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  • @sunflowermyeyes9758
    @sunflowermyeyes9758 2 місяці тому +598

    This whole video is giving old married couple energies and I love it 😂

    • @florencemckinley794
      @florencemckinley794 2 місяці тому +13

      Me 2 lol

    • @jeiwaru
      @jeiwaru 2 місяці тому +16

      So entertaining!! 🤣

    • @MegF142857
      @MegF142857 2 місяці тому +4

      People keep saying that, but real old married couples don't relate that way or they wouldn't have made it to old married couple (imo).

    • @IvyPearsonUnderwater
      @IvyPearsonUnderwater 2 місяці тому +7

      I couldn't stop laughing. This is so lovely.

    • @pequadcob2009
      @pequadcob2009 2 місяці тому +28

      @@MegF142857 That's not true at all... Lots of old couples bicker because they know how far they can push the other other one with their banter. Typically to an outsider it seems rude or like one is being mean but within the couple, a lot of times they are so used to each other's sass that they can give it and take it.

  • @michaelaklaffenbock4079
    @michaelaklaffenbock4079 2 місяці тому +540

    Jesse, there is nothing wrong with you. You are an angel in human form and you make the world a better place by being just the way you are.

    • @kathleenchild
      @kathleenchild 2 місяці тому +27

      Actually, that statement is not really true. I love Jesse but just like everyone else he has personal struggles and he should get tested for ADHD and have tools to make his life better.

    • @SandraOrtmann1976
      @SandraOrtmann1976 2 місяці тому +21

      @@kathleenchild I fully agree with that. If Jesse has a chance to find out, he gets a chance to learn why things are how they are. He does not need to change in any way, but he may understand things better. Which might lead to an even better life for him. And if Matt accompanies him along the way, that may lead to an even deeper and richer relationship.

    • @florencemckinley794
      @florencemckinley794 2 місяці тому +1

      if he feels he would like to get tested he should.👍@@SandraOrtmann1976

    • @rachelmetcalfe2087
      @rachelmetcalfe2087 2 місяці тому +38

      There is nothing wrong with Jesse...
      Why does he have to have adhd, a label,, for being a sensitive, loving, caring human being, who is in touch with his true self. and says it like it is?
      Jesse is so refreshingingly real in this world of fakeness, still a young man finding his way, which by the way, is doing a brilliant job from where I'm sitting!
      So please, we could all learn alot from Jesse,
      Let's embrace his charm and wonderful character as he is without assuming he needs fixing, testing, or having a label put on him.
      (This is no way disrespectful to anyone who does have Adhd or similar,, I just feel Jesse doesn't fit into that category!)
      Keep being you Jesse, I think you are brilliant!!
      You too Matt! 😊

    • @kathleenchild
      @kathleenchild 2 місяці тому +8

      Just to make myself absolutely clear, I would NEVER say that someone with ADHD has something wrong with them. Taking steps to help himself understand things better isn’t going to change him and make him less Jesse.

  • @IrishHoneyBlossom
    @IrishHoneyBlossom 2 місяці тому +440

    Jesse is getting cheekier every episode. I love it! 😄

    • @JesseDrent
      @JesseDrent 2 місяці тому +35

      😂😂

    • @jeiwaru
      @jeiwaru 2 місяці тому +23

      His is Secretly Sassy and I love it!! 😆

    • @paulamckibben1317
      @paulamckibben1317 2 місяці тому +13

      Keep rocking the sass Jesse.. our boy is no little grey mouse!! ❤️ ❤️

  • @georgesf7857
    @georgesf7857 2 місяці тому +212

    Both of you need to remember that Jesse has to translate from his head to his mouth every time he speaks English. Watch Jesse in Dutch speaking videos, you will see the difference.

    • @donnapalmeri9573
      @donnapalmeri9573 2 місяці тому +5

      Very true,I noticed this right away when he speaks Dutch.😊

    • @catrionagarde4410
      @catrionagarde4410 2 місяці тому +6

      Welcome to speaking another language. 😅

    • @annjohnson8437
      @annjohnson8437 2 місяці тому +4

      Great observation! ❤

    • @terryslipp3148
      @terryslipp3148 2 місяці тому +6

      You can’t speak another language fluently if you have to translate your thoughts before speaking.

    • @sarahwales6276
      @sarahwales6276 Місяць тому +1

      I'm sure they know this 😂

  • @JesseDrent
    @JesseDrent 2 місяці тому +236

    Thank you guys again, cant wait for the next questions/topics😂

    • @EppyTheGram
      @EppyTheGram 2 місяці тому +6

      I wish I was allowed to get Instagram, you are the first person I’d follow! ❤

    • @LillyCrash
      @LillyCrash 2 місяці тому

      Question: Will we ever see a video of you riding Chase?

    • @homemadecookie7392
      @homemadecookie7392 2 місяці тому +1

      We love you tremendously ❣️❣️❣️❣️

    • @antonieklopper2388
      @antonieklopper2388 23 дні тому

      @@LillyCrash Jesse does ride Chase in the video that he and Matt goes out for a ride together

    • @laobejanegra926
      @laobejanegra926 День тому

      MUCH LOVE TO YOU JESSE! 💌 from Vegas

  • @klaudiacebula2298
    @klaudiacebula2298 2 місяці тому +165

    I just love how Jesse gets progressively more sassy as these go on 😂

  • @rmk6693
    @rmk6693 2 місяці тому +102

    No! Don’t do an intro song! Keep it this exact way! Same background just sit down & talk & answer questions. With horses & stables in the background. We love it!

  • @davidstanley7285
    @davidstanley7285 2 місяці тому +56

    Jesse, you are totally fine... just be you. The person we all love. So kind and compassionate with your animals!

    • @vvvvvvthfddrfc
      @vvvvvvthfddrfc 2 місяці тому +7

      Jesse has the ability to make people fall in love with his cuteness and kind nature. Combined with his angelic appearance, this makes for an incredible combo. I'm a relatively new subscriber and this guy immediately caught my attention))))

  • @clairetomkyns175
    @clairetomkyns175 2 місяці тому +174

    ADHD or not, Jesse we love you exactly as you are. Your personality is perfect for the job you do. People with ADHD are usually very intelligent and focus on many things at once and are able to go into a lot of detail. You are inspirational. Don't try to change!
    Matt, don't write cats off too quickly. I was always a dog person until a stray cat moved in with me. I am deaf and I don't hear my alarm clock in the morning, but my 🐈‍⬛ does and then he wakes me up.
    He is very loyal and sensitive and has been an excellent companion.

    • @choco3424
      @choco3424 2 місяці тому +3

      @@MegF142857 Him saying it in the beginning of the video?

    • @choco3424
      @choco3424 2 місяці тому

      @@user-wb3es8hz1d It wouldnt work with other horses where they are all free to move in the same space.

    • @cattymajiv
      @cattymajiv 2 місяці тому

      @@user-wb3es8hz1d I'd like to hear his reasoning, because if you want to restrict them for a while to just inside or just outside, you can. It is kind of mystifying.

  • @Flipper568
    @Flipper568 2 місяці тому +25

    Things I love about Matt & Jesse (JMHO) ❤
    - that Matt the big picture thinker is striving to build a life that makes both their hearts happy
    - that when Jesse used to do competitions he left before medals were announced because he didn’t care where he & his horse ranked, just that they had fun together (they would have to phone him to tell him he won a medal 😅)
    - that Matt has an amazing eye & can build them a beautiful home & grounds
    - that Jesse was so worried about his pups losing their “childhood home” 🥹
    - that Jesse helps loosen up Matt and get him smiling & Matt helps Jesse by creating a beautiful & organised home that I feel may help Jesse navigate life with less stress
    - that both of them are just allround lovely human beings

    • @lindaz1290
      @lindaz1290 Місяць тому +1

      Well said! I agree 100%!

  • @onlytheartofliving6936
    @onlytheartofliving6936 2 місяці тому +95

    I have ADHD too and having a different thinking mind can truly be a gift! Neurodivergent people are super creative and emphatic, they have a big heart and find joy in the smallest things, have unique thinking patterns or solution strategies ❤

    • @choco3424
      @choco3424 2 місяці тому +4

      I wish I could see the positives more often. Thank you for reminding me. As someone working in tech, having adhd feels like an uphill battle most of the time haha

    • @fleurtherabbit
      @fleurtherabbit 2 місяці тому +1

      Hm, I always thought Jesse seemed more autistic. I'm no docter or anything, just was how he came arcoss to me.

    • @sunnyseacat6857
      @sunnyseacat6857 Місяць тому

      Yes, everything you said sans ADHD: yet another label for what is unique and quirky...which schooling tries to diminish if not completely eradicate, hence only 20 minute lunch break and 20 minute break for recess in American public elementary schools, very limited arts/crafts, dance, and theater. This agenda of suppression is going to be history soon.

  • @wallyhodges
    @wallyhodges 2 місяці тому +97

    Jesse is so cute when he struggles to get his point across on something and Matt the looks on ur face as he goes through it is so sweet. You can tell that you guys care very deeply for each other....

    • @BathtubLovingGuy
      @BathtubLovingGuy 2 місяці тому +16

      I agree. They are like an old married couple. They know each other’s quirks and have fun with it. Matt can come across a bit stern, but I think he means it in an endearing way. Fun to watch.

  • @bttrflymagic
    @bttrflymagic 2 місяці тому +31

    Giggly Jesse and Matt is the next level of cuteness 😂

  • @JamesWestAZ
    @JamesWestAZ 2 місяці тому +57

    Matt and Jesse........ Watching the two of you guys is amazing. The way you interact with one another. Comical, funny, and also just so caring.
    You compliment one another. Soulmates.

  • @lukespurgeon5964
    @lukespurgeon5964 2 місяці тому +68

    @matt_harnacke questions for the next one:
    *How are Jesse's grandparents doing? Weren't they sick recently?
    *Who is most likely to snore: Jesse, Matt, Penny, or Maisy?
    *The Land Rover is Matt's dream car. Does Jesse have a dream car?
    *Matt, you clearly love the English stately home/country house style. Which one is your favorite and have you been able to visit it?
    *Pretend Steve or one of Jesse's siblings has a kid. Who's going to be the favorite uncle? Uncle Matt or uncle Jesse?
    *What shows are in your Netflix queue? What shows are you not allowed to watch unless you're together?
    *What are some ways to be involved in the horse world if you don't/can't have a horse at the moment?
    *Do either of you have any tattoos other than the sun and moon? Do you want more? What would you get?
    *Have you considered merch that isn't just for horses for those of us who love your channels and want to support you both, but don't have horses? Stuff like mugs, water bottles, shirts, calendars, etc etc?

    • @charlieann456
      @charlieann456 2 місяці тому +5

      I would love to get a mug!

    • @shinebright3789
      @shinebright3789 2 місяці тому +11

      Oh wow these questions are great. Love how you know and remember little details wohoo

    • @clairewatson3990
      @clairewatson3990 2 місяці тому +4

      Merch is a great idea!! Xx

    • @Joyfullscroll
      @Joyfullscroll 2 місяці тому

      On one of Jesse's tours he Does have some types of merchandise. A book, some t-shirts, hoodies and his horse merchandise. All on his web site.

    • @charlieann456
      @charlieann456 2 місяці тому +1

      @Joyfullscroll Nalanta is his web site. I would like to buy a mug with a picture of his horses on it so I can drink ginger tea with them during the "Unstable" podcast.

  • @marybannister4629
    @marybannister4629 2 місяці тому +112

    One of the best yet. Authentic. Hilarious. Warm. Please keep sharing Matt & Jesse.

  • @cricket8438
    @cricket8438 2 місяці тому +39

    I have been following since Matt started thinking of his big move. The more I watch them the more I enjoy their relationship; Jesse has blossomed in front of the camera and Matt is even more relatable. A really adorable couple of guys. 😊

  • @amyf8231
    @amyf8231 2 місяці тому +75

    I liked Jesse’s stable, I just love the LAND and pastures much more than the barn. I also like stalls with attached runs so the horses have more space to move around and go in and outside.

  • @georgeyaeger9064
    @georgeyaeger9064 2 місяці тому +73

    Aunt Johnny here: This channel is one of my very favorites! I discovered it when Matt was moving his horse and himself to the Netherlands. I really liked how he showed the whole trip. Then the life you guys have built in these last years is so encouraging. The things you have accomplished (even when the world lost its mind) is just phenomenal! Being a horse owner myself I know full well how responsible you have to be with them. I would not ever change the decision to have horses. Even on the Winter snowy mornings when it is cold, icy and slippery. I always look forward to your videos. The best to you both and Happy Easter.

  • @cdhilton7124
    @cdhilton7124 2 місяці тому +63

    Well, this is a lovely Easter surprise! 🐰

  • @MiriamPendleton
    @MiriamPendleton 2 місяці тому +18

    Jessie is right about letting the horse decide if it wants to be inside or out. You could accommodate stallions by providing them with large individual pastures adjacent to their stable. Horses are meant to move and are much happier and healthier if they are free to do so. Love your Unstable series!

  • @pattycoe7435
    @pattycoe7435 2 місяці тому +19

    I’m so glad Jesse and Matt seem to have a genuine love for each other and it shows in their talks.

  • @ninakaiser2930
    @ninakaiser2930 2 місяці тому +18

    Please don’t change anything, I really enjoy this format! You two being a mood for the whole time is everything! 😅

  • @dorismiller4651
    @dorismiller4651 2 місяці тому +37

    MATT!! 🤣🤣🤣 your facial expression are so dang FUNNY 🤣🤣🤣🤣 when asking Jesse what his ideal stable would look like 🤣🤣🤣

  • @londonblack9304
    @londonblack9304 2 місяці тому +12

    "The drawer opens and the cookies come out!" As a fellow after-dinner grazer, I've never laughed so hard at something I felt so personally attacked by...

  • @jonjonwp
    @jonjonwp 2 місяці тому +26

    My dog ran after a cat and it just sat there so he had to run past and pretend he wasn't going to chase it.. 😂

  • @alikatyeg3295
    @alikatyeg3295 2 місяці тому +14

    This particular Unstable podcast is pure comedy gold. I have laughed myself silly at the two of you. I just know in the future when you guys have your own property, Jesse is going to have a bunch of barn cats lol. Who wants to bet that Matt will end up liking them, fly-away hair and all?

    • @Joyfullscroll
      @Joyfullscroll 2 місяці тому +2

      He'll have them in fancy collars and with Ipods to keep track of them outside. Lol Also the tallest fanciest cat trees.

  • @sueroberts2301
    @sueroberts2301 2 місяці тому +62

    Loved the gentle chaos and authenticity of this. It brightened up an otherwise grey UK day!

  • @nang.s.8869
    @nang.s.8869 2 місяці тому +31

    That was a fun chat, Matt has really mellowed and Jesse is more confident, I found myself smiling through the whole thing.

  • @dcrouch1980
    @dcrouch1980 2 місяці тому +51

    The ending was the best 🤣 pronunciation is everything. Each time we learn a little more about you both and how two very different people make it work. Good Job!!

  • @charlieann456
    @charlieann456 Місяць тому +5

    Matt's storytelling is very precise. Like looking at a high-quality photograph.
    Jesse's storytelling is like looking at a beautiful painting. You see it in your mind but also feel it in your heart.

  • @NoblePeril
    @NoblePeril 2 місяці тому +9

    Matt "We're going to the olympics" Jesse: "that's not really a holiday" Matt: "well it's certainly not HELL" I snorted my coffee😂😂😂

  • @5apph1b1u3
    @5apph1b1u3 2 місяці тому +19

    Again, I know nothing about horses and won’t ever have a horse, but here I am subscribed. I learn so much about this industry and lifestyle/niche business from Matt and Jesse. Like many subscribed to this channel, I’m really and always impressed by Matt and Jesse. Each of you are so talented in your own right. As a parent, I’d be so proud and happy about your accomplishments, hard work and how kind and ethical you both are. Beautiful on the outside and beautiful on the inside.

  • @GeminiAC33
    @GeminiAC33 2 місяці тому +21

    Jesse gives me so much life, love this guy 🫶🏾

  • @kathleenchild
    @kathleenchild 2 місяці тому +33

    I wasn’t a cat person, for the same reasons as Matt, until we rescued a cat. We had a 6 yr old rescued dog at that time and they figured out how to get along. Our life was enriched because of her so keep an open mind. If you have pus coming from your open sore, I suggest you see a doctor for antibiotics because it sounds like your cut is infected.

    • @cattymajiv
      @cattymajiv 2 місяці тому +3

      Not unless it's getting worse. The body knows how to heal. The reason we have so many antibiotic resistant bacteria and diseases is precisely because doctors gave antibiotics for things like that.

    • @herstoryanimated
      @herstoryanimated 2 місяці тому +4

      ​@cattymajiv if there's pus coming from an open wound you should definitely see a doctor. They can decide whether you can have local antiseptic treatment or if you need antibiotics. Yes, it's true we need to limit antibiotic use where possible, but if you have a nasty infection you will need them - sepsis kills.

  • @lonnieparks1341
    @lonnieparks1341 2 місяці тому +25

    I would like to see Jesse blindfolded and trying to guess the horses. I think it would be a lot of fun, since Matt already did it. 😁

  • @normanneidell8694
    @normanneidell8694 2 місяці тому +23

    Jessie , we love you because you’re so REAL.
    So many of us wish we could be like you. It’s pure and perfect!

  • @sammyquinn
    @sammyquinn 2 місяці тому +22

    Nice to see you guys back in the stables again! Jesse, if I didn't already respect and admire you (which I do), your comments about cats would have earned my respect and admiration! You've made me so proud to be a member of your followers! "Why have a cat (if it doesn't do anything)?" "To give it a better life." Perfect answer!
    Matt - I've used honey and honey-based ointments/salves/creams before. It's not pus - it's the body reacting (healing) to the medication. A good idea, if you haven't already, would be to have your doctor take a look at it, just to make sure the wound is healing properly. (An aside: after seeing how much your horses shed, you're complaining about *cat* hair?!!? Seriously???) I'm jealous of your Paris trip! Enjoy!

    • @Joyfullscroll
      @Joyfullscroll 2 місяці тому

      Fair point on the horse hair. He forgets dogs shed too. There Are various ways to gather the shedding. (Besides vacuuming. Get a Roomba type to keep on top of the shedding time.)

  • @brendasimmons8149
    @brendasimmons8149 2 місяці тому +17

    Jesse you are an angel on this earth! You and Matt are blessed to have one another forever.

  • @es0516
    @es0516 2 місяці тому +9

    Regarding ADHD, I see a lot of comments saying “no nothing is wrong.” I think that’s a bit negative because there’s nothing “wrong” with being neurodivergent if Jesse is. At the very least he can get evaluated if he feels the need to. And if he were to be diagnosed with ADHD or any other neurodivergent thing, it’s perfectly fine. Please do not diminish people who are neurodivergent! Someone’s mind working differently than what’s considered “typical” is not a negative thing. Their mind just works differently. Please be more open minded!

    • @katecoylearmleyequestrian
      @katecoylearmleyequestrian 2 місяці тому

      What a great comment, neuro diversity is not a ‘problem’ it is just a unique individual way of thought process that neuro typical do not understand - I teach many children and adults that are neurodiverse - dyslexia, dyspraxia, autism - these individuals are unique and certainly not at a disadvantage when it comes to training and riding horses 🐴🌅

  • @tanjathams8664
    @tanjathams8664 2 місяці тому +34

    You guys are just the best!❤ Everybody is always loving Jesse (they are totally right!) But can we talk a Minute how caring and protective Matt is? ❤❤

  • @FineTasteofParis
    @FineTasteofParis 2 місяці тому +48

    YES...KEEP IT SIMPLE! It is most charming in this format. Great job, boys. Love from Aunt Cynthia.

  • @PaulaR-mp9di
    @PaulaR-mp9di 2 місяці тому +11

    Matt!!!! You treat a cat like a dog and reap the rewards of a loving, loyal animal as a result. I love cats. Mine come when called and are just as loving as a dog would be. As for the hair - make your cat a barn cat - and they will kill the mice for you. Also cats are generally very good with horses and horses like their quiet ways.

    • @carolcarol3938
      @carolcarol3938 Місяць тому

      My cats have my dog completely under control

  • @millanvally
    @millanvally 2 місяці тому +32

    Matte. Get a pen and look carefully around the wound for redness. Draw a line along the edge of the red.
    Next morning, check to see if the redness has gone past the line.
    If it has it means infection is building!
    Please seek medical help.

    • @thetenre8649
      @thetenre8649 2 місяці тому +19

      ... and make sure your anti-tetanus vaccination is up-to-date (especially around horses)!!

    • @choco3424
      @choco3424 2 місяці тому +11

      He just did an update on insta today and it looks a lot better so it's not a worry

    • @thetenre8649
      @thetenre8649 2 місяці тому

      Thanks ... good to know... pretty nasty-looking after nearly two weeks.@@choco3424

    • @Joyfullscroll
      @Joyfullscroll 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@choco3424thank you for the update.

  • @JanWindsong
    @JanWindsong 2 місяці тому +10

    You two are so wonderful, handsome and excellent horsemen. What a combination! I love how you laugh and joke but keep your minds working.

    • @JanWindsong
      @JanWindsong 2 місяці тому +3

      What wonderful news that you plan on raising foals!

  • @lindakirsch1193
    @lindakirsch1193 2 місяці тому +20

    I wanted to say that I love these one on one videos. Your chemistry is so delightful. It's good to have fun things to share together, but also feel free to do your own thing apart. That makes for a true relationship. Wishing you all the best on this Easter Day from the US.

  • @potterlinda02
    @potterlinda02 2 місяці тому +21

    It is always hard to be in front of a camera....don't sweat the small stuff...just be yourself...Jesse....don't change....Love your videos..Happy Easter

  • @betsybuick4260
    @betsybuick4260 2 місяці тому +10

    You 2 are a riot! I enjoyed this "unstable" immensely! More, please. I'm an old lady, nearly 75, but I live vicariously through you. Love you! ❤

  • @millanvally
    @millanvally 2 місяці тому +18

    The BEST home remedy for wounds comes from NZ - Manuka Honey - also for horses.

  • @stevemelton8196
    @stevemelton8196 2 місяці тому +16

    You just haven't seen the right cat we have had her since birth 15 years she gets bathed and nails trimmed doesn't jump on you or counter she is amazing

  • @jo_2923
    @jo_2923 2 місяці тому +11

    These chatty Podcasts of you are my favourite thing on UA-cam at the moment. Love the mix of horse-related, personal and random questions! Thank you for sharing a more private look into your relationship, I feel like we get to know you a lot better through these videos.
    Looking forward to the next one, hope your April will be wonderful.
    And @jesse go on a holiday, you deserve it!

  • @KellyAnn1997
    @KellyAnn1997 2 місяці тому +26

    Jesse you are amazing just how you are. And you deserve a nice holiday of your own choosing. 😉

  • @JacksonBaylee0000
    @JacksonBaylee0000 2 місяці тому +15

    Everyone's minds process thoughs differently. Just because your mind jumps around doesn't mean there is anything wrong. You learn how to control your gifted imagination to solve problems in your way which is the correct way for you.

  • @shinebright3789
    @shinebright3789 2 місяці тому +7

    Time for my timestamps of personal favourite moments 😂
    1. 15:01 Jesse: You never really lived on your own I think.
    Matt: No, fully no
    Jesse: LET'S KEEP IT THAT WAY
    2. 15:33 I love how Jesse ALWAYS tackles the question so very well ! He would have been a very good lawyer as he wanted ( still not too late Jesse! ) ( I have carefully observed this in all the QnAs so far, how well Jesse grasps exactly what the question is asking)
    3. 6:05 Love the strategy Matt ! Amazing how big picture focused Jesse is and how very wonderfully detail oriented Matt is !
    4. 23:37 Ahahah I can so relate to Matt ! Hope you will find your dream home and own space soon ! (Sure Matt meant it's interesting to navigate through the small space challenge as 1. he loves clean spaces and 2.he works from home mostly in comparison to Jesse who always goes on shows and lessons. )
    5. 25:15 CUUUTEEEEEEE (Love the shine in your eyes!)
    Okay I love all of it and learnt alot and added so much to my life as well. Thanks and can't wait for the next one.

  • @tmicheletti100
    @tmicheletti100 2 місяці тому +44

    I love these two. I guess they want to keep their private life private, but not sure why Matt is afraid to say the word “gay”, like it’s a dirty word. If they are gay, everyone would just love them even more. If they aren’t, they can just say that. Either way, love them and their channel.

    • @rebeka_jerala164
      @rebeka_jerala164 2 місяці тому +5

      Matt has indeed said he wants to keep his love life private - that interview was years ago tho

    • @sunflowermyeyes9758
      @sunflowermyeyes9758 2 місяці тому +36

      I think it’s more that Jesse wasn’t super kind to himself when he said he only had girlfriends at school equals gay, as some sort of stereotype or insult. That’s why Matt was like ah no don’t say that! But yeah, I hope they know that they can be however open they want to be with us, we’d love them anyways and already do the way they are ❤

    • @shinebright3789
      @shinebright3789 2 місяці тому +11

      From what I got, he said "don't say that !" with the intention of meaning "don't call yourself a part of some crazy stereotype". I love how they keep private things private ❤

    • @jocelyn5196
      @jocelyn5196 2 місяці тому +8

      My interpretation was that he was saying not to say it in that way, like the stereotype, even if Jesse was saying it as a joke

    • @keojiabrown6807
      @keojiabrown6807 2 місяці тому +5

      I think its because of the way Jesse used it. Depending on the context it's a meme saying "GAY" the way he did. Sometimes people use it humorously and sometimes people use it to be derogatory. But really i think it was just jokes between them/Matt not expecting him to be so expressive and saying it like that.🤷🏾‍♀️😂

  • @1POVperspective
    @1POVperspective Місяць тому +8

    Couples sharing a sense of humor is inspirational. And being truly authentic with each other while still being caring for each other is indeed a beautiful thing to see.

  • @littlebird8837
    @littlebird8837 2 місяці тому +10

    You guys balance each other so well. Jesse, you are super creative and have such gifts...please don't change 💙🙏🥰🕊

  • @donnahenderson511
    @donnahenderson511 2 місяці тому +10

    You guys really dont have to change anything... You both lighten my evening,
    I swear Jesse just loves winding you up Matt, and the way you respond back is hilarious and sweet,
    Keep it simple, real, and exactly how it is...❤

  • @chickendoup
    @chickendoup 2 місяці тому +10

    The best-friends-giving-old-married-couple energy reminds me so much of me and my bestie, and I'm living for it

  • @summerrain1579
    @summerrain1579 2 місяці тому +12

    OMG 😂😂😂. We are already 3 mins and no questions answered and its off the rails……I love it 🤣

  • @paulbrown3391
    @paulbrown3391 7 днів тому +2

    I think you guys are so good for each other. Your always there for each other in good and bad time.

  • @CarmenBoyesBeeTheBee
    @CarmenBoyesBeeTheBee 2 місяці тому +22

    You two are wonderful together! ❤

  • @SRM_NZ
    @SRM_NZ 2 місяці тому +34

    21:28 .........Matt, although I could care less about anyone's sexuality, as I believe that is a part of someone but does not define them.....I can understand on a business level why you would say to Jesse "don't say that"....but on a human level, being told not to express yourself is quite a horrible thing to do.
    Yes, even in 2024 it is still difficult, dangerous and scary to be openly gay in society. However, with that being said, I'd prefer to be openly gay than an [openly] close-minded Christian National....I choose love, peace and good will over hatred, bigotry and intolerance.
    Whatever your relationship is with each other, isn't my business, I sub to you both because of your abilities as horsemen and businessmen as well as Jesse's humour and your gardening acumen.
    There are many types of people on this planet, some are overly boisterous, while some are content to live quietly in the 'burbs'....but all of us have a right to live as we please...just as long as we don't hurt others.
    So finally, I believe that hiding from hate, bigotry and intolerance only promotes that sentiment , and suppresses the good people have.

    • @taranhartell2459
      @taranhartell2459 2 місяці тому +15

      I think why Matt said "dont say that" in reaction to Jesse saying gay was more because its a bit of a (negative) stereotype to call someone gay simply because he only had girlfriends, and not necessarily because of something else 🙂 people always called me gay (negatively) because i also always only had girlfriends. In the end they were right (in my case at least, not saying thats the case about Jesse!)but like, its always said in a mocking way, you know. When no one should be ashamed of their sexuality 😊

    • @shinebright3789
      @shinebright3789 2 місяці тому +2

      Oh god he didn't say so ! I have a straight male friend who only has female friends and it is so annoying when people assume he is gay when he is not, just because he has female friends. Matt said no to the stereotype ! Also, I really really love how they keep their private lives private as I am so sure they have their own solid reasons for that.

    • @user-wj7lp4fc3c
      @user-wj7lp4fc3c 2 місяці тому

      @@user-wb3es8hz1dits bc Matt has said many years ago that he would never be public about his relationships- that’s the reason why they avoid the topic

    • @user-wj7lp4fc3c
      @user-wj7lp4fc3c 2 місяці тому

      @@user-wb3es8hz1d yea but it was two different interviews

    • @aladinwyatt
      @aladinwyatt 2 місяці тому

      ​@@user-wb3es8hz1doh my word you are not their public defender if they have a problem with that statement I'm sure they would be vocal about it

  • @adina1658
    @adina1658 2 місяці тому +50

    "if you think would we have been friends, or ENEMIES?👀" and my mind immediatelly jumped to ✨️oooooooh enemies to loverssss✨️ (all i know is fanfiction sns)

    • @choco3424
      @choco3424 2 місяці тому +5

      The fanfic brainrot is real… (Ao3 being down was my downfall)

    • @julim.9973
      @julim.9973 2 місяці тому +1

      Are there fanfics about them? I can't find any😢

    • @choco3424
      @choco3424 2 місяці тому +4

      @@julim.9973 I sure hope not… Feels very wrong to have rpf about them 😅

    • @homemadecookie7392
      @homemadecookie7392 2 місяці тому

      @@julim.9973 let's write some 😀😀😀😀

  • @jasona8769
    @jasona8769 2 місяці тому +19

    I am a super fan and have been watching you both for years and this is the first video I have seen where the word ‘gay’ has even been spoken. I am all for people living their lives as privately or as openly as they wish, however, I also feel that positive queer representation is crucial in destroying stereotypes and stigma and being more open also allows you to control your own narrative. I wish you both the best and always look forward to seeing your content. You are both assets to the equestrian world. ❤

    • @robbrent
      @robbrent Місяць тому

      Exactly my relationship with them and I couldn’t have said it better. “Family” follower from 🇿🇦🏳️‍🌈

  • @majamagnusson7505
    @majamagnusson7505 2 місяці тому +25

    smiled through the whole video :) happy easter

  • @cindym.823
    @cindym.823 2 місяці тому +13

    Oh, Matt, the cat will rule the dog!! They will be friends in the end 😊😊 Most barns have both and they are just fine...you crack me up🤣

  • @thedodgefam4535
    @thedodgefam4535 2 місяці тому +11

    You two are hilarious. Enjoy the simple format and the balance you provide to each other. So funny.

  • @MyuNeptune
    @MyuNeptune 2 місяці тому +10

    Stable cats are great! You don't need to keep it at home, they sleep with the horses. They love to roam anyways and they keep critters away.

    • @Joyfullscroll
      @Joyfullscroll 2 місяці тому +1

      There is another utube channel who does nothing But Stable/Barn cats. He calls them "working cats". They all have names, vaccinated, fed and have a whole barn shed to themselves. He takes them in on the evening then releases them in the morning to do their job.

  • @SarahWRah
    @SarahWRah 2 місяці тому +19

    I am so happy to hear you may resume show training with Emporio. You both did so well in Oct-2022. I think Emporio is really going to enjoy the show circuit where he can strut his stuff and have you focused on him. But I know you have many, many other interests. I love you and Jesse and the way you interact with each other and with your animals.

  • @paxriv
    @paxriv 2 місяці тому +12

    Love this episode, of course. Would they have been friends in school? Hah! They found each other from half a world away...they would have obviously have come together that much sooner. The Universe was organized to bring them together. M: "I have never really lived alone." J: "Let's keep it that way." That may be my favorite exchange between them.

    • @paxriv
      @paxriv 2 місяці тому +3

      I just saw Matt's arm at the end of this video. it looks bad. Have you been to the doctor? Should be properly cleaned, possibly need antibiotics if infected, which the pus would indicate has happened. I ignored something like that until it started to be painful and the doctor yelled at me for not coming in sooner, said it could be dangerous. Don't be dismissive, get medical attention.

    • @choco3424
      @choco3424 2 місяці тому

      @@paxriv He updated us on insta a few days ago and it looked a lot better!!

  • @jonathanvanier
    @jonathanvanier 2 місяці тому +10

    It's great that you invite us more into your life and relationship! Happy Easter! 🐇🥚🧡

  • @s.c.2968
    @s.c.2968 2 місяці тому +11

    Jesse, i love how you share your journey with ADHD so openly! It definitely is nothing to be afraid of. I have been diagnosed with ADHD 5 years ago. For me, the ADHD diagnosis has never been a label, but the key to understanding, accepting and loving myself and my diversity, to efficiently work on my weaknesses and even turn some of them into strengths. And to shape my world to fit me instead of the other way around. Never ending process of course 😉 l wish you all the best on your journey!

  • @robbrent
    @robbrent Місяць тому +3

    21:28 it’s out Matt, there’s no taking it back, thanks Jesse, and it’s only going to get you more followers and admirers. Lots of us have been following you from the beginning because we knew that.

  • @Vigotec
    @Vigotec 2 місяці тому +5

    I so much loved when Jesse said: "ach... don't be so ridiculous!"😂😂😂

  • @bkm2797
    @bkm2797 2 місяці тому +14

    You two are so perfect as a team, each with qualities that the other can appreciate. Certainly had me laughing while just being yourselves. I was thinking maybe if you had pictures of all the beautiful horse facilities and the individual rooms as in tac rooms, et cetera It would help create a really nice visual for both you and us who aren't able to see in our heads, (just a thought). But surprises are nice too. I believe you two would have been friends at school, but the best is that you are friends and partners now, and that's what counts. Always good to see you, wishing you a Happy Easter, and good times ahead.❤️👍

  • @beam3401
    @beam3401 2 місяці тому +14

    this is literally my favourite ep yet!!

  • @deborahallmon1778
    @deborahallmon1778 2 місяці тому +3

    I feel like a desert, and it is raining. Just absorbing all of what you have to share. Both of you make me smile and focus. Thank you for sharing your lives.

    • @JesseDrent
      @JesseDrent 2 місяці тому +1

      Love that ecxample👏😂 thank you!!

  • @e.m.lumesound1070
    @e.m.lumesound1070 2 місяці тому +18

    Jesse: I only had female friends... haha, GHAY!
    Matt: DON'T SAY THAT!
    Jesse: No it's fine you can edit that out
    Matt *deliberately doesn't edit it out* 😅😅😅

    • @JR_Equestrian85
      @JR_Equestrian85 2 місяці тому +2

      The panic in Matt’s face and voice says everything😂

    • @paulamckibben1317
      @paulamckibben1317 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@JR_Equestrian85I really didn't get why Matt would react that way.. everything they do and say indicates that they are a couple and that's ok as long as neither of them use the word gay?.. doesn't make sense to me.. the stars obviously aligned for the magic between them ❤❤

    • @JR_Equestrian85
      @JR_Equestrian85 2 місяці тому +4

      @@paulamckibben1317 they aren’t comfortable with the whole internet knowing that they’re together which is completely understandable. Although they would receive loads of support from fans they would still have to deal with cruel people.

    • @ccgrey8731
      @ccgrey8731 2 місяці тому +6

      @@JR_Equestrian85Okay but he didn’t edit it out of his video. If it concerned him he would have just taken it out.

    • @JR_Equestrian85
      @JR_Equestrian85 2 місяці тому +1

      @@ccgrey8731 he may have missed it or just didn’t deem it a big enough give away. But he just didn’t want Jesse to repeat it in another video probably.

  • @brianmorris3251
    @brianmorris3251 2 місяці тому +3

    Love this video and its honesty. Thank you.

  • @MegF142857
    @MegF142857 2 місяці тому +10

    I can relate to Jesse a lot more in how he describes approaching things. His stable description is about function than about style. Airiness & ability for horses to move in / out & space / fields. It's about functionality. Matt is wanting to discuss "architecture & interior design". -- Good idea to hire someone to do things you don't enjoy in your business. I waaay too often did things in my business that I hated. That's not how to live a life. --

  • @khorsies947
    @khorsies947 2 місяці тому +3

    Happy Easter guys!❤ Love the new episode

  • @janf817
    @janf817 2 місяці тому +3

    That was a great, relaxed Q & A. I loved it all! Thanks for sharing x

  • @stevie853
    @stevie853 2 місяці тому +1

    Happy Sunday everyone! Thanks for making my morning ❤️

  • @luawannanigra7911
    @luawannanigra7911 2 місяці тому +3

    Love you two ! love this format :) great job !

  • @user-ye1fl9kk9s
    @user-ye1fl9kk9s 2 місяці тому +1

    Happy Easter to you both. If I feel down and i watch your videos i get a smile on my face, thank you

  • @lindoriethepally5325
    @lindoriethepally5325 2 місяці тому +3

    you guys just crack me up!!! i love watching you two!

  • @lorihoward7506
    @lorihoward7506 2 місяці тому +3

    Love having the horses stick their heads out to say hi. For instance, Chase was welcoming us today. 🤗♥️🇨🇦🤓

  • @finnegan1657
    @finnegan1657 2 місяці тому +2

    Love the vibe between you two. Thanks for sharing with us.

  • @lisamclain2549
    @lisamclain2549 2 місяці тому +4

    You guys are hilarious! Such a pleasure. Thanks much!

  • @cordywitt6400
    @cordywitt6400 2 місяці тому +3

    Liked your energy and true moments. ❤ Happy Easter 🎉

  • @bromsonstud
    @bromsonstud 2 місяці тому +2

    Love you two so much! Love the banter. Can’t wait to see videos on your property search 😊

  • @jcharper75
    @jcharper75 2 місяці тому +2

    This is one of my favorites yet! ❤

  • @tonyaknight7098
    @tonyaknight7098 2 місяці тому +4

    I look so forward to these videos ❤❤

  • @sharronhamric3971
    @sharronhamric3971 2 місяці тому +6

    That was a great update. You guys were just so natural and love watching you.

  • @pjk1714
    @pjk1714 2 місяці тому +2

    Jesse lol what an ending.
    Appreciate you sitting down and sharing
    Hope you enjoyed your Easter weekend 🐰

  • @jamiemccorkle4446
    @jamiemccorkle4446 2 місяці тому +37

    Jesse, embrace who you are, You are truly humble and endearing, never change for anyone!

    • @chasingfences1302
      @chasingfences1302 2 місяці тому +9

      I agree! Jesse may be a bit ADHD but he is lovely and endearing just the way he is. If he feels he struggles in his day-to-day life, then by all means looks for aids that can help but as far as being a people person, Jesse is perfect. I wouldn't change a thing; it is sweet when Jesse gets distracted by beautiful flowers or animals in the field and loses his train of thought or interrupts Matt. It always makes their videos more entertaining, it's an unexpected bonus rather than a negative so I wouldn't want that to change.

    • @gloriamyers9286
      @gloriamyers9286 2 місяці тому +2

      Agree..if you and Matt were closer to same type of personality, sense of humor, neat freaks your relationship might be a train wreck 😅😊!

    • @gloriamyers9286
      @gloriamyers9286 2 місяці тому +2

      ❤😅❤

    • @cattymajiv
      @cattymajiv 2 місяці тому +3

      @@chasingfences1302 I totally agree! I love that about him.

  • @haraldarendsen9372
    @haraldarendsen9372 2 місяці тому +2

    hahah i love the stable talks. The synergy is awesome and looks very natural. Keep it that way guys! On to the next one!

  • @richardminott1489
    @richardminott1489 2 місяці тому +7

    This was so good, and light, and enjoyable!!! Love all the sass Jesse was giving Matt!!

  • @donaldtopp5438
    @donaldtopp5438 2 місяці тому +6

    Thanks for this Easter posting. Videos showing your interaction as a couple are my favorite.
    . Hello from El Paso , TX