For those who are interested in the timeline. Prior to marrying Jen, Elliot was in a relationship with a girl named Claire. He was thus an insecure boyfriend before he became Jen’s red flag boyfriend eventually to become the manipulative husband who cheated. However, keep in mind that this all takes place in an alternate universe where Elliot never decided to change his ways. Thank you for watching and supporting my nonsense
Whenever i dont accomplish my goals due procrastination, i force myself to watch your compilations on a loop for 3 hours. It really did work, im a billionare now
Honestly I want to thank you for your videos, these specifically. It helped me heal because I saw my ex in all of these in one way or another. and while the initial breakup hurt, it made me happy to know it was for the best because he was not treating me like I should have been treated. You’ve brought a smile to my face!
"We used to date" "You don't even seem to care" That's absolutely a green flag lol poor guy doesn't even see how good it is to have a partner who DOESNT get upset knowing that you dated before them
Because for people like him, love is about possession. He doesn't understand that possessiveness is actually ego, which is pride. And that pride actually has no place in love. So his entire perception of what love is all about is warped, making him incapable of it in the first place.
My God, I know it's not the real you, but I hope you are already married solid, because your videos are making my ovaries shrink just by watching and I'm pretty sure I'm not the only woman who feels that 😂 You are so good at it. Can't say I enjoy watching your videos but I love them in a special way ❤
I have much more clarity today. I know gabe betrayed me, i know you betrayed me, i know i need to get my life together. Im finally getting my head back. Im not as insecure as Ive been acting. I wish success to everyone. I just want to be left alone
"I 43M and my 23F wife moved in together into my place (i paid for it) and her 2 month old son who has severe asthma and i told her to get rid of the child because it sounds weird, AITA?" NTA your house your rules
I had a partner very much like this. It was such a stressful relationship. My hair started turning white, and after I finally moved out, most of it grew out black again. Sometimes I vomited after conversations like these. My heart rate is up just watching the sketches. This guy is talented.
Ugh I know what you mean. Those relationships where you hold tension in your shoulders all the time and feel anxiety just being around the other person. Insecurity is a relationship *destroyer.*
@@smockingbard There could be several reasons, e.g. it can be hard to break off a relationship with a person you're attached to. Maybe it was trauma bonding, or another reason.
@@deathrowlemon7367 Often people in bad relationships like these feel trapped. My first boyfriend was awful and toxic, but he made it feel like he was the only one who understood me and could help me with the severe mental health issues I was facing. Financial issues can also be a reason, if the person has to rely on their abuser in order to have somewhere to live/have food, etc.
These videos are literally educational for us nice guys. I'm a recovering nice guy and these videos really make me aware of what NOT to do and how to be a better boyfriend and human
@@empyie666 thanks for recognizing the change instead of thinking he should be shamed into isolation for eternity. people can change and grow, and teach others how to as well.
Here’s your 600th like, and a notification so you can see how it’s popped off, since YT puts top comments in witness protection so you can never find them again. At least until you get a random notification 17 months later.
@@cortmelor Recently I got a notification that someone replied to my comment for a video I’d watched/commented on a few months ago. It had under 20 likes last I saw, and when I came back from that notification it had 5000+ likes. That was the only notification I got for it too. Lmao YT doesn’t give af.
I actually have a daughter with my insecure ex. He was no better as a father than he was as a partner. When it was obvious that he could no longer emotionally manipulate me because I was just completely over him and his BS, he started in on our daughter. She shut that shit down real fast. She's 30, and hasn't seen or talked to him in 16 years. He moved back in with his mother and they moved out to Winnipeg years ago (my daughter and I live in Ontario). When he couldn't manipulate the other females in his life anymore, he ran home to Mummy...because she will always consider him her baby boy who can do no wrong, so she treats him the way he thinks he's entitled to be treated. She does everything for him, gives him money, and spoils him rotten. He's almost 60, and she treats him like he's 6...he's living the dream.
@Terri_MacKay Oh man, can you imagine the absolute nightmare he'll be for the nursing home staff eventually, should his precious mommy shuck off her mortal coil?
Every time someone says things to make you feel bad like “oh I’m not good enough and no one will love me anyways” I just look at them like 🙂 👍🏼 you can’t manipulate me
When people have said this to me, and have been dicks beforehand, I give them the "yeah you're right". They never know what to do lmao. Never want to talk to me again because I scare them and obviously am not easy to manipulate, and thats fine because that kind of a person will ruin your life anyways.
If someone thinks they will never find love, they usually keep their mouth shut and try to find other ways to feel happier. However, when you're looking for pity you'll most likely make a scene.
noo, that's my ex. Esp the "I have a cold and need care, but I am also hurt because you have options" part. I could slap myself for wasting my time with him.
The one abt the partners before opened a third eye for me rn cause my current bf literally did that shit after he asked and when I told him and my abusive relationship he told me not to bring it up cause it makes him upset that he “wasn’t there to protect me” and how he failed even tho we didn’t know eachother so I have to go comfort him
@@debikk4204 oh no. Nothing wrong with it per se. Your taste is most likely fine. It's just that I've been following this creator on TikTok and on here for quite some time. He has a slew of characters and he wears specific clothing for each of the characters. I have come to recognize this sweater as the one he wears when he channels this character, this exhausting, needy, insecure, toxic character.
@@ruthdubb3274 Phew, thank you very much, I was genuinely worried. I am watching all his videos on UA-cam, it's just that everyone seems to hate the sweater even in earlier videos. But I guess it simply associates with the character
Reminds me of my abusive ex who had a threesome days into us becoming official (learned this when he yelled it at me during a fight) and later got mad at me for talking about my 6th grade crush 🙃
You are an incredibly talented actor, I had a girlfriend like this I felt I was trapped with for a couple years and you really captured the emotional manipulation Don’t let people take advantage of you guys
I'm a bit conflicted with this one...on the one hand, it's kinda nostalgic to see Unreformed Elliot again, and a slightly younger version at that. But on the other hand, watching *4 minutes* of him has raised my blood pressure quite a bit 🥲😡😂 Also, I wonder what happened to Brian, Zoe, and Teddy in this timeline. I'm guessing Brian's music career still flopped, cause he was supposed to take Elliot "to the moon" with him 😔
He has probably gone through similar points of development and learned to pinpoint the emotional and mental processes that lead to these character flaws.
This guy: *gets mad that his gf doesn’t act possessive when he mentions previous relationships* Also this guy: *gets mad and acts possessive when his gf mentions previous relationships*
😂 my ex husband refused to watch anything with Johnny Depp in it cause he knew I had a massive crush on him when I was a teen (we were in 17 when we started dating and my ex was 5 years older 😅)
I absolutely love all the lore, I need hours of all the compilations together, full chronological timelines, alternate realities and all. this is top tier content
The fact that people like this actually exists and actually have people that will date them makes me feel so lonely and sad that i can't find someone to date
I don’t understand being jealous over someone’s exes especially if they’re not even there. Those were 3 people she gained experience in relationships and presumably sex from, and then her current boyfriend gets to enjoy the benefits of all the lessons she learned with the knowledge that she chose him after all those other losers blew it. I would say she also gets the benefits of everything he learned from HIS past relationships, except let’s be real, he didn’t learn anything.
it’s fine to not want a partner who’s been in a lot of relationships. you may have a positive outlook on it and that’s good, but what you consider experience many other people would consider baggage. as long as you’re not a hypocrite about it (for example a guy who’s had like 50 girlfriends but has a problem with his girlfriend having like one or two exes) then it’s fine either way.
Could be worse, he could be one of thoses man who listen to Andrew tate and alpha male and calls himself a high value man and start acting like those 'alpha' males
Yeah… Sadly, I think I’ve had a couple of boyfriends that pretty quickly turned into something 🙄🥲like this guy. Basically a waste of time, energy and space. 🙄
For those who are interested in the timeline. Prior to marrying Jen, Elliot was in a relationship with a girl named Claire. He was thus an insecure boyfriend before he became Jen’s red flag boyfriend eventually to become the manipulative husband who cheated. However, keep in mind that this all takes place in an alternate universe where Elliot never decided to change his ways. Thank you for watching and supporting my nonsense
Wait so this isnt the main storyline for elliot?
Love your work man
Thank you for the timeline, love it
Fantastic, thank you for the lore ❤️
The plot thickens....
Whenever i dont accomplish my goals due procrastination, i force myself to watch your compilations on a loop for 3 hours. It really did work, im a billionare now
Honestly I want to thank you for your videos, these specifically. It helped me heal because I saw my ex in all of these in one way or another. and while the initial breakup hurt, it made me happy to know it was for the best because he was not treating me like I should have been treated. You’ve brought a smile to my face!
How tf do i avoid being like this
Trust that your partner loves you for more than your looks.
work on urself before entering a relationship
@@bababooey7418
“Learn to love yourself first before loving others” as the saying goes.
Start eating red meat
Therapy
I almost disliked this video until I remembered it was acting
"We used to date"
"You don't even seem to care"
That's absolutely a green flag lol poor guy doesn't even see how good it is to have a partner who DOESNT get upset knowing that you dated before them
Because for people like him, love is about possession. He doesn't understand that possessiveness is actually ego, which is pride. And that pride actually has no place in love. So his entire perception of what love is all about is warped, making him incapable of it in the first place.
This guy is such a good actor I think I’d be scared to meet him!
These videos low key make my stomach twist up
1:24 nah cause why they ask then
You are a creator of this generation and time. You are as the watcher.
This is too good
That's me and my bf .. But the other way around😂😂😮😮
YES I AM INSECURE.. YES IM WORKING ON IT ... YES WE STILL TOGETHER😂😂
This just shows the injustice that women put us men through
too realistic
who hurt bro
My God, I know it's not the real you, but I hope you are already married solid, because your videos are making my ovaries shrink just by watching and I'm pretty sure I'm not the only woman who feels that 😂
You are so good at it. Can't say I enjoy watching your videos but I love them in a special way ❤
I have much more clarity today. I know gabe betrayed me, i know you betrayed me, i know i need to get my life together. Im finally getting my head back. Im not as insecure as Ive been acting. I wish success to everyone. I just want to be left alone
Im not ok with the betrayal either yesterday was not ideal but i wanted to get out of my house
Hes not a friend
Cold water is so bad if you're congested. It makes the mucus thicken.
This one is insufferable
Idc that’s she 7
Oh now ur gonna pull the age card, huh
🤦♀️
This should be in a clinicians handbook when diagnosing vulnerable narcissism lol
My ex bf was exactly this.
:(
Wait wait, but what is bad about hanging out with such guy? You take care of him and stuff
Big yikes
And she's with him why??
686th
The first one was wayyyy too cringe
This character is somehow simultaneously the author and subject of every AITA post on reddit
If you're any more accurate, you're going to break the uncertainty principle 👍👍
"I 43M and my 23F wife moved in together into my place (i paid for it) and her 2 month old son who has severe asthma and i told her to get rid of the child because it sounds weird, AITA?"
NTA your house your rules
@@OneSlavBoiRight? SHE can come, but why assume HE’s invited? Always. Every . Time. Jeez, Rude!
i mean, “AITA” authors are almost always the subject. that’s why it’s “am i the asshole” and not “is he the asshole”
he’s not even insecure, this man is just straight up unstable bro 😭
I had a partner very much like this. It was such a stressful relationship. My hair started turning white, and after I finally moved out, most of it grew out black again. Sometimes I vomited after conversations like these. My heart rate is up just watching the sketches. This guy is talented.
Ugh I know what you mean. Those relationships where you hold tension in your shoulders all the time and feel anxiety just being around the other person. Insecurity is a relationship *destroyer.*
How could you stay with him after vomiting?
@@smockingbard95% of people are fkn regarded that’s why
@@smockingbard There could be several reasons, e.g. it can be hard to break off a relationship with a person you're attached to. Maybe it was trauma bonding, or another reason.
@@deathrowlemon7367 Often people in bad relationships like these feel trapped. My first boyfriend was awful and toxic, but he made it feel like he was the only one who understood me and could help me with the severe mental health issues I was facing. Financial issues can also be a reason, if the person has to rely on their abuser in order to have somewhere to live/have food, etc.
Babe can you hand me your cash so I can look like I’m paying at the restaurant!
No joke dated someone who did that
@@mimisparkles8765Add that to the list what I'll never do.
Then again, feels like it shouldn't have to be on a list, but whatever
@@mimisparkles8765 well now i need to know... didja?
@@xyrissavage4983i have 😭😭 never again
Have done this. 😅
"I don't care that she's 7, she disrespected me" I laughed so loud 😂
I TOLD YOU IM NOT COMING DOWN
I snorted
Same😂😂
Same. I had to show my boyfriend why I laughed because I was wearing headphones. 😂
That well and truly caught me off guard
These videos are literally educational for us nice guys. I'm a recovering nice guy and these videos really make me aware of what NOT to do and how to be a better boyfriend and human
Props
Dated a "nice guy" for a while. Thank you for changing, you're doing the Lord's work
good for you man. change is hard, but i hope you can keep in the good path... in the normal path.
@@empyie666 thanks for recognizing the change instead of thinking he should be shamed into isolation for eternity. people can change and grow, and teach others how to as well.
@ab8817 No need to thank, I wouldn't want someone judging me for something I've worked hard to change either!
These are tortured souls. Their parents either showed them too much love or not enough. It’s actually a bit of a sad tale.
I don't think it's a coincidence that there's a mother in smother
Yeah honestly for real. That doesn't excuse their actions but it does explain them.
too much love is crazy.. there's a difference between love and enabling
She just doesn’t care enough, poor guy
She doesn’t have the energy to care but has the energy to gaslight smh
Here’s your 600th like, and a notification so you can see how it’s popped off, since YT puts top comments in witness protection so you can never find them again. At least until you get a random notification 17 months later.
@@hutchphilpot6870 lmao I didn’t know that, thanks for the 600th like, that’s crazy 🤣🤣
@@cortmelor Recently I got a notification that someone replied to my comment for a video I’d watched/commented on a few months ago. It had under 20 likes last I saw, and when I came back from that notification it had 5000+ likes. That was the only notification I got for it too. Lmao YT doesn’t give af.
@@hutchphilpot6870 Weird, but cool when you eventually get notified and see a lot of likes, it’s like finding some forgotten money in an old jacket 🤣
I lost it at him not knowing a wrist watch is adjustable and acting like his girlfriend wants him to have a manlier wrist 😂
Omg I dated a guy like this 15 years ago and I promise, this nightmare is NOT an exaggeration.
I actually have a daughter with my insecure ex. He was no better as a father than he was as a partner. When it was obvious that he could no longer emotionally manipulate me because I was just completely over him and his BS, he started in on our daughter. She shut that shit down real fast. She's 30, and hasn't seen or talked to him in 16 years.
He moved back in with his mother and they moved out to Winnipeg years ago (my daughter and I live in Ontario). When he couldn't manipulate the other females in his life anymore, he ran home to Mummy...because she will always consider him her baby boy who can do no wrong, so she treats him the way he thinks he's entitled to be treated. She does everything for him, gives him money, and spoils him rotten. He's almost 60, and she treats him like he's 6...he's living the dream.
@Terri_MacKay
Oh man, can you imagine the absolute nightmare he'll be for the nursing home staff eventually, should his precious mommy shuck off her mortal coil?
That 7 year old needs to grow up and stop being so disrespectful. Crazy that her family didn’t try to stop her when she brought up the ex.
Used to be something like this in highschool. Humility is the path to security.
self aware and intelligent. You shal go far.
Self awareness is a great trait, no one starts off perfect
If I had seen this content years ago, I would have dodged ALL bullets, lol! Our Jerk out here doin' the LORD'S work! XD
Every time someone says things to make you feel bad like “oh I’m not good enough and no one will love me anyways” I just look at them like 🙂 👍🏼 you can’t manipulate me
When people have said this to me, and have been dicks beforehand, I give them the "yeah you're right". They never know what to do lmao. Never want to talk to me again because I scare them and obviously am not easy to manipulate, and thats fine because that kind of a person will ruin your life anyways.
When someone like that meets an anxious people pleaser doormat, the world ends
@@fungustheclown666honestly I do the same thing sometimes, other than the blank face and stare I give them.
@@farelimmyup those are the people they target with their manipulation because they know they can make them feel guilty easily
If someone thinks they will never find love, they usually keep their mouth shut and try to find other ways to feel happier. However, when you're looking for pity you'll most likely make a scene.
Those watches are adjustable and boy he's so incredibly slappable
He’s a bit of a jerk too
he’s a dick but damn he needs help
I’d like to adjust his face.
@@OliverSchlecter some would call him a slappable jerk
@@OliverSchlecter one might say he is a slappable jerk
noo, that's my ex. Esp the "I have a cold and need care, but I am also hurt because you have options" part. I could slap myself for wasting my time with him.
The one abt the partners before opened a third eye for me rn cause my current bf literally did that shit after he asked and when I told him and my abusive relationship he told me not to bring it up cause it makes him upset that he “wasn’t there to protect me” and how he failed even tho we didn’t know eachother so I have to go comfort him
As someone who's also been through abuse and selfish partners, you deserve (and need) so much better than that.
Sounds like he's full of it
Yeah, that's pretty bad if he makes your abuse about his ego
That is an extremely concerning response from someone.
Sweetie no, no, no 🚩🚩🚩
That sweater is almost as slappable as the character
That sweater elicits my fight or flight response.
What's wrong with the sweater?
Do I.. have a shitty taste? :(
@@debikk4204 oh no. Nothing wrong with it per se. Your taste is most likely fine. It's just that I've been following this creator on TikTok and on here for quite some time. He has a slew of characters and he wears specific clothing for each of the characters. I have come to recognize this sweater as the one he wears when he channels this character, this exhausting, needy, insecure, toxic character.
@@ruthdubb3274 Phew, thank you very much, I was genuinely worried.
I am watching all his videos on UA-cam, it's just that everyone seems to hate the sweater even in earlier videos. But I guess it simply associates with the character
@@debikk4204 yes, it's just Pavlovian conditioning.
Ewww this reminds me so much of my ex husband 🤢🤮 I’ve got the ick all over again 15 years later!
Reminds me of my abusive ex who had a threesome days into us becoming official (learned this when he yelled it at me during a fight) and later got mad at me for talking about my 6th grade crush 🙃
I can't believe she acted so dramatically when HER sister disrespected him. He deserves better 😤
Loving the Slappable Jerk Cinematic Universe
🙏🏻
Well, according to the pinned comment, we're dealing with a cinematic multiverse (or at least biverse) by now.
You are an incredibly talented actor, I had a girlfriend like this I felt I was trapped with for a couple years and you really captured the emotional manipulation
Don’t let people take advantage of you guys
I'm a bit conflicted with this one...on the one hand, it's kinda nostalgic to see Unreformed Elliot again, and a slightly younger version at that. But on the other hand, watching *4 minutes* of him has raised my blood pressure quite a bit 🥲😡😂
Also, I wonder what happened to Brian, Zoe, and Teddy in this timeline. I'm guessing Brian's music career still flopped, cause he was supposed to take Elliot "to the moon" with him 😔
I hope he continues on building this alternative timeline
@@alejrandom6592 Dexter.BoyGoofus has blood pressure issues. You should see his childish tantrums on other threads when people get the best of him. 🤣👍
So, you’re still mad that your trap didn’t work. It’s pretty easy to make low intel people like you go silent with rage. My work here is done 👍
You are too good at this shit man.
He has probably gone through similar points of development and learned to pinpoint the emotional and mental processes that lead to these character flaws.
@@Hjaelteomslaghe is a lawyer, I assume he works with a lot of people like this, he also said he used to be like this on a lower scale
This guy: *gets mad that his gf doesn’t act possessive when he mentions previous relationships*
Also this guy: *gets mad and acts possessive when his gf mentions previous relationships*
😂 my ex husband refused to watch anything with Johnny Depp in it cause he knew I had a massive crush on him when I was a teen (we were in 17 when we started dating and my ex was 5 years older 😅)
I’m surely not the only one that finds the relatability a little concerning
if it’s relatable, it’s good that you watch it so you can check yourself
yeah same for me, but I like my man, idk
U relate to the guy? 😭
@@meowglab7702 I think we mean relatable to watch such guy, because he is a bf
Your characters are so believable, despite how absurd they are. It's a very impressive balance.
Hilarious as always, great job.
Do you... do you know my ex? Is he the inspiration for this character? Damn this was a hard watch hahaha
This is covert narcissism to a T
Isnt the term "insecure narcassism"?
I absolutely love all the lore, I need hours of all the compilations together, full chronological timelines, alternate realities and all. this is top tier content
The fact that people like this actually exists and actually have people that will date them makes me feel so lonely and sad that i can't find someone to date
This guy is so good at portraying the most unlikeable characters ever.
The subtleties (as always) are just SO on point!!! ✨
Haha I love it, it’s so realistic that it becomes educational
I genuinely believe this would have been my high school ex if we stayed together
this went beyond slappable tbh i was thinking about how she should smother him with a pillow the whole time
ouhhh, this type of insecure🙄.
It's funny how literally every problem this guy can be solved with "get over it and just start to work out already!" 😅.
It's just an actor acting in a video, it's just an actor acting in a video 😡
If I was a woman dating this guy and he talks about me possibly sleeping with other men constantly, it would eventually get tempting.
I was a little scared this vid was about me but I can confidently say I'm not this bad lol
As someone getting into a new relationship this video is gonna be a checklist of things not to do-
bravo this was excruciating to watch as always 💞💞
This is the first one i cant finish. It hurts
Urgh this character makes me low-key seethe
Lemon juice in your water while you're sick sounds unpleasant. Good way to establish the "minor" cold. Truly well done.
I don’t understand being jealous over someone’s exes especially if they’re not even there. Those were 3 people she gained experience in relationships and presumably sex from, and then her current boyfriend gets to enjoy the benefits of all the lessons she learned with the knowledge that she chose him after all those other losers blew it. I would say she also gets the benefits of everything he learned from HIS past relationships, except let’s be real, he didn’t learn anything.
See I always felt neutral about people having previous partners, but I like the way you look at the positive outcomes of this.
it’s fine to not want a partner who’s been in a lot of relationships. you may have a positive outlook on it and that’s good, but what you consider experience many other people would consider baggage. as long as you’re not a hypocrite about it (for example a guy who’s had like 50 girlfriends but has a problem with his girlfriend having like one or two exes) then it’s fine either way.
"I'm not snapping - YOU'RE the one who's mad"
THE WAY MY FIGHT OR FLIGHT KICKED IN. 💀
Shout out to who ever he makes record all of these
Glad I don’t have to deal with this question 😂
I’m one of the few lucky ones
Hi love your content
Thank you Nathan Valentine! Btw that’s an awesome name
W response@@theslappablejerk
Help this was my ex 😂
Jesus, this is exactly how my ex boyfriend acted all the damn time 💀
That lean forward when saying they used to date is so real
Could be worse, he could be one of thoses man who listen to Andrew tate and alpha male and calls himself a high value man and start acting like those 'alpha' males
I’m getting war flashbacks and I do not like it (and if my insecure ex saw this comment, he’d immediately lose his mind 🤡)
I need to see you make a “how men react when they get caught cheating” if you haven’t. If this video exists I need someone to tell me how to find it.
Incredible to think Elliott could still pull even with his nasty personality
I was like this when I was younger, thankfully I grew out of it
I CANNOT imagine Elliot playing football in high school or having a girlfriend back then.
Is this what Jordan Peterson meant by “there’s nothing nice about an overgrown infant”?
Sounds about right
on the side not if my gf left me for Jason Momoa I would just understand
Or Ryan Reynolds
@@Agudname she cant leave me for me so...
@@eugenkt777 :0 hi daddy Reynolds
Please please make an episode where she breaks up with him
Jason momoa.. the trump card
I need to keep this on hand for when my friends date another train wreck lol
lol 2:05 is hands down better than the guys that never take a sick day, there's just something cute about getting to take care of your partner ehe :3
Watching this so I know what not to do in my next relationship.... 😂
Yeah… Sadly, I think I’ve had a couple of boyfriends that pretty quickly turned into something 🙄🥲like this guy. Basically a waste of time, energy and space. 🙄
“I don’t care that she’s 7 she disrespected me” 😂😂😂😂😂😂
"Maybe I should turn on something with Jason Mamoa, maybe you'd like to watch that"
You damn right 🫦🫦
Enjoy queen💅🧕🏼