Mum mahali umekosea nikukosa kuwmbia mtoto wako ukweli mimi mama yangu aliolewa na mimi nakaniambia ukweli lakini Baba yangu mwenye ameowa mama yangu sijawai ona Baba mwingine Mzuri kama yeye hajawai nionyesha madharau ,hajawai niambia mimi siwake na mimi sikuwa nashika masomo vizuri nanimesoma mpaka collage huyo ata akikula pesa yangu hainiumangi namuombeangatu Mungu amuwekwe nwaka mingi 🙏🙏🙏
why can't let ur son know his biological father? why it pains to tell the truth? i married with my children and they were free to visite their Dad,and up to now they r okey with their Dad,and thier biological families!! ur Son will hate u,i know a while boy who want to take his life, because the mother didn't tell him about his father,coz father was from Africa! to tell him the truth doest mean he will not respect ur ex as carying father!
All these sad stories. Start with a red flag that was ignored in early stages of marriage. When you see an animal in early stages don't expect it to change later. It will eat you.
By forcing your son to a Foster father who wants nothing to do with him, you are doing more harm than good to him. Let him be, that won't make him less of a man. Many other men out there are sons of single mothers and they are doing great in life. He can be one of them because God knew him before He was even born and He has good plans for him
That term single mother will never have weight can you conceive alone tuache kudanganyana hata single father hakuna na silazima ujue nani alikuzalisha Ina maana gani unatupa wako unalea mwingine na maisha inaendelea
This toxic marriages are not worthy it ,first slap and last one, just walk out ,no point of even calling parents to talk ,just leave the marriage and start a fresh. Girl child empowerment is needed
Some comments here woiye...its only u people have no experience with a narcissist...they are very good people outside ...lakini kwa nyumba...real devils I stand with maggie
Mama this is the 21st century, show your son his biological dad, after all the stepdad doesn't want him...pls free him otherwise he will search forever! Don't ask your children to be loyal to people who reject them!! It's okay to walk away from chaos!!
She want her son to tolerate bull sh*t like she did. This will only result him into having low self esteem. He saw this man abuse his mum all this time and she wants to continue forcing his son to him. No wonder he refused to take him to be circumcised. Personally, I don't believe in hiding kids the truth about their biological father.
@@phyllism2479 you are very right. I had not thought it this way. Could be that's why he refused to bear the responcibility of seeing him through the rights of passage.
@@peninarkamau6993 At this point the stepfather is thinking about inheritance and that's why he is pushing him away so he gets nothing from him!! Why keep going back even to act as the superhero in his family??? She should stay away!! She should save n buy a property that her first son can inherit because I can fore see the stepdad humiliating him further when it comes to inheritance!!! honestly wisdom...
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You can never force breaking the persons confidentiality, that's the very first thing to be protected and breaking confidentiality is very unethical and that's jeopardizing the persons security, you just have to understand we are not here to judge.
@@juliemwangi4187 Haki from my heart I will tell my Baby the Truth about his biological father atleast the Baby will heal , please tell your son the Truth and it will set him free and appreciate the father who raised him🙏🙏
Now you're talking by NOT mentioning and exposing this perpetrator it will continue with its wickedness....this lady appear to support what he was doing and what is doing simply by saying wouldn't want to spoil his so called work....or even referring someone to it....am so sick with such churches operating in our country...they need to be burnt to ashes because they're being led by evil persos
Your son has a right to know his biological father. Times have changed. If you love him you'll stop hurting him. He's hurting coz of rejection from the other man. He needs the truth!
I think it’s only right for the mum to tell her son who his biological dad is . He is grown and he needs to know the truth . You can force him to call a man who has already rejected him his father . It’s only continues to hurt him . He deserves to know the truth and trace his path .
Waaa just listened to the X he sounds so innocent... I think in churches issues concerning women should be dealt with by fellow women and pastors wyf while men's issues should be handled by men.. Otherwise the DEVIL IS A LIAR
A strong woman you are Magie Magie. Last Borns are like that 75% of them. Our last born is no exception. Wambui keep on doing what you are doing. I hope by talking she's relaxed but the kid requires councelling haki.
Stop hurting your son by forcing him to be associated with people who have openly rejected him let him know the truth he is a grown up now to understand
That's right a mother forcing her son to accept this horrible awful mean monster as his father yet he openly rejected him...she shouldn't force her pain onto her son and needs to come clean and tell him rather than other people out there. The truth hurts and if you want to heal and have peace with yourself then tell your son nothing but the whole truth period....it's not about you or your feelings anymore. Stop being selfish 😒
Stop running away from reality and Truth the fact that ur son is rejected and unwanted in that family is obviously tell him the truth and let him keep of koz the will keep frustrating him bkoz ur acting desperate for them keep of that family but let him know he must respect them
Wambui.....up your game....teach women NO MAN SHOULD TOUCH THEM., period.... please...KIHIKO IS NONSENSE RIGHT NOW.... We are living in the last days 🙆
Pole kwa yenye umepitia Namsy Maggie kwa Ndoa yako not easy but its good u step out b4 kue kumbaya i salute 4 that ,2rd with humbleness 🙏🙏🙏comments as a parent its good you tell you 1st born who is biological dad coz hata ukisema amekubali Baba mlezi ndiye daddy bado yy ako na maswali mengi its only he respect you na pia umesema sister in low wako washamwambia biological daddy open your heart to heal life of your son remember he is a daddy to somebody n husband to someone somewhere feel loved n may God open the doors of your blessings Namsy maggie
I was in the same situation but you have to tell your son the truth,it's the only way to heal for both you and your son.There is God in heaven who fight's such battles
Sorry about the abuse you went through in the hands of your narcissistic ex. Your son is a grown up. Face him. Tell him the truth. His biological father did not reject him. You are the one who fled. It's even more painful to learn the truth from social media with everyone else.
@@jackbella1966 aki naskia sorry sana kwa wenye comment ati mtoi abiwe baba yake ?kijana 25 yrs na ako na bibi na mtoto sikilisa Apostle akiongea my friend
You have gone through a lot, may peace of God be with you. But remember the truth will set you free. Stop stressing yourself. Ambia mtoto babake ni nani.
Waoh.i have listenedto his defence...men wil always be men....never on the wrong....i have experience with a narcissist..take heart maggie n be there for your son always.... Pastor kahonoki....God reigns
After watching your ex husband story you both are good people.... Ni vile yeye ashamove on with life....but you still need him back... please mama find a life except that he's not interested in you anymore....
Maggie my dear sister I listened to both your story and your ex-husband as well,all what I came into conclusion is that whatever you have told us is very clear your ex-husband did it to you,and your story is total truth,it's only that your ex know how to paint himself so well to shine like gold and people will not understand easily how cruel he was to you,your children are witnesses of the physical abuse you went through,may God comfort your heart to heal fast
That is how narcissists are, very charming n they know how to make their victims look bad/crazy. He is done with her n there is nothing she can do, he has another supply.
For the past 38 yrs i dont know who my dad is was brought up by a single mother she tried her level best to educate us and we are blessed. Sometimes ifeel like asking my mum but when i look what is happening in pples affair. I keep her peace. Dont wanna stress her. But sheria iwekwe kila mtu ni haki yake kumjua baba.
I understand this woman. It's a shoe am wearing. I got married with a kid and soon after settling down with him he started mistreating me and my kid. I decided to quit that marriage. As for his biological dad, it's very painful to show a child his biological dad when he is not present in his life and to make the matters worse he refused to pay his school fees or any child support. It's very painful to struggle alone only to introduce a grown up to a man who refused to take responsibility. My case though.....
Things people go through in marriage 😭 just so sad and unfortunately the acting people do out here is terrible....just let your boy know who the father is mama. Not that you don't respect that man who brought him up but its only fair since he also admitted to him that he is not his son. If he dint do that then it would be ungrateful to do so. Don't stress that boy for nothing. As for you pastor husband,God's sees ,God knows...
I feel this lady. Sad that you had to go through pain in the name of love. Having listened to the husband on another channel. I believe her! Narcissist take advantage of someone and appear very innocent tot he society
Why can't we hear the other side and u didn't say u left your smallest daughter akiwa 2 years and u stayed 12 years without seeing your kids natena bwana angekaa bila bibi mwingine na ulienda?let ur hubby come too na ujue huyo hubby ndio amekua na huyo joel tangu uende.
@@shikungugichannel5651 single mothers tuko wengi tuliamua kutoka na watoto wetu. I just can't imagine how a woman leaves her children behind na uchungu wa mwana aujuaye ni mama mzazi. Afadhali nizumbuke na watoto wangu.
@@wanjikumwangiproudoma7557 we are different, me nikajua baba ya mtoto hatawaacha walale njaa na mimi kupata hiyo food ni shida, nawaacha nilale njaa peke yangu na wao washibe,,, but kama pia yeye kupata food ni noma me nawabeba tusumbukie mbele...
But she said aliacha watoto wake wakiwa wadogo.Kuliko auliwe hapo si heri awaache coz wao hawachapwi.Kila mtu na life yake Ala! Mbona abebe watoto hataweza kulea na baba anaweza? He is an equal parent sio kila saa wamama kusumbuka na watoto
There comes a time in life when things have to be brought to the light.It is not good to hide things.Just tell the boy who his biological dad is ili roho yake itulie.He might just keep quiet but it is eating him up from the inside .Tell him the truth and set his heart free.
Never fake ua life Ndungituura utuuro wene Good to accept the situation,ur a winner I passed thru with a narcissist U have to do always the right,let him face the parents of both sides together.
Me too I wonder how u can force your kid to someone who don't care,I think this son have been living in hell in that family,this stupidity of thinking man is God and u can't survive without him is wrong before God,I think it's because of other kids that y ,hata Hawa mabibi za pastor let them stop entertaining evil Dio church isiishe,I think God is not happy with their pretending
Cokaanwoooiiii iyo niyo dawa...both of you are missing one another,.,.if there is opportunity in both of you just give in....you feel still friends only both of you dont know how to deal with what you are feeling....
Wacheni kusifu shetani sana.everything is not the devil.when we say everything is the devil,we praise him too much.the devil canot be everywhere at the same time.wacheni tuondoe shetani midomoni mwetu sana.my opinion.
The truth is in the beginning of the story. This boy has a father. Whether poor, whether blind..... Or was it a relative? Sins of the past can haunt one. Your son knows nothing. Be the woman of God, stop shedding tears, tell him the truth he yearns to know, set him and you free.
She is still in a lot of pain. She needs to end unnecessary contact with him..it should strictly about the kids. Hii mambo ingine aache kufanyia huyu mubaba, cos he obviously neither loves, respects nor appreciates her effort. Aachane naye kabisa..ignore him, lead your life. And get new friends, please!
Ooh pole kwa yote wamama wanakufa na dipression juu ya ndoa it's really very sad stay real dnt fake life pple will always talk kwahiuha kiura ruga but let ur son know his dad no matter what he ill always remain dad better to stay single that to abusive marriage am victim 14 yrs now moving forward mpaka huwa naogopa kuwa kwa relationships ama kuolewa thayu ni kindu gia fata muturireiini.
am sorry for all what you have gone through but its good for that boy to know who the biologica father is,your ex husband will keep hurting this boy for no reason pls tell him who the father is, he need the truth and his soul will be healed,no matter how painful it is .imagine you are hurting this boy dont force him where his blood is not ,blood is thicker than water
Women need to tell children the truth about their biological parent dont let your children suffer this much. And am sure this man never liked this kid from the beginning.
I support kids are the one getting affected. The intention is to heal or expose the x,but the burden n shame goes to the boys.(kuruithio ni nyukwa).wambugu is now an Adult mum u could have consulted him b4 exposing this.im not judging but please let keep our kids out of the conflict internet dont 4get.your grandson will watch this
Only the truth will set your son free. Why hide him his biological father and he's grown up to understand.. He's not the first and the last to be born out of wedlock. No No mum tell your son the truth. Mbona step father has openly told him that He's not his son? You're touchering your son mum. Ana mkana live na wewe una msukumia yeye? Ata kama ha kumlea, still ni blood yake and his own seed. Remember you yourself said that huyo father to your son ha ku kataa mimba. Ni wewe uli mkataa. So dnt make your son suffer rejection and identity challenges coz of your decisions. Maybe evn his biological father suffered denial of his son also. Sometimes, there are things happen for a reason.
Wacha nikuambie mum watu ka hao hua hawaachi vita na hua wanachunga mtu ka mbuzi na akikuchapa uende atakutafta akikupigia magoti akilia but ukitudi kwake life ni ile ile na matusi mbaya....and they are so jealous....
Si at least Wambui wa Mwangi utuletee mtu/watu marriages zimework For once,sisi mayoungstar tumeaza hata kuogopa kuget married, The stories zimeaza kutuma i hate getting "MARRIED"
Tell your son the truth period... don't Force a bond that isn't there..with all angles the man did nothing wrong by telling your son he isn't his dad..coz it's true..wewe ndio umefunga mtoto...stop oldage thinking that where you get married is where your kids belong...Tell your son the truth he is an adult now
I'm sincerely sorry for what u went through Mum. But hii story of not telling your son who's the biological Dad is it's not fair. He has his own right to know
Hizi ndio zile vitu nasemanga nizakujitakia. Kwani wewe haunjipendi? 3/4 of your life ni fake. Tena umeanza kuingiza maisha ya watoto kwa huo ufake pia...
But I have heard the pastor say the boy is married with a kid...kid named after him..and uts him and the current wife that went ruracio for that boy...
The greatest mistake you are doing is to hide your son the real identity by not introducing to him his biological father.That will heal him psychologically.It is not about who does who but blood.That boy has two dads and that is the fact.Finish the pain by showing him.The father who brought him up did good but he also made him know that he doesn't take that boy as his own.You must gain courage and face that reality.
Mum.. ulindanganya kanisani na umeishi maisha ya uongo ukifalia jina la mungu...hadi unandanganya mtoto ukijua ulimpata kabla ya kupatana na huyu mwanaume?.watu uolewa na watoto mbora ukweli usemwe...fake life full of lies..why???..sasa unalia nini na wewe ndio unafake life?
i completely agree with you.kanisa ilikuwa bizna ndo maana hangesema anachapwa na kuletewa wamama kwa ndoa ndo wasipoteze washirika na sadaka! alafu afadhali mtoto wake ateswe na huyo mans kuliko kumwambia ukweli ulivyo! smh! she should completely forget about that bagga!😡
@@jacqlinewanj1138 imagine analetewa wanawake kwa nyumba halafu asubui wanaenda kanisani huyo pepo anaita bwana anajifanya anamsalimia mke wake congregation ikisikia anasema AMEN..utapeli wa maisha kanisani...shida kubwa wote nimesikia wakilalamikia kuolewa na kutezwa na pastors..wanaficha ni akina nani na makanisa yao pia wanaficha..kwanini kuwasema ikiwa hawana huruma na washirika??siwakae kimia biashara iendelee,
From Sammy k and can tell that man is toxic Sammy k can also attest to this he was even unable to ask him questions... narcissist husbands kills you from inside they are dangerous but mum you need to seat your son down and tell him the whole truth
I wish women may understand the need to tell children their true father. There's no way I can side with this lady because blood is thicker than water. Let him know his biological father .. period.
Please please Margy kama jinsi Mungu amukuwezesha kunena hayo yote na jinsi yayalivyo yauchungu mwingi,itakubidi pia vivyo hivyo umejitoa kwa camera unjitoe hata kwa your first born wewe mwenyewe hata kama haupendi mwenye amekuzalisha couz for sure the son ananjua kufake joy vile wewe uliishi kuifake nahuwa inamuuma sana especially akikubuka nimama yake anamficha menyerera ndakanakinya hakwiyuria hihi nawe ugoka kumwira nduri nyina mwathianga uria erirwo nimuthurigwo we tithe???please nakusihi wambui tafuta the son ad the mother again interview iwe nimama kwambia the son the biological dad...
Sad...sad...painful...painful.......am 31years i came to realize the my dad is not my biological dad at 19 after highskul....never ever has e ever shown a sign to me ati si yy my real dad .....i rem my tried asking mom but aliniambia niache ujinga na hataki maswali...there was a reason i was asking her...not that my dad hunionyesha chuki but kuna time mtu huskia want to kmow the truth....right now wamekosana ama i came to ushago ndio nikae na my son since my mom walikuwa wanaishi na yy......my dad is the best.......but he is alwys pressured na his family esp kama wamekosana na mom....but i know he loves me so so very much and i treasure him with all my heart......but to my opinion let always be open to our kids....we don't demand to know who our blood dads are for anything but just to know..let society nt break the news to us let our mom tell us.
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we're waiting about her fake husband .pastor kahonoki
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Nice
Pole sana mum lakini ambia mtoi the truth
So happy for you, your father is a good man. He deserves a lot of blessings.
@@betty541 true
It’s right for the child to know his biological father no matter what …..please you would be surprised it’s mental torture for the young man
If only that man is a responsible person to his kid,if not to me.
She never told the real father about the pregnancy. Don't judge him...
Right you say🤔 me i can't let my Dota meet with her so called "Dad"
Maggie is suffering from love, he wanted the man back
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It's seems regretted, the man didn't look back🏃
10 years are many Maggie,move on and accept your ex has moved on..... whatever happened happened
why can't let ur son know his biological father? why it pains to tell the truth? i married with my children and they were free to visite their Dad,and up to now they r okey with their Dad,and thier biological families!! ur Son will hate u,i know a while boy who want to take his life, because the mother didn't tell him about his father,coz father was from Africa! to tell him the truth doest mean he will not respect ur ex as carying father!
Kwanini unaongea ukweri 😀😀😀😀😀
Pole Sana Mum for what you have bn through.......Sending you lots of love,peace and Blessings.❤💞You are strong.
All these sad stories. Start with a red flag that was ignored in early stages of marriage. When you see an animal in early stages don't expect it to change later. It will eat you.
I concur with you.
@@jacintawaruingi7752 you concer but just do a research,. The big number will not chage
@@dmm3770 I get it I was painfully there a few years ago. I thank God for my inner peace.
Well saeid
By forcing your son to a Foster father who wants nothing to do with him, you are doing more harm than good to him. Let him be, that won't make him less of a man. Many other men out there are sons of single mothers and they are doing great in life. He can be one of them because God knew him before He was even born and He has good plans for him
That term single mother will never have weight can you conceive alone tuache kudanganyana hata single father hakuna na silazima ujue nani alikuzalisha Ina maana gani unatupa wako unalea mwingine na maisha inaendelea
Many are called but few are choosen. Many pastors wife go through alot but can't talk. It's good you talked and let your heart be free.
This toxic marriages are not worthy it ,first slap and last one, just walk out ,no point of even calling parents to talk ,just leave the marriage and start a fresh.
Girl child empowerment is needed
Some comments here woiye...its only u people have no experience with a narcissist...they are very good people outside ...lakini kwa nyumba...real devils
I stand with maggie
I can relate😢it..
Mama this is the 21st century, show your son his biological dad, after all the stepdad doesn't want him...pls free him otherwise he will search forever! Don't ask your children to be loyal to people who reject them!! It's okay to walk away from chaos!!
She want her son to tolerate bull sh*t like she did. This will only result him into having low self esteem. He saw this man abuse his mum all this time and she wants to continue forcing his son to him. No wonder he refused to take him to be circumcised. Personally, I don't believe in hiding kids the truth about their biological father.
@@phyllism2479 you are very right. I had not thought it this way. Could be that's why he refused to bear the responcibility of seeing him through the rights of passage.
@@peninarkamau6993 At this point the stepfather is thinking about inheritance and that's why he is pushing him away so he gets nothing from him!! Why keep going back even to act as the superhero in his family??? She should stay away!! She should save n buy a property that her first son can inherit because I can fore see the stepdad humiliating him further when it comes to inheritance!!! honestly wisdom...
I think it's always good to mention the culprit coz this man,if the story is true, should not be preaching anywhere
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You can never force breaking the persons confidentiality, that's the very first thing to be protected and breaking confidentiality is very unethical and that's jeopardizing the persons security, you just have to understand we are not here to judge.
@@juliemwangi4187 Haki from my heart I will tell my Baby the Truth about his biological father atleast the Baby will heal , please tell your son the Truth and it will set him free and appreciate the father who raised him🙏🙏
Now you're talking by NOT mentioning and exposing this perpetrator it will continue with its wickedness....this lady appear to support what he was doing and what is doing simply by saying wouldn't want to spoil his so called work....or even referring someone to it....am so sick with such churches operating in our country...they need to be burnt to ashes because they're being led by evil persos
Margaret Njeri is that necessary. It's up to the interviewees to make a choice of disclosure.
Thanks mama for mentioning the word INDUSTRY more than 3 times, yes it is. It’s No longer ministry to most Kenyan its gospel INDUSTRY
Your son has a right to know his biological father. Times have changed. If you love him you'll stop hurting him. He's hurting coz of rejection from the other man. He needs the truth!
I think it’s only right for the mum to tell her son who his biological dad is . He is grown and he needs to know the truth . You can force him to call a man who has already rejected him his father . It’s only continues to hurt him . He deserves to know the truth and trace his path .
Well done 👏 I totally agree with you and perhaps his dad was a decent man not like that idiot horrible mean wife beater
Sure.. Ata kaa anakaa je.. He is his father. Blood is thicker than water.
I agree with yu 100%
Pliz Maggie jaribu kumwabia tu Mimi Niko na 51years nahuwa natamani ninjue Baba yangu atakama alikufa nione tu kaburi ni vyema kwambia mtoto ukweli
I second you she has to tel his son
Keep up wambo .. thanks for mentorship
This is very sad, we should preach in Jerusalem first.
Many pastor wives are normally in trouble,
Waaa just listened to the X he sounds so innocent... I think in churches issues concerning women should be dealt with by fellow women and pastors wyf while men's issues should be handled by men.. Otherwise the DEVIL IS A LIAR
True
He is,,this should move on now
But since 10 yes ago....is it not wise to move on...the kids as per dad are doing well..story na inlaw who is dead n forgotten is irrelevant..
A strong woman you are Magie Magie. Last Borns are like that 75% of them. Our last born is no exception. Wambui keep on doing what you are doing. I hope by talking she's relaxed but the kid requires councelling haki.
Stop hurting your son by forcing him to be associated with people who have openly rejected him let him know the truth he is a grown up now to understand
That's right a mother forcing her son to accept this horrible awful mean monster as his father yet he openly rejected him...she shouldn't force her pain onto her son and needs to come clean and tell him rather than other people out there. The truth hurts and if you want to heal and have peace with yourself then tell your son nothing but the whole truth period....it's not about you or your feelings anymore. Stop being selfish 😒
Wambui itabidi umecheza kama wewe. Tell her the truth she is running away from. Waiting...
Totally agree.
Stop running away from reality and Truth the fact that ur son is rejected and unwanted in that family is obviously tell him the truth and let him keep of koz the will keep frustrating him bkoz ur acting desperate for them keep of that family but let him know he must respect them
Ya mtoi is old enough to know the truth kwann anamficha ukweli is not good at all
Wambui.....up your game....teach women NO MAN SHOULD TOUCH THEM., period.... please...KIHIKO IS NONSENSE RIGHT NOW....
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Last days of what mama?
Pole kwa yenye umepitia Namsy Maggie kwa Ndoa yako not easy but its good u step out b4 kue kumbaya i salute 4 that ,2rd with humbleness 🙏🙏🙏comments as a parent its good you tell you 1st born who is biological dad coz hata ukisema amekubali Baba mlezi ndiye daddy bado yy ako na maswali mengi its only he respect you na pia umesema sister in low wako washamwambia biological daddy open your heart to heal life of your son remember he is a daddy to somebody n husband to someone somewhere feel loved n may God open the doors of your blessings Namsy maggie
I was in the same situation but you have to tell your son the truth,it's the only way to heal for both you and your son.There is God in heaven who fight's such battles
There is no harm letting the boy know his biological father. Baba mlezi pia aheshimiwe.
Sorry about the abuse you went through in the hands of your narcissistic ex. Your son is a grown up. Face him. Tell him the truth. His biological father did not reject him. You are the one who fled. It's even more painful to learn the truth from social media with everyone else.
Very true ,I support you
Very true
The truth will always prevail ,tell your son the whole story on behalf of his better tomorrow
Agree denial is very bad. She needs to stop being in denial and tell her son the truth. Maybe his real father would be happy to know him
YaaaP ambia mtoi babake....I wish my biological father lives akii😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Listen to the ex story and judge...the son in question has a family and in good terms with the step dad upto now...
Something is not adding up
@@jackbella1966 aki naskia sorry sana kwa wenye comment ati mtoi abiwe baba yake ?kijana 25 yrs na ako na bibi na mtoto sikilisa Apostle akiongea my friend
Wambui wa Mwangi again with a kinda uniqueness show ...Nice and kudos 👏 💓💗💖❤❤🧡💛💚💯🙏🙏🙏🙏
Maggy stop hurting your son. Be open and show him his biological father.
This r the women who loves men than there children
@@Tmk5342Exactly, she fear judgement from the society....she don't want to admit that she had a child before marriage.
With her introducing her son to his biological father means she is defeated and she is not ready to give up on this man.
She is wrong on this part. Let the son know his biological father.
Huyu ni kama bando roho iko Kwa huyo mwanaume
You have gone through a lot, may peace of God be with you.
But remember the truth will set you free. Stop stressing yourself. Ambia mtoto babake ni nani.
It's very very important you tell him the truth..and that will enhance a closure and your son will be okey
Hahaaa wah from symo to here wooi maggie...urenda atia riu tondu warira ugwo mwana witu...ndugie hinya na uthie nambere na maisha
Wa Captain changamka kiasi hata kama stori ina kukera pliz.
I hope sababu sio sis ya Jabali..🙈
Waoh.i have listenedto his defence...men wil always be men....never on the wrong....i have experience with a narcissist..take heart maggie n be there for your son always....
Pastor kahonoki....God reigns
After watching your ex husband story you both are good people.... Ni vile yeye ashamove on with life....but you still need him back... please mama find a life except that he's not interested in you anymore....
bt uyo kahonoki anakaa pretender coz akusema kama amewai mchapa
Very true,,let her move on
Asonge mbele alet it go pia si aolewe l have heard both the man moved on so take your time usonge pole pole
@@blessedmajojojo387 sure
Move on mama..that's your problem.
Maggie my dear sister I listened to both your story and your ex-husband as well,all what I came into conclusion is that whatever you have told us is very clear your ex-husband did it to you,and your story is total truth,it's only that your ex know how to paint himself so well to shine like gold and people will not understand easily how cruel he was to you,your children are witnesses of the physical abuse you went through,may God comfort your heart to heal fast
You are wrong, you can't judge here , only God knows the truth
That is how narcissists are, very charming n they know how to make their victims look bad/crazy. He is done with her n there is nothing she can do, he has another supply.
Kindly share the link to the husbands story
@@annnyamburamajesty. go to symo k channel you will find him
But i think by 10years one should have healed the pain the fact is she still loves the pastor
A kid is over 18 you have to tell him the truth don't think he's foolish. This father has denied him let him know what happened to set his mind free
Let him know his dad is... How I love my son.... Can't let anyone hurt him... He should know the truth. At his age... Surely ladies.....
Nimekuja after kuona Apostle kahonoki replying to this lady Maggie in Symo K channel,
Me too
Watching keenly, wooooii pole sana Maggie
Wee aki tears of a mother..onlynGod knows...
For the past 38 yrs i dont know who my dad is was brought up by a single mother she tried her level best to educate us and we are blessed. Sometimes ifeel like asking my mum but when i look what is happening in pples affair. I keep her peace. Dont wanna stress her. But sheria iwekwe kila mtu ni haki yake kumjua baba.
I understand this woman. It's a shoe am wearing. I got married with a kid and soon after settling down with him he started mistreating me and my kid. I decided to quit that marriage. As for his biological dad, it's very painful to show a child his biological dad when he is not present in his life and to make the matters worse he refused to pay his school fees or any child support. It's very painful to struggle alone only to introduce a grown up to a man who refused to take responsibility. My case though.....
Wooie pole sana mummy bt it's good to tell your son the truth n rejection is always a redirection
Things people go through in marriage 😭 just so sad and unfortunately the acting people do out here is terrible....just let your boy know who the father is mama. Not that you don't respect that man who brought him up but its only fair since he also admitted to him that he is not his son. If he dint do that then it would be ungrateful to do so. Don't stress that boy for nothing. As for you pastor husband,God's sees ,God knows...
Swty gal are you ok wambo today you look different drink alot of 💧 and rest when you can. Something is not right 🤔
pregnancy...
See huoni amebeba mzigo.mmmm
haiyaiii kahonoki wooooiii wathi uri hagirwo thii nongimuona ......ira mwana uhoro wama
Ngai aroririkana ciana cia kuhikwo nacio tondu itikoragwo itikoragwo ciithureire uguo😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I have listened both sides and I can tell you if you are wise enough you will be able to know who is lying and who is speaking the truth.
I feel this lady. Sad that you had to go through pain in the name of love. Having listened to the husband on another channel. I believe her! Narcissist take advantage of someone and appear very innocent tot he society
Why can't we hear the other side and u didn't say u left your smallest daughter akiwa 2 years and u stayed 12 years without seeing your kids natena bwana angekaa bila bibi mwingine na ulienda?let ur hubby come too na ujue huyo hubby ndio amekua na huyo joel tangu uende.
May be alitoroka juu ya mateso na instead aende akateseke na watoto akaona awaache na baba yao...m
@@shikungugichannel5651 single mothers tuko wengi tuliamua kutoka na watoto wetu. I just can't imagine how a woman leaves her children behind na uchungu wa mwana aujuaye ni mama mzazi. Afadhali nizumbuke na watoto wangu.
@@wanjikumwangiproudoma7557 we are different, me nikajua baba ya mtoto hatawaacha walale njaa na mimi kupata hiyo food ni shida, nawaacha nilale njaa peke yangu na wao washibe,,, but kama pia yeye kupata food ni noma me nawabeba tusumbukie mbele...
@@shikungugichannel5651 hiyo pia si mbaya kwa wenye wanaweza, but mimi siwezi seriously
But she said aliacha watoto wake wakiwa wadogo.Kuliko auliwe hapo si heri awaache coz wao hawachapwi.Kila mtu na life yake Ala! Mbona abebe watoto hataweza kulea na baba anaweza? He is an equal parent sio kila saa wamama kusumbuka na watoto
There comes a time in life when things have to be brought to the light.It is not good to hide things.Just tell the boy who his biological dad is ili roho yake itulie.He might just keep quiet but it is eating him up from the inside .Tell him the truth and set his heart free.
She love's the hubby more than her son.
Exactly 💯
Never fake ua life
Ndungituura utuuro wene
Good to accept the situation,ur a winner
I passed thru with a narcissist
U have to do always the right,let him face the parents of both sides together.
All in all wishing you the best ..
Pastor shadrack kahonoki.... !!Jesus Christ😭😭!! Woi Ngai honokia mutumia uyu kumana na hio mbwa mwitu.
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I feel like this woman is withholding a lot it's like she is still protecting the ex husband.
Exactly coz pengine anasaidianga watoto..icant entertain such...mundurume stupid
Me too I wonder how u can force your kid to someone who don't care,I think this son have been living in hell in that family,this stupidity of thinking man is God and u can't survive without him is wrong before God,I think it's because of other kids that y ,hata Hawa mabibi za pastor let them stop entertaining evil Dio church isiishe,I think God is not happy with their pretending
Cokaanwoooiiii iyo niyo dawa...both of you are missing one another,.,.if there is opportunity in both of you just give in....you feel still friends only both of you dont know how to deal with what you are feeling....
Every child has the right to know their real father. Huyu mama ako dramatic pia
It not worth to stay in abusive marriage it ends in divorce if you lack or death. Don't hide an abusive pattern.
Wacheni kusifu shetani sana.everything is not the devil.when we say everything is the devil,we praise him too much.the devil canot be everywhere at the same time.wacheni tuondoe shetani midomoni mwetu sana.my opinion.
Please tell your son the truth,,,, since he's a grown up,,,,
Tell your son the truth, free him from this agony.The more you hide it from him the more you cause him pain .. Its that simple
The truth is in the beginning of the story. This boy has a father. Whether poor, whether blind..... Or was it a relative? Sins of the past can haunt one. Your son knows nothing. Be the woman of God, stop shedding tears, tell him the truth he yearns to know, set him and you free.
Let us learn to think be before we talk cz they do bring bad photos on the ground
She is still in a lot of pain. She needs to end unnecessary contact with him..it should strictly about the kids. Hii mambo ingine aache kufanyia huyu mubaba, cos he obviously neither loves, respects nor appreciates her effort. Aachane naye kabisa..ignore him, lead your life. And get new friends, please!
This lady should have told the son the truth. At 18 years , He was grown and needed to know the truth
Sure...am a single mum and I know the pain the boy is going through
It's good to let him know 😌
@@estherithagu3602 Apostle kahonoki ametokelezea kwa symo k,atamjua tu
@@estherithagu3602 Apostle kahonoki ametokelezea kwa symo k,atamjua tu
Just listening 🎧 today wambo , looking gorgeous as always
Ooh pole kwa yote wamama wanakufa na dipression juu ya ndoa it's really very sad stay real dnt fake life pple will always talk kwahiuha kiura ruga but let ur son know his dad no matter what he ill always remain dad better to stay single that to abusive marriage am victim 14 yrs now moving forward mpaka huwa naogopa kuwa kwa relationships ama kuolewa thayu ni kindu gia fata muturireiini.
am sorry for all what you have gone through but its good for that boy to know who the biologica father is,your ex husband will keep hurting this boy for no reason pls tell him who the father is, he need the truth and his soul will be healed,no matter how painful it is .imagine you are hurting this boy dont force him where his blood is not ,blood is thicker than water
To all single ladies a father is someone who takes care of a child being a biological father means nother respect that man
Women need to tell children the truth about their biological parent dont let your children suffer this much. And am sure this man never liked this kid from the beginning.
Wooooi, pole mamy, but it seems you stilll love your ex, may God give you both a way you can be together again, our God is Able
Pole sana mummy
Nii igihoya andu manahikania matige kwanikana mitamboini tondu muthuri ucio niwe ithe wa ciana ciaku
I support kids are the one getting affected. The intention is to heal or expose the x,but the burden n shame goes to the boys.(kuruithio ni nyukwa).wambugu is now an Adult mum u could have consulted him b4 exposing this.im not judging but please let keep our kids out of the conflict internet dont 4get.your grandson will watch this
Only the truth will set your son free. Why hide him his biological father and he's grown up to understand.. He's not the first and the last to be born out of wedlock. No No mum tell your son the truth. Mbona step father has openly told him that He's not his son? You're touchering your son mum. Ana mkana live na wewe una msukumia yeye? Ata kama ha kumlea, still ni blood yake and his own seed. Remember you yourself said that huyo father to your son ha ku kataa mimba. Ni wewe uli mkataa. So dnt make your son suffer rejection and identity challenges coz of your decisions. Maybe evn his biological father suffered denial of his son also. Sometimes, there are things happen for a reason.
But I remember how Magy did alot when Kahonoki was sick corona
Wacha nikuambie mum watu ka hao hua hawaachi vita na hua wanachunga mtu ka mbuzi na akikuchapa uende atakutafta akikupigia magoti akilia but ukitudi kwake life ni ile ile na matusi mbaya....and they are so jealous....
Si at least Wambui wa Mwangi utuletee mtu/watu marriages zimework For once,sisi mayoungstar tumeaza hata kuogopa kuget married, The stories zimeaza kutuma i hate getting "MARRIED"
Kunazo mob tumefanya kindly watch them
Ata Mimi naogopa sasa😂
Tell your son the truth period... don't Force a bond that isn't there..with all angles the man did nothing wrong by telling your son he isn't his dad..coz it's true..wewe ndio umefunga mtoto...stop oldage thinking that where you get married is where your kids belong...Tell your son the truth he is an adult now
😳wow woman go through Alot sorry mummy
Yes bt God remain to be God
Muriconorithagio gugikia.na gugituka.ngai ndari itheru
there is GOD in heaven
Pastor Muriuki wacoco from kahithe who is he in your life...heana ndeto cia ma
Pure Nersist 😢😢😢manupilating and gaslight...real hell on earth😢😢😢..i can relate your stori mum..am a victim of such marriage..
I'm sincerely sorry for what u went through Mum. But hii story of not telling your son who's the biological Dad is it's not fair. He has his own right to know
Every problem has it's miracle and the bigger the problem the miracle the more the problems the more the miracles will be.
Interesting Perspective... Weaaauh
Mwambie ukweli . The truth will set you free
God have mercy on pastor's wives. They go through a lot.
Hizi ndio zile vitu nasemanga nizakujitakia. Kwani wewe haunjipendi? 3/4 of your life ni fake. Tena umeanza kuingiza maisha ya watoto kwa huo ufake pia...
Mtu anapata mtu hana pesa na ushago kwa akina husbae na kuna maskiniunaacha kazi uemde ukaishi ushago.this one is lying
@@wanjirujanew imagine.😳. Ati bwana yake akapata pesa mingi from no where..
@@estherwamuyu263 pia mm hapa nimeshindwa sana alipata pesa ajy kwani siku hizo pesa zilikua zinaokotwa chini
Aki the way I love to listen to that pastor wakiwa na jj
Kwani ni mgani?
Jj ni lazima waendane na , Kush already nisha guess ni nani🙄🙄
Tuhei cai
Si mwingine ila Shadrach kahonoki... enda kwa you tube ya baruthi wa thayu utamuona
Pole sana madam, but is good to tell your son the truth
With all due respect you cannot force a child to be loyal to someone who's hurting him. Allow him to make a choice.
Why should u hid father 2 ua child.
She is so focused of win this man back and nothing else that makes sense to her. She is still struggling to let go.
But I have heard the pastor say the boy is married with a kid...kid named after him..and uts him and the current wife that went ruracio for that boy...
@@wambuilucy8100 not him and current wife, they went with this Maggy
The greatest mistake you are doing is to hide your son the real identity by not introducing to him his biological father.That will heal him psychologically.It is not about who does who but blood.That boy has two dads and that is the fact.Finish the pain by showing him.The father who brought him up did good but he also made him know that he doesn't take that boy as his own.You must gain courage and face that reality.
Mum.. ulindanganya kanisani na umeishi maisha ya uongo ukifalia jina la mungu...hadi unandanganya mtoto ukijua ulimpata kabla ya kupatana na huyu mwanaume?.watu uolewa na watoto mbora ukweli usemwe...fake life full of lies..why???..sasa unalia nini na wewe ndio unafake life?
i completely agree with you.kanisa ilikuwa bizna ndo maana hangesema anachapwa na kuletewa wamama kwa ndoa ndo wasipoteze washirika na sadaka! alafu afadhali mtoto wake ateswe na huyo mans kuliko kumwambia ukweli ulivyo! smh! she should completely forget about that bagga!😡
@@jacqlinewanj1138 imagine analetewa wanawake kwa nyumba halafu asubui wanaenda kanisani huyo pepo anaita bwana anajifanya anamsalimia mke wake congregation ikisikia anasema AMEN..utapeli wa maisha kanisani...shida kubwa wote nimesikia wakilalamikia kuolewa na kutezwa na pastors..wanaficha ni akina nani na makanisa yao pia wanaficha..kwanini kuwasema ikiwa hawana huruma na washirika??siwakae kimia biashara iendelee,
Pole sana mom
From Sammy k and can tell that man is toxic Sammy k can also attest to this he was even unable to ask him questions... narcissist husbands kills you from inside they are dangerous but mum you need to seat your son down and tell him the whole truth
I listened to the show, desperation of the mother seems much🙆♂️
She has to let go cz she is still in denial of her marriage loss
@@alicegichuki2949 sure
She is missing his husband bt too Late, accept and move on Maggie
I gree with you🤣
Now that her ex husband responded what is the truth?
Waiting
I wish women may understand the need to tell children their true father.
There's no way I can side with this lady because blood is thicker than water.
Let him know his biological father .. period.
Please please Margy kama jinsi Mungu amukuwezesha kunena hayo yote na jinsi yayalivyo yauchungu mwingi,itakubidi pia vivyo hivyo umejitoa kwa camera unjitoe hata kwa your first born wewe mwenyewe hata kama haupendi mwenye amekuzalisha couz for sure the son ananjua kufake joy vile wewe uliishi kuifake nahuwa inamuuma sana especially akikubuka nimama yake anamficha menyerera ndakanakinya hakwiyuria hihi nawe ugoka kumwira nduri nyina mwathianga uria erirwo nimuthurigwo we tithe???please nakusihi wambui tafuta the son ad the mother again interview iwe nimama kwambia the son the biological dad...
Sad...sad...painful...painful.......am 31years i came to realize the my dad is not my biological dad at 19 after highskul....never ever has e ever shown a sign to me ati si yy my real dad .....i rem my tried asking mom but aliniambia niache ujinga na hataki maswali...there was a reason i was asking her...not that my dad hunionyesha chuki but kuna time mtu huskia want to kmow the truth....right now wamekosana ama i came to ushago ndio nikae na my son since my mom walikuwa wanaishi na yy......my dad is the best.......but he is alwys pressured na his family esp kama wamekosana na mom....but i know he loves me so so very much and i treasure him with all my heart......but to my opinion let always be open to our kids....we don't demand to know who our blood dads are for anything but just to know..let society nt break the news to us let our mom tell us.
Don't worry mum their is God in heaven he will fight for you.