Getting Ready To Lay My Son To Rest

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  • @yoreomerey1753
    @yoreomerey1753 Рік тому +334

    I’ve never wanted to jump through a screen and reach out and hold someone as much as I do right now. My heart bleeds for you Ricky, so many people love you ❤ It will be okay, God says so!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @latrinaday5212
    @latrinaday5212 Рік тому +180

    52 days ago I stood where you are right now. Your videos have helped me. Unexpected my only son at 38. He was sick and didn't tell me or his sisters how bad. My prayers go out to you and your family. One second at a time is all you can do. Them triggers hit at unexpected times. Prayers...

    • @jbill7808
      @jbill7808 Рік тому +3

      God bless u!!

    • @lt3943
      @lt3943 Рік тому +3

      My deepest condolences to you and your family. Sending hugs and love your way 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @jeanettesummers4677
      @jeanettesummers4677 Рік тому +3

      My heart completely breaks for you!! I’m soooo sorry

    • @ebonyknight5
      @ebonyknight5 Рік тому +1

      Blessing to you Mother Day!

    • @thomye3
      @thomye3 Рік тому +1

      ❤❤❤❤

  • @carriesmythe1916
    @carriesmythe1916 Рік тому +299

    Ricky when this is over, you need to go somewhere comfortable and just have a good cry, scream, throw things go to a boxing gym and punch a boxing bag and just get it out. Praying for your strength.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @iriepoetryinmotion5141
      @iriepoetryinmotion5141 Рік тому +22

      Yes Lord,,,,,he needs it...all tht weight will make u break

    • @veronicakelley9045
      @veronicakelley9045 Рік тому +15

      Completely agree...let your feelings and emotions out! ♥

    • @dawnwalton1099
      @dawnwalton1099 Рік тому +7

      Yes

    • @jevet-lady4308
      @jevet-lady4308 Рік тому +17

      I agree. When my brother passed, I provided a space for my mother to release the pain. I've never heard a sound like the one she let out. We're starting 2023 without him. Since his passing there's been 3 more deaths in our family.
      I've been making sure everyone is good and haven't grieved yet and I'm bracing for it.

    • @erb082580
      @erb082580 Рік тому +2

      💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @jus4juslyn
    @jus4juslyn Рік тому +25

    This is the human side of loving someone ❤

    • @lindahines9380
      @lindahines9380 Рік тому

      yep it's good to let it out!
      anytime, anywhere tears coming out make you feel better!

  • @christinewashington525
    @christinewashington525 Рік тому +172

    I love that y’all called the service “Standing Ovation” A beautiful way to pay tribute to Brandon 🙏🏽

  • @tiffanyfields2597
    @tiffanyfields2597 Рік тому +192

    In the midst of pain, you still find the ability to share a joke with your son to protect your son from feeling that grief. I was crying with you then fell out laughing with “ which one is more messed up”? Love and light to you Sir Rickey and your family ❤🙏🏽

    • @bettyrobinson9808
      @bettyrobinson9808 Рік тому +4

      My heart aches for you and the entire family. The love of Jesus Christ will love and protect all of you. Rejoice in this home going for Brandon absence in body means he is presence with the Lord. Prayers🙏 and love to you all❣️

    • @tonyatee6342
      @tonyatee6342 Рік тому +1

      I THINK THATS HIS NEPHEW

    • @dijackson30
      @dijackson30 Рік тому +2

      💔💔💔🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @tiffanyfields2597
      @tiffanyfields2597 Рік тому +6

      @@tonyatee6342 neph/son either way he stepped up and raised him like his very own since the young man was 9 .

    • @elissadennis8058
      @elissadennis8058 Рік тому

      @@dijackson30 your

  • @huntsvillegirl9581
    @huntsvillegirl9581 Рік тому +56

    When his daughter left the closet, after saying she was ok, I started crying as soon as he did. No one in the family is ok (understandably) but they are being supportive and strong for one another. 😢

  • @Mystical1022
    @Mystical1022 Рік тому +2

    my heart is melting - helping your daughter choose her outfit

  • @shaymyers3365
    @shaymyers3365 Рік тому +138

    There's strength in your tears. It's cleansing. Release Rickey. Crying makes you strong, not weak. Your kids and family need to see and know that❤️

    • @brendagrant9382
      @brendagrant9382 Рік тому +1

      Sure does.🙏🏾😌

    • @ladylox5724
      @ladylox5724 Рік тому +4

      So true ! It's a cleansing of the heart and soul. Although I was prepared for my moms death it still was hard on me that I needed medication. It took me a good minute to get back to me

    • @carlossimmons1260
      @carlossimmons1260 Рік тому +1

      Amen sis

  • @tanitralincoln6562
    @tanitralincoln6562 Рік тому +94

    Praying for Brandon's mother, and her family as well. Also, to every single person who has lost a loved one

    • @lindahines9380
      @lindahines9380 Рік тому

      Yes absolutely praying for her
      Brenda his mom! 🙏🙏

  • @fever4flavor
    @fever4flavor Рік тому +154

    I hope the Alpha's flood Brandon's Standing Ovation with a sea full of Black and Gold. Saluting you Rickey. Sending you strong hugs, prayers, and love.🖤💛

  • @SheDifferent
    @SheDifferent Рік тому +36

    That's a real Daddy right there! Make sure those girls are straight! I can't imagine the pain and frustration he is going through but always know you did and still do the very best you can for your kids. They are all blessed to have a father like you. Love you Rickey, love you Man.

    • @olliewardlaw4389
      @olliewardlaw4389 Рік тому

      I am praying for and with you in this difficult time. I cry with you. May God's blessings be with you from this day forward 🙏

    • @Dr.MitzieJenkins-ir1cq
      @Dr.MitzieJenkins-ir1cq Рік тому

      Very well stated , Amen 🙌🏽

  • @kayreneesgarden
    @kayreneesgarden Рік тому +428

    I’m standing with you Rickey. Love and Prayers to you and the family.

    • @michellegaut1459
      @michellegaut1459 Рік тому +6

      Amen and Amen same here 🤗🙏💛🙂

    • @michellegaut1459
      @michellegaut1459 Рік тому +5

      Love Prayers and Hugs to you and your family 🙏💛🤗👏😢😓

    • @tcam3046
      @tcam3046 Рік тому +5

      I’m stand in prayer with you Rickey Smiley and family. May God wrap his arms around all of you. 💐

    • @rubyjones2834
      @rubyjones2834 Рік тому +4

      Its so hard to say goodbye to daddy boy ,your doing good Rickey ,keep holding on for your family.

    • @collier1061
      @collier1061 Рік тому +6

      Lord give him strength

  • @karenpayne5660
    @karenpayne5660 Рік тому +122

    We understand, you are a public figure.
    You still didn't have to share, because you are a public figure.
    And: we appreciate you for sharing your journey!
    We love you and the family!
    My continued prayers!
    And: to everyone across this world!

    • @RONJAE212003
      @RONJAE212003 Рік тому +6

      I think it literally helps him.

    • @karenpayne5660
      @karenpayne5660 Рік тому +1

      @@RONJAE212003
      Of course.
      My late parents were preachers and being a public figure.
      Some... people want understand.
      I just know, I do.
      I wish I did this, when my biological and adopted has passed.
      I had to go to therapy years later.

  • @ladywarrior2365
    @ladywarrior2365 Рік тому +47

    Lord please give Brandon’s parents the strength to lay him to rest. Lord knows this can’t be easy.

  • @Askthe-Uw
    @Askthe-Uw Рік тому +50

    Some people may say you are crazy for recording yourself during this difficult time....BUT you should! Protect the integrity of your story and the integrity of Brandon because these internet trolls and bloggers are making up their own stories trying to pass it off as the truth. I am definitely praying for your strength and your comfort Mr. Smiley 🙏🏾 And it's okay to fall apart.

    • @tonyascreativespace3067
      @tonyascreativespace3067 Рік тому +9

      i just know i could not ever turn on a camera. God bless him! Jesus please give them peace and strength

    • @jaycromatie7473
      @jaycromatie7473 Рік тому +3

      🙏 SOMETIMES IT'S JUST DOESN'T SEEMS IT'S TRULY ENOUGH WORDS, THAT CAN BE EXPRESS WHEN U LOOSE SOMEONE ONE U TRULY, SINCERELY, DEARLY DEEPLY, LOVE😥💔 OH JESUS!!! OH JESUS!!! OH JESUS!!! HOW WE LOVE!! CALLING UR POWERFUL!!! AMAZING!!! ALMIGHTY!!! NAME!!! AMEN!!! AMEN!!! AMEN🙏

    • @P-Baby49
      @P-Baby49 Рік тому +4

      At your most Vulnerable time you make people laugh still!! I’m so so sorry for your loss, Mr. Rickey Smiley!! I’ve watched every video you’ve posted during this difficult time!! May God Bless you & your family; May he give you Peace that surpasses your understanding!!❤. Again, my condolences!!😢

    • @nikkigraham6489
      @nikkigraham6489 Рік тому

      Prayers to you and your family…..may supreme positive energy cover you and your family!

    • @Dr.MitzieJenkins-ir1cq
      @Dr.MitzieJenkins-ir1cq Рік тому

      AMEN! I AGREE 💯

  • @denicewilliamson8422
    @denicewilliamson8422 Рік тому +86

    This will be us at some point, if you haven't already experienced it. Please don't judge him or try to figure this out. LIFT him, the family and everyone that was connected to his son up in prayer. Let's learn to BUILD each other up, and NOT tare one another down. Love you Ricky🙏🏾❤❤

  • @kimstegall2168
    @kimstegall2168 Рік тому +85

    Ricky you don't owe no one an apology, the strongest man to me is a man that can cry. We are all only human beings, cry for your son shows how much you love ❤️ him

    • @actress29austin34
      @actress29austin34 Рік тому +4

      Well said ❤️ It's breaking my heart hearing him cry 💔😢 I can't even imagine the pain he's going through 🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @michellegaut1459
      @michellegaut1459 Рік тому +1

      Amen and Amen same here 🤗🙏💛

    • @raineyj560
      @raineyj560 Рік тому

      @@actress29austin34 💔💔💔 it's heartbreaking

  • @fairburngordonstephanie5398
    @fairburngordonstephanie5398 Рік тому +67

    God give Rickey, his children,his mom and Brandon mom and bonus dad the strength to make it through this today.

    • @sharonharvey9
      @sharonharvey9 Рік тому +3

      Praying for you and your family. Shed those tears whenever you want to, trust me whenvever you feel like crying let it out. God Loves You And Your Family. God loves all his children. He will be there when you meet him. Bless you and your family. Things will get better just give it to God and let those tears shed.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤❤❤

  • @lapeaches8006
    @lapeaches8006 Рік тому +36

    Thank you, Rickey for allowing us to be here for you ❤️. "Brandon's Standing Ovation"... Just perfect...He is very loved ❤️🙏🏽🕊

  • @blueskiesclearwater
    @blueskiesclearwater Рік тому +174

    Sending you all love and strength, Rickey. May the Holy Spirit rest upon and comfort you.

    • @rhondawilliams7411
      @rhondawilliams7411 Рік тому +9

      Thank You for allowing others to grieve with you openly. It will be 2 months on the 7th that we loss our son and having your post helps me express my sorrows also. Holding feelings inside is not good.

    • @uschicamamaluv1
      @uschicamamaluv1 Рік тому +4

      I'm so sorry sweetheart, prayers of comfort & strength to you & yours honey! This isn't easy, but God!

    • @dianewilliams4508
      @dianewilliams4508 Рік тому

      Amen 😢😢

    • @tonyathompson9331
      @tonyathompson9331 Рік тому

      Tonya Thompson from Flint MI love you and prayers to you and all the family

    • @penny1262
      @penny1262 Рік тому

      Amen

  • @traceylcrawford9275
    @traceylcrawford9275 Рік тому +12

    We need you now Father… Right now! Cover and comfort this family like only you can…😢🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @angelathornton4640
    @angelathornton4640 Рік тому +83

    That was the worst feeling in my life! I actually had to get dressed to go and bury my child. People will never know the pain that you feel. This is my final time to see my child physically, to touch him etc! God is with you Rickey and Brandon’s Mom. At least you two have each other, my son’s father is in prison, they allowed him to come but it had to be prior to everyone else! I’ve been going through this alone. May God bless and keep you both!!! I love you and your family!!! God is in control even in this season 🙏🏾❤️

    • @staciehorton8149
      @staciehorton8149 Рік тому +5

      May God continues to keep you. You have my deepest condolences. Praying for comfort and strength during this difficult time. Stay strong, God has you.

    • @angelathornton4640
      @angelathornton4640 Рік тому

      @@staciehorton8149 thank you so much 🙏🏾❤️

    • @user-du5xs6fm2n
      @user-du5xs6fm2n Рік тому +2

      Deepest sympathy ❤️‍🩹 sorry 😢 for your loss 😞 A mother knows the pain 🙏🏽☝🏾💐😇

    • @mikimousechocolate7449
      @mikimousechocolate7449 Рік тому +1

      I'm so sorry for your Loss as well 💔💜👑💐🙏🏿

    • @daniellevibes
      @daniellevibes Рік тому +3

      I read this and immediately broke out crying. My heart goes out to you. I said prayers for the pain to subside because I’m sure at times could be almost unbearable. Just remember people you don’t know do care. 🙏🏼

  • @gloriabazemore4796
    @gloriabazemore4796 Рік тому +29

    Someone else will need this very video to get through their moment of grief. This is greater than you, my dear Rickey.

    • @tesadanage3068
      @tesadanage3068 7 місяців тому

      Definitely helped me bury my father today

  • @MrRTFP
    @MrRTFP Рік тому +69

    No parent should ever have to endure the endless grief of laying their child to rest. My heart, thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family Ricky. I pray you find the strength somehow to make it through not only today, but also the long road ahead of moving forward with life..
    If there is such a thing in this situation. My soul genuinely hurts for you. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @Marquette.115
    @Marquette.115 Рік тому +143

    Hearing you cry 😢 had tears rolling down my face, and seeing your son comfort you was so heartbreaking 💔 😢. You got this, Rickey. You have encouraged me, but it. It's ok to cry. Let it out, Rickey. Once you lay your Son Brandon to rest, I want you to lay in your room and have a good cry 😢. We are praying for you, Rickey. I don't know why I can't catch your lives. I'm here for you. I been through losing my papa in August 2019. My mom June 5th 2020, then my brother June 6th 2021 I has 3 years back to back with death. I'm still have my days of crying I had therapy and I'm still holding on. You will never get over it but you will be able to cope to get through day by day. Love you, Rickey and your family

    • @staceyshine247
      @staceyshine247 Рік тому +2

      Please accept my sincerest condolences. 🕊

    • @missladyzee44
      @missladyzee44 Рік тому +3

      I can't catch his lives either & I be saying he needs to let it out

    • @Marquette.115
      @Marquette.115 Рік тому +1

      @@missladyzee44 Yes me too. It's so sad

    • @blessedlauralee
      @blessedlauralee Рік тому +1

      Marquette, Lord have mercy. This is so painful to watch. My heart breaks for him.

    • @Marquette.115
      @Marquette.115 Рік тому

      @blessedlauralee Yes mines, too. It's so sad

  • @wilmajones1090
    @wilmajones1090 Рік тому +19

    You have me crying, my heart truly goes out to you.He said on that video that he was a daddy’s boy.Rickey you’re strong to a degree but he was your son so you’re going to have breakdowns,you’re going to have laughter remembering the good and maybe some bad times,but Brandon will always be in your heart and the rest of the family.Best you ALL🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @donndiva252
    @donndiva252 Рік тому +111

    We are all behind you Rickey and praying for you all!!!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @Ilearneveryday322
    @Ilearneveryday322 Рік тому +34

    Rickey it's ok not to be ok. I can only imagine the pain. My newborn passed away 27yrs ago today and I only had her for 3hrs and 15mins and I almost lost my mind. You having your son 32yrs you are probably experiencing the worst pain. Prayers for you and the family.

    • @staceyshine247
      @staceyshine247 Рік тому +1

      Please accept my sincerest condolences. 🕊

  • @tramainemarie32
    @tramainemarie32 Рік тому +76

    Thank you for your documentaries Rickey Smiley. Grieving was something I never knew I would have to process on my own. I had to lay a loved one to rest all by myself. I felt so all alone, confused and numb. It felt like I was in a dark hole trying to find my way. Depression led me to close myself off from family and friends. This eventually lead me to having a nervous breakdown. I'm finally on the road to recovery from a nervous breakdown. We will never heal from losing a loved one but we most certainly can cope through others journey's and the advice they share that helped them get through the tough times. Never shut yourself off from the world, WE need voices like YOURS. We are praying for you and your family. Matthew 5:4 “Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted"🙏🏾

    • @MotherDivable
      @MotherDivable Рік тому +2

      🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

    • @vernettaphillips9443
      @vernettaphillips9443 Рік тому +5

      God's greatest blessings to you. Thank you for sharing your incredible loss experience. God loves you so much. Your story will help so many. God bless you

    • @katherinehaynes4126
      @katherinehaynes4126 Рік тому +1

      This says it all, you said it all. thank you for being so open and honest. I have buried 3 family members. And just buried my sister my only sister. Matthew 5:4 is absolutely correct. I am a witness you will smile again. Just stay in Jesus arms. Thank you a again you blessed me totally.

  • @caya4669
    @caya4669 Рік тому +2

    You have to cry Ricky your soul has to cleanse itself so sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you! I wish I could bring him back

  • @angieb2120
    @angieb2120 Рік тому +39

    Just because others are going through burying a child today or have buried a child, doesn't mean you don't deserve to grieve. It's supposed to hurt. If you didn't love him, it wouldn't hurt so bad. He came from you, he is a part of you and forever will be. Praying for you Rickey... 🙏🏽

  • @jchateau
    @jchateau Рік тому +50

    We love you Ricky!!! You don't have to be strong for us. My heart completely aches for you and your family.

  • @tama7205
    @tama7205 Рік тому +13

    The pain of a parent is unmatched😢

  • @GodsChild1414
    @GodsChild1414 Рік тому +1

    God Bless you and Family!🙏👋🙇🏽‍♀️🧡💜💙💚

  • @sherrifoxworth8177
    @sherrifoxworth8177 Рік тому +70

    Everything you're feeling and been feeling is apart of the GRIEVING PROCESS, IT comes in waves...it comes out of nowhere and sometimes it's uncontrollable..I too will continue to pray for Brandon's mother, my ❤️ truly goes out to her, Lord continue to strengthen her also.

  • @nonibaggyo7636
    @nonibaggyo7636 Рік тому +63

    I am a part of the grieving parents club also. I have been here. It comes in waves. Smacks you all over the place inside and out, internally and externally, past, present, and future, in the mind, heart, body, and soul, physically, spiritually, and emotionally. It is a tornado of the worst nightmare you ever imagined times 1000. I wish him peace, strength, love, and serenity. It's a long road to walk moving ahead with life. My sincere condolences Rickey. We love you, Brandon, and the family. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @justred5164
      @justred5164 Рік тому +3

      I’m feeling your grief as I read your comment 😢 I can’t imagine the pain 😢🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🌹🌹🥺

    • @jeanettejohnson1708
      @jeanettejohnson1708 Рік тому +5

      Such a beautiful message to Ricky. You are absolutely right about it. I lost my 19 year old grandson 7 years ago and it still gets rough sometimes.

  • @teep2056
    @teep2056 Рік тому +27

    This is the time when the stomach maybe in knots!!! We may not be there physically but we're THERE in spirit RICKEY, AND God got you and we are here supporting you sweetie.

  • @mokahgirl5165
    @mokahgirl5165 Рік тому +38

    So brave of RS to let us in on this part of his life. I'm already close to my child but even closer witnessing RS journey. Prayers for his strength during this time. 🙏🏽

  • @jessediaz1293
    @jessediaz1293 Рік тому +28

    28:52 “y’all need anything call me.”
    Rickey you are going through something so unexpected and horrible, but you still look out for your friends and loved ones.
    I respect that you always show compassion and put your people first.
    Peace and blessings to you and your family Rickey.

  • @LifeWithAlliDaily
    @LifeWithAlliDaily Рік тому +35

    Funerals are Hard! The hardest for sure is Always the closing of the casket! Praying for you all 🥺🙏🏾
    SN: Lol You can pull off any color 🥰🥰🥰

  • @cynthialyman1319
    @cynthialyman1319 Рік тому +40

    Let it out Rickey this going to be a long journey and there's no time limit on this journey of grieving I lost my daughter 3years ago and I'm still grieving it hurts so bad my mind my body my soul is not the same anymore stay strong Rickey because it can take a toll on your health be there for the rest of your children grandchildren and your mother you guys are in my prayers Rip Brandon smiley

  • @vikeyshamurray7553
    @vikeyshamurray7553 Рік тому +3

    Rickey you can't suppress your emotions, you got to grieve for your baby.

  • @ridinsolo8052
    @ridinsolo8052 Рік тому +35

    When you don’t know what to say…. Say nothing!
    Nothing but love for you Rick!❤️💔🙏🏾🕊️

  • @jessicastewart313
    @jessicastewart313 Рік тому +51

    How dare anyone presume to tell him how to grapple with this kind of devastation. May the haters and conspiracy theorists never know the sorrow of losing a literal piece of yourself without warning. Rick, hugs to you and your family during this difficult time. As you always say, if he'll bring you to it, he'll bring you through it. I can't tell you this will ever stop hurting, but God will give you the strength to move through what has happened.

    • @yolandascurry960
      @yolandascurry960 Рік тому

      Jessica Stewart I think they are just disrespectful! Someone just loss their child and they talking all the nonsense.🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @ThinkPink1309
    @ThinkPink1309 Рік тому +23

    Ricky, we see your pain. Everyone grieve differently, don't worry about what anybody thinks you owe no one any explanations ❤️

  • @Dr.MitzieJenkins-ir1cq
    @Dr.MitzieJenkins-ir1cq Рік тому +1

    😭😭😭😭 MY HEART IS SO BROKEN FOR YOU 💔... I'm crying along with you, because I remember this feeling all to well, and I'm still feeling it to this day! PRAISE GOD YOU ALL ARE THERE FOR EACH OTHER! May God Bless and Keep You and your entire family! I admire your STRENGTH 💪🏽💪🏽, we don't truly know how strong we are until it hits us🙏🏾... And in the mist of it all, you still find the STRENGTH to smile and try to make the kids laugh during this difficult time! You are an AMAZING HUMAN BEING and Your Kids are truly blessed to have you as their dad💪🏽🙌🏽 🙏🏾 GOD BLESS EACH OF YOU 🙏🏾

  • @monicagriffith2528
    @monicagriffith2528 Рік тому +55

    So brave of you to post what you are going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you. These are true feelings you are sharing during this process. Thank you for being real and knowing we are grieving with you; even though I do not know you or your son personally, I know you through the media. God be with you and your family during this time and always
    😔😪🙏🏾🩶❤️

  • @Jessica-d7g8y
    @Jessica-d7g8y Рік тому +35

    Ricky! You stood with us on the radio for years. Sending you love.

  • @LeaJackson90
    @LeaJackson90 Рік тому +64

    I really appreciate you sharing this journey. You’re helping others . Thank you for your vulnerability , strength and courage and I’m sorry this happened. Just remember, it’s ok to be sad sometimes.

  • @julez6nine
    @julez6nine Рік тому +13

    This is truly heartbreaking. I can not imagine what you’re going through. No one can unless they themselves have lost a child. It’s a terrible feeling to miss someone you’ve lost.
    “You will smile again”

  • @jilltheprivateinvestigator3328
    @jilltheprivateinvestigator3328 Рік тому +34

    My heart is shattered in a million pieces for you, Rickey. I wish there was something I could do to alleviate your sorrow and pain. Let it out, cry, that's what real men do. RIP Brandon Smiley

  • @tubetimingg
    @tubetimingg Рік тому +65

    No apologies needed. We feel you. Especially those of us who are dealing with current loss too. Your grief broke me all the way down and I'm crying right along with you. You are such an amazing father and you love with your entire heart and you've had so much to do all week long, you had to stay focused. Now that you've taken care of everything, it hit you like a ton of bricks. You don't have to be so strong and it's OK if you do have a breakdown, or 2, or 20, or 100. Do it to maintain your sanity. That's that pure unadulterated love that's tugging at your heart strings right now. The thought that you won't see him again till God calls you home, just sunk in. Everything is going to set you off, every little word, commercials, TV shows, favorite songs, memories, good times, bad times, and all the times you had will break you down. Although we may not know where they go. I'm leaning on what the Bible says, that he's right there with the Lord. I said a prayer for you and yours, Every time you did a video, since he passed. God's many blessings to you in your time of loss.

    • @deborahfoster1755
      @deborahfoster1755 Рік тому +4

      This is so beautiful and I’ve been crying along with him as well!!🥰🙏🏾🙏🏾😭😭❤️❤️

    • @tgarland5138
      @tgarland5138 Рік тому +3

      @@deborahfoster1755 im crying too, its the worst pain in the world omg

  • @Rickytrainwrestlingfan55
    @Rickytrainwrestlingfan55 Рік тому +22

    Remember Rickey, weeping may endure for a night but joy comes in the morning, sending love, prayers and condolences to you and your family from Ricky in Paris Tennessee

  • @LocsofLove_Ree
    @LocsofLove_Ree Рік тому +8

    Lord please pour an excess of Your grace & strength into this family. Give them what they need to continue to move forward on this difficult journey ❤️🙏🏾

  • @dandewaynejackson
    @dandewaynejackson Рік тому +25

    Man I love u Rickey!! It's heart breaking to see u cry but it's heart warming to see a person with this much celebrity share their personal lives with us . I feel honored to have u as an inspiration regardless of the situation. U are truly a blessing. Coming from one black man to another one 🤎

  • @quamiaross
    @quamiaross Рік тому +29

    I cannot imagine how devastating it is to lose a child and what you are currently enduring. I’m praying for the healing, restoration and peace of your family and you Rickey. The Lord is here to help you carry this burden in your time of need. May He bring you an inner comfort and strength that will sustain you in the midst of your pain.

  • @Royalpriesthood-kw
    @Royalpriesthood-kw Рік тому +2

    OMG...... MY EYES ARE FULL OF TEARS!!!!!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔 MY HEART IS BREAKING FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!!!!! I AM REALLY PRAYING FOR YOU ALL! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️

  • @tishainnis
    @tishainnis Рік тому +18

    This video reminds me of my Daddy when we lost my sister to suicide 8 yrs ago. I’ve never seen my Dad cry in my entire life until the day is lost His daughter. God is able Mr. Smiley. I know you already know that. I’m praying for you and your family. 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @widow3583
    @widow3583 Рік тому +8

    This broke my hard💔! I’m praying so hard for Rickey and his family🙏🏽.

  • @WillUfollowtheSon
    @WillUfollowtheSon Рік тому +40

    God’s strength and comfort to you and Brandon’s entire village! Sending love and light to you all. ❤

  • @joycemcgill7301
    @joycemcgill7301 Рік тому +2

    Sometimes it's ok not to be ok. Please take the time to grieve

  • @Uj2024-f1s
    @Uj2024-f1s Рік тому +32

    Thank you for being transparent through your pain and sharing this journey with all of us. Thank you for the laughs and the tears🙏🏽. Prayers to you, Brandon’s entire family and all of the families who are dealing with grieve of losing a loved one.

  • @kimbermichelle3922
    @kimbermichelle3922 Рік тому +39

    Brought back memories of my son, the morning of his service I was at Walmart crying! Praying for STRENGTH for you and your entire family 🙏 How is your Mom doing?

    • @fever4flavor
      @fever4flavor Рік тому +7

      Sending you hugs. Mother to Mother ❤

    • @beverlycrawford571
      @beverlycrawford571 Рік тому +1

      I'm also sending you a big hug, may God bless and comfort you ♥️🙏🙏🙏

  • @travyp.2430
    @travyp.2430 Рік тому +43

    My prayers, condolences and deepest sympathies to you and the family Rickey. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @verabrownfield5453
    @verabrownfield5453 Рік тому +11

    Rickey Smiley I pray for you and all the families that had to let family ascend on to eternal rest. My heartfelted condolences I just went through this Saturday 2/4/2023 with a cousin. Rest in eternal peace Brandon. 🙏🏾🕊

  • @thikknikk5
    @thikknikk5 Рік тому +17

    Me and my husband are standing with you Rickey as you send him off to heaven🙏🏽❤️ #restinpeaceBrandon

  • @lindaperry1976
    @lindaperry1976 Рік тому +13

    Hugs to you Rickey. Condolences to you and the family. Let it out my brother. God is with you.

  • @jaclynwilliams7876
    @jaclynwilliams7876 Рік тому +27

    I’m praying for all of you. We had to bury my nephew last year and that was one of the hardest things ever in my life. I’ll be sending my sister these videos hoping they’ll help her through since it’s coming up on the 1 year anniversary of my nephew’s passing.I can’t even imagine the pain you’re feeling.

    • @queenjj201
      @queenjj201 Рік тому +2

      Why would you send this video to your sister to remind her of the pain she went through? If a year has passed, why send her back to that space?

    • @jaclynwilliams7876
      @jaclynwilliams7876 Рік тому +1

      @@queenjj201 Rickey has done several videos this week some have been very encouraging and those I will send to her. Thanks

  • @mrsnina8573
    @mrsnina8573 Рік тому +1

    I Love You so much praying for you

  • @jushere4thacomments671
    @jushere4thacomments671 Рік тому +19

    This cry was needed. This video was needed. This testimony was needed. If not for you then for someone else experiencing pain. Sending love and light ❤️

  • @raventhomas9515
    @raventhomas9515 Рік тому +10

    Many days I have come to your channel for laughs and lessons… today was a harder lesson of the two if I can laugh with you I can definitely cry with you. We love you Uncle Ricky.

  • @yogirlnatalie
    @yogirlnatalie Рік тому +31

    We send our prayers to you today my brother. We love you and stay strong.

  • @jermaineellerbe6006
    @jermaineellerbe6006 Рік тому +16

    How brave Mr. Smiley must be to share his emotions with the public while grieving. It reminded me of when Florida broke down after James repast in the kitchen. My prayers with his family.

  • @j022002
    @j022002 Рік тому +9

    Why is Brandon coming through your strength. It's amazing. May he rest peace for always and always.

  • @betterbecausebookclub8732
    @betterbecausebookclub8732 Рік тому +33

    🙏🏾 your posts are helping get the crowded thoughts out of your mind. It’s okay. Anyone can look at your face and see the pain behind all the jokes. Eyes don’t lie and you can’t see in your face that you aren’t eating. Praying for you and the entire family, his friends and anyone who was connected. Special prayers to your granddaughter and all of the siblings. To have to lay a child to rest and wipe the tears from your remaining children’s eyes all at the same time. Lord God give him strength.

  • @horashiosmart9298
    @horashiosmart9298 Рік тому +10

    Lord give Ricky and his family strength today!!!

  • @takialawson705
    @takialawson705 Рік тому +6

    Just cause I’m not crying 😢 and screaming doesn’t mean it’s not a nightmare. You are absolutely right sir. Strength for you- Rickey!!! God Bless y’all!!!

  • @veesharie6106
    @veesharie6106 Рік тому +10

    It's been 10 years and I still have moments like this!!!!....We are with you!!!!

  • @Cathi11327
    @Cathi11327 Рік тому +12

    I feel your pain my brother. I lost my daughter two years ago. I am still confused because cause of her death still unknown. Take heart my brother.

    • @missladyzee44
      @missladyzee44 Рік тому +2

      My condolences 🙏 my sister. The 19th of this month will be the anniversary of my bbyboy death. My Son was just left to die & I have no closure, no answers so I can relate. He just turned 28 in January & died in February

    • @MissOddyO
      @MissOddyO Рік тому

      ❤🙏

  • @sylvahmoon5550
    @sylvahmoon5550 Рік тому +9

    The hurt is real! I lost my husband and sister and feel so empty inside. God propels me EVERYDAY! You made me realize life can go on (when I saw you volunteer). I am praying for your strength. Grief is real! I will continue to pray with you and for you. 🙏🏾

  • @urfavgaycousin
    @urfavgaycousin Рік тому +25

    Woooooooow. In all my life never heard it flipped in such a Way that sounds better. Not a homegoing not a funeral or memorial but a standing ovation. Wow! Thats what i iwll call funerals from now on. A standing ovation !! 👏 😢

  • @michaelpcoleman8894
    @michaelpcoleman8894 Рік тому +1

    You have walked a walk that none of us parents want to even think about. You are an inspiration. Sending love and prayers to you and your family

  • @MoniquaL77
    @MoniquaL77 Рік тому +10

    Man I felt that, my heart is weeping for you, stay strong soldier!!😢

  • @RicardoCray
    @RicardoCray Рік тому +5

    You’re not “Just a dad” Mr Smiley respectfully. Your pain is valid it’s ok to not be ok. The pain is the same Father and Mother I pray for you both 🙏🏾✝️

  • @sharticiagomez2458
    @sharticiagomez2458 Рік тому +7

    Rickey, I spend every morning commute with you and your crew, so I feel like I'm watching my big brother experience the worst time of his life and I'm hurting for you. I pray that God gives you strength, peace, and grace as you face tomorrow and each day. Take care!

  • @valeshawaller4947
    @valeshawaller4947 Рік тому +1

    Release Rickey, Release. Prayers Up.

  • @MimiMyers
    @MimiMyers Рік тому +28

    Sending y’all our deepest sympathies! We are hurting with you Brother!!! We love you and your family, and are standing in the gap as well as standing ovation! Continued love, hugs, support, encouragement, and prayers! ❤❤❤

  • @kristin8270
    @kristin8270 Рік тому +25

    I’m really sorry for your loss Rickey. Praying for you and your family.

  • @joyce9857
    @joyce9857 Рік тому +21

    I'm so sorry for your loss Ricky, unfortunately I've been there, it's hard, it really IS a nightmare, you're a man of God and you will get through this, I buried a daughter and I cherish her memories instead of mourning her death

  • @rosewaterempress8226
    @rosewaterempress8226 Рік тому +1

    I have no words for you…… I ask GOD to send you strength and Love at this time I love you as a fan. I love you and ask you to stay strong as my brother in Christ. Blessings Love and Light🥰

  • @angelagainey3038
    @angelagainey3038 Рік тому +5

    Mr. Smiley, it's ok to not be ok. You don't know me from a grain of salt, but I am here for you & I Pray God's comfort, strength, and peace for you and your family. Sending love, hugs, and Prayers to you all. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽♥️

  • @nicko4086
    @nicko4086 Рік тому +9

    🙏🏾🤲🏾🙏🏾🤲🏾 this man still finds away to let comedy shine through in a time of pain!! God bless you and your family Mr Smiley🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @dontcrossme4120
    @dontcrossme4120 Рік тому +21

    I can only imagine the pain you must feel right now 😢 It’s unnatural for a parent to bury their child. My deepest condolences to you and your family. You all are in my prayers 🙏🏾

  • @viviangoard3678
    @viviangoard3678 Рік тому +1

    Psalm 121
    Rickey, I'm sincerely sorry about your loss. Praying 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 for strength for you and your family. Hugs and kisses💋❤❤❤

  • @veniestagourdine3881
    @veniestagourdine3881 Рік тому +25

    Boy I can just feel the love from Ricky’s kids to him . Ricky you have a wonderful support group . You raised them well . God bless your family , May he give you peace.

  • @amandafails1503
    @amandafails1503 Рік тому +8

    I lost my only son four years ago and the hurt is still in my heart ,be strong you get through it .God and Jesus is holding you in the palms of their hands . Amen

  • @karensmith2722
    @karensmith2722 Рік тому +17

    I’m praying for you and the entire Smiley family, Brandon’s mom and dad and all siblings, grand parents, aunts uncles everyone. Standing with you all today and days and weeks to come ❤

  • @ehcash5623
    @ehcash5623 Рік тому +1

    My heart is breaking for you. I’m sitting here watching you. I’m crying with you 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 come on Rickey I’m getting and headache from crying.

  • @roseda5044
    @roseda5044 Рік тому +18

    Our heavenly father will help you Ricky, God will walk this walk with you💯 rest in peace Brandon you are such a good man💯 my prayers are with you and your family. True love❤️