Drunk defendant appears before Judge Simpson
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Proud yet very humbled to say that I am 2,749 days alcohol free.
That's awesome! I'm proud of you!
Way to go, Michael, I'm so proud of you, my friend! And so grateful to have you in this world! 🙏🤍🕊🥳💃🏻
GREAT job with your sobriety I know that this is extremely hard to accomplish and may God Bless you for the rest of your life keep up the good work
He says that he can do it when it comes to three days prior to getting into treatment…isn’t one of the tenants of AA, that you can’t admit that you are powerless against it. 🤔
Only 4 replies. Wow. Great job. I'm going through this as I text
Alcoholism is a cruel master.
Alcoholism is a disease. People who aren't alcoholics think that it's just weakness, or a moral failing, when it is actually a physical condition. Alcohol is a poison, and some people's bodies overreact to it such that it unbalanced their body the other way, so that they need to put more in to return to normal. Once they consume enough of it over time, the overreaction gets so serious that complete withdrawal of alcohol can cause seizures or even kill them.
I don't know what the DTs feel like, but I've had a couple of medications over time that caused problems with my nerves when I stopped taking them once I was better. It felt like all my nerves in my whole body had been dipped in vinegar. My whole body felt "sour" - to the point of it causing discomfort. It wasn't quite to the point of painful, but it still "hurt", constantly. And from what I understand, the DTs feel much worse than that.
It is not a popular thing to say ,but alcoholism is a psychological and physical addiction . To break any addiction one must find something to take its place . That is why Rehab or jail time doesn't have a higher success rate ; when people get out they have nothing with which to replace their addiction . AA is effective because it give those addict to alcohol an effective program to replace the thinking that cause them to drink .
It was against my parents religion to drink or smoke and I thank them every single day. If you've got kids, consider something like that. Our family was free from the terrible ills to which these vices lead. (Side note: my dad's brother wasn't so lucky. He was a heavy smoker and drinker. He died at age 50 of cirrhosis of the liver. Last time I saw him he looked pregnant with twins, his stomach was so distended. His son met a similar fate.)
Alcohol is the devil. - Life long raging alcoholic and addict now 13 years sober.
All his doing is thinking of that next drink
The Judge has an absolutely brilliant sense of fairness, clarity and compassion.
God Bless this Judge . He has the Holy Spirit
Yeah i wish he were in the Supreme Court
I love Judge Simpson for this. You can see his empathy and compassion shine through as he’s talking to Mr. Heenan. It’s not an easy job, but Judge Simpson always does what’s right for the people. I feel bad for the man, sounds like his life has taken a turn for the worse. Hopefully some intensive treatment will help him.
He allowed him to talk, without all things…judgement. His compassion moves me 😞
I think that balance from the judge is why the defendant is so genuinely honest.
My grandfather told me “don’t think just because you’re knee deep in shit that it can’t get worse. Because, just one more step and you could be eyeball deep in shit.”
Everyone of us is one bad decision away from shitting in a bucket... I heard that on Hoarders once, and it's absolutely true.
Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know _nothing_ about.
Just keeping this one phrase in mind can change how you view the world.
@@AsmodeusMictian Amen.
this is a pristine image of addiction.
he knows it's maladaptive. he knows he's rationalizing. but he's too ashamed to reach out to his support system.
he knows it destroyed his marriage. he knows it's why he can't see his sons. but they're already gone, and he has to cope with that emotionally.
he knows it pickles your liver, dries you out, makes you sick. he knows he's putting himself and the world in danger getting this drunk all the time. he knows he's killing himself. but he is addicted to alcohol.
more specifically, his brain is dependent on alcohol. his brain will tell him whatever it needs to in order to get more alcohol.
"this is just to make your hands stop shaking. it's not like you're having fun. it doesn't count if you're being pragmatic. if you're being pragmatic, then any amount that you drink is just to handle the physical symptoms. this is all a part of the process."
he's not willingly lying here. he's being as sincere as he can be, this far into active addiction. it's just that if the only alcohol left on earth was at the bottom of the sea, his brain would convince him he could breathe underwater.
he's sick.
Absolutely - I think people don't always get how mentally and physically dangerous and destructive alcohol addiction is - it is a slow-motion process of self-ending
And that's alcoholism!
I don't think he has a personal support network. He said he only has AA when the Judge asks him "Who's around you?".
Very well said, all sadly true
And, if treatment can put your life back together, and you find the underlying reason for your addiction, you will always remain an addict, and will have to remain vigilant for life.
Well said - there is a point with any addictive substance (drugs, alcohol, cigarettes) when you are no longer doing the drug, the drug is doing you.
Judge Simpson's compassion is on full display. We all love seeing him tear people up-especially those driving without a license-but this is what makes him a great judge.
The title of this caught my eye but it really wasn't what I was expecting. I have literally never seen a more compassionate judge in my life. Is he always like this? Do you know where this takes place?
This is why I love Judge Simpson. He is more concerned about the life of the defendant than the laws he broke.
Most thoughtful and considerate ruling ever. This man has come to a point where neither he nor anyone around him is safe anymore, yet he is trying to be honest and wants to do the right thing. He just can't. Judge Simpson is so wise and respectful - I was in tears hearing him, and I'm a retired social worker.
Me too Mary - I'm also a retired Social Worker. The Judge is right - it's going to be tough, but his last remark was so correct and touched my heart - "we don't want to lose you".
This was a hard one for me too. This man is broken. It is clear that he wants to do better but isn’t able to do it on his own.
he drove drunk to court , so yeah he needs help
Judge Simpson is such a wise man. He definitely cares for this man’s welfare and I think he made the right call to keep him in custody until he gets into treatment!
It seems that Judge Simpson is the first, if not the only, person to tell this man "I don't want to lose you and if I let you go, that's going to happen". It's obvious this case weighed heavily on the Judge.
I think he was as honest as he could be. Also respectful to the judge.
He proves just because you suffer from the disease of addiction doesn’t mean it’s acceptable to conduct yourself poorly in court. Even if he’s piss drunk. As attorney I respect that. I feel really sorry for this guy.
@@Juniper122 Most people who show up drunk in court that I've seen come loaded with excuses. I was using shampoo with alcohol in it, someone gave me a drink at a party and I just drank it, alcohol somehow fell into my mouth... This guy "I drank all the hard seltzer I could find, door dashed some more, then chugged those." It's a refreshing change.
No he keep making excuses it was someone else. Fault even brought up his children
@@Juniper122I don’t he put himself there cause he doesn’t want to stop drinking
@@jonkline709 or maybe he doesn't want to keep shaking
As a 16 and 1/2 year sober alcoholic, if this guys is drinking all day and night, passes out , wakes up at 4am and starts drinking again knowing he has court that same day, he is at the end of his life. The tether will not stop him. Judge Simpson is very good at reading the situation and is right in not letting him out, he is saving this man’s life. 😊
What an awesome judge. I always liked him but I have a whole new respect for him. It would be great if more addicts had a person like this judge to keep trying to get him help and potentially save his life. I lost my brother to alcoholism. There are so many people who don't understand this horrible disease. I truly pray this man can see his way back to sobriety.
I honestly feel sorry for this man, I went through a very hard divorce, my ex left me for a wealthy man and I was working two jobs and going through a finance program in the evenings. I was just going through too much and drinking was my only escape. I was probably drunk for 6 months.
You’re right about that. I used to do the same thing. Haven’t drank in 8 yrs and I just had to make the decision to seek help. He has to want to. Even jail won’t save him. Might add some time to his life but that’s it.
My wife left me in February after close to 18 years. I lost my job, my kids, my savings, and have not stopped drinking whiskey 24/7 since. I’m trying to find a detox now
@@MrAM4D3U5 I was with my ex for 18 years. I know where you are. Is there some way that we can speak without me putting all my info out there?
Zoloft is for Depression, PTSD etc. In Judge Simpson's Eye's and Voice says he cares so much. I so wish I had someone in my life at this point that cared as much for me as I see this Judge Cares for the man.
Angela are you ok! I want you to know I care about you!
It also helps with anxiety and obsessive thoughts. My mom takes it for that reason.
He's really a great person.
Zoloft can be used for multiple different reasons.
Good people do care, Judge Simpson isnt unique but just an example of a good person. Too often a MH illness will try an convenience you otherwise, its a symptom and I have been there but Im glad to say not anymore. Got to find the path to recovery that works for you. Reach out, other good people are waiting and they have support groups set up but you have to find them, you have to put the effort in as its not a solution if someone else is doing it. You will make life long friends in those support groups because they are the only people that can relate to what you are experiencing. Now Im back with all my old friends, they just didnt understand, they still dont but thats not a problem anymore.
Angela theres people who care for you, your just not seeing the forest for the trees believe me.
Shame is one of the most painful emotions and possibly the hardest to overcome given how it manifests.
Shame causes guilt and self-hate, with frustration depression, anger, etc. and that leads to needing to blot out the upset.
It's a vicious cycle.
Shame is rooted in pride (self) because it is inward focused. Makes it really tough to deal with. 8yrs sober and shame is still a battle. Only way I have been able to deal with it throughout my sobriety is knowing Jesus loves me as I am.
I've heard that the 'shame centers' of the brain are adjacent to the 'pain centers' of the brain. That explains a lot.
@@grantjoy I hadn’t thought about it but now after reading this I totally agree
Shame is also necessary. People need to learn how to cope with it and the best way is to stop doing shit to be ashamed of. That's the point of shame.
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"I am not doing it to be mean. I don't want to lose you. And I know if I let you out of here, there is a good chance we are going to lose you."
Wow - Judge Simpson is trying to get him through this. Fantastic and hopefully it will help.
Yes...that very line...Chiiiilllzzzz...I truly teared up. I love this judge ❤
I've been in AA for many years and this JUDGE nailed it. Way to go Judge. You worded it well and talked to an alcoholic in a most impressive way, YOU NEVER TALKED DOWN TO HIM IMPRESSIVE!
@@andysmith6156 Nope he didn’t. That “talking down” to him will come when he is forced into 13 step meetings by 13 step members everyday in their meetings! 😂
@@PatriotJewellIf that’s what it takes to save his life, they will absolutely do that.
🤡
@@PatriotJewell I think you're going to the wrong meetings! Do you even know what "13-stepping" is?? Way to turn a respectful comment into a snarky poke.
@@myredpencil oh trust and believe . I am very well aware of what the “13 step” is. Could not attend a meeting that some old timer perverts were not trying! 😂 The wrong meetings? Since 1990, I’ve never found a meeting that did not have perverts trying to prey on women! That includes “women only” meetings from the pacific coast to Germany sweet heart! Where exactly is the “right meeting” that predators are not preying! In said fine “program” with a 5 to 7 % success rate? And those statistics are less for women! Wonder why? My fault right? For “attending the wrong meeting “! Gotta “own my part “ after all! 😏🙄
I'm over 8 years sober. I was him 9 years ago, the shakes, drinking continuously, lost family, lost job. We can recover, it is possible. I hope he does whatever he can to not pick up that first drink.
Its a fight everyday but soberness is great.
God bless you. 🎉🎉🙏🙏🙏
We can recover!
@@josephb.2087No, it’s not, if done correctly
@@MorriganTeague i agree but disagree. Theres always going to be that memory of that good feeling of dopamine coursing through your system. But there is also the memory of the final cost of that feeling.
He lost his boys, not his voice. He probably got divorced before he went into treatment, and his ex got 100% custody of their boys.
Did I mishear that? It sounded like that comment was in context of some sort of verbal altercation from last night...which was his excuse for his binge... You could be right.
He mentioned a GAL. Sounds like he is going through a divorce or there is an on going custody dispute.
GAL is a Guardian at Latium. A neutral professional appointed by court to address the best interest of the children
@@LoneWolfUsul It's definitely boys, not voice. I heard boys before I read your note, and he says he lost them, later.
Yes, lost his boys, getting divorced, and also forced to resign his job and enter treatment. I can understand why Simpson is worried about not seeing him again. Sounds like he is hitting bottom
Oh my heart. That was me. I tortured my poor mother. At least she got to see me healthy for a few years before she died. Ugh.
This man is not a bad person. Life dealt him some things and I don’t know what his life was like before his treatment and his relationship with his family… but if he doesn’t figure his addiction out, he’s gonna end up losing his life and perhaps that of another person. I don’t envy anybody in his life- he probably has left a wake of trauma. On the other hand, I truly hope he gets the help he needs. And that he can face it head-on. He has a great judge on his side that cares. Fingers crossed this guy makes it.
Door dash at 7 am for alcohol😳
Shaking when he wakes up,his body is giving out warning signs.
The amounts are truly staggering in a scary impressive way.😖
I don't believe for a second he used Doordash. He drove and didn't want to admit to driving drunk AGAIN at 7am...
If he's that far gone, I hope his detoxing in custody will be monitored. Sounds like he is at risk for a really rough time physically these next few days.
Yeah. My uncle was an attorney and he lost his license because of his alcoholism. He passed away about a year ago because he lost his fight with alcoholism. I just hope this attorney gets the help he needs.
@@LoneWolfUsul
Doordash is 24/7. If a driver was logged on in his area he could have easily placed an order
Yeah if he's not medicated while detoxing, otherwise it can be fatal
I haven't stopped sobbing. The compassion and care Simpson has for those who are humbled and desperate for help is impeccable. It's great to see Simpson calm and compassionate.
If this makes you sob to the point you haven't stopped you'd better get yourself to a mental health professional, that's just not normal or well adjusted
He is controlled totally by alcohol. the judge knows this and he’s trying to protect both him and the public from the consequences of alcoholism. I hope he gets the treatment he’s so badly needs.
I felt for him when he talked about waking up with his hands shaking. I was an alcoholic and woke up to that same feeling all the time! It’s awful! I’m 4 and half years sober now and it’s the best decision I’ve ever made!
@@cs0986 congrats !!
Judge Simpson really is saving his life. I’ve been around enough alcoholics (genetic predisposition from both sides) to know that while the defendant THINKS he is telling the truth, alcohol will win in the end. The compassion shown by the judge and the rest of the court blew me away!
That got me so emotional when he said we don't want to lose u😢
The judge basically said 'your best thinking got you here' ...As an addict in recovery who speaks with many other addicts and sees the effects that drugs and alcohol have on the community... alcohol seems to be BY FAR the worst thing to stop using.... it's just so easy to get. There's no meth stores, doctors won't even give people who NEED opiates any opiates anymore.... alcohol is EVERYWHERE! It can kill you if you keep using it, and it can kill you if you use it too much and stop suddenly. So dangerous.
I'm a retired SW. Zoloft is not sus. It is imperative to address mental health issues when addiction is part of recovery. Zoloft is better than self-medicating on other substances.
Zoloft IS self medicating.
I think this commenter meant self-medicating with alcohol. Mixing anti-depressants or antipsychotics with alcohol is very dangerous.
@@pattilemonhouse7911 "self-medicating" means using substances without medical supervision.
Thats bs. Zoloft is straight up poison for the brain. Was put on it and a week later started self harming. It raises serotonin levels but when you stop taking it your brain stop producing enough natural serotonin so you are worse off than before you even started taking it. These ssri 's should be banned permanently or at least used for short term
Treatment for anx/dep on discharge is standard care.
Sounds like this man needs a medically supervised detox program, in my opinion. Judge Simpson’s compassion is above & beyond. Much respect & appreciation for him.
He looks so sick. I feel sorry for him, even though his problems are self inflicted.
Withdrawing from alcohol and benzos can kill a person, ive seen it many times as a paramedic. Sadly this man is dealing with both. He is in VERY REAL medical danger stopping cold turkey. My hope is he is medically detoxed (doesn't take very long), then he can begin treatment in earnest. Detoxing in jail is incredibly dangerous and can be fatal
Don't they have a medical staff? Also I believe Judge Simpson did what was best for him. I can't imagine drinking 15 Claws, that guy has a very high tolerance, and to make the decision to drive to Court. He ordered Door Dash, why not a UBER 😢
@@snowwhite7571they do, but they generally only address major medical issues. You can’t expect a jail to exercise care to someone who is suffering from a disease. They just don’t give a shit.
Yes!
I was thinking about delirium tremens while watching this.
@@snowwhite7571those people in the jail are absolutely horrible people they don't care they will let you die I was in jail I have a horrible addiction and I was so close to death and no one in there gave a damn if I lived or died
Yeah I think it's like how people like to imagine the food they eat grew up on a farm and never suffered when in reality the thing's entire life was spent in a tiny cage filled with its own filth. I don't think these jails are very compassionate towards people going through withdrawal, I don't think some friendly nurse is bringing them juice while they lay in a hospital bed for 3 or 4 days. I imagine the attitude is more "too bad, you should have thought about that."
This guy is far more sympathetic and likeable than most defendants. It's not just that he's white collar, well-dressed, and well-spoken, though that probably helps. Rather, he is likeable because (despite making some bad decisions and making excuses), he is more respectful and honest than most addicts and defendants, especially once Judge Simpson starting getting deep into the probing questions.
It was very sad and poignant to hear this guy admit in detail how desperate he was for more alcohol, as he described ordering DoorDash booze delivery the minute the stores opened, then checking the empties for any thar wtill had booze left in them.
There but for the grace of God go we. I wish this guy the best of luck in his difficult battle.
The quote from the Judge is "I've been doing this for a minute!"
I pray this guy gets to where he needs to be.
He may not see it now but one day he’s going to realize that Judge Simpson probably saved his life. This is why I love Judge Simpson. I wish there were more people like him.
It's used for depression. If they addressed their mental health as well, its not that sus
Anxiety as well. Both diagnosis seem to have similar brain responses.
Yeah, the generic name is sertraline and it's an SSRI, not a benzo. Not addictive as far as I know, but you do need to taper off to prevent major withdrawal symptoms. That said, he *did* have benzos and alcohol in his system, dangerous combination, especially for someone with depression.
@@notmyname327 Just maintaining his intake of alcohol itself is scary enough. Drop benzos on top of it yes, it's a very deadly combination as they both depress everything. Sadly, the SSRIs will do nothing for him until get gets sober. You're right, not addictive but the brain zaps you get if you just stop taking it are terrible. Taper indeed. Been there. It SUCKS but you gotta power through it. I feel for him.
Yeah Zoloft is an SSRI, my mom takes it for her depression. I take Prozac for mine (turned out to be related to untreated ADHD) I've tried other SSRIs in the past and none of them are medications you can get high on. They are hard to overdose on too (it can be done but it's difficult) which makes them great for depressed people. Basically they can't be abused, or even really misused.
@@notmyname327 Yeah, I think that's what killed Heath Ledger.
😢 alcohol ruins so many lives.
A heavy drinker left to detox in the jail is a recipe for disaster. The physical repercussions can be devistating and permanent. ...🤷
I know! But I'm surprised this many people don't know anything about anything. I keep reading comments about the judge's sympathy, but he is not a medical professional, he wouldn't know that detoxing a genuine alcoholic by making them not drink and keeping them in jail is a terrible idea.
I agree... the dude needs monitored detox first, THEN jail.
@@secnock.they’ll put him in a medical unit or take him to an ED while in custody. You’re correct that alcohol withdrawal can be fatal. Jails and detention centers are well-aware of that and not in the business of letting their wards come to harm (at least intentionally)
@@secnock.of course he knows.
@@secnock.I see that, he can die from DTs easily. Can the judge order him to detox?
Mental health professional here! Yes, it’s common to make sure there’s a medication management plan in place, often through prescriptions being given during the stay at the rehab/inpatient MH and making sure the patient has an MD or Psychiatrist upon discharge.
You skipped the alcohol issue.
Judge Simpson, you are awesome...
The fact he drove to court drunk means he does it all the time
He's safer driving a bit drunk than with full on DTs.
That doesn't make it OK, I'm just saying that once somebody becomes this serious a drinker, they only get to "normal" with some amount of alcohol onboard.
@@timbirch4999I agree my Uncle was like this(he eventually died from that liver thing,I can't remember the name).
Cirrhosis???
@timbirch4999 these people don't know what any of that is, and neither does this judge. He really thinks putting someone with DTs in jail is a wise choice. It is not, this judge is not a medical professional, he is doing what he thinks is best. SCRAM detects any alcohol, and that goes to your probation officer which means that is a probation violation and he would be back here again. Leaving him out of a job, no income and letting his rent and bills pile up is not going to help him stop drinking either.
Outpatient treatment + scram + an IID would trap him from being able to drink. And he could still work.
@@secnock.He'd likely pick up a bottle and drink it the moment he got home or even on the way home, continue the bender. Initially to stop the DTs but loose control eventually. He can't be productive until he's sobered up and dried out from alcohol. Most of all jails have medical staff, nurses, NPs, MDs, that will evaluate him, they even ask you in booking if you're dependent or on any substance. They can either put him in a medical unit or take him to the hospital while he's in custody.
Omg when he said “I don’t want to loose you”, my eyes teared up and I lost it! Bless his heart!
Same. Alcoholism takes so many lives too soon! And so many brilliant people
Same
This guy is at the precipice of change. Judge Simpson is amazing.
Judge Simpson is so kind and wise. And on a side note, he looks great in that yellow gold color.
That is maize, one half of Ann Arbor’s maize and blue 😊
I think he said I lost my boys, not voice.
Did I just watched this judge save this guy's life?
You watched him try. Time will tell tho.
AA literature says: 'we tried easier and softer ways to no avail". He knows his stuff, Judge Simpson.
Happy destiny, brother.
AA is a cornucopia of cliche.
@@user-so5tj4cp8u , and how many lives have you saved with your cornucopia of clichés?
AA is religious garbage. Aa destroys more lives than alcohol. @@pattilemonhouse7911
@@markloush5155 😂 Well that’s a complete and utter lie.
i feel deep sympathy and sadness for this defendant. Alcohol is evil, pure and simple. I truly wish you well Mr Heenan and will pray for your recovery
I never commented on any of these videos, but i wish you were around judge to help my mother and husband. Your empathy towards this gentleman made me cry. Thanks for making him stay in jail. He'll realize someday you truly wanted him alive.
Judge can remand him to a inpatient psych unit from court. They then can work with the lawyer and AA sponsor to bring him the needed paperwork to pay rent etc. And they can facilitate his transfer to rehab IF his self harm ideation is stabilized. ( psych RN here).
My father was a raging alcoholic. My parents divorced. He married another woman and she got him to stop binge drinking after a few years together with one sentence.
"Did you drink because your marriage was bad or was your marriage bad because you drink?"
They were married for over 35 years until he died of liver cancer. He obviously never stopped drinking, but he never let it become an issue with his wife.
I thought I wrote this comment in reply to someone else who had wondered if he was drinking because of his marital problems.
I didn't mean for it to be a standalone comment. You know, just me telling my life story without reason😂
I’ve been where this defendant has been, and as a recovering alcoholic I can say that I 100% respect how this judge handled this.
Judge Simpson is a true hero, role model, and a class act! What an amazing man to be so compassionate with all that he sees thru the days. Nothing but the utmost respect for him!
Im saying two prayers right now: the first is for the defendant that he recovers from his alcohol addiction and the second is one of thanks for the judge in his case.
In my life I have come to believe that 6 months to a year are needed to really get the help necessary to save their lives.
Wish him the best.
Relapses are sad and rough on the individual and everyone around them.
That's why he to go on to IOP for a period. Other options, perhaps better or in combination would be for him to have been sent from rehab to Sober living facility, and IOP.
I think its the mindset of each individual. What works for 1 person, may not work for the next.
It took me 3 months to quit drinking.
My choice, on my terms, & it worked..
I wanted a drink 1 day, & drove PAST the liquor store...I've never been back.
I've been sober for almost 19 years..💯
I hope that this guy gets the help he needs.. I've lost many friends to alcoholism, & its a horrible way to go.🥺
The most caring Judge I have ever seen and I watch alot of live court shows Thankyou Judge Simpson
Judge Brian Oakley is as well
He's what's known as a high-functioning alcoholic-- my sis was one. The .08 he had at court, though legally drunk, he was not drunk. Most of us would be stumbling and slurring, but he clearly was not. He drank to stop the DTs, to get "normal" again.
Judge Simpson is literally saving his life -- his intervention, though severe (i.e., jail), gave the defendant more time to get back on the rails and get his life straight again.
My sister wasn't so lucky -- she died from her abuse. That guy, if he takes action now, will eventually be able to see his kids again, and likewise live a long sober life.
I love this judge so much. He never fails to impress me with his compassion and fairness and genuine care for humanity.
This judge is so incredibly gentle and still was able to help this man face his mistakes and addiction behaviors in a humane way. Judge Simpson must be special because I haven’t seen any judge this compassionate. He is a blessing in this man’s life!❤
when Judge Simpson said he was gonna revoke him, my heart stopped ! …
I kept hoping to hear that he’d get meds, because he’s bad enough that he could flat out die from a sudden quit 😮
thank YOU, ✨Wolfy darling
The nurses at the jail certainly understand alcoholics…
@@Shakaiharp
yes, that’s true I suppose …
I hope he makes it through his current life and gets back to a good life …
Do they get meds in jail? I’ve always thought they made people go thru withdrawal without them.
@@BrilliantAtTimes
I’m no professional, but I believe that drug addicts can go thru withdrawal without meds, but alcoholics can have life threatening consequences in going cold turkey without meds …
What a wise and fair judge- he has definitely been doing this for a minute! I love this judge
This judge possess the fortitude to make the decisions no one else can (or wants to)! My favourite judge! 👍👏
Needs medical/mental health inpatient care ASAP. Withdrawals are going to be H E double hockey sticks.🤢
Judge is right,guy looking for simple quick fix for show.😟
That's what scares me - alcohol detox while in custody - hopefully there will be some medical monitoring
...this brought me to tears - this reminds me so much of my ex partner. I'm hoping, after 30 odd years, he remains sober as the road from drunk to sober is a hard one. Love you always...
Judge Simpson is clearly the epitome, a physical manifestation of compassion and justice. Thank you sir. This world could use far more of your counsel!! God bless you.
This was so sad to watch. And, Judge Simpson's sincerity, compassion, and delicate handling of this case literally brought tears to my eyes. What a great man he is!
Judge Simpson’s compassion brought me to tears. He was absolutely wonderful with this gentleman. Judge Simpson is a gentleman and a scholar…..and a great jurist! We need more like him.
Did you drink them all?
"OH YEAH!"
You're not an alcoholic unless you drink them all. I don't say that to be funny, and I'm not being entirely literal, but it's a rare case that an alcoholic is drinking, has a few left and says "I think that's enough for today". They stop when it's gone and even then, they'll often get more.
Wow. I have so much respect for how Judge Simpson handled this. Incredibly discerning and concerned about the outcome of this person and his addiction.
Judge: ‘I don’t want to lose you.” Compassion and tough love from a great man.
33 years sober here, and I believe the wise old judge has earned a white chip in the past. I always hated it when the judge told me he was doing something for my own good.
This is why I like watching this! Judge Simpson is a great judge! He has a great sense of humor and you can tell he does care about people!
As a fellow alcoholic, I hope this guy's ok. We need a followup. I'm desperate to know he's ok.
Judge Simpson is a beautiful soul. And he absolutely made the right call here.
I saw a follow up where the guy said he saved his life
Judge Simpson's compassion is everything ❤️!
Walked in on my roomate who passed away from a heart attack due to alcohol withdrawal. Eye opening experience. He would down a case of white claws and a handle of vodka in one day and still offer us roomates some to drink as well as anything else we needed. He was very generous but alcohol was literally all he had and wanted. Very sad to witness. RIP Randy you were a good dude.
After 16 years sobriety, this guy is high risk for suicide. He has lost everything!
And he's going to lose a lot more being stuck in jail and not working.
He’s at the top of the scale. He won’t last long, except for having 16 years sobriety. This judge is a man of such integrity. Defendants body language is that of someone who is completely defeated.
Mr. Heenan if you ever find this video..... you are worth it.... your kids are worth it too but just know you CAN and you WILL show up for yourself....and by doing that they will see what persevering means! Best of luck and blessings on your recovery!
Please be sure and do an update on this case. I’m really hoping this guy gets sober. Great video.
Judge Simpson just SAVED this young man’s life !!!! You Judge Simpson are an Angel sent from GOD ! Thank you ❤
Zoloft is an SSRI (antidepressant), it is not a controlled substance and does not have abuse potential. Any inpatient facility, including rehab, should absolutely give a 30-day supply of any meds started during inpatient treatment. Especially if the person does not yet have an outpatient provider appointment with a psychiatrist. Though, that should be part of the discharge plan ideally.
Sober here 15 yrs… treatment helped but my Sponsor absolutely positively saved my life. I would not be here without him, and yes we still talk regularly. Alcoholism has to be treated like any other chronic disease, it’s a life long process. I’ve never said “I’m a former addict/drinker” I am and will always be an alcoholic, I’m just a non-drinking one today. This one was tough for me to watch. Judge did the exact right thing.
I'm dealing with alcoholism. Judge is right on everything.
In all honesty….I truly hope people understand what he is going through--it’s so hard. Judge Simpson is incredibly compassionate.
A mental obsession coupled with a physical compulsion to drink.
As a patient I take Zoloft for anxiety and depression.
I watch these two remind me of what a mess I was. Today almost 10 years sober. I know if I went just to have one beer I’d pick up where I left off
he could die in jail waiting!! 😢 cold turkey detoxing alcohol is very dangerous.. please keep us updated on his case.
Judge doesn't know that.
@@secnock. of course he does. By law, jails are required to assure they receive proper screening and/or medical care upon intake for those individuals that are going or will be going into withdrawal. How well they follow through on that , I couldn’t say .But it is the law.
@@secnock.of course he does.
Judge, you seem like a very wise and compassionate man. it does my heart good to see someone of your calibre representing our legal system, given all the nonsense that’s been going on in the legal system. Much respect to you, your honour.
One of my favorite Chris Stapleton songs is “whiskey and you” a line that fits this is where he said “I drink because I’m lonesome, and I’m lonesome cause I drink.” Him saying he doesn’t have a support system other than AA automatically made that pop in my head.
I'm so thankful that I'm past the part in my life that the defendant is currently going through, I was drinking at least a fifth a day every day, those first few months of sobriety were not fun,
I hope the defendant makes it
Got to respect the guy for his honesty, i hope he gets on top of this.
Thank you for putting the hotline at the end.
This young man is in a tight spot. I’ve been where he is right now I sincerely hope and pray he can gain freedom from this terrible addiction. And God bless Judge Simpson for his compassion.
Wolfie, I love what you do. I can’t say any better than that. Thank you for your contribution to the world. ❤
Wow, thank you
Judge Simpson is a boss, completely in his element. I’m glad he’s in that seat vs a less empathetic or compassionate person.
That dude is struggling.
This touched me more than any video I've seen in some time.
Right I never get emotional over these type videos...of course I missed one of my meds by mistake this morning so I'm all in my real feels 😂
He needs reevaluation of divorce settlement. He is no longer working.
Sounds like a dual diagnosis along with his addiction issue. Zoloft is for anxiety and depression.
I wish all judges were this compassionate
Cannot start and stop medications like that (I take Paxil, which is similar to Zoloft and Prozac)). A doctor would most certainly approve, if contacted. SSRIs are not nearly as bad as the older neurological medications.
Getting his primary care doctor to do a refill after treatment is very easy with his discharge paperwork. A doctor wouldn’t think twice about refilling it with a visit. It is not a controlled substance
Zoloft doesn't work until you get and maintain levels of the mediine in your blood stream.
But the gap was rehab expected the entry to the IOP program which might adjust doses etc. But he didn't go that route, so in his slip back to drinking he let taking Zoloft lapse, but ready for court he got new script and took one dose. We see him choosing the hidden path each time.
Thanks for this OSG, you can’t help but feel bad for him. I did see the first part somewhere else, but rewatched it here. You do good work, keep it up. Hopefully the defendant gets the help he needs before hurting others or himself.
Very impressive, thoughtful judgement.
7 and a half years sober from Alcohol! So thankful it was previous White Claw era. I remember the desperation and the shakes and it’s so hard. Heart goes out to him. He’s being honest with the judge because he knows he needs help.
Zoloft is a non-narcotic. It can be given during an inpatient stay if depression is present. Weird that it would be prescribed after leaving as they begin treatment during inpatient.
From what I understood:
he had been on the meds before rehab,
for whatever reason wasn't taking them in rehab (maybe it was some kind of "cleanse" or completely drug free rehab?),
then started back on them after rehab
@@benparker3224 That would be a huge mistake. Most suicides while being on prescribed medications occur when the person stops them suddenly. You have to taper off of SSRI’s or it sends them into a tailspin. Many folks stop them when they “feel better”.
I wish my daughter had a judge like this and wouldn't be on the streets still in her addiction. Thank God she doesn't drive. Honestly he's an awesome judge and good man all together to see what's really in front of him and how this man's life is worth saving. This was a very good call on the judge's perspective. God bless Judge Simpson.