You Don't Own Your Children - Sheikh Belal Assaad

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  • Опубліковано 9 вер 2023
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    You Don't Own Your Children By Sheikh Belal Assaad.
    The Rights Of Children In Islam.
    Islam gives even the children their rights over parents, just as parents have been given rights over their children.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 40

  • @waezaboodhoo5472
    @waezaboodhoo5472 10 місяців тому +41

    Wallahi too many negativity on the side of parents.Most of the time your children are your own reflections. Thats it.

  • @jaym84524
    @jaym84524 6 місяців тому +23

    This video brought tears to my eyes because I can relate. Too many parents are abusive and emotionally immature. They can’t handle children making their own decisions. They oppress their children, practice coercive control, throw ultimatums, and weaponize love if you don’t listen to them. It’s very hard to grow up with parents like that and not want to cut them off. Muslims need to do better and learn BOUNDARIES.

    • @arshadmahmood2579
      @arshadmahmood2579 2 місяці тому

      SubhanAllah. Then that’s a hardship you can deal with. You’re still living. People suffered way worse. Even right now, look at Palestine let alone all the other Muslim countries in conflict. They’re stripped of food. You’re not. Just think bearing it will elevate your ranks in Jannah. Remember Jannah over dunya. Use this dunya to get to that Jannah. And yes the pain is tough and May Allah heal you and the ummah with these problems. Remember stay strong and don’t give up on the plan of Allah. Remember believing in it part of Emaan (aqeedah)

    • @jaym84524
      @jaym84524 Місяць тому +1

      @@arshadmahmood2579 Minimizing someone else’s pain is not a good move. “That’s a hardship you can deal with.” Really? That’s your response? Maybe learn empathy or don’t say anything at all. If kids don’t feel safe at home, who else are they supposed to feel safe with? Strangers? Online trolls? Not every struggle has to be compared to be a genocide for the pain to be acknowledged and addressed. How about showing humanity and calling Muslims to be better parents and role models to future generations.

    • @arshadmahmood2579
      @arshadmahmood2579 Місяць тому

      @@jaym84524 Allah Azzawajal says in the Quran Allah does not burden anyone with what they cannot bear. That’s what I meant. So isn’t what I said true because some brothers and sisters forget during hardship they aren’t actually being as tested as others or they feel like they cannot handle it. But yes you’re right about your advice. JazakAllah Khair but try to be more merciful next time when correcting or making others better. And may Allah Azzawajal allow you to do the same too

    • @arshadmahmood2579
      @arshadmahmood2579 Місяць тому

      And let all your emotions out in dua. Let the sincerity come out so that Allah Subhanu Wa Ta Ala will accept it. Praise Allah Subhanu Wa Ta Ala, send salutations upon the Prophet Muhammed (May Allah’s blessings and peace be upon him) and ask for whatever you want

  • @unknownpage9239
    @unknownpage9239 6 місяців тому +7

    We have failed as a society

  • @ruthruthmunyao2761
    @ruthruthmunyao2761 10 місяців тому +13

    Alhamdullilah.... from these l submit my kids to Allah..... teenegers and am a widow and they are in Gollege....thank Allah for the Deen...

  • @shaguftaansari2007
    @shaguftaansari2007 9 місяців тому +6

    Very few speaks the truth so clearly
    I have been in the same situation all my life n thrown out of the house
    Jazakallah khair for this msg

  • @shafeekaaboobuckerrahuman2354
    @shafeekaaboobuckerrahuman2354 10 місяців тому +6

    Great to hear these pieces of lecture it's so much of guidance and solace when thru oppression if not for these words of comfort that Allah is with those oppressed..which constantly needs to be reminded the oppressed would perish of sadness.May Almighty Allah keep the learned ulemas always blessed and protect them.🎉🎉

  • @nobuhletsengiwe6019
    @nobuhletsengiwe6019 10 місяців тому +6

    Thank you very much great teacher😇I like your teachings and the fact that you explain in English sothat we grab more of what you are saying.May God bless you🙏🙏

  • @Eliza-ij9eq
    @Eliza-ij9eq 8 місяців тому +4

    Yes parents don’t own their child. Allah (God) owns them

  • @Sam-mv2vf
    @Sam-mv2vf 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank You brother bilal sooo much

  • @jamilataylor2047
    @jamilataylor2047 4 місяці тому +2

    👍so true

  • @aliyahroane1687
    @aliyahroane1687 8 днів тому +1

    As salaamu alikum I get it from my son his father was murder when he was two I'm not a mad I have to wait for Allah to make a way out

  • @user-wf5xn6rd5x
    @user-wf5xn6rd5x 8 місяців тому +6

    You have so much insight.im a christian but your words are full of truth my spirit can't deny ot recognises this truth. I really need more help can i contact you

    • @safirawaziri7695
      @safirawaziri7695 4 місяці тому +1

      Allah swt guides everyone he chooses to guide in the way thats meant for you.. Just be patient and see. Allah swt says 'if my servant takes one step towards me, i wil take 10 towards them'. And Allah swt knows best whats in the hearts of his creation.❤

  • @user-hz5fn3pf1w
    @user-hz5fn3pf1w 7 місяців тому +5

    I had to cut off my parents walahi they side with my enemies against me and expect me to serve them I love them from a distance I can’t go back to where I’m being abused and they also practice witchcraft

  • @riyazahmed208
    @riyazahmed208 3 місяці тому +2

    Children are brought to earth through parents , not from them. They are property of Allah. They are not property of parents.

  • @alieujawo7709
    @alieujawo7709 10 місяців тому +3

    What are my priorities in life after loving my GOD AND FAMILY FULLY

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  • @ILM047
    @ILM047 4 місяці тому +3

    Sheikh please I need advice !!
    The parents of my partner threaten to disown him if he marries me, we want to make nikkah so badly and live with them in Lebanon but they don’t accept that I am a German woman
    Of course he cannot risk to lose his home and his family I understand that but what can we do ??
    I will become a muslim soon inshallah and I really wanna move to Lebanon and start a family with him in a Halal way
    Please help 😢

    • @FirmBelieverinIslam
      @FirmBelieverinIslam  4 місяці тому +1

      You can send your messages and comments directly to Sheikh Belal Assaad on youtube.com/@belal.assaad?si=0xi9TvMrHTtV83TO

  • @umairakhan18
    @umairakhan18 5 місяців тому +1

    If there would nt be joint family system thn husband wife relationship will NVR get bitter.Joint family is also ok but in laws interfere too much,like she is serving machine in their home,it only leads to depression,thy even dnt let the daughter in laws to visit their parents within a month.watevr daughter in law does, in laws only find nd count the faults,thy NVR count the work which is done by her.

  • @School-of-life5420.
    @School-of-life5420. 8 місяців тому

    How do i get in touch with this sheik

  • @naffs1069
    @naffs1069 10 місяців тому +6

    What if you were violently physically abused by both your mother and father?

    • @attempt6272
      @attempt6272 10 місяців тому +2

      That's so sad 😢

    • @Als1822
      @Als1822 7 місяців тому +1

      keep distance
      your mental health is more important

    • @moonmcken
      @moonmcken 6 місяців тому +2

      Keeping your distance from them is the 1st step you need to do.. As long as you still living with them, your life will stay the same.. Living in toxic environment will affect you mentally & physically.. You have your own life and your responsibility is to be a better person and servant to Allah and live a better life..And always remember Allah is with you.. Cry to Him, pray to Him, ask for His forgiveness and finally leave everything to Him.. You will find your cure and peace Insyaallah ☺

  • @nazeemmatthysen7677
    @nazeemmatthysen7677 10 місяців тому +3

    I WOULD ALSO SAY YOU DONT OWN OUR CHILDREN WE RAISE THEM WE FED THEM WE EDUCATE THEM. SO WHO DO THESE GOVERNMENTS THINK TO GIVE OUR CHILDREN THESE EVIL IDEAS EG A MAN CAN MARRY A MAN A WOMEN CAN MARRY A WOMEN

    • @noreenbi9079
      @noreenbi9079 9 місяців тому +1

      Exactly they say ur parents can't control u.
      Yet they want 2 control the children through school and give them rules

  • @mohammedwaheeduddinafsar9482
    @mohammedwaheeduddinafsar9482 5 місяців тому +1

    Assalam walekum rahmtullah barkathhu aapse aur Sare Insaniyat se main mukharji khola hun 💓 agar main challenge nahin kar raha hun main appeal kar raha hun 💓 Jo Allah ke bande ke yah achcha Kam karne walon Ko Nobel inam Diya jata hai ISI tarah Allah ke bandhuon ke humko Aslam karna Bholenath ka shikar banana isiliye aise logon ke liye bhi my mobile RAM karne se request karta hun aise logon Ko bhi film dena chahie kya Kiya Jo Kala mein ho rahi hai Allah Hu Akbar sallallahu alayhi vasllam

  • @farahbutt8226
    @farahbutt8226 3 місяці тому +3

    Parents need to show goodness to their children first and fulfil their childrens rights. This way, children are able to show goodness to their parents. It is high time that parents take responsibility and accountability. Children should not have to carry the burden of breaking their parents bad marriage or bad parenting cycle. This is the very reason why children become disturbed and grow into damaged adults. Children need to be loved and nurtured by healthy parents within a healthy family supportive infrastructure. Most adult children cannot afford to spend years and years in therapy. Therapeutic intervention is very costly. Parents who are arrogant (no doubt many) refuse to admit their own errors and ask for their childrens forgiveness and mend their ways. It is the parents responsibility to instill unity amongst siblings. We have to stop and think why children and young people contemplate suicide, attempt suicide and sometimes comit suicide. It all goes back to disgraceful parenting.

  • @MaxsmedSiciid-qs7cy
    @MaxsmedSiciid-qs7cy Місяць тому

    S.c.w.muslim.child family