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  • Опубліковано 10 вер 2024

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  • @evelyngolden2272
    @evelyngolden2272 Рік тому +80

    Hi Adalia from Montgomery, Alabama. I listed my home on 4/21 and received multiple offers on 4/23, one over list! Closing on 5/23. I am taking action to move to Panama.

    • @DrAGW
      @DrAGW Рік тому +1

      Wow! Congrats!! I grew up in Birmingham and my daughter recently graduated from Alabama State. You inspire me. Best wishes Sis!

    • @AdaliaAborisade
      @AdaliaAborisade  Рік тому +2

      🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 congratulations!!!!

    • @tracywalker244
      @tracywalker244 Рік тому +2

      Congratulations 🎉

    • @BigSisDoula
      @BigSisDoula Рік тому +3

      @Evelyn I’m in Huntsville, AL so excited to see folk from my home state. We are leaving in 2024.

    • @rosewiththorns4047
      @rosewiththorns4047 Рік тому +3

      Congratulations 👏🏾 . I’m an educator and have a TEFL ( Teaching English as a Foreign Language ) Certificate .I am considering moving to Panama 🇵🇦.

  • @nwatson2773
    @nwatson2773 Рік тому +21

    I have downsized and gotten rid of most of my belongings. Now I am working on eliminating my debt and working for a year to save money so I can travel or work abroad. ALso, I am working on emotional healing and childhood trauma... WHEW its a lot of work but well worth it!

  • @stellam8379
    @stellam8379 Рік тому +39

    Decluttering and purging with intent to sell my house by end 2023 and that will give me substantial $$ for investing. Been fully retired 8 years Retirement $$ comfortable and only bring 2 suitcases. Scouted SMA and planning scouting fall trip to Portugal. Getting OUTTA here end 2023.

  • @SHIVAAAA100
    @SHIVAAAA100 Рік тому +24

    I intend to walk away from my student loans on June 2nd. Walking all the way to Mexico City with my remote job 😭😭 in all seriousness I realized it would be easier to pay down my debt once I cut my rent in half. Thanks for all the work you do ❤️

    • @AdaliaAborisade
      @AdaliaAborisade  Рік тому +5

      Definitely look into income based repayment before you go. If you can get that you can wait them out AND get to keep your money.

    • @SHIVAAAA100
      @SHIVAAAA100 Рік тому

      Yes ma’am! I’ll be looking into that today. Thank you for the tip!!

  • @toniibby3
    @toniibby3 Рік тому +33

    You Shida and Stephanie are all indirectly helping me get out already just by your content. About one and a half more months and I’m in PDC!

    • @AdaliaAborisade
      @AdaliaAborisade  Рік тому +2

      You got this!

    • @toniibby3
      @toniibby3 Рік тому +5

      @@AdaliaAborisade thank youuuu!! This just goes to show how effective you all’s content really is. I have not been able to afford the exodus summit but just actively listening to you all, reading the comments and interacting has put all of the pieces together for me. Truly grateful.

    • @vervideosgiros1156
      @vervideosgiros1156 Рік тому

      ​@@AdaliaAborisade Hi! I'm new to your channel! I didn't know you knew Halisi and Rick! I follow their channel. I'm portuguese.

  • @blackhannahofficial
    @blackhannahofficial Рік тому +8

    When I found y'all, and attended Exodus Summit 2021... I honestly felt "OMG, I FINALLY found my tribe"❕

  • @lynseylou9669
    @lynseylou9669 Рік тому +14

    Stop buying more stuff! In Marrakesh I had to keep reminding myself not to buy stuff because it would be counterproductive to my move to MX. It wasn't easy!

    • @AdaliaAborisade
      @AdaliaAborisade  Рік тому +1

      Congratulations on staying strong

    • @edesouza2279
      @edesouza2279 Рік тому +3

      I have never got into the habit of buying things when I travelled.
      Owning unnecessary stuff is not only a waste of money, it’s a burden to leave all that junk behind for your family to get rid of when you exit this world.

  • @SavannahL5214
    @SavannahL5214 Рік тому +20

    Hi Adalia! Excellent video. My last day at my job was Friday, April 28 and I'm on track to move to SMA, MX in mid-June. I did a one-on-one with you about a year ago and I want to just thank you! You helped me see that this plan made sense financially and now a year later I'm about ti see the plan come to fruition!! Again, thank you!

    • @AdaliaAborisade
      @AdaliaAborisade  Рік тому +1

      🙌🏾🙌🏾 Congratulations!!!!
      You're most welcome.

    • @tracywalker244
      @tracywalker244 Рік тому +1

      Congratulations 🎉

    • @SavannahL5214
      @SavannahL5214 Рік тому

      @@tracywalker244 thank you!!

    • @one100billneoone4
      @one100billneoone4 Рік тому +2

      That’s where I want to go. San Miguel de Allende!!! Congratulations and I’m excited for you. Sending you good vibes!!

  • @OurBlackUtopia
    @OurBlackUtopia Рік тому +6

    Hey girl, thank you for the shout-out - the meetup was fun and it was great hanging out. 🥳 Her move abroad checklist was invaluable for us

  • @kemi1486
    @kemi1486 Рік тому +7

    All very solid advice Adalia! By the end of 2024, I will have all consumer debt paid off. 2025 is when I will started traveling again internationally for longer periods with the kiddo 🙏

  • @simplydivine77
    @simplydivine77 Рік тому +17

    Top tier advice. Thank you. I took my nails off because they are a couple hundred dollar expense a month…if they break, that more money to get it repaired. Plus those As.ians places are not clean and don’t give AF about Black women. Why continue to pay them and risk your health in their unclean mail shops. My husband and I are in our journey…it will take a couple of years, but we’re committed.

    • @brooklynqueen7089
      @brooklynqueen7089 Рік тому +9

      Absolutely! I suggest press on nails for those special occasions. You can get a nice set for $$8.00. Save that money for GTF outta the USA.

    • @ExquisiteKinkyCoils
      @ExquisiteKinkyCoils Рік тому

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️

    • @AdaliaAborisade
      @AdaliaAborisade  Рік тому +2

      It's all about alignment, making sure your spending lines up with your goals.

    • @finestgrowth
      @finestgrowth Рік тому +1

      I plan on learning how to do my own nails.

    • @nappyqueen86
      @nappyqueen86 Рік тому

      Agreed that why stopped going to their hair stores cause they act like we going to steal. And like you said the nail prices are ridiculous and unsanitary. Besides, they always talking their crude sounding language in front of you.

  • @nicolelove8501
    @nicolelove8501 Рік тому +11

    I did not want this video to end 🙌🏽🙌🏽 so many gems dropped!! Thank you so much Adalia ❤️

  • @JourneyWithUsMoveToAfrica
    @JourneyWithUsMoveToAfrica Рік тому +3

    Love this video! Thanks for sharing. Our life is 10x better after moving to Tanzania and we have been here for 3 years. It's surprising how much easier life can be just by leaving America. I hope to never return! Blessings!

  • @FreeFree50andoverletsgo-xk1bb
    @FreeFree50andoverletsgo-xk1bb Рік тому +7

    Thank you so much for this information my husband and I are planning to move to Merida Mexico.

  • @winnieb1352
    @winnieb1352 Рік тому +8

    As always right on time. Took your 6 day financial workshop, working on reviewing debt and visas I can get ❤

  • @cartdc
    @cartdc Рік тому +7

    Hello Adalia! I needed to see this today! Thank you for breaking things down. As a former ex-pat ( soon to be 2024 forever ex-pat) the taking action ( and not just giving lip service) part has been the hardest. I'm telling myself I can take smaller steps if I need to not overwhelm myself.

  • @inprogress5210
    @inprogress5210 Рік тому +2

    Thanks so much. I'm not from the US but from the Caribbean. This video is very helpful for black women who want to travel/live abroad. God Bless.

  • @K.Renee_517
    @K.Renee_517 Рік тому +3

    WOW Adalia I have been following you for a while and never commented BUT this video I can really see your passion and urgency in wanting to help us Black Women and others get things in order for our exits & All of your points are valid and important and THIS video really hit me different my exit is in 2024 and can't come quick enough 😀 don't stop educating and encouraging people to realize they can be treated better some where else Love this video

    • @AdaliaAborisade
      @AdaliaAborisade  Рік тому

      It will be here before you know it. Thank you 💗

  • @chicodiamond4222
    @chicodiamond4222 Рік тому +2

    Thank you! The New World is here in this country. My destination is somewhere in South America. I have to do some research.

  • @adriennetravels
    @adriennetravels Рік тому +3

    I cleaned out my storage closet a couple of months ago. My goal is to downsize my closet even more. I have way too many clothes and shoes.
    I only have student loans and a mortgage. My mortgage balance is less than $39k and it is being taken care of.
    Savings is good.
    Really, the only thing I haven't figured out is the income because I can't take my current source of income with me.

    • @AdaliaAborisade
      @AdaliaAborisade  Рік тому +1

      I bet you have tons of skills that can earn you money

  • @actionvj
    @actionvj Рік тому +1

    It was GREAT meeting you in Lisbon. I will resume “acting right” quietly. 😆😆

  • @BP-nn7tq
    @BP-nn7tq Рік тому +1

    For the list jump to minute 3:57.

  • @madjouba4290
    @madjouba4290 Рік тому

    I've been thinking and strategizing since the beginning of this year. Unfortunately I can't leave as of now because of school obligations so I've come up with a 5 year exit plan. I'll leverage my nursing degree to live as a nomad because I can't with this place anymore. All of these facebook groups and podcasts like yours have been so inspiring/motivational though. I'm def going to be about it hence the planning.

  • @ellaraye1151
    @ellaraye1151 8 місяців тому

    This is exactly what i needed in my stage of researching, preparing, and planning with leaving the NOT united states (I'll quit using that phrase soon haha)
    Outside fasting and praying to get my 👍🏾/green light from Abba/God, I'm past talking about it haha.
    I hold on to my physical things (moving from oklahoma to alabama last year was my biggest move) BUT this past saturday i got a big part of my LR already filling up fast with everything I'm giving away and donating.
    Last week i watched you talk about a no spending challenge. I started the next payday and have savings building already between my 2 incomes (im a disabled air force veteran).
    Debt: i have next to no debt. No mortgage, my car is paid for but I'll let that sucker go if i land somewhere i can walk everywhere. No student loan no personal loans no CCs.
    I started out thinking this might happen 3 to 5 years from now but I'm now looking at the fall of 2025 timeframe after i finish Rock College, but right before my 51st birthday!

  • @drlindaenoh
    @drlindaenoh Рік тому +2

    Great information as always 👏👏👏

  • @myzzkim88
    @myzzkim88 Рік тому +1

    This video was everything!!

  • @divinelove4131
    @divinelove4131 Рік тому +1

    Excellent information. Thxs so much!!!❤

  • @MsLGC
    @MsLGC Рік тому +3

    Drop the mic video...🎤🎤🎤🎤

  • @bedinabebe4521
    @bedinabebe4521 Рік тому

    OR explore cost and intracacies of shipping
    Wow, Mad Money has evolved

  • @AnyaTraveling
    @AnyaTraveling 11 місяців тому

    Ms Adalia I am watching the replay and I am one of your target audience. I need to stop talking and start doing actions to move abroad.
    This is Anya Juan Risco

    • @AdaliaAborisade
      @AdaliaAborisade  11 місяців тому

      Alright then, let's do this! Do you have the move abroad checklist? bit.ly/Move-Abroad

    • @AnyaTraveling
      @AnyaTraveling 11 місяців тому

      @@AdaliaAborisade Yes, I now have the Move Abroad Check list.

  • @SassyveeSceneries
    @SassyveeSceneries 10 місяців тому

    Couldn't agree more!

  • @YapahJudah
    @YapahJudah Рік тому +1

    This video was much needed and an awesome reminder. Thank you so much and Blessings! 😊

  • @fdoctor79
    @fdoctor79 Рік тому +1

    Practical advice. Tfs

  • @Fairexchangenorobbery
    @Fairexchangenorobbery Рік тому

    I can’t go to no exodus summit this year because I’m getting out of debt. I’ll be out of consumer debt by October. If there are any retreats afterwards then I’m all in

  • @blackexpats
    @blackexpats Рік тому

    Excellent and sound advice! Thank you for including the Xpat App in your video! So great meeting you in person. Your wisdom and thoughtfulness is much needed and appreciated.

    • @AdaliaAborisade
      @AdaliaAborisade  Рік тому

      You're most welcome. You've created an awesome resource that's helping and will help so many people.

  • @nappyqueen86
    @nappyqueen86 Рік тому

    Thank you for these videos

  • @kellimccallum7595
    @kellimccallum7595 Рік тому +1

    It's so wild to me that anyone would think you can take your US passport only and relocate anywhere in the world long term!

    • @AdaliaAborisade
      @AdaliaAborisade  Рік тому +1

      There are lots of folks who believe it. It is so wild.

  • @lifewithsistuhspice9029
    @lifewithsistuhspice9029 Рік тому

    Hi Picky Girl! Sistuhspice checking on you❤

  • @virtualcreativecollaborations

    ♥️ Beautiful Blessings

  • @ashantirobinson242
    @ashantirobinson242 Рік тому

    I can’t wait to get out of here!

  • @Maya-uy2xx
    @Maya-uy2xx 8 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @nataliawalker4184
    @nataliawalker4184 Рік тому

    Thank you!

  • @ahenderson7503
    @ahenderson7503 Рік тому

    Thank you.Where can I find the links to the Expo to find work?

  • @lana8305
    @lana8305 Рік тому +1

    I'm 37 years old, so my biggest concern keeping me from making the leap is, how am I supposed to continue to contribute to my/a 401k? I'm no where near retirement age and I'm thinking of a long term permanent move.

    • @AdaliaAborisade
      @AdaliaAborisade  Рік тому +2

      There are other ways to save for retirement outside of a 401k. Check out the Investing video I linked in the comments.

    • @lana8305
      @lana8305 Рік тому

      @@AdaliaAborisade I'm sorry, I don't see any link?

  • @poetry2109
    @poetry2109 Рік тому

    Hi, the move abroad checklist is not showing up in my e-mail. I have sent the info 3 times. I've checked spam too

  • @Heyu7her3
    @Heyu7her3 Рік тому

    What if I want to move with my stuff? 🤔 _(I have a studio apartment & intend to resettle in 1 place to earn income)_

    • @AdaliaAborisade
      @AdaliaAborisade  Рік тому

      If you want your stuff you'll need to come to terms with the financial cost of getting it to your destination.

  • @anonymousgirl799
    @anonymousgirl799 3 місяці тому

    I'm a Black disabled woman who wants to move abroad. (Not married, no kids). My only income is SSDI. I can live abroad for 6 months before needing to return for 30 days to USA, per Social Security. I'm determined to leave America. Would welcome a consult with you. How can I reach you?

    • @AdaliaAborisade
      @AdaliaAborisade  3 місяці тому

      Here's the link to work with me - app.paperbell.com/checkout/packages?provider_id=26134

  • @Vivi30908
    @Vivi30908 Рік тому

    Thanks for sharing with us important information. One question please, are student loan holders ok with living abroad while we're on an IDR plan? Thanks.

    • @AdaliaAborisade
      @AdaliaAborisade  Рік тому +1

      Yes, I know several folks who are doing it.
      ua-cam.com/video/PMzBPl93ZlQ/v-deo.html

    • @Vivi30908
      @Vivi30908 Рік тому

      @@AdaliaAborisade thanks for responding

  • @crystalwilliams213
    @crystalwilliams213 4 місяці тому

    I have a question. Can I use my nursing degree in any of those places?

    • @AdaliaAborisade
      @AdaliaAborisade  3 місяці тому

      Depends on the country you choose. Each is going to have it's own process to verify or transfer your credentials.