Lower Stress With an End-of-Day Ritual | Dr. Cal Newport & Dr. Andrew Huberman

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  • @magicalfrijoles6766
    @magicalfrijoles6766 8 місяців тому +192

    I work from home. After I shutdown my laptop I leave the house. It can be to go on a walk or drive to the grocery store. Whatever it is, I make sure to leave the house since I just spent all day there.

    • @zaldare
      @zaldare 7 місяців тому +2

      My grandma who was born in the 30's always said "never associate your house with work. Always keep them separate". Otherwise the same walls that are supposed to be the place where you relax are now associated with your work stress. So you are not giving your brain an environment where it can fully relax because its confined within the same walls that you work.

    • @thoughtank1019
      @thoughtank1019 5 місяців тому

      Yes, this is way it is recommended that you make your bedroom a sleep shrine. You don't have anything in the bedroom that is not associated with sleep. You don't have any electronics, except maybe a white noise machine, if you really need it. A dim lamp, very good blackout curtains. You do nothing but sleep in that room, absolutely nothing. Your brain will then associate that room with sleep and get you in that mood and helps you to get to sleep and stay asleep.

  • @Bcosmo555
    @Bcosmo555 8 місяців тому +248

    This is what Amazon workers are encouraged to do.
    At the end of their day they say “shutdown sequence activate” and the next shift worker wheels them off and parks them in a closet until the next morning.

    • @boludokid
      @boludokid 8 місяців тому +2

      XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

    • @mp0wa
      @mp0wa 8 місяців тому

      🤣

    • @gauravjain6878
      @gauravjain6878 7 місяців тому

      😂😂

    • @ralkyrie8799
      @ralkyrie8799 2 місяці тому

      😂😂 fucking great. 👏👏💀

  • @AGenerationJones
    @AGenerationJones 8 місяців тому +65

    The last thing I do is make a to-do list, in order of priority for the next day. That way, the next day I am organized and can hit the ground running.

    • @gauravjain6878
      @gauravjain6878 7 місяців тому +2

      Aren't you constantly thinking about the to do list till tomorrow?

    • @AGenerationJones
      @AGenerationJones 7 місяців тому +3

      No.

  • @aliciamazz
    @aliciamazz 7 місяців тому +4

    Thanks!

  • @keithb4077
    @keithb4077 8 місяців тому +16

    If I may wedge into Huberman's very good point on making the bed/bedroom a place of peace for sleep- I believe 20 mins is too brief before a reset from lying in bed. (first pro tip; don't ever look at your clock during the night; its data that can only make problems, not solve any)... 20 min breaks can happen too often and easily to warrant getting out of bed. Also, it's always so near that you may stress about how little time you have left before you have to pull that ripcord. Our solution: we have a white noise machine (you can set it for any interval). It usually eases us to sleep, while drowning out ambient noises. Finally, if I do stay awake until the interval (e.g. 45 min), that informs me that it's been long enough, and I should reset. I never had to watch a clock.

  • @odds87
    @odds87 7 місяців тому +13

    My ritual is opening my home office door and two toddlers being thrust at me, usually screaming or arguing, while my struggling wife hobbles upstairs. sometimesin tears!

  • @Seabeams
    @Seabeams 8 місяців тому +54

    What about “revenge bedtime procrastination”? I don’t think about work but I crave fun and distraction to decompress and end up browsing online till I feel de-stressed enough to sleep

    • @barhamitzvah
      @barhamitzvah 8 місяців тому +9

      I hella struggle with this, as well. That's why I dislike doing anything "productive" around the house on work nights. I NEED my own personal fun time.

    • @add-mt5xc
      @add-mt5xc 7 місяців тому +7

      it might be because you are associating browsing with relaxing, which it is not, at least not the best form of relaxing that's good for your body; it is only a dopamine rush for your brain

    • @sabrinav5609
      @sabrinav5609 7 місяців тому

      I also need the answer to this question.

    • @thoughtank1019
      @thoughtank1019 5 місяців тому

      Ones you feel sleepy, don't fight it, have your sleep area ready and lights already dimmed, everything set up so when you feel sleepy, all you have to do is go to bed. If you are having trouble to get to this point, go take a walk and look around, get out of your head/extravert and then go straight back home and to bed, don't eat don't do anything but get ready for bed and go straight to sleep.

  • @edgiraffr1352
    @edgiraffr1352 8 місяців тому +242

    My problem is my ritual starts with a beer

    • @21972012145525
      @21972012145525 8 місяців тому +21

      Watch his alcohol video

    • @neidesofiaalmeida3726
      @neidesofiaalmeida3726 8 місяців тому +5

      I am with you friend, that fresh beer its life giving 😂 i know its not healthy (no need to come at us!) we know 😂

    • @toonnaobi-okoye2949
      @toonnaobi-okoye2949 8 місяців тому +8

      Problem?

    • @TheZippyMark
      @TheZippyMark 8 місяців тому +5

      Have you tried a little bit of LSD? That can be quite freeing

    • @rotcaka
      @rotcaka 8 місяців тому +7

      Take the beer in the shower and it reduces 98% of the inflammatory markers blah blah, just kidding. Do what you gotta do to cope! Rome wasn't built by philosophers 💪👷🏼‍♂️ 🍻

  • @Grumpisaurus
    @Grumpisaurus 8 місяців тому +51

    I usually end my work day by poking the voodoo doll made to look like the head engineer, then i offer the body of a chicken to a pagan god... But i guess this works too

  • @pratikkkothari3198
    @pratikkkothari3198 7 місяців тому +1

    I just browse through such videos after work

  • @Mwilke3789
    @Mwilke3789 8 місяців тому +55

    Kids: Mom can I have water, I'm thirs-
    Me: SCHEDULE SHUTDOWN COMPLETE!

    • @Seabeams
      @Seabeams 7 місяців тому +2

      Children: *screaming* *crying* *throwing up everywhere*
      Me: zzz
      Child Protection Services: …
      😂🤣

    • @JessicaSmith-ie7cm
      @JessicaSmith-ie7cm 7 місяців тому +1

      🤣🤣this is hilarious… so funnyyyyy

  • @tonyantmann5635
    @tonyantmann5635 6 місяців тому +1

    I use a standing desk. In the afternoon it eventually finds it’s way down (sitting position). My last actions every day, work phone off, standing desk raised, chair tucked underneath. Visual and physical process. And ready to start the next morning with positive energy.

  • @nevvanclarke9225
    @nevvanclarke9225 7 місяців тому +3

    I work in a really hard job working in addictions helping people recover from drug and alcohol issues and my day can be filled with people in trauma and some really difficult challenging situations. the first thing I do is I always park my car about 500 m from work so this involves a walk that short walk which is only five minutes. Maybe it basically clears my head. Just motion of walking feeling 1 foot in front of the other engages, a different part of the brain.
    I do something interesting when I get to my car. I take my shoes off and put a different pair of shoes on. This is the starting point to getting out of work mode those feet carried the energy. After that I make a choice of what my body and mine feels like and I have a variety of strategies none of them include alcohol. I either go into nature and take photos? I'm also a professional photographer now... I might go to the gym. I might go and see my partner. I might combine all three of those in one thing but I try and do something different to keep it interesting. Don't resort to the same coping strategy..

  • @NoyPi6step
    @NoyPi6step 8 місяців тому +3

    Perfect timing on this

  • @ericamartin74
    @ericamartin74 7 місяців тому

    Love this! Think I'm going to start doing this at the end of my work day.

  • @elainec5773
    @elainec5773 8 місяців тому +1

    Helpful, thank you for yet another practical one, Dr. H!

  • @azzzydzz
    @azzzydzz 8 місяців тому +2

    Write down everything!

  • @wannabedal-adx458
    @wannabedal-adx458 7 місяців тому +6

    The problem with not asking, "How was your day at work?" is that you don't connect with that person on what is important or happening in their life. Yes our work should not define us but it is a large part of our lives. Maybe not talking about the tasks or technical parts of work (including schedule), but the other person may want to vent about or share praise about work relationships. That has been an uplift to me throughout my life (and a source of stress when it is not present). Good video and good information. Should expand upon this for people working from home.

  • @kawaiikaikee
    @kawaiikaikee 8 місяців тому +2

    Wish this worked for my type of work. I have to be available via phone and text even after my scheduled hours. Work often seeps into my life even as early as 4 am. I think there's nothing I can do except change jobs.

  • @AdamKMarsh
    @AdamKMarsh 7 місяців тому +2

    I feel for ya man. Sounds like this was a gathering of your thoughts mostly pointing to a common theme - too much. Sounds like its time to simplify, maybe a little less DIY and pay some people to do some things for you so you can have actual downtime. I appreciate the openness an honesty. Keep at it man.

  • @jz5005
    @jz5005 8 місяців тому +3

    The work day is supposed to end at some point?

  • @essentialdeparture9999
    @essentialdeparture9999 8 місяців тому +5

    Great stuff. I’m sure it wasn’t the wording you’d intended, but if trying to sleep is “effort” you need to make a change in that aspect of sleep.

    • @teodorgeorgiev6725
      @teodorgeorgiev6725 8 місяців тому

      Very good point. The effort bit was decisive for me when I was dealing with sleep problems. You shouldn’t be making an effort. That said I also think he was just expressing himself loosely.

    • @username00009
      @username00009 7 місяців тому

      He did specifically mention a study of people with insomnia in that same thought 😀

  • @thewrastler
    @thewrastler 8 місяців тому +2

    If I have a post-work work rumination, I Schedule a text message from my home phone to my work phone for 9am the following work day

  • @codycurnutte9778
    @codycurnutte9778 7 місяців тому +1

    I started doing this naturally once my son was born. I didn’t have a choice but to be present when my son was a baby. So I’d go over what I had to get done first thing the next day and make sure I knew what the first move was. Then I’d log out and move on with the family part of the day. I removed all work messaging apps from my phone and drew a clear line between work and private life and my stress went down 10 fold. I hit the career and post secondary education grind 8 years now it’s time for balance and family focus.

  • @EcomCarl
    @EcomCarl 7 місяців тому

    Cal Newport's shutdown ritual is a game-changer for maintaining work-life balance! 🌟 Implementing a simple yet effective routine like this can help us transition from work mode to relaxation mode, boosting both mental health and productivity.

  • @thoughtank1019
    @thoughtank1019 5 місяців тому

    From my own experience, I recommend that if you can't sleep get up, but don't go to the couch or turn on the TV or anything like that, I would go out and take a walk. You should try not to think, as that is one of the main reasons we can't go back to sleep, we start thinking too much, but instead look around, put your attention on what you see outside, the trees, the plants, buildings around etc. You want to extravert. When you start to get sleepy make your way back to your bed, you don't want to fight the desire to sleep. You want to get back in bed as soon as you feel a good amount of sleep tiredness.

  • @claremiller9979
    @claremiller9979 7 місяців тому +2

    My shutdown ritual just moves me from one job (which pays me) to another (which costs me money).
    Yes I am a parent 😄
    Actual shutdown from work doesn't happen until 9pm...

  • @swapnasreenivasanswapnasre5518
    @swapnasreenivasanswapnasre5518 7 місяців тому

    Wow ! Great

  • @user-dv4pz7qj7x
    @user-dv4pz7qj7x 7 місяців тому +2

    I haven’t had a steady job in 3 years.

  • @teodorgeorgiev6725
    @teodorgeorgiev6725 8 місяців тому

    Fantastic! I’ll try this.

  • @davideylerYT
    @davideylerYT 8 місяців тому

    Really helpful - thanks guys!

  • @57auxmoines
    @57auxmoines 8 місяців тому

    Thank you 🙏 so helpful

  • @GenericUserName443
    @GenericUserName443 8 місяців тому +4

    Go to the gym and put in a good workout like running or weights, then finish with a long shower and get fresh with new clothes.
    That’s how you lose the stress from work.
    Only thing missing is a massage when getting home

    • @divinecomedian2
      @divinecomedian2 7 місяців тому

      That's great if you don't have other responsibilities after work

  • @Mvrderface
    @Mvrderface 6 місяців тому +1

    24/5.

  • @alexknaus4511
    @alexknaus4511 8 місяців тому +2

    Cardio, walk, hot yoga in evening

  • @julierahn6932
    @julierahn6932 8 місяців тому

    good advice for home-based work because clear boundaries allow one to function and not ruminate about the past day, week, month, year, etc
    Be wholly present in non-work life activities.

  • @utsavmangla8552
    @utsavmangla8552 7 місяців тому +1

    Humans trying to be computers, computers (ai) trying to be human 😅

  • @gauravjain6878
    @gauravjain6878 7 місяців тому

    Schedule shutdown complete

  • @dienand_gaming
    @dienand_gaming 7 місяців тому

    Nothing more frustrating than hearing, “How was work” right after you just managed to shut down from it 😢

    • @dienand_gaming
      @dienand_gaming 7 місяців тому

      My ritual is to take a good long walk. It’s the only way for me to say okay work is done, time for other things.

  • @chad-ck
    @chad-ck 7 місяців тому

    That’s great, but now you might become a robot and you get to the end of your short time in the earthly plane and realise you forgot to live a little and enjoy the dance 🕺🏼💃🏻

  • @lukenewton2721
    @lukenewton2721 8 місяців тому +2

    Rudy not making all nba teams says all it needs to say.

  • @Ranas-qm8vn
    @Ranas-qm8vn 6 місяців тому

    - 🕰 Establish a shutdown ritual to separate work time from personal time by reviewing tasks, plans, and calendars.
    - 📝 Closing open loops and ensuring nothing urgent is left unattended can relieve stress and prevent rumination.
    - 🗂 Develop a routine to finalize work tasks and signal the end of the day using tangible markers like checklists or phrases.
    - 🧠 Utilize cognitive behavioral therapy to combat post-work rumination by redirecting thoughts towards future plans or completed tasks.
    - 🌿 Implementing a shutdown ritual can enhance mental health by minimizing work-related stress and allowing the mind to focus on other activities.
    - 💤 Avoid associating places with work by separating tasks from relaxation, similar to techniques recommended for improving sleep habits.
    - 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Enhancing relationships by asking engaging questions rather than defaulting to work-related inquiries can foster better communication and connection.
    - 📺 View the full-length episode on the Huberman Lab Clips channel for more insights on improving mental health and productivity.

  • @gray_mara
    @gray_mara 7 місяців тому +43

    I kept hoping he'd get to the point, but no. Literally the answer to the clickbait title is do your routine (you're on your own coming up with one), say "schedule shutdown complete." Don't know why people worship this guy.

  • @zachdarr7605
    @zachdarr7605 7 місяців тому

    Hahaha in a world where it’s hard to get anyone to engage in work we are talking about shutting it down

  • @brottongoodfellow5932
    @brottongoodfellow5932 8 місяців тому +3

    Shower beer.

    • @rotcaka
      @rotcaka 8 місяців тому

      This is the blue collar version 💪😂

  • @datavincianalytics
    @datavincianalytics 8 місяців тому +2

    I think the next video series is going to be on hair. Am I the only one noticing that

  • @plockacherrys5765
    @plockacherrys5765 4 місяці тому

    3rd wave cbt teaches acceptance than adherence

  • @Shroomunati
    @Shroomunati 8 місяців тому

    Don’t start it

  • @dnbrg74
    @dnbrg74 7 місяців тому

    Invented it. 🙄

  • @panthersprung5161
    @panthersprung5161 8 місяців тому

    am i allowed to do anything on my own anymore? eating, breathing, blinking, relaxing, jesus christ

  • @Bacciagalupe
    @Bacciagalupe 7 місяців тому

    : )

  • @rider65
    @rider65 8 місяців тому +5

    Obviously he's a very smart individual but really I'm listening to word diarrhea... Listen buddy keep it simple we don't want to have to listen to a dissertation. K.I.S.S. 🙄

    • @BigVlad357
      @BigVlad357 8 місяців тому +2

      true

    • @jacobi-vision3249
      @jacobi-vision3249 8 місяців тому +2

      This is part of a conversation.

    • @essentialdeparture9999
      @essentialdeparture9999 8 місяців тому +1

      What, rumination? Everyone should know this these days because of the problem it has become.

  • @1Mrsweetness
    @1Mrsweetness 7 місяців тому +8

    He literaly said nothing!

    • @emiliolarafdez17
      @emiliolarafdez17 7 місяців тому +1

      Thats not the correct way to use the word literally 😅

    • @ashleyliddiard
      @ashleyliddiard 7 місяців тому +3

      That’s not true. He said
      1. complete critical tasks and write what you need as TDL for later
      2. Have a phrase or a marker to end your day “completed the shut down”
      3. Make sure you keep in a specific environment and not bring it to the dinner table or in family places.
      4. Don’t ask about work ask something else like “hey what was exciting about your day”

    • @SemibSul
      @SemibSul 7 місяців тому

      You didn’t get it then.

  • @hajjcomb
    @hajjcomb 8 місяців тому +1

    I have a hard time taking Huberman seriously anymore.

    • @wildprodigy
      @wildprodigy 8 місяців тому +2

      Why is that? Did he say something that science disproved that I'm not aware of?

    • @Johndoe-gd4tb
      @Johndoe-gd4tb 8 місяців тому +1

      @@wildprodigythis comment shows why you all are so annoying

    • @wildprodigy
      @wildprodigy 8 місяців тому +2

      @@Johndoe-gd4tb I'm confused now. I asked a question. All he talks about is science and health

    • @nanzsch
      @nanzsch 8 місяців тому +2

      Ok bot