As a student it's so hard for me to stop jealousy from engulfing me.. academics is the only thing I'm ever jealous about. But insha'Allah I'll try to stop it
I also have been experiencing jealousy in terms of academic, and it's the worst feeling ever. I thought I could go through over it and it'll eventually disappear in my heart and mind, but it's coming back and i feel like going crazy. Insha'Allah we can overcome this ugly emotion..🤍
Another point to add to this is that we may complain that so and so person has something that we don’t have. However if we objectively assess our situation we will find there are many things that we have that the person we are envying does not have. Take money for example. We may envy the wealthy person but maybe they don’t have a family because they are too busy working, or they don’t have peace because they need security to go everywhere as they can’t just walk down the street freely. So in reality, there is always a balance.
I taught a friend for years. We got back in touch today, and he told me he's a millionaire. He thanked me for helping him all those years, and said if it wasn't for me he wouldn't be where he is. He knows I struggle financially. Yet hasn't offered to help. I expect that because if I was in that situation I would help my brother. But I understand some peoples hearts are different to mine. I had some envy. I was upset. So I found this video to remind me that Allah has a path for me, and I should follow it. I am happy for my friend. I've helped 2 friends succeed. One does help a little from time to time and I thank him for that. Life is a journey, and Allah has a purpose for me. Money doesn't mean anything.
I am Jay Jay, but I'm on my laptop on work account. I tried to leave the earth yesterday and ended up in hospital. The envy did this to me. The same problem I discussed above got so bad it became torture for me. It's clear to me that I need to cut these "friendships" to protect myself. Everything in this video is relatable and here I am again watching it.
The only thing to wish for is Does Allah love me! Why should one ever be jealous of others when we Dont even know if they are going to Jannah or not! However people are tested with different emotions, alhamdolillah I have never felt jealous or understood how people feel jealous. Alhamdolillah it's a big blessing. When I pray I say ya Allah give me and give others more.
Whenever I feel envy or jealous, I make as much dua as I can for the other person, even if it feels painful; and I try to be sincere in them. I also keep saying Alhamdullilah. If not anything else, it calms me down and helps me have a clean conscious.
Think of jealousy is losing what you have and it being giving to someone else. Be happy when people do good and you will get the same if not more an opposite.
I am so grateful for u for ur words.You elaborated my feelings which i thought , were mere hateful feelings. May Allah protect me and my family from this sin .
Here are some ways to earn good deeds after death: 1) Give a copy of the Qur'an to someone. Each time one reads from it you gain. 2) Donate a wheelchair to a hospital. Each time a sick person uses it you gain. 3) Participate in building a masjid. 4) Place a watercooler in a public space. 5) Plant a tree. You gain whenever a person or an animal sits in its shade or eats from it. 6) And the easiest of all, share this message to spread the goodness.
Amazing speech ! My in laws are jealous of me that I live overseas and have freedom that they never had. Every time I go so much drama, bullying, demanding , nagging happens. I used to wonder why they are so mean to me, but now only after 15 years of marriage I understood that it’s because of jealousy and envy they feel towards me. I used to cry in silence all these years. They call me with all kinds of names on my face. The only reason I tolerated all these nonsense all these years is to keep my marriage so that my child won’t grow up without a father. Please talk more about these topics, I have huge respect for you Nauman Ali Khan. I am not the only one suffering in silence. Millions of us going through the same problem. Please give a speech about women’s rights in Islam. How can we stop this in laws problem? Thanks
This man is phenomenal in his speech. I am big fan of Dr.Israr Ahmed and after him i admire Brother Nouman Ali khan. He is one of the best Daee of 21st CE.
Dangers of Jealously - Stay Cautious Everybody 😢 1. Rebellion of Shaitan; reason was Jealousy 2. 1st Murder (Habil & Qabil); reason was jealously 3.Son of Yaqub AS wanted to kill his brother; reason was jealously
JazakAllah Khair, Imam Nouman. Each lecture reminds me of how to improve myself. May Allah keep blessing you and your esteemed family. (Ameen). Sura The Heights 7:150, “Make not the enemies rejoice over my misfortune, nor count me amongst the people of sin,” (Ya Allah)…..”Moses prayed, (peace be upon him), “Oh my Lord! Forgive me and my brother(s)! Admit us to your Mercy! For you are the Most Merciful of those who show Mercy.”
When Allah guided me without no one i will continue without no one and that is the truth dajjal devil's. And for people who are misguided ??? How to have Ego when i started just with Allah alone 👍🏼🤔🤔🤔,?? Sometimes people need to think before they judge. And me completing my work not like possessed like before👍🏼 Because i have a life too 👍🏼 But just that they know no game in the world will let me quit what god wants me to do And i prefer always god before people and m🤑ney 👍🏼😊
I am in the search of understanding where we get this bad attributes like envy, and similar feelings. I was told that we get some of our good attributes from Allah (cc) and it is just the spec of what the actual attrbute that Allah has toward us like love, patience, mercy etc.
The elder generation did not treat us equally at all or give us ounce of respect causing drifts separation hate and jealousy amongst us siblings Playing us against each other for their own personal greed and benefits Oppression injustice and cultural interference has caused siblings to break blood ties and hate the parents It quite sad some cousins parents had to return back to Allah for them to reunite again as siblings
I’m sorry to hear that, Piqueny8872. You’re right. Some of us elders had forgotten to appreciate each child’s special diversities. I recommend, as a mere teacher, that you not let the elders’ attitudes get between you and Merciful Allah who gives all people fair chances, without racial disparities or hierarchical superiority. Subhanallah.
I feel like sometimes I get jealous when this person at work is too friendly with my sister in law and she ignores me as we all work in the same work place 😢
Assalamualaikum sir. I am from bangladesh . And also a bengal people .i try to hear your lecture regularly.but i cant understand your talks fluently.because i dont understand English speaking form but i can understand clearly English written form.so i request to you very sincerely for a wide number of bengali and other foreign people's including me ,,, please please add English subtitles under your video lecture. Barakumullah fi hayatai , knowledge and your health.. zazakumullah khairan .
If someone sees this it would be good if you leave some advice for me ❤ So a arranged marriage proposal came to us for me, in our country the guy's family comes to see the girl in her home but before that the guy is shown the photo of the girl if it a yes then his family comes along with him to the girls home. The above happened to me they came and saw me and I think possibly the guy rejected me after seeing. They kept telling our family that my skin color was a little dark compared to the guy bcoz he basically was very attractive and very fair skinned. The rejection hurts me what I didn't understand was if that saw my pic he should've rejected me in the first instance rather coming to my house giving me hope and then rejecting me at the end. It hurts bcz it could've been prevented if the guy just said no that he wanted a good looking girl. Breaking someone's heart I guess people take it very lightly. My heart is troubled by all of this thinking about what he has done to me.
The rejection from that guy may be a little hardship that you could face before getting into a beautiful blessed life..Indeed Allah SWT is aware of everything...The current situation might be a part of ur test from Allah SWT because something good is awaiting for you
Thank Allah SWT the light of goodness has been shown to you before you committed yourself into a marriage. Believe me young sister this is a blessing for you. Imagine being in a marriage when you always a rejection or second best. The hell you would have gone through.
Hold on to your Rabb sis, He will get you through this 🤲🏽 I know it's not easy but you will 🥰 I am in a relatable situation myself 🥴 dispate the hard time am having to let go it, I know that Allah SWT will help me the process 🙏 I prayed and cried out to Allah, Alhamdulillah 🤲🏽 I feel much better than before. Cry out to Allah dear sis 🤲🏽 He'll help get through this I promise. And Allah SWT make it easy for you ' me and everyone who's going through any difficulty. Amin YaRabb 🤲🏽
For my Masons and fam You can not win against Allah or their ch👑sen w🏆ns Because they have Angels who tell them 👍🏼😉 but you can watch and b🔥rn 👍🏼😉🎯 🪽🐎🪽
I dont know if its jealousy or what but if you wish for something that your brother has just ask Allah to grant you and dont say why me also pray for the brother may Allah put barakah in what he has because (the duaa) will protect him from evil eye
If its wrong you will know its wrong, your mind tells you. I think its ok to desire what someone else has, but when you desire that he should not have it, then its a problem.
Sometimes the wrong doer can appear to be a victim.. Even though they have victims... because jealousy is consuming them like a disease, so that jealousy will make them deeply unhappy, discontented and unwell.
Wake all up how can people who s🤑ld their S🔥uls be trust worthy. Muhammed.S.A.W prayed close to Mufti Munafiqs t😉😉 But they call me Sick and i'am Here to sh👁🪽w them who is real and who is fake 👍🏼✅️🪽 Merci from your 👑King👑 Not all can see what i see👍🏼
Assalam walaikum. I have been trying to subscribe to bayyinah tv for almost 2 months now. Every time the amount gets withdrawn from my account i feel like i will start focusing on the Quran now, but you send back the amount and it says you can't subscribe and my hope dies little by little. I am slowly building these negative thoughts on my mind whether you dislike Indian muslims so you don't want us to learn the Quran or know about duniya and aakhira and all. Brother or sister whoever handles this Indian account something for bayyinah tv Someone please help out. I am ready to pay, tried paypal, tried gpay nothing is working. Jazakallah khair
As a student it's so hard for me to stop jealousy from engulfing me.. academics is the only thing I'm ever jealous about. But insha'Allah I'll try to stop it
Same 😭😔 I'm a student too and I feel super jealous of my friend cuz they have better grades
I also have been experiencing jealousy in terms of academic, and it's the worst feeling ever. I thought I could go through over it and it'll eventually disappear in my heart and mind, but it's coming back and i feel like going crazy. Insha'Allah we can overcome this ugly emotion..🤍
Same here brother, I just came here to wash away the pain
it's so hard to not feel jealous :( I hope Allah protects me from this feeling
The biggest reason for hating others is jealousy...
so true....
Another point to add to this is that we may complain that so and so person has something that we don’t have. However if we objectively assess our situation we will find there are many things that we have that the person we are envying does not have. Take money for example. We may envy the wealthy person but maybe they don’t have a family because they are too busy working, or they don’t have peace because they need security to go everywhere as they can’t just walk down the street freely. So in reality, there is always a balance.
Not true. I'm jealous of someone who has everything better than me. Literally everything.
They still have their own struggles@@jackjack4412
I taught a friend for years. We got back in touch today, and he told me he's a millionaire. He thanked me for helping him all those years, and said if it wasn't for me he wouldn't be where he is. He knows I struggle financially. Yet hasn't offered to help. I expect that because if I was in that situation I would help my brother. But I understand some peoples hearts are different to mine. I had some envy. I was upset. So I found this video to remind me that Allah has a path for me, and I should follow it. I am happy for my friend. I've helped 2 friends succeed. One does help a little from time to time and I thank him for that. Life is a journey, and Allah has a purpose for me. Money doesn't mean anything.
I am Jay Jay, but I'm on my laptop on work account. I tried to leave the earth yesterday and ended up in hospital. The envy did this to me. The same problem I discussed above got so bad it became torture for me. It's clear to me that I need to cut these "friendships" to protect myself. Everything in this video is relatable and here I am again watching it.
The only thing to wish for is Does Allah love me! Why should one ever be jealous of others when we Dont even know if they are going to Jannah or not!
However people are tested with different emotions, alhamdolillah I have never felt jealous or understood how people feel jealous. Alhamdolillah it's a big blessing. When I pray I say ya Allah give me and give others more.
Subhan Allah, the mentality 🔥🔥 Allahumma barik
I hope everyone becomes Muslim. Honestly the wisdom god bestows us is jaw dropping.
Whenever I feel envy or jealous, I make as much dua as I can for the other person, even if it feels painful; and I try to be sincere in them. I also keep saying Alhamdullilah. If not anything else, it calms me down and helps me have a clean conscious.
I thought it was only meee . 😭🫶🏼
♥️ ماشاء الله لاقوة الا بالله
الله الكبر ♥️
سبحان الله وبحمده ♥️
Jazakallahu Khairan Sheikh
May Allah bless you with great knowledge and wisdom
May Allah swt protect you and your family my brother nouman
Mash Allah. May Allah swt bless you, my brother Nouman.
May Allah bless you always proud to be ur students
بارك الله فيك
لا اله الا الله
Jazakallahu khair shaikh. May Allah azzawajal reward you immensely. I needed to hear this today. Thanks again.
Think of jealousy is losing what you have and it being giving to someone else. Be happy when people do good and you will get the same if not more an opposite.
May Allah protect us
Ameen
Jazaq Allahukum khairan Shaikh💐💐💐💐💐
I am so grateful for u for ur words.You elaborated my feelings which i thought , were mere hateful feelings.
May Allah protect me and my family from this sin .
Here are some ways to earn good deeds after death:
1) Give a copy of the Qur'an to someone. Each time one reads from it you gain.
2) Donate a wheelchair to a hospital. Each time a sick person uses it you gain.
3) Participate in building a masjid.
4) Place a watercooler in a public space.
5) Plant a tree. You gain whenever a person or an animal sits in its shade or eats from it.
6) And the easiest of all, share this message to spread the goodness.
GOD BLESS YOUR WORK 👍🏼
Jazakumulahi khairan 🙏🏻
Amazing speech ! My in laws are jealous of me that I live overseas and have freedom that they never had. Every time I go so much drama, bullying, demanding , nagging happens. I used to wonder why they are so mean to me, but now only after 15 years of marriage I understood that it’s because of jealousy and envy they feel towards me. I used to cry in silence all these years. They call me with all kinds of names on my face. The only reason I tolerated all these nonsense all these years is to keep my marriage so that my child won’t grow up without a father. Please talk more about these topics, I have huge respect for you Nauman Ali Khan. I am not the only one suffering in silence. Millions of us going through the same problem. Please give a speech about women’s rights in Islam. How can we stop this in laws problem? Thanks
MashaAllah...
Keep it up brother...
Very true as you have really inspired me by you true message . I come from a christian back ground🙏
Allhamdoullilah of the closeness to Allah because the King is always enough😁
My Angels no headache 😁🤥
It is the root of all evil. Almost Every sin is linked in some way to jealousy/envy
This man is phenomenal in his speech. I am big fan of Dr.Israr Ahmed and after him i admire Brother Nouman Ali khan. He is one of the best Daee of 21st CE.
I am worst victim of jealousy
Mee too😢
May Allah Make it easy For Us...
I am struggling from this from past 7 years
me too.
Its true what you are said sheikh 😢😢😢😢 i was in this period now i am cleaning this mind
جزاک اللہ خیرا
Dangers of Jealously - Stay Cautious Everybody 😢
1. Rebellion of Shaitan; reason was Jealousy
2. 1st Murder (Habil & Qabil); reason was jealously
3.Son of Yaqub AS wanted to kill his brother; reason was jealously
Jazak'Allahu-khair
May allah protect us.
Merci= mercy
JazakAllah Khair, Imam Nouman. Each lecture reminds me of how to improve myself. May Allah keep blessing you and your esteemed family. (Ameen).
Sura The Heights 7:150, “Make not the enemies rejoice over my misfortune, nor count me amongst the people of sin,” (Ya Allah)…..”Moses prayed, (peace be upon him), “Oh my Lord! Forgive me and my brother(s)! Admit us to your Mercy! For you are the Most Merciful of those who show Mercy.”
SübhanALLAH
When Allah guided me without no one i will continue without no one and that is the truth dajjal devil's. And for people who are misguided ??? How to have Ego when i started just with Allah alone 👍🏼🤔🤔🤔,??
Sometimes people need to think before they judge. And me completing my work not like possessed like before👍🏼
Because i have a life too 👍🏼
But just that they know no game in the world will let me quit what god wants me to do
And i prefer always god before people and m🤑ney 👍🏼😊
Jealousy envy is disgusting.
I am in the search of understanding where we get this bad attributes like envy, and similar feelings. I was told that we get some of our good attributes from Allah (cc) and it is just the spec of what the actual attrbute that Allah has toward us like love, patience, mercy etc.
Subhana Allah
The elder generation did not treat us equally at all or give us ounce of respect causing drifts separation hate and jealousy amongst us siblings
Playing us against each other for their own personal greed and benefits
Oppression injustice and cultural interference has caused siblings to break blood ties and hate the parents
It quite sad some cousins parents had to return back to Allah for them to reunite again as siblings
I’m sorry to hear that, Piqueny8872. You’re right. Some of us elders had forgotten to appreciate each child’s special diversities. I recommend, as a mere teacher, that you not let the elders’ attitudes get between you and Merciful Allah who gives all people fair chances, without racial disparities or hierarchical superiority. Subhanallah.
1:26
Thank you.
I feel like sometimes I get jealous when this person at work is too friendly with my sister in law and she ignores me as we all work in the same work place 😢
As-Salaam Alaikum.
Some people like to make others jealous and love people being jealous. So sad
Assalamualaikum sir. I am from bangladesh . And also a bengal people .i try to hear your lecture regularly.but i cant understand your talks fluently.because i dont understand English speaking form but i can understand clearly English written form.so i request to you very sincerely for a wide number of bengali and other foreign people's including me ,,, please please add English subtitles under your video lecture. Barakumullah fi hayatai , knowledge and your health.. zazakumullah khairan .
We are all unique but not special
I hope Allah protects me from this ...😭😭
assalamualaikum sir
❤
To Rebuild qanaah of heart situates
🙏🙏🙏
Plz...send us...for urdu leacture.
Update some urdu leacture.
If someone sees this it would be good if you leave some advice for me ❤
So a arranged marriage proposal came to us for me, in our country the guy's family comes to see the girl in her home but before that the guy is shown the photo of the girl if it a yes then his family comes along with him to the girls home.
The above happened to me they came and saw me and I think possibly the guy rejected me after seeing. They kept telling our family that my skin color was a little dark compared to the guy bcoz he basically was very attractive and very fair skinned. The rejection hurts me what I didn't understand was if that saw my pic he should've rejected me in the first instance rather coming to my house giving me hope and then rejecting me at the end. It hurts bcz it could've been prevented if the guy just said no that he wanted a good looking girl. Breaking someone's heart I guess people take it very lightly. My heart is troubled by all of this thinking about what he has done to me.
The rejection from that guy may be a little hardship that you could face before getting into a beautiful blessed life..Indeed Allah SWT is aware of everything...The current situation might be a part of ur test from Allah SWT because something good is awaiting for you
Thank Allah SWT the light of goodness has been shown to you before you committed yourself into a marriage.
Believe me young sister this is a blessing for you. Imagine being in a marriage when you always a rejection or second best. The hell you would have gone through.
@@SaniyaSaniya-hk1yf jazzak Allah sis for the good words. Please may Dua that I can forget this pain and live a good life
@@contentment8875 jazzak Allah for the good words. Please make dua for me that I forget this pain and have a good life
Hold on to your Rabb sis, He will get you through this 🤲🏽 I know it's not easy but you will 🥰 I am in a relatable situation myself 🥴 dispate the hard time am having to let go it, I know that Allah SWT will help me the process 🙏 I prayed and cried out to Allah, Alhamdulillah 🤲🏽 I feel much better than before. Cry out to Allah dear sis 🤲🏽 He'll help get through this I promise. And Allah SWT make it easy for you ' me and everyone who's going through any difficulty. Amin YaRabb 🤲🏽
For my Masons and fam
You can not win against
Allah or their ch👑sen w🏆ns
Because they have Angels who tell them 👍🏼😉 but you can watch and b🔥rn 👍🏼😉🎯
🪽🐎🪽
1st view❤️
No one cares
ما شاء الله
بارك الله فيك
What if someone feels why not me ? However, don't want other person to fail. Does it also count in jealousy?
I dont know if its jealousy or what but if you wish for something that your brother has just ask Allah to grant you and dont say why me also pray for the brother may Allah put barakah in what he has because (the duaa) will protect him from evil eye
If its wrong you will know its wrong, your mind tells you. I think its ok to desire what someone else has, but when you desire that he should not have it, then its a problem.
Can someone explain it to me? Wrong-doer is the victim? So who's the real wrong-doer? I don't get it 😢
Sometimes the wrong doer can appear to be a victim.. Even though they have victims... because jealousy is consuming them like a disease, so that jealousy will make them deeply unhappy, discontented and unwell.
You didn't told the solution for Hasd.
What about a mother being jealous of her daughter? what does Islam say about this ?
Khutbah shld not be cut short abruptedly for paid sign up....which I cannot afford 😠
You can access this channel khutbah s are not paid content here
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Wake all up how can people who s🤑ld their S🔥uls be trust worthy. Muhammed.S.A.W prayed close to Mufti Munafiqs t😉😉
But they call me Sick and i'am
Here to sh👁🪽w them who is real and who is fake 👍🏼✅️🪽
Merci from your 👑King👑
Not all can see what i see👍🏼
The next narc wants to talk
When i say chico i don't mean you😂😂😂😂 it's my intelligence who wants to use many words. S🔥RRY 👺😁🎯
D👺vil's are hopeless against
Salomo Kingdom and C.o
🪽🐎🪽 but we let them think
😂 they can defeat me 👍🏼😉🪽
Assalam walaikum. I have been trying to subscribe to bayyinah tv for almost 2 months now. Every time the amount gets withdrawn from my account i feel like i will start focusing on the Quran now, but you send back the amount and it says you can't subscribe and my hope dies little by little. I am slowly building these negative thoughts on my mind whether you dislike Indian muslims so you don't want us to learn the Quran or know about duniya and aakhira and all. Brother or sister whoever handles this Indian account something for bayyinah tv Someone please help out. I am ready to pay, tried paypal, tried gpay nothing is working. Jazakallah khair