Woman's Husband Sets Her On F!re After Their Dream Wedding | The Luevenia Gardner Story
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- Опубліковано 28 лют 2024
- This is the tragic tale of Leuvenia Gardner, a woman with a heart of gold who finally believed she had met the man of her dreams. A man who would love her deeply and who she could be herself with. Sadly, her life would be brutally cut short by the man who vowed to love and protect her. On one tragic day in a fit of rage, he would douse her in lighter fluid then set her on f!re. What could make someone v!olently hurt someone that they claimed they love and wanted to spend the rest of their life with. Welcome to Viral Crimes.
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This happens a lot. Black women are groomed to accept Black men as kings no matter what their character or status!
Women please stop laughing at this type of behavior, abuse is never ok.
Period smh
But these "girls" always love a bad boy so I can't 100% feel sad for the loss… she seems like a nice person tho 😨
The sad part she thinks it’s cute. And he’s so serious. 😳yes, I knew of one of those demons. Straight blocked them. Damn shame.
Stop running after relationships. It is OK to be alone, alive and happy.
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ALIVE is the key word
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Amen 🙏🏾 you got that right
She probably paid for the wedding. He sounded like a total loser!!
He looks download to me
And user!!!
I wouldn’t be surprised either smh
She even paid for that food they were eating. I already knew and then she confirmed when she asked him didn’t I ask you what you wanted. Meaning she paid for everything all the time.
She paid for everything! Everything!
Ive gotten so much done while being single... got my real estate license, my doctorate in behavioral health, and my lmsw..... quadrupling my income. My health improved, edges and hair grew back in... no longer depressed/anxious. Anyone that says something wrong with me cause i remain single and childless is laughable. My life only improved when i became single. I invite yall to join me. The peace i have now is truly heaven sent. 😊
Yes, i have no one in my life.... to cheat on me, beat me, infect me and disrespect me. Life is good.
Girl you GO !! Proud of you!
@@BreeziDeezi thank you 😊 🙏
Yusssss diva Nuttn like a DISEASE FREE LIFE NO DRAMA N PEACE OF MIND LOVE THY SELF PPL U WR BORN BY URSELF ANYWAYS 😅😅❤
@@Fah766 yyaass!! And you know this queen!
"Yo edges grew back"..😂😅
Good for you. You know when we stressed our edges be the first to go.
Him admitting he had anger issues and suffers from short man syndrome was not a joke.
He seems like he was premature baby.
May have have some learning disability which affected his education .
He may have been bullied for being small and short at home, at school and outside.
If that's not a ding ding ding alert, I don't know what is!
Sure was NOT a joke and he faked laughing... smh
Facts
Lord single life is so peaceful
I'm thankful
Not in the hash winter 😂😂😂😂
People try to shame women if they don't have a man or a marriage with these types of stories I can agree. A woman is surprised if you're treated like trash. You might as well be single if he's unworthy you just as well. Be single if he has no job if he lives with a relative if he has multiple baby Mother's if he. Doesn't have a car. Yes, you should be single and happy about it and glad to sing it from the mountains. Because what these women are going through in these relationships is downright. Pitiful, I've dated in the last 5 years. And I've not settled on just anybody. I don't want anybody being the boss of me. I want a partner if we're not Partners. We're not anything so I never let them know where I live. I don't have social media so you can't look me up. And you don't know where I work. You don't know anything about me. I won't let them in and that's what aggravates them. The most within a week or 2. It starts to show they get angry and I know that's a test. But then when they show they're self to me I disappear
@@2Black4yallBaby When it's time to tell me nothing more blankets more pillows the remote the bathroom And refrigerator all to yourself. Not having to wash his draws and make his plate is enough for me
Honey yasss 🎉🎉🎉 I love it don’t have to hear no loud snoring and asking me what’s for dinner 😂😂 I’m good and they be coming left and right too when you decide you’re at peace with being alone!!
All those threats about the friends….i would’ve played it cool and left the next day. Jealous men are dangerous
Then, it just would’ve been her ex doing this to her🤷🏾♂️
He knew her " gay male friends" could tell he was a DL
Exactly! WTF!
Abusive men are dangerous. 💯
exactly, totally agree with your comment.
He literally was telling her how toxic and violent he was and what he’d do to a female if he felt provoked.
Common sense doesn't exist anymore
@sharmainwilcox4212- Yes!!! And he disrespected her mom!! That is an ultimate turn off for me. Do NOT disrespect my mother, that alone would make me get a divorce.
He gives me zesty vibes... but when a man talks you better listen ! He mentioned going back to jail, breaking someone's neck, even talked about fire ! So sad
He stayed setting shit on fire as a teen and yeah he broke an old lady's neck when he broke into her house and she woke up and he woke her with one of those old ass lamps
He's clearly a closeted gay
He was a flaming girly man.
I cringed the whole time she read her vows cause CLEARLY she's more into him and he couldn't care less
I couldn't even listen to all of them.. I had to fast forward it.
I noticed that as well 🤨
I thought it was just me 😮
Took me out when she said he chose meeee 😒
@@Dj-ps9ex That part!!! He chose you alright!
Leave these jailbird dudes ALONE!
PERIOD!!!
Yeap. I learned the hard way In my 20’s never again.
True
Even the never been arrested can be dangerous too.
Naw, jail ain't got nothing to do with it.
This story makes my heart so sad. I married an evil narcissist, but was able to escape. Being single is not a sentence to unhappiness, it's quite the opposite.
Preach
Amen!! I was miserable when I was with one and been happily single every since
Same
A second this!
We don’t know if you are the actual Narcissist. Your ex could be the better man.
The fact she said she would "never give up on him" was a teller. She should have GIVEN UP ON HIM.
Exactly. Too many women think it's a test of their loyalty.
Ladies if he doesn’t have a job you shouldn’t be dating him. If he has been to jail you should not be dating him. If he sags his pants off his ass you shouldn’t be dating him. If he has multiple baby mommas you shouldn’t be dating him. I know you won’t listen but hey I tried 🤣
This isn't a joke. Why the laughing emoji
Damn straight 😂🤣😂 apparently their bedroom game if off the charts 😂🤣😂
@@leratomusi4595must have been lol.
You just wasted words won’t listen.
Other communities girls already know that.
You're ignorant. Nothing is funny
Ladies Don’t EVER THANK A MAN for “choosing “ you 😢
Unbelievable
Stupid.
Righttt✅
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Yes. That sounded desparate.
She probably bought that crab dinner too!
She did that's what she said on the video because he was complaining about a gyro she got him earlier saying that wasn't good enough so she said that's why I got you crab and shrimp. SMH just a bum
U kno she did!!!!
Talking crazy bout my momma would have sent me straight to the courthouse to file for divorce
It’s this for me. Why is no one addressing him telling her that he would impregnate her mother?!
@Idah.Waringa I been caught that, I wrote a post too about it smh
I can't even believe I heard that
Please stop asking women why are you single or when are you going to get married.
Facts
Absolutely! It’s terrifying in these streets!
Exactly
My older brother always enquiring about my love life, he even wrote a book on how to be black and one on how to get a man this is from a man with 3 different baby mothers and 2 of them non black! The irony is real . He always tries to guilt trip me into thinking I’m broken because I’ve been single for many years. I tell him I’m not desperate and I haven’t found the right guy yet! Leave me alone!
Exactly!
That argument they had on live was embarrassing.
Asf. He sounded so jealous and bitter
She bought everything maybe even the ring & wedding 😢
I cringed the entire time 🤦🏽♀️
@@janisejones6426 I mean the entire time ! The fact that she sat there and got embarrassed the whole live and tried to laugh it off. I hope this is a cautionary tale for other young ladies who think this type of man is where it’s at
Very
He reminds me of my ex in every way..the rude jokes, narcissistic attitude, anger issues. Thank God i dodged him and got him blocked. May she rest in peace, she seemed like a beautiful soul🙏🏾🙏🏾😢
Men like that reek of hidden insecurity.
Let's not hate on her for having low self-esteem. We've all been there.
Exactly
True that
Why do you think she had low self esteem?
No, Not ALL!
@@kgkg4118 because this man told her she was worthless and treated her like crap and she took it. When you have healthy self worth than you simply don't put up with that. It def could've been she was confident and he chipped away at her self worth.
Biggest red flag was him wearing them red shoes with that yellow and black outfit. Ladies stay safe, love yourself first, and never sell your soul for an image of a happy relationship.
I just texted this to my sister 🥴
You took the words right out of my thoughts. Such a tragic story. You can't save those that don't want to be saved. RIp young lady
Shut up! I literally thought the same thing!! Cause red shoes with blk and yellow.
@@1980havplenty😂I'm crying 😂
Why was I thinking the same thing…Like she knew he was crazy 💯
This dude sounds annoying
My first thought, damn he’s annoying and immature.
Yelp he talks a lot about nothing
Exactly! I just can’t see what women see in men like this. It’s not worth it to just say you have a husband. That poor woman 😥
@@dinkyboss I hate to say it but desperate that’s it especially looking at this vid wit her saying he “chose me or picked me” ohhhhh my goodness that gave me second hand embarrassment 🙅🏽♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
I was thinking the same thing. He sounds very immature. I didn't find him talking crap about her mother and friends funny either. Something had to be wrong with her. He isn't bad looking but once he opens his mouth I would be turned off. The fact that she is laughing at his disrespect and even married this loser says a lot about her as well.
Omg😢He’s awful! He has terrible manners. There’s absolutely no respect shown here for his wife. I wouldn’t be able to deal with this😖
So saying his momma was on crack when she had him??? Is ok????
@@kofibabone725don’t try it. That is NO excuse for his unhinged vile behaviour
@@kofibabone725 don’t try it! He is an unhinged psychopath. NO excuse for his behaviour
He said the “wedding wasn’t real, it was a photoshop.” She paying for it all. She was delusional about him.
She took everything as a joke meanwhile he was taking things seriously
She acted like it was a joke not to trigger him maybe?
@@treasurcanada5953 most likely but she did call him a crack baby which I find disrespectful no matter who the person is. I believe they both disrespected each other in many ways but he was honest enough to tell her he has anger issues but she continued the relationship ! Self love is truly in lack no in days !
@@Desie380 it was so really gors to show how toxic they were on both parts i think it struck a nerve in him. Going way back baby trauma is a mf and a sikent ki ller also yes I agree
@@treasurcanada5953thats what I got
I think she knew they were no joke. She wasn’t laughing for real, and she even told him he’s a crackhead.
Her vows were a red flag. If you read between the lines you can get a sense that this was a toxic relationship and she was bending over backwards to accommodate him. You can also tell that he doesn’t give af.
True. The Vows did not sit right with me.
I was waiting to hear what his vows were to her 🥺
Yeah, you could feel it through the screen. So much reassurance in one act.
I cringed when she said, "he chose me". Gyrrrrl, no!!! *real relationship (whether or not sex is involved) has anything to do with being chosen. That's pretty much fantasy stuff that's exercised to play with ones mind. I swear, the days of genuine smiles, interests, interactions, words, intentions and interests........are loooooooooong gone. She was better off showing him, than telling him a thing. Cause for some folk, knowing that you will bend over backwards for them, translates to them that you need them and they can do as they please, however and whenever with you. The degree to which most have wired themselves and their thinking pretty much spells s.c.a.r.y. (as in do you...............way over thata way) cause I ain't wit it! Hanging around to talk about loving and forgiving nonsense and foolery that don't make any sense and will contribute to your own undoing. #period
Right I was listening and thinking wth
Chicago has some of the most envious, jealous, and resentful men to the point it's rare not to come across one. It's hard to turn a blind eye, yet I feel sorry for the ladies that choose to. Those situations never end well.
Look it up. It happens.@@cristinaguzman8408
When someone tell you they're crazy, BELIEVE THEM!
And MAYBE don't say their momma was on crack when they had them 😒😒 you B's always wanna skip passed the reasons why someone does something
Bs? I'm not a bitch and that's still not a valid reason to do what he did. Words shouldn't make you that emotional. He was talking crazy about her mom so if she set him on fire would that be right? You sound angry but I'm not arguing with someone who doesn't know how to put words together but go off😂
@@kofibabone725 Bs? I'm not a bitch and words should not make you do what he did. He was talking crazy too, so if she set him on fire would that be right? You sound simple. Learn how to put your words together before you start typing, weirdo🙄
He didn't want her . He wanted the security and place to stay that she provided.
Yep, until he could find a way back to prison to live in his truth
Thissssss, I wish more women would stop entertaining this foolishness and ratchetness! No one deserves this but at the same time why would you allow someone to speak like that to you?! Like WHAT hell nah
Sad
Yup it sound like she bought him everything.. and his little btch self had the nerve to complain about some food
Let me tell you you can't force a man to love you. I'm gonna tell you a story my man we met cause we know each other, I didn't know him. He knew me he knew my family before he met me and then I didn't know him at all God told me I was gonna meet someone, then when I went to the store. Godzilla's manager husband I said what God if his man has been hidden to talk to me because I'm not talking to nobody because I don't believe in talking to no one so I don't have to be desperate because I don't need no men in my life or anything I need. Is Jesus. The man come and talk to me, and then you know what the 1st day we had a instant connection. The next day. The men never leave my house. And then, after like a week his baby mama kept calling everyday everyday. He's like going nowhere I'm not into you, let me alone it all both of them, let mama says that he wasn't coming back. They make false accusation, get him in jail all that stuff, even though he was doing certain things, but when he was doing it for them to provide for them, it was okay, but now he's with me, they don't want him to be with me. This is nature on him OK, he was a poison. They didn't want the kids to come to see him because he is with me. They did to the kids or the daddy never loved them, but she the one that got him in the place that he's at ma'am, even the kisses 20, he tried to talk to them. Oh my mama said you never wanted me, okay, he's like OK. Thank you. Bye which is what can I do I can't do anything about it. I try then he wants to hate it. I'm here in America, this lady was so desperate to have him. She wouldn't do voodoo to get there to get him. Then I left him but I cannot forget it. And then another lady who met him cause he knows he's like okay. Let me move out of this area cause I don't want no problem, and then he made another girl he told the girl that do you have a woman he said. Yes, I have a woman but my woman left me. I'm going to pray so she could come back the lady. Said no, you don't have AA, you don't have a woman and did the same s*** to get him. They, when God sent me back. He sent me. Tell you something that I must stay far away from each. And everybody he stayed away, so now we together. If whenever he got something to give him to his kids, he just smell it, and does it or do transfer with his phone, he don't he's saying, let me tell you. I'm not having no connection with anybody because I don't trust nobody would you? I don't trust nobody with me cause I don't want nobody to come and kill you and nobody can't kill me because I left them cause I told them I don't want them in life, some female or desperate, you acting like. Oh, she was such a good woman, you don't know nothing about this lady, the same way you killed them this time when somebody else's gonna kill you act like she was so perfect, and this man was so bad you don't know anything, so let's not judge that man that's not judged at me, you? Don't even know what's in that lady hot, you don't even know. What's a Batman heart? You might say, he's bad for killing her, and she might be the devil, and he had a reason so let's not judge you know, one thing that I learn when people say somebody kills someone out on judge anymore, because sometimes the people that shoot them got killed is the innocent maybe the other person is the innocent. I know people that just pure evil. The act like they're so innocent and they were the want killing people earlier in the year of demon their family. Forget this nonsense , let me tell you the devil always sweet and you're always bleming the other
The fact that she ran 2 blocks to the fire station with 2nd and 3rd degree burns over 70% of her body is just a feat within itself. No one deserves this.
After actually seeing 4 myself what it looks like to be lit on fire in will nvr look at this type of stuff the same again. 😢
Did u watch that clip of the Air Force dude that lit himself on fire? Just awful.
In school we learn to Stop-Drop-Roll if we catch on fire. Her running was in essence a death sentence. The wind created from the running will fan the flames and only make the fire grow. She may have had a chance if she stop-drop and rolled. That will smother the flames. The lighter fluid may have sealed her fate though. 😞
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@jomoland she jumped in the shower to put the flames out if u listen to the story
@@angiepangie4518 I watched this while sitting with my daughter who was listening to music. So it may very well be I missed something while she was singing along with her cartoons. Thanks 4 pointing that out. Either way , people knowing stop drop and roll is a very beneficial thing to know. It may one day save your life.
@@jomoland It sure is 👍✌️
Men like that are scary. He was too serious in the live stream while she was joking.
His latent aggression was on the verge of spilling over. Men like that are the absolute worst.
this is what i talk about when i say being single is a blessing!!!!!! that man was jealous from the jump, and it cost her life smh!!!!
Being married is a blessing too. When it's the right person.
Saying any sexual things about my mama is a problem. He tried to hide it as a joke but saying your mama will end up pregnant?....its a no.
That’s weird
Yeah, don't say it out loud!🫠😉
@@christmas80s41 very weird
Yes he was definitely disturbed!
I thought I was hearing things cos she seemed chill with that conversation
His mind was polluted with hate and violence. He didn't even speak normal. He seemed envious and hateful
Right!
Spot on. That's live video was super cringe. A bunch of nonsensical comments and inappropriate jokes. He was a big stop sign all around 🤦🏾♀️
Demonic influence
@@brianal7143🎯
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She knew he was a troubled brotha, but chose the good loving over a good life. RIP my sista ✊🏿💪🏿🙏🏿
The story was very enlightening. He was soooooooo loud, disrespectful and verbally brought up horribly. I thank my grandparents for never ever allowing me to bring men with that kind of mentally home. He was the one with looowwww self esteem the way he degraded everyone around him…
The fact that he randomly talked about acts of violence and she continued to eat and smile was disturbing.
The smiling was out of nervousness. Smiling and laughs are not always whay they seem. I read in psychology they can be defense mechanisms or your bodies way of hiding something more troubling. A smile is just an upside down frown.
I think she felt like something was going to happen and got on her lives as well. 🤨
People laugh out of fear
She is trying to keep it calm. If you have never experienced this. She is trying to get him to calm down
@@BirthingDivinity Great point thanks for sharing I appreciate your insight.
Ladies once your boyfriend or husband call u ""bruh or bro" leave him alone please . ..this weird ninja was talking to her like she was one of his male friends
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same with women. when she starts calling you bro, it's time to go. or worse still, when she's calling her girlfriends BRO, why get involved in the 1st place
Any man who keeps saying he is not afraid to go back to jail will do anything. I hate that she didn't realize he hadn't been reformed. My guess is he likes prison life.
ikr..she knew she married a whole clown...
@johnniebravoo7687 THANK YOU That always rubs me the wrong way when I'm called bruh or bro!!
She created a fairy tale in her head with a loser and a criminal. I mean….who is surprised of the outcome?
You really have to consider your life more than a relationship. This was so sad
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He was so undercover. I would rather be single than with men like this. Y'all gotta stop dating jailbirds, stop being desperate.
This!!!! 🙌🏾
Gross.
Not just jailbirds….any man that is not in jail or never been to jail and/or so-called high value #WatchOut4Them2
Lead with #Standards_Boundaries_Expectations/Requirements
Exactly. Some of these women will settle for anything just to have a man. They are just too desperate and needy. Very sad.
He changed up real quick didn't he ? You can tell she was always loving him more than he loved her ! By him coming from prison she's probably been the provider, now he's bored and so disrespectful, jealous hearted, loud and disrespectful! And she was willing to stay no matter what !
Being single is the best thing ever
Facts ! Peace and safety
That is not the answer because there are good men out there. Instead, it is better that we women do not ignore the red flags and to have discernment. We know when something is wrong or someone is off. Some women choose to ignore the signs because they are either lonely, they want to get married asap, they feel like their biological clocks are running out of time, or they are desperate to be in a relationship. Either way, it never end well for them. It is better to be single and have peace of mind than to be in a relationship with a cheator, or an abuser, or a narcissist, or a user, control freak, or a crazy person.
@@attorneyreid7unfortunately, it seems that there are more bad men than good ones out there, so her options were limited. That’s why it’s best to stay single.
@@attorneyreid7You are so right!
@@attorneyreid7 Being single is the answer.
I don't know why this keeps popping up in my videos, but I watched it again, and it was even more ridiculous than the first time. Imagine being in a relationship where you can't even have a meal without both of you having to be on live. 🤦🏾♂️
Social media got our people fucked up
Never tell anyone that they are your everything serious
Preach ❤
Why Did I Just Say This..God is my EVERYTHING!!!!!❤
She was delusional.
Frfr It's Like Saying Love Honor & Obey So Glad They Took That Out😊😅
WORD
The way they talked to each other was … odd . Behind every joke is some truth and he spoke with a lot of disrespect and aggression behind his words and downplayed her achievements. Never keep jealous people around you. Furthermore, never MARRY them.
Yelp and that includes family!!!
Sounds like he meant what he said. Prayers for the family.
That part
Well said !
Sound like he said they wasn't even really married. It was a photo shoot. Or did I hear that wrong
Women, please stop thinking you can change these men. We humans have enough trouble trying to change ourselves. This is horrific.
Those threats he was making were sad and very scary. I wouldn’t even have taken those threats lightly at all. His tone was very toxic and chilling
Extremely. He had a lot of latent animosity towards her.
He has a feminine spirit arguing with her like that. I literally just cut a dude off for that. We’re both truck drivers he said he can drive 19 hours straight. I asked him did he do coke. He blew up at me so bad. It’s not uncommon for truckers to do coke to stay up so all he had to do was say, no I don’t. All that protesting had me thinking he do but I’m not sticking around to find out✌🏽😩
I hate a man that argues and this is becomming more and more men are getting more feminine while the female is being masculine creepy foreal. I HATE DUDES LIKE THIS
How long do you drive before stopping to take a break etc. I drove 6 hours without stopping and my body was on fire etc. I felt so dizzy.
I noticed his feminine spirit as well. He definitely has a feminine side to him could be why he hates women. The his mom being an addict may have been harmful to his emotional state. I just don’t understand how this is happening everyday multiple times…
Americans are hella sensitive to begin with
Yes, trust your intuition.
What women are willing to put up with to have a man. Ladies, there’s nothing wrong with being single.
This is why I am enjoying my singleness. I have dealt with the foolishness and I will not tolerate it. I ended my last relationship because he had anger issues and saying he doesn’t mind going to jail. I don’t take those things likely. No he has never hit me, but I wasn’t about to stick around to find out.
@@aneshaelizabeth
Good for you 🕊️
I totally agree 💯 percent
@@aneshaelizabethsmart woman 👏🏽
When are women going to start looking at the heart not how good a man sex them you can get good sex from anywhere it ain't hard to find but a man with a good heart good intentions is they are rare abs until women as an whole start choosing men for they heart and not how they make your body feel then this will continue to happen
Oh man. She fell in love with an evil and immature and unhinged man. Poor lady. May she rest in peace.
When a woman says a man is her everything that relationship is toxic! ONLY GOD CAN BE YOUR EVERYTHING!!!! 🙏🏽
That man said in real time, "i dont care about going back to prison, I have NOTHING to live for." That should've been ALL she needa to hear. He used her for place to stay and her money.
I would never date a con
@@faefae2260 as you shouldn't
Exactly! I was shocked when I heard those!😢
That's what we call jealousy with a mix of alcohol, maybe drug's, immaturity, and anger problems. He is a narcissist, and when she started calling him slow, a crack baby, and stupid to her people on live she completely demeaned him as a Man. That was fuel for him, because narcissists want everyone to see them in a certain "perfect" light. This is a sad story and no one deserves to die this way. It's heartbreaking.
Sad
How could anyone love someone let alone marry them when they disrespect you and your family and friends on social media?
Right, saying he would get your mother pregnant? He been having hen feelings about her mother, smh
Exactly who plays like that 🤦🏾♀️
Desperate for “love” no matter the cost 🤦🏽♀️
There is no way I would ever tolerate this disrespect and he just wouldn't get my attention period.
@@kimstepp8851 Then he was talking about eating her mother's but.
Aww man, I wish this woman would have gotten away after this video. This is so sad!!! He's an evil monster.
Boundaries need to be taught at a young age. Boundaries are GOLD.
He sounded mentally challenged and she ignored all the red flags. I can tell that's mad man just from the video and how he's talking. He's a jail bird and he been threatening her for nothing.
I was looking for the alcohol on the table because I was looking for a viable reason why he's talking like that to her.
Mess up and damage and she just turned blind eyes to the fact that she marry a profound criminal sad
Remedial. Genuinely, emotionally stunted.
@@louniece1650 So sad. Seems he was jealous and hateful of her as well.She said she knew he wanted to kill her and that terrified me. She seemed like a fun loving person. Much love e to all❤
And don’t forget he was a crack baby
He called her family after he did it!!! OMG absolutely insane! I hope he get all that's coming to him in prison!!!!!!
15 seconds into this video and I can see he’s a bit light on his tippy toes. 🧚🏾♂️ I don’t know how she missed that. Such a tragic ending.
😂😂😂😂😂😂. As my husband says
"He's a little shaky". 🤨
SPIRITUAL DISCERNMENT IS A MUST
I totally agree! For me I can look in a person’s eye and pay attention to their body movements to know the kind of person they are.
IMPERATIVE!!!
Say it again!!!
Amen
It's sad she lost her life but she saw the signs and just ignored them just to say she has a man.
I cannot understand why so many women feel they can save and reform these miscreants. If they don’t honor God and the laws…there is no way they will honor you. This was such an unthinkable act…it’s too much to finish watching.
Heartfelt condolences to the family…RIP🕊🥀
Somebody has to try
@la-ry1ms & it doesn't have to be you. There are programs at Salvation Army where men can work, live, eat & be paid a small sum to teach you to adult. The Healing Place is the same way for young men & even offer drug rehab. These programs for women are few & far between. It's not our responsibility to raise other people's children into men. Please be safe ❤❤❤
The love and respect for The Most High God is a key sign because if he does not go to The Most High God when he needs guidance or before he makes decisions then who/what is he going to? Don’t let the good looks, money and material things fool you. This is the material realm and who is the “temporary” 👀 ruler of it? 😮💯 Excellent Comment and point you made 👍🏾🙏🏾
@@la-ry1ms
Sadly countless women have lost their lives trying…in that same vein, by and large, men are not dating/marrying broken women.
Amen Queen!
It's not a question of single or married is [better]. It's a question of whether we are protecting ourselves in our relationships; heeding warning signs, and walking away while we still can.
I hate their banter… he’s so immature too….
This dude said the wedding was photoshopped.. he didn’t give a shit about her
THIS
I ran into so many men like him. They hate to hear someone else get praise no matter who they are to you. Ladies be careful cuz some men are envious of your children too because they know you have love for your babies and not just him.
I learned that many women both ugly or pretty are very JEALOUS of successful men too!😢
@@user-fq4jo7tw5k yes, I've witnessed that as well it's sickening. Where's the love for all?
@@telrper exactly. I'm scared to invite women over my apartment its so fly in there, I don't wanna get re-traumatuzed by envy either subtle or direct. Sick of it man
That’s a very sick individual!!!!
So True Preach
Smh they started off as friends with benefits. That was already a bad sign
The amount of stuff he was saying on that live and she just laughed it off smh especially about her mom. Crazy r.i.p baby girl,
No offense but that wedding vow she gave was desperate and shows she was JUST happy to have anybody. Don’t force love lady. God would not send a man who slaps, punches, VERBAL ABUSE or etc. Satan sent that to her. You know how much you have to hate or dislike someone to set them on fire 🔥 😮HORRIBLE. All that neck grabbing looks weird too 😒
Agree 1000%
YES!!! I was looking at that and wondered if anyone caught it. The way we grabbed her on more than one occasion was weird. It looked as if he could just twist her head and break her neck. His physical energy was off to me.
All that neck grabbing looks cringey asf 😂
He’s an undercover bisexual little boy with mommy issues.
He can’t control his impulses. So the only thing he can control besides sex, is women (so he thinks).
I started to say that she loved him more than he loved her. But no, she didn’t love him at all.
She was just happy to have the title. He was just going along with it all until he couldn’t hide the intensity of his barbaric nature anymore.
She said herself that she knew he wanted to kill her. Sad.
May ViVi rest in peace.
@@glamgotti1963 yes! I agree
The problem is most of these men be operating in high feminine energy. They’re in secret competition with the woman they’re dating. Have not healed from their childhood trauma, learned self control or how to take accountability. This is just sad 😢
No, they just hate you and you all refuse to come to terms with that
@@monie3558say it again. A lot of women need to be honest with one another and say that these men don’t really like you. They like the stability you provide. Don’t already have children, then they’re trying to move in and play house. These men resent the fact that these women settle for their mediocrity.
What exactly is high feminine energy? Feminine energy is nurturing, caring, and loving. That place where you get one hour of scheduled time in the yard, was created because of the actions of men. They populate them for the most part.
@@The1GeminII High feminine energy as it pertains to the negative end of the spectrum; emotional, talkative, weak ego, jealous, vindictive, and hypersensitive. Men like this are dangerous because they feel the need to overcompensate by making themselves appear powerful or important. To do that, they have to make others feel small through antagonizing behavior and belittling their target.
@@The1GeminII most of these women just parrot what sounds good. if they had feminine energy, there would be a lot less violence
Why was she doing a live while eating crabs and arguing with her husband with a bonnet on her head?
Ghetto life I guess.Not making fun.But it is
That's how low her standards were.
He's so immature and disrespectful. Some women are so desperate to get married that they ignore the signs of danger.
Yes, they are so desperate to follow a tradition that other people made up, that they’ll marry anything just to say they’re married. That’s also when they start thinking they’re better than single women… meanwhile their husband is out cheating with single women.
That part
Very desperate
Goodness THE WAY HE WAS TALKING ON HER LIVE😮
And, sometimes these kinds of me men don’t show their true colors, until after they have the woman on lock…it happens all the time!!!
If this is your option for a husband..it’s best to stay single. It’s so sad she suffered for a month in the hospital 😢
She wanted to live, she was fighting. Her body couldn't handle all that damage. Very sad.
May she RIP I can’t imagine her pain 💔🙏🏾
That was wrenching… that month must’ve been awful, for her and her family to have to see her life that. 💔
@candiicaine5596😢😢❤❤
Her vows are insane. If I heard my daughter saying that at her wedding I would have to OBJECT!
Definitely
She made a big mistake marrying that rude, messy, petty, classless man. I couldn`t stand him so much talking that i had to pause the video a couple of times SMH.
We as women need to do better picking partners and not rush marriage for a dream wedding.
she's just as ignorant and digusting as he is!!
A grown man hating on another woman's friends graduating is just terrible alone 😑
The parents school them on such behaviour.
Yes and in her case the red flags were there. She should have RUN!
SHOULD'VE run a full background check!
So true
Plenty of them out here doing the same thing, even competing too
She ignored his comments and thought he was funny. He was violent and disrespectful.
super disrespectful I don't even play like that
She didn't think he was funny! She was TERRIFIED of him, but she didn't want to set him off even more at that moment. She knew he was saying the truth of what he wanted to do to her. She knew what he was capable of. She chose to stay.
I would have taken that video to the police and left!
She wasn't a little girl. A bit of self defense, working out, and I know he'd reconsider, because she could have knocked him silly.
1:02 When she said ‘he chose me’ the second hand cringe was almost fatal. If that don’t prove being picked isn’t important I don’t know what is. Bless her! 😢
WHEN YOU SAY YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LIVE FOR; THAT'S MY SLIP OUT IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT
😂😂😂😂
He was a walking, talking red flag 🚩
1. Never ignore negative comments about your physical attributes
2. Never ignore “jealous”comments about you, your family or your friends
3. Never ignore comments about murderous intent
He high key didn’t like her. I hate this so much because she looked like the sweetest person. RIH sis you didn’t deserve this 🕊
💯
She loves the toxicity. That convo while eating was so erratic, u can tell he’s unhinged.
It sounded like if she said the wrong thing. It would go left in a second and he would get up and do harm to her.
@Mistyjames212...You misread that whole live...She didn't love that toxicity at all...she tried to get him to calm down...she kept her eyes and head down on her live video...bcus he was out of control and embarrassing her...then she tried to describe his behavior to everyone by disclosing that he was a crack baby...he was mentally unstable and abusive
She looked embarrassed and tried to play it off. Especially dismissing her friend’s degree that she was so proud for her friend of earning.
That’s what she dealt with in her desperation to keep a man.
He sounded hangry. Never underestimate the power of a large meal or a missed one.
That crab and broccoli may have been triggering for him😅 sucking meat 😅 isn't that pleasant for men as it may be for women 😅....
How did she fall for a guy who talks like this? My goodness.....
He is a devilish demon that's not suppose to breath the same fresh air I breath 😢😢😢
Low self esteem, not wanting to be alone, and past abuse is what probably brought her to be with him. I'd rather be alone and alive than married and misued and abused. So sad for this lady.
Amen to that ❤
Or just confusing sexual interest with the idea of being married/"chosen"......even though most have no idea what marriage is ***all about. Some people cannot separate the 2 in ways that have them understand its differences. Within the last 2 years, I've heard so many young folk talk about looking for a relationship, as they don't want to be alone when they get old. I'm always taken aback when I hear that, as who's to say that you won't feel alone in a relationship that is empty. As things like unity, connections and bonds are made of genuine interests that supersede belonging to x,y, and z
@@junglekutz5625
Factual.
A BIG reason why I don't use dating apps.
@@junglekutz5625 Not only that, but married men tend to die 7-10yrs b4 their widows do. Chances of you being alone are high if you're trying to bank on marriage.
I wish young people would stop ‘filming’ everything and actually stop to listen to what’s being said! What a sad story
Omg, for real!! No class!! Only mess for attention! Why!?!?
Girl, they ain't gonna stop!!!! Everybody a rapper or a social media mogul!!!!!
I agree
There's a reason why folk film everything. It's like they want to have their own reality TV show of sorts. I don't even think that most of the stuff that folk do, is based on real interest and passion. It seems as though they're just doing what they see others are doing in order to fit in. Which is why most of the negative stuff gets ignored. There's no way that young people (in or out of a relationship) would sit back and have their peers say negative stuff about them (unless they're desperate for their friendship). It seems like most people in general (these days), are ok with either being treated poorly or subjecting themselves to poor treatment by folk that obviously don't care about themselves..
Gross.
Ladies ladies, ladies, I PROMISE YOU. IT'S OK TO BE SINGLE LIKE THIS HAS TO STOP! HONESTLY, THEY WERE BOTH TOXIC. WORK ON YOUR SELF ESTEEM, SELF IMAGE and self worth.
Stop telling GROWN WOMEN what to do!
Damn, I don’t know why she married him. He was trash from the beginning…
I wonder how many women would still be alive if they had just listened to their gut.
Quite a few
I wonder how many bw would be alive if they stopped being with bm? Hundreds, perhaps thousands.🤔
@@user-bx2wl7we5k Normally, you direct that comment towards wm. Bw don't have a choice being the least desirable of all women.
@@HollieMoodiethat narrative is hardly true anymore and it’s the media and some
BM trying to keep it up. BW are very desired, I’ve met so many non BM over the years who confess there attraction and desire to pursue relationship with Bw. These interactions have happened in person a lot and online too. Non BM reasoning for not directly talking to BW ? it’s always they’re “intimidated” or fear they can’t “satisfy” us in the bedroom. It’s 2024, more and more BW are looking else where for love
@@user-bx2wl7we5kany man is capable of hurting unaliving black women regardless of what race they are.
Her calling him a crack baby and his insults back at her was so toxic
That was disgusting. She pulled a trigger.. This is toxic and cringe..
Thts true. She was saying mean things too, bout be I ng crackbaby, but still he didn't have to kill her.
This.
Ffs who would say that to someone they claimed to love? Says everything.
YES AND BRAGGING ABOUT ANOTHER MAN’s ACCOMPLISHMENTS.
When you accept a nothing into your life it drags you down.
After my husband died, a true one-in-a-million type of man, I've accepted the fact that I will remain single. Nowadays, even if you know someone you don't really know them and I'm not about to get a psychology degree to have someone in my life. I live alone but in peace and nothing is going to disturb this.
He talk so damn much, that right there would’ve sent me running
Facts trying to impress people on live like he’s cool or something🤡
Exactly. And about dumb shit!!!
A whole lot about nothing too! Just jealousy and anger and sexual jokes about her mom
I heard that!🤣🤣
@@budgonstopCANELO Jealousy has everything to do with it. You better get smart.
She was laughing through his chaos and unstableness to hide the pain 😢 when he said “he had nothing to lose” - he meant that
Exactly
Rightttttttt , damn
Right. Women need to stop picking up these chaotic men. Eventually the chaos will come to you ladies.
The fact he wanted to break someone's neck over a fender bender. Not to mention he was jealous if her and her friend and his overall disrespect of women. He was the worst.
U right
I LOVE LOVE the voice of enthusiasm of the woman holding the wedding ceremony for the couple! I’d love someone so enthusiastic like that holding my wedding as well!
She was cringey.
U can hear the undertone of rage in his "joking" & laughs..I'd be scared as he'll if my partner started acting that way & I would never marry someone or be with anyone like that either.
She was PROUD he picked her?????? What low expectations she had for herself😢
Yes she was laughing when he was probably thinking she’s stupid smh 🤦🏾♀️
She's gross, too. Just sad people.
Exactfrigginly
@@marzhayez3428 💯💯
I know. That line about he chose me like she was so excited because he was everything and she was nothing and he bothered to be with her. I hate that shit
Loudness, immaturity, sexual jokes about her mama, threats against her friends. All sorts of red flags while she laughed at things that were hardly funny trying to fit in with him like she was one of the homies . Sadly cost her her life.
Talmbout, cause he chose me with a big smile. So sorry for her loved ones. Sad.
This Rocked My Soul To Its Core...My God!
I'm convinced that some people prefer toxicity over peace
@@ContextReallyMatters It's not that they prefer toxicity, instead, they have low self esteem and do not have the tools to self love.
Feeling "chosen" is a red flag, ladies. There's no competition, at all. I'm only saying that feeling of "Oh, I can't believe a man married me!" is always a bad sign and you've often attracted out of insecurity. He's likely trash
The Live is very disturbing... 😢 I wish they found a movie to watch while eating, love on each other. I pray for her family. .🕊
She seems like a big hearted person and hearing the way he speaks to her on the live stream is just disgusting.
The things he said about her Momma...disgusting!!!
Right!!!
It is easy to diagnose mental illness with 20/20 hindsight I learned from experience that Charlatans pretend well. They are loving, charming, argumentative, and and violent. Plus, possess hidden psychopathic tendencies. Some people can spot them from ten miles away. Others are not as fortunate, and they end up in the same position as this beautiful, and unfortunate young woman.
I think she may have already been fearful of him by that time and she was trying to play it off to keep him from getting riled up. She was filming his behavior.
This story is sickening! Pleeeease pay attention to the warnings posted in the comments. 😞😢😤
Right smh
@@ceoagood observation I noticed that too, laughing as well to try and play it off and de-escalate his behavior. Sad.
A MAN that’s talks more than a WOMAN is a clear sign of a you know what ! Disrespecting her mother smh so many signs on top of the “ short man complex “ …. May this beautiful soul rest in eternal peace ❤
She allowed it.
Yup he’s gay…DL life is real.
Exactly- all that running his mouth !!!
She chose that kind of man to be her husband. Of all the men in this world.
And he didn’t mind going back to jail , and you know what men do with each other in there. They be marrying blk women for a place to live that’s how they lock it in and with a baby