Mum mahali umekosea nikukosa kuwmbia mtoto wako ukweli mimi mama yangu aliolewa na mimi nakaniambia ukweli lakini Baba yangu mwenye ameowa mama yangu sijawai ona Baba mwingine Mzuri kama yeye hajawai nionyesha madharau ,hajawai niambia mimi siwake na mimi sikuwa nashika masomo vizuri nanimesoma mpaka collage huyo ata akikula pesa yangu hainiumangi namuombeangatu Mungu amuwekwe nwaka mingi 🙏🙏🙏
Waoh.i have listenedto his defence...men wil always be men....never on the wrong....i have experience with a narcissist..take heart maggie n be there for your son always.... Pastor kahonoki....God reigns
Waaa just listened to the X he sounds so innocent... I think in churches issues concerning women should be dealt with by fellow women and pastors wyf while men's issues should be handled by men.. Otherwise the DEVIL IS A LIAR
All these sad stories. Start with a red flag that was ignored in early stages of marriage. When you see an animal in early stages don't expect it to change later. It will eat you.
This toxic marriages are not worthy it ,first slap and last one, just walk out ,no point of even calling parents to talk ,just leave the marriage and start a fresh. Girl child empowerment is needed
After watching your ex husband story you both are good people.... Ni vile yeye ashamove on with life....but you still need him back... please mama find a life except that he's not interested in you anymore....
Some comments here woiye...its only u people have no experience with a narcissist...they are very good people outside ...lakini kwa nyumba...real devils I stand with maggie
why can't let ur son know his biological father? why it pains to tell the truth? i married with my children and they were free to visite their Dad,and up to now they r okey with their Dad,and thier biological families!! ur Son will hate u,i know a while boy who want to take his life, because the mother didn't tell him about his father,coz father was from Africa! to tell him the truth doest mean he will not respect ur ex as carying father!
Maggie my dear sister I listened to both your story and your ex-husband as well,all what I came into conclusion is that whatever you have told us is very clear your ex-husband did it to you,and your story is total truth,it's only that your ex know how to paint himself so well to shine like gold and people will not understand easily how cruel he was to you,your children are witnesses of the physical abuse you went through,may God comfort your heart to heal fast
That is how narcissists are, very charming n they know how to make their victims look bad/crazy. He is done with her n there is nothing she can do, he has another supply.
I support you, mbona wambui kama wa nakuja kupeana story wataje adi majina aii😞😞hi Channel natoka coze ata analete wengine wajifunika mablanketi kwa vichwa☹️☹️
You can never force breaking the persons confidentiality, that's the very first thing to be protected and breaking confidentiality is very unethical and that's jeopardizing the persons security, you just have to understand we are not here to judge.
@@juliemwangi4187 Haki from my heart I will tell my Baby the Truth about his biological father atleast the Baby will heal , please tell your son the Truth and it will set him free and appreciate the father who raised him🙏🙏
Now you're talking by NOT mentioning and exposing this perpetrator it will continue with its wickedness....this lady appear to support what he was doing and what is doing simply by saying wouldn't want to spoil his so called work....or even referring someone to it....am so sick with such churches operating in our country...they need to be burnt to ashes because they're being led by evil persos
Pole kwa yenye umepitia Namsy Maggie kwa Ndoa yako not easy but its good u step out b4 kue kumbaya i salute 4 that ,2rd with humbleness 🙏🙏🙏comments as a parent its good you tell you 1st born who is biological dad coz hata ukisema amekubali Baba mlezi ndiye daddy bado yy ako na maswali mengi its only he respect you na pia umesema sister in low wako washamwambia biological daddy open your heart to heal life of your son remember he is a daddy to somebody n husband to someone somewhere feel loved n may God open the doors of your blessings Namsy maggie
For the past 38 yrs i dont know who my dad is was brought up by a single mother she tried her level best to educate us and we are blessed. Sometimes ifeel like asking my mum but when i look what is happening in pples affair. I keep her peace. Dont wanna stress her. But sheria iwekwe kila mtu ni haki yake kumjua baba.
I understand this woman. It's a shoe am wearing. I got married with a kid and soon after settling down with him he started mistreating me and my kid. I decided to quit that marriage. As for his biological dad, it's very painful to show a child his biological dad when he is not present in his life and to make the matters worse he refused to pay his school fees or any child support. It's very painful to struggle alone only to introduce a grown up to a man who refused to take responsibility. My case though.....
Wambui.....up your game....teach women NO MAN SHOULD TOUCH THEM., period.... please...KIHIKO IS NONSENSE RIGHT NOW.... We are living in the last days 🙆
Maggy thankx kupee Huyo mwanaume heshima nakumutabua but pliz unafaa uambie huyu mtoi the truth Aache stress bora umwonyeshe mlezi ni wamaana kuliko mzalishaji
You have gone through a lot, may peace of God be with you. But remember the truth will set you free. Stop stressing yourself. Ambia mtoto babake ni nani.
@@jackbella1966 aki naskia sorry sana kwa wenye comment ati mtoi abiwe baba yake ?kijana 25 yrs na ako na bibi na mtoto sikilisa Apostle akiongea my friend
I feel this lady. Sad that you had to go through pain in the name of love. Having listened to the husband on another channel. I believe her! Narcissist take advantage of someone and appear very innocent tot he society
I think it’s only right for the mum to tell her son who his biological dad is . He is grown and he needs to know the truth . You can force him to call a man who has already rejected him his father . It’s only continues to hurt him . He deserves to know the truth and trace his path .
Me too I wonder how u can force your kid to someone who don't care,I think this son have been living in hell in that family,this stupidity of thinking man is God and u can't survive without him is wrong before God,I think it's because of other kids that y ,hata Hawa mabibi za pastor let them stop entertaining evil Dio church isiishe,I think God is not happy with their pretending
I support kids are the one getting affected. The intention is to heal or expose the x,but the burden n shame goes to the boys.(kuruithio ni nyukwa).wambugu is now an Adult mum u could have consulted him b4 exposing this.im not judging but please let keep our kids out of the conflict internet dont 4get.your grandson will watch this
A strong woman you are Magie Magie. Last Borns are like that 75% of them. Our last born is no exception. Wambui keep on doing what you are doing. I hope by talking she's relaxed but the kid requires councelling haki.
Wacha nikuambie mum watu ka hao hua hawaachi vita na hua wanachunga mtu ka mbuzi na akikuchapa uende atakutafta akikupigia magoti akilia but ukitudi kwake life ni ile ile na matusi mbaya....and they are so jealous....
am sorry for all what you have gone through but its good for that boy to know who the biologica father is,your ex husband will keep hurting this boy for no reason pls tell him who the father is, he need the truth and his soul will be healed,no matter how painful it is .imagine you are hurting this boy dont force him where his blood is not ,blood is thicker than water
Cokaanwoooiiii iyo niyo dawa...both of you are missing one another,.,.if there is opportunity in both of you just give in....you feel still friends only both of you dont know how to deal with what you are feeling....
By forcing your son to a Foster father who wants nothing to do with him, you are doing more harm than good to him. Let him be, that won't make him less of a man. Many other men out there are sons of single mothers and they are doing great in life. He can be one of them because God knew him before He was even born and He has good plans for him
That term single mother will never have weight can you conceive alone tuache kudanganyana hata single father hakuna na silazima ujue nani alikuzalisha Ina maana gani unatupa wako unalea mwingine na maisha inaendelea
I listened to both sides of the story,but very hard to know who is talking the truth,we should hear from the son,maybe it will be easy to get the truth,,,but all in all may God heal your hearts
I was in the same situation but you have to tell your son the truth,it's the only way to heal for both you and your son.There is God in heaven who fight's such battles
Ooh pole kwa yote wamama wanakufa na dipression juu ya ndoa it's really very sad stay real dnt fake life pple will always talk kwahiuha kiura ruga but let ur son know his dad no matter what he ill always remain dad better to stay single that to abusive marriage am victim 14 yrs now moving forward mpaka huwa naogopa kuwa kwa relationships ama kuolewa thayu ni kindu gia fata muturireiini.
Your son has a right to know his biological father. Times have changed. If you love him you'll stop hurting him. He's hurting coz of rejection from the other man. He needs the truth!
Waaaah abusive in marriage is like another exile.... Pastor Shadrack Kahonoki na vile i follows you kwa baruthi wa thayu.... Hope to hear ur side of story u jitetee nawe Mm husema ukiona huwezani na mtoto wa wenyewe heri u mwambie contract ya ndoa imeisha kuliko kuhangaisha binadamu mwenzako Huyu pastor kumwangalia vizuri anakaa mang'aa
Why can't we hear the other side and u didn't say u left your smallest daughter akiwa 2 years and u stayed 12 years without seeing your kids natena bwana angekaa bila bibi mwingine na ulienda?let ur hubby come too na ujue huyo hubby ndio amekua na huyo joel tangu uende.
@@shikungugichannel5651 single mothers tuko wengi tuliamua kutoka na watoto wetu. I just can't imagine how a woman leaves her children behind na uchungu wa mwana aujuaye ni mama mzazi. Afadhali nizumbuke na watoto wangu.
@@wanjikumwangiproudoma7557 we are different, me nikajua baba ya mtoto hatawaacha walale njaa na mimi kupata hiyo food ni shida, nawaacha nilale njaa peke yangu na wao washibe,,, but kama pia yeye kupata food ni noma me nawabeba tusumbukie mbele...
But she said aliacha watoto wake wakiwa wadogo.Kuliko auliwe hapo si heri awaache coz wao hawachapwi.Kila mtu na life yake Ala! Mbona abebe watoto hataweza kulea na baba anaweza? He is an equal parent sio kila saa wamama kusumbuka na watoto
Maggy,pole sana but let me tel, u it wasn't a matter your son to take ID with his name,huyo n Baba wamalezi,show him biological father just to know him,my self last year November I took my daughter to his bio father,hom where we meet,na grandmother na grandfather na son,it was amazing,na kuna ule father alimlea,akaeducate,n I respect him
Hizi ndio zile vitu nasemanga nizakujitakia. Kwani wewe haunjipendi? 3/4 of your life ni fake. Tena umeanza kuingiza maisha ya watoto kwa huo ufake pia...
Stop hurting your son by forcing him to be associated with people who have openly rejected him let him know the truth he is a grown up now to understand
That's right a mother forcing her son to accept this horrible awful mean monster as his father yet he openly rejected him...she shouldn't force her pain onto her son and needs to come clean and tell him rather than other people out there. The truth hurts and if you want to heal and have peace with yourself then tell your son nothing but the whole truth period....it's not about you or your feelings anymore. Stop being selfish 😒
Stop running away from reality and Truth the fact that ur son is rejected and unwanted in that family is obviously tell him the truth and let him keep of koz the will keep frustrating him bkoz ur acting desperate for them keep of that family but let him know he must respect them
Things people go through in marriage 😭 just so sad and unfortunately the acting people do out here is terrible....just let your boy know who the father is mama. Not that you don't respect that man who brought him up but its only fair since he also admitted to him that he is not his son. If he dint do that then it would be ungrateful to do so. Don't stress that boy for nothing. As for you pastor husband,God's sees ,God knows...
Never fake ua life Ndungituura utuuro wene Good to accept the situation,ur a winner I passed thru with a narcissist U have to do always the right,let him face the parents of both sides together.
Mama this is the 21st century, show your son his biological dad, after all the stepdad doesn't want him...pls free him otherwise he will search forever! Don't ask your children to be loyal to people who reject them!! It's okay to walk away from chaos!!
She want her son to tolerate bull sh*t like she did. This will only result him into having low self esteem. He saw this man abuse his mum all this time and she wants to continue forcing his son to him. No wonder he refused to take him to be circumcised. Personally, I don't believe in hiding kids the truth about their biological father.
@@phyllism2479 you are very right. I had not thought it this way. Could be that's why he refused to bear the responcibility of seeing him through the rights of passage.
@@peninarkamau6993 At this point the stepfather is thinking about inheritance and that's why he is pushing him away so he gets nothing from him!! Why keep going back even to act as the superhero in his family??? She should stay away!! She should save n buy a property that her first son can inherit because I can fore see the stepdad humiliating him further when it comes to inheritance!!! honestly wisdom...
Mumeonaje? I think there are 3 sets of truths...his, hers and the actual truth. But the man has not really denied any of the allegations..though bado sijamaliza kuwatch yote. But I know that women can use excess emotion to make a point, and very eloquent men can use a lot of words to confuse, charm and evade questions, and end up saying nothing..or very little.
Me too and am now schoked with this story What was the main purpose of this lady giving her story ????? The kids are now older ,is it worth it ,sharing your the past without a purpose
I have suffered being raised by a father who never loved me,every time I asked my mum about it she could got very angry ,I got a lot of peace when I knew my biological father though I didn't got a chance to meet him. I would advise you to tell your son the truth, He has the right to know the truth. Kindly let your son know the truth despite how painful it is,bcz sooner or later he will learn it through other way.
She is still in a lot of pain. She needs to end unnecessary contact with him..it should strictly about the kids. Hii mambo ingine aache kufanyia huyu mubaba, cos he obviously neither loves, respects nor appreciates her effort. Aachane naye kabisa..ignore him, lead your life. And get new friends, please!
Better to tell him ukweli, I left my marriage just like you ad my story ad yours are very familiar, don't mind, my children's were litlle ad I came to tell my son the truth unfortunate his father passed away
I will save my comment until part 2 is done..And to those commenting about wambu my gal condition bla bla bla you should know with her condition body changes and most saying this are women😏
Sorry about the abuse you went through in the hands of your narcissistic ex. Your son is a grown up. Face him. Tell him the truth. His biological father did not reject him. You are the one who fled. It's even more painful to learn the truth from social media with everyone else.
Maggie its a important for everybody to know their biological parents if they are known by the people they live with or by their other parent. Unakosea yourself and your son by not telling him the fact since now he is a grown up. Hata wewe unajua your biological dad na yeye pia ajue and he can do what he wants with that knowledge but of course you should advice him as a mum.Just think of a situation like having sexual relationship with his half sister or first cousin?
I'm sure by now the son has seen this story & its very sad this is the way he'll get to learn who he calls dad is not his bio dad. You should have told him first before coming here to tell the world!
Mum.. ulindanganya kanisani na umeishi maisha ya uongo ukifalia jina la mungu...hadi unandanganya mtoto ukijua ulimpata kabla ya kupatana na huyu mwanaume?.watu uolewa na watoto mbora ukweli usemwe...fake life full of lies..why???..sasa unalia nini na wewe ndio unafake life?
i completely agree with you.kanisa ilikuwa bizna ndo maana hangesema anachapwa na kuletewa wamama kwa ndoa ndo wasipoteze washirika na sadaka! alafu afadhali mtoto wake ateswe na huyo mans kuliko kumwambia ukweli ulivyo! smh! she should completely forget about that bagga!😡
@@jacqlinewanj1138 imagine analetewa wanawake kwa nyumba halafu asubui wanaenda kanisani huyo pepo anaita bwana anajifanya anamsalimia mke wake congregation ikisikia anasema AMEN..utapeli wa maisha kanisani...shida kubwa wote nimesikia wakilalamikia kuolewa na kutezwa na pastors..wanaficha ni akina nani na makanisa yao pia wanaficha..kwanini kuwasema ikiwa hawana huruma na washirika??siwakae kimia biashara iendelee,
Wacheni kusifu shetani sana.everything is not the devil.when we say everything is the devil,we praise him too much.the devil canot be everywhere at the same time.wacheni tuondoe shetani midomoni mwetu sana.my opinion.
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Mum mahali umekosea nikukosa kuwmbia mtoto wako ukweli mimi mama yangu aliolewa na mimi nakaniambia ukweli lakini Baba yangu mwenye ameowa mama yangu sijawai ona Baba mwingine Mzuri kama yeye hajawai nionyesha madharau ,hajawai niambia mimi siwake na mimi sikuwa nashika masomo vizuri nanimesoma mpaka collage huyo ata akikula pesa yangu hainiumangi namuombeangatu Mungu amuwekwe nwaka mingi 🙏🙏🙏
Nice
Pole sana mum lakini ambia mtoi the truth
So happy for you, your father is a good man. He deserves a lot of blessings.
@@betty541 true
Waoh.i have listenedto his defence...men wil always be men....never on the wrong....i have experience with a narcissist..take heart maggie n be there for your son always....
Pastor kahonoki....God reigns
Many are called but few are choosen. Many pastors wife go through alot but can't talk. It's good you talked and let your heart be free.
This is very sad, we should preach in Jerusalem first.
Many pastor wives are normally in trouble,
Waaa just listened to the X he sounds so innocent... I think in churches issues concerning women should be dealt with by fellow women and pastors wyf while men's issues should be handled by men.. Otherwise the DEVIL IS A LIAR
True
He is,,this should move on now
But since 10 yes ago....is it not wise to move on...the kids as per dad are doing well..story na inlaw who is dead n forgotten is irrelevant..
All these sad stories. Start with a red flag that was ignored in early stages of marriage. When you see an animal in early stages don't expect it to change later. It will eat you.
I concur with you.
@@Valery516-x2 you concer but just do a research,. The big number will not chage
@@dmm3770 I get it I was painfully there a few years ago. I thank God for my inner peace.
Well saeid
Thanks mama for mentioning the word INDUSTRY more than 3 times, yes it is. It’s No longer ministry to most Kenyan its gospel INDUSTRY
Pole Sana Mum for what you have bn through.......Sending you lots of love,peace and Blessings.❤💞You are strong.
It’s right for the child to know his biological father no matter what …..please you would be surprised it’s mental torture for the young man
If only that man is a responsible person to his kid,if not to me.
She never told the real father about the pregnancy. Don't judge him...
Right you say🤔 me i can't let my Dota meet with her so called "Dad"
This toxic marriages are not worthy it ,first slap and last one, just walk out ,no point of even calling parents to talk ,just leave the marriage and start a fresh.
Girl child empowerment is needed
After watching your ex husband story you both are good people.... Ni vile yeye ashamove on with life....but you still need him back... please mama find a life except that he's not interested in you anymore....
bt uyo kahonoki anakaa pretender coz akusema kama amewai mchapa
Very true,,let her move on
Asonge mbele alet it go pia si aolewe l have heard both the man moved on so take your time usonge pole pole
@@blessedmajojojo387 sure
Move on mama..that's your problem.
Some comments here woiye...its only u people have no experience with a narcissist...they are very good people outside ...lakini kwa nyumba...real devils
I stand with maggie
I can relate😢it..
Maggie is suffering from love, he wanted the man back
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It's seems regretted, the man didn't look back🏃
10 years are many Maggie,move on and accept your ex has moved on..... whatever happened happened
why can't let ur son know his biological father? why it pains to tell the truth? i married with my children and they were free to visite their Dad,and up to now they r okey with their Dad,and thier biological families!! ur Son will hate u,i know a while boy who want to take his life, because the mother didn't tell him about his father,coz father was from Africa! to tell him the truth doest mean he will not respect ur ex as carying father!
Kwanini unaongea ukweri 😀😀😀😀😀
Hahaaa wah from symo to here wooi maggie...urenda atia riu tondu warira ugwo mwana witu...ndugie hinya na uthie nambere na maisha
Maggie my dear sister I listened to both your story and your ex-husband as well,all what I came into conclusion is that whatever you have told us is very clear your ex-husband did it to you,and your story is total truth,it's only that your ex know how to paint himself so well to shine like gold and people will not understand easily how cruel he was to you,your children are witnesses of the physical abuse you went through,may God comfort your heart to heal fast
You are wrong, you can't judge here , only God knows the truth
That is how narcissists are, very charming n they know how to make their victims look bad/crazy. He is done with her n there is nothing she can do, he has another supply.
Kindly share the link to the husbands story
@@annnyamburamajesty. go to symo k channel you will find him
But i think by 10years one should have healed the pain the fact is she still loves the pastor
Nimekuja after kuona Apostle kahonoki replying to this lady Maggie in Symo K channel,
Me too
I think it's always good to mention the culprit coz this man,if the story is true, should not be preaching anywhere
I support you, mbona wambui kama wa nakuja kupeana story wataje adi majina aii😞😞hi Channel natoka coze ata analete wengine wajifunika mablanketi kwa vichwa☹️☹️
You can never force breaking the persons confidentiality, that's the very first thing to be protected and breaking confidentiality is very unethical and that's jeopardizing the persons security, you just have to understand we are not here to judge.
@@juliemwangi4187 Haki from my heart I will tell my Baby the Truth about his biological father atleast the Baby will heal , please tell your son the Truth and it will set him free and appreciate the father who raised him🙏🙏
Now you're talking by NOT mentioning and exposing this perpetrator it will continue with its wickedness....this lady appear to support what he was doing and what is doing simply by saying wouldn't want to spoil his so called work....or even referring someone to it....am so sick with such churches operating in our country...they need to be burnt to ashes because they're being led by evil persos
Margaret Njeri is that necessary. It's up to the interviewees to make a choice of disclosure.
Maggy wacha uongo
Uliacha hao watoto ushago na baba yao ukakuja nairobi kukula hepi na marafiki huko bluesprings
Pastor shadrack kahonoki.... !!Jesus Christ😭😭!! Woi Ngai honokia mutumia uyu kumana na hio mbwa mwitu.
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Pole kwa yenye umepitia Namsy Maggie kwa Ndoa yako not easy but its good u step out b4 kue kumbaya i salute 4 that ,2rd with humbleness 🙏🙏🙏comments as a parent its good you tell you 1st born who is biological dad coz hata ukisema amekubali Baba mlezi ndiye daddy bado yy ako na maswali mengi its only he respect you na pia umesema sister in low wako washamwambia biological daddy open your heart to heal life of your son remember he is a daddy to somebody n husband to someone somewhere feel loved n may God open the doors of your blessings Namsy maggie
For the past 38 yrs i dont know who my dad is was brought up by a single mother she tried her level best to educate us and we are blessed. Sometimes ifeel like asking my mum but when i look what is happening in pples affair. I keep her peace. Dont wanna stress her. But sheria iwekwe kila mtu ni haki yake kumjua baba.
I understand this woman. It's a shoe am wearing. I got married with a kid and soon after settling down with him he started mistreating me and my kid. I decided to quit that marriage. As for his biological dad, it's very painful to show a child his biological dad when he is not present in his life and to make the matters worse he refused to pay his school fees or any child support. It's very painful to struggle alone only to introduce a grown up to a man who refused to take responsibility. My case though.....
Swty gal are you ok wambo today you look different drink alot of 💧 and rest when you can. Something is not right 🤔
pregnancy...
See huoni amebeba mzigo.mmmm
haiyaiii kahonoki wooooiii wathi uri hagirwo thii nongimuona ......ira mwana uhoro wama
I have listened both sides and I can tell you if you are wise enough you will be able to know who is lying and who is speaking the truth.
Wambui.....up your game....teach women NO MAN SHOULD TOUCH THEM., period.... please...KIHIKO IS NONSENSE RIGHT NOW....
We are living in the last days 🙆
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wait for part two kesho
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Last days of what mama?
Maggy thankx kupee Huyo mwanaume heshima nakumutabua but pliz unafaa uambie huyu mtoi the truth Aache stress bora umwonyeshe mlezi ni wamaana kuliko mzalishaji
You have gone through a lot, may peace of God be with you.
But remember the truth will set you free. Stop stressing yourself. Ambia mtoto babake ni nani.
Pastor Muriuki wacoco from kahithe who is he in your life...heana ndeto cia ma
The truth will always prevail ,tell your son the whole story on behalf of his better tomorrow
Agree denial is very bad. She needs to stop being in denial and tell her son the truth. Maybe his real father would be happy to know him
YaaaP ambia mtoi babake....I wish my biological father lives akii😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Listen to the ex story and judge...the son in question has a family and in good terms with the step dad upto now...
Something is not adding up
@@jackbella1966 aki naskia sorry sana kwa wenye comment ati mtoi abiwe baba yake ?kijana 25 yrs na ako na bibi na mtoto sikilisa Apostle akiongea my friend
I feel this lady. Sad that you had to go through pain in the name of love. Having listened to the husband on another channel. I believe her! Narcissist take advantage of someone and appear very innocent tot he society
I think it’s only right for the mum to tell her son who his biological dad is . He is grown and he needs to know the truth . You can force him to call a man who has already rejected him his father . It’s only continues to hurt him . He deserves to know the truth and trace his path .
Well done 👏 I totally agree with you and perhaps his dad was a decent man not like that idiot horrible mean wife beater
Sure.. Ata kaa anakaa je.. He is his father. Blood is thicker than water.
I agree with yu 100%
Pliz Maggie jaribu kumwabia tu Mimi Niko na 51years nahuwa natamani ninjue Baba yangu atakama alikufa nione tu kaburi ni vyema kwambia mtoto ukweli
I second you she has to tel his son
Wooooi, pole mamy, but it seems you stilll love your ex, may God give you both a way you can be together again, our God is Able
I feel like this woman is withholding a lot it's like she is still protecting the ex husband.
Exactly coz pengine anasaidianga watoto..icant entertain such...mundurume stupid
Me too I wonder how u can force your kid to someone who don't care,I think this son have been living in hell in that family,this stupidity of thinking man is God and u can't survive without him is wrong before God,I think it's because of other kids that y ,hata Hawa mabibi za pastor let them stop entertaining evil Dio church isiishe,I think God is not happy with their pretending
Me I can't tolerate no sense mtoi wangu naeza mwambie Siri zote za guardian father n even biological father the he choose whom 2 love
Kabisa
Nii igihoya andu manahikania matige kwanikana mitamboini tondu muthuri ucio niwe ithe wa ciana ciaku
I support kids are the one getting affected. The intention is to heal or expose the x,but the burden n shame goes to the boys.(kuruithio ni nyukwa).wambugu is now an Adult mum u could have consulted him b4 exposing this.im not judging but please let keep our kids out of the conflict internet dont 4get.your grandson will watch this
A strong woman you are Magie Magie. Last Borns are like that 75% of them. Our last born is no exception. Wambui keep on doing what you are doing. I hope by talking she's relaxed but the kid requires councelling haki.
It's very very important you tell him the truth..and that will enhance a closure and your son will be okey
Wacha nikuambie mum watu ka hao hua hawaachi vita na hua wanachunga mtu ka mbuzi na akikuchapa uende atakutafta akikupigia magoti akilia but ukitudi kwake life ni ile ile na matusi mbaya....and they are so jealous....
am sorry for all what you have gone through but its good for that boy to know who the biologica father is,your ex husband will keep hurting this boy for no reason pls tell him who the father is, he need the truth and his soul will be healed,no matter how painful it is .imagine you are hurting this boy dont force him where his blood is not ,blood is thicker than water
weee Maggie you're good liar hauwezi anguza pastor .He is a good man.mwanamke mgani anawachia mwanaume watoto.
A kid is over 18 you have to tell him the truth don't think he's foolish. This father has denied him let him know what happened to set his mind free
Cokaanwoooiiii iyo niyo dawa...both of you are missing one another,.,.if there is opportunity in both of you just give in....you feel still friends only both of you dont know how to deal with what you are feeling....
Wa Captain changamka kiasi hata kama stori ina kukera pliz.
I hope sababu sio sis ya Jabali..🙈
Paranisho ya kikuyu ifanyike lyk the other sio warudiane bt ikiwezakana warudiane
By forcing your son to a Foster father who wants nothing to do with him, you are doing more harm than good to him. Let him be, that won't make him less of a man. Many other men out there are sons of single mothers and they are doing great in life. He can be one of them because God knew him before He was even born and He has good plans for him
That term single mother will never have weight can you conceive alone tuache kudanganyana hata single father hakuna na silazima ujue nani alikuzalisha Ina maana gani unatupa wako unalea mwingine na maisha inaendelea
I listened to both sides of the story,but very hard to know who is talking the truth,we should hear from the son,maybe it will be easy to get the truth,,,but all in all may God heal your hearts
I was in the same situation but you have to tell your son the truth,it's the only way to heal for both you and your son.There is God in heaven who fight's such battles
There is no harm letting the boy know his biological father. Baba mlezi pia aheshimiwe.
Ooh pole kwa yote wamama wanakufa na dipression juu ya ndoa it's really very sad stay real dnt fake life pple will always talk kwahiuha kiura ruga but let ur son know his dad no matter what he ill always remain dad better to stay single that to abusive marriage am victim 14 yrs now moving forward mpaka huwa naogopa kuwa kwa relationships ama kuolewa thayu ni kindu gia fata muturireiini.
Your son has a right to know his biological father. Times have changed. If you love him you'll stop hurting him. He's hurting coz of rejection from the other man. He needs the truth!
Waaaah abusive in marriage is like another exile.... Pastor Shadrack Kahonoki na vile i follows you kwa baruthi wa thayu....
Hope to hear ur side of story u jitetee nawe
Mm husema ukiona huwezani na mtoto wa wenyewe heri u mwambie contract ya ndoa imeisha kuliko kuhangaisha binadamu mwenzako
Huyu pastor kumwangalia vizuri anakaa mang'aa
Ngaii 😳
Why can't we hear the other side and u didn't say u left your smallest daughter akiwa 2 years and u stayed 12 years without seeing your kids natena bwana angekaa bila bibi mwingine na ulienda?let ur hubby come too na ujue huyo hubby ndio amekua na huyo joel tangu uende.
May be alitoroka juu ya mateso na instead aende akateseke na watoto akaona awaache na baba yao...m
@@shikungugichannel5651 single mothers tuko wengi tuliamua kutoka na watoto wetu. I just can't imagine how a woman leaves her children behind na uchungu wa mwana aujuaye ni mama mzazi. Afadhali nizumbuke na watoto wangu.
@@wanjikumwangiproudoma7557 we are different, me nikajua baba ya mtoto hatawaacha walale njaa na mimi kupata hiyo food ni shida, nawaacha nilale njaa peke yangu na wao washibe,,, but kama pia yeye kupata food ni noma me nawabeba tusumbukie mbele...
@@shikungugichannel5651 hiyo pia si mbaya kwa wenye wanaweza, but mimi siwezi seriously
But she said aliacha watoto wake wakiwa wadogo.Kuliko auliwe hapo si heri awaache coz wao hawachapwi.Kila mtu na life yake Ala! Mbona abebe watoto hataweza kulea na baba anaweza? He is an equal parent sio kila saa wamama kusumbuka na watoto
ai Mm mtoto wangu amechukua ID na my name.. mtu haezi ni fanyia matharau.. alafu niko hapo kujifos... songa mbele na maisha
Yaaaniii...... Kufinika MTU na si ndugu Yako...
Aki mm niliomba baba watoto ID nichukue birth certificate akakataa...gues what nilichukua na jinangu na ni Ivo ai siezi force mtu mm
I know this mama we lived the same plot kumbe this this is the story behind waaaah...may the Lord be with you
Maggy,pole sana but let me tel, u it wasn't a matter your son to take ID with his name,huyo n Baba wamalezi,show him biological father just to know him,my self last year November I took my daughter to his bio father,hom where we meet,na grandmother na grandfather na son,it was amazing,na kuna ule father alimlea,akaeducate,n I respect him
And who is this famous pastor or priest who is her ex husband?
Aki, twambie huyu pastor ni mgani?
Weee atangaza anaitwa nani tujue Kwan Iko nn ..
I would wish wakue wakiwataja majina so mtu mwingine asiangukie hiyo mikono... Anyway pole mami..
Hizi ndio zile vitu nasemanga nizakujitakia. Kwani wewe haunjipendi? 3/4 of your life ni fake. Tena umeanza kuingiza maisha ya watoto kwa huo ufake pia...
Mtu anapata mtu hana pesa na ushago kwa akina husbae na kuna maskiniunaacha kazi uemde ukaishi ushago.this one is lying
@@wanjirujanew imagine.😳. Ati bwana yake akapata pesa mingi from no where..
@@estherwamuyu263 pia mm hapa nimeshindwa sana alipata pesa ajy kwani siku hizo pesa zilikua zinaokotwa chini
Let us learn to think be before we talk cz they do bring bad photos on the ground
Ngai aroririkana ciana cia kuhikwo nacio tondu itikoragwo itikoragwo ciithureire uguo😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I think this is pastor Sammy Kairu
I stand collected tibia zafanana
Stop hurting your son by forcing him to be associated with people who have openly rejected him let him know the truth he is a grown up now to understand
That's right a mother forcing her son to accept this horrible awful mean monster as his father yet he openly rejected him...she shouldn't force her pain onto her son and needs to come clean and tell him rather than other people out there. The truth hurts and if you want to heal and have peace with yourself then tell your son nothing but the whole truth period....it's not about you or your feelings anymore. Stop being selfish 😒
Wambui itabidi umecheza kama wewe. Tell her the truth she is running away from. Waiting...
Totally agree.
Stop running away from reality and Truth the fact that ur son is rejected and unwanted in that family is obviously tell him the truth and let him keep of koz the will keep frustrating him bkoz ur acting desperate for them keep of that family but let him know he must respect them
Ya mtoi is old enough to know the truth kwann anamficha ukweli is not good at all
Now that her ex husband responded what is the truth?
Things people go through in marriage 😭 just so sad and unfortunately the acting people do out here is terrible....just let your boy know who the father is mama. Not that you don't respect that man who brought him up but its only fair since he also admitted to him that he is not his son. If he dint do that then it would be ungrateful to do so. Don't stress that boy for nothing. As for you pastor husband,God's sees ,God knows...
Aaah Mimi hiyo haingenipea stress,nambia tuu mtoto wangu huyo c babayako, nothing big hapo
Let him know his dad is... How I love my son.... Can't let anyone hurt him... He should know the truth. At his age... Surely ladies.....
Pure Nersist 😢😢😢manupilating and gaslight...real hell on earth😢😢😢..i can relate your stori mum..am a victim of such marriage..
Kama ni mini ningemshw ukweli n make them mit with the biological dad kama ako.
What for?
Please,tell the boy the truth for him to heal,he is grown up boy now.
Aki the way I love to listen to that pastor wakiwa na jj
Kwani ni mgani?
Jj ni lazima waendane na , Kush already nisha guess ni nani🙄🙄
Tuhei cai
Si mwingine ila Shadrach kahonoki... enda kwa you tube ya baruthi wa thayu utamuona
Never fake ua life
Ndungituura utuuro wene
Good to accept the situation,ur a winner
I passed thru with a narcissist
U have to do always the right,let him face the parents of both sides together.
Mama this is the 21st century, show your son his biological dad, after all the stepdad doesn't want him...pls free him otherwise he will search forever! Don't ask your children to be loyal to people who reject them!! It's okay to walk away from chaos!!
She want her son to tolerate bull sh*t like she did. This will only result him into having low self esteem. He saw this man abuse his mum all this time and she wants to continue forcing his son to him. No wonder he refused to take him to be circumcised. Personally, I don't believe in hiding kids the truth about their biological father.
@@phyllism2479 you are very right. I had not thought it this way. Could be that's why he refused to bear the responcibility of seeing him through the rights of passage.
@@peninarkamau6993 At this point the stepfather is thinking about inheritance and that's why he is pushing him away so he gets nothing from him!! Why keep going back even to act as the superhero in his family??? She should stay away!! She should save n buy a property that her first son can inherit because I can fore see the stepdad humiliating him further when it comes to inheritance!!! honestly wisdom...
Nimestuka sana maggy kusikia pastor ndie amelea watoto wake maggy apologize
Had to revisit this story after seeing the right of reply from hubby
Me too
Mumeonaje? I think there are 3 sets of truths...his, hers and the actual truth. But the man has not really denied any of the allegations..though bado sijamaliza kuwatch yote. But I know that women can use excess emotion to make a point, and very eloquent men can use a lot of words to confuse, charm and evade questions, and end up saying nothing..or very little.
Me too and am now schoked with this story
What was the main purpose of this lady giving her story ?????
The kids are now older ,is it worth it ,sharing your the past without a purpose
@Official may b love n her sacrifice to build the home as c says. Has been eating her. Just saying
Depression is real
Huyo Maggy Maggy hata nikipewa bure siwezi taka hata kwa dakika. She is a liability to the ex-husband.
I have suffered being raised by a father who never loved me,every time I asked my mum about it she could got very angry ,I got a lot of peace when I knew my biological father though I didn't got a chance to meet him.
I would advise you to tell your son the truth, He has the right to know the truth.
Kindly let your son know the truth despite how painful it is,bcz sooner or later he will learn it through other way.
Wambui wa Mwangi again with a kinda uniqueness show ...Nice and kudos 👏 💓💗💖❤❤🧡💛💚💯🙏🙏🙏🙏
After listening to the other side of the story,,,move on and heal,,,,after 12 years ah ah ah,,women we need to style up ,,
inaitwa sour grapes.
She is still in a lot of pain. She needs to end unnecessary contact with him..it should strictly about the kids. Hii mambo ingine aache kufanyia huyu mubaba, cos he obviously neither loves, respects nor appreciates her effort. Aachane naye kabisa..ignore him, lead your life. And get new friends, please!
I listened to the show, desperation of the mother seems much🙆♂️
She has to let go cz she is still in denial of her marriage loss
@@alicegichuki2949 sure
Mimi hunichapi na tucheke kunginyitana orimwe,, aki mummy's let's stop hiding vitu zingine tutakufa na hii fake life pole Sana mum
This lady should have told the son the truth. At 18 years , He was grown and needed to know the truth
Sure...am a single mum and I know the pain the boy is going through
It's good to let him know 😌
@@estherithagu3602 Apostle kahonoki ametokelezea kwa symo k,atamjua tu
@@estherithagu3602 Apostle kahonoki ametokelezea kwa symo k,atamjua tu
Better to tell him ukweli, I left my marriage just like you ad my story ad yours are very familiar, don't mind, my children's were litlle ad I came to tell my son the truth unfortunate his father passed away
She is missing his husband bt too Late, accept and move on Maggie
I gree with you🤣
Mum ni vizuri umwabie ukweri please huyo hatakuwa babake ever
Wee aki tears of a mother..onlynGod knows...
I will save my comment until part 2 is done..And to those commenting about wambu my gal condition bla bla bla you should know with her condition body changes and most saying this are women😏
Sorry about the abuse you went through in the hands of your narcissistic ex. Your son is a grown up. Face him. Tell him the truth. His biological father did not reject him. You are the one who fled. It's even more painful to learn the truth from social media with everyone else.
Very true ,I support you
Very true
Nuu. Woigire no nginya atumia matuike ngombo CIA arume nduire mwana ithe
Maggie its a important for everybody to know their biological parents if they are known by the people they live with or by their other parent. Unakosea yourself and your son by not telling him the fact since now he is a grown up. Hata wewe unajua your biological dad na yeye pia ajue and he can do what he wants with that knowledge but of course you should advice him as a mum.Just think of a situation like having sexual relationship with his half sister or first cousin?
But I remember how Magy did alot when Kahonoki was sick corona
I'm sure by now the son has seen this story & its very sad this is the way he'll get to learn who he calls dad is not his bio dad. You should have told him first before coming here to tell the world!
Pastor kahonoki lazima ukam hapa tuskie from your side
wuuuui eti my friend pastor kahonoki
Mum.. ulindanganya kanisani na umeishi maisha ya uongo ukifalia jina la mungu...hadi unandanganya mtoto ukijua ulimpata kabla ya kupatana na huyu mwanaume?.watu uolewa na watoto mbora ukweli usemwe...fake life full of lies..why???..sasa unalia nini na wewe ndio unafake life?
i completely agree with you.kanisa ilikuwa bizna ndo maana hangesema anachapwa na kuletewa wamama kwa ndoa ndo wasipoteze washirika na sadaka! alafu afadhali mtoto wake ateswe na huyo mans kuliko kumwambia ukweli ulivyo! smh! she should completely forget about that bagga!😡
@@jacqlinewanj1138 imagine analetewa wanawake kwa nyumba halafu asubui wanaenda kanisani huyo pepo anaita bwana anajifanya anamsalimia mke wake congregation ikisikia anasema AMEN..utapeli wa maisha kanisani...shida kubwa wote nimesikia wakilalamikia kuolewa na kutezwa na pastors..wanaficha ni akina nani na makanisa yao pia wanaficha..kwanini kuwasema ikiwa hawana huruma na washirika??siwakae kimia biashara iendelee,
Very painful uuii hi story ni Kama yaku pole sana Maggie
It not worth to stay in abusive marriage it ends in divorce if you lack or death. Don't hide an abusive pattern.
Wacheni kusifu shetani sana.everything is not the devil.when we say everything is the devil,we praise him too much.the devil canot be everywhere at the same time.wacheni tuondoe shetani midomoni mwetu sana.my opinion.
Please tell your son the truth,,,, since he's a grown up,,,,
Wah,a very sad story,faking life is the worst thing ever,be real,if it's not not working,it's not working
Muriconorithagio gugikia.na gugituka.ngai ndari itheru
Listening to both ur stories ur husband wanted a woman to bear him children u still need each other.
sorry for all you went through maggie may the peace of God be with you please tell your son the truth for the sake of his peace and happiness
Wee urenda guchoka kwa muthuri ukariguo kuria ukurutia ugatwara ciana ikarue haiyaii
But Wakikuyu mnapenda kuficha watoto afadhali umwambie ajue
Maggy onyesha mtoto babake pia yy anahitanji upendo wa dadi