Why I quit online gaming in 2023, and you should too...

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  • @sun7823
    @sun7823 Рік тому +22

    I think this is why so many of us turned towards indie games to get our fix. Sure, they were less “polished” than AAA titles, but they felt meaningful, they were considerate of our time, and many brought back that childhood feeling of, well, whimsy. We were seeing new mechanics & storytelling devices.

    • @JosephStillGames
      @JosephStillGames  Рік тому +2

      Definitely agree that indies have been doing the work to innovate and inspire where AAA usually doesn’t. I unconsciously stepped away from indies, but I’m hoping to get back in there and bring more attention to some good ones. Feel free to list some recs 👍

    • @keeganmcfarland7507
      @keeganmcfarland7507 Рік тому +2

      If there any gamers out there that are becoming a indie game developer or be part of a indie/AA game studio, don't make a MMO rpg, or a Stardew Valley-like/cozy farming Simulator, or souls-like, or rouge-like (especially Vampire Survivors ones or bullet hell/heaven ones), or mascot horror, or open world, or metroid-vania, or walking Simulator as your first game project that you made.
      Try remaking games or make a knock-off version of a game like pac man, snake, duck hunt, tetris, cut the rope, or better, make a fan game of Fnaf, Sonic, or Dark Deception.
      Start something small, then build your way up to improve your creativity, 2d/3d modeling, coding, and development skills.

    • @guidedexplosiveprojectileg9943
      @guidedexplosiveprojectileg9943 6 місяців тому

      ​@@keeganmcfarland7507Best indie roguelike is Cataclysm DDA

    • @FrancoB-f7o
      @FrancoB-f7o Місяць тому

      triple a titles are bullshit...most of the time its an unfinished game , pushing you to buy extras to have the entire gaming experience...

  • @TheHipsterGamer
    @TheHipsterGamer 5 місяців тому +14

    I’m a single player game junkie. I grew up playing games on the ps2 with no internet so even to this day I feel right at home with story driven singleplayer experiences.

    • @8HeartNCM
      @8HeartNCM 4 місяці тому +1

      Problem is that there is not much good story games.

    • @TheHipsterGamer
      @TheHipsterGamer 4 місяці тому +2

      @@8HeartNCM that’s objectively not true, there are plenty.

    • @8HeartNCM
      @8HeartNCM 3 місяці тому

      @@TheHipsterGamer name them and I will say what I've already been playing.

    • @TheHipsterGamer
      @TheHipsterGamer 3 місяці тому +2

      @@8HeartNCM Signalis, Anno Mutationem, Persona 5, Dragon Quest 11, Octopath Traveler 1 & 2, Gravity Rush 1 & 2, Yakuza Zero, Blasphemous, Elden Ring, Nier Automata, Nier Replicant, 13 Sentinels, Tales of Berseria, Tales of Arise, Scarlet Nexus, Stellar Blade, Ace Combat 7, Project Wingman, Inside, The Outer Wilds, Crystar, Sakuna of Rice and Ruin, Ghost of Tsushima, Haven, Atelier Ryza, Returnal, Stray, Sniper Elite, The Last Guardian, Neo: The World Ends With You, Valkyria Chronicles, Nino Kuni 1 & 2

    • @8HeartNCM
      @8HeartNCM 3 місяці тому

      @@TheHipsterGamer ok. Thanks. I'll try some of them.

  • @theitechlab
    @theitechlab 3 місяці тому +2

    I’ve always been more of a single player guy. I really only picked up MP games (FPS, Rocket League) around 2015ish, then stopped and picked MP back up in 2019 for a couple years on and off. I sunk a lot of time getting better at those games because I was “catching up” to everyone else that had been playing these games for years before me.
    After a while, it stopped feeling like a game and more like a job, and the fun was gone. Yeah, I still dabble in Battlefield as that is the most casual FPS game that I can play off-and-on without losing my “touch” with the game, but 90% of my time is in single player games. I find those to be much more enjoyable for what I’m looking for in games. No meta, no min/maxing to keep up, no FOMO mechanics, no battle passes, no time-limited modes-just quality, fun experiences that keep me entertained for hundreds of hours in some cases.

  • @Rainbowhawk1993
    @Rainbowhawk1993 Рік тому +7

    Single Player games to Multiplayer games:
    “I RISE! YOU FALL!”

  • @yahav2190
    @yahav2190 Рік тому +5

    u are so underrated i saw the video and thought u have atleast 100,000 subs man keep the good work u are amazing

    • @JosephStillGames
      @JosephStillGames  Рік тому

      Thank you so much! I will be putting this comment on my fridge. I’ll do my very best :D

  • @JosephStillGames
    @JosephStillGames  Рік тому +5

    Hey you! If you’re watching this video or checking back in after having watched it, thank you!!!😊❤
    This video is doing way better than I thought especially for my first. Just wanted to say that a new video is coming soon! If you liked some of what I had to say, I will be continuing to make videos about all sorts of video game stuff so be sure to subscribe if you wanna stick around ❤ That’s basically it, thanks again and see yah!

  • @Slime5x
    @Slime5x 8 днів тому

    i am 16 and i have been gaming since i was 4 years old my first games included modern warfare 3 and black ops 2 which my grandfather put me onto and i love gaming more than anything but lately my passion and drive has left me and i think its because i took multiplayer games too serious i was elite rank in fortnite and tog fragging on call of duty trying my hardest treating the game like work when in reality i was looking for an escape and a different world to embrace i am now picking up the far cry series as of today and im excited i think it will bring my love for games back.

  • @SkywardKing
    @SkywardKing 8 місяців тому +1

    As someone that has been playing Destiny for the last 10 years.... and has a crazy list of single player games that I want to play, I feel this video. It's just a whole different feel and I want that story driven adventure and the personal time that comes with it like I had before. Great video. Very relatable.

  • @ThousandairesClub
    @ThousandairesClub 11 місяців тому +2

    *for me, the best era for online gaming was 2008 through 2011 👌 GTA4, Splinter Cell Double Agent, CODMW1&2, All-Pro Football 2K8, NBA Live 09/10, Madden 10, Backbreaker, RDR, Burnout Revenge, Burnout Paradise 😍 I haven't had FUN online since then* 👎

    • @JosephStillGames
      @JosephStillGames  10 місяців тому +1

      Those were really good years...wish we could get that COD back tbh. Either way, thanks for your comment and happy gaming!

  • @silver333z
    @silver333z 3 місяці тому

    I was a strictly multiplayer gamer from 2012-2018 and RDR2 brought back the feeling I had as a kid playing single player games.
    After finishing it I finished every Kingdom Hearts game on Xbox, 8 Yakuza games (still a WIP) and tons of random SP games, gaming has become bittersweet to me.
    I miss the days of peak CoD and Halo with my friends, late night minecraft and Payday 2 sessions but single player games are just so much more enjoyable nowadays. I still play Overwatch, Valorant and the occasional Minecraft or Hell Let Loose with friends but multiplayer gaming just hasn’t been the same since 2018

  • @chrislabedzski9076
    @chrislabedzski9076 9 місяців тому +3

    Well i play both single player games and multiplayer games,,BUT, here my problem,,, if i play single player games, i feel stress Free and i can do anything in my own pace and no pressure and no toxicity from players,,, ,but i feel lonely and empty without anyone to chat with, and gets depressing,,and if i play multiplayer games i have friends to chat with and have a laugh to keep me entertained, but its stressful having a bad teams and losing streaks and toxicity, and have to be sweaty af with nothing but meta stuff just have fighting chance which is mentally draining at times, so its fun/lonely or social/stressful

    • @JosephStillGames
      @JosephStillGames  9 місяців тому +4

      Right you are. There's two ways I've dealt with *the silence*...it's by either putting on a podcast I like on the side or by playing on discord while my friends and I just chat or they play other games. I personally find seeing my friends play without me enjoyable since if they really like the game, they'll have fun regardless. Do agree though that keeping up with the negatives sometimes is more taxing than what the positives make up for

    • @SUDAGANGTV
      @SUDAGANGTV 4 місяці тому

      Play COOP games (PVE) with your friends! 🗣️💯

  • @stratum42
    @stratum42 3 місяці тому

    You were where I am now. I've been playing competitively since popping my quarters on the Mortal Kombat arcade machine, waiting my turn to destroy the guy currently losing. I have spent thousands of hours over the years since Unreal, Quake, Rainbow Six Rogue Spear, Counter Strike etc etc playing games online to compete. However my backlog has grown to around 800 games. I have yet to play through the Batman series, Bioshocks, Resident Evils, add in whatever series here. I don't even have to buy them, I already did and they just have sat un-played. I desire though to leave online gaming (except maybe for Rocket League because I love it). My wife and I play together a lot of co-op games, and we host quarterly LAN parties with family and friends so I'll still play some multiplayer stuff. But I feel it's time to say goodbye to competitive multiplayer only games and start going through all of the stories and experiences that I've been missing.

  • @Aries73
    @Aries73 7 місяців тому +2

    Cheaters and tryhards killed multiplayer games (especially the PC jackasses using every illegal tool in the book because they can’t win in real life).

  • @-Rizecek-
    @-Rizecek- 10 місяців тому

    I'm glad I'm not the only one with this problem.
    In 2018-2022 I played quite often and enjoyed playing, but the last 1.5 years it has been getting worse and worse.
    I don't have time to play. I'm not in the mood for this. There is nothing to play...
    When a game comes out, it's all broken, buggy, unoptimized...

    • @JosephStillGames
      @JosephStillGames  10 місяців тому

      Yeah, especially when the broken games are sequels to awesome first installments...really kills the love a bit. Either way, with gaming it's important to not let a few bad apples spoil the bunch! Tons of good games are still coming out, be it indie or AAA. Just gotta look for em. Thanks for commenting and happy gaming!

    • @FrancisYorkMorganFBI
      @FrancisYorkMorganFBI 6 місяців тому

      sounds like a you problem. there are still a ton of great games. especially last year. maybe you are just depressed.

  • @zozihn8047
    @zozihn8047 3 місяці тому +1

    You can't play everything. That's it. Play what makes you happy. Not stressed or angry. If you end a session feeling worse emotionally than when you started, fire up a different game next time. Put your next 500 hours into an offline RPG. Try an ARPG.

  • @FrancoB-f7o
    @FrancoB-f7o Місяць тому

    needing a subscription to play games is simply insane...this is not the gaming i want to do....and more than half the gaming world is falling for this trap....

  • @GATOR_GA8ER
    @GATOR_GA8ER 5 місяців тому

    16:06 this is Just Cause 4 and 3, they are so fun

  • @DeathStriker88
    @DeathStriker88 Місяць тому

    Let me be brutally honest. Danganronpa: Hope's Academy Despair's Students, Persona 3 Portable, Ben 10 Protector Of Earth, Ben 10 Attack of Vilgax, Ben 10 Alien Force etc have the fun and enjoyment that Online Multiplayer can't give ever

  • @Nate__A
    @Nate__A Рік тому

    The 2020 siege era is undefeated

  • @keeganmcfarland7507
    @keeganmcfarland7507 Рік тому +2

    I told you gaming isn't on the decline.
    Just look at indie games and AA games like Fnaf, Batim, Monstrum, Cuphead, Dark Deception, Hollow Knight, Shovel Knight, Hades, Little Nightmares, Celeste, Skul the hero slayer, Metallic Child, Dead Cells, Curse Of The Dead Gods, Cult Of The Lamb, FIST Forged In Shadow Torch, Lumbear Jack, Pronty Fishy Adventure, 13 Sentinels Aegis Rim, Input6, Stardew Valley, Dead Estate, The Desolate Hope, The Messenger, The Coma, Rain World, A Hat In Time, Death's Door, Tunic, Haiku The Robot, Have A Nice Death, Kunai, Natti, Nova Drift, Peglin, Ak-xolotl, Atomic Heart, Voidigo, Spark The Electric Jester, A Short Hike, Lil Gator Game, Scarf, Mighty Goose, Cyber Shadow, Untitled Goose Game, Hotline Maimi, At Dead Of Night, Mail Mole, Nine Sols, TinyKin, Night Blights, Among The Sleep, Pikuniku, Pirate Outlaws, Soda Crisis, Pizza Tower, Pizza Possum, No Straight Roads, Popucom, Try To Fall Asleep, Everspace, Billie Bust-Up, and many more awesome indie games and AA games to look forward too!👌🎁🎊🤩

    • @JosephStillGames
      @JosephStillGames  Рік тому +2

      Thanks for the lengthy list of indies and AAs! I do agree that non-AAA games are making a ton of the right moves, and maybe in the future I can make a video to give these a spotlight :) I've already even played some of the ones you mentioned (Death's Door, Cuphead, Shovel Knight, Celeste, and all of the Hotline Miamis, etc.). I hope this video, while mainly focusing on AAA, got the idea across that video games should focus on delivering quality experiences that consumers/gamers will enjoy rather than milking them of their time and money for their own benefit. Either way, thanks for watching and I appreciate your comment

  • @randallt6628
    @randallt6628 28 днів тому

    My modern gaming biography would have been a better title

  • @yesterdaystech86
    @yesterdaystech86 Рік тому

    I agree with you i spent countless hours on counter strike and rocket league. It was so much fun at first but then it was more like an addiction where wins dont make you that happy and losses have you nervous and anxious. At best its a social activity with Friendly people at worse its a toxic addiction. Still it robs the time from fun and stories that campaign games give you. I think forza horizon 5 really nailed the single player and multi-player mix

  • @chikuman6224
    @chikuman6224 Рік тому +9

    competition is violence. "git gud than the other" is stupid mentality

    • @SUDAGANGTV
      @SUDAGANGTV 4 місяці тому +1

      It's not a stupid mentality. This is a huge misconception.
      The true issue is modern game developers lack of skill in proper game balance(fair play for everyone) and fun gameplay loops.

  • @chefdeth7993
    @chefdeth7993 6 місяців тому

    Unreal Tournament 2004. Deathmatch. Oh wait, can't buy it on steam anymore.

  • @dannydlc
    @dannydlc Рік тому +2

    I agree on the Fortnite comment. I will not touch that game unless I’m paid north of six figures to do so. 😅

  • @williamcroslen5780
    @williamcroslen5780 Рік тому +3

    #Doubt that you have a gf if you played overwatch

    • @JosephStillGames
      @JosephStillGames  Рік тому +2

      My wife’s boyfriend really likes this comment, can someone explain why?

  • @daniel_brqlo
    @daniel_brqlo 4 місяці тому +1

    And then people go on to exchange online gaming for massive open world games that waste hundreds of hours on collectables and achievements...

  • @irecordwithaphone1856
    @irecordwithaphone1856 Рік тому

    Great thumbnail

    • @JosephStillGames
      @JosephStillGames  Рік тому +1

      Thank you! It's made with lots of love (and tears) :D

  • @Shellll
    @Shellll 7 місяців тому +2

    single player games are like movies and multiplayer games are like hobbies.
    do one for a self contained experience. Do the other for a progressively evolving experience.
    Both are good. both are bad. Find your reasons to enjoy either.

  • @littomanser
    @littomanser Місяць тому

    Personaly play vs a human is way more exiting, the IA in games is awfull

  • @knott-e
    @knott-e Рік тому

    spot on. great vid

  • @rupankakalita150
    @rupankakalita150 4 місяці тому

    Give rocket league a chance.

  • @Avo4929
    @Avo4929 Рік тому +1

    Get good