This is true. I was so close to making that decision when I was a teen and when I told my mom, who I lived with at the time, she called me weak. It wasn’t until after that I realized the pattern in her, she made everything about herself, if I was unhappy she was insulted and I was “ungrateful”. The best decision I ever made for myself was running away to my dads, he was my rock, he wasn’t perfect and hurt me too but I never questioned whether he loved me or not like I did with my mom.
Yall crying together about remembering the fun and not the bills is the struggle I am in now with my littles. Trying to make the best memories for them
Annica I loved this video! So much of what both of you said put me right back to how you at age 4-5 taught school-a very orderly class- every single day to your imaginary friends. You called them by name and arranged or rearranged their seats in the tiny living room and so wisely used your chalk board! ❤️ I love you. Gran
As someone who has mommy issues and is between Jennica and Annica’s age can I just say how much I love your guys relationship. I know you get these comments a lot but the way you two love each other is so special it’s devastating. As someone who wants kids one day the thought of having a daughter terrified me, and I always thought I would never want a daughter. But after watching you two I have hope that I could create a relationship with my daughter in a similar way you two have. I love y’all’s content and cannot wait to watch you both flourish through life.
I swear your story is IDENTICAL ! To mine ..the only difference here is we are ALL almost 2 years apart ..my daughter is 15 and I am 32 … I COULD RELATE TO 98% of these questions … so inspiring 🥰
i had such a traumatic childhood, and i’ve always said i can’t wait to have kids to experience pure joy and happiness and give that to a child. i truly hope this is what my future is like 💖
Not me crying over a bowl of ice cream! 😅 The only thing I hoped for as a young teen mom was that my daughter and I would have memories to look back that were happy, so every summer I made sure we went to the zoo and the children’s museum. I’ll be 30 this year and she’ll be 10, I still can’t believe it’s already been that long. ❤
❤❤❤ I was young momma too 22 and I miss my kids being little so much and I always tried to have fun with them and love them. Mine are nine and I'll be 31 this year. ❤❤❤❤
my mom had me at 35 but our relationship is so so so similar to you two. its been a year since i moved across the country away from her and its so. hard. im so happy that you get to go to NYC w annica!!!
I'm usually a silent observer here but I had to comment because as a teen mom of a 13 year old right now, hearing both of your sides gave me some insight and hope once this early teen phase is over. My daughter and I have a very similar relationship that you guys have and it truly is refreshing watching you guys and having someone I can relate to. 💕
You’re absolutely right about the college thing 😢 we’re pushed to follow one narrative and then we realize later that it isn’t as easy as people make it out to be. I definitely won’t be forcing my child to go to college right out of high school because I would rather them work first and get experience
I relate to Annica w/ getting anxious and worrying about money! I was 10 yrs old trying to figure out how I could get a job to help my parents out because they were struggling financially. 💀 They learned after I freaked not to share anything about their finances with me anymore
Would love more of these/maybe from others in your lives perspectives! Like can we get Maddie to come on to share her experience as a bestie gal in this situation or your sister?! 💕
I just turned 18 and I have been so anxious about this birthday recently, but you both have been so comforting for me to watch and feel like an escape ❤️ Watching your videos helps me to feel like everything will be okay, and I truly feel like I have grown up with y’all. I love you both so, so much 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
The WAY i burst into tears during your description of ypur florence years. im IN IT right now. have a 3 year old and im 29 and in my 2nd yr as a single mom and DAYM the struggle to not be stressed all the time but just going to the park everyday and just having fun. your my goals ❤
I was 20 when I had my daughter and we grew up together as well. It was fun and hard, we laughed and cried. But I wouldn’t change a thing. My mother was 16 when she had me and became a grandmother at 36. So y’all’s life is a lot like our family and I relate very well. ❤
You guys are the sweetest duo ever! You guys remind me of my mom & I that are 17 years apart & she is my best friend in the world & I wouldn't change it for anything! Love you girlies🥰
hi new here . i got pregnant really young after my 1st period at 11 . i recently turned 13 & have a 1 yr old baby girl who will be 2 soon & i’m currently 6 wks pregnant again . it’s been a lot on me & i’m really anxious and scared about labor again .
Wowww i needed this. I had my baby at 18 and she’s turning 5 this year im so excited to have these conversations ! I enjoy seeing how yall worked through some of the tougher times
I just came across you guys, and I am hooked! I cried with you when talking about the times you look back on and just think of the memories. I am struggling with infertility, but watching you guys and your relationship has just made me that more excited to be a mom. You guys are doing great, and I hope to bring the same attitude to motherhood that you do Jennica!
I got my daughter into counseling. For the first 6 months she wanted me in the session. Now she wants to talk alone. Perfectly fine!! I want her to have a safe space with me as well as a safe neutral space to air her own struggles without my input or coming to the rescue. She can talk it out and figure out her emotions and how to handle them.
Ever since I had my baby 3 months ago I haven’t really found the time to watch you guys, this was such a nice way to catch up, I missed you very much ❤
It's so funny bcuz I moved 10hrs away for college to SDSU & as a grown person now, those were the most/best years of my entire life. I learned how to problem solve, grocery shop, manage a bank acct & how to budget & how to make semi-adult decisions. Learned that I would make mistakes & grow from it. I truly believe that's why I'm sooooo good with money now. I believe my parents set me up for success/adulthood. So blessed...
I love this and listing to it like a podcast was perfect! I say 2x a month would be great and maybe not even just teen mom things but a little podcast vibes. Especially you could talk about plans for moving, I’d be super interested in prep and everything because I also am planning to move out of state and would love some insight.
Jenn did you say… casket factory?? 👀 Yall are so precious. I can totally understand where you are coming from. You really should feel proud of yourselves. I’ve been listening to them Ted Talks, and have gone down some windy, narrow and wide roads to get where I am now myself, and I really have found that being content in your life is really the key. The rest will happen as it does, but being content in having that fun or just whatever it is, makes such a difference, no matter what you have.
Also, jennica you deserve to feel love and be loved in whatever way that feels best to you. Whether that is a partner or your family or whatever that means, but I hope that you feel content in love and life :)
I had my kids at 22 and it was beyond hard while I was in it but they are getting older and my heart is breaking. I don't see how you let them go and it makes me feel old too. ❤ Ill be 31 in April and they are nine. Love my twins there were unexpected but the best thing that happened to me ever. ❤❤❤❤❤❤ I miss them squishy babies and wild toddlers.
The money topic got me emotional. Teen mom too here but I got sick at 21 had my second at 23 and then got even more health issues the following year and am now on disability and can not work. My oldest she'salmost 15, the one who grew up with me worries about money even when I tell her I have it taken care of. It's hard because I don't want my kids to worry but the stress of trying to live on the tiny amount I get each month shows... I try really hard to make sure they have everything they need and some things they want.
First video I ever watched from your channel was you’re teen mom pregnancy journey and it’s so amazing to see how much you both have grown and where you are now. You both are amazing people❤️
My sister and I, both have the same set of parents are 18 years apart… you guys are only 14 years apart and are mother and daughter… my mind is blown!!!
Jennica is right there are some differences in gen z teens compared to millennial teens. My mom had me as a teen in 94 , then 20 years later she had my younger sister who is now 16. The issues I had in HS started early for her around 7/8 grade right after the pandemic.
Wow you successfully raised Annica. I know she’s only 17. But I’m from Canada 🇨🇦 and the province I live in your not considered an adult 👩 until 18 years old.
Love this video so much! ❤ I love when you said you won’t remember the bills you’ll remember the fun..that is so true and also you won’t remember the mess. There are so many time my house is a mess and I can stay home and clean it or my toddler and I can go have fun at the park.
My parents were always so open with their finances and even tho I had anxiety myself about it but we need to have anxiety with money! I don’t think it’s wrong
I’m not sure if you’ll read this but here it goes… The best thing my mom did for me was lovingly teach me how to live without her. She made sure I knew she was there for me if I needed her, while teaching me how to be self sufficient. I truly believe a parent’s most important job is teaching their kid(s) how to live without them. I’m sure there will be those who disagree but I wanted to share that for what it’s worth.
I know you always say that you wish Annica could’ve always had the older version of you, but I needed to comment to say that maturing as a parent truly has nothing to do with age most of the time. I had my son at a “typical” age, and I still find myself In moments thinking, “I wish I knew then what I know now.” I need you to know that’s a normal experience for most parents (young or old), so please don’t put that pressure on yourself!
@@JennicaandAnnica yes absolutely!! I don’t want to invalidate your experience at all.❤️ Just pointing out that we all learn as we go and you are a wonderful mother (which I know you know already and don’t need to hear from a stranger😂)
I'm glad you're not like all sad about her getting older because I'm not coping with my nine year olds. ❤ I feel like that part of my life is over with my babies. They don't give me as much love or hugs no more. They kinda do their own thing now and I can't imagine them dating I fear losing them to another woman which I know it's the order of things. IDK it's all so sad and then ill feel like my family will be over. ❤ I been with my husband through it all. We got together at 17 love him so much. 14 years together my ♊ Gemini. I'm his baby Aries ♈.
Annica couldn’t had said it better, if a teen going to do something they are going to do it and find a way to do it 😢Soooooooo true! Sad but, true! As a parent who experienced rasing a daughter that I truly loved and didn’t want her to make the same mistakes I did! 😢💔
Annica you are an amazing human who has raised a really well rounded young lady you should be proud I am so glad you decided to share your lives with us was it play world over on Hermitage dr
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with going to community college first then deciding to transfer to a 4 year school to finish if it saves you money. There’s also nothing wrong with trade school. There’s no one way to do postsecondary education 🤷🏾♀️
“You won’t remember the bills you’ll remember the fun”. Biggest takeaway that I need to remind myself ❤
One of my friends sister just lost her life to bullying and she was only 15, being kind to your kids is sooo important during puberty!!
Soo true! I feel I got through soo many hurdles just based on the sheer will of my parent to see me succeed/safe
@@Its_Elise_C she rip her self
This is true. I was so close to making that decision when I was a teen and when I told my mom, who I lived with at the time, she called me weak. It wasn’t until after that I realized the pattern in her, she made everything about herself, if I was unhappy she was insulted and I was “ungrateful”. The best decision I ever made for myself was running away to my dads, he was my rock, he wasn’t perfect and hurt me too but I never questioned whether he loved me or not like I did with my mom.
We are HONORED to be part of your favs list! ❤
Awwwww
idk if this is actually kohls
Yall crying together about remembering the fun and not the bills is the struggle I am in now with my littles. Trying to make the best memories for them
Annica I loved this video! So much of what both of you said put me right back to how you at age 4-5 taught school-a very orderly class- every single day to your imaginary friends. You called them by name and arranged or rearranged their seats in the tiny living room and so wisely used your chalk board! ❤️ I love you. Gran
GRAN IS IN THE HOUSE, Y'ALL! We Stan Gran! ❤️
I would love a Q&A with Maddie about meeting you in college as a teen mom and your guys friendship!
As someone who has mommy issues and is between Jennica and Annica’s age can I just say how much I love your guys relationship. I know you get these comments a lot but the way you two love each other is so special it’s devastating. As someone who wants kids one day the thought of having a daughter terrified me, and I always thought I would never want a daughter. But after watching you two I have hope that I could create a relationship with my daughter in a similar way you two have. I love y’all’s content and cannot wait to watch you both flourish through life.
I swear your story is IDENTICAL ! To mine ..the only difference here is we are ALL almost 2 years apart ..my daughter is 15 and I am 32 … I COULD RELATE TO 98% of these questions … so inspiring 🥰
i had such a traumatic childhood, and i’ve always said i can’t wait to have kids to experience pure joy and happiness and give that to a child. i truly hope this is what my future is like 💖
Not me crying over a bowl of ice cream! 😅 The only thing I hoped for as a young teen mom was that my daughter and I would have memories to look back that were happy, so every summer I made sure we went to the zoo and the children’s museum. I’ll be 30 this year and she’ll be 10, I still can’t believe it’s already been that long. ❤
❤❤❤ I was young momma too 22 and I miss my kids being little so much and I always tried to have fun with them and love them. Mine are nine and I'll be 31 this year. ❤❤❤❤
my mom had me at 35 but our relationship is so so so similar to you two. its been a year since i moved across the country away from her and its so. hard. im so happy that you get to go to NYC w annica!!!
I'm usually a silent observer here but I had to comment because as a teen mom of a 13 year old right now, hearing both of your sides gave me some insight and hope once this early teen phase is over. My daughter and I have a very similar relationship that you guys have and it truly is refreshing watching you guys and having someone I can relate to. 💕
You’re absolutely right about the college thing 😢 we’re pushed to follow one narrative and then we realize later that it isn’t as easy as people make it out to be. I definitely won’t be forcing my child to go to college right out of high school because I would rather them work first and get experience
especially when they’re forced into medicine 😓
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I relate to Annica w/ getting anxious and worrying about money! I was 10 yrs old trying to figure out how I could get a job to help my parents out because they were struggling financially. 💀 They learned after I freaked not to share anything about their finances with me anymore
Would love more of these/maybe from others in your lives perspectives! Like can we get Maddie to come on to share her experience as a bestie gal in this situation or your sister?! 💕
This is exactly what I needed while I folded laundry, thanks for joining me in my morning chores!
Literally crying with you guys! Even as an adult I need the reminder to just have fun and not worry!
I just turned 18 and I have been so anxious about this birthday recently, but you both have been so comforting for me to watch and feel like an escape ❤️ Watching your videos helps me to feel like everything will be okay, and I truly feel like I have grown up with y’all. I love you both so, so much 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
happy birthday ❤
i just turned 17 2 months ago and i’m so freaked out to turn 18 soon 😢 also happy belated birthday!
same
I cannot express how much you both inspire me. Such amazing, strong, positive women and role models. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us
well obviously that’s how you got here 💀
I can't 😂😂😂😂😂
The WAY i burst into tears during your description of ypur florence years. im IN IT right now. have a 3 year old and im 29 and in my 2nd yr as a single mom and DAYM the struggle to not be stressed all the time but just going to the park everyday and just having fun. your my goals ❤
you will cherish this time forever 💕
I was 20 when I had my daughter and we grew up together as well. It was fun and hard, we laughed and cried. But I wouldn’t change a thing. My mother was 16 when she had me and became a grandmother at 36. So y’all’s life is a lot like our family and I relate very well. ❤
You guys are the sweetest duo ever! You guys remind me of my mom & I that are 17 years apart & she is my best friend in the world & I wouldn't change it for anything! Love you girlies🥰
This is the definition of "it's your mom's first time experiencing life too"
Literally in the boat with the teenagers and pre teen years. My step daughters are 13 and 11 soon to be 14 and 12 within a month and it’s so hard.
hi new here . i got pregnant really young after my 1st period at 11 . i recently turned 13 & have a 1 yr old baby girl who will be 2 soon & i’m currently 6 wks pregnant again . it’s been a lot on me & i’m really anxious and scared about labor again .
U r a victim. Just a child. & I pray also everything is OK and u have a safe delievery❤
Becoming a mom at just 11 years old. Mannnn, this is sad.
❤️❤️❤️❤️ I wish you the best.
the intro really pulled me in this is gonna be great
The college debt talk is so real Jennica… 💗
Love you ladies!! I hope my daughter and I are like y’all when she’s 17!!
we were there for bible study 😂💀
so excited for this video right HEREEE! y’all are my absolute favs 🥰🥹
Found you guys 2 days ago and can’t stop watching your videos!
Wowww i needed this. I had my baby at 18 and she’s turning 5 this year im so excited to have these conversations ! I enjoy seeing how yall worked through some of the tougher times
I just came across you guys, and I am hooked! I cried with you when talking about the times you look back on and just think of the memories. I am struggling with infertility, but watching you guys and your relationship has just made me that more excited to be a mom. You guys are doing great, and I hope to bring the same attitude to motherhood that you do Jennica!
Genuinely could watch these all day!
Can y’all do a podcast cause I could listen to you guys talk for ever😂❤️
I got my daughter into counseling. For the first 6 months she wanted me in the session. Now she wants to talk alone. Perfectly fine!! I want her to have a safe space with me as well as a safe neutral space to air her own struggles without my input or coming to the rescue. She can talk it out and figure out her emotions and how to handle them.
Ever since I had my baby 3 months ago I haven’t really found the time to watch you guys, this was such a nice way to catch up, I missed you very much ❤
It's so funny bcuz I moved 10hrs away for college to SDSU & as a grown person now, those were the most/best years of my entire life. I learned how to problem solve, grocery shop, manage a bank acct & how to budget & how to make semi-adult decisions. Learned that I would make mistakes & grow from it. I truly believe that's why I'm sooooo good with money now. I believe my parents set me up for success/adulthood. So blessed...
I wasn’t a teen mom but I had my daughter young and everything you are saying resonates with me.
I love this and listing to it like a podcast was perfect! I say 2x a month would be great and maybe not even just teen mom things but a little podcast vibes. Especially you could talk about plans for moving, I’d be super interested in prep and everything because I also am planning to move out of state and would love some insight.
I’ve been watching you both for 3 years!! I had my oldest at 19 so I deff relate to growing up with your kid he just turned 14 and it feels crazy
omg this was such a cute viddd the vibes were so cozyyy
Jenn did you say… casket factory?? 👀
Yall are so precious. I can totally understand where you are coming from. You really should feel proud of yourselves. I’ve been listening to them Ted Talks, and have gone down some windy, narrow and wide roads to get where I am now myself, and I really have found that being content in your life is really the key. The rest will happen as it does, but being content in having that fun or just whatever it is, makes such a difference, no matter what you have.
Also, jennica you deserve to feel love and be loved in whatever way that feels best to you. Whether that is a partner or your family or whatever that means, but I hope that you feel content in love and life :)
I JUST NOTICED HER 1989 CARTIGAN!! I AM OBSESSED!!
all my swifties
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Love watching you two. Jennica you are so real. You are an awesome mom. You did a great job raising your child.
I had my kids at 22 and it was beyond hard while I was in it but they are getting older and my heart is breaking. I don't see how you let them go and it makes me feel old too. ❤ Ill be 31 in April and they are nine. Love my twins there were unexpected but the best thing that happened to me ever. ❤❤❤❤❤❤ I miss them squishy babies and wild toddlers.
I’m not a crazy Swiftie, but my kids are and she brought us together like CRAaZY the past year.
Just Have The Fun!
Yall. I cannot watch your videos bc I start laughing so hard I cry and then I’m bawling along with yall. I cannot even.
Love yall both SO MUCH! ❤❤❤
My lunch can’t come soon enough! Love these videos (:
The money topic got me emotional. Teen mom too here but I got sick at 21 had my second at 23 and then got even more health issues the following year and am now on disability and can not work. My oldest she'salmost 15, the one who grew up with me worries about money even when I tell her I have it taken care of. It's hard because I don't want my kids to worry but the stress of trying to live on the tiny amount I get each month shows... I try really hard to make sure they have everything they need and some things they want.
You sound like a great mom to me
@@julrin7122 thank you! That means so much. ❤️
First video I ever watched from your channel was you’re teen mom pregnancy journey and it’s so amazing to see how much you both have grown and where you are now. You both are amazing people❤️
sooooo excited for this!!🩷
My sister and I, both have the same set of parents are 18 years apart… you guys are only 14 years apart and are mother and daughter… my mind is blown!!!
Good job momma, I was 24 and mine is 16 this year. It was a hard slog alone, hardest thing ever.
Love this ❤ recently just became a mother and I hope I have a bond with my daughter like you do Jennica 🙏🫶
“What did I even say that I was grocery shopping??🤣🤣🤣” she snapped on that one lmfaooooooo
You two are just precious ❤❤❤ having fun is what remains at the end of life so its soo freaking important. You’re doing good having just fun 🎉🎉🎉
You girls are so amazing! You both work so incredibly hard and we are so incredibly proud of you
the rainbow on her hair the wholetime is so pretty
Thank you for this ❤
Crazy I’m 31 no kids & love your bond this is soo beautiful
Absolutely loved this video and cried with you!!!
God I remember when you ladies got your first condo. I’m so happy this showed up on my watch 🥰
You two are the best friends of the girlies for real
Honestly been loving the videos ❤
23:27 😂😂😂😂 @ Annica tilting her head back so the tears wont roll out
Y’all are great love these vids ❤
Heyy Jennica and Annica! So excited to watch this video I love y'all's Q&A vlogs. Your videos inspire me so much love you Jennica and Annica ❤😊
Jennica is right there are some differences in gen z teens compared to millennial teens. My mom had me as a teen in 94 , then 20 years later she had my younger sister who is now 16. The issues I had in HS started early for her around 7/8 grade right after the pandemic.
I'm a mom of two girls and I've hit struggle times too and whew did it hit me when you say you'll remember the fun because it's TRUE.
I genuinely could not tell who was the mom and daughter you both looks so young!!!
Please do more Q&As!!!!!! Love them ❤
Wow you successfully raised Annica. I know she’s only 17. But I’m from Canada 🇨🇦 and the province I live in your not considered an adult 👩 until 18 years old.
Okayyyy but JC Penny had the back to school clothes back in the day
Love this video so much! ❤
I love when you said you won’t remember the bills you’ll remember the fun..that is so true and also you won’t remember the mess. There are so many time my house is a mess and I can stay home and clean it or my toddler and I can go have fun at the park.
I absolutely loooveee this videos ❤❤
My parents were always so open with their finances and even tho I had anxiety myself about it but we need to have anxiety with money! I don’t think it’s wrong
I really hope my daughter and I will have a relationship like y’all some day! ❤️
My friends and I are traveling to Nashville for Springbreak! I hope to see your fav locations. Any tips? (Ex: food, Bars, attractions)
I’m not sure if you’ll read this but here it goes…
The best thing my mom did for me was lovingly teach me how to live without her. She made sure I knew she was there for me if I needed her, while teaching me how to be self sufficient. I truly believe a parent’s most important job is teaching their kid(s) how to live without them. I’m sure there will be those who disagree but I wanted to share that for what it’s worth.
I am so stressed about daycare costs-I have to work and my family is getting old! It's nearly impossible to afford a kid anymore.
My fav. Mother and daughter duo❤❤
Jennica cries and I cry too 🥲
This is so sweet
I literally love y’all bc y’all remind me of me and my mom🫶 my mom had me at 16 and she’s 32 and I’m 16❤️
I know you always say that you wish Annica could’ve always had the older version of you, but I needed to comment to say that maturing as a parent truly has nothing to do with age most of the time. I had my son at a “typical” age, and I still find myself In moments thinking, “I wish I knew then what I know now.” I need you to know that’s a normal experience for most parents (young or old), so please don’t put that pressure on yourself!
i totally get its normal for all parents, but being 14 with a newborn and 18 with a 4 year old, etc there is a pretty vast difference 🤍
@@JennicaandAnnica yes absolutely!! I don’t want to invalidate your experience at all.❤️ Just pointing out that we all learn as we go and you are a wonderful mother (which I know you know already and don’t need to hear from a stranger😂)
Love yall ❤️❤️
I love y’all and annica and jennica are so special ❤
i love you guysssss
I'm glad you're not like all sad about her getting older because I'm not coping with my nine year olds. ❤ I feel like that part of my life is over with my babies. They don't give me as much love or hugs no more. They kinda do their own thing now and I can't imagine them dating I fear losing them to another woman which I know it's the order of things. IDK it's all so sad and then ill feel like my family will be over. ❤ I been with my husband through it all. We got together at 17 love him so much. 14 years together my ♊ Gemini. I'm his baby Aries ♈.
Annica couldn’t had said it better, if a teen going to do something they are going to do it and find a way to do it 😢Soooooooo true! Sad but, true! As a parent who experienced rasing a daughter that I truly loved and didn’t want her to make the same mistakes I did! 😢💔
She is your twin as she is getting older!!
Good morning all happy Friday morning and I loved your vlogs and you all amazing Supporter
Annica you are an amazing human who has raised a really well rounded young lady you should be proud I am so glad you decided to share your lives with us was it play world over on Hermitage dr
Love you guys ❤❤❤❤❤
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with going to community college first then deciding to transfer to a 4 year school to finish if it saves you money. There’s also nothing wrong with trade school. There’s no one way to do postsecondary education 🤷🏾♀️
Wow I had no idea this was a mother/ daughter duo 😮🤯
Jennica is giving black swan and Annica is giving white swan energy
We NEEEED to know what was going on in that parking garage!!!!!