2 місяці тому

    Yes, I know I wasn’t liked. I’m just glad I’m away from them

  • @sassy46201
    @sassy46201 2 місяці тому +2

    Love when u say narc 1. Cause chile because of ignorance we go through quite a few.

  • @dendarmart6527
    @dendarmart6527 2 місяці тому +2

    All your videos describes my life with my ex and his country family! 😂

  • @theresaz6613
    @theresaz6613 2 місяці тому

    The narc calls them his minions.

  • @iamaliveyoucantstopnow
    @iamaliveyoucantstopnow 2 місяці тому +1

    `The feeling is mutual! haha! They were a Nasty bunch of backward walking giraffes.

  • @pecantan4824
    @pecantan4824 2 місяці тому

    Hey Telsha. You look so beautiful Queen. I know the narcs can't take it. You glowing Sis. Thank you as well for all the enlightening content. You are appreciated. God bless you in all you do in Jesus name #Winning 🙏🏽

  • @KC-sv8pp
    @KC-sv8pp 2 місяці тому

    I told him that he never liked me and his mask slipped.
    He said he loves me, and I said you don’t love me, your kids, your “friends,” your animals, and you don’t even love yourself and surely not Jesus!
    He lost it!!!😂

  • @DianneSlough-sz3gc
    @DianneSlough-sz3gc 27 днів тому

    Blood is thicker than muddy water
    Ya, it is/ was sad.
    Im over it.
    Its all so sad and messed up.
    All a part of my healing

  • @Wayoutgurl
    @Wayoutgurl 2 місяці тому

    I was definitely time enough for them!!! 😂😂😂
    They couldn’t control him when I came into the picture.
    They proved to be the narcs that they are! So they no longer talk to him. Seems soul-less. 😮 un- natural.
    We good .

  • @sheilablanton4894
    @sheilablanton4894 2 місяці тому +1

    Yes it was always that one sister that always had her noise turt up at me for no reason 😅

  • @azaleajones2011
    @azaleajones2011 2 місяці тому

    This is so True . Facts

  • @lindabest3171
    @lindabest3171 2 місяці тому +2

    Thursday night's message was awesome,thank you Lady Telsha, Congratulations 🎊 again Beautiful Sis 😘🤍🫂❤️✨️🙌✨️

  • @lawandarutledge6969
    @lawandarutledge6969 2 місяці тому

    My family is very narcissistic they have bullied, harassed, threatened, verbally abused me but my sister is the manipulative one who knows how to get peoples that doesn't have a strong mind so she can get into their minds and control them. She put my mother against me my mother is suffering from a stroke right now so I have no mother.

  • @jessemcdaniel5923
    @jessemcdaniel5923 2 місяці тому

    I remember my exes sister said she was so lucky to have me. At the time it felt good to hear. But as a male, isn’t it usually the other way? She was definitely trying to give me a hint. Nuts to me…

  • @kenyabishop9417
    @kenyabishop9417 2 місяці тому +2

    For me it was the toxic sister and his grown daughter

  • @Arlene-mr5ov
    @Arlene-mr5ov 2 місяці тому

    So true my ex husband's family hated me 😢

  • @carriejones4230
    @carriejones4230 2 місяці тому

    My stbx mother never liked me, almost from the beginning. His sister was mostly kind and indifferent, but never hostile towards me. His family on his fathers side loved and embraced me as family. Coincidentally, we didnt interact much with them. When i finally admitted to what he had been putting me through, his mother called me a liar, his sister kinda withdrew. His uncles and brothers were dismayed, but they flat out told me that i should have left long ago.

  • @ladyvirgo013
    @ladyvirgo013 2 місяці тому

    Spot in T, the X husband's mother & grandmother, SO TOXIC, neither one of them liked me from the get go. Yup,they gossip about one another, I stopped going around because of the back stabbing and gossip. And you are right, they like toxic for him because you have to have no identity for them to accept you 😅NOPE, that's not me,I know who I am. I genuinely gave a shit about that X but o well

  • @allisoncalhoun
    @allisoncalhoun 2 місяці тому +1

    Yes he would tell them when we would get into an argument and he had them ganging up on me. When I left they started being nice smh

  • @Im-me504
    @Im-me504 2 місяці тому

    I figured that out the first day I met them that they didnt like me . I feed off vibes

  • @iknowfool4590
    @iknowfool4590 2 місяці тому

    my ex narcissists GF turned her family against me I remember sitting down listening to her talk about her entire family but sometime down the line she told them i was talking about them. but when i tried to defend myself it was to late

  • @tonjajackson9209
    @tonjajackson9209 2 місяці тому

    Let's see. The grandma would turn her head when I spoke to her, his mama is the biggest gossip in the neighborhood (but she warned me about the narc) the sister was some timey and cool with other supply, but knew how to beg for money. The aunt sang his praises and would tell him about other women that was interested in him . The 4 brothers were so cool with me. Leaving the clan of crows was my pleasure.

  • @lagoldie9783
    @lagoldie9783 2 місяці тому

    Hello 👋 Ms. Telsha. Happy Sunday. I didn't like none of the narcissists family members. The mom was rude, the brother was street lol. Smh.

  • @mortischahicks5341
    @mortischahicks5341 2 місяці тому

    As the beginning of the relationship. His mother liked me at first. Then she started to threaten me about her son! I think he had ran a smear campaign on me.

  • @tamlynn100
    @tamlynn100 2 місяці тому

    And I never liked them.. 🤨

  • @mjathisbestandteachingskil6980
    @mjathisbestandteachingskil6980 2 місяці тому

    Thats funny Telsha but I never see or saw that in them. I never return.

  • @Narcissisticsurvivor47
    @Narcissisticsurvivor47 2 місяці тому +1

    So once I saw how odd her behavior was I wanted nothing to do with her family I knew its where she developed it..Both her grand mothers gaslit me..Her moms my did it I said to her face I see where she gets it from..She had a nerve to tell her grandma i tried to play her 🙏

  • @lorraineamaker9416
    @lorraineamaker9416 2 місяці тому

    I had the ones that gave me hints n no I wasn’t paying attention smh but this last idiot the fake smiles I picked up on it Thank GOD 4 mths n not 4 more yrs. N yes he told me i think im better than him. Wow’ Absolutely I am bye bird!!!

  • @kimsanders8262
    @kimsanders8262 2 місяці тому

    My mother in law tried to tell me. I learned the hard way, he's now deceased.

  • @tamekashelton354
    @tamekashelton354 2 місяці тому

    Yes True Facts

  • @kentsvlogs5559
    @kentsvlogs5559 2 місяці тому

    I was warned by her sister on the very first day I met her.. The narc I was “dating” at the time told me before I met her sister that her sister might tell me all types of things about her, and to be prepared for it. I thought that it might have been out of jealousy, but I know better now.
    She was dating a cop before I got involved with her that she claimed beat her, cheated on her, slapped her sister and mistreated her son. So, she broke up with him over the phone right in front of me.
    I was dating her for almost 3 years, then we split, and she kept in contact with me when all other situations with her failed for almost 10 years off and on.
    I got her through med school, I paid her rent, I paid for her car to get fixed.. Then she turns around and goes right back to the police officer that she was with before I met her.
    He has stage 4 kidney cancer, and he’s had it for over 4 years now.. and I think that the trauma she caused him is reason he has it.
    I’m blessed to be out of that situation, and I wish it happened sooner when God spoke through her sister to me telling me to not get involved with her.

  • @sherlesscinema2024
    @sherlesscinema2024 2 місяці тому +3

    Factssssssss!❤

  • @Northdade07
    @Northdade07 2 місяці тому

    The family loved me as i was. Mother told him.... I believe you either said or did something.
    He claim he was OFFENDED by this

  • @Michael_Arguello
    @Michael_Arguello 2 місяці тому

    That divine sword that divides is coming for all. What narcs gonna do when Jesus takes their best supply from them like a thief in the night?!! Their world ends. So…when will The Sword that Divides come for us? Nobody knows. ;)

  • @jarhonda2702
    @jarhonda2702 2 місяці тому

    Never met his family

  • @sheiladixon-u1c
    @sheiladixon-u1c 2 місяці тому

    I DID NOT WANT TO MEET HIS MOTHER FOR SOME REASON I NEVER DID MEET HER BEFORE HE LEFT THANK GOD

  • @wandarios5440
    @wandarios5440 2 місяці тому

    💯 % Agree!

  • @bvad7884
    @bvad7884 2 місяці тому

    Hmm not in my case. When he got me back after two months no contact and he brought me to his parents house his mom hugged me so tight and started crying and thanking God that her prayers were answered 😅. His father was indifferent, I think his father is a narc himself to be honest. Strong spiritual warfare going on in that house

  • @Narcissisticsurvivor47
    @Narcissisticsurvivor47 2 місяці тому

    I was like that..I know her daddy hated me because she use to go back and repeat things I said that indirectly debunked all the dysfunction she grew up in on both sides of her family because i grew up in a similar family dynamic on both sides...Adams Family type stuff 🙏

  • @GiovanniLevoci
    @GiovanniLevoci 2 місяці тому

    Well if her family didn't like me they sure liked the fact I kept their house from being foreclosed on 3 times at a cost to me of around 10k dollars...

  • @tarrapascol-tk3zr
    @tarrapascol-tk3zr 2 місяці тому

    I know I brought some kind of healing to them i always encourage them to talk to each other about how they felt But his family was dysfunctional but they weren’t all narcs and they had dome standards

  • @tarrapascol-tk3zr
    @tarrapascol-tk3zr 2 місяці тому

    They enable him right now I don’t know if they don’t like me but they know he’s a narc his mom always talked to me they would always tell me he doesn’t deserve me .His grandmother would always want me to come over to help her she didn’t care what he said.she was an enabler just like i was to him. I agree with alot said but narcs still have different ways they show there evil capabilities it’s not just so uniform still bad and hurtful

  • @shayalexander8296
    @shayalexander8296 2 місяці тому

    Mom and brother do

  • @lindabest3171
    @lindabest3171 2 місяці тому

    Thanks!

  • @gsgd4424
    @gsgd4424 2 місяці тому

    Sopt on the were narks flying monkeys an all there mask fell when I went super nover trust me

  • @PatriciaPigee
    @PatriciaPigee 2 місяці тому

    So I Didn’t Care About Them Either,🧐 Never Met A Family Like Theirs,😮Nobody Really Like The Other One 😮😮😮Very Distant From One Another 🧐And He Kept Shit Going With All Of Them 👀‼️🚩💯he lives in a different city from his family, I live in the same city his family lives in, where he from, but he started shit with his family all the time 😮stop talking to certain ones just was dirty to everybody 😮but they just like him 😂Crazy