Yes. 100 % in this drama world. Get educated, do not like being disrespected; then the solution is to become villain, and take revenge via the most insane ways.
At some point, they all shove love triangles down our throats... But I just realized that ekta's all three Bhagyas are running on 2 girls-1 guy concept right from the beginning 😂
Because that's the fantasy of Indian men ke "kas main bhi!"😜 and hidden fear of Indian women ki kanhi unke pati to?😂 Aur yeh serial ke producers usi ko capitalise kar ke note chapte hain
@@random_person_on_internet I hate how a woman's only role in the story has to be that of a dutiful wife to "fight" for her husband's affection or become a doormat for her in-laws!
Absolutely not. Malini was definitely not a trp aunties favourite,she only had some teenage nibbis fans who don't even contribute trp but gives long lecture on social media.
let's be honest. The show would've been amazing if both Malini and imlie leaves aditya as they both start a new life as "sisters b4 misters" while Imlie pursues her career and malini becomes a successful prof.
Anyone's not gonna talk about how her complexion changed with her story arc ( dark when she was sidelined, light when she was centered/or something like that)....
That would have been so nice .. and when I saw the trailer I thought the show was going to be about how women are getting empowered and fighting the old patriarchal ways but here it's just like the other one's show casing the same sexist and problematic scenes
A few years ago I was discussing movies with my colleagues and someone brought up Bajirao Mastani. And I hear one my colleagues (who is a woman) go on a rant about how Mastani was the worst character and she was the one who broke up Bajirao and Kashibai. Why doesn't anyone hold Bajirao accountable for marrying another woman?
I have seen many movies ….not only Indian but some foreign movies , and I really don’t get why male lead is not hold accountable for cheating. How can they portray ….like cheating is fine and husband is not wrong… wrong is only wife or other women. On the other hand ….your husband/ boyfriend is cheating … he is the one u love and he betrays you… how can you …not ..beat him to his pulp..and move on… Instead of asking ur boyfriend ..why he did that.. all of them goes to other women and pull their hairs… and he smartly get rid from these nonsense. Mistake is of male lead but writer smartly portrays that wife is not proper..or good looking.. I hope in upcoming years these types of serials and movies get vanished….because they have an impact …in our society .
Star Plus has this age old problem. They start the show with a female character which is supposed to break stereotypes and is independent. Cut to 50 episodes later she's back as the naive typical ITV bahu P. S - I'm still in shock bout how these girls are shown studying for two mere shots and end up topping the university (cries in misery)
Have you watched Ganga or breaking free, oh my goodness, it's literally the same thing , girls study and strives to be become someone in a unjust society, then insert love interest, and suddenly her goal becomes uniting the family and winning over her husband, such a waste of potential
Similar things with GHKKPM. Sai is a medical student. There are hardly five shots where she has been holding a fat book while the entire family shouts at her. And then lo and behold she tops the exam, bags two scholarships and continues to make nashta for everyone
Aditya married Malini because his marriage with Imlie had no validity in his eyes, but as soon as he fell for her the marriage miraculously got valid? Makes sense.
Anyone's not gonna talk about how her complexion changed with her story arc ( dark when she was sidelined, light when she was centered/or something like that)....
Even in Padmaavat, they portrayed Shahid Kapoor’s first wife as an irritating vamp. Shahid Kapoor cheated on her but nobody said a word against his character, wo deepika ke peeche peeche jaake “naino wale ne” sunn ke maze le rha tha jungle mein😂
Malini was such a beautiful character at one time, who was strong, independent self righteous and stood up for imlie whenever Aditya misbehaved with her, she never believed in the class divide between imli and her and treated her like a little sister even when she didn't know about that. And that's why the audience sympathised with her, because she was genuinely a great woman. But that didn't sit well with the makers because the leads weren't getting the love and respect. And then they ruined her, and ruined her character so badly that it's almost unbelievable. It just makes me so sad for Malini.
Finally.... someone got the idea I've been trying to tell. I remember the time when Malini left Aditya to make Imli happy and everyone accused her for being a cheater, her own family abandoned her for their so called "Izzat" and even the lead lovebirds Mr n Mrs Tripathi ignoring her feelings, stalling the divorce, she still stood tall and righteous and everyone loved her. Then the makers realized that the show is named *"IMLI"* so they did Malini dirty. Like how obsessed you can be with the lead of the show that you make her a Devi and every other woman a bi*ch!!!! And the siblings who knew Aditya Imli secret... it was clearly them who supported the couple but when Malini lied about KC they judged her character. The show is so messed up that I don't watch it anymore.... it's depressing how according to the showbiz a woman can't wish happiness for other woman (the heroine) and always have to be a vamp.
@@santosinipani9498 I know. Dude because of these kind of daily soaps women are suffering even after being educated. Matlab kuch bhi yaar. Purane zamane se bahar nikalna bhi nahi hai. Aur nikalna chahte bhi hai toh people pull her back. Isse better toh Anupama serial hai. I know it's a little pakau but atleast waha pe she's taking a stand for herself even after all those problems .
The same thing happened in the Bengali version. Moon (Malini) was one of the best woman character written for any daily soap, but later they just ruined that and made her the vamp. They brought other love interests in Moon's life one after another and made her the characterless woman. The makers just can't stand a strong, independent and righteous woman in daily soap.
Indian serials have one theme. No matter how bad you are treated, you ultimately end up loving your husband, no matter badly he may have treated you. This is what our serials teach women. No self respect, no justice. Just forgiveness.
lol it just caters to their target audience who are from Indian traditional society..like female web shows create other kind of cringe ..at the end only cringe and craps are generated to their target audience based on their fantasies ..
This is where i must applaud the jury members of Kerala State television awards for not giving the "best Serial" award for any of the shows because of their problematic themes, similar actions must be taken all around the country
Men are usually never held accountable for their wrongs. A woman making the tiniest of tiny mistakes is treated like the biggest crime. But a man cheating on his wife, no problem, just give him a redemption arc in the last one week of the serial and all is well ! It's a universal truth that men usually never have to face the consequences of their actions, neither in fiction nor reality .
Reminds me of Ishk Par Zor Nahi, where the male lead destroyed the female lead's life, he took her job away and her home, forced her to live in poverty. And after the revelation, he was immediately forgiven by the female lead. Like he destroyed her life but it's ok. No accountability. Then few days later he again yells at her, mocks her for being an orphan and throws her out of the house. Again after the revelation, the female lead immediately forgives him. No accountability lol. I like that show so much but the story after the leap was full of shit.
Because always says women don't want that...women needs to wake up..they chose to suffer or make other woman suffer....man is like king and enjoying the toxicity. He causee it and ask him nitbother woman
This serial is so toxic and problematic. A man is conveniently married to 2 women and they are fighting like cats for this pathetic human. Seriously? Do these guys even give a thought before airing the episodes? Everything about this show is wrong. Imlie's father is a cheater but his wife is a bad woman. On top of it, the show is aired at 8:30 pm, prime time slot. Ugh, so frustrating.
Makers want their serial to be discussed like this, they know they are promoting toxic and problematic serial which has no sense in it. Since people are making video of their review on such serial, audience would end up watching this serial and starts giving opinion about how wrong things are happening with certain characters.
Blame the women who are the majority viewers of this shitty tv show. If women stop watching this shit, they will stop making them. Women must fight against this kind of portrayal in cinema and serials
Another thing about the Tripathi family - They're supposed to be a middle-class family. But they still have a house that has apparently endless hallways, rooms designed by interior designers and two people for domestic help. And all of this is while having the whole family (but Aditya) unemployed -.- It lacks so much common sense that it's not even realistic or relatable.
First of all go and search who are.middle class people.when you come middle class people they are different stages of middle class people high,low middle class people high people like professionals like doctots,lawyers,some buinessmen so u tell that they cannot have big house.if you wealthy people it is small amount of society
It is always the educated, independent and opinionated woman who is turned into a villain and then these serials are used to gaslight people into thinking that the more educated the woman is the more difficult she is to handle
And the funniest part is this- After the show ends the Female Lead will post some bold pictures on social media, get trolled and then go on to write a sonnet on how Independent women are ostracised; when they themselves made a living playing into this mentality.
I have watched the Bengali version of the show "ishti kutum" as a child and I always wondered how did the adults around me who watch this show could support its toxicity. I always found it extremely problematic even as a child mainly because I felt very sympathetic towards the fiancée of the male lead. The educated, independent woman is always seen as a "problem" even when she did nothing wrong. Good to see someone calling it out
I've grown up in a Bengali household. I can vouch on the fact that my grandparents have watched the shit out of that show, (ishti kutum) and many other shows which do nothing but promote toxic and sexist tropes. I've never found much a problem in these shows until I started to recognize and acknowledge what the general indian media provides. Our parents love these movies, and it makes me wonder if it's the nostalgia of the show/movie that makes them still watch and support them or is it just plain ignorance.
Malini and Aditya were in relationship for 7 years and all he said is friendship..he never felt anything for her but he married her..worst part is he is the hero of the show..now the track is Malini is doing bad with Aditya and imlie..no dear u both did worst to Malini
Aditya is great he was in relationship with perfect girl malini for 7 years , ready to die in pagadandia for her , after marriage he had first night with her, romanced with her many times after & before marriage, & suddenly with in few months he says that this is friendship & emli is my love !
Guys from this show are characterless… after 7 years of relationship one (Adithya)says it’s just friendship ..no love… Even after being married having a child One (Dev)hooked up with another woman saying it was love….. comedy part is being legally married Malini stays away And Imli always stays in adithya’s house… and we all are ok with it🤣😜🤣 … no problem… oh god why we are watching this 😳
@@sridevi-yt4kv exactly ...but worst part ever is , emli an 19 yrs soo called ' toper ' (yes , so called ) never even thought in her dreams to do studies sinse she snatched aditya from malini, in fact college se nikale jane k bad bhi use apani studies ki nahi malini k khilaf proof dhundhane ki padi he !!matlab study jaye bhad me hum to babusaheb ko chin k rahenge !!! despite saying , babasaheb hum aap our malini didi k bich me nahi aana chahate , continuously bothering & interfering their newly married life , even getting jealous bye seeing malini & aditya closer who r legally married couple ...she is just planning & behaving like an 35 year desperate bimbo who ruined her sisters life , even all tripathi's life for her desire !!!that's why she is getting more hated despite being main lead ...
Just a request, can you please talk about the content shown in another Starplus show, Ghum Hai kisi key pyaar meiin. The latest week's episodes. The male lead locks up the female lead and stops her from going to college cuz she refuses to attend a Puja. They presented this entire locking up thing in a sarcastic manner by playing a funny background music!! The show is not just toxic, but is also normalising emotional and verbal abuse by the family.
Dude seriously I also started watching it with my mum. And got hooked seeing Sai fighting with everyone for herself. Initially it was kind of entertaining but gosh it just degraded from there. She is showcased as 19 year old forced to marry a a guy way older than her and then everyone arround her tortures her in some way or another. Even the people who seem to care for her manipulates her into staying in toxic relationship.Regressive Bullcrap this show is.
Damn i was about to comment the same i saw this yesterday unfortunately and im glad i never watch tv. But this is just sad i remember the days when there was júst one channel DD national and it had all shows and also less drama and "dhoom tana nana music"
Malini was the best character in the show in the starting, she treated Imlie as her sister despite she came to know everything that happened b/w her and Aditya, she was a Strong and independent woman who decided to leave Aditya cause he doesn't loved her, but now yikes a full 180° turn in her character, they made her a stereotypical villian where she wants to ruin Imlie life 💀
I m not watching imlie from Jan but going through the glimpse of its insta clips I got that.Ppl started liking malini more than imlie but imlie is the main character they r showing malini as negative. Didn't got one thing Aditya mutely married imlie okay he was threatened so I cld understand the situation but why adi didn't told anything to malini before marriage 😂😂😂. Maine ye nhi deka ki malini ko kaise pta laga imlie adi ki shadhi ke bare mein but it feels strange how adi went to imlie from malini😂😂😂😂isse jyada confusion Tou history mein year ka logic samajke yaad krne mei v nhi laga
Tbh I found Imlie annoying in alot of ways, she compares her relationship with Aditya to the one that he has with Malini (this is around the time Malini and Aditya get married) dude, they were in a relationship for years and you knew him for what? A day? What are you so upset about?
They want to glorify every pathetic things in the name of it can be happening.. They only want to make ppl to have doubt about ourselves.. Brainwashing is like that
Anyone's not gonna talk about how her complexion changed with her story arc ( dark when she was sidelined, light when she was centered/or something like that)....
I've noticed this with star plus. They come up with brilliant concepts. But then only kill the concept and continue with whatever the traditional hindi serial format is.
They are remaking all of their marathi or bengali hit shows. They don't have any new ideas. And even if they try to make a serial which has a good concept earlier, it's ruined later on and becomes a typical saas Bahu drama
They literally made malini the villain cause we hate the leads even though they made malini the villain , I will still be supporting malini cause LET'S not forget the injustice happened to malini
In real life it is literally IMPOSSIBLE for someone who was as good as Malini to turn so freaking evil. But again, these shows are the opposite of real.
Obviously Malini is correct,suddenly Imlie enters and ruin the two lovers, aditya always does injustice to Malini she deserves everything just because Imlie is poor has sympathy and empathy nobody cares for Malini
Anyone's not gonna talk about how her complexion changed with her story arc ( dark when she was sidelined, light when she was centered/or something like that)....
Malini's mom is shown as a vamp n her husband as a bechara even tho he cheated on her and had an illegitimate child ... I feel she is justified to be bitter n for the way she behaves.
they pushed it to an unacceptable level however with her suggesting to drug Aditya but these are the levels they are going to just to create the hero vs villain narrative
@@TriedRefusedProductions Bro are u forget those web show u proudly promote where women cheat on their husbands still they are showed as a bechari women... Did u forget that in ajeeb dastan where a husband accept his wife when he found his wife cheated on him in fact he accept his wife's illegal child... Are u forget in 'haseen dilruba' they showed vikrant as a nice husband but after his wife cheated on him they showed him as violent husband to gaining sympty for his wife, let me tell u in your word "vishu is a nice guy loving, caring and loyal husband he didn't any wrong to anyone but still he doesn't get any justice" whole movie did so much injustice to vibrant's character but still he labelled as "demon husband".. Did u forget that In Bombay begum where husband found that his wife cheated on him but he didn't not ask for divorce or anything but infact in return he said I love you. U get offended if movie show unnecessary romantic angel but u didn't get offend if movie show unnecessary marital affair.. Bro I want to say one thing that how much we called society a patriarchal or a male dominant society but still people are afraid to accepting grey shads of a men, they just want a men only as a villain or hero... And for your female movies reviews I want to said some line "movie should be appreciate for showing women's issue but same movie should be criticised for showing sexism against men"
@@TriedRefusedProductions exactly..that's what i've been telling to some of the fans who live in la la land and call Malini and Anu as villains without realising they're actually the victims who have been turned into villains for the sake of proving lead pair as right...
In the bengali version, Ishti Kutum, there were insane plot twists. The characters played by Malini and Imlie were later found out to be half sisters (Malini's father had impregnated Imlie's mother/extramarital), Imlie stayed happily ever after with Aditya and Malini fell in love with the doctor who treated her after she tried to commit suicide.
in this one aswell imlie and malini were half sisters....and this was the reason malini's mothe hated her husband...fortunately in this one imlie fell in love with someone else and married him later...
I had major problems with the change in Malini's character from a 'doting fiance' to a villain. Also when Aditya tells Malini that he was only friends with her for the last 7 years, it's seriously not believable.
Yes It was unbelievable He married her phir bhi bolta hai dost Matlab kuch bhi😂😂😂 It's same as dhadkan Where Anjali tells Dev that he was a pyaara dost to her Matlab itne gaane gaaye phir friendzoned😢😢😢 #JusticeforDev
exactly, he used to romance her, get scared if something happens to her, i mean he did everything a lover does and suddenly 7 yrs became just friendship and now few months old relation is true love😂
I’m glad someone actually went through the pain of watching this show. I have actually realised that most of the serials on Star Plus actually have a similar problem be it Anupama, or Ghum hai kisi k pyar mei, Pandya Store. Moreover, the lens and male gaze has always managed to show the one of the two women either interested or married to a fickle man as negative, wicked, sly, and the man somehow always becomes the least wrong. And this is just the tip of the icerberg when it comes to female portrayal on screen which tends to revolve around an ‘ideal’ women and the ‘other’ women.
@@mainaksadhya354 See I spoke of the construct of the ideal women and the other women as well. The way story moves ahead the gaze is always more on Vanraj’s second wife than on him for all the “problems”. This is exactly the nature of portrayal of women characters on daily soaps ; as pitted against each other, which is very rightly also pointed out in this review.
Did u ever watch any females centric movie?? The same crap is there also, but the things is there women are doing this with men... And men are portrayal as less than a men, they portrayal as loyal, ideal husband. How much their wife cheated on them but still they didn't ask for divorce...
@@jeweldcosta5384 there's nothing Interesting that.. All serials are made up of same plot... Just having extra marital affairs almost every serial..... Man every serial... My cousin watches star plus starting 8:00pm to all the way 10:30... Its so cringe... One day i ended beaten her.... Now she never watches star plus... :/
@@starweeb14yearsago83 I know that but as long as I'm enjoying the drama I'm good with it.. but I mostly watch only Anupama these days.. that's one of the best serials with a beautiful moral.. About your cousin I don't know anything but beating some1 for watching serials? Really?
Now, In this serial, Imlie is trying to win her in laws hearts & after some months they will show that she top the entire university. I mean how can be this possible. A 19 year old girl who always do the household work and they never show studying, how can she top in studies.
Crux of 90% of Indian serials - Main heroine can never be wrong, main hero will create chaos with 2 Or 3 girls but will never be blamed, the other girl(/s) will be portrayed as pycho obsessive villains to force the audience to support the lead. Story gaya tel lene...
Same bro. I'm so embarrassed I'm into this show, but Malini's character is so innocent, I feel her. And making her villan.. seriously.. and about their father, the director is showing him as a nice person.
True. So shameful, they've resorted to portraying Malini as a villian just to make the audience like/support Imlie. Ye show writers agar dikhaye ki Malini ne Imlie ka khun kar diya na tab v mujhe toh Malini hi pasand ayegi. They couldn't digest the fact ki audience ki favourite second lead h, main actress nahi. The real trash is Aditya himself.
@@FirEflymelody0707 actually the reason now people support imlie is that malinie herself first walked out of her marriage and left adi and imlie alone and then came as a villain making us hate malinie. (anyway i was in malinie's or imlie's place i would have filed an FIR and make him go to jail and then leave the city)
@@kritikaprasad2410 True, both the girls should focus on themselves instead of fighting for that spineless Aditya. Anyway, my main point was - I don't mind people supporting Imlie. She is the lead actress. I Just hate the way the writers completely changed Malini's character 360° because the audience were sympathetic towards her. I really liked her track with Kunal. They should have gone ahead with that or anything else instead of showing her plotting and planning like a psycho to win Aditya back.
Malini is educated gives equal importance to work and is sensible On the other hand imilie do household chores.Doesn't study but have a scholarship and a perfect maid sorry wife material If u watch anupama the kavya there priorities work over cooking.That's why she is a vamp.On the other hand our anupama priorities family and then work which is never shown in any scene like she is just roaming around her family Majority Indian women resonate with this household chores and fantasies work and these shows are just aag meih ghee If u observe in the show the college going girl is vamp misbehaving and give none importance to anything on the other Hand our lead is toned version of goddess
i remember one day i shouted, watching this show,.. - “Arey ye dono ladkiya is aadmi ko chhod kyu nahi deti.. kalesh hi khatam. Dono behen maze se rahengi, mast ekdm.” My mom was like 👁️👄👁️
These serials are internalised misogyny and also this seems like a weird fetish for these characters in the story to face discrimination and to just be treated like shit by men..like why???? What is so romantic about it??? Huge respect for you cause you make us aware what is happening in serials
I have a hunch that there are several Harvey Weinstein type people in Indian entertainment media who make these types of films and dramas. They've wielded enough power and money to prevent their scandals from going public, but their misogyny and dystopian values are screaming out loudly through regular shows that glorify mistreatment of women and show no accountability of men. I can't believe that people who write and produce such degrading content again and again can have normal healthy relationships with women in real life. I believe a big Indian wave of #MeToo scandals are on the horizon.
@@neelubird well said I agree 100℅ but as we are raising awareness about these problematic shows we also have to question who are their audience?? They might watch it for passing time but do they realize that it is actually slowly but surly are affecting their mental health?? Imagine the cast of the show, how those women decided that yeah they are gonna do it for success, what it was from their perspective
This one was much needed! I have been wondering for days how much Indian TV shows lag behind. Every other day you can witness women competing in the "best bahu pratiyogita" as if there is no bigger achievement. Instead of kicking the undeserving man out of their lives, women root for him. Imile, Sathiya 2, and Gum Hai Kisi Ke Pyaar Mein have really annoyed me the most. The scenes are just illogical. In Imile particularly, you can find every charater shedding tears on every little thing, that's depressing to watch. The same senseless, regressive content everywhere! The makers are so reluctant to put any extra effort and keep defying even common sense!
i must say from 8 to 11 all the shows of star plus are really shitty only anupama is bearable but that show mostly has 10 mins of break 10 mins of toshu, vanraj, baa and kavya cursing anupama 10 mins of anupama giving same lecture in a different manner with heavy hindi words
could not agree more!! Anupama is somewhat progressive but still there is always a rush to make the protagonist seem great and flawless with lectures and all!
Thank you for saying it loud and clear..the two main leads are irritating to an absolute annoying extent...they are the main villains..they actually ruined Malini's life.. Aditya who was in a romantic relationship for 7 years suddenly claiming it a friendship!! This is simply ridiculous...after marrying Malini he fell in love with imlie.. it IS called EMA, isn't it??imlie knew everything but malini knew nothing...they purposely kept quiet and now they want each. Other..malni is not a toy..when Aditya wanted he kept and then threw her away..what to say about imlie!! Despite knowing Malini is aditya's love and they are going to marry even after that she refused to divorce aditya..she forgot she needs to study...from wanting to be an officer her priority becomes to be aditya's wife only! And finally when she succeeded to lure and woo Aditya she was happy that aditya now loves her..they both kept romancing behind Malini's back without any guilt and shame..the only victim here is malini...after marriage you can see Aditya never left a moment to get close to malini...this is so cheap of him..now he wants a girl half of his age.. bloody shameless jerk... Malini invested 7 years of her life ..7 years is not a joke dude!!! and what she got!! Betrayel!! And a tag of divorcee!! I don't get it how can people support these two cheaters!!aditya and imlie!?? This show should be banned...
You've described it so well 😂 Most of the soap operas don't really care about the character arc. A strong and kind character will suddenly become a villain, or a villain becomes a sati savitri in an instant. I also get reminded of Gopi from saath nibhana sathiya, who was introduced as simple and timid girl but later on becomes a robot who's always shouting and being toxic to others.
Indian serial 's makers logic: Just introduce audience stronger female lead who fights with world for rights for few episodes then after few episodes she gonna marry to some rich family then what's next whether she is a doctor police or she has any job no one is going worry about that her sole job is perfect wife Daughter-In-Law who is going to please every family member and fights with villainess and other characters in the serial even the male lead don't have any role just to support female lead and creating situations for her to shine
I don't understand one thing why Indian serials so obsessed with a girl pleasing her in laws... I mean if they don't like it.. they don't it.. whts d concern man... Let it be... Why should u try to please everybody to a point where u lose ur self respect...
Can you just imagine Imlie's husband is a journalist in renowned newspaper but she don't know about photocopy. In one scene, she amazed by the photocopy machine that how this machine can make 100 copies of single paper form. nashe sirf actor nahi ye writer or director bhi karte hai.
Irrespective who her husband is! What baffles me is the fact that she doesn't have an ounce of idea of what Photocopy is despite being a brilliant student! I mean even in poorest village of India the bright students knows what Photocopy (or as we call it Xerox is).
This horrible show runs each morning in my house! There is so many wrongs in the show. The worst part is Imli is supposed to be minor when she was forcefully married off. But the show writers are hell bent on showing her as Adult. She acts and carry herself as Adult when it is clear she would be 15 at max as per the story so far. The whole story arc where she saves Aditya from terrorists was absurd and hilarious at the same. It is actually part of that genre: "It is so Bad that it is Good."
The thing I realised is how I was totally fine with this serial when it was telecasted in Bengali. It was very popular and my whole family used to watch. Though I started to watch because of some funny moments that were showcased and later stopped because of the repetitive storyline but I was always aware of what was happening because you don't need to watch everyday when your family is mad about that serial. But problem is I never tried to dissect it this way back then. Yes I was young but me thinking it was alright is alarming. This is what they are doing to the young minds. This seriously needs to stop.
The bollywood movies that he used reminded me of this too. I was so okay with the movies what are they feeding our brains. This is where pick me girls and being okay with misogyny is born in a young mind
I watched it too. I found it fucking hilarious. The family was more representative of a Bengali middle class than any other serials. The family was wholesome and treated Baha like their own daughter and supported her education. And Baha was an endearing character really. The fiancee's character was never ruined as bad as it's hindi counterpart , and the actress who played her was really talented. But obviously all other problems were there and the male lead was a piece of shit.
FINALLY !!!!!!!!! My mother watches this serial and curses all the characters except Malini. She HATES both the protagonists from Day 1 but still watches it to know what's going to happen to Malini. I was so happy when Malini was somewhat moving on with the lawyer but then the U-turn they made and the way they just made Malini into a villain was UGH!! I think both Malini and Malini's mother should have left their husbands and moved on but NO! They have to become the vamp of the story, showcasing imlie and Imlie's mother as 'gao ki bechari ' 'bholi- bhali ' when that's not even the POINT. it's the CHEATING, the INFEDILITY. It has nothing to do with gao-shehar.
My mom sympathizes with Malini, but thankfully she doesn't watch the serial anymore. It happened when Malini did a complete U-turn on that lawyer guy. My mom was like if she had any dignity she would ditch the journalist fool and be with the lawyer or strike out on her own.
Ikr i really hated the promotion of the idea of having more than one partner and it was all excused by "vroo its a comedy movieeeee" idc many people get their incentive mostly after watching such crappy movies and then ruin their and others lives
And here you go again. Another brilliant analysis, especially when you point out that nobody has issues with the problematic decision making of the man. Keep it up. I also have a suggestion, I would recommend watching ghum hai kisike pyaar mein from starplus as well, it would be great if you make a video about that show too.
ANUPAMA deserves a video as well. Boils my blood whenever I go through any of the episode because of my family. Regressive characters, clichéd drama (loud and depressing), inconsistent character arcs and illogical writing.
Depressing and repetitive, the two word describing the serial. Suddenly Anupama is strong Suddenly ba is gud and Suddenly Anupama is crying and everyone is against her..bruh repetitive thing since day one. Just manipulation
@@sakshimudgal8809 True. No efforts from the writers. There is literally no continuation of emotions. People get easily manipulated by anyone people convinently feel guilty after 2 episodes. Repeat the cycle with every characters
Even Ghum hai kisike pyaar also deserves a video. My god the way they showed a 28 year old man marrying a 18 year old girl in the name of responsibility and then torturing ( both by him and his family) really needs to be called out. The worst part is the male lead is an IPS and he is constantly abusing his wife.
@@tejasthakkar618 You are absolutely right. Anupama is a senseless serial. I feel so bad for the cast. They are so good and could have done so much better if the storyline was borderline believable. Even after divorce staying under the same roof and dragging the flitting of emotions like every other hour for every episode is traumatizing. I wonder how any remotely sensible audience can bear the nonsense!!!
I remember being forced to watch this everyday during lunch (because my mom wants to) and slowly getting hooked onto it... I was also rooting for Malini all the way till the writers ran out of secrets to spill ( There are a lot of scerets ). Once all secrets were out in the open , writers just started the regular Saas , Bahu , 2nd Wife nonsense and finally my Mom had enough and I was freed too... 😂
Thank god my mom only watched like one or two shows that too only on star plus. Zee n colors had more ridiculous shows imo. I always had sab and sony(only for cid) on repeat . We don't even have cable anymore
Omg... I feel soo grateful .. 😂😅neither my mom or mu grandparents watch serials... They hate them...🙃😅😂 Even if I watch any (have only watched krpkab nd yrhpk😊) they'll be like what crap are u watching?😌😂😂
Even in Malayalam we had the same serial "neelakuyil "...same plot..but the wife's character won everybody's heart..they ended the serial with imli's character becoming a doctor and Aditya and rani reunite and have a child
I only empathized for Malini at the beginning of the show but then they completely turned her into a villain out of nowhere. And how did Imlie forget all about her educational aspiration as soon as she got married like what?!
It's truth when he says "Malini is the most beautiful fiance anyone could have dreamt of. She is loyal, concern and loving" and also "Imlie, who gets jealous and insecure when he (Aditya) is romancing with Malini".👏👏👏
To believe that this serial is presented to the audience, in today's context is despicable. Disgusting. Nobody is even looking at the fact that an 18 ye old is shown to be wed with a 36 yr old. And though lacks basic english.. is a topper in her English medium college. Not putting her down for not knowing the language.. but the CATASTROPHE that this show is!
@@mehergill4729 Anyone above the age of 23 dating/marrying a 18 year old is just plain weird and disgusting , i'd say even 23 is pushing it. Taking into account that this man is a well known journalist and is a 7 year long relationship with another woman. Logically he HAS to be at least in his early to mid 30s. Yes 18 is the legal age but ethically and morally its still wrong. 18 is still a teenager.
I appreciate you reviewing these serials. There is a huge audience that watches these shows and gets influenced by them. It's nice of you to factor them in and put up a mirror to them through the process when most of us would not bother due to our own (sometimes justifiable) prejudices.
I love, how the comment section is.. Everyone giving their genuine opinion.. No spam comments.. No shitty things.. That's why i love this channel most.. Thanks Jammy for give us such amazing content..
the only shows I have ever enjoyed watch on Indian TV is "ek hazaaron mein meri behna hai" and "iss pyaar ko kya naam doon" those were the best days lmao
People hated this show because it was about extramarital affair. Now people are loving shows like Imli, Anupama gum hai kisike pair mai! What an irony!
@@isratsarker7930 The difference b/w Silsila and Anupamaa and GHKKPM and Imlie is that in the first two shows the women don't go back to the cheating men or try to be like please come back in my life or manipulated them.
More than the male character, I have the irritation towards the character arch of Imli, whereby what just mattered to her was to love her forced husband, leaving behind all opportunities to educate herself and move on.. Even when Aditya told her so many times that he loves Malini (In the earlier episodes), she was like han thik aap unse pyar kijiye but ab meri aapse shaadi ho gyi toh mujhe toh aap hi se pyar krna h (she didn't even know him phle se 🤷♀️)
It was so illogical to show Malini as the villain when she yelled at Imlie for putting sindoor in her maang I mean bro if Imlie was so innocent why is she trying to live like a suhaagan bhai tune hi toh bola na tu bich mein nahi aa skti kaisi hipocrisy hai ye?
In the earlier days when I was a child, I felt very irritated upon seeing the problematic stories upon the serials and thought that I would write a sensible and thoughtful story and portray them in a way that the trp system doesn't halts the quality. I grew up to realise I would fail terribly and better not to pursue this :( This entire media is more about money than art and social responsibility
@@TriedRefusedProductions bro, It would be way better if you've made this video in hindi. Actually, I want my mom to watch this video. She's so obsessed with this serial, so much so that she keeps revisiting the older episodes, wo bolti hai. (I love the cast, they act so well) and that title song of the serial- sajna ho sajna ho....) She knows that this serial is serial is so problematic but still keeps watching. 🤦♂️😪
I keep remembering tapasya (aired for a while), diya aur baati, uttaran, yeh hai mohobatten, qubool hai, khelti hai zindagi aankh micholi, Tere shehar mai (which was a refreshing storyline) and dehleez. These were so popular in 2014-16 and absolutely had the narrative of strong female lead abd yet, missed the mark so badly.
@@orion2176 but it was quite real though specially her night classes was something to learn from. I haven't seen d end but remember she became officer na n helped hubby to become a chef or win competition i think so . Acha show tha yaar
I don't understand why malini's fans wants Aditya and malini to be united Even they united also there is no guarantee that Aditya will not fall in love with another woman Aditya does not deserve Malini Malini deserves better guy than Aditya Malini should move on in her life To highlight imli these makers are showing Malini as a weak character Instead of it they should show Malini as a strong and independent character They should show like Malini should move on in her life And she should teach Aditya imli dev a lesson such that they should understand what a person feels when he\she got cheated in the name of love and marriage and make them realize their mistake
I feel the most disappointing thing about Indian cinema is that you will never see a character development it stays the same if not deteriorates. Women presented as aspirational in the beginnings become just a housewife as the show progress and the main topic is always women tearing women down. Men are always presented as calm, sort out, loves their mother and always doubt their wives. Their is always a third wheel who loves the guy so much she goes as much as to kill the female lead. And it's super annoying how the mc never dies and if they do their is punarjanam or plastic surgery. It's so disappointing how most of the characters never has their own arc no character background nor any dream they are just there.
This is literally everything that I've been saying since this show started, like the plot they promoted during the promo has just VANISHED! my mother watches this show and I can't even stand the sound of this show and I change rooms when it comes up, they were trying to make the audience sympathize with the lead since so long but nothing worked so now they've literally made malini, which was the best character in the show, a psysho villain who blames imlie for literally ANYTHING! Till now all Aditya does is change sides as per his convenience, he just can't pick a side. He doesn't trust imlie, doesn't love malini, wants to be with imlie and wants to be friends with malini too. His character is selfish and very arrogant.... I could literally go on and on about this show because this had me SO frustrated because nothing makes sense and the plot is DISGUSTING! characters are so UNDEFINED, they can change ANYTIME. Thanks for making this hahahah, at least someone is calling out the bs.
Yaa man and its so disgusting that just to lift up that half brained man the story writers make the women fight. They just reinforce the stereotype that women cant be friends and that they are gonna fight for worthless men.🤢🤢🤮🤮
This show is so frustrating! I feel my blood pressure increasing whenever I come across a clip form it on instagram. It is very badly written indeed - very inconsistent. Each character contradict thier own characteristics. Another awfully written show is ghum hai kisi k pyaar mein where like Aditya Thripathi, the male "protagonist" is introduced as the most honourable and just IPS officer but as the shows progesses, we see him do the most dumb things ever. And the most frustrating part about both these shows is that the male leads engage in questionable actions - but they genuinly believe that they have done nothing wrong - there is no remorse on their face or in their words. The sadest part - they have high trps for whatever reason.
I love how these shows highlight the most important problems which prevail in our nation: Lack of education: Ghar mai ek bhi insaan ke paas poora dimag nahi hota Unemployment: Sab ghar me bas har baat par reaction dene ka kaam karte hai Patriarchal society: Pati is never wrong
Thank you so much for bringing this to your channel. It has become so important to make people realise that they supporting wrong doings of Aditya and Imli. I totally agree with you when you said SHE HAS A POINT and making Malini as villian is insane
The second season of "Bade achhe lagte hain" is beautifully crafted. This show is very positive in the era of shows filled with infidelity, vamps, revenge. Where in the first season Ram was arrogant but good human but in this season Ram is very gentle, supportive and person with a beautiful heart as well as Priya. Hope Ekta Kapoor won't spoil it like her other serials.
Yesss... If we're talking about toxic shows, we need to shed some light on the positive ones as well... Both the seasons of that show come as a breath of fresh air... Cast is amazing... And the title track has all my heart ❤️❤️
@@harshitasrivastava5582 ITV always show Step mother as wicked but in this serial at present they have show her as a good person. Don't know in future how they will showcase her.
@@bhargavisarode I guess ram's mother will be shown in a negative light as it was so in the first season. Many things are similar in both the seasons 👀
I don't know man, lets wait a week or two. Such good stories don't usually get great response, and then writers are forced to resort to tried and test way to farm views.
Actually set India's shows are very underrated too. I feel very bad when I see that a wonderful show with unique concepts like marriage counselling and all (kuch rang s3) is getting trps of 0.3-0.5. Problem is the audience too, jo dikhega wohi to bikega.
The same serial was shown in Malayalm 2-3 years back, but the best part is Aditya and Kasthuri (Imlie) never had feelings for each other. Finally Aditya and Rani (Malini) reunite with each other. BTW Jammy, you should review Ghum Hai Kisi ke Pyar mein, second highest rated serial on star plus despite having a stupid storyline.
Most of the indian serials now-a-days are running on these extra marital affair theme. Udaariyaan,silsila,imli,ghum hai kisike pyar mein. These get higher trp as well. In udariyaan serial male lead was cheating his wife by having a relation with his sister in law. But here as well jasmine is shown as the main villain. Now fateh is feeling guilty and jasmine is becoming evil. I guess gradually fateh will turn good and tejo will forget everything how he cheated on her and start loving him. Here also two sisters are fighting over one characterless man.
The actor who plays Malini- Mayuri Deshmukh- is terrific. I've watched a Marathi serial of her's "Khulta Kali Khulena", a drama, and the story line in that one was beautiful. Her character was well fleshed out. Disappointed in her choice here.
I remember feeling such an emotion during Balika Vadhu. While at first Gauri Jagya were hated for getting married (which was okay because both knew about his marriage to Anandi) but eventually Gauri was made into a hateful character and Jagya the bechara ladka. Finally Jagya realized his "mistake of how Gauri has ruined his life" On the other hand Anandi was the Goddess of colors tv. Always forgiving, no anger, just a sad but forgiving woman. The problem is how unrealistic women are shown in Indian TV shows. One is always the demon and other is Goddess Gosh why am I obsessed with Balika Vadhu 😂
But atleast in that shows there were tym and other charcters that showed both could be wrOng and after a point of tym anandi did became strong and stood against everything and jagya got to know that he was at fault and gauri cant be blamed for everything
@@devikanarsinghani6881 True, Jagya did realize that he and Gauri were wrong. But I remember there was a sequence where Gauri returned after few years as a patient to Jagaya and Ganga.. She tried to wreck their marriage .. Although she realized she was wrong but the writers always wrote her as someone who is greedy and manipulate... There was never any good quality shown about her.. The writers tried their best to show her as a selfish and lier.. Jagya had good as well as bad shades about him. But Gauri was shown as pure evil with very little redemption arc and Anandi turned strong and bold but she had absolutely no flaws. Gauri was the demon and Anandi was Goddess. But I still admire Balika Vadhu for trying something new and how brilliant it was made in initial days. Surekha Sikri, Anup Soni, Smita Bansal, Neha Marda, and even Avika and Pratyusha were at their best in the shows.. Even Anandi's mother was absolutely perfect.. Not many credit is given to her. I loved Sugan's character and how brilliantly Vibha portrayed her but she as a character was also almost useless in later part of show. Things were good in the first arc of the show however things turned a bit bad when Gauri was shown as a pure villain.. Gauri was initially introduced as a sensitive village girl who really wants to move on from her child marriage but she was later shown as a pure villain. Also show went absolutely crazy in Anandi Shiv married life phase. It was nothing but saans bahu show after their marriage.
I would still allow some slack to Balika Vadhu if it seemed regressive since the show was on TV more than a decade ago. But the concept "Child Marriage" was unique for a show in the late 2000's, so I'll give the show credit. Also I think it was nice that Anandi and Jagya moved on in their own lives after growing up and forgetting that they were once married during their childhood. But there is no need to have a sequel to Balika Vadhu now, in 2021.
And the writers might have screwed up by making Anandi feel like "We got married when we were kids. So we should stay married forever." I'm so glad this didn't happen. Unlike that Pinjra Khubsurti Ka, which is just Stockholm Syndrome on steriods. The wife is being tortured physically by her husband and still loves and obeys him.🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
To be frank, Aditya deserves neither imli nor Malini He should be kept in jail He married Malini by hiding his first marriage and without giving divorce to his first wife which is illegal Atleast he should tell about his about first marriage to any of his family members And he should give divorce to imli and help her in studies as a good friend. Malini should be like a good mentor to imli After completion of imli 's studies Aditya should find a groom for imli and unke shaadi karna hai But instead of it aditya 7 saal ka relation ko break Kiya within few months But this makers are showing him as a heroic character And even some audience also supporting Aditya And imli is a 19 year old girl and her age is not the right age for marriage and love Of course the minimum age for girls to marriage is 18 years But It's better for a 19 year old girl to concentrate on studies instead of marriage and love She has attraction and infatuation towards Aditya and it is not love To highlight imli these makers are spoiling and destroying malini's character and showing her as negative which is actually a positive and supporting character This serial is encouraging extra marital affairs
This could've been an amazing show if it was processed with the right path at least which I expected at the beginning of the show. If the marriage was forceful and illegal 1. They could've just reported it. Could've got separated legally if required. Aditya could've married Malini after all this and lived happily (as he claimed several times that he loved Malini) and could've helped Imlie for her education financially and could've taken her responsibility until she became independent. And after all this too, if the creators wanted to expand the storyline, Imlie could fall in love with some other right guy at right time after a leap of some years and could educate the villagers about their orthodox mentality. 2. Malini could easily get legal help. (At first place she doesn't even have to bother about a person like Aditya) but if anyway she doesn't want to leave him, she could just get legal help as Aditya and Imlie's wedding was illegal (as claimed by both multiple times). There was no point of trying to make a character horrible. but yahan toh alag hi chal rha h. M pdhi likhi intelligent professor hu toh m toh chaalein chal k hi apna pati vapis lungi. Law and judiciary gyi tel lene
Everything about this show and it's fanbase scares me but I am glad people are calling it out for it's bs plot. The main antagonist of this show has to be Malini's mother, father, and Aditya. Imlie is written to be a Mary Sue who's job is to be perfect in everything with no flaws. The only character whom I loved watching and sympathized with was Malini. She had flaws, but she embodied an image of a independent and earnest working woman. You can't help but feel bad especially seeing how much injustice was done to her character. Her dad had affair, her mother's constant nagging, her ex losing interest bc he married an 18 y/o who happens to be her half-sister.. Imagine being on her shoe with all these issues. Imagine your sister stealing your man who you were in a happy relationship with for 9 years😭 I can't help but see a Kashibai in her..
This is the problem whether its makers or audience no one here wants to have a flawed humane character in show because they just don't get that people are not just good or bad . People who have problems can have issues but still can be a good person .
@@mg-cx5tv exactly that the problem with Indian tv industry they don't show female protagonist as flawed character, she is so righteous, never can go wrong. She is already perfect, there is no space of character development. That why they are the most un relatable character of the show. Always there is one woman of the show too perfect. Where another woman is too antagonist. Don't have value for character how they dramatically change. No character is stable. If we see character like malini. Who empathise to other. Care, see this she must be character who has morals, how her morals change over few week. I like one show on sony tv it was 2012 show. Dekha ek khawab were female lead show as selfish, she always learn from her mistakes, but never deny her mistake accept it ,and make it right. She has good heart, strong will power. She is ziddi. Every character in that show was grey,
Even my mother stopped watching it due to the cat fight going on between two "sisters" on a stupid boy who was so truthful that he didn't tell his 7 years old girlfriend that he was forcefully married lol 😂
@@anupamaMall another level of cringe. And everything was still bearable until malini decided to leave but now she wants her husband back and she'll do anything to win him over.
@@anupamaMall if independent and education it the reason to leave idiot men. Tab toh abhi tak toh female movies ke saare husbands apni toxic wife ko chhod chuke hotein...😄(sarcasm)
The Bengali show had its problems, but still it connected with a lot of people because it was less about these three characters and more about the culture of the people of the tribal region of Junglemahal. The character of Satyakam, the Maoist extremist movement and the clash of Urban and rural, had some excellent potrayals. Infact, the main theme of Ishti Kutum was the Jungle Mahal and the culture and traditions of the people. Very late in its story did it divert into bullshit stories (like most serials do). And the charactrr of Malini was excellently potrayed- she was not a villain, she was independent woman with her own struggles. And Baha was not the character that they have shown in Imli - she became independent, strong woman in tbe end. Malini left Aditya after he confessed
This serial didn't actually end. Stop giving spoilers, if anybody care But after this serial it became common for every serial to have either polygamy or village/low society girl or both every time. For more TRP keep an annoying accent for the main character
Even the starting seems different...like i don't really remember but ig the man had married the girl to save her from a forced marriage or something nd his grandma who used to live in the village actually supported it...like here they seem to have straight up villains...
@@ankanmaiti9864 oh my god. Yes that voice. Eeeeeek in my head. Which tribal speaks like that. Ma go ma ki golar awaj.mone hoe jor kore korto na emni chilo ,k jane. Porer dike accent gayab. Ajob
@@randomlyswatching9481 Best thing she spent her entire +2 and college life, means 5 years in the city and her accent didn't even change an inch. Whereas in reality we see people speaking in American accent just by watching some Netflix shows 😂
Serial Anupamaa: -Wife and Ex wife under one roof -Independent working woman is a vamp -Gullible house wife is the hero but would not take a stand for herself until she is cheated on by her unthankful husband -Also, once the house wife finallywakes up and starts working she still strongly believes it is equally important to do the household chores by herself because her family likes it.
Yeah and her two children, especially the eldest son constantly shaming her for making choices and has such a regressive mindset even after being such an educated folk. And another successful woman is the biggest villain of their lives and everybody hates her because she likes to ruin their happiness. And the irony is that it's one of the most watched serials with highest trp every week.
most irritating thing in this serial: long heavy worded replies by Anupama on any situations .wo jo har bat pe lambe lambe lecture zadati hai...Himmat 0 % Lecture 100 % :)
Well don't worry if this goes toe to toe in Sree Moyi's path she will end up marrying the guy who had a crush on her... trying to be happy on her own terms... the only support which she will always have is her 2nd son. He will support her in all costs and also her 1st father in law... all will go back and forth once bad then good then bad again. So don't worry she will break the kitchen and cook only for the parts who supported her not the whole family if and only if they follow the bengali 1.
yk the funniest part is...her ✨ex✨ husband, who's already married to his girlfriend of 6-7 years is now ealous of the new guy, when Anupama isn't even aware of his crush. and the son? damn! he had a girlfriend, his father has another wife, he left his ✨maa✨ for two extra rooms is now against the idea of her having a love interest smh
Jammy should do a review on shows like Kuch Rang Pyaar ke Aise bhi. Comparatively, the show, especially its second season, has a fresher concept. I think we should delve deeper into shows which are at least trying to give something new to the mass.
They hired stupid Harneet as writer for S3, and that’s why it’s such an epic disaster. It’s so bad, so inconsistent that 90% of fans don’t even consider it canon. S1 and 2 were carefully crafted by Durjoy Dutta. Obviously, as we know for Harry Potter series, “cursed child” is never considered canon because it’s written by someone else. Similarly, S3 isn’t and will never be a continuation of the story for kuch rang
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it's always the educated, independent women who turns into a villain
Yes. 100 % in this drama world. Get educated, do not like being disrespected; then the solution is to become villain, and take revenge via the most insane ways.
It's because the audience starts liking them and they obviously cant have the main lead be overshadowed
I hate these shows
Probably you have not met a village girl then….
God seriously!
Yess ikr
“One guy and two girls” is the plot of 90% of Indian Tv serials
I am surprosed you didn't say 100%. I was wondering is there a show without it?
@@flamingunicorn4498 I guess SabTV shows 🙌🏼
At some point, they all shove love triangles down our throats... But I just realized that ekta's all three Bhagyas are running on 2 girls-1 guy concept right from the beginning 😂
Because that's the fantasy of Indian men ke "kas main bhi!"😜 and hidden fear of Indian women ki kanhi unke pati to?😂
Aur yeh serial ke producers usi ko capitalise kar ke note chapte hain
@@random_person_on_internet I hate how a woman's only role in the story has to be that of a dutiful wife to "fight" for her husband's affection or become a doormat for her in-laws!
Fun fact: They turned Malini into a Villain because She was getting more support From the audience than The lead Ones get
that's actually a not-so-fun-fact
Absolutely not.
Malini was definitely not a trp aunties favourite,she only had some teenage nibbis fans who don't even contribute trp but gives long lecture on social media.
@@Vijay-k5f Really? Our moholle ki aunties loved her. I never watched the show myself but it seems like a nightmare 😅
@@yangeneSame😂 My mohalle wali aunties too loved Malini sm.
@@Vijay-k5f maybe the teenagers have enough sense to not contribute to trp
let's be honest. The show would've been amazing if both Malini and imlie leaves aditya as they both start a new life as "sisters b4 misters" while Imlie pursues her career and malini becomes a successful prof.
Anyone's not gonna talk about how her complexion changed with her story arc ( dark when she was sidelined, light when she was centered/or something like that)....
@@unmesh yeah that's true, ITV serials are colorist and it's gonna take years to change the "gora hi sundar rang hai" mentality 🤦🏽♀️
@@unmesh but in this series imlie dark complexion thi show me kahi bhi ye nahi bola hai ki imli kharab dikti she is pretty.
And both turn out be bi
That would have been so nice .. and when I saw the trailer I thought the show was going to be about how women are getting empowered and fighting the old patriarchal ways but here it's just like the other one's show casing the same sexist and problematic scenes
A few years ago I was discussing movies with my colleagues and someone brought up Bajirao Mastani. And I hear one my colleagues (who is a woman) go on a rant about how Mastani was the worst character and she was the one who broke up Bajirao and Kashibai. Why doesn't anyone hold Bajirao accountable for marrying another woman?
Patriarchal society🤬
@The Croissant 🥐 It still exist in some culture and community in 2021. 😬
Internalized misogyny
I have seen many movies ….not only Indian but some foreign movies , and I really don’t get why male lead is not hold accountable for cheating. How can they portray ….like cheating is fine and husband is not wrong… wrong is only wife or other women. On the other hand ….your husband/ boyfriend is cheating … he is the one u love and he betrays you… how can you …not ..beat him to his pulp..and move on… Instead of asking ur boyfriend ..why he did that.. all of them goes to other women and pull their hairs… and he smartly get rid from these nonsense. Mistake is of male lead but writer smartly portrays that wife is not proper..or good looking.. I hope in upcoming years these types of serials and movies get vanished….because they have an impact …in our society .
Really though.
Star Plus has this age old problem. They start the show with a female character which is supposed to break stereotypes and is independent. Cut to 50 episodes later she's back as the naive typical ITV bahu
P. S - I'm still in shock bout how these girls are shown studying for two mere shots and end up topping the university (cries in misery)
Have you watched Ganga or breaking free, oh my goodness, it's literally the same thing , girls study and strives to be become someone in a unjust society, then insert love interest, and suddenly her goal becomes uniting the family and winning over her husband, such a waste of potential
I am Bengali and I don't know why my housemaids were just mad for this show
every marathi serial is the same as well
Similar things with GHKKPM. Sai is a medical student. There are hardly five shots where she has been holding a fat book while the entire family shouts at her. And then lo and behold she tops the exam, bags two scholarships and continues to make nashta for everyone
@@priya-xr3rr that serial with the fat girl as protagonist is somewhat unique but same however it still has the same typically villian arcs
Aditya married Malini because his marriage with Imlie had no validity in his eyes, but as soon as he fell for her the marriage miraculously got valid? Makes sense.
This show itself remake of hindi serial mohi
@@happyworld6740 mohi was still better
Anyone's not gonna talk about how her complexion changed with her story arc ( dark when she was sidelined, light when she was centered/or something like that)....
Imlie fans are just brainless...
Worst t.v serial
Even in Padmaavat, they portrayed Shahid Kapoor’s first wife as an irritating vamp. Shahid Kapoor cheated on her but nobody said a word against his character, wo deepika ke peeche peeche jaake “naino wale ne” sunn ke maze le rha tha jungle mein😂
Yeah
Riiight?!!! I always wondered if I was the only one who empathised with the supposed vamp. Lol.
But in those time marrying more girls was treated as political thing. Secondly husband used to treat everyone equally.
@@nishugowda6172 yeah a big joke
Similar with Bajirao Mastani
Malini was such a beautiful character at one time, who was strong, independent self righteous and stood up for imlie whenever Aditya misbehaved with her, she never believed in the class divide between imli and her and treated her like a little sister even when she didn't know about that. And that's why the audience sympathised with her, because she was genuinely a great woman. But that didn't sit well with the makers because the leads weren't getting the love and respect. And then they ruined her, and ruined her character so badly that it's almost unbelievable. It just makes me so sad for Malini.
Finally.... someone got the idea I've been trying to tell. I remember the time when Malini left Aditya to make Imli happy and everyone accused her for being a cheater, her own family abandoned her for their so called "Izzat" and even the lead lovebirds Mr n Mrs Tripathi ignoring her feelings, stalling the divorce, she still stood tall and righteous and everyone loved her. Then the makers realized that the show is named *"IMLI"* so they did Malini dirty. Like how obsessed you can be with the lead of the show that you make her a Devi and every other woman a bi*ch!!!! And the siblings who knew Aditya Imli secret... it was clearly them who supported the couple but when Malini lied about KC they judged her character.
The show is so messed up that I don't watch it anymore.... it's depressing how according to the showbiz a woman can't wish happiness for other woman (the heroine) and always have to be a vamp.
@@hershey4394 so true . The start of this was really great. But the way things are going on right now,I hate it.
It's a remake .. Copy paste you know.. Nothing new.. It's a irritating show offcourse.. Just by listening this story sounds creepy..
@@santosinipani9498 I know. Dude because of these kind of daily soaps women are suffering even after being educated. Matlab kuch bhi yaar. Purane zamane se bahar nikalna bhi nahi hai. Aur nikalna chahte bhi hai toh people pull her back. Isse better toh Anupama serial hai. I know it's a little pakau but atleast waha pe she's taking a stand for herself even after all those problems .
The same thing happened in the Bengali version. Moon (Malini) was one of the best woman character written for any daily soap, but later they just ruined that and made her the vamp. They brought other love interests in Moon's life one after another and made her the characterless woman. The makers just can't stand a strong, independent and righteous woman in daily soap.
Indian serials have one theme. No matter how bad you are treated, you ultimately end up loving your husband, no matter badly he may have treated you. This is what our serials teach women. No self respect, no justice. Just forgiveness.
Even if there is a character who is strong independent and takes a stand for herself, she is made a negative character just like they did with Malini.
Absolutely right. Reflection of the society
Same thing I feel when I watch any female web show that why husband doesn't ask for divorce? They just forgive their cheater wifes...
lol it just caters to their target audience who are from Indian traditional society..like female web shows create other kind of cringe ..at the end only cringe and craps are generated to their target audience based on their fantasies ..
We need to stop watching them I hate people like this shit
This is where i must applaud the jury members of Kerala State television awards for not giving the "best Serial" award for any of the shows because of their problematic themes, similar actions must be taken all around the country
wow is that real!
@@TriedRefusedProductions Yes, even i couldn't believe it first
@@TriedRefusedProductions Yup, it is... But there are a few good ones, that I think the jury could have given the award, too.
@@TriedRefusedProductions Yes
@Manish Suresh actually that serial is based on Kevin Neenu love story
Men are usually never held accountable for their wrongs. A woman making the tiniest of tiny mistakes is treated like the biggest crime. But a man cheating on his wife, no problem, just give him a redemption arc in the last one week of the serial and all is well !
It's a universal truth that men usually never have to face the consequences of their actions, neither in fiction nor reality .
But still men will say
FEmiNsIm BaD
Don't try to logic with sexist pigs 😌
Reminds me of Ishk Par Zor Nahi, where the male lead destroyed the female lead's life, he took her job away and her home, forced her to live in poverty. And after the revelation, he was immediately forgiven by the female lead. Like he destroyed her life but it's ok. No accountability. Then few days later he again yells at her, mocks her for being an orphan and throws her out of the house. Again after the revelation, the female lead immediately forgives him. No accountability lol.
I like that show so much but the story after the leap was full of shit.
So true. This is the sad reality
Because always says women don't want that...women needs to wake up..they chose to suffer or make other woman suffer....man is like king and enjoying the toxicity. He causee it and ask him nitbother woman
@@Riz64019 they don't "choose" to be in tha suituaton what are you talking about?
U saw that shit??
Jammy: yes
What did it cost???
Jammy: mansik santulan
It
Costed
Time
Too
I understood that reference
This serial is so toxic and problematic. A man is conveniently married to 2 women and they are fighting like cats for this pathetic human. Seriously? Do these guys even give a thought before airing the episodes? Everything about this show is wrong. Imlie's father is a cheater but his wife is a bad woman. On top of it, the show is aired at 8:30 pm, prime time slot. Ugh, so frustrating.
Back to back toxicity my wife watches them all and I have no other place to run, 3 hours of torture every day
@@TheTravellerVikas very sad
@@TheTravellerVikas man feeling sorry for you..
Makers want their serial to be discussed like this, they know they are promoting toxic and problematic serial which has no sense in it. Since people are making video of their review on such serial, audience would end up watching this serial and starts giving opinion about how wrong things are happening with certain characters.
Blame the women who are the majority viewers of this shitty tv show. If women stop watching this shit, they will stop making them. Women must fight against this kind of portrayal in cinema and serials
Another thing about the Tripathi family - They're supposed to be a middle-class family. But they still have a house that has apparently endless hallways, rooms designed by interior designers and two people for domestic help. And all of this is while having the whole family (but Aditya) unemployed -.-
It lacks so much common sense that it's not even realistic or relatable.
My bro says it all the time
First of all go and search who are.middle class people.when you come middle class people they are different stages of middle class people high,low middle class people high people like professionals like doctots,lawyers,some buinessmen so u tell that they cannot have big house.if you wealthy people it is small amount of society
It is always the educated, independent and opinionated woman who is turned into a villain and then these serials are used to gaslight people into thinking that the more educated the woman is the more difficult she is to handle
And the funniest part is this- After the show ends the Female Lead will post some bold pictures on social media, get trolled and then go on to write a sonnet on how Independent women are ostracised; when they themselves made a living playing into this mentality.
I have watched the Bengali version of the show "ishti kutum" as a child and I always wondered how did the adults around me who watch this show could support its toxicity. I always found it extremely problematic even as a child mainly because I felt very sympathetic towards the fiancée of the male lead. The educated, independent woman is always seen as a "problem" even when she did nothing wrong. Good to see someone calling it out
Problem of bengali serials.
I've grown up in a Bengali household. I can vouch on the fact that my grandparents have watched the shit out of that show, (ishti kutum) and many other shows which do nothing but promote toxic and sexist tropes. I've never found much a problem in these shows until I started to recognize and acknowledge what the general indian media provides. Our parents love these movies, and it makes me wonder if it's the nostalgia of the show/movie that makes them still watch and support them or is it just plain ignorance.
@@saikatbag3961 problem of Indian serial*
@@rrriths so true!!
I was 5 years old and my mom would watch it and obviously i had to watch too
Malini and Aditya were in relationship for 7 years and all he said is friendship..he never felt anything for her but he married her..worst part is he is the hero of the show..now the track is Malini is doing bad with Aditya and imlie..no dear u both did worst to Malini
Aditya is great he was in relationship with perfect girl malini for 7 years , ready to die in pagadandia for her , after marriage he had first night with her, romanced with her many times after & before marriage, & suddenly with in few months he says that this is friendship & emli is my love !
Exactly, people still b supporting imli n aditya like seriously🙁
Guys from this show are characterless… after 7 years of relationship one (Adithya)says it’s just friendship ..no love… Even after being married having a child One (Dev)hooked up with another woman saying it was love….. comedy part is being legally married Malini stays away And Imli always stays in adithya’s house… and we all are ok with it🤣😜🤣 … no problem… oh god why we are watching this 😳
@@sridevi-yt4kv it sucks I only watch anupama
@@sridevi-yt4kv exactly ...but worst part ever is , emli an 19 yrs soo called ' toper ' (yes , so called ) never even thought in her dreams to do studies sinse she snatched aditya from malini, in fact college se nikale jane k bad bhi use apani studies ki nahi malini k khilaf proof dhundhane ki padi he !!matlab study jaye bhad me hum to babusaheb ko chin k rahenge !!! despite saying , babasaheb hum aap our malini didi k bich me nahi aana chahate , continuously bothering & interfering their newly married life , even getting jealous bye seeing malini & aditya closer who r legally married couple ...she is just planning & behaving like an 35 year desperate bimbo who ruined her sisters life , even all tripathi's life for her desire !!!that's why she is getting more hated despite being main lead ...
Just a request, can you please talk about the content shown in another Starplus show, Ghum Hai kisi key pyaar meiin. The latest week's episodes. The male lead locks up the female lead and stops her from going to college cuz she refuses to attend a Puja. They presented this entire locking up thing in a sarcastic manner by playing a funny background music!!
The show is not just toxic, but is also normalising emotional and verbal abuse by the family.
Dude seriously I also started watching it with my mum. And got hooked seeing Sai fighting with everyone for herself. Initially it was kind of entertaining but gosh it just degraded from there. She is showcased as 19 year old forced to marry a a guy way older than her and then everyone arround her tortures her in some way or another. Even the people who seem to care for her manipulates her into staying in toxic relationship.Regressive Bullcrap this show is.
Was here to request the same, thank god that I am not the only one who thinks the same about the show
No, he(jammy) likes dever bhabhi chutiyapa but he hates jija shaali chutiyapa😂😄
Damn i was about to comment the same i saw this yesterday unfortunately and im glad i never watch tv. But this is just sad i remember the days when there was júst one channel DD national and it had all shows and also less drama and "dhoom tana nana music"
Moreover every one in the family supported it .. I mean seriously...
“Filhal chai pilete hain” is even my solution to every problemXD
Yeap relatable for me too
I'm not even kidding but whenever I'm stressed the first thing I do is go drink a cup of and then think
Yup ..mine too😂
Isse addiction kehte hain
😂😂😂
Malini was the best character in the show in the starting, she treated Imlie as her sister despite she came to know everything that happened b/w her and Aditya, she was a Strong and independent woman who decided to leave Aditya cause he doesn't loved her, but now yikes a full 180° turn in her character, they made her a stereotypical villian where she wants to ruin Imlie life 💀
I m not watching imlie from Jan but going through the glimpse of its insta clips I got that.Ppl started liking malini more than imlie but imlie is the main character they r showing malini as negative.
Didn't got one thing Aditya mutely married imlie okay he was threatened so I cld understand the situation but why adi didn't told anything to malini before marriage 😂😂😂. Maine ye nhi deka ki malini ko kaise pta laga imlie adi ki shadhi ke bare mein but it feels strange how adi went to imlie from malini😂😂😂😂isse jyada confusion Tou history mein year ka logic samajke yaad krne mei v nhi laga
My point is why these shows ALWAYS portray modern/ educated, carear oriented woman as evil
@Nini Lili Author I hadnt watched its any epi but before 2021i used to watch glimpse of some epi on tv
I agree ..I loved malini character but they destroyed malinis characters and also her life
Tbh I found Imlie annoying in alot of ways, she compares her relationship with Aditya to the one that he has with Malini (this is around the time Malini and Aditya get married) dude, they were in a relationship for years and you knew him for what? A day? What are you so upset about?
I always had this feeling that why do these serials promote extra marital affairs and still gain so much TRP and you worked on it . Fab !
They want to glorify every pathetic things in the name of it can be happening.. They only want to make ppl to have doubt about ourselves.. Brainwashing is like that
Because this involves drama. Nothing serious about it.
Anyone's not gonna talk about how her complexion changed with her story arc ( dark when she was sidelined, light when she was centered/or something like that)....
@@unmesh ya I did but now I don’t watch any serials , Indian Television serials suck 👎🏼
I've noticed this with star plus. They come up with brilliant concepts. But then only kill the concept and continue with whatever the traditional hindi serial format is.
Rishta wahi soch nai 😂
Ghanta brilliant 🤣
They are remaking all of their marathi or bengali hit shows. They don't have any new ideas. And even if they try to make a serial which has a good concept earlier, it's ruined later on and becomes a typical saas Bahu drama
Literally every ph does that.. Start with a good concept or eye-catching promo then show their same shit😬
They literally dubbed their old bengali serials into hindi and played then in the hindi channel. Nothing origina
They literally made malini the villain cause we hate the leads even though they made malini the villain , I will still be supporting malini cause LET'S not forget the injustice happened to malini
Ofc same
In real life it is literally IMPOSSIBLE for someone who was as good as Malini to turn so freaking evil. But again, these shows are the opposite of real.
@@Athenabadassinthearena true
Obviously Malini is correct,suddenly Imlie enters and ruin the two lovers, aditya always does injustice to Malini she deserves everything just because Imlie is poor has sympathy and empathy nobody cares for Malini
Anyone's not gonna talk about how her complexion changed with her story arc ( dark when she was sidelined, light when she was centered/or something like that)....
Malini's mom is shown as a vamp n her husband as a bechara even tho he cheated on her and had an illegitimate child ... I feel she is justified to be bitter n for the way she behaves.
they pushed it to an unacceptable level however with her suggesting to drug Aditya but these are the levels they are going to just to create the hero vs villain narrative
@@TriedRefusedProductions Bro are u forget those web show u proudly promote where women cheat on their husbands still they are showed as a bechari women... Did u forget that in ajeeb dastan where a husband accept his wife when he found his wife cheated on him in fact he accept his wife's illegal child...
Are u forget in 'haseen dilruba' they showed vikrant as a nice husband but after his wife cheated on him they showed him as violent husband to gaining sympty for his wife, let me tell u in your word "vishu is a nice guy loving, caring and loyal husband he didn't any wrong to anyone but still he doesn't get any justice" whole movie did so much injustice to vibrant's character but still he labelled as "demon husband".. Did u forget that In Bombay begum where husband found that his wife cheated on him but he didn't not ask for divorce or anything but infact in return he said I love you.
U get offended if movie show unnecessary romantic angel but u didn't get offend if movie show unnecessary marital affair..
Bro I want to say one thing that how much we called society a patriarchal or a male dominant society but still people are afraid to accepting grey shads of a men, they just want a men only as a villain or hero...
And for your female movies reviews I want to said some line "movie should be appreciate for showing women's issue but same movie should be criticised for showing sexism against men"
@@TriedRefusedProductions Right, her being bitter is somehow justified but drugging and raping is never justified. That's a criminal offence. 🤬
@@TriedRefusedProductions exactly..that's what i've been telling to some of the fans who live in la la land and call Malini and Anu as villains without realising they're actually the victims who have been turned into villains for the sake of proving lead pair as right...
@@ajayk.3356 correctly said dude 👍🙂
Another decent show from start to finish was Sasural Genda Phool even it’s lows are better than most shows highs
Sasural genda phool was an epic show...
Jessssss
I was so wholesome!
True
Facts 💯
A salute to jammy that u r losing your brain cells to bring us some content.
sex education on Netflix will help today for recovery
😂
@@TriedRefusedProductions hope it does
Because this damage is irreparable😢😢
@Tried&Refused Productions. Yess 🤡
@@TriedRefusedProductions heeeyyyyyy..... din kno u watched it
Can't wait for s3
In the bengali version, Ishti Kutum, there were insane plot twists. The characters played by Malini and Imlie were later found out to be half sisters (Malini's father had impregnated Imlie's mother/extramarital), Imlie stayed happily ever after with Aditya and Malini fell in love with the doctor who treated her after she tried to commit suicide.
What the hell ?!!??!!
After all these dramas and over action they will show that happily ever after ending for those two sisters😂😅
in this one aswell imlie and malini were half sisters....and this was the reason malini's mothe hated her husband...fortunately in this one imlie fell in love with someone else and married him later...
Wtf. I am feeling like vomiting why did I read this. Ye serial wale kaunsa khatarnak nasha karte hai?
@@alefiyaarif4100because Aditya (Gashmeer) wanted to leave the show isliye Imli k liye dusra hero aya
I had major problems with the change in Malini's character from a 'doting fiance' to a villain. Also when Aditya tells Malini that he was only friends with her for the last 7 years, it's seriously not believable.
Yes
It was unbelievable
He married her phir bhi bolta hai dost
Matlab kuch bhi😂😂😂
It's same as dhadkan
Where Anjali tells Dev that he was a pyaara dost to her
Matlab itne gaane gaaye phir friendzoned😢😢😢
#JusticeforDev
@@Tisharoy. 😂😂😭🤣
exactly..how can u destroy someone else's life
exactly, he used to romance her, get scared if something happens to her, i mean he did everything a lover does and suddenly 7 yrs became just friendship and now few months old relation is true love😂
Exactly....
I’m glad someone actually went through the pain of watching this show. I have actually realised that most of the serials on Star Plus actually have a similar problem be it Anupama, or Ghum hai kisi k pyar mei, Pandya Store.
Moreover, the lens and male gaze has always managed to show the one of the two women either interested or married to a fickle man as negative, wicked, sly, and the man somehow always becomes the least wrong.
And this is just the tip of the icerberg when it comes to female portrayal on screen which tends to revolve around an ‘ideal’ women and the ‘other’ women.
why you mentioned anupama plz explain
it nevers shows that vanraj did right by cheating on anupama
@@mainaksadhya354 yeah but Anupamaa is not really progressive. It's kind of manipulating the audience
@@mainaksadhya354 See I spoke of the construct of the ideal women and the other women as well. The way story moves ahead the gaze is always more on Vanraj’s second wife than on him for all the “problems”. This is exactly the nature of portrayal of women characters on daily soaps ; as pitted against each other, which is very rightly also pointed out in this review.
Did u ever watch any females centric movie?? The same crap is there also, but the things is there women are doing this with men...
And men are portrayal as less than a men, they portrayal as loyal, ideal husband. How much their wife cheated on them but still they didn't ask for divorce...
@@zawa7497 but i like the fights in anupama and the insults too that is why i watch it on tv
In single word this show's title should be "Malini" not "Imli "
Like "Anupma" has "Anupama" not "Kavya".
somebody is watching too much Star plus
Can't agree more
@@piroodia4872 star plus is entertaining.. I love watching it too
@@jeweldcosta5384 there's nothing Interesting that.. All serials are made up of same plot... Just having extra marital affairs almost every serial..... Man every serial... My cousin watches star plus starting 8:00pm to all the way 10:30... Its so cringe... One day i ended beaten her.... Now she never watches star plus... :/
@@starweeb14yearsago83 I know that but as long as I'm enjoying the drama I'm good with it.. but I mostly watch only Anupama these days.. that's one of the best serials with a beautiful moral..
About your cousin I don't know anything but beating some1 for watching serials? Really?
Now, In this serial, Imlie is trying to win her in laws hearts & after some months they will show that she top the entire university. I mean how can be this possible. A 19 year old girl who always do the household work and they never show studying, how can she top in studies.
Cheating bahahha
This is a constant in Indian serials. Lead heroines are ALWAYS top students despite never actually studying and end up never using their degree either
Crux of 90% of Indian serials - Main heroine can never be wrong, main hero will create chaos with 2 Or 3 girls but will never be blamed, the other girl(/s) will be portrayed as pycho obsessive villains to force the audience to support the lead. Story gaya tel lene...
Stay away from Harem I will say.
😂😂😂😂
Sadly, these shows are very popular
Indians o ko hokya gaya hai..why do they watch serials man?😭kab buddhi aayegi inke dimaag pe
@@shayerichakraborty9775, kyunki hamare mummy papa ke alava koi dekhta bhi nahin hai
Imili = I stands for Irritating.
Malani = M stands for manipulated by mother.
Aditya = A stands for Adat se majbur.
Op
I hate this show😡
Frrr
Same bro. I'm so embarrassed I'm into this show, but Malini's character is so innocent, I feel her. And making her villan.. seriously.. and about their father, the director is showing him as a nice person.
True. So shameful, they've resorted to portraying Malini as a villian just to make the audience like/support Imlie.
Ye show writers agar dikhaye ki Malini ne Imlie ka khun kar diya na tab v mujhe toh Malini hi pasand ayegi.
They couldn't digest the fact ki audience ki favourite second lead h, main actress nahi. The real trash is Aditya himself.
Right ...
@@FirEflymelody0707 actually the reason now people support imlie is that malinie herself first walked out of her marriage and left adi and imlie alone and then came as a villain making us hate malinie. (anyway i was in malinie's or imlie's place i would have filed an FIR and make him go to jail and then leave the city)
@@kritikaprasad2410 True, both the girls should focus on themselves instead of fighting for that spineless Aditya.
Anyway, my main point was - I don't mind people supporting Imlie. She is the lead actress. I Just hate the way the writers completely changed Malini's character 360° because the audience were sympathetic towards her. I really liked her track with Kunal. They should have gone ahead with that or anything else instead of showing her plotting and planning like a psycho to win Aditya back.
Malini is educated gives equal importance to work and is sensible
On the other hand imilie do household chores.Doesn't study but have a scholarship and a perfect maid sorry wife material
If u watch anupama the kavya there priorities work over cooking.That's why she is a vamp.On the other hand our anupama priorities family and then work which is never shown in any scene like she is just roaming around her family
Majority Indian women resonate with this household chores and fantasies work and these shows are just aag meih ghee
If u observe in the show the college going girl is vamp misbehaving and give none importance to anything on the other
Hand our lead is toned version of goddess
i remember one day i shouted, watching this show,.. - “Arey ye dono ladkiya is aadmi ko chhod kyu nahi deti.. kalesh hi khatam. Dono behen maze se rahengi, mast ekdm.” My mom was like 👁️👄👁️
You forgot to mention that the male lead 'aditya' in this show is immortal. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
haha he played the Buried Alive Match from WWE and won
Bruh😄
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Like a cockroach. Hard to die🤦♀️
🤣🤣true
These serials are internalised misogyny and also this seems like a weird fetish for these characters in the story to face discrimination and to just be treated like shit by men..like why???? What is so romantic about it??? Huge respect for you cause you make us aware what is happening in serials
I have a hunch that there are several Harvey Weinstein type people in Indian entertainment media who make these types of films and dramas. They've wielded enough power and money to prevent their scandals from going public, but their misogyny and dystopian values are screaming out loudly through regular shows that glorify mistreatment of women and show no accountability of men.
I can't believe that people who write and produce such degrading content again and again can have normal healthy relationships with women in real life. I believe a big Indian wave of #MeToo scandals are on the horizon.
@@neelubird well said I agree 100℅ but as we are raising awareness about these problematic shows we also have to question who are their audience?? They might watch it for passing time but do they realize that it is actually slowly but surly are affecting their mental health?? Imagine the cast of the show, how those women decided that yeah they are gonna do it for success, what it was from their perspective
This one was much needed! I have been wondering for days how much Indian TV shows lag behind. Every other day you can witness women competing in the "best bahu pratiyogita" as if there is no bigger achievement. Instead of kicking the undeserving man out of their lives, women root for him. Imile, Sathiya 2, and Gum Hai Kisi Ke Pyaar Mein have really annoyed me the most. The scenes are just illogical. In Imile particularly, you can find every charater shedding tears on every little thing, that's depressing to watch. The same senseless, regressive content everywhere! The makers are so reluctant to put any extra effort and keep defying even common sense!
i must say from 8 to 11 all the shows of star plus are really shitty
only anupama is bearable but that show mostly has 10 mins of break
10 mins of toshu, vanraj, baa and kavya cursing anupama
10 mins of anupama giving same lecture in a different manner with heavy hindi words
could not agree more!! Anupama is somewhat progressive but still there is always a rush to make the protagonist seem great and flawless with lectures and all!
The problem is people are still watching it even if it's bad
have you seen anupama
Thank you for saying it loud and clear..the two main leads are irritating to an absolute annoying extent...they are the main villains..they actually ruined Malini's life.. Aditya who was in a romantic relationship for 7 years suddenly claiming it a friendship!! This is simply ridiculous...after marrying Malini he fell in love with imlie.. it IS called EMA, isn't it??imlie knew everything but malini knew nothing...they purposely kept quiet and now they want each. Other..malni is not a toy..when Aditya wanted he kept and then threw her away..what to say about imlie!! Despite knowing Malini is aditya's love and they are going to marry even after that she refused to divorce aditya..she forgot she needs to study...from wanting to be an officer her priority becomes to be aditya's wife only! And finally when she succeeded to lure and woo Aditya she was happy that aditya now loves her..they both kept romancing behind Malini's back without any guilt and shame..the only victim here is malini...after marriage you can see Aditya never left a moment to get close to malini...this is so cheap of him..now he wants a girl half of his age.. bloody shameless jerk... Malini invested 7 years of her life ..7 years is not a joke dude!!! and what she got!! Betrayel!! And a tag of divorcee!! I don't get it how can people support these two cheaters!!aditya and imlie!?? This show should be banned...
i completely agree with you! malini should leave aditya and marry a better man…see how aditya feels then
You've described it so well 😂
Most of the soap operas don't really care about the character arc. A strong and kind character will suddenly become a villain, or a villain becomes a sati savitri in an instant. I also get reminded of Gopi from saath nibhana sathiya, who was introduced as simple and timid girl but later on becomes a robot who's always shouting and being toxic to others.
Indian serial 's makers logic:
Just introduce audience stronger female lead who fights with world for rights for few episodes then after few episodes she gonna marry to some rich family then what's next whether she is a doctor police or she has any job no one is going worry about that her sole job is perfect wife Daughter-In-Law who is going to please every family member and fights with villainess and other characters in the serial even the male lead don't have any role just to support female lead and creating situations for her to shine
I don't understand one thing why Indian serials so obsessed with a girl pleasing her in laws... I mean if they don't like it.. they don't it.. whts d concern man... Let it be... Why should u try to please everybody to a point where u lose ur self respect...
@Rohit Gajwani I don't watch serials but what I know from when my family watching these shows all the channels are same
@@NaRut0_1 yes that's one thing and another thing is idk why they cast a male lead when male lead has no value in the serial
@@my_short_food_stories exactly 😂
Side actor breaking into laughter, gives it away as to how this show is :D
🤣🤣🤣🤣that's where I laughed the most
Can you just imagine Imlie's husband is a journalist in renowned newspaper but she don't know about photocopy. In one scene, she amazed by the photocopy machine that how this machine can make 100 copies of single paper form. nashe sirf actor nahi ye writer or director bhi karte hai.
Irrespective who her husband is! What baffles me is the fact that she doesn't have an ounce of idea of what Photocopy is despite being a brilliant student!
I mean even in poorest village of India the bright students knows what Photocopy (or as we call it Xerox is).
This horrible show runs each morning in my house!
There is so many wrongs in the show. The worst part is Imli is supposed to be minor when she was forcefully married off. But the show writers are hell bent on showing her as Adult. She acts and carry herself as Adult when it is clear she would be 15 at max as per the story so far.
The whole story arc where she saves Aditya from terrorists was absurd and hilarious at the same.
It is actually part of that genre: "It is so Bad that it is Good."
Ewwww 🤮
Bhabhi ji
ghar pr h dekha le bhai simping krna sikh jyega
@@raja-jl9os Nahi bhai, we dont shee bhabhji ghar hai also.
I mostly don't watch any show.
@@sachinchauhan7775 ott m bhi uske jesa comedy show nhi a skta stamp m likhkar de skta hu😂😂😂😂
@@sachinchauhan7775 even when you don't watch you know entire story. Stop lying,you must be watching even repeat telecast XD
The thing I realised is how I was totally fine with this serial when it was telecasted in Bengali. It was very popular and my whole family used to watch. Though I started to watch because of some funny moments that were showcased and later stopped because of the repetitive storyline but I was always aware of what was happening because you don't need to watch everyday when your family is mad about that serial. But problem is I never tried to dissect it this way back then. Yes I was young but me thinking it was alright is alarming. This is what they are doing to the young minds. This seriously needs to stop.
Only dumb people get influenced by this serial......
Can totally understand this. We all at some point in our life thought it was "okay" or didn't question the content. But we're humans and we learn.
@@rdxx4073 yea and there are a lot of dumb people.
The bollywood movies that he used reminded me of this too. I was so okay with the movies what are they feeding our brains. This is where pick me girls and being okay with misogyny is born in a young mind
I watched it too. I found it fucking hilarious. The family was more representative of a Bengali middle class than any other serials. The family was wholesome and treated Baha like their own daughter and supported her education. And Baha was an endearing character really. The fiancee's character was never ruined as bad as it's hindi counterpart , and the actress who played her was really talented. But obviously all other problems were there and the male lead was a piece of shit.
FINALLY !!!!!!!!!
My mother watches this serial and curses all the characters except Malini.
She HATES both the protagonists from Day 1 but still watches it to know what's going to happen to Malini.
I was so happy when Malini was somewhat moving on with the lawyer but then the U-turn they made and the way they just made Malini into a villain was UGH!!
I think both Malini and Malini's mother should have left their husbands and moved on but NO! They have to become the vamp of the story, showcasing imlie and Imlie's mother as 'gao ki bechari ' 'bholi- bhali ' when that's not even the POINT. it's the CHEATING, the INFEDILITY. It has nothing to do with gao-shehar.
My mother hates imli 😂😂
My mother does the same!
My mom sympathizes with Malini, but thankfully she doesn't watch the serial anymore. It happened when Malini did a complete U-turn on that lawyer guy. My mom was like if she had any dignity she would ditch the journalist fool and be with the lawyer or strike out on her own.
exactly same my mum also do the same 😂😂🤣
so basically the creators made the character of Malini turn into EMILY from FREINDS....🤣
let's not forget about kapil sharma's "kis kis ko pyaar Karun"
Ikr i really hated the promotion of the idea of having more than one partner and it was all excused by "vroo its a comedy movieeeee" idc many people get their incentive mostly after watching such crappy movies and then ruin their and others lives
Aaaarrrrrgggghhhhh that movie is f#&@ing BS!!! 😤😤😤🤯🤯
That was a disaster
@@tzuwee-d6244 when a man has multiple wives its comedy, when a woman has multiple husbands its dramatic and serious. Where is the world going
@@Qwerty-jc3so no when a women have or just fvcking talk to other men they are called h0e , sl*t and what not
And here you go again. Another brilliant analysis, especially when you point out that nobody has issues with the problematic decision making of the man. Keep it up. I also have a suggestion, I would recommend watching ghum hai kisike pyaar mein from starplus as well, it would be great if you make a video about that show too.
Bhabhi ji ghar par h aur kapil sharma dekhlo dono m simp bhare pade h 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ohh yes! That's super cringey too!
I agree completely
Please watch Pandya Store too in Star Plus!
@@poojanair8445 yes pls 😞😞😞
ANUPAMA deserves a video as well. Boils my blood whenever I go through any of the episode because of my family. Regressive characters, clichéd drama (loud and depressing), inconsistent character arcs and illogical writing.
Depressing and repetitive, the two word describing the serial. Suddenly Anupama is strong Suddenly ba is gud and Suddenly Anupama is crying and everyone is against her..bruh repetitive thing since day one. Just manipulation
@@sakshimudgal8809 True. No efforts from the writers. There is literally no continuation of emotions. People get easily manipulated by anyone people convinently feel guilty after 2 episodes. Repeat the cycle with every characters
Anupamaa is not one of the best shows but better than most of the tv serials
Even Ghum hai kisike pyaar also deserves a video. My god the way they showed a 28 year old man marrying a 18 year old girl in the name of responsibility and then torturing ( both by him and his family) really needs to be called out. The worst part is the male lead is an IPS and he is constantly abusing his wife.
@@tejasthakkar618 You are absolutely right. Anupama is a senseless serial. I feel so bad for the cast. They are so good and could have done so much better if the storyline was borderline believable. Even after divorce staying under the same roof and dragging the flitting of emotions like every other hour for every episode is traumatizing. I wonder how any remotely sensible audience can bear the nonsense!!!
I remember being forced to watch this everyday during lunch (because my mom wants to) and slowly getting hooked onto it... I was also rooting for Malini all the way till the writers ran out of secrets to spill ( There are a lot of scerets ). Once all secrets were out in the open , writers just started the regular Saas , Bahu , 2nd Wife nonsense and finally my Mom had enough and I was freed too... 😂
I used to watch because of My family . Malini looks beautiful ❤️ but now her character turns gray to show Imli innocent ....
I thought i was the only one who suffered this
Thank god my mom only watched like one or two shows that too only on star plus. Zee n colors had more ridiculous shows imo. I always had sab and sony(only for cid) on repeat . We don't even have cable anymore
Happy freedom days!!😜😂😂
Omg... I feel soo grateful .. 😂😅neither my mom or mu grandparents watch serials... They hate them...🙃😅😂 Even if I watch any (have only watched krpkab nd yrhpk😊) they'll be like what crap are u watching?😌😂😂
Even in Malayalam we had the same serial "neelakuyil "...same plot..but the wife's character won everybody's heart..they ended the serial with imli's character becoming a doctor and Aditya and rani reunite and have a child
My wife, mother watch this show. & I can understand Jammy's every bit of frustration.
I agree with you
same
I only empathized for Malini at the beginning of the show but then they completely turned her into a villain out of nowhere. And how did Imlie forget all about her educational aspiration as soon as she got married like what?!
Finally someone putting some light on one of the most illogic, disturbing and problematic show on ITV. Thanks Jammy ♥️
It's truth when he says "Malini is the most beautiful fiance anyone could have dreamt of. She is loyal, concern and loving" and also "Imlie, who gets jealous and insecure when he (Aditya) is romancing with Malini".👏👏👏
To believe that this serial is presented to the audience, in today's context is despicable. Disgusting. Nobody is even looking at the fact that an 18 ye old is shown to be wed with a 36 yr old. And though lacks basic english.. is a topper in her English medium college. Not putting her down for not knowing the language.. but the CATASTROPHE that this show is!
Who told u that the male leads age is shown as 36 yrs 😂😂🤔🤔....that is the real age of the character playing aditya in the serial i.e Gashmeer not adi
Yes .. Aditya must have passed out of college and then joined newspaper agency .. he should be Atleast 32.. by makers own logic ..
@@mehergill4729 Anyone above the age of 23 dating/marrying a 18 year old is just plain weird and disgusting , i'd say even 23 is pushing it. Taking into account that this man is a well known journalist and is a 7 year long relationship with another woman. Logically he HAS to be at least in his early to mid 30s. Yes 18 is the legal age but ethically and morally its still wrong. 18 is still a teenager.
I appreciate you reviewing these serials. There is a huge audience that watches these shows and gets influenced by them. It's nice of you to factor them in and put up a mirror to them through the process when most of us would not bother due to our own (sometimes justifiable) prejudices.
I love, how the comment section is.. Everyone giving their genuine opinion.. No spam comments.. No shitty things.. That's why i love this channel most.. Thanks Jammy for give us such amazing content..
Just now I realised this...... everyone out there is giving opinions, feedback, recommendations. Not a single comment is irrelevant.
the only shows I have ever enjoyed watch on Indian TV is "ek hazaaron mein meri behna hai" and "iss pyaar ko kya naam doon" those were the best days lmao
oh god yess!! i read both titles with the tune lol
This serial was remade into malayalam as 'Neelakuyil' years ago.In that Aditya and Malini reunites and Imli becomes a doctor at the end.
Wait what 😂
Njan comment search chyaarnnu....😌
@@Pranav51505 😆😆😁😌
Bt in the Malaysian version hero never fall in love with imli here his show is Bengali version
Finally....
You did mention
Dr. Mouli from silsila - one of the rarest and strong female character I have ever seen.
True...
trueee !
People hated this show because it was about extramarital affair. Now people are loving shows like Imli, Anupama gum hai kisike pair mai! What an irony!
I know people didn't like the show it was a decent show compared to this crap
@@isratsarker7930 The difference b/w Silsila and Anupamaa and GHKKPM and Imlie is that in the first two shows the women don't go back to the cheating men or try to be like please come back in my life or manipulated them.
More than the male character, I have the irritation towards the character arch of Imli, whereby what just mattered to her was to love her forced husband, leaving behind all opportunities to educate herself and move on.. Even when Aditya told her so many times that he loves Malini (In the earlier episodes), she was like han thik aap unse pyar kijiye but ab meri aapse shaadi ho gyi toh mujhe toh aap hi se pyar krna h (she didn't even know him phle se 🤷♀️)
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It was so illogical to show Malini as the villain when she yelled at Imlie for putting sindoor in her maang I mean bro if Imlie was so innocent why is she trying to live like a suhaagan bhai tune hi toh bola na tu bich mein nahi aa skti kaisi hipocrisy hai ye?
In the earlier days when I was a child, I felt very irritated upon seeing the problematic stories upon the serials and thought that I would write a sensible and thoughtful story and portray them in a way that the trp system doesn't halts the quality.
I grew up to realise I would fail terribly and better not to pursue this :(
This entire media is more about money than art and social responsibility
True. They will Suddenly spoil a character bcz of trp
Indian serials don't have any sense of character depth, development, arc, the only thing matters is trp, be it anyway possible
All the colors Tab shows the main lead is married twice or having a gf outside wedlock. Udaariyan, Nima, namak isk ka etc are the examples
*in a serious conversation*
"So what should we do now?"
"fiLhAaL chAi peE leTe hAi"
I lost it there💀🤦♀️😂
As you do as an Indian...
Rishta wahi, soch nayi?
Soch wahi...rishte kayi
🤣🤣🤣
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So that, "filhall chai pee lete hai" caught me soo bad😂😂and Jammy's reaction was just spot on..
So true...I couldn't stop laughing at that 😂😂
Same here 😂
This serial is my worst encounter.. It literally gave me headache for straight one week to understand the plot of this show..
Kudos to Jammy😩😩👏❤
the amount of crying and self hate (but still going on to do whatever they feel is right) in this show! I can empathise
@@TriedRefusedProductions I reckon with you 😭😩👊
This show is a cancer
@@atharvchat7122 😂😂😂😂😂🤣😂🤣😂
@@TriedRefusedProductions bro, It would be way better if you've made this video in hindi. Actually, I want my mom to watch this video. She's so obsessed with this serial, so much so that she keeps revisiting the older episodes, wo bolti hai. (I love the cast, they act so well) and that title song of the serial- sajna ho sajna ho....)
She knows that this serial is serial is so problematic but still keeps watching. 🤦♂️😪
I keep remembering tapasya (aired for a while), diya aur baati, uttaran, yeh hai mohobatten, qubool hai, khelti hai zindagi aankh micholi, Tere shehar mai (which was a refreshing storyline) and dehleez. These were so popular in 2014-16 and absolutely had the narrative of strong female lead abd yet, missed the mark so badly.
I liked Uttaran's first season though. The casting was impeccable.
Yes diya aur baati hum was supposed
To break stereotypes but it too turned into same old saas bahu drama
Dahleez was mostly good though
@@orion2176 but it was quite real though specially her night classes was something to learn from. I haven't seen d end but remember she became officer na n helped hubby to become a chef or win competition i think so . Acha show tha yaar
This is the reason why I really liked Anupama because of how she stood for herself and didn't forget all his deeds for the sake of happy ending.
The amount of time Jammy reconsidered his life choices whilst questioning his interest in the show had me 😂💀
I don't understand why malini's fans wants Aditya and malini to be united
Even they united also there is no guarantee that Aditya will not fall in love with another woman
Aditya does not deserve Malini
Malini deserves better guy than Aditya
Malini should move on in her life
To highlight imli these makers are showing Malini as a weak character
Instead of it they should show Malini as a strong and independent character
They should show like
Malini should move on in her life
And she should teach Aditya imli dev a lesson such that they should understand
what a person feels when he\she got cheated in the name of love and marriage
and make them realize their mistake
@@a5360-g1c i don't want Malini with that filthy guy I want to see Aditya in jail
I feel the most disappointing thing about Indian cinema is that you will never see a character development it stays the same if not deteriorates. Women presented as aspirational in the beginnings become just a housewife as the show progress and the main topic is always women tearing women down. Men are always presented as calm, sort out, loves their mother and always doubt their wives. Their is always a third wheel who loves the guy so much she goes as much as to kill the female lead. And it's super annoying how the mc never dies and if they do their is punarjanam or plastic surgery. It's so disappointing how most of the characters never has their own arc no character background nor any dream they are just there.
This is literally everything that I've been saying since this show started, like the plot they promoted during the promo has just VANISHED! my mother watches this show and I can't even stand the sound of this show and I change rooms when it comes up, they were trying to make the audience sympathize with the lead since so long but nothing worked so now they've literally made malini, which was the best character in the show, a psysho villain who blames imlie for literally ANYTHING! Till now all Aditya does is change sides as per his convenience, he just can't pick a side. He doesn't trust imlie, doesn't love malini, wants to be with imlie and wants to be friends with malini too. His character is selfish and very arrogant....
I could literally go on and on about this show because this had me SO frustrated because nothing makes sense and the plot is DISGUSTING! characters are so UNDEFINED, they can change ANYTIME.
Thanks for making this hahahah, at least someone is calling out the bs.
Yaa man and its so disgusting that just to lift up that half brained man the story writers make the women fight. They just reinforce the stereotype that women cant be friends and that they are gonna fight for worthless men.🤢🤢🤮🤮
please do go on, people deserve to see how bad this show is 🤠
I can feel you. my mom watch this show everyday and it's really irritating.
I thought I only get irritated of the show, oh god I also leave the room when show starts seriously.
Ohh bhaii.. Mera bhi same haal hai. Koi toh isey band karaado bhai
This show is so frustrating! I feel my blood pressure increasing whenever I come across a clip form it on instagram. It is very badly written indeed - very inconsistent. Each character contradict thier own characteristics. Another awfully written show is ghum hai kisi k pyaar mein where like Aditya Thripathi, the male "protagonist" is introduced as the most honourable and just IPS officer but as the shows progesses, we see him do the most dumb things ever. And the most frustrating part about both these shows is that the male leads engage in questionable actions - but they genuinly believe that they have done nothing wrong - there is no remorse on their face or in their words. The sadest part - they have high trps for whatever reason.
Nd people on Instagram have fan pages for imlie nd aditya...... Ohh my god..... Kha se aate hai ye log
@@Khushi_ka_delusion Suchiii, pta nahi, mein toh sur pakar leti hoon is show k clips dkh ke.
I love how these shows highlight the most important problems which prevail in our nation:
Lack of education: Ghar mai ek bhi insaan ke paas poora dimag nahi hota
Unemployment: Sab ghar me bas har baat par reaction dene ka kaam karte hai
Patriarchal society: Pati is never wrong
Patriarchal*
@@shiprayadav9409 oh shit my bad
That's the reason I have become a fan of Korean Drama. They are actually showcasing both side of the story.
Damn can we just appreciate how he sacrifices his sanity for content.
A fan from kerala.
Lol... Same here..
This was neelakkuyil😂😂😂
Thank you so much for bringing this to your channel. It has become so important to make people realise that they supporting wrong doings of Aditya and Imli.
I totally agree with you when you said SHE HAS A POINT and making Malini as villian is insane
The second season of "Bade achhe lagte hain" is beautifully crafted. This show is very positive in the era of shows filled with infidelity, vamps, revenge. Where in the first season Ram was arrogant but good human but in this season Ram is very gentle, supportive and person with a beautiful heart as well as Priya. Hope Ekta Kapoor won't spoil it like her other serials.
Yesss... If we're talking about toxic shows, we need to shed some light on the positive ones as well... Both the seasons of that show come as a breath of fresh air... Cast is amazing... And the title track has all my heart ❤️❤️
@@harshitasrivastava5582 ITV always show Step mother as wicked but in this serial at present they have show her as a good person. Don't know in future how they will showcase her.
@@bhargavisarode I guess ram's mother will be shown in a negative light as it was so in the first season. Many things are similar in both the seasons 👀
I don't know man, lets wait a week or two. Such good stories don't usually get great response, and then writers are forced to resort to tried and test way to farm views.
Actually set India's shows are very underrated too. I feel very bad when I see that a wonderful show with unique concepts like marriage counselling and all (kuch rang s3) is getting trps of 0.3-0.5. Problem is the audience too, jo dikhega wohi to bikega.
Dude never worry about spoilers on such serials! These are predictable af to begin with in the 1st place.....
True
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The same serial was shown in Malayalm 2-3 years back, but the best part is Aditya and Kasthuri (Imlie) never had feelings for each other. Finally Aditya and Rani (Malini) reunite with each other.
BTW Jammy, you should review Ghum Hai Kisi ke Pyar mein, second highest rated serial on star plus despite having a stupid storyline.
Most of the indian serials now-a-days are running on these extra marital affair theme. Udaariyaan,silsila,imli,ghum hai kisike pyar mein. These get higher trp as well. In udariyaan serial male lead was cheating his wife by having a relation with his sister in law. But here as well jasmine is shown as the main villain. Now fateh is feeling guilty and jasmine is becoming evil. I guess gradually fateh will turn good and tejo will forget everything how he cheated on her and start loving him. Here also two sisters are fighting over one characterless man.
I really can understand that how could they turn Malini a straight up villain....I only liked her in the whole show....! SAD LIFE!!!
The actor who plays Malini- Mayuri Deshmukh- is terrific. I've watched a Marathi serial of her's "Khulta Kali Khulena", a drama, and the story line in that one was beautiful. Her character was well fleshed out.
Disappointed in her choice here.
That's because of lack of work
That show was beautiful.
It wasnt her fault tho tbh..
I remember feeling such an emotion during Balika Vadhu. While at first Gauri Jagya were hated for getting married (which was okay because both knew about his marriage to Anandi) but eventually Gauri was made into a hateful character and Jagya the bechara ladka. Finally Jagya realized his "mistake of how Gauri has ruined his life"
On the other hand Anandi was the Goddess of colors tv. Always forgiving, no anger, just a sad but forgiving woman.
The problem is how unrealistic women are shown in Indian TV shows. One is always the demon and other is Goddess
Gosh why am I obsessed with Balika Vadhu 😂
But atleast in that shows there were tym and other charcters that showed both could be wrOng and after a point of tym anandi did became strong and stood against everything and jagya got to know that he was at fault and gauri cant be blamed for everything
@@devikanarsinghani6881 True, Jagya did realize that he and Gauri were wrong. But I remember there was a sequence where Gauri returned after few years as a patient to Jagaya and Ganga.. She tried to wreck their marriage .. Although she realized she was wrong but the writers always wrote her as someone who is greedy and manipulate... There was never any good quality shown about her.. The writers tried their best to show her as a selfish and lier.. Jagya had good as well as bad shades about him.
But Gauri was shown as pure evil with very little redemption arc and Anandi turned strong and bold but she had absolutely no flaws. Gauri was the demon and Anandi was Goddess.
But I still admire Balika Vadhu for trying something new and how brilliant it was made in initial days. Surekha Sikri, Anup Soni, Smita Bansal, Neha Marda, and even Avika and Pratyusha were at their best in the shows.. Even Anandi's mother was absolutely perfect.. Not many credit is given to her. I loved Sugan's character and how brilliantly Vibha portrayed her but she as a character was also almost useless in later part of show.
Things were good in the first arc of the show however things turned a bit bad when Gauri was shown as a pure villain.. Gauri was initially introduced as a sensitive village girl who really wants to move on from her child marriage but she was later shown as a pure villain. Also show went absolutely crazy in Anandi Shiv married life phase. It was nothing but saans bahu show after their marriage.
I would still allow some slack to Balika Vadhu if it seemed regressive since the show was on TV more than a decade ago. But the concept "Child Marriage" was unique for a show in the late 2000's, so I'll give the show credit. Also I think it was nice that Anandi and Jagya moved on in their own lives after growing up and forgetting that they were once married during their childhood. But there is no need to have a sequel to Balika Vadhu now, in 2021.
@@shanesunil Unfortunately, child marriages still happen but yes having a sequel to it is nothing but a money making stint.
And the writers might have screwed up by making Anandi feel like "We got married when we were kids. So we should stay married forever." I'm so glad this didn't happen. Unlike that Pinjra Khubsurti Ka, which is just Stockholm Syndrome on steriods. The wife is being tortured physically by her husband and still loves and obeys him.🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
My mom is obsessed with Imlie. I feel so much relieved after watching this video.😌
6:09 Jammy's "Haye Haye" is better than any auntie saying it😂😂.
Also Hats Off for going through this torture as well.
To be frank, Aditya deserves neither imli nor Malini
He should be kept in jail
He married Malini by hiding his first marriage and without giving divorce to his first wife which is illegal
Atleast he should tell about his about first marriage to any of his family members
And he should give divorce to imli and help her in studies as a good friend.
Malini should be like a good mentor to imli
After completion of imli 's studies Aditya should find a groom for imli and unke
shaadi karna hai
But instead of it aditya 7 saal ka relation ko break Kiya within few months
But this makers are showing him as a heroic character
And even some audience also supporting Aditya
And imli is a 19 year old girl and her age is not the right age for marriage and love
Of course the minimum age for girls to marriage is 18 years
But It's better for a 19 year old girl to concentrate on studies instead of marriage and love
She has attraction and infatuation towards Aditya and it is not love
To highlight imli these makers are spoiling and destroying malini's character and
showing her as negative which is actually a positive and supporting character
This serial is encouraging extra marital affairs
This could've been an amazing show if it was processed with the right path at least which I expected at the beginning of the show.
If the marriage was forceful and illegal
1. They could've just reported it. Could've got separated legally if required. Aditya could've married Malini after all this and lived happily (as he claimed several times that he loved Malini) and could've helped Imlie for her education financially and could've taken her responsibility until she became independent. And after all this too, if the creators wanted to expand the storyline, Imlie could fall in love with some other right guy at right time after a leap of some years and could educate the villagers about their orthodox mentality.
2. Malini could easily get legal help. (At first place she doesn't even have to bother about a person like Aditya) but if anyway she doesn't want to leave him, she could just get legal help as Aditya and Imlie's wedding was illegal (as claimed by both multiple times). There was no point of trying to make a character horrible. but yahan toh alag hi chal rha h. M pdhi likhi intelligent professor hu toh m toh chaalein chal k hi apna pati vapis lungi. Law and judiciary gyi tel lene
I agree.
If the show writers had such a brain ..they wouldn't be able to make a series naa😂 they need people with old mindsets to watch them and get them trp
Separation?? One court visit would've gotten it annulled. Marriage between a non consenting adult and a child is completely invalid.
These soap operas factories churns much worse than this,
Currently hooked to 80's masterpiece 'Buniyaad'
What great soap opera it is 🙏🙏
Chidia ghar , Malgudi days kya mast serial thea, bc abhi toh bas tatti hai▪️
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This show is still running and I can't believe people love this serial that much. Indian television will never change.
Next "ghum hai kisike pyaar main". All episodes starts with family fighting with Sai and ends with family fighting with Sai 🤣
I think the first 100 episodes was just that. Different costumes, different time, same old bullshit
Yeah but I still can’t understand it’s trp is high 🤦🏻♀️
@@warhead160 true
Same here with me.. ssaala pura motive hi barbaad kar diya..
Haha i was thinking about that drama but i stopped watching it after like 20 episodes🤣 no idea what's going on there
Everything about this show and it's fanbase scares me but I am glad people are calling it out for it's bs plot. The main antagonist of this show has to be Malini's mother, father, and Aditya. Imlie is written to be a Mary Sue who's job is to be perfect in everything with no flaws. The only character whom I loved watching and sympathized with was Malini. She had flaws, but she embodied an image of a independent and earnest working woman. You can't help but feel bad especially seeing how much injustice was done to her character. Her dad had affair, her mother's constant nagging, her ex losing interest bc he married an 18 y/o who happens to be her half-sister.. Imagine being on her shoe with all these issues. Imagine your sister stealing your man who you were in a happy relationship with for 9 years😭 I can't help but see a Kashibai in her..
This is the problem whether its makers or audience no one here wants to have a flawed humane character in show because they just don't get that people are not just good or bad . People who have problems can have issues but still can be a good person .
Exactly..Very well said...This is truly Kashibai...💔💔💔
@Work passion Imlie is 18 and Malini's half-sister
Exactly malini was the best, now they are portraying her negative so that they can show imlie to be the most righteous and justify cheating lmao
@@mg-cx5tv exactly that the problem with Indian tv industry they don't show female protagonist as flawed character, she is so righteous, never can go wrong. She is already perfect, there is no space of character development.
That why they are the most un relatable character of the show. Always there is one woman of the show too perfect. Where another woman is too antagonist.
Don't have value for character how they dramatically change. No character is stable. If we see character like malini. Who empathise to other. Care, see this she must be character who has morals, how her morals change over few week.
I like one show on sony tv it was 2012 show. Dekha ek khawab were female lead show as selfish, she always learn from her mistakes, but never deny her mistake accept it ,and make it right. She has good heart, strong will power. She is ziddi. Every character in that show was grey,
I'm dying laughing 🤣🤣 Filhaal chai pee lete hain. Wah
Jammy is a living legend. Hats off bro
Every daily soap starts with a fresh story(may be) and then get converted into saas bahu thing😂😂
So true!
Even my mother stopped watching it due to the cat fight going on between two "sisters" on a stupid boy who was so truthful that he didn't tell his 7 years old girlfriend that he was forcefully married lol 😂
shes just a friend na thats why 😅
He friendzoned his own wife 😭
@@anupamaMall another level of cringe. And everything was still bearable until malini decided to leave but now she wants her husband back and she'll do anything to win him over.
@@petraalbatra9898 Malini is an educated and independent woman. She should have left that idiot.
@@anupamaMall if independent and education it the reason to leave idiot men. Tab toh abhi tak toh female movies ke saare husbands apni toxic wife ko chhod chuke hotein...😄(sarcasm)
The Bengali show had its problems, but still it connected with a lot of people because it was less about these three characters and more about the culture of the people of the tribal region of Junglemahal. The character of Satyakam, the Maoist extremist movement and the clash of Urban and rural, had some excellent potrayals. Infact, the main theme of Ishti Kutum was the Jungle Mahal and the culture and traditions of the people. Very late in its story did it divert into bullshit stories (like most serials do). And the charactrr of Malini was excellently potrayed- she was not a villain, she was independent woman with her own struggles. And Baha was not the character that they have shown in Imli - she became independent, strong woman in tbe end. Malini left Aditya after he confessed
This serial didn't actually end. Stop giving spoilers, if anybody care
But after this serial it became common for every serial to have either polygamy or village/low society girl or both every time. For more TRP keep an annoying accent for the main character
Even the starting seems different...like i don't really remember but ig the man had married the girl to save her from a forced marriage or something nd his grandma who used to live in the village actually supported it...like here they seem to have straight up villains...
@@ankanmaiti9864 oh my god. Yes that voice. Eeeeeek in my head. Which tribal speaks like that. Ma go ma ki golar awaj.mone hoe jor kore korto na emni chilo ,k jane. Porer dike accent gayab. Ajob
@@randomlyswatching9481 Best thing she spent her entire +2 and college life, means 5 years in the city and her accent didn't even change an inch. Whereas in reality we see people speaking in American accent just by watching some Netflix shows 😂
@@ankanmaiti9864 imagine seeking story/character consistency from a Bengali serial pffft
Serial Anupamaa: -Wife and Ex wife under one roof
-Independent working woman is a vamp
-Gullible house wife is the hero but would not take a stand for herself until she is cheated on by her unthankful husband
-Also, once the house wife finallywakes up and starts working she still strongly believes it is equally important to do the household chores by herself because her family likes it.
Yeah and her two children, especially the eldest son constantly shaming her for making choices and has such a regressive mindset even after being such an educated folk. And another successful woman is the biggest villain of their lives and everybody hates her because she likes to ruin their happiness.
And the irony is that it's one of the most watched serials with highest trp every week.
most irritating thing in this serial: long heavy worded replies by Anupama on any situations .wo jo har bat pe lambe lambe lecture zadati hai...Himmat 0 % Lecture 100 % :)
Well don't worry if this goes toe to toe in Sree Moyi's path she will end up marrying the guy who had a crush on her... trying to be happy on her own terms... the only support which she will always have is her 2nd son. He will support her in all costs and also her 1st father in law... all will go back and forth once bad then good then bad again. So don't worry she will break the kitchen and cook only for the parts who supported her not the whole family if and only if they follow the bengali 1.
That show tries so hard to be "progressive" but ends up doubling down on the regressive stereotypes. It's honeslty so cringe and unaware of itself 🤢🤢🤢
yk the funniest part is...her ✨ex✨ husband, who's already married to his girlfriend of 6-7 years is now ealous of the new guy, when Anupama isn't even aware of his crush. and the son? damn! he had a girlfriend, his father has another wife, he left his ✨maa✨ for two extra rooms is now against the idea of her having a love interest smh
Jammy should do a review on shows like Kuch Rang Pyaar ke Aise bhi. Comparatively, the show, especially its second season, has a fresher concept. I think we should delve deeper into shows which are at least trying to give something new to the mass.
They hired stupid Harneet as writer for S3, and that’s why it’s such an epic disaster. It’s so bad, so inconsistent that 90% of fans don’t even consider it canon.
S1 and 2 were carefully crafted by Durjoy Dutta. Obviously, as we know for Harry Potter series, “cursed child” is never considered canon because it’s written by someone else. Similarly, S3 isn’t and will never be a continuation of the story for kuch rang