as someone who is going through college rn, trust me the fun isn't worth it... The amount of stress college will bring into your life will make you forget whatever fun you can have on the weekends.
This!!! I graduate in the spring with my bachelors but I’m going straight through to get my masters. I tell people all the time college is legit a scam and if you’re interested in a career that doesn’t require a college degree…then don’t do it😭😭😭
I'm also in college & this is so true! If you're super extraverted and like a fast paced life, it's fun. Otherwise, it's so exhausting and draining to go out after a week of classes and assignments.
@@lockednkeey1985 college definitely isn’t a scam if you pick the right major, and even then a degree looks better on a resume. My manager went straight from barista to store manager just for having a degree that doesn’t even apply to her job title. I totally agree that if you don’t need the degree for your desired career field then you shouldn’t bother with the student debt, but also even if it doesn’t you can for sure get ahead of the curve by just having that degree.
Ngl I laughed wayy too hard during this vid! As a 31yr old, I still understand the struggles of not having many if at all any friends. People are so fake these days and if you don't agree with them 100%, then you aren't good enough. Just know you have a massive community of 'friends' here no matter what you're going through💜 You talking about the bag of puzzle pieces being your brain was SOO spot on to how I feel like most of the time lol. I know you aren't that big on chatting but I highly recommend creating a discord server (down to help you set it up if need be) and that way you never truly feel alone, and all of your subs can interact with 1 another. I can get very introverted these days despite also constantly feeling this need to engage with others and I know how hard it can be to get over that anxiety/fear but, maybe together we can change that! ^-^
When you started doing the puzzle!!! 🤣🤣 THAT WAS THE FUNNIEST THING! Puzzles are amazing dude! They help with brain function! Another amazing vlog! 🙌🏼🖤🎃
I love how richly you celebrate Fall, its got me so inspired. Also love the hear to heart at the beginning, I so relate. Great video, your channel is so fly, just keeps getting betta!
i went through a party phase in high school and it’s not worth it, as someone who currently lives the homebody life now at 21 and also didn’t experience the college life i have no regrets. if anything i regret my high school party phase because i used it to cover up a lot of pain and trauma. a lot of people i know who partied in high school and later in college end up saying the same thing to me about them using it to avoid whatever it is they are currently dealing with or repressing
I'm the exact same way, I didn't have a big group of friends nor was I popular. Majority of the small group of "best" friends that I did have used me/talked behind my back. I used to hate being an introvert, but I've learned to embrace it. I'm working on being more of an ambivert ❤
25:02 I gave up reading for that exact reason! I struggled a lot with that in school and it really stressed me out because I was failing too many reading assignments. Haven’t read a book since I graduated high school.
I read a lot and like it. I find that right after some exercising, especially cardio my attention goes up a couple of hours and my focus is better so I thusly read and remember during that period of time .
Literally same! Reading is so hard for me because I know I’m reading the words but they aren’t sticking. They say it’s because you’re not really interested
I remember a little while ago you were talking about how you wanna be more natural with your delivery for sponsorships and I have to say whatever you changed it’s working 👏🏼 I think there’s a huge improvement 💖 love your vids
LOVE this video. You always brighten my day. I am not a fan of apple cider, but you are making me want some right now, haha. Hope Deja Vu is bonding nicely with your other two babies. And, Amazon has puzzle boards that help a lot and you can leave the puzzle on it after you are finished for display. CHEERS!!!!
This happens to be when I read too. With anxiety, I find it hard to focus on things. Hoping that things will improve if I practice slowing down my mind.
im an avid reader, at least i was before college (haha, dont go), and i still drift off to other thoughts. its okay it happens. either reread the passage you missed because being a slow reader is okay, or be like me and keep reading and eventually the dots will connect (or the puzzle pieces will fit haha!)
Im more of a chill person too! I never really went out growing up either. (Due to sickness and lack of friends) I prefer being at home or going out to dinner, arcades, hiking etc. Over partying as well. I have the same problem with reading. I thought it was just me but now I don’t feel so bad about forgetting what I be reading! Lol Great content tho. Keep it up!
25:40 STOPPP!! CAUSE ITS SO TRUE🥺🥺✨✨✨✨ N I DONT HAVE ONE RIGHT NOW 😔 sometimes I can't help but randomly imagine I do. When I'm laying I'll just think of an Imaginary cuddle kitty🤔☺️✨😌😒 but..can't til I'm ready.
hahaha, I dont measure my seasonings either the homemade soup looked delicious, Im going to try and make a tomato soup!! I just made a pumpkin soup im the same with reading, I thought it was ADHD, but I just cant seem to focus and read, and Ill have to keep rereading everything
love your vlogs and your editing, I would love to see a video on how you do it. you really take your time and it shows. also I'm from nyc and I feel like we relate so much
That happened with my first mic after a while. I tried different fixes but I ended up just getting a new mic because it got worse over time. My old mic was the rode mic and then when I had to replace it, I got the movo mic which is cheaper but I like it more.
Love your video! They are so relaxing always a cozy vibe with music and candle ( just be careful ul to many scent can be harmful to your babies I have a whole candle collection I can barley use because of my fur babies) Beautiful kitties remind me of how playful mine was take good care of them they are a life long best friend who will always have time to listen to you.
I apologize if you have mentioned this before but what is the fizzy stuff you put on the veggies to clean them? I’ve been looking for something :) thank you!
“I’m trying to stick with who I am and what I like vs what I should like” big facts. I agree with everything that was said. #Team introverted antisocial lover girl and ain’t nothing wrong with it.
i feel you about college. i’m in community college and i want to transfer to a university cause it seems fun, but at the same time i don’t wanna go cause i feel like my experience won’t be how it is on social media
Ohh maaann I’m going through the whole no friends thing lmao but I’m okay I’m really an introvert. However here and there, I would like a break once a year or so n be free, not worry about someone, and have the complete fun that I want to achieve. That’s my aspirations while struggling through college, raising four children under four, working at home, and taking care of the house 😊 I’m all in for my baby’s, but sometimes an occasional fun time would be awesome while going through those yeaars
25:04 yup same with me I knew I wasn't alone tho! 😂😂😭 I thought like I know I ain't the only one Like the words would be said n my brain but I'm not comprehending the point! So I'll keep repeating it, then aloud I'll read it annoyed 😠 at that point🥺😂😂😒😒 But I'd get it eventually 😭😭😌 I have to understand before I continue or what am I even doing lol
Wait wait wait the water is flavored by the smell of it wow that makes me want to buy it in its self. How long does it last like a certain amount of refills or hours?
Does anyone know where she got the cat tree? I’m looking for a wooden cat tree (not completely covered in faux fur) and I liked the one shown in the video.
I didn’t really party during my college days but I’m still young enough (32) where people my age are going out,traveling etc & I can’t stay up to save my life!! 😩😩 at home,in a bar,traveling My bedtime is midnight at the latest and that’s a struggle lol Also I’m a homebody I like to stay home,read,drink wine and watch UA-cam
Dude we’d be amazing friends because that’s my childhood in a nutshell. Went to college and honestly the clubs and parties and guys sweating you was exhausting. Fun to say i did it tho. But I’m lucky enough to even have one friend😅
guys, this video was filmed before we got DéjàVu😭sorryy
not me looking everywhere for dejavu
oOoOO okay cause I was confused 🤔😭✨🐈⬛🖤
Hey Mel, quick question where did you get that gold razor from?
as someone who is going through college rn, trust me the fun isn't worth it... The amount of stress college will bring into your life will make you forget whatever fun you can have on the weekends.
This!!! I graduate in the spring with my bachelors but I’m going straight through to get my masters. I tell people all the time college is legit a scam and if you’re interested in a career that doesn’t require a college degree…then don’t do it😭😭😭
I'm also in college & this is so true! If you're super extraverted and like a fast paced life, it's fun. Otherwise, it's so exhausting and draining to go out after a week of classes and assignments.
@@lockednkeey1985 college definitely isn’t a scam if you pick the right major, and even then a degree looks better on a resume. My manager went straight from barista to store manager just for having a degree that doesn’t even apply to her job title. I totally agree that if you don’t need the degree for your desired career field then you shouldn’t bother with the student debt, but also even if it doesn’t you can for sure get ahead of the curve by just having that degree.
Ngl I laughed wayy too hard during this vid! As a 31yr old, I still understand the struggles of not having many if at all any friends. People are so fake these days and if you don't agree with them 100%, then you aren't good enough. Just know you have a massive community of 'friends' here no matter what you're going through💜 You talking about the bag of puzzle pieces being your brain was SOO spot on to how I feel like most of the time lol. I know you aren't that big on chatting but I highly recommend creating a discord server (down to help you set it up if need be) and that way you never truly feel alone, and all of your subs can interact with 1 another. I can get very introverted these days despite also constantly feeling this need to engage with others and I know how hard it can be to get over that anxiety/fear but, maybe together we can change that! ^-^
When you started doing the puzzle!!! 🤣🤣 THAT WAS THE FUNNIEST THING! Puzzles are amazing dude! They help with brain function! Another amazing vlog! 🙌🏼🖤🎃
I love how richly you celebrate Fall, its got me so inspired. Also love the hear to heart at the beginning, I so relate. Great video, your channel is so fly, just keeps getting betta!
i went through a party phase in high school and it’s not worth it, as someone who currently lives the homebody life now at 21 and also didn’t experience the college life i have no regrets. if anything i regret my high school party phase because i used it to cover up a lot of pain and trauma. a lot of people i know who partied in high school and later in college end up saying the same thing to me about them using it to avoid whatever it is they are currently dealing with or repressing
I love how cozy everyone of her videos are. I hope to be like and in my cozy girl era this holidays hehe
When it comes to puzzles sometimes I find that it helps to start with the boarder pieces and then continue to the inside. 16:50
I've recently started taking care of myself because of these videos! thank you Mel!
Your vibes, your company, your comfortable home, your self care...I love watching you! Youre incredible, thank you for your videos. #lifegoals
brightens my day to watch your videos, love you mel! never stop being you❤️❤️
honestly the most comforting ytuber. glad i’ve watched you for a few years
I'm the exact same way, I didn't have a big group of friends nor was I popular. Majority of the small group of "best" friends that I did have used me/talked behind my back. I used to hate being an introvert, but I've learned to embrace it. I'm working on being more of an ambivert ❤
25:02 I gave up reading for that exact reason! I struggled a lot with that in school and it really stressed me out because I was failing too many reading assignments. Haven’t read a book since I graduated high school.
I read a lot and like it. I find that right after some exercising, especially cardio my attention goes up a couple of hours and my focus is better so I thusly read and remember during that period of time .
your hair is lookin amazing gurlll
it's how the cat be going everywhere for me hahaha
That homemade cider looks so good! I want to try that 😄
your videos are just amazing you put so much effort in them and I really appreciate it just keep doing you because you are the best
lots of love🧡
Literally same! Reading is so hard for me because I know I’m reading the words but they aren’t sticking. They say it’s because you’re not really interested
2 minutes in. First video of yours I've ever seen. I am so freaking excited to binge your channel. You are beyond gorgeous. 😍
Puzzles are my favorite,you are amazing 😊
I remember a little while ago you were talking about how you wanna be more natural with your delivery for sponsorships and I have to say whatever you changed it’s working 👏🏼 I think there’s a huge improvement 💖 love your vids
I’m here for the vibes 🧡🍁🍂
I read Sorrowland after you bought it and it was a great book. It’s a little confusing at first but it was an incredible story. Definitely recommend
this was such a vibeeee. love you girly 💛
LOVE this video. You always brighten my day. I am not a fan of apple cider, but you are making me want some right now, haha. Hope Deja Vu is bonding nicely with your other two babies. And, Amazon has puzzle boards that help a lot and you can leave the puzzle on it after you are finished for display. CHEERS!!!!
This happens to be when I read too. With anxiety, I find it hard to focus on things. Hoping that things will improve if I practice slowing down my mind.
For your pumpkin bread, turn the heat down and cover it with foil. It’ll save it from being over cooked or burnt. 🧡
I've never been this early 🤣🤣 love your vids Melanie
My new favorite UA-camr 💙. Love your content!
LOVE your apartment. And the husband and I are the same way. We prefer nights at home with our cats. 💕
The kitties are growing up so fast!
Your videos always bring me joy. Thank you for being you Mel. ❤
I live in my robe at home. You gotta get you a silky one! It's the bestttt
“I feel like I fit the genre” absolutely sent me 😂😂😭😭
I relate so much to this homebody, rituals and relaxing routines energy 😅
Wow can't believe the kitten didn't attack the puzzle pieces 😅Amazing video as always Mel, thank you! 🙏✨
Hi, I’m new to your channel and just wanna say I absolutely love your content 🥺 . You’re doing great! 🤎
I always love your vlogs and I think you kind of get over that issue with reading the more consistent you are with it
Loving these fall vlogs! Makes me feel cozy and in the spirit🤍🍁
im an avid reader, at least i was before college (haha, dont go), and i still drift off to other thoughts. its okay it happens. either reread the passage you missed because being a slow reader is okay, or be like me and keep reading and eventually the dots will connect (or the puzzle pieces will fit haha!)
Im more of a chill person too! I never really went out growing up either. (Due to sickness and lack of friends) I prefer being at home or going out to dinner, arcades, hiking etc. Over partying as well. I have the same problem with reading. I thought it was just me but now I don’t feel so bad about forgetting what I be reading! Lol
Great content tho. Keep it up!
Stumbled across your channel maybe a month ago absolutely love it . Our kitties could be sisters they look so much alike ❤
Sometimes that happen to me and that's why I listened to the audiobook and reading the book at the Same time. Hopefully that helps.
Silicone cooking utensils and spatulas are the best ... Use the silicone spatula to remove all the batter flawlessly 🧡
Will always support and love your content, you are amazing and do such a great job, hands down my fav UA-camr ✅💖😭
Loving all the content! Just you being you ❤️
This was such a great cozy fall vlog!
miss seeing your parents dogs! they were the cutest :)
25:40 STOPPP!! CAUSE ITS SO TRUE🥺🥺✨✨✨✨ N I DONT HAVE ONE RIGHT NOW 😔
sometimes I can't help but randomly imagine I do.
When I'm laying I'll just think of an Imaginary cuddle kitty🤔☺️✨😌😒 but..can't til I'm ready.
hahaha, I dont measure my seasonings either
the homemade soup looked delicious, Im going to try and make a tomato soup!!
I just made a pumpkin soup
im the same with reading, I thought it was ADHD, but I just cant seem to focus and read, and Ill have to keep rereading everything
love your vlogs and your editing, I would love to see a video on how you do it. you really take your time and it shows. also I'm from nyc and I feel like we relate so much
i wasnt invited to parties either mel. It was hard for me in high school im not very social but i try . Love you're videos mel ❤
That happened with my first mic after a while. I tried different fixes but I ended up just getting a new mic because it got worse over time. My old mic was the rode mic and then when I had to replace it, I got the movo mic which is cheaper but I like it more.
These vlogs make my day
Love your video! They are so relaxing always a cozy vibe with music and candle ( just be careful ul to many scent can be harmful to your babies I have a whole candle collection I can barley use because of my fur babies) Beautiful kitties remind me of how playful mine was take good care of them they are a life long best friend who will always have time to listen to you.
I can sooo relate to what you said about when you read. Not sure why it happens but it has happened to me many times 😑.
Just curious, have you ever tried the caramel apple spice drink at Starbucks? I think you'd love it 😊
Your food looks boom! Very inspirational 💗
Heyyy Mel! I missed you ❤
“you’re reading the book, but when you’re reading it your brain is thinking “”I’M READING I’M READING”” LMAO I SWEAR WTF
I love watching your videos. We need all the recipes girl! Where did you get your eyeglasses from! So cute ❤
I apologize if you have mentioned this before but what is the fizzy stuff you put on the veggies to clean them? I’ve been looking for something :) thank you!
White vinegar, water and you sprinkle white baking soda for the sizzle
“I’m trying to stick with who I am and what I like vs what I should like” big facts. I agree with everything that was said. #Team introverted antisocial lover girl and ain’t nothing wrong with it.
do you have a recipe for that pumpkin flavor you put in your coffee? i know its homemade - would love to see your recipe!
All the comida looks so good!!
i feel you about college. i’m in community college and i want to transfer to a university cause it seems fun, but at the same time i don’t wanna go cause i feel like my experience won’t be how it is on social media
Ohh maaann I’m going through the whole no friends thing lmao but I’m okay I’m really an introvert. However here and there, I would like a break once a year or so n be free, not worry about someone, and have the complete fun that I want to achieve. That’s my aspirations while struggling through college, raising four children under four, working at home, and taking care of the house 😊 I’m all in for my baby’s, but sometimes an occasional fun time would be awesome while going through those yeaars
My night just got better thanks :)
25:04 yup same with me
I knew I wasn't alone tho! 😂😂😭
I thought like I know I ain't the only one
Like the words would be said n my brain but I'm not comprehending the point!
So I'll keep repeating it, then aloud I'll read it annoyed 😠 at that point🥺😂😂😒😒
But I'd get it eventually 😭😭😌
I have to understand before I continue or what am I even doing lol
So cozy 🍂
So cozy! ❤️😭🍁
Check the roots of your sunflowers, they might need repotting. When there is no more room at the bottom of the pot to grow plants start dying.
Bro same Omg I connected with this so so much I’ve been thinking the same exact thing
Wait wait wait the water is flavored by the smell of it wow that makes me want to buy it in its self. How long does it last like a certain amount of refills or hours?
Pumpkin Bread yummy….cute vlog!✨✨
Yay was gonna watch it earlier but you must of had to edit something loved it 💜💜
Girl I love puzzles! Put some music on and just vibe out
everytime you upload just makes my day!! keep up the good work beautifull!
Looking forward to the fall content ❤️ Have you got any plans for Halloween?x
girl where is your whole outfit from? i love the sweats❤️
I just realised who it is you remind me of- in the air up sponsor clip you are the spitting image of Nicole scherzinger!! You’re such a beauty xxxx
Great video and love the shirt . Where did you get it?
do you have a playlist of the music? ❤
Does anyone know where she got the cat tree? I’m looking for a wooden cat tree (not completely covered in faux fur) and I liked the one shown in the video.
Your cat are so Cute!
16:41😂😂
ILOVE YOU SO MUCH BECOUSE YOU LOVE CATS🥰🥰 YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL 😍😍
Omg! the cats.🥺🥺🥺🥺
You have really helped me ❤
Watching these vlogs brightens my day. ✨ Xo Heather Thrills
Hi!! I love you and ur channel!! I noticed u didn’t show the black new kittie did u have to give her back 😞
Can i ask what kind of nailpolish you're using with the lamp?
I didn’t really party during my college days but I’m still young enough (32) where people my age are going out,traveling etc & I can’t stay up to save my life!! 😩😩 at home,in a bar,traveling
My bedtime is midnight at the latest and that’s a struggle lol
Also I’m a homebody I like to stay home,read,drink wine and watch UA-cam
Your hair😍😍😍😍
Mel where did you get that razor from?
How’s deja liking her new home?
Dude we’d be amazing friends because that’s my childhood in a nutshell. Went to college and honestly the clubs and parties and guys sweating you was exhausting. Fun to say i did it tho. But I’m lucky enough to even have one friend😅
Where did you get the cat tree?