FLAVIA - Them (Official Music Video)
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- Опубліковано 9 лют 2025
- FLAVIA - Them (Official Music Video)
Directed by: Basil Mironer
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Written by: FLAVIA, Katie Hargrove, Matt Crawford, Aaron Berton
Produced by: Matt Crawford, Aaron Berton, FLAVIA
Produced by: Mirage Studio, FLAVIA SPEAKS LLC, Kai Wes
Director of Photography: Mitch Arens
1st AD: Kai Wes
2nd AD: Dasha German
Dance Choreography by Carlena Britch, Sarah Stanger, Jeka Jane, Aurora Ciafardone, B Gosse
Makeup & Hair: Kelby Adam
Styling: Francis James Juarez
Assistant Stylist: Cam Schroeder
1st Assistant Camera: Eung-Jin Lee
Key Grip: Brandon Phipps
Key Gaffer: Brandon Piedra
Swing: Robin Feldman
Location Sound: Ben Mironer
Choral Composition: Theodosia Roussos
BTS: Samantha Sergeant
Portrait Photography: Nina Hawkins
THEM Cast:
Dancers: Sarah Stanger, Jeka Jane, Aurora Ciafardone, B Gosse, Ann Thomas, Zelda Vinciguerra, Jessica Hogan, Dani Hernandez, CuteSee, Miki Ratsula, Georgia Lyle, Tay Richardson, Ethan Baker-Royale, Vivian Sautter, Papa Cherry, Jer Lelliott, Lucas Rojas, Alba Martinez, Gillian Cameron, Vjohnny, Johanna Padilla, Londyn Williams, Kai Wes, Arden Noto, Grey Centauro, Francis James Juarez, Cam Schroeder, KR Rose, Sydney Fischel, Celeste, Famine, Angel Arpornrat, Amila Cooray, Emily Katherine Jinxx, Dasha German
Editor: Basil Mironer
Colourist: Steven Wetrich
Catering by: Carla Edigati Watson
Special thanks to: Perfect Pronouns, Sam I'Am, Saylor Bone Designs, Kendra Saylor, Trans Chorus of LA, Ann Thomas, LGBTQ Center, Trans Wellness Center
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As a nonbinary person I know too well how hard it is to find a person who accepts my body the way it is. People love my androgyny as long as they don't see my hairy legs or discover my chest dysphoria. Your message gives me some hope, thank you
Carol Lupus 😭👏🏼 thank you that means a lot
That's so fucking true . I have this struggle as well
Lol, its not mental illness, read DCM 11
@@isaacinkout1750 actually no ,it's not a mental illness or a disorder and it's objectively proven to be so. I honestly can't care less . This is my last time answering in this comment section. Read and educate yourself ,also the malice you are having talking like this about real people is disgusting . So for this bit - just fuck off
hey, just wanted to tell you that you're going to find somebody who loves you exactly the way you are. my partner is non-binary (I am a cis woman) and I wouldn't want them to be any other way. you're perfect the way you are, if people don't see that then they don't deserve you.
i literally cried the moment the song began. the fact this is such a good song that recognizes limits, respect, and acceptance all at once makes me so hopeful. i’m so scared of relationships because, as a pre-op trans man, i’m scared to be a burden to them or be unattractive because i’m “different”. this deserves so much more hype. this is a beautiful song with a wonderful message.
Yeet 😭 Thank you! That means the world. I hope this song makes you feel seen and heard and less scared to be yourself.
Hellenic boy but.... you can....
Isaac inkout AHAHHAHAHA IM PISSING MY MAN YOU JUST CONTRADICTED YOURSELF
ooooooooooooo this gave me chills thank you for this FREAKIN VIDEOOOOOOOO
As there is a strong trans community within the Deaf community, it would be very beneficial for captions to be added to this music video. A visual description of the video would also be helpful for trans people in the Blind/Low Vision community. I can see you are all about inclusion. I’d love to see this inclusion span to accessibility for all! I appreciate all your support, and only wish to educate and advocate as I know that is how we grow as allies 😊. Thank you!
Good call
They definitely should do that yeah
As a HoH Trans person I very much agree :)
@@aarongambill6373 same
@@aarongambill6373what is HoH?
THIS WAS SOOO MUCH FUN I'M SO HONORED TO HAVE BEEN IN THIS !!
this is the first song that i’ve ever heard that specifies a non binary gender identity and i can’t stop listening to it. when i came out as nonbinary it was me coming to terms with that i may never be loved and if so they wouldn’t be proud to be with someone like me and i no longer believe that but this song still consuls that part of me that might think subconscious thoughts like those and i thank you because something like this song would have been really uplifting in those times and that it exists now i am grateful to you for
max Findlay 😭 thank you so much for sharing and I’m so glad that there is finally a song that makes you feel seen, heard and LOVED. 💜
max Findlay hey max, try “bird you can fly” by eyemer 😉
Uwi Van Hauwermeiren thank you for proposing my song 🥰 you da best!
❤❤❤
This video is both important and beautiful. This song is an anthem for EVERYONE. I am so grateful to be able to experience art of this magnitude in my lifetime. The world needs more messages of acceptance, inclusion, and love. Thank you, FLAVIA, for continually being selfless and lifting up others around you. Thank you for your bravery, your passion, and your commitment to making this world a little bit brighter and a little bit kinder each and every day.
Ryan Vaughn 😭😭😭😭😭
I love this!
Delicate and powerful, as you are. Thanks Flavia, you're the best and I love you❤
Grazie tesoro!!!
The visual is full with confidence and strength. Love the edits. The melody is addictive; lyrics uplifting and inspiring. This record deserves to be on repeat.
“How can influencers best be allies?”
Flavia:
[VERSE 1]
Hand on your chest
Teach me how to respect your figure
Put me to the test
Stop me if I get close to your triggers
First touch, woke up
First love in the middle
You like it rough
But also like it gentle
Everybody’s got an opinion
On the way that we should be livin
To the naked eye we’re the same thing
But we’re so different
[Chorus]
Ask me who I’m with
I’m with them
Body was a woman
Now a real gentleman
Don’t need a label
When I’m layin’ on this skin
Ask me who I’m with
I’m with them
[VERSE 2]
Love the scars on your chest
As our bodies undress
You’ll be the ninety or the six
Look at me when you’re cummin’
Okay, I must confess
That I’m kind of obsessed
With you under the sheets
Give me both sides of what I need
[Chorus]
Ask me who I’m with
I’m with them
Body was a woman
Now a real gentleman
Don’t need a label
When I’m layin’ on this skin
Ask me who I’m with
I’m with them
[VERSE 3]
Love is love no matter what
Just teach before you touch
Speak up for what you want
(I like kissing you
Are you okay when I touch you like that?)
You’re not the typical guy
But you’re just my type
Outside and on the inside
[Chorus]
Ask me who I’m with
I’m with them
Body was a woman
Now a real gentleman (gentleman)
Don’t need a label
When I’m layin’ on this skin
Ask me who I’m with
I’m with them
I love this so much??? It makes me.want to cry oml
Thanks for your support! Here's a link to the single online. :) vydia.ffm.to/them
I love everything about this💖💜💙🤍the song, the video, the people involved, and especially Flavia herself for coming up with all of this💜
As an ally, I'm so glad that I can share this song in every way I can. It's difficult to find music that expresses solidarity. So grateful that this song exists and I followed your beautiful journey of shooting the entire video. This song is a winner.
I’m in such support of this amazing woman and her voice (in more than one way). You speak/sing the words that most are afraid to say in such a way where people can grasp and feel. You have such a big heart and talent. I love you girl! 😘#FLAVIASBIGGESTFAN
Danielle Diaz 😭😭😭 Thank you darling!
I love this song and the video even more!!!
THIS IS SO UNDERRATED AF!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Muy buen tema 👑
i love you and i love this flavia
Also this a win for all of us💕
I love this video. I must have listened to the song three times on Spotify before finding it here. It’s amazing and totally support the message. Love it Flavia 🏳️🌈❤️
Samee
I just LOVE IT!
This is so powerful. Music is so influential within my life, thank you for making a work of art that I can truly relate to.
This song needs so much more love 🙌💖🤍💙
Wow I love everything about this!
this song is going to help so many people. thank you for raising awareness & giving so much representation for us trans/non-binary/gnc people 🖤
Everyone in this video is beautiful 😍
I never heard this song until today. It feels so monumental. Thankful for this art ❤️🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈 Happy Pride
Once again blowing us all away FLAV!!!!! Thank you for using your voice and platform to show love for all ♥️
THank you darling!!!!
God this video is so cool!! And well put together it needs more views and recognition! The song is also so good!! It’s so nice to see this kind of support ❤️
Speechless, this makes me so happy. I have no clue how I hadn't seen this yet.
There are no words to express my gratitude for this beautiful song. Having a song that acts as certain sexual empowerment for gnc/enby/trans ppl like myself is so amazing. I feel so seen and loved
Thank you so much for making this. I've been questioning my gender identity for a while and I'm pretty sure I'm nonbinary but I'm not really out to my family. But I love this song so much, it has such a comforting sound.
Thank you for watching and listening! I'm so happy to hear this can be a comfort in some way. Best of luck with your family.
@@flaviaspeaks I just want to say thank you again because after seeing your reply I finally decided to come out to my family. I was pretty sure they'd be fine with me being nonbinary as they were accepting of me being pansexual but I still had a lot of anxiety and doubts about it these past two years. So thank you for giving me the courage
Hopefully this song will be on spotify anytime, then ill push it to the limit, anytime anywhere! ❤️🔥
Snek Verde it is!
Snek Verde it just came out on Spotify last night!!!! 🥳 open.spotify.com/track/2uSlsSVcK9EyQkKDew8qcf?si=ZeDzgvW_TpqVVDxK5QSphA
I love the space you hold for all beings to shine their expression of life. Peace and joy to all show choose to be free in their shine! I accept and Love them all unconditionally ❤️
💕💕💕
Why didn't I found you sooner?!
Gosh I'm so inlove with you😭❤️
Flavia💕
i love it i love it i love it! such an amazing and powerful song
Such a good tune for trans and Gnc folks
Sorry for all the upsetting comments people are leaving :S
I am SO happy this exists! I teared up when the trans masculine dancers took their shirts off. I've never seen that in a music video before and it really got me
Axton Burton aww this means everything to me!!! The hate never out weighs the love and we’ll keep shining!! thanks for supporting! you can stream the song here: vydia.ffm.to/them
Lmao
I used this song in my Instagram photo about the "inktober" drawing I did. The theme was "gradient" and I drew my trans character crying trans flag tears. Perfect song for that, glad that instagram recommended it 👌✨
Wow soooo much talent and beauty in this video! A powerful piece of art that the world needs to hear! L O V E
Thank you for watching and supporting!Single just dropped to :) open.spotify.com/track/2uSlsSVcK9EyQkKDew8qcf?si=Nc85aaWER2uTTzvVw-OOhg
i’ve been listening to this song on loop the last couple of days and started tearing up the moment the video began. as a genderqueer person this means so so much. thank you so much for making this 💛
This is beautiful. It needs to be seen. Came here through Kai and I'm so grateful I got to watch this. Beautiful song and powerful video! 💕
Thank you so much! That means a lot. Thanks for supporting my/this particula art.
Yessss FLAVIA love you so much. So proud of you and this message. Keep killing it bae, beautiful music video 💕
I must confess that I'm kind of obsessed with 💖this song💖
Super inspiring 💛
this song and video gives me life
Dope
I cried listening to this. I'm non-binary and this is the first song that speaks to me at such a high level. I feel like it's written about me. It means so much to me you have no idea, thank you so much!
Estou louco pra saber ???
Soooo amazing!! This song is one to get stuck in your head for sure!!
Love love love how this came out!! Keep killing it!! 💕💕
This is beautiful!! 😍🥺🥰
Kai Wes forever ❤
I fluffing cried seeing the people that have gotten top surgery
IL SOUND è PIACEVOLE DA ASCOLTARE DENTRO, E LE PAROLE DANNO IL SENSO DI ESPANSIONE DEL RISPETTO SOCIALE. TUTTO MOLTO ALL'AVANGUARDIA ;) LETS HOPE SO
this is so beautiful and affirming!!!
Cool vid
SOO beautiful !!! LOVE is LOVE !! And your body is your body !! Proud of ALL of you !!
looooooove
In these dark times, when I feel lost and alone, this song comes and shows me the light to go forward! THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!
Did this song just make respecting sexual triggers...sexy? So fucking cool.
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 We are such a powerful community!
Lemon Drop YOU SAID IT
A community that makes people question if logic still exists in this world.
Powerful...clearly the delusinons run deep within you!
@@lntrlp4936 I know right, these people are delusional.
💜
This is incredible. I’ve never seen a song specify anything non-binary. 💛🤍💜🖤
I'm from the live of Booboo Stewart, I really like your song 👏
Thank you for being such a wonderful ally
My favorite line in the song is when you say I like kissing you do you like me touching you like that because for so many people that are trans touching a certain ways is triggering and to me asking that question is so romantic
Thank you for sharing this song. Im cis but have many trans* friends, im gonna send this song to all of them.
And remember, you are valid. All of you.
Jana :D 💕 Thank you so much, let’s share this with the world!!! Single dropped too.
ffm.to/them
I’m coming to realize that there’s a lot of things that I have internally struggled with and never known. The pains of the millions of micro aggressions felt through all the people I love most, as I’ve learned, it only hurts when I suffer from the human need of inclusion. But understanding that each individual has their limits, as well as their opinions. I do not ask to be referred by the proper pronouns, not even by the people who are closest to me. A name, a label, a stamp I’ve been placed for use by everyone else but myself. I haven’t realized that I’ve walked the world without color for the majority of my life, it’s almost if I’m last to hear about the core definitions of my being. It’s a lack of education and understanding, a miss step created by the slants made for another particular type of person. And as usual, not me. At nineteen, a child overgrown past the broken training wheels, I realize that my life was never about me because I had never made it to be. I hadn’t even known that was a choice available to soothe the many nights I wondered what all could be wrong with me. I’ve taken up a collection, but only after I have every screaming indicator blasted at me, still only so slightly off-
Til I come to this song. A beautiful melody in the swamps of my midnight Spotify, placed in mind perhaps by algorithms that understand me more than what I can muster. However I came across this without understanding of the lyrics (for some reason I can’t “hear” lyrics), and to notice that as a non-binary person this is in reference ***BY ANOTHER PERSON*** just blew my mind. So the writing above is just what came to mind and I wanted to comment but idk what to do with the writing so there you go!
I love this so goddamn much
Thank you so much for this support!!!! I am gender nonconforming and this is fucking beautiful. Thank you soooo much!!!!
WITH THEM!!!!!!
2:20 idk what it is but as a gay man that doesn't really have a preference for trans people, this person is undoubtedly my type and hot af
Flavia, you’re incredible!! Love that you’re giving the light to the trans community. Keep it up!! More music please!!!!
This is an amazing video and experience, thank you :)
Gender euphoria the song
Porfavor qual o significado dessa música???
So beautiful! You're incredible Flavia!
Joshuah Ciafardone you move like the angels are dancing with you 💜
This is so beautiful! 😍💙💖
YOOOO QUARANTINE BOPPPP
This is so good
I've had this song on repeat since it was released but this is my first time seeing the video, definitely made me cry a bit as a mostly closeted nonbinary person
This is a beautiful song and video. Thank you!
Yas! This song and music video is amazing!! 💙🤍💗
Kick ass!! Love the pronoun pin moment! Totally crying as a nonbinary person over these bomb ass lyrics 💜
Damn you Elijah 🤭🤣
This makes me cry. Happy tears. Someday I'll be a real man.
The amount of queer joy I got watching this made me cry a little
KAIIII
Me, a nonbinary pansexual watching this video: 🥺😍🥰🤤🥵
This is so beautiful I love this 💖💙
Wow! This is awesome. We released a music video yesterday too, for TDOV, via @mygenderation
Fox and Owl thank youuuu and congrats on your video!
Fox and Owl thanks you can stream the song here: vydia.ffm.to/them
So adorable 💖 thank you 🏳️🌈 🏳⚧
This video is a serve and anyone who says otherwise is dumb !
My name is Flavia ;-;
👊🏻🤌🏻👏🏻
So happy for this! Trans Visibility Day #tdov
🌈💙💗🤍💗💙🏳️🌈