I just discovered you about a week ago and girl… IM OBSESSED. These videos are what I look forward to every day or to just play in the background while I do my shtuff. I appreciate all your hard work and dedication to your channel and fans❤️
There should be a legal page to blast bridezilla THIEVES by their names. That cake story blew me away. That poor woman slaved away with a 2.5 day due date and was blatantly disrespected and lost a ton of business. She should sue for loss of reputation and predicted wages. 6 people canceled already which is at least $1500. If they’re all in the same price range.
That was horrific. If she didn't like it why did she accept it? Not only that but she also ate it. Now everyone is attacking the person who has only ever had 2 orders. Like curb your expectations.
$200 for a cake is cheap. I charge $5.00 per serving. She shouldn't sell herself short just because she is a beginner. You still have to buy the ingredients and your time is valuable. I went through that period also and didn't know how to charge for my cakes. I make everything from scratch and I have my degree in pastry art now. If you don't like the price, there's Walmart.
I am an amateur baker 👩🍳 but damn you still gotta buy the ingredients and put hours into work that you won’t get back. People are so ungrateful sometimes. I really want to get my pastry 🥐 degree too!!
@@dixnbutts287 Yes...and If you work in a shop there's lease and utilities too. Thanks for reminding us to support local. I miss my local bakeries! Those daily specials. ❤❤❤
I'm not a baker, but I make plushes for people who asked it, and I charge every bit of yarn, felt, stuffing (even I have it in my stash), plus a decent number of working hours, and I make a client proposal with all the details. It's the same way for a baker, he/she have to buy everything from the yeast to the flowers and the cake topper, and sometimes, it took hours of work just for 10 minutes of eating. People are ungrateful.
Oh heck yeah that's exactly what I was thinking. And the person she was messaging is a good one. I would have said ok, I'll check with her then do nothing. Same as the bride. But I'm petty boots 🤣
When I was on college in the 90s, I worked for THE florist in my hometown when I was home for holidays. We did a wedding for a beauty queen, a Miss America finalist. They had a huge, expensive wedding. The flower bill was around 50k. The parents actually came in after getting the bill and argued over a couple of hundred dollars. We took that off but every time the mom or dad called after to order flowers, we quoted them 3 to 5 dollars more than we normally charged and explicitly stated the amount. In the long run, they spent way more than if they had just paid their bill.
This should be a Top Comment. Love it! Treat the people who create something for you that makes you happy with respect! They want something top notch but are not willing to pay the price for the people to become a top notch artist, florist, cake decorator or else. Craftamanship is so often underrated. If it was so easy do it yourself - Bridezillas! :D
I'm a tailor and some years ago I've started to use the same method. And I turn down bad clients by principle. It may sound too much, but it's important to consider that for artisans and small businesses having to work with a bad client is a lot worse than declining a job, for a number of reasons that at this point should be rather obvious to Charlotte's subscribers
I’m angry on behalf of the woman who was driven to delete her TikTok. I would’ve told the bridezilla “If you don’t like my cakes, then make your own so it’s up to your standards. I had to delete my TikTok because of all the hateful comments you caused me to receive. I’m not making any more cakes for you or any of your friends. Blocking you. Goodbye.”
She should take them to small claims court for damaging her business with slanderous comments. $200 for a wedding cake is a heck of a good deal! I don't know what it looked like, but since it was eaten, it must have been fine. Some bakers would have charged a $200 fee on top of the price just for it being last minute. Bridezilla agreed to that price, she should pay it AND give the baker a nice tip for accommodating her at the last minute. The baker sounds like a very nice person who is being taken advantage of. I hope this story turns around, and she gets MORE business from good paying customers because she proved to be reliable and very reasonable.
I’m not married, nor do I even have a girlfriend. I do wonder if these people put as much thought into their marriage as they do their wedding day. To me it seems like more planning should go into marriage than ONE DAY.
Absolutely, getting married will probably be the most impactful legal decision of your life, yet people often just focus on the wedding without even knowing what marriage fully entails (let alone fully encompassing the emotional and practical aspects of planning a life together)
Well if you think about for some people its day they have been dreaming about since they were kids and they have these expectations of it. Where they want it to gona certain way but then it doesnt makes it stressful.
@@megg2826 People who dream about their wedding, simply don't have the right mindset. Yeah I am SET on a specific dress and venue (the tiny church my grandparents got married in), but other than that I just don't really care. I consider finding the right husband more important. I wouldn't even care about the ring as long as it's something that won't break easily and is at least silver (because sensitive skin with jewelry and when my ass gets married to the right guy, I want to own that and show that ring off 24/7/365).
Here is a message from my boss last night regarding free publicity: "If you're feeling brave and adventurous … tomorrow there is a fashion show you can do makeup at for my designer friends models. It, pays no money but it’s good for clout, exposure and making connections. No pressure at all. I did one of her shows two years ago and it was a pretty awesome experience." When I get to do things like this without getting paid- it's worth it, I love the experience. I didn't even do my own sister's makeup at all let alone for free at her wedding. There is a difference between free experience and portfolio opportunities and getting scammed by people who act like they're doing you a favor by doing so.
Not paying a photographer fairly when you are a photographer is like someone who works as a server but refuses to tip when they go out to eat. 😂🙃 stop it!
Seriously, as a former server, I tip very well. And I taught my kidlets from the time that they were little to leave the table neat, and nicely stack glasses and dishes all together on the side nearest the server. I figure that it makes up for the nontippers and/or low tippers who leave tables *disgusting*
You can, but you have to balance the cost of the damage to the cost of a potentially lengthy litigation. Lawyers are not cheap and there's no guarantee you'll win.
Potentially, yeah, but it can be costly. Especially for a small business who might not be able to afford being wrapped up in a legal battle since the court system tends to drag cases on. Sometimes for years. The proceedings could last longer than the undeserved negative attention that would've started the lawsuit. It might end up costing more than it's worth and not just financially but personally. Unfortunately, it's not an easy feat and can be an exhausting and frustrating process with (as the person above also said) no guarantee of winning.
I agree. She absolutely should sue this bride, but only if she can find a lawyer that is an “I only get paid if you win” kind of lawyer. And the way I see it, this case is fairly slam dunk to me, so it should be doable to find such a legal defense team. They get paid out of the money that is won in the law suit.
@Peter Evans This may work in your country, but I can tell you in a lot of countries it won't. In Europe, we have limits on what a business can have in contract with a customer - if it is unfair, the paragraphes may be in the contract, but they are not enforcable. Also, your competition can sue you over having such unfair conditions in your contracts. B2B is a different story, there you have almost complete freedom with the terms of your contracts.
I don’t know about Canmore, but the south end of our province does seem to have more of them - I’m from near Jasper, and maybe it’s because we’re fighting the elements a little more, idk, but thankfully true bridezillas aren’t as common. They still happen, but they tend to get put in their places pretty dang fast 😏 Sorry to hear you’re bridezilla central - I’ve been to Canmore (well, more through it than anything else, but still) is one of the prettier towns around that area & the people were always nice & pretty darn helpful when I was looking for directions. (Heck of a lot nicer than many Calgarians I’ve met along the way! 😉)
I was a wedding photographer from 1993 to 2012. How I lasted 20 years is beyond me. I quit because I couldn't take the brides anymore. They were fine at first but around 2008 things got out of hand. I can't even imagine how brutal it must be dealing with brides now with social media.
I had a very small wedding back in the early 1990's. Only those closest to us were invited. We went to arrange for flowers with a local florist who specialized in weddings & since it was a small wedding, the business of flowers was dealt with quite quickly. However, this lady entertained us for the next two hours on all the bridezillas she had to deal with over the years. We laughed until our sides ached.
When I was a bride I was chilled because I didn’t think it was MY day, but OUR day, as a couple/family day. Everyone who worked on it was so sweet and nice. I have 3 friends that used my venue, catering and photographer after my wedding and they all had good things to say about me. The salon I had my bride day says I was the most relaxed bride ever lol.
I was wondering why the venues were all being nice. They said I was actually happy to be married instead of making it just about my wedding! I want everyone to have a good time, not hate me lol
Dear Tamires Caron, you sound like the voice of sweet reason. I was once an amateur video camera operator back in the days when it was a novelty and you either had to be rich or insane to own one (I was the latter). I was relatively lucky in the weddings I covered some strange requests but no bridezillas. I thought they were an urban myth until I ran into a couple later as just an ordinary guest (one bride cried her eyes out because her shoes were creased ... you couldn’t them under her wedding dress but no ... she put on a huge scene. One thing I did notice when filming was that I could always tell whether the bride and groom were a lost cause. I was never wrong. Perhaps I was concentrating so hard that I noticed things the wedding guests missed (while eating, drinking, talking, etc). Almost all the brides I filmed were happy types but a few of the men had happiness bypasses (not a good sign) and a few had the most humble requests ignored by family members not necessarily the bride.
This editor is just *chef's kiss* on point every little moment and your content is as funny as ever. Can't get enough of these bridezilla videos. Congrats on 500.000!
I have always found “bridezilla” stories sooo funny until I was in a wedding with 1!! My sister had her wedding recently and I felt so unwelcome being a bridesmaid I am not even sure things can be the same between us. I wasn’t spoken to or I was treated like I was in the way and ignored at the reception even though at the same table. I made sure The whole day was about her and thought it’s her day, but the weeks following I replayed it over thinking it was me and realised it wasn’t it was her. Brides claim it’s so stressful planning and having a wedding but when I got married the planning was so fun and on the day I was so chill my girls asked me was I ok 😂 We had such an amazing day and it was because I was marrying the man I love and it was a great day with friends and family. At the end of the day these bridezillas must come back from their honeymoons and wonder where all their friends, and maybe some family, have gone!! Sorry venting over! ✌️✌️
You had a chill day because you were focused on what mattered: marrying the man you love. I'm entirely convinced that a lot of bridezillas and groomzillas really only care about the fairy tale of the day and not what comes after.
She's horrible. I don't understand the "getting married means you can trash and abuse your friends and family" mentality. It should be a happy event and the time where you treat your closest friends even more like GOLD, not abuse and iggnore them. I am a talented hair stylist and make-up artist, but stopped doing bridal work due to Bridezillas & their mothers who are often just as bad.
I get Stress, but ITS an explanation,.Not an excuse. My best friend IS Like the furthest from a bridezilla, IT IS possible If one does Not have insane expectations and messed Up priorities . . .she Just wants everyone to have a good time, and everyone means the few people she invites cause she does Not get why one would invites everyone one ever knew
I 'liked' the bride who spent her wedding's budget on her dress, and so demanded everyone else work for free. So many brides have the notion that their wedding is actually a British style Coronation, with them as Queen, and nobody else matters. A myth left over from the days when marriage for a woman meant *a life of constant (very dangerous) pregnancy, endless hard work, total subjugation to the husband.* Sure, they were "special" on their wedding day, but that was so the groom could show off his new possession, etc., and his good taste in choice of bride And it would be the _last time_ they were the "special" one in the marriage.
My job was the off site operations for what has repeatedly been deemed by multiple local, state, and national publications as one of if not the best restaurant in town, but our Yelp is 4.8 because of one lady's extensive review from a couple years ago blaming us because her husband didn't make a reservation for her birthday on a Saturday night when there was a major street art event whose route ran directly outside our front door. She complains about the staff, the other guests, the wait, the way the bartender is serving his area, is irate because she can see the help in the open concept kitchen from the prime seats they finally got, and even complains that the house Irish brown bread is 'too brown'. If ONLY killing them with kindness actually led to their immediate demise.
Omg I bet. I’m a licensed massage therapist and ppl seem to forget that means my time is money. And I give more then “just a back rub” buuuut what would I know I only went to school for 2yrs to become state licensed lol But at least I don’t deal w hangry bridezillas 😳😳 seriously how do u survive an encounter w one?!?? 🤣🤣
I'm sorry to hear that.... if I ever decide to get married, I definitely will make a POINT of being extra good to my photographer, caterer, florist, etc... Charlotte opened up my eyes to what you guys experience and it sucks... You seem to have a good attitude about it though! Don't let the assholes bring you down! ❤
@@perfectlyimperfect_8528 I feel like Bridzillas (especially while hangry) are like a boss level Karen.... I can't imagine dealing with one! I teach 1st aid and we get a lot of assholes there too... they take their anger about having to take our classes for work (despite the fact they are literally getting PAID to be there) out on us.... Thank god Bridezillas won't be a factor for my line of work lol (more so angry/frustrated wannabe- Karen tradesmen 🙄). Lol Sometimes I wish I could switch to a job not having to deal with the public....
I guess whoever coined the phrase "the customer is always right" should clean up this mess. The customer is clearly not always right and by feeding this stupid shit to basically the entire planet we created a gazillion monsters.
Not a wedding comment, just a random thought. I ordered a steak at restaurant. I like mine rare to uncooked, it arrived medium well. I ate it, it was good. Told the waitress just as an advisory and she immediately said she'd get me another. I told, no, I ate it, it was good. Just have the chef watch a little closer. Why would I not pay for it, I ate it?
The same happened to my husband, at a very expensive venue on our 35th wedding anniversary. The waiter chose to tell the manager, and she took the $$ filet mignon off the tab. We didn’t ask for that, and still tipped our waiter based on what the full amount would have been.
My online order was screwed up. I called to confirm and it was my fault. Mgr said next time check before leaving and we'll fix it, no charge. Told him no, if it's my fault, I'll pay.
This is why my husband and I ran off and eloped. I couldn't imagine ever being like this! But also you get the crazy parents/family as well who try to take over and make things insane, which was what we were afraid of in our case. Married 12 wonderful years and counting, still not a single regret for skipping the wedding craziness lol.
I’m so happy for you and your sweetheart! My man and I are similar. He proposed, we started pricing things for a wedding and said “f this”. We called up our local courthouse, found a judge, set up the time on the day we picked, invited our closest family and friends (15 people tops), spruced ourselves up and said our “I do’s” for free (our judge refused payment or a tip, since she had never performed a ceremony before and she called us her guinea pigs). She was awesome! We will be married for 19 years in August and I adore that man more now than I ever thought was humanly possible. Long live true love!!
Hubby and I married in a homeless shelter. No wedding, no reception, no nothing. We went to a restaurant afterwards and then home to play video games. I wouldn't have it any other way. I didn't want my family involved because they're more into the traditional stuff. So we married without telling anybody. I didn't want my family coercing me into having a wedding.
@@felinagrimm7538 exactly! We knew if we told anyone we'd get guilt tripped into stuff me didn't want. Some people were really mad at us for eloping, but they don't get that it wasn't about them!
@@FoxyMomma4ever I love that "her guinea pigs" lol, so sweet of her. And huge congrats coming up on the big milestone 20 next, hope it's a amazing a long with the next 20 and more.
That's why my wife and I got married by the Mayor in her office. My wife said we could put the money to better use than a one time wedding, I agreed, we bought a car.
8:00 So, is the town clerk saying that she'll use her official position to advertise a private business, in exchange for personal gifts from that business? Because that sounds a lot like bribery.
Also do town clerks have a lot of dealings with people in high demand of DJs or something, because if not it seems her "professional contacts" aren't particularly special
If you find out, let me (and Charlotte) know lol 😆 Actually I doubt I could pull it off even if it meant getting married - just really not who I am! lmao jk
I think they find submissive people with low self-esteem, that will give them whatever they want because they are lonely. That .. or the pussy is just THAT good. Beats me.
@@CanadianGoose_1 I wish you luck. I am Albertan born and raised, but in New Brunswick now due to my ex. There are lots of people with issues out there and unfortunately, I have learned that I am inexplicably drawn to them, so I gave up trying. It doesn't help that I am now too old for the foolishness haha.
The ring changes a person; they aren't like that when you're dating, and the grooms likely cling to the hope they'll return to normal after the wedding.
Because everybody keeps saying that is "your special day" or that it is going to be "the day you dream about" and at a time you start believing it is true and you deserve everything, and if something is not exactly as you wanted they are ruining your day (poor you!)
@@evarodriguez9631 My special day was the day I had more pain than ever in my life, was covered in my own blood and had to be sutured at my ladies parts. Best day in my life. Not my wedding.
I can't even imagine being able to be this entitled and how enabling their families must be. I always say there are 2 types of people who lose it when they don't get their way. There are people who have always gotten their way and fully expect it and don't even know how to handle disappointment, and then there are people who have NEVER gotten their way or what they want and are sick of it.
I feel a little bit awkward saying this and I hope I don't come across as offensive or anything AND I have been in a happy relationship with my boyfriend for five years now. But I think I have THE hardest woman-crush on Charlotte ever. And I am not ashamed.
I’m engaged and when my fiancé says I don’t even know all the reasons why he loves me, now I’m beginning to understand. I’m such a flexible person who isn’t very hard to please or impress. There is a reason why I want a small wedding, a nice honeymoon and money 💰 left over to concentrate the on actual marriage.
My dress cost 27 dollars at a yard sale and it was purchased by my Mother along with the ring which were both absolutely gorgeous( our daughter now has both). My sisters-in law and I did all the decorations and cake at one of their houses ( where we held the services) and had so much fun!! The entire day was awesome and memorable to this day some 30 years later. Our reception was going to a private car track and playing "bumper cars" with real junk cars. Best reception ever!
As a certified florist, the florist one pissed me off so much. Flowers take time to grow and nourish, and they generally cost a decent amount of money unless you're getting cheap, common and easy to care for flowers like carnations. Nobody wants carnations at their wedding. And aside from all of that, despite what many people think, you DO have to go to school to become a florist. You have to learn the different types of floral arrangements, the different tools to use, you have to use and apply color theory, and to top it off arrangements take time to make. Even if the person is providing the flowers for free, I didn't go to school to do free work. I'm not applying my skills, which you(the client) clearly don't have for free. Learn how to do your own floral arrangements if you're that entitled. Also, flowers aren't the only thing you need in a floral arrangement. You need floral tape, clippers, a floral knife, floral wire, foliage, floral foam, and so much more. At that point I'd not only be wasting my time but also dipping into my own money. The level of entitlement is disgusting.
I actually love carnations because they are nostalgic to me - my grandmother had fake carnations all over her house. Yes, doesn't sound particularly glamorous and I know they're considered "filler flowers" but I really like them. I probably wouldn't have them at my wedding but only because I think I'd prefer wild/foraged flowers rather than cut ones, for environmental reasons.
This makes me even more grateful for my sister in law arranging our wedding flowers. 1 bridal bouquet, 3 bridesmaids, 4 boutineers (idk how to spell it), and I paid for all the supplies. She still worked HOURS on it, and they were beautiful ❤️ Incredible wedding present, and I hope she does end up with her own shop one day.
There's this saying where I come from, roughly translates to: "Something that costs nothing is nothing," meaning if it's cheap, expect to get shit. That's what I'd answer a lot of them.
What's real funny about the first bride is that she could have used all the time she spent on that WhatsApp text to write an actual email to the photographer she wanted to hire. 😂
Not only do I love that you are so funny, but the fact that you always remind everyone that selfcare is important, I love that the most. Your channel showed up in my feed a couple weeks ago, I found out I have cancer at 23 years old, and your videos have really helped me find some funny in the world. I know watch your videos every time I start stressing out. Thank you so much! Even if you never see this comment, at least I got it out in the world that someone made me smile during such a difficult time.
I'm so glad I'm not throwing a wedding ceremony. I'm eloping with a courthouse marriage then running off to vacation 🤣🤣🤣 no friends or family. Just me and him. Weddings are too expensive!!
@@draymorrow9257 Yes. I 👑 you an official Charlotte addict. 😂 Just a FYI, she uploads 7 days a week,12:00 Noon Eastern Standard Time and 3:00 PM EST Saturdays, on her 2nd channel, "Just Charlotte". In case you didn't know, the outro is Charlotte singing. If you like it, you can find it by searching Take It All Off (Featuring Charlotte Dobre, Sam Klass)-Defunk. You can listen on UA-cam, or Spotify. 💝🤘🏼
I'm getting an image of Alberta bridezilla out in Canmore, in her gorgeous dress, surrounded by the majestic snowy mountains...and not a photographer in sight. 😂😂
Holy Smokems!...Congrats on hitting the Half a million mark, which sounds much nicer than 500k...That was damn fast...Now for the goal of One Million Subs....Easy peasy!
Yessssss another bridezilla episode!! I love these! And hello everybody makes my day!... Also just found this channel and am hooked , can't stop laughing 😂 love ya ❤️
Glad to have you❣❣I 👑 you an official Charlotte addict. 😂 Just a FYI, she uploads 7 days a week,12:00 Noon Eastern Standard Time and 3:00 PM EST Saturdays, on her 2nd channel, "Just Charlotte". In case you didn't know, the outro is Charlotte singing. If you like it, you can find it by searching Take It All Off (Featuring Charlotte Dobre, Sam Klass)-Defunk. You can listen on UA-cam, or Spotify. 💝🤘🏼
@@mycreativeheart4159 it could be.... like Golden or Cranbrook, etc but sounds more like entitled Albertans tbh (I live in AB now but moved here from Golden - people in AB - especially Calgary and surrounding areas are pretty damn entitled at times.... saw a lot of thar since covid started... 😭) Oh! How much I miss BC sometimes..... lol
@@BandlerChing yeah - I said $10 she was from Calgary in another comment.... lol I may live here now but I am sure as hell NOT one of THEM.... and even if I was, we don't claim (or want) her lol
@Farah Ng some people here are amazing... hold onto your dream! 😊 However, I have wonderful friends in Toronto, but as a city, I have to say (soley from my experiences so far), I would probably choose Calgary over Toronto... (at least on some things). That said, I didn't see how your people handled covid, so the choice is hard! Sadly there are too many assholes (about masks/covid in general) here... in fact I am convinced that those people (the maskholes) truly believe AB is part of the States.... 😑 Aside from them, many of us are just pretty dope, friendly, chill kayakers/mountain climbers/etc lol 😉 lol (sorry that ended up long)
@@CanadianGoose_1 there are some amazing people in Calgary, but when the rest of the province is full of racist hicks that will outvote you every time….well it feels like kind of a crap shoot. We left right before covid lol.
@Farah Ng It depends on where you go. Calgary is pretty cool for the most part, really diverse and pretty safe compared to Toronto. Just don’t go to like….red deer or Lethbridge lol
Just block them immediately. They don't even deserve a response. Life is too short to waste any of it on people who think they always deserve an immediate answer, like you can't possibly have anything more important to do.
So worked at a restaurant, had a 250 piece fried chicken order for a picnic (AKA:wedding). Order was picked up on time and paid for, no problem. Till the “picnic” began, then a Slow day got really busy at the restaurant. Apparently the bride wanted each person to bring a dish to put on food table and pay $55 for each person to eat even children. Plus bring a gift she approved of. The bride estimated how much chicken, what she didn’t think about was the restaurant was right down the road, and a full meal was cheaper. So 92 of her 100 guests filtered in to eat, refusing to pay her $55 fee (oh and no dish to pass) I made hella good tips, one table of 6 (2adults 4children) left me $110. The next day I happen to be working and 3 ladies come in and are talking about what they should do with over 200 pieces of fried chicken. And where everyone would have gone. One commented I only made $400 and a bunch of gift cards ($160 total) and now we don’t have enough to go on honeymoon/vacation. She paid for the lunch with a $25 gift certificate her brother gave her, she showed me a picture. Just so happens his wife and 4 kids were in the picture, yep (that table of 6) you know I want to tell her he likes me more!!! Oh and the chicken was drunkenly left in the car all night and she still thought it was good!
@@hottubtimemachine1200 OMFG. For a minute, I thought you were joking, but then I realized that it was in character for them, considering the rest of their behavior. Some people's stupidity is off the scale.
@@eugeniesh7285 I mean, it makes sense. If the wedding is the center of attention, not the marriage, then that is a screaming red flag itself. These posts that come from actual people honestly scare me. I'm surprised they even have friends/lovers. Jeez.
@@eugeniesh7285 That's good news then because my husband and I paid about the same as we were really young when we got married.(I had just turned 20) Our 17th wedding anniversary is next month and he's still my best friend.😊 Personally I think the marriages that last are the ones where both parties just refuse to give up on each other, and so they grow together through hardships as well as good times. But it takes both people having that determination.
I really , I don’t get it how some ppl can be soooooo entitled:)))) in what world did they live until now and how come no one slapped them to reality until now?? I am amazed
Oddly my wedding cake was actually horrible. We literally struggled to cut it, much to everyone's amusement and our embarrassment. Once we did, it was awful. Literally no one liked it and several people hated it so much that they called (independently of each other) the bakery to complain, something we didn't even know at the time. We wanted a gold and red cake to match our colors and they later justified the taste, saying they had to use stuff that didn't taste good and hardened the outside to make it work and had to bake it several days ahead of time, making it "potentially stale." Yet, had they bothered to call and explain this, we would have said do anything but that. Crazy as we are, we wanted the cake to be edible above all else and honestly didn't really care that much. This was a well known, usually good bakery. Interestingly enough, my mother-in-law bought a sheet cake in the shape of a squirrel (inside joke) from the same bakery for the rehearsal dinner reception. It didn't get eaten as everyone was already stuffed from dinner, so we had them put it out at the wedding. It was too small for the number of people there but also delicious. My grandmother bought us the official wedding cake for over $400! When she called in they gave her the excuses listed here and beyond but did admit they'd already had guests call to voice their complaints. They refunded her $200, telling her that if she'd saved the cake they would have gotten a full refund. Like basically had everyone return their nearly full slices of cake instead of putting in the trash, boxed it all up, and returned it. What?! 🤦♀️ Honestly many pieces were basically mutilated just trying to get the knife through the fondant. These days, they probably would have done it anyway to avoid being called out online, and had I paid for it and been refused a refund, I would have lodged a complaint with the credit card company to ensure they didn't get paid for a terrible, inedible product. Also, without our knowledge, my mom did save the topmost, tiny tier, froze it, and then mailed it to us on our anniversary. That was sweet of her, but the cake definitely didn't get magically better tasting after all that. 🤣 The most important part was that we ended up married, but I still remember that disgust, confusion, and then humiliation that we were serving inedible, poorly cut slices of cake, especially at a reception on New Year's Eve. But..... 🤷♀️
That's awful but at the same time you kinda have a funny story. You had a Chinese fighting muffin cake at your wedding (Charlies angels reference. The Lucy Lu one). Not many people can claim that 😅
Some probably do. My cousin did not pay the venue (was only 500€, but her dress alone was 2500 and that 500€ means a lot to non-profit organization that runs it).. they had it from Fri-Sun, reception was on Sat and one Sunday they just announced that place was not clean on Fri, they had to clean so they will not pay. (It's not like... They couldn't inform this on Friday. Oh no. I have rented the place so many times and know the people who clean it and I know there has been nothing to complain about)
You deserve an award for the top content creator, also for being the funniest and most down-to-earth person, you're brutally honest, and you say what people gotta hear, thanks for being the best 🌟
These brides are why if I do get married, it'll be in a courthouse, or a teeny tiny wedding with like 6 guests with party packs from friggin taco bell okay?😅
The worst wedding planner I ever seen was this one lady. My friend got got married. Her and her groom didn't have a lot of money. Everyone in the church donated everything. Her wedding dress was a rental. They are the nicest people you ever met. There was a lady who volunteered to be the planner.the day of the wedding she was nowhere to be found. We did all the decorations and got all the food organized cuz it was all made by us and no catering. The bride and groom couldn't afford it and that was ok. The wedding planner showed up at the very end of the reception for the cake cutting. She was also dressed like a street Walker. Way too sexy for a wedding. Her and her kids ate non stop like they haven't eaten in a year and ate a huge chunk of cake. After they ate they. The wedding planner was only there less than 1 hour for this event. No one in church ever invited her and her kids to any events after that.
🥂 Congratulations on 500 girl! You So earned it! Thanks for the silliness over the last couple years. Covid would have sucked without UA-camrs like you 😘 Nothing but love from the Upper US ( the saner part 😝) and keep the vids coming. I save them for a few days and binge on FaceTime with my girls while indulging in a few adult beverages and few 🌲’s too 😉. Lots of love but dang you, you actually caught me off guard with your sign off on this one 😂 💕 Love the outro song too. You just keep getting better and better, thank you.
Attention to all Brides & Grooms that complain about things not being "perfect": Divorce rates are high these days. Just plan to do it better the _next_ time around! 😁🤣🤣🤣
That last one, about the florists: the flowers usually make up 5-10% of the budget. The rest is purely work hours, to arrange the flowers in such a manner (not to mention the long work hours) that they look spectacular on any wedding. So basically she spent 10% at most of the whole florist budget, and then wants a (professional?) florist to arrange the whole bunch for free!
Yeah, but good or Bad Job. There are no refunds for weeding cakes unless the baker is kind enough to give one. In this case, she shouldn't. The pictures are online, and cake looks beatiful plus $200 was already a steal and she was warmed before about possible bad results which didn't even happend.
I understand but i sent pictures during the baking process and she okayed all of it. Then she told me she loved it, ate it then said it was disappointing
I'm truly hoping that third one with the photographer was a typo and she meant 15,000 for the shoot since she herself makes 8000 a day.... though it's unlikely. What a ... few bad words
I think that one is mocking clients who lie and say they're in the field to defend their crappy offer/demands, since saying they make $8,000 a day while offering $25/hour does not help their case any.
Our wedding photographer was in the middle of a nasty divorce...he spent the whole wedding bitter and sniping about what a dud institution marriage was, and no one in their right mind should be getting married....it was great 👍 he did at least take great photos. Which I binned, along with my wedding ring when I got divorced 12 years and 4 kids later...guy might have been onto something 😉
5:26 I saw what the cake looked like when it was posted to Reddit. I think I had to scroll to find it in the comments but it looks 10x better than the photo shown to the baker.
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Her: "I don't have time for a phone call" Her two minutes later: Sends a novel thru text that had to have taken more than five minutes to type. No time my ass
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Doesn’t have time for a call but can type out a NOVEL 🤦🏻♀️
Lol that was exactly the comment I started to write at that point in the video lol
Yeeees! That would have been a 5 minute conversation
Lol!!! Right? What a shitty woman
That was exactly my first thought.
Exactly!!!
In the first one the bride said she had no time to call, yet she can text an essay.
Omg ikr, like, she almost did better than me on 4th grade with that essay!
EXACTLY what I thought as well!!!
Yep, just looking for an excuse to be nasty.
Don't make a call and explain in 3 min what can be wrote down in 15. ;)
She literally didn't have the time! She's too busy thinking about her *style* 🤣🤣
There should be a legal page to blast bridezilla THIEVES by their names. That cake story blew me away. That poor woman slaved away with a 2.5 day due date and was blatantly disrespected and lost a ton of business. She should sue for loss of reputation and predicted wages. 6 people canceled already which is at least $1500. If they’re all in the same price range.
That was horrific. If she didn't like it why did she accept it? Not only that but she also ate it. Now everyone is attacking the person who has only ever had 2 orders. Like curb your expectations.
I agree completely with this.
She should ABSOLUTELY sue that witch. If it were me, I’d be LIVID and sue the SHIT out of her.
That bride was a monstrous piece of work. To Whoever married that thing.....you must be desperate.
That poor woman, if I knew who she was and if I had $200. I would order a cake from her.
$200 for a cake is cheap. I charge $5.00 per serving. She shouldn't sell herself short just because she is a beginner. You still have to buy the ingredients and your time is valuable. I went through that period also and didn't know how to charge for my cakes. I make everything from scratch and I have my degree in pastry art now. If you don't like the price, there's Walmart.
I am an amateur baker 👩🍳 but damn you still gotta buy the ingredients and put hours into work that you won’t get back. People are so ungrateful sometimes. I really want to get my pastry 🥐 degree too!!
@@dixnbutts287 Yes...and If you work in a shop there's lease and utilities too. Thanks for reminding us to support local. I miss my local bakeries! Those daily specials. ❤❤❤
@@dixnbutts287 make some videos! People love learning from mishaps and you could monetize from tutorials.
I want to see the cakes! Lol
I'm not a baker, but I make plushes for people who asked it, and I charge every bit of yarn, felt, stuffing (even I have it in my stash), plus a decent number of working hours, and I make a client proposal with all the details. It's the same way for a baker, he/she have to buy everything from the yeast to the flowers and the cake topper, and sometimes, it took hours of work just for 10 minutes of eating. People are ungrateful.
Anybody else wondering if Ashley cancelled because she’s sick of her demands?
I am convinced Ashley fired her as a client and that is why she wanted the other photographer to correspond.
Oh heck yeah that's exactly what I was thinking. And the person she was messaging is a good one. I would have said ok, I'll check with her then do nothing. Same as the bride. But I'm petty boots 🤣
That’s EXACTLY what I was thinking, lol!
BINGO!
Probably.
When I was on college in the 90s, I worked for THE florist in my hometown when I was home for holidays. We did a wedding for a beauty queen, a Miss America finalist. They had a huge, expensive wedding. The flower bill was around 50k. The parents actually came in after getting the bill and argued over a couple of hundred dollars. We took that off but every time the mom or dad called after to order flowers, we quoted them 3 to 5 dollars more than we normally charged and explicitly stated the amount. In the long run, they spent way more than if they had just paid their bill.
This should be a Top Comment. Love it! Treat the people who create something for you that makes you happy with respect!
They want something top notch but are not willing to pay the price for the people to become a top notch artist, florist, cake decorator or else. Craftamanship is so often underrated. If it was so easy do it yourself - Bridezillas! :D
I'm a tailor and some years ago I've started to use the same method.
And I turn down bad clients by principle.
It may sound too much, but it's important to consider that for artisans and small businesses having to work with a bad client is a lot worse than declining a job, for a number of reasons that at this point should be rather obvious to Charlotte's subscribers
50k!! That's more than I spent on my whole wedding.
A permanent asshole fee, love it!
Isn't increasing price for a certain client illegal? Seriously asking.
I’m angry on behalf of the woman who was driven to delete her TikTok. I would’ve told the bridezilla “If you don’t like my cakes, then make your own so it’s up to your standards. I had to delete my TikTok because of all the hateful comments you caused me to receive. I’m not making any more cakes for you or any of your friends. Blocking you. Goodbye.”
And if you Google bride wants money back for 200 cake they already ate and go to images, it's the first two. It's gorgeous. Shame on that wench
She should take them to small claims court for damaging her business with slanderous comments. $200 for a wedding cake is a heck of a good deal! I don't know what it looked like, but since it was eaten, it must have been fine.
Some bakers would have charged a $200 fee on top of the price just for it being last minute. Bridezilla agreed to that price, she should pay it AND give the baker a nice tip for accommodating her at the last minute.
The baker sounds like a very nice person who is being taken advantage of. I hope this story turns around, and she gets MORE business from good paying customers because she proved to be reliable and very reasonable.
Everybody should get rid of tick tock. Bridezilla did her a favor.
@@LazyIRanch she should.. I googled and the cake was gorgeous and just like the inspo pic
@@bonnemoms5413 oh wow, no kidding. That cake is gorgeous, and literally exactly what she asked for.
I’m not married, nor do I even have a girlfriend. I do wonder if these people put as much thought into their marriage as they do their wedding day. To me it seems like more planning should go into marriage than ONE DAY.
I'm guessing they're the same kinda of people who get divorced within 5 years only to keep on marrying because they want a day all about them...
Absolutely, getting married will probably be the most impactful legal decision of your life, yet people often just focus on the wedding without even knowing what marriage fully entails (let alone fully encompassing the emotional and practical aspects of planning a life together)
Well if you think about for some people its day they have been dreaming about since they were kids and they have these expectations of it. Where they want it to gona certain way but then it doesnt makes it stressful.
@@megg2826 not everything will always go the way you planned. While it is stressful, at the end of the day, it’s just one day in history
@@megg2826 People who dream about their wedding, simply don't have the right mindset. Yeah I am SET on a specific dress and venue (the tiny church my grandparents got married in), but other than that I just don't really care. I consider finding the right husband more important. I wouldn't even care about the ring as long as it's something that won't break easily and is at least silver (because sensitive skin with jewelry and when my ass gets married to the right guy, I want to own that and show that ring off 24/7/365).
Bride- "I literally don't have time"
Also the bride- **writes a thesis**
Here is a message from my boss last night regarding free publicity: "If you're feeling brave and adventurous … tomorrow there is a fashion show you can do makeup at for my designer friends models. It, pays no money but it’s good for clout, exposure and making connections. No pressure at all. I did one of her shows two years ago and it was a pretty awesome experience."
When I get to do things like this without getting paid- it's worth it, I love the experience. I didn't even do my own sister's makeup at all let alone for free at her wedding. There is a difference between free experience and portfolio opportunities and getting scammed by people who act like they're doing you a favor by doing so.
Not paying a photographer fairly when you are a photographer is like someone who works as a server but refuses to tip when they go out to eat. 😂🙃 stop it!
Seriously, as a former server, I tip very well. And I taught my kidlets from the time that they were little to leave the table neat, and nicely stack glasses and dishes all together on the side nearest the server.
I figure that it makes up for the nontippers and/or low tippers who leave tables *disgusting*
This and perfect analogy
Certainly if they make the money they claimed, they know the value and can afford to pay more!
I dont really go out, but i will give a tip to the delivery drivers who bring me pizza
Not the same. Tipping is a moronic practise. All should be paid equal, shouldnt be up to the costumer.
actually you can sue someone over badmouthing your business on false claims.
You can, but you have to balance the cost of the damage to the cost of a potentially lengthy litigation. Lawyers are not cheap and there's no guarantee you'll win.
Potentially, yeah, but it can be costly. Especially for a small business who might not be able to afford being wrapped up in a legal battle since the court system tends to drag cases on. Sometimes for years. The proceedings could last longer than the undeserved negative attention that would've started the lawsuit. It might end up costing more than it's worth and not just financially but personally. Unfortunately, it's not an easy feat and can be an exhausting and frustrating process with (as the person above also said) no guarantee of winning.
I agree. She absolutely should sue this bride, but only if she can find a lawyer that is an “I only get paid if you win” kind of lawyer. And the way I see it, this case is fairly slam dunk to me, so it should be doable to find such a legal defense team. They get paid out of the money that is won in the law suit.
yeah that sucks; in some countries the costs are covered by the government exactly for that reason
@Peter Evans This may work in your country, but I can tell you in a lot of countries it won't. In Europe, we have limits on what a business can have in contract with a customer - if it is unfair, the paragraphes may be in the contract, but they are not enforcable. Also, your competition can sue you over having such unfair conditions in your contracts. B2B is a different story, there you have almost complete freedom with the terms of your contracts.
As a Canmore resident...we get a lot of these brides and we HATE them
I'm so sorry.
Lol that bride is prob from Chestermere cuz nobody likes dem
I don’t know about Canmore, but the south end of our province does seem to have more of them - I’m from near Jasper, and maybe it’s because we’re fighting the elements a little more, idk, but thankfully true bridezillas aren’t as common. They still happen, but they tend to get put in their places pretty dang fast 😏
Sorry to hear you’re bridezilla central - I’ve been to Canmore (well, more through it than anything else, but still) is one of the prettier towns around that area & the people were always nice & pretty darn helpful when I was looking for directions. (Heck of a lot nicer than many Calgarians I’ve met along the way! 😉)
Soooo....you live in a gorgeous place, I imagine?
I'd rather go check out the dino museum then go to a bridezilla's wedding.😂😂
I was a wedding photographer from 1993 to 2012. How I lasted 20 years is beyond me. I quit because I couldn't take the brides anymore. They were fine at first but around 2008 things got out of hand. I can't even imagine how brutal it must be dealing with brides now with social media.
I had a very small wedding back in the early 1990's. Only those closest to us were invited. We went to arrange for flowers with a local florist who specialized in weddings & since it was a small wedding, the business of flowers was dealt with quite quickly. However, this lady entertained us for the next two hours on all the bridezillas she had to deal with over the years. We laughed until our sides ached.
When I was a bride I was chilled because I didn’t think it was MY day, but OUR day, as a couple/family day. Everyone who worked on it was so sweet and nice. I have 3 friends that used my venue, catering and photographer after my wedding and they all had good things to say about me. The salon I had my bride day says I was the most relaxed bride ever lol.
Right? There's really no reason to stress, it should be a fun/romantic day :)
Imo that's how it SHOULD be! I can't believe these people....
I was wondering why the venues were all being nice. They said I was actually happy to be married instead of making it just about my wedding! I want everyone to have a good time, not hate me lol
I’m not married but generally speaking it’s better to be kind nice humble and greatful
Dear Tamires Caron, you sound like the voice of sweet reason. I was once an amateur video camera operator back in the days when it was a novelty and you either had to be rich or insane to own one (I was the latter). I was relatively lucky in the weddings I covered some strange requests but no bridezillas. I thought they were an urban myth until I ran into a couple later as just an ordinary guest (one bride cried her eyes out because her shoes were creased ... you couldn’t them under her wedding dress but no ... she put on a huge scene.
One thing I did notice when filming was that I could always tell whether the bride and groom were a lost cause. I was never wrong. Perhaps I was concentrating so hard that I noticed things the wedding guests missed (while eating, drinking, talking, etc). Almost all the brides I filmed were happy types but a few of the men had happiness bypasses (not a good sign) and a few had the most humble requests ignored by family members not necessarily the bride.
This editor is just *chef's kiss* on point every little moment and your content is as funny as ever. Can't get enough of these bridezilla videos. Congrats on 500.000!
I will tell Kelly you said that!!
Ikr! I was thinking the same thing but you said it better than me.
“NEXT. BRIDE!” I liked that one, the clapping and editing created a very good rhythm
I have always found “bridezilla” stories sooo funny until I was in a wedding with 1!! My sister had her wedding recently and I felt so unwelcome being a bridesmaid I am not even sure things can be the same between us. I wasn’t spoken to or I was treated like I was in the way and ignored at the reception even though at the same table. I made sure The whole day was about her and thought it’s her day, but the weeks following I replayed it over thinking it was me and realised it wasn’t it was her.
Brides claim it’s so stressful planning and having a wedding but when I got married the planning was so fun and on the day I was so chill my girls asked me was I ok 😂 We had such an amazing day and it was because I was marrying the man I love and it was a great day with friends and family. At the end of the day these bridezillas must come back from their honeymoons and wonder where all their friends, and maybe some family, have gone!! Sorry venting over! ✌️✌️
You had a chill day because you were focused on what mattered: marrying the man you love. I'm entirely convinced that a lot of bridezillas and groomzillas really only care about the fairy tale of the day and not what comes after.
@@newcarpathia9422 Your absolutely right! Thank you so much for your reply 😊😊
She's horrible. I don't understand the "getting married means you can trash and abuse your friends and family" mentality. It should be a happy event and the time where you treat your closest friends even more like GOLD, not abuse and iggnore them. I am a talented hair stylist and make-up artist, but stopped doing bridal work due to Bridezillas & their mothers who are often just as bad.
I get Stress, but ITS an explanation,.Not an excuse. My best friend IS Like the furthest from a bridezilla, IT IS possible If one does Not have insane expectations and messed Up priorities . . .she Just wants everyone to have a good time, and everyone means the few people she invites cause she does Not get why one would invites everyone one ever knew
I 'liked' the bride who spent her wedding's budget on her dress, and so demanded everyone else work for free. So many brides have the notion that their wedding is actually a British style Coronation, with them as Queen, and nobody else matters.
A myth left over from the days when marriage for a woman meant *a life of constant (very dangerous) pregnancy, endless hard work, total subjugation to the husband.* Sure, they were "special" on their wedding day, but that was so the groom could show off his new possession, etc., and his good taste in choice of bride And it would be the _last time_ they were the "special" one in the marriage.
I am a caterer/ event coordinator. The entitlement is real y'all, real ugly.
My job was the off site operations for what has repeatedly been deemed by multiple local, state, and national publications as one of if not the best restaurant in town, but our Yelp is 4.8 because of one lady's extensive review from a couple years ago blaming us because her husband didn't make a reservation for her birthday on a Saturday night when there was a major street art event whose route ran directly outside our front door. She complains about the staff, the other guests, the wait, the way the bartender is serving his area, is irate because she can see the help in the open concept kitchen from the prime seats they finally got, and even complains that the house Irish brown bread is 'too brown'. If ONLY killing them with kindness actually led to their immediate demise.
Omg I bet. I’m a licensed massage therapist and ppl seem to forget that means my time is money. And I give more then “just a back rub” buuuut what would I know I only went to school for 2yrs to become state licensed lol
But at least I don’t deal w hangry bridezillas 😳😳 seriously how do u survive an encounter w one?!??
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I'm sorry to hear that.... if I ever decide to get married, I definitely will make a POINT of being extra good to my photographer, caterer, florist, etc... Charlotte opened up my eyes to what you guys experience and it sucks... You seem to have a good attitude about it though! Don't let the assholes bring you down! ❤
@@perfectlyimperfect_8528 I feel like Bridzillas (especially while hangry) are like a boss level Karen.... I can't imagine dealing with one! I teach 1st aid and we get a lot of assholes there too... they take their anger about having to take our classes for work (despite the fact they are literally getting PAID to be there) out on us.... Thank god Bridezillas won't be a factor for my line of work lol (more so angry/frustrated wannabe- Karen tradesmen 🙄). Lol Sometimes I wish I could switch to a job not having to deal with the public....
I guess whoever coined the phrase "the customer is always right" should clean up this mess. The customer is clearly not always right and by feeding this stupid shit to basically the entire planet we created a gazillion monsters.
These people are a pain in the ass on a molecular level.
PERIODT
nice
Not a wedding comment, just a random thought. I ordered a steak at restaurant. I like mine rare to uncooked, it arrived medium well. I ate it, it was good. Told the waitress just as an advisory and she immediately said she'd get me another. I told, no, I ate it, it was good. Just have the chef watch a little closer. Why would I not pay for it, I ate it?
LoL I still feel guilty about sending a steak back after 2 bites because they used garlic salt instead of just garlic. It truly was inedible.
The same happened to my husband, at a very expensive venue on our 35th wedding anniversary. The waiter chose to tell the manager, and she took the $$ filet mignon off the tab. We didn’t ask for that, and still tipped our waiter based on what the full amount would have been.
Its about the people not the actual food. Some are just more needy then others.
My online order was screwed up. I called to confirm and it was my fault. Mgr said next time check before leaving and we'll fix it, no charge. Told him no, if it's my fault, I'll pay.
That's a perfect attitude 🌹
This is why my husband and I ran off and eloped. I couldn't imagine ever being like this! But also you get the crazy parents/family as well who try to take over and make things insane, which was what we were afraid of in our case. Married 12 wonderful years and counting, still not a single regret for skipping the wedding craziness lol.
I’m so happy for you and your sweetheart! My man and I are similar. He proposed, we started pricing things for a wedding and said “f this”. We called up our local courthouse, found a judge, set up the time on the day we picked, invited our closest family and friends (15 people tops), spruced ourselves up and said our “I do’s” for free (our judge refused payment or a tip, since she had never performed a ceremony before and she called us her guinea pigs). She was awesome! We will be married for 19 years in August and I adore that man more now than I ever thought was humanly possible. Long live true love!!
Hubby and I married in a homeless shelter. No wedding, no reception, no nothing. We went to a restaurant afterwards and then home to play video games. I wouldn't have it any other way. I didn't want my family involved because they're more into the traditional stuff. So we married without telling anybody. I didn't want my family coercing me into having a wedding.
@@felinagrimm7538 exactly! We knew if we told anyone we'd get guilt tripped into stuff me didn't want. Some people were really mad at us for eloping, but they don't get that it wasn't about them!
@@FoxyMomma4ever I love that "her guinea pigs" lol, so sweet of her. And huge congrats coming up on the big milestone 20 next, hope it's a amazing a long with the next 20 and more.
That's why my wife and I got married by the Mayor in her office.
My wife said we could put the money to better use than a one time wedding, I agreed, we bought a car.
That’s illegal for her to use her government position to guarantee work to private industry in exchange for personal gain.
Exactly my first thought. The vendor should have reported the corrupt twit.
8:00
So, is the town clerk saying that she'll use her official position to advertise a private business, in exchange for personal gifts from that business? Because that sounds a lot like bribery.
yep, slept through compliance training, I guess.
Also do town clerks have a lot of dealings with people in high demand of DJs or something, because if not it seems her "professional contacts" aren't particularly special
Extortion
HOW do people like this find themselves ENGAGED!? I gotta know
If you find out, let me (and Charlotte) know lol 😆
Actually I doubt I could pull it off even if it meant getting married - just really not who I am! lmao jk
I think they find submissive people with low self-esteem, that will give them whatever they want because they are lonely. That .. or the pussy is just THAT good. Beats me.
@@CanadianGoose_1 I wish you luck. I am Albertan born and raised, but in New Brunswick now due to my ex. There are lots of people with issues out there and unfortunately, I have learned that I am inexplicably drawn to them, so I gave up trying. It doesn't help that I am now too old for the foolishness haha.
perhaps they are pretty? Some guys just go for the looks. So, I guess, they deserve their brides.
The ring changes a person; they aren't like that when you're dating, and the grooms likely cling to the hope they'll return to normal after the wedding.
I never understood why people become bridezillas 😩😩
Me neither.
Because everybody keeps saying that is "your special day" or that it is going to be "the day you dream about" and at a time you start believing it is true and you deserve everything, and if something is not exactly as you wanted they are ruining your day (poor you!)
They were toddzillas teenzilllas and now bridezillas. They just grew into the next role as time went on. 🤣🤣
@@evarodriguez9631 My special day was the day I had more pain than ever in my life, was covered in my own blood and had to be sutured at my ladies parts. Best day in my life. Not my wedding.
@@solidstate9451 100% agree. The day my son was born was the best of my life!!
I can't even imagine being able to be this entitled and how enabling their families must be. I always say there are 2 types of people who lose it when they don't get their way. There are people who have always gotten their way and fully expect it and don't even know how to handle disappointment, and then there are people who have NEVER gotten their way or what they want and are sick of it.
CONGRATS ON 500K CHARLOTTE ILYSMMMM ❤️❤️❤️
You should start an "Entitled mother-to-be" video series. Some pregnant ladies can be pretty irrational and must be stopped!
YES!!
or sanctimommies!
OMG YES!
Yes! Agreed!!
Preggos be crazy! And they don't get much better once they are moms. Then they are sanctimonious bi#ches. "You wouldn't understand. You aren't a mom."
No-one:
Bridedzillas : It's my dreammm( insert Charlotte's voice)
I have a dream of making a ton of money and retiring young. Brides should send me money BECAUSE IT'S MY DREAM!
Wakenya mko kila mahali😂😂😂
The “hey everybody” makes my day 100x better
Really need Merch with it on there!
I feel a little bit awkward saying this and I hope I don't come across as offensive or anything AND I have been in a happy relationship with my boyfriend for five years now. But I think I have THE hardest woman-crush on Charlotte ever. And I am not ashamed.
She is stunnin isn't she?
You're not alone. ^_^
Gay guy here and I have a bit of a crush too. Gorgeous and funny is such a good combo.
I’m engaged and when my fiancé says I don’t even know all the reasons why he loves me, now I’m beginning to understand. I’m such a flexible person who isn’t very hard to please or impress. There is a reason why I want a small wedding, a nice honeymoon and money 💰 left over to concentrate the on actual marriage.
Even I love you and have never met you! You win Bride of the Year 🙌
My dress cost 27 dollars at a yard sale and it was purchased by my Mother along with the ring which were both absolutely gorgeous( our daughter now has both). My sisters-in law and I did all the decorations and cake at one of their houses ( where we held the services) and had so much fun!! The entire day was awesome and memorable to this day some 30 years later. Our reception was going to a private car track and playing "bumper cars" with real junk cars. Best reception ever!
I LOVE your bumper cars idea!! Your wedding sounds like a blast!
Karen Scoville that sounds so precious ☺️☺️
As a certified florist, the florist one pissed me off so much. Flowers take time to grow and nourish, and they generally cost a decent amount of money unless you're getting cheap, common and easy to care for flowers like carnations. Nobody wants carnations at their wedding. And aside from all of that, despite what many people think, you DO have to go to school to become a florist. You have to learn the different types of floral arrangements, the different tools to use, you have to use and apply color theory, and to top it off arrangements take time to make. Even if the person is providing the flowers for free, I didn't go to school to do free work. I'm not applying my skills, which you(the client) clearly don't have for free. Learn how to do your own floral arrangements if you're that entitled.
Also, flowers aren't the only thing you need in a floral arrangement. You need floral tape, clippers, a floral knife, floral wire, foliage, floral foam, and so much more. At that point I'd not only be wasting my time but also dipping into my own money.
The level of entitlement is disgusting.
I knew the mom of a girl who went to floral school. It took nearly 2 years for her to be fully trained, and get a job as an assistant florist
I actually love carnations because they are nostalgic to me - my grandmother had fake carnations all over her house. Yes, doesn't sound particularly glamorous and I know they're considered "filler flowers" but I really like them. I probably wouldn't have them at my wedding but only because I think I'd prefer wild/foraged flowers rather than cut ones, for environmental reasons.
This makes me even more grateful for my sister in law arranging our wedding flowers. 1 bridal bouquet, 3 bridesmaids, 4 boutineers (idk how to spell it), and I paid for all the supplies. She still worked HOURS on it, and they were beautiful ❤️ Incredible wedding present, and I hope she does end up with her own shop one day.
I recently discovered your channel and now it's an essential part of my day! Thank you for being here! Love from Portugal!❤😊
Welcome aboard!!
Do you know about her 2nd channel??
There's this saying where I come from, roughly translates to: "Something that costs nothing is nothing," meaning if it's cheap, expect to get shit.
That's what I'd answer a lot of them.
We have the same saying in America, but it's worded a little differently: "you get what you pay for."
@@breadfan_85 haha I was just going to comment that
My grandma used to say "Cheap meat the dogs eat"
What's real funny about the first bride is that she could have used all the time she spent on that WhatsApp text to write an actual email to the photographer she wanted to hire. 😂
Not only do I love that you are so funny, but the fact that you always remind everyone that selfcare is important, I love that the most. Your channel showed up in my feed a couple weeks ago, I found out I have cancer at 23 years old, and your videos have really helped me find some funny in the world. I know watch your videos every time I start stressing out. Thank you so much! Even if you never see this comment, at least I got it out in the world that someone made me smile during such a difficult time.
Yeah! Brides! Love this series. Your comments are the best ❤️
It's a conundrum why Ashley decided to cancel on the bridezilla, why would anyone miss the opportunity to work with her? :P
My guess is, the bridezilla expected Ashley to cover the costs of her dream photo-spot.
I can never get enough of your Bridezilla reactions lol!! 😂😂
They are funnier, but not entirely unrelated to, Karen videos.
I love how the first girl doesn't have time to make a phone call, but has the time to write a full length novel by text lol
I'm not a florist but I'm bored. Gimme flowers and let's see what becomes of it
I'm so glad I'm not throwing a wedding ceremony. I'm eloping with a courthouse marriage then running off to vacation 🤣🤣🤣 no friends or family. Just me and him. Weddings are too expensive!!
I 100% support your event. That sounds amazing.
That's pretty much what I did. 28 years ago. Still married!
Nothing wrong with that :D
Honestly, that's a great wedding to me! Congratulations!
We tried JP at my parents house, but family found out and we ended up with small ceremony anyways.
Have recently found this page and am in love. Thank you, Charlotte for the comedy and real talk
Do you know about her 2nd channel??
She has a SeCoNd ChAnNeL?!?!
@@draymorrow9257 Yes. I 👑 you an official Charlotte addict. 😂 Just a FYI, she uploads 7 days a week,12:00 Noon Eastern Standard Time and 3:00 PM EST Saturdays, on her 2nd channel, "Just Charlotte". In case you didn't know, the outro is Charlotte singing. If you like it, you can find it by searching Take It All Off (Featuring Charlotte Dobre, Sam Klass)-Defunk. You can listen on UA-cam, or Spotify. 💝🤘🏼
I'm getting an image of Alberta bridezilla out in Canmore, in her gorgeous dress, surrounded by the majestic snowy mountains...and not a photographer in sight. 😂😂
And the locals just desperately wanting her to leave.....
Holy Smokems!...Congrats on hitting the Half a million mark, which sounds much nicer than 500k...That was damn fast...Now for the goal of One Million Subs....Easy peasy!
Thanks for making me laugh every morning all the way from Australia 😍😂💖
Yessssss another bridezilla episode!! I love these! And hello everybody makes my day!... Also just found this channel and am hooked , can't stop laughing 😂 love ya ❤️
These r my faves!
Glad to have you❣❣I 👑 you an official Charlotte addict. 😂 Just a FYI, she uploads 7 days a week,12:00 Noon Eastern Standard Time and 3:00 PM EST Saturdays, on her 2nd channel, "Just Charlotte". In case you didn't know, the outro is Charlotte singing. If you like it, you can find it by searching Take It All Off (Featuring Charlotte Dobre, Sam Klass)-Defunk. You can listen on UA-cam, or Spotify. 💝🤘🏼
@@Trista072 I know all that already but thanks
@@Trista072 Haha, keep seeing you in the comments. Guess we're both potato addicts )
@@nidaahmed3264 You're welcome.
"She's from Alberta: WE DO NOT CLAIM HER!"
Me: Oh....NOOOOO...... As an Albertan, I also do not claim her.......
Agree!!
Seconded
Canmore: we dont claim her! -fellow albertan talking as well! Thank god its not edmonton!
Well... they were supposed to travel to Canmore, so she's most likely from Calgary.
I'm Thanking God it's not BC! lol!
$10 says they were from Calgary 😂 but we sure af don't claim her if she was..... js lol
@@mycreativeheart4159 it could be.... like Golden or Cranbrook, etc but sounds more like entitled Albertans tbh (I live in AB now but moved here from Golden - people in AB - especially Calgary and surrounding areas are pretty damn entitled at times.... saw a lot of thar since covid started... 😭)
Oh! How much I miss BC sometimes..... lol
@@tamaradavis2276 agreed! Sadly. But we sure af don't claim (or want) her.....
Oh, my goodness Charlotte!! 500k!!!!!!! Congratulations to a WELL-DESERVED amazing entertainer💜.
Congrats Charlotte on the 500k subscribers, I’ve been watching that number for weeks, rooting for you!!
Yay 👏Bride👏Zillas 👏 (that’s what it sounds like in my head in the same Charlotte-tone as Next👏 Bride 👏)
"She's from Alberta....WE DO NOT CLAIM HER!!!!!"
Every Canadian who isn't from Alberta 😂😂😂
I am from Alberta, and I am not surprised.
SHES FROM CALGARY I JUST KNOW IT 😂😂😂
@@BandlerChing yeah - I said $10 she was from Calgary in another comment.... lol
I may live here now but I am sure as hell NOT one of THEM.... and even if I was, we don't claim (or want) her lol
@Farah Ng some people here are amazing... hold onto your dream! 😊
However, I have wonderful friends in Toronto, but as a city, I have to say (soley from my experiences so far), I would probably choose Calgary over Toronto... (at least on some things). That said, I didn't see how your people handled covid, so the choice is hard! Sadly there are too many assholes (about masks/covid in general) here... in fact I am convinced that those people (the maskholes) truly believe AB is part of the States.... 😑
Aside from them, many of us are just pretty dope, friendly, chill kayakers/mountain climbers/etc lol 😉 lol (sorry that ended up long)
@@CanadianGoose_1 there are some amazing people in Calgary, but when the rest of the province is full of racist hicks that will outvote you every time….well it feels like kind of a crap shoot. We left right before covid lol.
@Farah Ng It depends on where you go. Calgary is pretty cool for the most part, really diverse and pretty safe compared to Toronto.
Just don’t go to like….red deer or Lethbridge lol
This channel is entertaining as hell. Been binge watching, glad I found you
I’m like in love with her accent. One minute, she’s southern, next she’s irish, then the Canadian hits. 😂
Congratulations Charlotte - 500k. So proud of you. You are one of the bright points in my day.
What gets me is when people type "???" Literally 30 seconds after they messaged me! I haven't even opened the message yet! Just chill 🤣
Right omg
Just block them immediately. They don't even deserve a response. Life is too short to waste any of it on people who think they always deserve an immediate answer, like you can't possibly have anything more important to do.
@@hedgehog1965uk oh yeah. Because I have to respond IMMEDIATELY. But when I text them, they can leave me in read for hours and hours!
When people do that, I take even longer to respond, just to be spiteful.
Some times I miss when we all just had on phone on the kitchen wall.
" I have every Motorhead album ever made, a town clerk should love it"
So worked at a restaurant, had a 250 piece fried chicken order for a picnic (AKA:wedding). Order was picked up on time and paid for, no problem. Till the “picnic” began, then a Slow day got really busy at the restaurant. Apparently the bride wanted each person to bring a dish to put on food table and pay $55 for each person to eat even children. Plus bring a gift she approved of. The bride estimated how much chicken, what she didn’t think about was the restaurant was right down the road, and a full meal was cheaper. So 92 of her 100 guests filtered in to eat, refusing to pay her $55 fee (oh and no dish to pass) I made hella good tips, one table of 6 (2adults 4children) left me $110. The next day I happen to be working and 3 ladies come in and are talking about what they should do with over 200 pieces of fried chicken. And where everyone would have gone. One commented I only made $400 and a bunch of gift cards ($160 total) and now we don’t have enough to go on honeymoon/vacation. She paid for the lunch with a $25 gift certificate her brother gave her, she showed me a picture. Just so happens his wife and 4 kids were in the picture, yep (that table of 6) you know I want to tell her he likes me more!!! Oh and the chicken was drunkenly left in the car all night and she still thought it was good!
Good story, but why would those people go OUT for lunch the next day when they have all that damn chicken to start eating? Not only greedy but dumb.
@@raghailligh1080 they left it in the car all night they were debating on eating it. That sure would have gotten someone sick or worse.
@@hottubtimemachine1200 OMFG. For a minute, I thought you were joking, but then I realized that it was in character for them, considering the rest of their behavior. Some people's stupidity is off the scale.
I honestly can’t believe how much I enjoy these uploads! Thank you 🙌🙌
Yaaaay 500k already! Okay now another 500k quick!
I'm just getting married for you all to hone your floral skills lmao
UA-cam algorithm recommended me one of your videos a couple days ago and now I am hooked.
Same here!
It’s been couple weeks for me so I’ve been going back and watching all her other videos, she makes me laugh 😂
Huh... I now understand why 50% of US marriages end in divorce; it starts before the marriage.
No kidding, right?
I think there was a study that showed that on average the more expensive the marriage is, the higher is the probability of divorce. Mine cost 1k :D
@@eugeniesh7285 I mean, it makes sense. If the wedding is the center of attention, not the marriage, then that is a screaming red flag itself. These posts that come from actual people honestly scare me. I'm surprised they even have friends/lovers. Jeez.
@@eugeniesh7285 So your marriage lasts double the time than mine. Mine was 2k.
@@eugeniesh7285 That's good news then because my husband and I paid about the same as we were really young when we got married.(I had just turned 20) Our 17th wedding anniversary is next month and he's still my best friend.😊 Personally I think the marriages that last are the ones where both parties just refuse to give up on each other, and so they grow together through hardships as well as good times. But it takes both people having that determination.
Let's get Charlotte to a million!!!!
I really , I don’t get it how some ppl can be soooooo entitled:)))) in what world did they live until now and how come no one slapped them to reality until now?? I am amazed
I am amazed, and yet, I'm not, at the same time 😳
Oddly my wedding cake was actually horrible. We literally struggled to cut it, much to everyone's amusement and our embarrassment. Once we did, it was awful. Literally no one liked it and several people hated it so much that they called (independently of each other) the bakery to complain, something we didn't even know at the time. We wanted a gold and red cake to match our colors and they later justified the taste, saying they had to use stuff that didn't taste good and hardened the outside to make it work and had to bake it several days ahead of time, making it "potentially stale." Yet, had they bothered to call and explain this, we would have said do anything but that. Crazy as we are, we wanted the cake to be edible above all else and honestly didn't really care that much. This was a well known, usually good bakery. Interestingly enough, my mother-in-law bought a sheet cake in the shape of a squirrel (inside joke) from the same bakery for the rehearsal dinner reception. It didn't get eaten as everyone was already stuffed from dinner, so we had them put it out at the wedding. It was too small for the number of people there but also delicious. My grandmother bought us the official wedding cake for over $400! When she called in they gave her the excuses listed here and beyond but did admit they'd already had guests call to voice their complaints. They refunded her $200, telling her that if she'd saved the cake they would have gotten a full refund. Like basically had everyone return their nearly full slices of cake instead of putting in the trash, boxed it all up, and returned it. What?! 🤦♀️ Honestly many pieces were basically mutilated just trying to get the knife through the fondant. These days, they probably would have done it anyway to avoid being called out online, and had I paid for it and been refused a refund, I would have lodged a complaint with the credit card company to ensure they didn't get paid for a terrible, inedible product. Also, without our knowledge, my mom did save the topmost, tiny tier, froze it, and then mailed it to us on our anniversary. That was sweet of her, but the cake definitely didn't get magically better tasting after all that. 🤣 The most important part was that we ended up married, but I still remember that disgust, confusion, and then humiliation that we were serving inedible, poorly cut slices of cake, especially at a reception on New Year's Eve. But..... 🤷♀️
That's awful but at the same time you kinda have a funny story. You had a Chinese fighting muffin cake at your wedding (Charlies angels reference. The Lucy Lu one). Not many people can claim that 😅
So do these bridezillas end up with what they want without paying?? Someone tell me. I feel my core burning everytime a narcissistic karen wins.
Some probably do.
My cousin did not pay the venue (was only 500€, but her dress alone was 2500 and that 500€ means a lot to non-profit organization that runs it).. they had it from Fri-Sun, reception was on Sat and one Sunday they just announced that place was not clean on Fri, they had to clean so they will not pay. (It's not like... They couldn't inform this on Friday. Oh no. I have rented the place so many times and know the people who clean it and I know there has been nothing to complain about)
You deserve an award for the top content creator, also for being the funniest and most down-to-earth person, you're brutally honest, and you say what people gotta hear, thanks for being the best 🌟
I really enjoy your videos, and I find you hilarious.
i love ur eyebrows ok bye
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As Judge Judy once said: "You ate the steak!"
what would be even greater is a follow-up with all those bridezillas being absolutely clueless why nobody's applying to their generous offers XD
I LOVE THE GAME OF THRONES REFERENCE!!!
Your bridezilla episodes bring me joy. Thanks for doing more of them!
These videos are funny.some brides are unreal.I'm never getting married lol 😂😂xx
Me neither Im not ready for that 😅
I would only marry women who would not want to get married.
These brides are why if I do get married, it'll be in a courthouse, or a teeny tiny wedding with like 6 guests with party packs from friggin taco bell okay?😅
My plan is to elope to Vegas for the Elvis Drive Thru Chapel wedding package. 🤔
When you live in a tourist town with a bunch of rich old people... you put your venmo on your car lol
The worst wedding planner I ever seen was this one lady. My friend got got married. Her and her groom didn't have a lot of money. Everyone in the church donated everything. Her wedding dress was a rental. They are the nicest people you ever met. There was a lady who volunteered to be the planner.the day of the wedding she was nowhere to be found. We did all the decorations and got all the food organized cuz it was all made by us and no catering. The bride and groom couldn't afford it and that was ok. The wedding planner showed up at the very end of the reception for the cake cutting. She was also dressed like a street Walker. Way too sexy for a wedding. Her and her kids ate non stop like they haven't eaten in a year and ate a huge chunk of cake. After they ate they. The wedding planner was only there less than 1 hour for this event. No one in church ever invited her and her kids to any events after that.
🥂 Congratulations on 500 girl! You So earned it! Thanks for the silliness over the last couple years. Covid would have sucked without UA-camrs like you 😘 Nothing but love from the Upper US ( the saner part 😝) and keep the vids coming. I save them for a few days and binge on FaceTime with my girls while indulging in a few adult beverages and few 🌲’s too 😉. Lots of love but dang you, you actually caught me off guard with your sign off on this one 😂 💕 Love the outro song too. You just keep getting better and better, thank you.
You are my new UA-cam PASSION !!!
This is literally a bride with champagne dreams and a beer budget.
So...High Life (Miller)?
😁😆 Teehee! 😂
Nah, Coors light. All altitude - no oxygen to the brain! Lmao
@@abigailgerlach5443 I wrote that because High Life advertises itself as "The Champagne of Beers" LOL But yours makes sense too! 😆
Sorry, I totally forgot they advertised it as champagne of beers. Very good! That would be the perfect thing!
You know people with money don’t actually mind paying…”I make 8,000 a day” my ass😂
Attention to all Brides & Grooms that complain about things not being "perfect": Divorce rates are high these days. Just plan to do it better the _next_ time around! 😁🤣🤣🤣
Some people are so afraid of Getting a divorce they had a court marriage. Wise people had court marriage
Yes! My favourite entitled bridezillas! Keep them coming.👍
That last one, about the florists: the flowers usually make up 5-10% of the budget. The rest is purely work hours, to arrange the flowers in such a manner (not to mention the long work hours) that they look spectacular on any wedding. So basically she spent 10% at most of the whole florist budget, and then wants a (professional?) florist to arrange the whole bunch for free!
Now a wedding cake is going to get eaten one way or the other. You’re not gonna tell your guest don’t eat that cake so that I can get a refund.
Yeah, but good or Bad Job. There are no refunds for weeding cakes unless the baker is kind enough to give one. In this case, she shouldn't. The pictures are online, and cake looks beatiful plus $200 was already a steal and she was warmed before about possible bad results which didn't even happend.
I understand but i sent pictures during the baking process and she okayed all of it. Then she told me she loved it, ate it then said it was disappointing
I'm truly hoping that third one with the photographer was a typo and she meant 15,000 for the shoot since she herself makes 8000 a day.... though it's unlikely. What a ... few bad words
I think that one is mocking clients who lie and say they're in the field to defend their crappy offer/demands, since saying they make $8,000 a day while offering $25/hour does not help their case any.
Our wedding photographer was in the middle of a nasty divorce...he spent the whole wedding bitter and sniping about what a dud institution marriage was, and no one in their right mind should be getting married....it was great 👍 he did at least take great photos. Which I binned, along with my wedding ring when I got divorced 12 years and 4 kids later...guy might have been onto something 😉
5:26 I saw what the cake looked like when it was posted to Reddit. I think I had to scroll to find it in the comments but it looks 10x better than the photo shown to the baker.
OMG my favorite kind of charlotte videoo!! Just when I needed a pick me up. Always brightens my day
Hey, everybody❣❣Welcome back, #internetbesties.🤘🏼 A👸 Charlotte a day keeps my Psychiatrist away. Have and wild and wonderful Wednesday, 👸Charlotte and all the #tatertots. If you're laying your head down for the night, have a peaceful night's sleep. 👊 ~♥️🖤♥️~
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@@datgaydangernoodle1315 Hey there, #internetbestie!! 👋 I hope you are great today. 💛💚💜💙
@@Trista072 thanks :)
@@datgaydangernoodle1315 You're so welcome. 😊
Her: "I don't have time for a phone call"
Her two minutes later: Sends a novel thru text that had to have taken more than five minutes to type.
No time my ass
Weddings. Pouring large amount of money into that 1 day. Maybe im too much of an introvert to understand but id settle for a tea and a chocate bar.
Charlotte is gonna reach the 1 million sub mark by year's end. Literally I don't know why I'm so invested. Actually I do. She's the best.
Charlotte's "WE DON'T CLAIM HEEEEEEEER!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
Me when I get married
I love ur profile picture! Pride flag YAS 👏