+Brandon Whistler I agree still working on it...the "its their loss" attitude kinda helps me also. i should add youre to mine tho, take it or leave it, its your loss haha thats awesome.
Brandon Whistler - That's the best mindset that you can ever have. Because the truth is, no matter how much it hurts, you simply cannot control the actions of other people. People are going to do whatever they're going to do, regardless if it hurts you or not, so the only person you can control is you. You can't make people be what they do not want to be. But you can choose you who will be, by how you act and react to every situation in life. "You reap what you sow." So if you want to have a good life, you have to make smart decisions. Be the very best person that you can be. Always be true to who you are, and don't try to be something you're not to please other people. And if the best of who you are is not good enough for certain people, do yourself a favor, and filter them out of your life.
@@thecowboy9698 spot on, I still think naively that everyone wants the best for me above them, or should do and as a result I overly care what they think and leave myself vulnerable.
This perfectly explains the last woman I dated. She was hot and cold. Said she liked spending time with me but canceled some dates last minute. I was so focused and attached to the outcome that i saw the red flags but they didn't register. She did all the flake things you're say coach. "I'm too busy, not ready for a relationship, have alot going on, ect." the final straw she said I was too overweight (but we dated a whole year). Looking at her actions (then and now) theres someone else. smh thanks coach.
Coach Corey Wayne taught me a mindset that everything will unfold at the right time, the girl that blew you off today, might go on dates with you next year or few years after that, you just get to let go of the girls that you fucked up with and trust that time is your friend
I now know why things have been the way then been. It was/is all about how I saw the situations. I wasn't really learning from my mistakes. After sitting down and really thinking about the the actual situations I now have a better understanding of my current status. With this I can now better myself.
This guy is the best thing to happen to men since beer. But am I the only one who has better luck w women when u chat w them for a while in opposed to being direct and inviting them out right away? Kinda like they need to get to know you first type thing?
Yeah it's the balance between getting them comfortable then making a move instead of talking too much and not making a move then looking like a beta which is what most men do. So your right, coach isn't saying not to feel them out cause he does say to do that to gauge attraction, but most men aren't direct to getting to setting dates and asking out women,
I cancel a date with a hot woman due to my work, my purpose. I told her to let me know her schedule. but 2 weeks passed and she did not contact me. so I called her she has not reply. so nexttttttt
my gf and i had some serious issues and are now trying to get back to normal again. we dont meet as frequently as we used to. on sunday we had a date and she called on monday and tuesday for asking how i was. on monday i arranged a date which she later cancelled. i told her to hit me up if she knows her schedule. she called me again on tuesday to ask how i was and what i was doing, so i asked her if she already knew when she has time for us to meet up. we arranged a date and after arranging the date i said "alright then we'll see each other on thursday, bye!". she then said: "why do you cut me off so fast". I acted as if I did not hear what she said and replied: "what?" she said "nothing, bye". she did not call the day after I could tell she was kinda pissed since she tries calling me frequently like in the old days and i kinda cut her off. I know, instead of cutting her off that way i should have said: "i'm really looking forward to seeing you on thursday. but i'm kind of busy right now, gotta run." she must feel as if i am not interested in talking to her. should i tell her: "i could tell your mood was differently at the end of our phone conversation. was everything alright?" because we were lacking good communication which sickened our relationship.
I have a question. There was a song that I dedicated to this girl that I'm dating. Prior to that she gave me a piece of her earphones and she said I should listen to this song. And we both listened to it. It was perfect by ed sheeran. So the next day I dedicated that song to her via fb messenger. But she already know that same song was also dedicated to me by my ex girlfriend. And for that reason she said we're done, because she was hurt so much by me. My question is, is that a valid reason for her to break up with me?
I will never understand why guys accept to be the side piece. Why would you date a woman who is already involved with another guy? That's the lowest of the low, you have to be a rat and a weasel at that point.
Having a take it or leave it kind of attitude is working well for me these days!
+Brandon Whistler I agree still working on it...the "its their loss" attitude kinda helps me also. i should add youre to mine tho, take it or leave it, its your loss haha thats awesome.
Brandon Whistler - That's the best mindset that you can ever have. Because the truth is, no matter how much it hurts, you simply cannot control the actions of other people.
People are going to do whatever they're going to do, regardless if it hurts you or not, so the only person you can control is you. You can't make people be what they do not want to be. But you can choose you who will be, by how you act and react to every situation in life.
"You reap what you sow." So if you want to have a good life, you have to make smart decisions.
Be the very best person that you can be. Always be true to who you are, and don't try to be something you're not to please other people. And if the best of who you are is not good enough for certain people, do yourself a favor, and filter them out of your life.
@@thecowboy9698 spot on, I still think naively that everyone wants the best for me above them, or should do and as a result I overly care what they think and leave myself vulnerable.
@@thecowboy9698 By far one of the absolute best things I have ever read on UA-cam. Thank you
This perfectly explains the last woman I dated. She was hot and cold. Said she liked spending time with me but canceled some dates last minute. I was so focused and attached to the outcome that i saw the red flags but they didn't register. She did all the flake things you're say coach. "I'm too busy, not ready for a relationship, have alot going on, ect." the final straw she said I was too overweight (but we dated a whole year). Looking at her actions (then and now) theres someone else. smh thanks coach.
talk about like attracting like!..this was the video i needed today..perfect timing
Coach Corey Wayne taught me a mindset that everything will unfold at the right time, the girl that blew you off today, might go on dates with you next year or few years after that, you just get to let go of the girls that you fucked up with and trust that time is your friend
Man this stuff is so spot on.
Right on time coach. Thanks a lot. I've got the exact same situation.
I now know why things have been the way then been. It was/is all about how I saw the situations. I wasn't really learning from my mistakes. After sitting down and really thinking about the the actual situations I now have a better understanding of my current status. With this I can now better myself.
Love the Gerald Celente Reference. on third read, of ebook i purchased from you. I have been practicing and helping me heaps.
it's a pleasure to have you here with us good sir
This guy is the best thing to happen to men since beer. But am I the only one who has better luck w women when u chat w them for a while in opposed to being direct and inviting them out right away? Kinda like they need to get to know you first type thing?
Yeah it's the balance between getting them comfortable then making a move instead of talking too much and not making a move then looking like a beta which is what most men do. So your right, coach isn't saying not to feel them out cause he does say to do that to gauge attraction, but most men aren't direct to getting to setting dates and asking out women,
Gavin De Becker states it best, the fact that a man is relentless in pursuing a woman doesn't show romantic interest. it Means he's troubled .
truest shit I heard all day
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I cancel a date with a hot woman due to my work, my purpose. I told her to let me know her schedule. but 2 weeks passed and she did not contact me. so I called her she has not reply. so nexttttttt
Coach how can you change up the "when are you free to get together ?"
my gf and i had some serious issues and are now trying to get back to normal again. we dont meet as frequently as we used to. on sunday we had a date and she called on monday and tuesday for asking how i was. on monday i arranged a date which she later cancelled. i told her to hit me up if she knows her schedule. she called me again on tuesday to ask how i was and what i was doing, so i asked her if she already knew when she has time for us to meet up. we arranged a date and after arranging the date i said "alright then we'll see each other on thursday, bye!". she then said: "why do you cut me off so fast". I acted as if I did not hear what she said and replied: "what?" she said "nothing, bye". she did not call the day after
I could tell she was kinda pissed since she tries calling me frequently like in the old days and i kinda cut her off. I know, instead of cutting her off that way i should have said: "i'm really looking forward to seeing you on thursday. but i'm kind of busy right now, gotta run."
she must feel as if i am not interested in talking to her.
should i tell her: "i could tell your mood was differently at the end of our phone conversation. was everything alright?"
because we were lacking good communication which sickened our relationship.
Corey is awesome
I have a question. There was a song that I dedicated to this girl that I'm dating. Prior to that she gave me a piece of her earphones and she said I should listen to this song. And we both listened to it. It was perfect by ed sheeran. So the next day I dedicated that song to her via fb messenger. But she already know that same song was also dedicated to me by my ex girlfriend. And for that reason she said we're done, because she was hurt so much by me. My question is, is that a valid reason for her to break up with me?
@ 3:07 - "Organs will go off..."
No pun intended?
Of course rejection and failures are learning experiences. You learn that some things weren't meant for you.
no 720p?
I will never understand why guys accept to be the side piece. Why would you date a woman who is already involved with another guy? That's the lowest of the low, you have to be a rat and a weasel at that point.
in first .