I just started talking to a man. He’s been married and divorced 4 TIMES and all I heard was blaming his last wife, no accountability at all. Red flag 🚩
Same here, but 2 times. My biggest concern is the blaming of the ex's without an ounce of accountability. Very suspicious to me. 🚩⚠️ How are things going for you now?
People need to heal first from your previous marriage. It can take many years in certain cases. Sadly in States mental health and care is almost ignored. Relationships bring trauma of all kinds.
100% agree with you, I was never married before and got married with divorce woman and our relationship broke in just 3 years. I know how hard it was to stay with her during that 3 years. I tried my best to keep her happy but whenever I tried something her reply was please don’t sing this song because it was my first husbands favorite song.... I am feeling so blessed to get divorce from her and enjoying being single until I find a right person.
Im married to a divorce and his first priority and guilt is only his son. I feel out of place n neglected all the time. Dont know how long i can carry on
Have the hard conversion that peels back the veil that hides the truth hurt pain anger bitterness. And also realize we don't have the ability strength to make someone happy who isn'. I too was married it ended after 19 years and me getting clean and sober. We're both had our responsibility in the failure me early on hers later nothing I ever did was right, a person who.isnt happy and love themselves won't find it without but fro. Within and With the Help and Strength of God you'll find someone able to share love and joy it takes more than Love a suggestion you're divorced find someone divorced prayerfully both tired of getting it wrong and Work together to get it right Peace Blessings
My wife and I were together for 10 years then told me she wanted a Divorce soon after my 70th Birthday. I have always believed we could have fixed our relationship but she decided against that idea. I wish "WE" had found you during that time because I believe we would still be married today if we had. Your work can be very helpful for Men as well as Women. Like you say, it takes Two, Drop the Scorecards. TY for what you do.
Bravo! Bravo! Such a short explanation video with great content. I am about to be his 3rd divorce! I am blamed for our failed marriage because i didn't give him enough attention, love, and was always bothered by something. That no matter what he did it wasn't enough. Mind you he didn't work, starved for social media attention, and caved to the thirsty females. All this while I'm battling the constant scare of my mother passing. Been separated for 9 mos aaaand was served with divorce papers this month. I finally reached out just to get the same man, blaming blaming, and telling me i was too late. I chose to work on me these months. Reflect on my flaws and the role i played in our separation. I did tell him i was willing to try to restore our marriage although he cheated on me but his past didn't matter because i love him and want to save our marriage. He continued with blaming, anger, too late but that he still loves me but "too much has been done to undo". That he knew he would regret denying my request. I love him but I'm not going to continue holding onto a vine full of thrones.
Thank you so much for sharing. Many of my clients have experienced something similar. It sounds like you've done a lot of hard work to move forward in the best way possible for yourself. Wishing you all the very best!
Thank you for that spoken like a true queen 🙏🏽😒🙏🏽I just got married July 20,2022 and we separated today heading for divorce 😒this is my second one I’m done 😭😭
The woman I like has been married at least once and divorced. I think her heart is into it but she also likes to do her own thing too. Maybe she hasn't found a man who can love her deeply when she wants it and then give her space when she wants it. I would marry her i a second and I can provide the deep love that she needs at times and give her space. I think if she finds someone who is willing to do that her heart might open a little more.
I searched for this content and this video came up. My cousin has had 7 divorces, has 8 kids in total and now she thinks I should marry her and take care of her, heal her wounds as a cousin brother. I have never married before and this woman with all her failed marriages still has many positive sides. But if as you say 74% of 3rd martiages end in divorce, then there is almost a 90% chance for an 8th marriage to end.
I'll say that it's the same thing that broke the 1st marriage (had one). I'll go further to say that it's not something within you that broke it. it is marriage itself that is the cause of a broken one. divorce is one of the worst things you can experience in your life. getting married pretty much guarantees divorce no matter what you do. let me state the obvious- do not allow yourself to get married and you'll never suffer divorce. 2nd, 3rd+ marriages are essentially expecting to get out of a hole by digging faster.
2 problems I see, wrong partner choice (worth looking into the cause), and poor behaviour on my part (equally important to repect upon). I'm one marriage down, looking at another relationship 4 years on. Scared shitless, but have an open partner who is going through the same thing. Hard work, requires trust and safety. Good luck guys...
I have just met a lovely lady whom has served loyally her 2 past husbands, but it’s been 2x Divorced situations, this lady thinks I’m amazing, which I know I am ! #selfaware / I want her to necessarily give me her answer to this video as such but the valid point made in this video is real / I just need to figure out how to pass along the context of this video.
I just started talking to a man. He’s been married and divorced 4 TIMES and all I heard was blaming his last wife, no accountability at all. Red flag 🚩
Divorced people always blame the previous spouse for everything. You are right big red flag.
Any guy who gets married more than once today is dumb. 4 times? Yikes.
Same here, but 2 times. My biggest concern is the blaming of the ex's without an ounce of accountability. Very suspicious to me. 🚩⚠️
How are things going for you now?
People need to heal first from your previous marriage. It can take many years in certain cases. Sadly in States mental health and care is almost ignored. Relationships bring trauma of all kinds.
Experienced divorce attorney here. I approve of this video.
hi. im watching your videos.
100% agree with you, I was never married before and got married with divorce woman and our relationship broke in just 3 years. I know how hard it was to stay with her during that 3 years. I tried my best to keep her happy but whenever I tried something her reply was please don’t sing this song because it was my first husbands favorite song.... I am feeling so blessed to get divorce from her and enjoying being single until I find a right person.
Said to know this .
dont get married again
Hi
Im married to a divorce and his first priority and guilt is only his son. I feel out of place n neglected all the time. Dont know how long i can carry on
Have the hard conversion that peels back the veil that hides the truth hurt pain anger bitterness. And also realize we don't have the ability strength to make someone happy who isn'. I too was married it ended after 19 years and me getting clean and sober. We're both had our responsibility in the failure me early on hers later nothing I ever did was right, a person who.isnt happy and love themselves won't find it without but fro. Within and With the Help and Strength of God you'll find someone able to share love and joy it takes more than Love a suggestion you're divorced find someone divorced prayerfully both tired of getting it wrong and Work together to get it right Peace Blessings
If you want to grow, in most situations, you best assume the way it went was mostly your responsibility.
My wife and I were together for 10 years then told me she wanted a Divorce soon after my 70th Birthday. I have always believed we could have fixed our relationship but she decided against that idea. I wish "WE" had found you during that time because I believe we would still be married today if we had. Your work can be very helpful for Men as well as Women. Like you say, it takes Two, Drop the Scorecards. TY for what you do.
Dating a twice divorced woman. She doesn't seem to take any accountability for failed marriages.
It's insane.
You are so true about the overlooking the red flags , 👍👍👍♥️♥️♥️
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Spot on.
Not because i was wrong the first time mean i was wrong the second.
I agree Relationships are hard work
excellent. finally someone who is reasonable and is saying it like it is.
Bravo! Bravo! Such a short explanation video with great content. I am about to be his 3rd divorce! I am blamed for our failed marriage because i didn't give him enough attention, love, and was always bothered by something. That no matter what he did it wasn't enough. Mind you he didn't work, starved for social media attention, and caved to the thirsty females. All this while I'm battling the constant scare of my mother passing. Been separated for 9 mos aaaand was served with divorce papers this month. I finally reached out just to get the same man, blaming blaming, and telling me i was too late. I chose to work on me these months. Reflect on my flaws and the role i played in our separation.
I did tell him i was willing to try to restore our marriage although he cheated on me but his past didn't matter because i love him and want to save our marriage. He continued with blaming, anger, too late but that he still loves me but "too much has been done to undo". That he knew he would regret denying my request. I love him but I'm not going to continue holding onto a vine full of thrones.
Thank you so much for sharing. Many of my clients have experienced something similar. It sounds like you've done a lot of hard work to move forward in the best way possible for yourself. Wishing you all the very best!
This spoke the truth to me. I am on my second marriage and going through the second transition of starting my life over
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Thank you for that spoken like a true queen 🙏🏽😒🙏🏽I just got married July 20,2022 and we separated today heading for divorce 😒this is my second one I’m done 😭😭
2 months in?
@@ms.heavydutycutie2993 one month after marriage you're already divorcing??
Im still not married yet ❤
The woman I like has been married at least once and divorced. I think her heart is into it but she also likes to do her own thing too. Maybe she hasn't found a man who can love her deeply when she wants it and then give her space when she wants it. I would marry her i a second and I can provide the deep love that she needs at times and give her space. I think if she finds someone who is willing to do that her heart might open a little more.
I searched for this content and this video came up. My cousin has had 7 divorces, has 8 kids in total and now she thinks I should marry her and take care of her, heal her wounds as a cousin brother. I have never married before and this woman with all her failed marriages still has many positive sides. But if as you say 74% of 3rd martiages end in divorce, then there is almost a 90% chance for an 8th marriage to end.
Horrible why americans love marrying people's 😁😁😁
I'd say 100%
Please dont
Why would you marry your family member?
You can marry her if you love her.
I'll say that it's the same thing that broke the 1st marriage (had one). I'll go further to say that it's not something within you that broke it. it is marriage itself that is the cause of a broken one. divorce is one of the worst things you can experience in your life. getting married pretty much guarantees divorce no matter what you do. let me state the obvious- do not allow yourself to get married and you'll never suffer divorce. 2nd, 3rd+ marriages are essentially expecting to get out of a hole by digging faster.
2 problems I see, wrong partner choice (worth looking into the cause), and poor behaviour on my part (equally important to repect upon). I'm one marriage down, looking at another relationship 4 years on. Scared shitless, but have an open partner who is going through the same thing. Hard work, requires trust and safety. Good luck guys...
I have just met a lovely lady whom has served loyally her 2 past husbands, but it’s been 2x Divorced situations, this lady thinks I’m amazing, which I know I am ! #selfaware / I want her to necessarily give me her answer to this video as such but the valid point made in this video is real / I just need to figure out how to pass along the context of this video.
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This is good. I need this. Ty
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My name is Aryan 27 years old
Great advice. Thank you.
Very helpful. Thanks
Thank you!
wise words
You are absolutely right
Thank you for this
Thank you.
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What about 4th marriage???
Marriage has little to no value to men unless they want kids.
what did you allow over overlook...Wow!!!
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