1) This lady need counseling so that she can heal. 2) distance yourself from this man, he doesn't respect you. 3) put all that energy to your business and your kids, unlike focusing on a person who doesn't value you .4)show your son his dad he is old enough to handle it.
In 2009 i got pregnant bt nikarukwa kipetero kiYesu,dude nevr botherd na sisi,i thnk my sisters cz walinikalisha chini wakaniongelesha,i struggled na kuuza simu tao nilee mtoi bt guess what,2012 a friend who is in dubai akaona venye nateseka,she brought me to dubai on a visit visa,hosted me and luckly i got a jb as a waitress,fast forward i now work in a bank and happily married na harusi,wish u spoke out,mimi nilikuwa nabebesha masis wangu mzigo,naeda kwao naliiiiiiia and i healed,saa hii mimi na hicho kimtu ni kama maji na mafuta,class yangu haezi iona,nvr force uaself kwa msee,mimi ile ujinga nilifanya tao all in the name of lv,acha tu...bt ile madharau nilichapwa!!!
This woman still loves the guy I can't imagine the many times she has been betrayed by the guy but she kips going back. Just stay away from that man let him support ur kids yes but try to kip off
Its not love,if u've followed the story keenly,this lady was tryin all bits 2cover her "pastorhusband".hakutaka jina yake ichafuliwe 4de sake of washirika
@@annemugechichege584 I sensed that too Coz to me the man doesn't deserve to be called a pastor ,but she keeps saying she respects his preaching, let be honest with ourselves,and will be free
He rejected her son, her son went through so much pain after being rejected when he needed that man so bad but this woman stood by that man when he was in need.
You are Hurting coz it Seems you are still in Love with him. Please for your own Peace of Minds, Let him go. He is Treating you that Way coz He Knows he Still have Effect on You. He Doesn't deserve your Tears Mummy.
Maggie you're such a valuable woman,so caring,so concerned about your family and people around you.You have a seed of greatness in you.Move on cz your so called husband is arrogant and so disrespectful.I feel your pain,detach your heart from him and you'll have peace.
1: choose happiness.raha jipe mwenyewe 2: usikondeshwe na maneno ya watu.they will always talk 3. You still love the man. N that is your weakness 4.let your children meet the father away from your home. 5: love yourself and your life. Know that you need to take care of yourself before taking care of others
Maggie dear please always remember that you've not healed. You are a wonderful lady who can go far. Leave this man alone regardless of him being the father to your children. He is taking advantage of you coz he knows that you care. He's part of your children's life but it can do worse than good later.
Love is something else heheee!!mwenye unapeda hakupedi anapeda mwingine😅 earth is hard💔, mama if u could have moved on with ua children's by now am sure u could be very happy 😊 forget about him completely leave him,God will fight for u mamaa❤️
A woman with a voice is a strong woman! Maggie, you are strong and loving. Stand strong for your children, and you owe happiness to urself. Let go, let God.
Mum God will reward you for your good heart and your acts of kindness. Kindly your son has a right to know his biological father especially after baba mlezi telling him openly that he is not his father and causing him a lot of harm. He already knows that your ex-husband is not his biological father. You have a big heart Mum❤❤❤
If you stay in the same street where you got separated together with the people who knew you as husband and wife then you will never have peace, Kenya nikubwa enda bari sana n sart new life n you will create new friends n your life will change 🙏🙏
She should disconnect herself completely from that man... doesn't matter the relationship with his children. He is using his children to use this lady. Trust in God only otherwise ulcers zitakumaliza
Show your son his biological father, it's his right, he will decide if he wants him in his life , he will decide. Sometimes someone just want to see where his DNA come from.
I second you on that. Sometimes it's just someone wants to know their roots and their belonging. Stop kumlazimisha to the father that raised him. It's TRUE he is the one who raised him but you should also try and understand your son, he feels rejected by his adapted dad he just want to understand himself and his roots to where he belongs to
Exactly. Kwanza hapo iliniuma sana. You can't force a grown up man who has made his mind to love a child who he has not fathered. Just show your son his biological dad.
This lady has a beautiful soul and God will avenge for her. Pst Kahonoki owes an apology to this lady. I listened to pst Kahonoki giving how God saved him from covid and the story now adds up. Some of this pastors are a disgrace to the alter. Am sorry Maggie for what you have gone through. Love yourself but above all focus on who called you(Jesus Christ). We shall know them by their fruits. Pst KAHONOKI wuuuiiii...
Please please MOVE ON, FORGET about your ex, STOP listening to what people are saying(gossip),FOCUS on the IMPORTANT aspects of your life, your CHILDREN, LOVE yourself, pray to GOD, go for COUNSELING and DELIVERANCE. The LORD is able to SAVE and DELIVER to the UTTERMOST. LOVE and RESPECT yourself. You are a beautiful woman.
Wambuis advice is always relevant and on point. It heals, it soothes, comforts and helps her guests to chart a new path.She is also attentive and asks only the right questions.
@@gracekimani3573 both,,,only the husband is so handsome women confused himm,,was not able contain them..they both love one another. But the husbband could not handle the wife feeling entitled as its suposed in every marriage...accountability ya utuuro wake taa muthuri...
why don't you concentrate with your children and forget about him not unless kunakutu unatakanga kwa your ex mbona unamfuata ata wanawake wenye anaongea nao utakufa bure mama na stress my opinion though
Maggy utaheal ukikubali ku heal,, weka gear ya kusonga mbele mama block that man uwache kuona status zake,, maggy you still love tht man and tht man knw it, alikuwacha kubali and move on otherwise alcers zitakuua uwache watoto wako mummy,, sisi tumelea watoto wetu all alone just let him go uko msupuu Sana mama na unaweza Pata a caring man cz wewe a caring lady,, plzz heal mummy move on
this woman has a good heart,if you listen to her keenly..she really wanted to have a family only that the man took advantage of her love..may God see her through,and may that man realize that she truly has a blessing upon her
May God heal you and help you to move on. Reganerwo niwe kabisa akwenda niagagwetha. Single mothers tuko wengi na Ngai ndare atutiganeria. Ngai arokohonia 🙏🏽
She is to bothered about him 😕mi mtoi wangu haezi patwa na stress juu ya ujinga ,the 1st time huyo mtu aliambia mtoto si babake ningeambia mtoto wangu ukweli na akuwe na peace
As far as you want to praise someone.....learn to love yourself and keep away from anything that don't bring peace ....your son has the right to know his biological father!
when you become so available to people who don't value you, they take you for granted. I pray that God will heal your broken heart and give you all the peace that you need. put yourself first Maggie so that you can be there for your children. they are all that matters ❤️
Mum you are sooo beautiful 💝💝🙏🙏 just move on once and for all and please show your son his biological father because he is a big boy then he will decide where to be please🙏🙏
Sorry for all that have happened but hii nguvu ya kujiforce place mtu hakutaki mnatoa wapi? How do I help at first then ur ungrateful then nirudi hapo Tena aki I can't
The man is clearly a narcissist.The lady is in an approval trap,she constantly seeks validation ,acceptance and approval from him and he takes advantage of that. She cares so much what he thinks about her.
Surely Maggie, your ex husband told you his new wife is rich mbona hangemsimamia when he got sick? You were sacrificing so much unnecessarily for a man who did so much for you, until you neglect yourself and your children. Live your life, help yourself with your finances and help your kids. Forget about that man, he has moved on. Avoid even showing up in his life when you are called coz you are only called when he is in problems. Ignore him completely and move on with your life. When a marriage or relationship is dead it just needs to be buried and life goes on. You are active in his life (your ex) yet you say mliachana and he even moved on. Forget about him 100% once and for all.
What kind of pastor is this man? He has so many shortcomings. He should pray to God before praying for congregation. Why so much hatred towards a woman he lived with for a number of yrs and who continues to be there for him when he is in dire need for help. Ajirudie and find a place in his heart to thank this lady for the beautiful things he has done. Asiharibie pastors wengine jina. Pastors should be good examples to the lay people usijali Maggie, God is with you and you will go far. You have a golden heart which does not revenge. You are a good example of a good Christian and indeed loving your enemies which is normally not practically possible but she has maintained this. Mungu akuonekanie upate ata a respectable husband. Why not!
I can tell u for sure maggy hals a golden 💜 we come from the same village n I can say for sure that this woman has gone through slot ni the hands of this man but I trust that the Lord will enlarge her territories
This man clearly didn't want anything to do with you but you keep going back to him, you didn't want to destroy his name🤦♀️ yet he has continued to mess you up with your children. I hope you find healing after this, you need to move on, embrace the singlehood title with pride and you will have the peace that you've been missing. 🖐🖐
Noo umwiire mundu ndateithaagiaa oo aria maamuteithiiriee,,,,,"'" giiko gia thaa very important,,,this could have been avery good marriage beautiful couple albeit the devil entered back door and spoilt this beautiful thing marriage...May God give you peace...keep praying for one another namutige guturaania ngoro please....pastor uthii uherere mutumia uyu ukwendeetee uuuu...She is agift to your life even now..mark that word....
Just leave him alone let him be whether in the hospital or not don’t bother he has his wife and his family because you are getting used then dumped after your sacrifice, looking after his children is his responsibility he is not doing any favour to you, you respect him but he doesn’t respect you
Wambui ici ni cia rega mitheko. When one knows your weakness they will use them and they won’t care how you feel . He knew you would jump anytime he said jump. Maggie needs therapy to build her self esteem. To fill her cup with self love . Let your oldest son know his dad . Get the help you need and before you be there for others be there for yourself first . Your giving from an empty cup
Successful single mothers tuko wengi, usilie tena mama, God is taking you to another level. I left after the first slap and I am a proud single mother. 10 years down the line, my former husband is still marrying. @ times we get married to total failures. You and God are enough... usilie tena, God is turning your tears to joy in Jesus Almighty Name 🙏🏽
God loves you. You are a good woman with a good heart. God atakulipa kwa wema wako, huyo mzee amekuzoea vimbaya sana. Leave that man kabisa, you deserve better
Lady, am sorry for the abuse you have subjected to your self. You don’t owe anyone an apology and you don’t need to prove your self. It’s clear you are a good person. Now use that energy to love your self. You can not please a narcissist, and narcissist don’t know how to love but hurt their victims.
Unbelievable how this lady remains following a man who has taken her through hell with domestic violence. Please Maggie see a therapist for counseling so that you can move on . Quit following him up and be done with him please. Don’t entertain stories about him from people too.
May God keep giving you eternal peace,,, please focus with your life if you can and you include God first,,,, remember your children n they need you more
Mwanaume kwani mnatakaga nini jameni huyu mama ni mrembo sana but hile yenye amepitia ni mingi sana wanaume please ukiowa mtu mwenye ako na mtoto ujuwe huyo mtoto ni baraka kwa family yako hadi nimeskiya uoga ya kuolewa na watoto
Haki mapenzi wewe🤔... all you do is because deep down you still love him... If you don’t, all the burden you carry woun’t be there. That man don’t love you but he knows you love him and that’s is why he is using you. He has moved on! Do too.. love yourself first and cut all the connections with him! He can be there for his children because he is the dad. Forget about him completely.
You can never please a narcissist.... Your heart will always be bleeding if you are still in the same circle with your ex...society will always judge us whether good or bad. Cutting off toxic people is the best decision ever. We are protecting our sanity and peace of mind under all cost.
I hope you will tell your son the truth if you haven’t done so already. He has a God given right to know who his biological father is. I don’t understand why you keep insisting to him that the step father is his father. Please tell him the truth. You him that much.
Nasahii utashikia Ako na shida uede tu tena story yako inakaa tu yangu but mimi niliamua mtu abebe msalaba yake nakuelewa mama unakuwa mzuri but wee diyo unaumia
Wachana na huyu mwanaume kama hakupendi keep off. Look for another man ndio upone. Ama Look for a recreation thing to do during your free time. Don't listen to gossips
If you want peace Maggie keep off to man juu he don't value you in his life. During his sickness he put you like a steping stone dio azaidike after that asante ya 🐎 ni mateke
Silence and distancing yourself from these people is the medicine. I have faced such a past where my ex would spread lies about me. I won through silence and the way God fought my battle is that the same things he claimed I did, he did the same things to the people who were helping him to spread the rumors. Today they all respect me coz of letting God speak for me. Yes I also kept quiet for the same reasons; he is the father to my son. You do not even need to justify yourself or even explain to people anything. Use that energy to move on and build yourself. Women we have extra grace just for us. We just need to focus on God only that way will you see the manifestation. The battle belongs to the Lord.
This is pastor shadrack kahonoki ndiye alikuwa anachangiwa na karagu,and what I know if a man leaves you for another woman keep off,ata akiwa mgonjwa let the current wife deal with it,watoto si lazima walelewe na baba yao,I'm not harsh but it's the truth,kama hakupendi wachana na yeye
Maggy it seems you love that man so much and that's why it hurts once you hear gossip about you... decides to love him and don't mind the talks or let him go completely so that you can heal and you won't mind about the talkers..all the best as you heal
First she needs a shoulder to lean on it maybe a Woman or Man someone who cannot manipulate her amd mimi i tell ladies mtu akikukataa wachane naye and Maggie anafaa kwanza aonyeshe huyu mwanaume madharau haikai atakimkal she gives it to another man i tell you the man will start respecting her
wuuui its bad i remember this day maggie akitupigia simu tusupport this man akiwa kwa ambulance na tukasimama na maggie its bad kama hii maneno imefika hapo maggie don't cry again becoz of this man move on na uweke mungu mbele hii vita akupiganie ya hapa duniani ni hapa hapa tulisimama na maggie kwa sababu sisi ni marafiki wa maggie
The man calls himself Shadrach Kahonoki. There is a podcast aired 7 months ago when he had an interview with Baruthi wa Thayu. He is saying how he almost died from covind. But I don't know why you are calling him pastor...mafuta gani Maggy anasema
Maggie ua are a good hearted woman frm heaven n a very caring n responsible woman with gold heart who every Man would want. And I wish that so called x know what he lost. Am sad. Na prophet you must confess n ask Maggie for forgiveness. Repent otherwise u will pay dearly.
1) This lady need counseling so that she can heal. 2) distance yourself from this man, he doesn't respect you. 3) put all that energy to your business and your kids, unlike focusing on a person who doesn't value you .4)show your son his dad he is old enough to handle it.
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Two people you cannot advice.
1,A woman in love
2,A woman following a prophet..
Preach on it louder coz these types of women are pathetic.
You have said it well well!!!
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very true
Waria ma theri.
Fellow woman 👠, please 🙏 move on and block him for good,
If you do this all this stress won't follow you up.
That's the problem of showing somebody abusing you you love him, Too much Love can make you suffer, always pretend you don't love anybody
very true
Yes unakuwa gangster
Biiiig problem. Always love yourself more.
Before she starts helping other people, I pray that she will first be able to go counseling. May God heals her heart and gives her peace
In 2009 i got pregnant bt nikarukwa kipetero kiYesu,dude nevr botherd na sisi,i thnk my sisters cz walinikalisha chini wakaniongelesha,i struggled na kuuza simu tao nilee mtoi bt guess what,2012 a friend who is in dubai akaona venye nateseka,she brought me to dubai on a visit visa,hosted me and luckly i got a jb as a waitress,fast forward i now work in a bank and happily married na harusi,wish u spoke out,mimi nilikuwa nabebesha masis wangu mzigo,naeda kwao naliiiiiiia and i healed,saa hii mimi na hicho kimtu ni kama maji na mafuta,class yangu haezi iona,nvr force uaself kwa msee,mimi ile ujinga nilifanya tao all in the name of lv,acha tu...bt ile madharau nilichapwa!!!
Salvation is not slavery,am a pastor and I can't advocate pretence in the altar.wambuis advice the best 🙏
This woman is still in love,,,, may God have mercy on her
Yes she is so much in love
Exactly....she was hoping they would get back together....but she waited for too long
Stop loving someone who doesn't love you. You love him more than your kids
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Achana na huyu mwanaume,move move
True 💕💕💕💕💕
Tigana na muthuri ucio fiu akorwo ni ukwenda thayu
This woman still loves the guy I can't imagine the many times she has been betrayed by the guy but she kips going back. Just stay away from that man let him support ur kids yes but try to kip off
Ulikua unatumiwa nahuyo mwanaume navile unampenda uii.lakini tell your son his biological father.that man does not love you.
That man preaches water and takes wine.
Its not love,if u've followed the story keenly,this lady was tryin all bits 2cover her "pastorhusband".hakutaka jina yake ichafuliwe 4de sake of washirika
@@annemugechichege584 I sensed that too
Coz to me the man doesn't deserve to be called a pastor ,but she keeps saying she respects his preaching, let be honest with ourselves,and will be free
He rejected her son, her son went through so much pain after being rejected when he needed that man so bad but this woman stood by that man when he was in need.
You are Hurting coz it Seems you are still in Love with him. Please for your own Peace of Minds, Let him go. He is Treating you that Way coz He Knows he Still have Effect on You. He Doesn't deserve your Tears Mummy.
Maggie you're such a valuable woman,so caring,so concerned about your family and people around you.You have a seed of greatness in you.Move on cz your so called husband is arrogant and so disrespectful.I feel your pain,detach your heart from him and you'll have peace.
Mummy, block that Ex-husband. He's toxic. Your children need you well please
Very true.
Aki wewe ufanyiwe matharau then ukipigiwa unaenda mm cwezi
My ex husband hawezi nipigia alioa then kila mtu apabane na hali yake
Isupport
Maggie just assume the father of your children is dead and forget about this man. Think about the future of your children.
I have listened to both stories of the former husband. Honestly Maggy you're good hearted woman, God Is Hearing all this and He Will bless abundantly.
Amen 🙏
1: choose happiness.raha jipe mwenyewe
2: usikondeshwe na maneno ya watu.they will always talk
3. You still love the man. N that is your weakness
4.let your children meet the father away from your home.
5: love yourself and your life.
Know that you need to take care of yourself before taking care of others
My dear .. refresh your friends..not all who come your way make trustworthy n true friends
Maggie dear please always remember that you've not healed. You are a wonderful lady who can go far. Leave this man alone regardless of him being the father to your children. He is taking advantage of you coz he knows that you care. He's part of your children's life but it can do worse than good later.
She should just let him go.She is beautiful and will find a new guy.
Ni pastor mgani tumjue
@@artskillschegewakibiru4633 kahonoki
Love is something else heheee!!mwenye unapeda hakupedi anapeda mwingine😅 earth is hard💔, mama if u could have moved on with ua children's by now am sure u could be very happy 😊 forget about him completely leave him,God will fight for u mamaa❤️
God will fight for you in Jesus name.
God will pay you 100 times but please take care of your children and mind about them only.
A woman with a voice is a strong woman! Maggie, you are strong and loving. Stand strong for your children, and you owe happiness to urself. Let go, let God.
Pastor kahonoki unakosea sana aki si uogope Mungu at least. Ngai, aki hauna huruma wewe.
Umean ni huyo pastor kahonoki Kweli mbunguni ni mbali na vile huhubiri kwa baruthi
@@rositanjuguna7561 eeh, ni yeye
I knew this pastor since I was a kid ,he could come kwa kina maggy tunalala huko kesha ,he was the best enyewe shetani c kijana
@@sonyia7521 Kuna njina ingine ama n hiyo #kahonoki......natamani nimuone
Mum God will reward you for your good heart and your acts of kindness. Kindly your son has a right to know his biological father especially after baba mlezi telling him openly that he is not his father and causing him a lot of harm. He already knows that your ex-husband is not his biological father. You have a big heart Mum❤❤❤
If you stay in the same street where you got separated together with the people who knew you as husband and wife then you will never have peace, Kenya nikubwa enda bari sana n sart new life n you will create new friends n your life will change 🙏🙏
She should disconnect herself completely from that man... doesn't matter the relationship with his children. He is using his children to use this lady. Trust in God only otherwise ulcers zitakumaliza
Your love for your husband is "true love", unfortunately, your husband doesn't love you.
Paul ngaruiya exactly nautashikia huku inje watu wanaa device mtu aty ni setani muombee sio kupenda kwake wah
Hakuna shetani kama mutu hakupendi hakupendi watu waache kuwekelea saitani
Show your son his biological father, it's his right, he will decide if he wants him in his life , he will decide. Sometimes someone just want to see where his DNA come from.
I second you on that. Sometimes it's just someone wants to know their roots and their belonging. Stop kumlazimisha to the father that raised him. It's TRUE he is the one who raised him but you should also try and understand your son, he feels rejected by his adapted dad he just want to understand himself and his roots to where he belongs to
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Exactly. Kwanza hapo iliniuma sana. You can't force a grown up man who has made his mind to love a child who he has not fathered. Just show your son his biological dad.
Yes he will make his own informed decision.
Agree with you let's the son know his father l my self l have two daddy's l respect both of them.
Your husband was a narcissist,,, learn to ignore him,,,,love yourself the most,,, you're really a strong woman 🌹
This lady has a beautiful soul and God will avenge for her. Pst Kahonoki owes an apology to this lady. I listened to pst Kahonoki giving how God saved him from covid and the story now adds up. Some of this pastors are a disgrace to the alter. Am sorry Maggie for what you have gone through. Love yourself but above all focus on who called you(Jesus Christ). We shall know them by their fruits. Pst KAHONOKI wuuuiiii...
Ask me what kind of preacher he is, when I saw him on FB with covid, I knew it was a punishment, God help Maggie to move on
Mum ni vizuri umejitoa sasa hapo ndiyo utapona.
Lakini, tiga kwiringiriria muthuri icio tafadhali.
Please please MOVE ON, FORGET about your ex, STOP listening to what people are saying(gossip),FOCUS on the IMPORTANT aspects of your life, your CHILDREN, LOVE yourself, pray to GOD, go for COUNSELING and DELIVERANCE. The LORD is able to SAVE and DELIVER to the UTTERMOST. LOVE and RESPECT yourself. You are a beautiful woman.
Wambuis advice is always relevant and on point. It heals, it soothes, comforts and helps her guests to chart a new path.She is also attentive and asks only the right questions.
Yes I notices this too....esp her final remarks are full of wisdom.
Who is speaking the truth,wife n husband,
@@gracekimani3573 both,,,only the husband is so handsome women confused himm,,was not able contain them..they both love one another. But the husbband could not handle the wife feeling entitled as its suposed in every marriage...accountability ya utuuro wake taa muthuri...
why don't you concentrate with your children and forget about him not unless kunakutu unatakanga kwa your ex mbona unamfuata ata wanawake wenye anaongea nao utakufa bure mama na stress my opinion though
PST SHADRACK KAHONOKI amekuwa kwa baruthi, Jeremy and the rest. Anafichwa nini nkt.
Woiye umeanika uyu na venye amemficha
He is the one,,,nimekumbuka akitangazwa na karangu,,,he was in st mulumba thika,,,,
Kwani ni ure kahonoki Jesus christ I'm shocked aiiii
True nakwa Symo mukurino
Ngai😮😮😮 uuuiii kiu ni kimaramari
Why do you keep going back? The man doesn’t luv you a bit.
The man comes to you when he’s needy. Why allow yourself to be used.
Maggy utaheal ukikubali ku heal,, weka gear ya kusonga mbele mama block that man uwache kuona status zake,, maggy you still love tht man and tht man knw it, alikuwacha kubali and move on otherwise alcers zitakuua uwache watoto wako mummy,, sisi tumelea watoto wetu all alone just let him go uko msupuu Sana mama na unaweza Pata a caring man cz wewe a caring lady,, plzz heal mummy move on
this woman has a good heart,if you listen to her keenly..she really wanted to have a family only that the man took advantage of her love..may God see her through,and may that man realize that she truly has a blessing upon her
Very true she is wife material but husband ni kutupa na isipokuwa ni Maggie agekuwa marehemu
Wambui you are a young but very intelligent woman of God.
May yourGod uplift you even higher.
May God heal you and help you to move on. Reganerwo niwe kabisa akwenda niagagwetha. Single mothers tuko wengi na Ngai ndare atutiganeria. Ngai arokohonia 🙏🏽
All I can say ..Thank you God for healing our pastor.... glory and honor back to Jesus Christ...as he continues preaching.
Preaching does not make a person a true servant of God.
Why does all the time people with good hearts get heart the most, oooo my God may God remember this woman and pay her all her good deeds
Hapa we need right of reply from shadrack kahonoki " ithe wa joeli"
Eeh?
Na si ashapeana interview yake twice.
Eeehe kumbe ni yeye
Maggie take heart,all is well.hapa ni roho mbaya ilitumika kuharibu ndoa yako lakini Mungu yuko.you are soo beautiful.
She's a beautiful lady with a beautiful heart 😍
Surely mum si uondoe huyo mzee kwa maisha yako n nn unajimbemberezaga kwake Surely aaaaiii ata ww naye
She is to bothered about him 😕mi mtoi wangu haezi patwa na stress juu ya ujinga ,the 1st time huyo mtu aliambia mtoto si babake ningeambia mtoto wangu ukweli na akuwe na peace
Ety fafa wanyu" Mimi mtu akasema ivo namwabio ndioooooooo sio wako babake ni Fulani kwedaaaaaa.anapembeleza nini surely?
Pole sana my dear God is in control of everything 🙏 Ngai niariukaga gukurora
True na ndinaweira was ati Ngai niokaga guturola
Disconnect yourself from
Your ex and God will open doors for you
Sorry magg Mungu akuinue sana,Mimi naitwa wamboi natafuta job hata yanyumba nanitafanya vizuri Mungu awabariki sana
why care about someone who does not care about you!? learn to love yourself.
My question too!!
remember this woman has a golden heart.
Aiii ahunjagia kii na ndangihunjia gwake tiga kumwita muhunjia mwite muharagania
@@Cate861 exactly. charity begins at home
@@lucyiburu5588 golden heart or doormat?
Weee i have never seen a woman agree to share her children. I would never share mine with anyone no matter what, apart from their dad.
As far as you want to praise someone.....learn to love yourself and keep away from anything that don't bring peace ....your son has the right to know his biological father!
when you become so available to people who don't value you, they take you for granted. I pray that God will heal your broken heart and give you all the peace that you need. put yourself first Maggie so that you can be there for your children. they are all that matters ❤️
Woiii aki bado anapenda huyo mwanaume, spirit of denial is very bad
pia mimi nimeona hivyo
Mum you are sooo beautiful 💝💝🙏🙏 just move on once and for all and please show your son his biological father because he is a big boy then he will decide where to be please🙏🙏
Sorry for all that have happened but hii nguvu ya kujiforce place mtu hakutaki mnatoa wapi? How do I help at first then ur ungrateful then nirudi hapo Tena aki I can't
I have listened to the ex husband side of story..and hii maneno ni ngumu haiiii....what is what...mi hi mambo ya watu wamelala pamoja ina mambo
The man is clearly a narcissist.The lady is in an approval trap,she constantly seeks validation ,acceptance and approval from him and he takes advantage of that.
She cares so much what he thinks about her.
until she gets delivered from wanting acceptance, how do you kuhangira muthuri wene while the whole family is not interested?
Surely Maggie, your ex husband told you his new wife is rich mbona hangemsimamia when he got sick? You were sacrificing so much unnecessarily for a man who did so much for you, until you neglect yourself and your children. Live your life, help yourself with your finances and help your kids. Forget about that man, he has moved on. Avoid even showing up in his life when you are called coz you are only called when he is in problems. Ignore him completely and move on with your life. When a marriage or relationship is dead it just needs to be buried and life goes on. You are active in his life (your ex) yet you say mliachana and he even moved on. Forget about him 100% once and for all.
Ata wewe sasa chanuka stop being a slave of someone who doesn't respect you and your children.
Zidi kulia tu hao ahiki wanakuambia ukweli you're forcing yourself to him.
That's true..she is forcing herself to him. She should move on
What kind of pastor is this man? He has so many shortcomings. He should pray to God before praying for congregation. Why so much hatred towards a woman he lived with for a number of yrs and who continues to be there for him when he is in dire need for help. Ajirudie and find a place in his heart to thank this lady for the beautiful things he has done. Asiharibie pastors wengine jina. Pastors should be good examples to the lay people usijali Maggie, God is with you and you will go far. You have a golden heart which does not revenge. You are a good example of a good Christian and indeed loving your enemies which is normally not practically possible but she has maintained this. Mungu akuonekanie upate ata a respectable husband. Why not!
I can tell u for sure maggy hals a golden 💜 we come from the same village n I can say for sure that this woman has gone through slot ni the hands of this man but I trust that the Lord will enlarge her territories
This man clearly didn't want anything to do with you but you keep going back to him, you didn't want to destroy his name🤦♀️ yet he has continued to mess you up with your children. I hope you find healing after this, you need to move on, embrace the singlehood title with pride and you will have the peace that you've been missing. 🖐🖐
😂😂😂😂she don't want to accept
Noo umwiire mundu ndateithaagiaa oo aria maamuteithiiriee,,,,,"'" giiko gia thaa very important,,,this could have been avery good marriage beautiful couple albeit the devil entered back door and spoilt this beautiful thing marriage...May God give you peace...keep praying for one another namutige guturaania ngoro please....pastor uthii uherere mutumia uyu ukwendeetee uuuu...She is agift to your life even now..mark that word....
Just leave him alone let him be whether in the hospital or not don’t bother he has his wife and his family because you are getting used then dumped after your sacrifice, looking after his children is his responsibility he is not doing any favour to you, you respect him but he doesn’t respect you
Very true
Maggy, does the apostle preach about soul ties? If you bliv in such things, plz break them n move on.
Wambui ici ni cia rega mitheko. When one knows your weakness they will use them and they won’t care how you feel . He knew you would jump anytime he said jump. Maggie needs therapy to build her self esteem. To fill her cup with self love . Let your oldest son know his dad . Get the help you need and before you be there for others be there for yourself first . Your giving from an empty cup
Maggy r you sure this is the road to heal aiiii l highly doubt Ngai this is not good at all anyway wish u well
Successful single mothers tuko wengi, usilie tena mama, God is taking you to another level. I left after the first slap and I am a proud single mother. 10 years down the line, my former husband is still marrying. @ times we get married to total failures. You and God are enough... usilie tena, God is turning your tears to joy in Jesus Almighty Name 🙏🏽
God loves you. You are a good woman with a good heart. God atakulipa kwa wema wako, huyo mzee amekuzoea vimbaya sana. Leave that man kabisa, you deserve better
This woman what she needs is only respect from ex husband
kogwo ndikuhititie ngiuga ni kahonoki na mso niwe wekithagia mathafu
Lady, am sorry for the abuse you have subjected to your self. You don’t owe anyone an apology and you don’t need to prove your self. It’s clear you are a good person. Now use that energy to love your self. You can not please a narcissist, and narcissist don’t know how to love but hurt their victims.
Unbelievable how this lady remains following a man who has taken her through hell with domestic violence. Please Maggie see a therapist for counseling so that you can move on . Quit following him up and be done with him please. Don’t entertain stories about him from people too.
Why force yourself to people who don't value you.
May God keep giving you eternal peace,,, please focus with your life if you can and you include God first,,,, remember your children n they need you more
Mind your own business Maggie. What other people say is not your biz. Otherwise utakufa uwaache wakiongea.
My sister leave that man completely and don't listen to anybody else, take heart and move on, God bless you for your patience
Yes & very true ✌️
Mwanaume kwani mnatakaga nini jameni huyu mama ni mrembo sana but hile yenye amepitia ni mingi sana wanaume please ukiowa mtu mwenye ako na mtoto ujuwe huyo mtoto ni baraka kwa family yako hadi nimeskiya uoga ya kuolewa na watoto
Maggie Maggie you'll still in Love and pray God that you'll healed and move on
Haki mapenzi wewe🤔... all you do is because deep down you still love him... If you don’t, all the burden you carry woun’t be there. That man don’t love you but he knows you love him and that’s is why he is using you. He has moved on! Do too.. love yourself first and cut all the connections with him! He can be there for his children because he is the dad. Forget about him completely.
What a beautiful woman...Hold unto God He will heal you....Peace and joy i pray for you Maggie...
Maggie leave this man please, you still look cute and staning
The first thing to healing is to identify yourself ,then learn love yourself others will learn to love and respect you
You can never please a narcissist.... Your heart will always be bleeding if you are still in the same circle with your ex...society will always judge us whether good or bad.
Cutting off toxic people is the best decision ever. We are protecting our sanity and peace of mind under all cost.
Very true
Shirow Kihara I agree with you
@@lilynims550I appreciate it..and we owe no one any explanations for decisions that we make,it's for our good not theirs.
True 💯,a narcissist can't change even if you show him you care about him,,he will always see negative side of you,
@@milkakuria4488 exactly and they usually move from bad to worse.
Waaah💔💔 ...ngoma iturikaga ni guthijirwo 😭😭....ki ngoro gitihotanaga.. 💚much love beautiful mom🌹🎉 great testimony 👏
I hope you will tell your son the truth if you haven’t done so already. He has a God given right to know who his biological father is. I don’t understand why you keep insisting to him that the step father is his father. Please tell him the truth. You him that much.
yeaah n the step dad keeps humilating him making him depressed
Nasahii utashikia Ako na shida uede tu tena story yako inakaa tu yangu but mimi niliamua mtu abebe msalaba yake nakuelewa mama unakuwa mzuri but wee diyo unaumia
Its good you have come out mama. Dont get stressed because of a man
Wachana na huyu mwanaume kama hakupendi keep off. Look for another man ndio upone. Ama Look for a recreation thing to do during your free time. Don't listen to gossips
Ngai hawa Pastors wamezidi ata sasa mtu anaogopa hajui who's straight, please Mungu tusaidie.
If you want peace Maggie keep off to man juu he don't value you in his life. During his sickness he put you like a steping stone dio azaidike after that asante ya 🐎 ni mateke
So sad. Andu Aya maheagwo ngoro nuthu tondu no makurekie anytime
Mutumia uyu ena Ngai muingi..Maggie wasamehe wote ingawa ni painful...waga gikeno kia muthuri ciana ciaku niigakuhe gikeno take heart
Silence and distancing yourself from these people is the medicine. I have faced such a past where my ex would spread lies about me. I won through silence and the way God fought my battle is that the same things he claimed I did, he did the same things to the people who were helping him to spread the rumors. Today they all respect me coz of letting God speak for me. Yes I also kept quiet for the same reasons; he is the father to my son. You do not even need to justify yourself or even explain to people anything. Use that energy to move on and build yourself. Women we have extra grace just for us. We just need to focus on God only that way will you see the manifestation. The battle belongs to the Lord.
Zak
This is pastor shadrack kahonoki ndiye alikuwa anachangiwa na karagu,and what I know if a man leaves you for another woman keep off,ata akiwa mgonjwa let the current wife deal with it,watoto si lazima walelewe na baba yao,I'm not harsh but it's the truth,kama hakupendi wachana na yeye
Maggy it seems you love that man so much and that's why it hurts once you hear gossip about you... decides to love him and don't mind the talks or let him go completely so that you can heal and you won't mind about the talkers..all the best as you heal
First she needs a shoulder to lean on it maybe a Woman or Man someone who cannot manipulate her amd mimi i tell ladies mtu akikukataa wachane naye and Maggie anafaa kwanza aonyeshe huyu mwanaume madharau haikai atakimkal she gives it to another man i tell you the man will start respecting her
wuuui its bad i remember this day maggie akitupigia simu tusupport this man akiwa kwa ambulance na tukasimama na maggie its bad kama hii maneno imefika hapo maggie don't cry again becoz of this man move on na uweke mungu mbele hii vita akupiganie ya hapa duniani ni hapa hapa tulisimama na maggie kwa sababu sisi ni marafiki wa maggie
Aki watu jane lakini mungu ni mwema Atanipigania kwaile matusi ni mepitia
Doing my own research, I think these pastor is called
Pastor Shandrack kahonoki!!!!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yha ni yeye
yes you are 💯 correct!! go and find him to. baruthi wa thayu chanel
ni yeye ata vile amepeana story ati alienda live na karangu
don't worry mama mungu ako ad trust in God (tondu
Mwihoki mundu ni murume)ad you will be aky
Wee bio bio winathiina murata si you forget about your ex.
Loving somebody and not loving you...
Is the hardest thing....
hey maggie its good you have poured your heart out my advice to you is that you plan to see a counselor so that you can encourage others kindly
You're strong lady but love yourself and what goes on in his life should not be your business
The man calls himself Shadrach Kahonoki. There is a podcast aired 7 months ago when he had an interview with Baruthi wa Thayu. He is saying how he almost died from covind. But I don't know why you are calling him pastor...mafuta gani Maggy anasema
Hebu tumtafute maradhatdhat tuone huyo anajiita pastor saitan
Sasa tumemjua, tutamuangalia sana huyu Pastor wa Kuchapa bibi na kupreach at the same time.
Siku hizI nasikia a naitwa apostle.....
Maggie ua are a good hearted woman frm heaven n a very caring n responsible woman with gold heart who every Man would want. And I wish that so called x know what he lost. Am sad. Na prophet you must confess n ask Maggie for forgiveness. Repent otherwise u will pay dearly.