As a mom of two I always find it interesting how people will preach respect to other people's bodies and decisions, but will judge how a woman wants to birth their baby. Sending all the love and best wishes to your sweet family ❤️
I appreciate u being so open with us. I had a c-section in January. I was induced and in labor for 36 hrs only 6cm dilated. And the baby’s heart rate kept dropping so I told them let’s do a C-section. Best decision I made. It was super quick and baby was healthy. Definitely want to do another C-section if there’s a next time
Nobody cares, but it’s really healthier for the baby to be born normally and there’s a reason it comes to the birth canal. It takes all the fluids out of it. It gives it a hearty start in the world. But if you’re gonna be on UA-cam telling people things you’re going to have people expressing their opinions. Hopefully she has a good delivery no matter how it is in a healthy baby.
Mmm I care because I care about what other people endure. Knowing other people’s recommendations, experiences, advice, ect. shapes my decisions when it’s from others who may be in similar situations as I am.
The same reason they care to watch strangers on UA-cam. They aren't celebrities. They are just people are you subscribed and help pay thier bills. If you are interested in watching random people ...anyone can say anything
Your birth is YOUR BIRTH! Whatever you feel is best for your own personal experience is always the right thing. I’m excited for you and the birth of your little baby 😊
You just do what is good for you,and everyone else do what is good for them.Hope everything goes smoothly and you'll have your precious J in your hands.God Bless
My mom had two c sections and she said she never regretted that! Everyone should be able to do what they feel is best! I’m glad you’re doing what you feel safest with! I would do the same!
I am a birth doula and so people often expect me to be actively against c-sections and medication. But I wholeheartedly believe that there are times when a c-section is the best choice for a mom! As long as you feel comfortable with your choice that’s all that matters. You are still bringing life into the world and it’s still amazing and beautiful. Congratulations ❤
@@kaybeeeee9640 I did know that. I also believe that there are a million different things to consider when deciding what you are and are not okay with during your birth. There are many benefits to a vaginal delivery, that doesn't mean it's always the best option. It also doesn't mean that everyone HAS to want to take that path. I encourage doing your research and learning the benefits and risks of every option so that you can make an informed decision for yourself. Because everyone is different, they have a different situation, different needs, different values, etc. and I will never judge someone else's choice because I will never be able to tell what is best for them as well as they can. I am not them, it is not my birth, and so it's not my place to decide what's best. I would much rather a mom decide to have a c-section and leave the hospital happy, healthy, and bonding with her baby than to peer pressure a mom into having a vaginal delivery against her better judgement and end up with a mom who is traumatized, at higher risk of PPD/PPA, and feeling resentment towards her baby due to a difficult birth experience that could've been avoided.
@@kaybeeeee9640 I am well aware of the statistics and will happily share them with a mom who is interested. I understand that when c-section rates are low, maternal and infant mortality rates drop along with them. If I were to share my own personal opinion, I would advocate to let nature take its course. However like I said, that is my PERSONAL opinion, it's what I would choose for myself. But I am not going to push my personal values onto another person. Not my birth, not my place. My job is to support the birthing person in THEIR needs, wants, and values. Not to try and get them to adhere to mine.
We've had the same experiences and timing for all three of our pregnancies. Just had a planned C-section for my daughter on February 25th and it was a really positive experience! Infinitely better than emergency. Wishing the same for you. Best of luck on the birth and recovery, and enjoy your new little boy! 💙
Power to you for talking about this and thank you! I had my son when I was 18 and it was a 3 day labour with a second degree tare. I’ve never spoke of it as traumatic or an awful experience but when I look back at it, it was insane! It’s so important for parents to be and feel empowered to make the right choice not only for them and their safety but babies safety too. It’s so awful that we live in a world where people feel so entitled and in control of other peoples life. As if they know better than you and Josh, doctors and nurses and midwives and close family and friends. I started watching you guys when poppy was six months, it’s been so beautiful to watch you all grow and evolve. I wish you a happy, quick, easy and incredible birth for your perfect teenie boy! I wish for a quick and healthy recovery and for you all to just enjoy and soak in all there is to enjoy and soak in with having two babies at once 🥰 all the love and light in the world 🤍🙏🏻🤍
I can relate to these thoughts completely. Had an emergency c-section with my baby even though at the time thought it was the worst case scenario. But since I had no choise that was the way to go. Had a great experience, it was hard in the begining but still right after and now 1,5 years later looking back I think it was the best case for me. If I get pregnant again might have a scheduled one. I feel nervous about VBAc since I havent experienced it. Congrats about your new baby!
EVERYTHING is controversial anymore. It's vulnerable to share so much with the world. You didn't even have to explain it but you shared your reason with such grace and humility. It's so very true. There are pros and cons with it all. You'll do great and you'll be in great care. And here's to praying and hoping you have a lovely birth and speedy recovery. ✨️
My sister is a L&D nurse and she wanted to have C-Sections because she says healing is faster. However, when she went into labor- the doctor was the worst one of the group and she (nor the midwife) did NOT want him doing her c-section so the midwife and team kept trying to help my nephew come out. He was stuck. He finally cooperated - haha- and had a cone head. All that to say- make your own mind up about what is good for you and don't worry about the Karen's on here. You're so sweet and I wish you the BEST!!
You didn’t need to explain yourself as long as you feel that you are doing the right choice for yourself and your family. I look forward to seeing baby J and seeing Poppy as a big sister ❤
My Sister labored 46 hours with her first, was dilated to 9, and was stuck….pushed for hours, then was delivered by c-section. Then next two kids she had, we’re automatically scheduled C-sections. I think with the second child, she had a choice, but after her first experience a having darn near going through both, she opted for a C C-section. I say, do whatever is best for you and baby. So excited for you guys!
I have negative views of a C-section because I had one natural birth and one c section and both deliveries were so different. My C-section experience was much more painful and such a difficult recovery. My core is shot after a C-section and I am having to do physical therapy to help with healing. I have learned that many woman never really receive the right recovery treatment after C-section. It leads to more pelvic floor issues. So many layers of muscles are cut through so it makes sense. I completely understand they are necessary in some cases and understand why you are choosing one. You do what you feel is best for you. Everyone’s birth story is different and a personal decision. All the best! ❤
Yeah but it’s not healthy u Cnt rlly only afford to have 3 section Cnt keep reopening a wound if it’s not an emergency, she did this c section again bcs she experienced it already she didn’t need to have one. With Poot she did bcs she wasn’t laying how a baby should lay when it’s time to come out but she literally did this for fun. She has 1-2 more c sections and after that the doctor will tell her no more bcs it can be life threatening. She messed up big especially cuz we know she wants to have a big family so idk I think she will have regrets but I also Cnt say much tht is her body I just hope she did her research and that she knows all this.
@@tinktinkkks4209 my sister has had three C-sections and she was told she wouldn’t be able to have more because of the risks. So yes I can see that. Thou I wouldn’t say it’s not healthy. I feel it comes with it’s risks. It is a major surgery. When it comes down to it it is a personal decision and everyone who has has a baby before or is planning to definitely has their opinions, which you can’t argue with someone’s opinion or freedom to choose.
@@kellys2556 you must’ve not read my message bcs I literally said at the end that it is her body, I just hope she did her research bcs I know she wants to have a big family and like I said for smby who wants to have a big family she Cnt afford to keep having c section every time bcs u can only do so many till the doc tells you, you Cnt have anymore. Like I said Poot was an emergency imagine she uses all her c section on her kids and when she rlly needs one she Cnt have one bcs of risk and has to get it done anyway, thts gonna mess with her especially cause once you on labor it’s already stressful enough. Never said she couldn’t keep having c section, I voiced my opinion just like you did yours and I don’t mean to sound rude if I do but thts just my opinion I know it’s her body and her choices so please stop.
@@tinktinkkks4209 I did read your comment on MY post. I was simply responding to what you said that’s it. I’m not sure if you are trying to agree with my comment or start a debate. Im not here to start one. All the best.
this 100%. i had to have an emergency c section with my daughter bc i was told my cervix was “incompetent” and i’ve had several people tell me to try for a v-bac. but if my cervix truly was the issue, why would i put myself through the stress and pain of trying for a vaginal birth, when the outcome will result in the same. and people think having a c-section is easier… it is most definitely not!! congrats on your new addition, mama ❤
You being so brave about choosing a c section gave me the courage to feel secure in my decision to have another c section. we are literally on the same timeline, I found out i was pregnant two months after my baby’s first birthday. Im getting the same amount of negativity but it feels right to me and that’s all that matters. ❤️❤️
It's the recovery that matters most. Supportive friends and family are a blessing. Definitely would never recommend a caesarean... It's a hardcore surgery
Sending prayers for a great delivery and a healthy mom and baby❤ and u don’t have to explain yourself it’s your choice it’s what’s best for you i had an emgerncy c section and got pregnate when my daughter hit 9 months and having a c section in august 2023 ❤
So excited for you both. Giving birth can be so terrifying and beautiful at the same time. Educating yourself and doing whats right for YOU is absolutely 100% no body else’s business. Thank you for sharing and wish I had time to tell you about what I went through but will save that for my book one day lol.. for real. I do have a question though, I had heard back 20+ years ago, that manually turning the baby is painful. Horror stories about the nurse practically sitting on your belly a pushing… Surely exaggerated and gonna go check out you video! Best of luck cant wait to see happy and healthy baby J. My oldest son was born March 23! 🐣
I had an emergency c-section at 27 weeks to save my twins. They’re my miracles and my fighters, who are now 8. It was the best decision!! Everyone’s decision is their own, and people need to stop worrying about everyone else’s choices.
I'm 10 weeks pregnant and I've been SO uncomfortably congested in my first trimester! One of the nurses at my OBGYN office said when you're pregnant, your sinuses and nasal passages can be subject to opening up more and that can cause more drainage. Such a fun time lol! Never knew this until my first pregnancy right now!
I respect you for knowing yourself and knowing what will make YOU comfortable. My first birth, I wanted to go the natural route and ended up having an unexpected c-section and it actually was a great experience! Now, I’m not sure what I’d even want to do with my second child. VBAC, hospital, natural, c-section, idk 🤷🏾♀️ but when the time comes, I’m doing what IM most comfortable with
Do what you have to & want to do mama!! My son was born may 25th 2021 .. I watched your journey and felt so comfortable with whatever way I delivered ..we went in on a Sunday and my son wasn’t dropping.. didn’t have him until that Tuesday via C-section and I had more of a risk bc I’m a heavier woman & diabetic .. but I was down for it to bring my beautiful son Benny into this world & I’ll do c-section again with my next babe ❤❤
So interesting to hear you talk about a version with your first baby! Before having a breech baby myself I've never heard of someone who had one. Fortunately in my case it worked I was able to have a vaginal birth. But I also recognize that it doesn't work for a lot of women and in some cases it cannot even be attempted because of the position of the baby, amount of amniotic fluids, umbilical cord etc. However you choose to deliver your baby is great as long as it's safe. So weird to be so super involved in and opinionated on how others deliver. You're doing great! Wish you and your family all the best 🙂❤️
I had a natural birth. Loved it. Wouldn’t change a thing. But the goal with birth is a happy and healthy mom/baby. I don’t understand why people don’t understand that. I’m so glad you’re going with what YOU feel comfortable with and hope everything goes amazing❤
I had a repeat c section in December and I’m so glad I did it! The second time was so much easier than the first, I think simply because you know what you are in for! Go with your gut mama! C section moms are powerful! 💪
My first child I chose to have a c-section because I had just had my 3rd surgery to fix a fistula a year prior and we didn't want it breaking open. It went great. Fast forward 8.5 years to my 2nd birth. Even though it was so long after they still offered a c-section. I also had placenta previa until right before she was ready to come. Recovery was a little harder in my 30s vs 20s but I also had my tubes tied while they were in there. I still moved our whole house during my 6 weeks maternity leave with a newborn, so I still consider it a win. Good luck, you got this!
I love hearing your reasons because it really helps me to think about the future. I had an unplanned c section with my son. At the time I hated it but now a year later I’m indifferent. I’m not sure what I would choose to do for the next baby. It’s like I want to do both but hearing people that choose to do another c section really helps me that there can be good experiences with it
@@gracefulimpressionshow was the experience for the second n third c section? Could you easily get pregnant after each c section? I’ve read the scars may make it harder
@@lisafaithful3787 I easily hot pregnant for the 2nd, 3rd and 4th. Also easy recoveries as well. I was 40 with the last one and it still was smooth sailing.
You could have been telling my birth story with my first! She was breech, version did not work, I went into labor before my scheduled C-section! Thank you for talking about feeling comfortable with a second C-section. My second is due in April and she is breech, so I won't likely have the choice, but so many voices have made me feel like a VBAC is "right" when really it is just one way. Thank you for being a differing, bright and confident voice! The idea of a failed VBAC is also so scary to me!
My 1st born did not drop so when l went into labour l already knew l would get a c section after arriving at hosp & gynae checked me. So with the 2nd born, 11 years later, it was easy to just decide on another c section. The c section scar could tear & because that area was still very sensitive it was better for them to take out the old scar. It was better decision for me. The 2nd scar is not as sensitive so that in itself was a good choice for me. Do what is right for you emotionally & physically. All the best. Love from South Africa :)
You do what you're comfortable with! ❤️ also random but I found out I was pregnant with my 2nd the month my 1st turned 1 😂 I've experienced both now and they both have their pros and cons honestly. Going through over 20 hours of labor to be told you need to have a c section is not fun. Can't wait to see baby J!
My first two pregnancies ended with true emergency c-sections (they had to put my under with my first and the second was born within the hour of arriving to the hospital). I am having a third within the next week weeks (I’m 36 weeks) and we are doing a scheduled c-section because it has become clear that my body cannot do labor correctly and threatens the baby’s life. People judge decisions to flippantly but realistically this is your decision and going into my third, I know this is just what birth looks like for me and I’m at peace with that. I have heard a scheduled c-section is so calm and peaceful- so hoping that is both our experience this time!! Good luck Abbie!
I have two vaginal birth and last one ended up with an emergency csectionn definitely not what I wanted but If I end pregnant I would definitely choose csectionn I rather schedule a csectionn than an emergency csectionn
I had a C section due to a breech baby on my first pregnancy, and I’m totally making the same choice for my second. No shame! You do what’s best for you and your babe!
Pregnancy and birth is such a personal thing that I can’t wrap my head around people thinking they have the right to impose their negative thoughts and opinions on other people.
So right about how birth plans can change in a second. I think it’s actually pretty smart to go for a c-section. A little less room for error of craziness in a way. I just had a baby five months ago and when I was in labor, I went to the hospital with my contractions were two minutes apart. They were excruciatingly painful, but I wasn’t dilating, even though my contractions went to less than a minute apart. so they gave me some medicine and sent me home telling me to go home and sleep for 8 to 10 hours and come back active labor. Except as soon as I left the hospital, I started dilating and I made the 25 minute drive home got in the tub for 10 minutes and then started to drive back because my water broke and it was black and green. On the way back to the hospital the contractions kept getting more painful and close together because I was fighting them because I had recognized them as pushing contractions. Eventually, I just went with it and I ended up giving birth on interstate 5 while my husband was driving. ❤
I had a C section with my first after 55 hours of labor. My second I had a successful VBAC. The labor and delivery was much smoother with the VBAC but my recovery was actually sooo much harder which I was not expecting. Had a pelvic floor injury that made me on bed rest for months and retained placenta landing me in the ER after hemorrhaging at home. If I have a third, I’d consider a scheduled C section!
I had a csection with my first, wanted a VBAC with my second but had a planned c-section instead due to some increased risk factors, now pregnant with #3 and just planning for a c-section. Birth is hard no matter what you do, c-sections were not what i wanted or imagined, but i am SO thankful they exist so that i have 2 (soon 3) safe babies!
I had an emergency c section with my 5th baby 15 months ago in 2021. He was transverse as well! I just had a vbac with my 6th. It was important for me because I have experienced natural births with a midwife and really enjoyed that experience. This baby was breech and transverse off and on until 38 weeks! I had a version that was successful and he turned again about 5 times before he settled in head down and stayed! He was still sunny side up so labor was tough lol. my best friend has opted for c sections for her last two after her first was emergency as well. Like you, that’s all she knew and was more comfortable with that. To each her own! I know baby is here now; so congrats!!
My water broke with my first child at 34 weeks and 3 days. After 24 hours, I HAD to have a c-section. My second pregnancy was a scheduled c-section, no question for me at all. You don't need an excuse at all. I didn't care what anyone else said, and my second recovery was even easier than the first. Prayers for a healthy baby and mama!
Your not crazy! I had both of my kids through csection and I loved it I had a good experience. It was also very emotional and beautiful. Your gonna have a beautiful birth im excited for you!
I am a mom and grandma, I had my daughter vaginally, my daughter had all four of hers vaginally! I look at it this way, it is between you and Josh how you feel on the way you give birth, not anyone else's! Prayers for a safe delivery❣️
@@margaretelford8309 why would Josh not have a say? He is her husband! I believe when it comes to health issues or concerns, the spouse also has a say!!
@@margaretelford8309agree 100%. My husband would have never given me any advice. He said you decide what it’s best for you and so it will be done. If you need pain meds, you get them. If not, not. You have to give birth, not me, so you are the one who decides what you want.
I had an unplanned c-section. Before I had a situation that could have lead to a c-section and it scared the hell out of me, but helped me mentally prepare. I went through all phases of birth just to experience that he is too big. The whole birth was so terrible, I sometimes think, that a planned birth would have been much calmer. I had troubles connection to the child due to the birth I had. So maybe you have a good intuition, so trust that !
I chose to have a c-section instead of a vbac after my first was born and it was the best choice I could’ve made. With my first, I tried to have a vaginal delivery and after many hours of labor and hours of pushing, I had to have a C-section, the recovery from having my first baby was so traumatizing and horrible that when I got pregnant with my second (only 6 months post partum) I chose to have a scheduled C-section. I wouldn’t have had it any other way. I could not imagine going through the same thing that I experienced with my first. Abbie, you made the choice that you felt was best for you and your baby. That’s all that matters!
I gave birth many many years ago for my son who is going to be 29, I also had a C Section cause he was Frank breech feet first also tried the version didn’t work he was comfortable and wasn’t moving .. you’ll have a wonderful birth like u said it’s what ur use to❤❤ can’t wait to see the baby ❤❤
Thank you so much for sharing your experience ❤️ I'm 10 weeks but already thinking about what type of birthing experience I want to have or if a C-section does end up being my only option, this video is really helpful and comforting. This is also my first pregnancy so following along your pregnancy and motherhood journey and your family's journey is really special and wonderful! ❤️ I've been a follower for a while and you are so inspiring and I love your podcast btw!!
I had 4 c-section with all my kids. It was the best decision I had to make. My oldest is now 21 and I had to have emergency c-section with her and everything went great and so after all that I had to have repeats with them all. I now have a 21 ,20 this month,16 and my youngest is now 15. Good luck you got this.
I’m pregnant with my fifth making this delivery being my 5th c section! I’ve always been told I’m taking the easy way out. This is the way my babies come into the world and vaginal or c section all that matters is having a healthy momma and babe at the end of the day!
Hi I had an emergency c section due to failed induction. I was told I can't have more than 3 kids if I want to opt for c section. I read you had 5 c section was your case unique or is it possible for me too?
@@rabiaqureshi3067 I would definitely get a second opinion. My obgyn told me it’s unique for each person. The most he’s done is five. It it would depend on scar tissue and how much tissue is left to see together after each c section. So far he has not given me the need to stop having little blessings. There are records of presidents wives having 9 c sections! It’s not impossible! Good luck and maybe consider looking into a different obgyn
I love that you made an informed decision for yourself! There’s NOTHING wrong with choosing an elective section if it’s what you feel is best for you. That is the most important thing. You’re going to have a beautiful birth and a beautiful baby ❤️ Funny how strangers feel they should give negative opinions about your medical choices. So wild.
I had a c section my first pregnancy due to baby being breech. My other two pregnancies were also c section. Each different experience. You do you. It’s your choice. You don’t have to give explanations to anyone ❤
darling, you don't have to justify yourself . I also gave birth to our youngest daughter by C-section, she was also in a breech position. and I also have to admit if I get pregnant again, then I want to give birth again with a caesarean section why? Because it's my choice. And this is your choice, your body and your pregnancy. And we as followers have nothing to do with that. Love you guys, greetings from the Netherlands
Thank you for sharing this❤️ I had 4 C-sections, 2 because my babies came so big and the other 2 because they were side ways(bridge) yeah I was so scared at first because I always heard negative comments about a C-section and I've had a great experiences 🥰❤️ God bless you🙏🏼❤️
@@tamanna0210 my 2nd pregnancy was 17 months after my first C-section, then 4 months after my 2nd baby, I was pregnant again😊😍 8 months later I was pregnant with my 4th baby🥰
I was so scared at first but my Dr. and the staff there, gave me confidence that everything was going to be alright and it was! I'm alright and my kiddos are Healthy ❤️❤️❤️❤️ 3 boys and 1 girl
I had to have an emergency c section with my first child and when I got pregnant with my second child I chose a c section again, because I was familiar with it. Do whatever is more comfortable for you. It doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks.
I had to have a c section with our first because she was breech. We also tried having her moved and it didn't work. They couldn't get the epidural to work, so I got put under general anesthesia. I am so sad that I didn't get to see her when she was born. Since the epidural didn't work, I didn't have the pain controlled, so I was in terrible pain. It scared us!! Our youngest daughter I had wanted to try to do a vbac. She was such a big girl, and they told me that I couldn't go into regular labor. This time, I had a great anesthesiologist, and the epidural worked. So it was so much better the whole way around. She wasn't as big as they thought she was, though. So I totally don't blame you for wanting the same experience as with Poppy. I don't know why people would make comments on how you choose to have your baby. It's difficult and painful afterwards, just in different areas. Good luck with everything and I can't wait to see baby J.
I'm super excited to meet baby J soon, what ever your decision was the greatest option that you make because I believe in your body your own rules, as long as your safe and the baby's safe other peoples negative opinion doesn't matter at all. Sending hugs and Love 💕from 🇵🇭
I've been induced twice and I LOVED IT. I think I would want to be induced for my 3rd. So I completely understand how it's all you know! Personally I'm really scared of a c section. I've had an epidural fail and I have such bad anxiety. But everything is worth it's for that little baby 🥰.
I had my second born (first born son) in March in 1995!! My daughter was 20 months old the day after I gave birth to him....I was so ill for the last 3 months though I spent the last 8 weeks in hospital....lucky I was on maternity leave at the time!!! .... but I did go on to have 2 more little people Another son...then another daughter!! ....Luck & Love ❤️
Sadly, there is something wrong with how our culture views differences in opinions. In my group of friends, we all have different L&D experiences and preferences. It’s okay to feel different, it’s not okay for everyone to judge so harshly. You guys are so open about your life, if people have hate to spread, they can keep it moving.
I've had 4 C-Sections. My first was an emergency and I just opted to stick with C-sections. It's just a personal choice and also a doctor's advice helps to make such a choice. You get to make the decision on how you bring your child into the world and to me that's a beautiful thing ❤️
I have 2 C-Sections and currently 6 months pregnant and i will also have a C-Section. I have some tips, please excuse my english, Im from Romania. As advice, I can tell you: -DO NOT SLEEP AT LEAST 2 HOURS AFTER THE OPERATION, YOU WILL BE LEFT WITH HORRIBLE HEADACHES - to start walking as quickly as possible but never overexert yourself because I fainted walking down the hall because I didn't have the necessary strength yet. -Do not eat foods that can make you bloated because it will be difficult to go to the bathroom afterwards. drink as many liquids as possible, simple chicken or vegetable soups (carrot, potato...) excluded (peas, beans...) -do not lift weights for at least 6 weeks -rest as much as possible -you might be itchy during the operation but don't scratch yourself
@@lidiam99 thank you for the practical tips. 💐no worries , i am fron Kasachstan and your english is very good 👍i only knew to start walking asap so far. will screenshot your advices and check again in August, when i get my daughter for the 1 st time
I had 3 c-sections first was emergency second was to soon for a vaginal after c-section the third I chose for the same reason as you. It’s what I knew and glad I did because they took her two weeks early and she was 8:12. Do what’s best for you.
Good for you doing what you feel is best. Ppl are so judgmental. I have 3 kids all born vaginally with one unmedicated. Number 4 coming this summer and hoping to do vaginal again but you just never know. And a friend of mine had 3 c sections all her kids were 3 and under when the 3rd was born. Everyone is different and should do what’s comfortable for them and not feel pressured to do it any other way!
I’ve always been a person to not understand why doctors tell you to wait a good bit of time after having one baby, to get pregnant again. UNTIL … I got pregnant a year after my first. Only ended up making it to 26 weeks in November because my uterus ruptured from a window in my previous emergency C-section scar. My sons birth injuries were too severe and complicated, and he passed 2 days later. I’m really only speaking of it to spread awareness about the real realities of the-not so “rare” anymore-complication. So always try to give yourself the time you need to heal. Praying for a healthy momma and baby🙏 Congratulations to my fav UA-cam fam❤️
Woah that sounds very scary. I am so sorry for your loss of your angel baby 🥺. Thank you for being so strong and brave and sharing your story to increase awareness ❤️
I had my first baby at 35weeks bc my water broke and the baby didnt turn yet so was a emergency C setion, 1 year and 6 months later i got pregnant, my baby boy was born at 38+5 ( i was 5 days hospitalized) because they didnt knew what was wrong with me. During the second c-setion they discovered my uterus had ruptured but not much could have caused me a hemorragie. My baby glady was safe and he is now 10month old! Also I tried to birth naturally the second time bc people where saying to me to not have a csetion that i am not a real mother. Anyway. I tried to push for a natural birth, BUT I AM a c-setion mom and is not the most easy option! Its painful and scary.
Prayers for a healthy and speedy recovery after your C section or vaginal birth. 💙 I will never understand how people can be so critical of your choices. Why can’t people understand that you’re doing what’s best for you and your baby. Love y’all from the North North Georgia Mountains 🏔️ Edit ~ Josh, please put out more music 🎶 you’re amazing 🤩
Yay for you Abby...do what feels right for you. Recovery after the 2nd C-section is going to be easier. The pain is less in a major way. With a C-section everything is controlled in a way by The Doctor and vbac not so much and as you mentioned could end up having to be rushed into the C-section. Happy everything to you and your husband 💖!
3 years after my1st c-section it was the only option to deliver second baby the same way cause my doctor didn’t want to risc me giving a birth otherway. It was much more easyer the 2nd time😁 Wishing u all the best ❤️
Watching this gave me so much anxiety thinking back on the experience of a csection. I had two bc both my babies were breach. Hopefully baby Js goes as good as poppys did!! ❤❤❤
I’m 40 years old now. With 4 kids had them all via C-Section. My first C-Section was emergency 🚨 also. I choose to have my other 3 kids that way. I Also was told if something goes wrong C-Section would be done anyway. So why would I choose to put myself threw that. My body my decision. The best of wishes to you and your family…
It took only six pushes for both my girls and I had an epidural. It wasn’t bad at all. It was amazing feeling the baby pulled from your body and having the baby crawl on top to my breast. It’s something I will never forget.
My first was vaginal and a cesarean with my second because she was breech the whole pregnancy and never turned. I had such a wonderful experience with both but I will say the cesarean was so quick that I would do that again. Also doctor's don't always listen I told two of my OBs that she was breech and it felt so different from my first, they didn't listen to me or check with ultrasound. I was right the day I went in to be induced and a new doctor checked with ultrasound, I had a feeling my whole pregnancy I would have a c section and It never scared me
As a mom of two I always find it interesting how people will preach respect to other people's bodies and decisions, but will judge how a woman wants to birth their baby. Sending all the love and best wishes to your sweet family ❤️
I had the exact same thought. What happened to my body my choice?!
I appreciate u being so open with us. I had a c-section in January. I was induced and in labor for 36 hrs only 6cm dilated. And the baby’s heart rate kept dropping so I told them let’s do a C-section. Best decision I made. It was super quick and baby was healthy. Definitely want to do another C-section if there’s a next time
I don't understand why people care how you bring your baby into the world 🤦🏻♀️
Exactly. Because everyone does what's best for them
FRR
Nobody cares, but it’s really healthier for the baby to be born normally and there’s a reason it comes to the birth canal. It takes all the fluids out of it. It gives it a hearty start in the world. But if you’re gonna be on UA-cam telling people things you’re going to have people expressing their opinions. Hopefully she has a good delivery no matter how it is in a healthy baby.
Mmm I care because I care about what other people endure. Knowing other people’s recommendations, experiences, advice, ect. shapes my decisions when it’s from others who may be in similar situations as I am.
The same reason they care to watch strangers on UA-cam. They aren't celebrities. They are just people are you subscribed and help pay thier bills. If you are interested in watching random people ...anyone can say anything
Your birth is YOUR BIRTH! Whatever you feel is best for your own personal experience is always the right thing. I’m excited for you and the birth of your little baby 😊
You just do what is good for you,and everyone else do what is good for them.Hope everything goes smoothly and you'll have your precious J in your hands.God Bless
Praying for you to have a healthy delivery Abbie, love you guys so much , can't wait for baby J to come to the world! ❤️
Baby boy. I cannot wait to hear his name.
My mom had two c sections and she said she never regretted that! Everyone should be able to do what they feel is best! I’m glad you’re doing what you feel safest with! I would do the same!
I am a birth doula and so people often expect me to be actively against c-sections and medication. But I wholeheartedly believe that there are times when a c-section is the best choice for a mom! As long as you feel comfortable with your choice that’s all that matters. You are still bringing life into the world and it’s still amazing and beautiful.
Congratulations ❤
@@kaybeeeee9640 I did know that. I also believe that there are a million different things to consider when deciding what you are and are not okay with during your birth. There are many benefits to a vaginal delivery, that doesn't mean it's always the best option. It also doesn't mean that everyone HAS to want to take that path.
I encourage doing your research and learning the benefits and risks of every option so that you can make an informed decision for yourself. Because everyone is different, they have a different situation, different needs, different values, etc. and I will never judge someone else's choice because I will never be able to tell what is best for them as well as they can. I am not them, it is not my birth, and so it's not my place to decide what's best.
I would much rather a mom decide to have a c-section and leave the hospital happy, healthy, and bonding with her baby than to peer pressure a mom into having a vaginal delivery against her better judgement and end up with a mom who is traumatized, at higher risk of PPD/PPA, and feeling resentment towards her baby due to a difficult birth experience that could've been avoided.
@@kaybeeeee9640 I am well aware of the statistics and will happily share them with a mom who is interested.
I understand that when c-section rates are low, maternal and infant mortality rates drop along with them. If I were to share my own personal opinion, I would advocate to let nature take its course. However like I said, that is my PERSONAL opinion, it's what I would choose for myself. But I am not going to push my personal values onto another person. Not my birth, not my place. My job is to support the birthing person in THEIR needs, wants, and values. Not to try and get them to adhere to mine.
Good luck on your c section and hoping and praying for a quick recovery!
We've had the same experiences and timing for all three of our pregnancies. Just had a planned C-section for my daughter on February 25th and it was a really positive experience! Infinitely better than emergency. Wishing the same for you. Best of luck on the birth and recovery, and enjoy your new little boy! 💙
Congratulations on your new little bundle of joy! ❤️
Hope you’re having a speedy recovery.
@@lorijanosko-ns1ux Thank you so much! ☺️
Power to you for talking about this and thank you! I had my son when I was 18 and it was a 3 day labour with a second degree tare. I’ve never spoke of it as traumatic or an awful experience but when I look back at it, it was insane! It’s so important for parents to be and feel empowered to make the right choice not only for them and their safety but babies safety too. It’s so awful that we live in a world where people feel so entitled and in control of other peoples life. As if they know better than you and Josh, doctors and nurses and midwives and close family and friends. I started watching you guys when poppy was six months, it’s been so beautiful to watch you all grow and evolve.
I wish you a happy, quick, easy and incredible birth for your perfect teenie boy! I wish for a quick and healthy recovery and for you all to just enjoy and soak in all there is to enjoy and soak in with having two babies at once 🥰 all the love and light in the world 🤍🙏🏻🤍
Thanks for sharing your traumatic birth story.. it sounds absolutely awful.. especially with you being so young 💞
God bless you and your family.
I can relate to these thoughts completely. Had an emergency c-section with my baby even though at the time thought it was the worst case scenario. But since I had no choise that was the way to go. Had a great experience, it was hard in the begining but still right after and now 1,5 years later looking back I think it was the best case for me. If I get pregnant again might have a scheduled one. I feel nervous about VBAc since I havent experienced it. Congrats about your new baby!
I so happy for you both. I hope you have a healthy delivery.
EVERYTHING is controversial anymore.
It's vulnerable to share so much with the world. You didn't even have to explain it but you shared your reason with such grace and humility.
It's so very true. There are pros and cons with it all. You'll do great and you'll be in great care. And here's to praying and hoping you have a lovely birth and speedy recovery. ✨️
My sister is a L&D nurse and she wanted to have C-Sections because she says healing is faster. However, when she went into labor- the doctor was the worst one of the group and she (nor the midwife) did NOT want him doing her c-section so the midwife and team kept trying to help my nephew come out. He was stuck. He finally cooperated - haha- and had a cone head. All that to say- make your own mind up about what is good for you and don't worry about the Karen's on here. You're so sweet and I wish you the BEST!!
You didn’t need to explain yourself as long as you feel that you are doing the right choice for yourself and your family. I look forward to seeing baby J and seeing Poppy as a big sister ❤
My Sister labored 46 hours with her first, was dilated to 9, and was stuck….pushed for hours, then was delivered by c-section. Then next two kids she had, we’re automatically scheduled C-sections. I think with the second child, she had a choice, but after her first experience a having darn near going through both, she opted for a C C-section. I say, do whatever is best for you and baby. So excited for you guys!
I have negative views of a C-section because I had one natural birth and one c section and both deliveries were so different. My C-section experience was much more painful and such a difficult recovery. My core is shot after a C-section and I am having to do physical therapy to help with healing. I have learned that many woman never really receive the right recovery treatment after C-section. It leads to more pelvic floor issues. So many layers of muscles are cut through so it makes sense. I completely understand they are necessary in some cases and understand why you are choosing one. You do what you feel is best for you. Everyone’s birth story is different and a personal decision. All the best! ❤
Yeah but it’s not healthy u Cnt rlly only afford to have 3 section Cnt keep reopening a wound if it’s not an emergency, she did this c section again bcs she experienced it already she didn’t need to have one. With Poot she did bcs she wasn’t laying how a baby should lay when it’s time to come out but she literally did this for fun. She has 1-2 more c sections and after that the doctor will tell her no more bcs it can be life threatening. She messed up big especially cuz we know she wants to have a big family so idk I think she will have regrets but I also Cnt say much tht is her body I just hope she did her research and that she knows all this.
@@tinktinkkks4209 my sister has had three C-sections and she was told she wouldn’t be able to have more because of the risks. So yes I can see that. Thou I wouldn’t say it’s not healthy. I feel it comes with it’s risks. It is a major surgery. When it comes down to it it is a personal decision and everyone who has has a baby before or is planning to definitely has their opinions, which you can’t argue with someone’s opinion or freedom to choose.
@@kellys2556 you must’ve not read my message bcs I literally said at the end that it is her body, I just hope she did her research bcs I know she wants to have a big family and like I said for smby who wants to have a big family she Cnt afford to keep having c section every time bcs u can only do so many till the doc tells you, you Cnt have anymore. Like I said Poot was an emergency imagine she uses all her c section on her kids and when she rlly needs one she Cnt have one bcs of risk and has to get it done anyway, thts gonna mess with her especially cause once you on labor it’s already stressful enough. Never said she couldn’t keep having c section, I voiced my opinion just like you did yours and I don’t mean to sound rude if I do but thts just my opinion I know it’s her body and her choices so please stop.
@@tinktinkkks4209 I did read your comment on MY post. I was simply responding to what you said that’s it. I’m not sure if you are trying to agree with my comment or start a debate. Im not here to start one. All the best.
@tinktinkkks4209 My husband auntie had 6 C -sections .
this 100%. i had to have an emergency c section with my daughter bc i was told my cervix was “incompetent” and i’ve had several people tell me to try for a v-bac. but if my cervix truly was the issue, why would i put myself through the stress and pain of trying for a vaginal birth, when the outcome will result in the same. and people think having a c-section is easier… it is most definitely not!! congrats on your new addition, mama ❤
You being so brave about choosing a c section gave me the courage to feel secure in my decision to have another c section. we are literally on the same timeline, I found out i was pregnant two months after my baby’s first birthday. Im getting the same amount of negativity but it feels right to me and that’s all that matters. ❤️❤️
It's the recovery that matters most. Supportive friends and family are a blessing.
Definitely would never recommend a caesarean... It's a hardcore surgery
Sending prayers for a great delivery and a healthy mom and baby❤ and u don’t have to explain yourself it’s your choice it’s what’s best for you i had an emgerncy c section and got pregnate when my daughter hit 9 months and having a c section in august 2023 ❤
Praying for a safe delivery. 🙏
So excited for you both. Giving birth can be so terrifying and beautiful at the same time. Educating yourself and doing whats right for YOU is absolutely 100% no body else’s business. Thank you for sharing and wish I had time to tell you about what I went through but will save that for my book one day lol.. for real. I do have a question though, I had heard back 20+ years ago, that manually turning the baby is painful. Horror stories about the nurse practically sitting on your belly a pushing… Surely exaggerated and gonna go check out you video! Best of luck cant wait to see happy and healthy baby J. My oldest son was born March 23! 🐣
Glad you are doing what’s best for you and what brings you peace to your birth!!! ❤❤❤ much love and prayers for an easy delivery!
So proud of you and thank you for sharing your journey with us❤
I had an emergency c-section at 27 weeks to save my twins. They’re my miracles and my fighters, who are now 8. It was the best decision!! Everyone’s decision is their own, and people need to stop worrying about everyone else’s choices.
I'm 10 weeks pregnant and I've been SO uncomfortably congested in my first trimester! One of the nurses at my OBGYN office said when you're pregnant, your sinuses and nasal passages can be subject to opening up more and that can cause more drainage. Such a fun time lol! Never knew this until my first pregnancy right now!
i sneezed so much my first trimester!!
Sameee!! It’s so gross I can’t believe it’s a symptom of pregnancy. Wish more people talked about it
Prayers that you have a safe delivery ❤️
That makes so much sense!!! Praying for ya!
Good luck!! And Congratulations!! 🍀🙏🏼💙
I respect you for knowing yourself and knowing what will make YOU comfortable. My first birth, I wanted to go the natural route and ended up having an unexpected c-section and it actually was a great experience! Now, I’m not sure what I’d even want to do with my second child. VBAC, hospital, natural, c-section, idk 🤷🏾♀️ but when the time comes, I’m doing what IM most comfortable with
How can a c-section be a great experience?
@@Leocadie cuz the mother and child are both alive, being together is good enough?
Do what you have to & want to do mama!!
My son was born may 25th 2021 .. I watched your journey and felt so comfortable with whatever way I delivered ..we went in on a Sunday and my son wasn’t dropping.. didn’t have him until that Tuesday via C-section and I had more of a risk bc I’m a heavier woman & diabetic .. but I was down for it to bring my beautiful son Benny into this world & I’ll do c-section again with my next babe ❤❤
So interesting to hear you talk about a version with your first baby! Before having a breech baby myself I've never heard of someone who had one. Fortunately in my case it worked I was able to have a vaginal birth. But I also recognize that it doesn't work for a lot of women and in some cases it cannot even be attempted because of the position of the baby, amount of amniotic fluids, umbilical cord etc. However you choose to deliver your baby is great as long as it's safe. So weird to be so super involved in and opinionated on how others deliver. You're doing great! Wish you and your family all the best 🙂❤️
I had a natural birth. Loved it. Wouldn’t change a thing. But the goal with birth is a happy and healthy mom/baby. I don’t understand why people don’t understand that. I’m so glad you’re going with what YOU feel comfortable with and hope everything goes amazing❤
I had a repeat c section in December and I’m so glad I did it! The second time was so much easier than the first, I think simply because you know what you are in for! Go with your gut mama! C section moms are powerful! 💪
Why are c-section moms powerful?
@@Leocadiebecause all moms are powerful😊
My first child I chose to have a c-section because I had just had my 3rd surgery to fix a fistula a year prior and we didn't want it breaking open. It went great. Fast forward 8.5 years to my 2nd birth. Even though it was so long after they still offered a c-section. I also had placenta previa until right before she was ready to come. Recovery was a little harder in my 30s vs 20s but I also had my tubes tied while they were in there. I still moved our whole house during my 6 weeks maternity leave with a newborn, so I still consider it a win. Good luck, you got this!
I love hearing your reasons because it really helps me to think about the future. I had an unplanned c section with my son. At the time I hated it but now a year later I’m indifferent. I’m not sure what I would choose to do for the next baby. It’s like I want to do both but hearing people that choose to do another c section really helps me that there can be good experiences with it
I had 4 c-sections. First one was an emergency tube rest I choose them! They were great no regrets!
@@gracefulimpressionshow was the experience for the second n third c section? Could you easily get pregnant after each c section? I’ve read the scars may make it harder
@@lisafaithful3787 I easily hot pregnant for the 2nd, 3rd and 4th. Also easy recoveries as well. I was 40 with the last one and it still was smooth sailing.
@@gracefulimpressions that’s great.! thanks a lot for sharing 🙏🏻
Good luck with everything!! I’m so excited for y’all!! Can’t wait to see baby J❤❤❤
You could have been telling my birth story with my first! She was breech, version did not work, I went into labor before my scheduled C-section! Thank you for talking about feeling comfortable with a second C-section. My second is due in April and she is breech, so I won't likely have the choice, but so many voices have made me feel like a VBAC is "right" when really it is just one way. Thank you for being a differing, bright and confident voice! The idea of a failed VBAC is also so scary to me!
God bless and I'm praying for a healthy delivery. It feels like u found out you were pregnant a week ago!🥰🥰🥰❤❤❤❤
My 1st born did not drop so when l went into labour l already knew l would get a c section after arriving at hosp & gynae checked me. So with the 2nd born, 11 years later, it was easy to just decide on another c section. The c section scar could tear & because that area was still very sensitive it was better for them to take out the old scar. It was better decision for me. The 2nd scar is not as sensitive so that in itself was a good choice for me. Do what is right for you emotionally & physically. All the best. Love from South Africa :)
Looking forward to see BABY J! A big fan from PH here 🤗
You do what you're comfortable with! ❤️ also random but I found out I was pregnant with my 2nd the month my 1st turned 1 😂
I've experienced both now and they both have their pros and cons honestly.
Going through over 20 hours of labor to be told you need to have a c section is not fun.
Can't wait to see baby J!
Right? Don't take me to a hospital unless I'm dying 😝
My first two pregnancies ended with true emergency c-sections (they had to put my under with my first and the second was born within the hour of arriving to the hospital). I am having a third within the next week weeks (I’m 36 weeks) and we are doing a scheduled c-section because it has become clear that my body cannot do labor correctly and threatens the baby’s life. People judge decisions to flippantly but realistically this is your decision and going into my third, I know this is just what birth looks like for me and I’m at peace with that.
I have heard a scheduled c-section is so calm and peaceful- so hoping that is both our experience this time!! Good luck Abbie!
I have two vaginal birth and last one ended up with an emergency csectionn definitely not what I wanted but If I end pregnant I would definitely choose csectionn I rather schedule a csectionn than an emergency csectionn
I had a C section due to a breech baby on my first pregnancy, and I’m totally making the same choice for my second. No shame! You do what’s best for you and your babe!
Welcome to the World Little Herbert! You are loved! Blessing to you on this magnificent journey!
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Pregnancy and birth is such a personal thing that I can’t wrap my head around people thinking they have the right to impose their negative thoughts and opinions on other people.
So right about how birth plans can change in a second. I think it’s actually pretty smart to go for a c-section. A little less room for error of craziness in a way. I just had a baby five months ago and when I was in labor, I went to the hospital with my contractions were two minutes apart. They were excruciatingly painful, but I wasn’t dilating, even though my contractions went to less than a minute apart. so they gave me some medicine and sent me home telling me to go home and sleep for 8 to 10 hours and come back active labor. Except as soon as I left the hospital, I started dilating and I made the 25 minute drive home got in the tub for 10 minutes and then started to drive back because my water broke and it was black and green. On the way back to the hospital the contractions kept getting more painful and close together because I was fighting them because I had recognized them as pushing contractions. Eventually, I just went with it and I ended up giving birth on interstate 5 while my husband was driving. ❤
I had a C section with my first after 55 hours of labor. My second I had a successful VBAC. The labor and delivery was much smoother with the VBAC but my recovery was actually sooo much harder which I was not expecting. Had a pelvic floor injury that made me on bed rest for months and retained placenta landing me in the ER after hemorrhaging at home. If I have a third, I’d consider a scheduled C section!
I had a csection with my first, wanted a VBAC with my second but had a planned c-section instead due to some increased risk factors, now pregnant with #3 and just planning for a c-section. Birth is hard no matter what you do, c-sections were not what i wanted or imagined, but i am SO thankful they exist so that i have 2 (soon 3) safe babies!
I had an emergency c section with my 5th baby 15 months ago in 2021. He was transverse as well! I just had a vbac with my 6th. It was important for me because I have experienced natural births with a midwife and really enjoyed that experience. This baby was breech and transverse off and on until 38 weeks! I had a version that was successful and he turned again about 5 times before he settled in head down and stayed! He was still sunny side up so labor was tough lol. my best friend has opted for c sections for her last two after her first was emergency as well. Like you, that’s all she knew and was more comfortable with that. To each her own! I know baby is here now; so congrats!!
Wishing you a healthy delivery!!! Can’t believe he’s almost here ❤❤❤
I'm really really excited about it I wouldn't be able to sleep (until they post the video I mean)
My water broke with my first child at 34 weeks and 3 days. After 24 hours, I HAD to have a c-section. My second pregnancy was a scheduled c-section, no question for me at all. You don't need an excuse at all. I didn't care what anyone else said, and my second recovery was even easier than the first. Prayers for a healthy baby and mama!
Hey! My water broke with my first at 34w3d too! I had a vaginal birth but C-section was thrown around a bit.
Your baby, your way. So excited for you guys 💙❤
Your not crazy! I had both of my kids through csection and I loved it I had a good experience. It was also very emotional and beautiful. Your gonna have a beautiful birth im excited for you!
I am a mom and grandma, I had my daughter vaginally, my daughter had all four of hers vaginally! I look at it this way, it is between you and Josh how you feel on the way you give birth, not anyone else's! Prayers for a safe delivery❣️
It’s nothing to do with Josh. It’s her decision.
@@margaretelford8309 why would Josh not have a say? He is her husband! I believe when it comes to health issues or concerns, the spouse also has a say!!
@@denisehancock5294 what happens in the case of the spouse disagreeing with the person who’s body it is?
@@margaretelford8309agree 100%. My husband would have never given me any advice. He said you decide what it’s best for you and so it will be done. If you need pain meds, you get them. If not, not. You have to give birth, not me, so you are the one who decides what you want.
I hope you have a safe delivery. ❤
I had an unplanned c-section. Before I had a situation that could have lead to a c-section and it scared the hell out of me, but helped me mentally prepare. I went through all phases of birth just to experience that he is too big. The whole birth was so terrible, I sometimes think, that a planned birth would have been much calmer. I had troubles connection to the child due to the birth I had. So maybe you have a good intuition, so trust that !
I chose to have a c-section instead of a vbac after my first was born and it was the best choice I could’ve made.
With my first, I tried to have a vaginal delivery and after many hours of labor and hours of pushing, I had to have a C-section, the recovery from having my first baby was so traumatizing and horrible that when I got pregnant with my second (only 6 months post partum) I chose to have a scheduled C-section. I wouldn’t have had it any other way. I could not imagine going through the same thing that I experienced with my first.
Abbie, you made the choice that you felt was best for you and your baby. That’s all that matters!
I gave birth many many years ago for my son who is going to be 29, I also had a C Section cause he was Frank breech feet first also tried the version didn’t work he was comfortable and wasn’t moving .. you’ll have a wonderful birth like u said it’s what ur use to❤❤ can’t wait to see the baby ❤❤
Thank you so much for sharing your experience ❤️ I'm 10 weeks but already thinking about what type of birthing experience I want to have or if a C-section does end up being my only option, this video is really helpful and comforting. This is also my first pregnancy so following along your pregnancy and motherhood journey and your family's journey is really special and wonderful! ❤️ I've been a follower for a while and you are so inspiring and I love your podcast btw!!
Best of luck to you two
Ugh me too !! Feel better ❤❤❤❤
Can’t wait for the baby ❤
I had 4 c-section with all my kids. It was the best decision I had to make. My oldest is now 21 and I had to have emergency c-section with her and everything went great and so after all that I had to have repeats with them all. I now have a 21 ,20 this month,16 and my youngest is now 15. Good luck you got this.
I’m pregnant with my fifth making this delivery being my 5th c section! I’ve always been told I’m taking the easy way out. This is the way my babies come into the world and vaginal or c section all that matters is having a healthy momma and babe at the end of the day!
Hi
I had an emergency c section due to failed induction. I was told I can't have more than 3 kids if I want to opt for c section. I read you had 5 c section was your case unique or is it possible for me too?
@@rabiaqureshi3067 I would definitely get a second opinion. My obgyn told me it’s unique for each person. The most he’s done is five. It it would depend on scar tissue and how much tissue is left to see together after each c section. So far he has not given me the need to stop having little blessings. There are records of presidents wives having 9 c sections! It’s not impossible! Good luck and maybe consider looking into a different obgyn
I love that you made an informed decision for yourself! There’s NOTHING wrong with choosing an elective section if it’s what you feel is best for you. That is the most important thing. You’re going to have a beautiful birth and a beautiful baby ❤️
Funny how strangers feel they should give negative opinions about your medical choices. So wild.
Abby, you look beautiful!! I love the necklace idea ❤
I had a c section my first pregnancy due to baby being breech. My other two pregnancies were also c section. Each different experience. You do you. It’s your choice. You don’t have to give explanations to anyone ❤
darling, you don't have to justify yourself . I also gave birth to our youngest daughter by C-section, she was also in a breech position. and I also have to admit if I get pregnant again, then I want to give birth again with a caesarean section why? Because it's my choice. And this is your choice, your body and your pregnancy. And we as followers have nothing to do with that.
Love you guys, greetings from the Netherlands
Abbie i prayer for you to have a healthy delivery
Best of luck and congratulations on the new baby.
Thank you for sharing this❤️ I had 4 C-sections, 2 because my babies came so big and the other 2 because they were side ways(bridge) yeah I was so scared at first because I always heard negative comments about a C-section and I've had a great experiences 🥰❤️ God bless you🙏🏼❤️
Can you plz tell the gap between your c sections?I had my c section last November but my baby is no more. I want to get pregnant again but scared.
@@tamanna0210 my 2nd pregnancy was 17 months after my first C-section, then 4 months after my 2nd baby, I was pregnant again😊😍 8 months later I was pregnant with my 4th baby🥰
I was so scared at first but my Dr. and the staff there, gave me confidence that everything was going to be alright and it was! I'm alright and my kiddos are Healthy ❤️❤️❤️❤️ 3 boys and 1 girl
Thank you. 💖💖💖
As long as you and the baby are healthy and safe that is all that matters! You do you. Don't feel bad for doing what's right for your family
I had to have an emergency c section with my first child and when I got pregnant with my second child I chose a c section again, because I was familiar with it. Do whatever is more comfortable for you. It doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks.
Josh and Abby are the absolute best! I’m so excited for them 💖
I had to have a c section with our first because she was breech. We also tried having her moved and it didn't work. They couldn't get the epidural to work, so I got put under general anesthesia. I am so sad that I didn't get to see her when she was born. Since the epidural didn't work, I didn't have the pain controlled, so I was in terrible pain. It scared us!! Our youngest daughter I had wanted to try to do a vbac. She was such a big girl, and they told me that I couldn't go into regular labor. This time, I had a great anesthesiologist, and the epidural worked. So it was so much better the whole way around. She wasn't as big as they thought she was, though. So I totally don't blame you for wanting the same experience as with Poppy. I don't know why people would make comments on how you choose to have your baby. It's difficult and painful afterwards, just in different areas. Good luck with everything and I can't wait to see baby J.
I'm super excited to meet baby J soon, what ever your decision was the greatest option that you make because I believe in your body your own rules, as long as your safe and the baby's safe other peoples negative opinion doesn't matter at all. Sending hugs and Love 💕from 🇵🇭
I've been induced twice and I LOVED IT. I think I would want to be induced for my 3rd. So I completely understand how it's all you know! Personally I'm really scared of a c section. I've had an epidural fail and I have such bad anxiety. But everything is worth it's for that little baby 🥰.
I had my second born (first born son) in March in 1995!! My daughter was 20 months old the day after I gave birth to him....I was so ill for the last 3 months though I spent the last 8 weeks in hospital....lucky I was on maternity leave at the time!!! .... but I did go on to have 2 more little people Another son...then another daughter!! ....Luck & Love ❤️
I want an child badly now too bad im only 19 😆
I am very excited for you guys and my best wishes to both and awesome work both love you guys
You guys are awesome Thanks for sharing and love to all the family
That's awesome, I'm so excited for your family. Having him March 13th would make it 03/13/23 which is cool 💙
Sadly, there is something wrong with how our culture views differences in opinions. In my group of friends, we all have different L&D experiences and preferences. It’s okay to feel different, it’s not okay for everyone to judge so harshly. You guys are so open about your life, if people have hate to spread, they can keep it moving.
I've had 4 C-Sections. My first was an emergency and I just opted to stick with C-sections. It's just a personal choice and also a doctor's advice helps to make such a choice. You get to make the decision on how you bring your child into the world and to me that's a beautiful thing ❤️
planning a c section with my first. do you have any rips how recover faster apart from start walking as soon as possible?
I have 2 C-Sections and currently 6 months pregnant and i will also have a C-Section. I have some tips, please excuse my english, Im from Romania.
As advice, I can tell you:
-DO NOT SLEEP AT LEAST 2 HOURS AFTER THE OPERATION, YOU WILL BE LEFT WITH HORRIBLE HEADACHES
- to start walking as quickly as possible but never overexert yourself because I fainted walking down the hall because I didn't have the necessary strength yet.
-Do not eat foods that can make you bloated because it will be difficult to go to the bathroom afterwards.
drink as many liquids as possible, simple chicken or vegetable soups (carrot, potato...) excluded (peas, beans...)
-do not lift weights for at least 6 weeks
-rest as much as possible
-you might be itchy during the operation but don't scratch yourself
@@yelena_yelena take your time to heal, it's important.
I wish all the best for You and for the baby ❤️
you are a very strong mother. Stay strong and I wish you and your children health, fulfillment and joy. Childrens are a blessing ❤️
@@lidiam99 thank you for the practical tips. 💐no worries , i am fron Kasachstan and your english is very good 👍i only knew to start walking asap so far. will screenshot your advices and check again in August, when i get my daughter for the 1 st time
I had 3 c-sections first was emergency second was to soon for a vaginal after c-section the third I chose for the same reason as you. It’s what I knew and glad I did because they took her two weeks early and she was 8:12. Do what’s best for you.
Good for you doing what you feel is best. Ppl are so judgmental. I have 3 kids all born vaginally with one unmedicated. Number 4 coming this summer and hoping to do vaginal again but you just never know. And a friend of mine had 3 c sections all her kids were 3 and under when the 3rd was born. Everyone is different and should do what’s comfortable for them and not feel pressured to do it any other way!
I’ve always been a person to not understand why doctors tell you to wait a good bit of time after having one baby, to get pregnant again.
UNTIL … I got pregnant a year after my first. Only ended up making it to 26 weeks in November because my uterus ruptured from a window in my previous emergency C-section scar.
My sons birth injuries were too severe and complicated, and he passed 2 days later.
I’m really only speaking of it to spread awareness about the real realities of the-not so “rare” anymore-complication. So always try to give yourself the time you need to heal.
Praying for a healthy momma and baby🙏 Congratulations to my fav UA-cam fam❤️
Woah that sounds very scary. I am so sorry for your loss of your angel baby 🥺. Thank you for being so strong and brave and sharing your story to increase awareness ❤️
I had my first baby at 35weeks bc my water broke and the baby didnt turn yet so was a emergency C setion, 1 year and 6 months later i got pregnant, my baby boy was born at 38+5 ( i was 5 days hospitalized) because they didnt knew what was wrong with me. During the second c-setion they discovered my uterus had ruptured but not much could have caused me a hemorragie. My baby glady was safe and he is now 10month old! Also I tried to birth naturally the second time bc people where saying to me to not have a csetion that i am not a real mother. Anyway. I tried to push for a natural birth, BUT I AM a c-setion mom and is not the most easy option! Its painful and scary.
Prayers for a healthy and speedy recovery after your C section or vaginal birth. 💙
I will never understand how people can be so critical of your choices.
Why can’t people understand that you’re doing what’s best for you and your baby.
Love y’all from the North North Georgia Mountains 🏔️
Edit ~ Josh, please put out more music 🎶 you’re amazing 🤩
Yay for you Abby...do what feels right for you. Recovery after the 2nd C-section is going to be easier. The pain is less in a major way. With a C-section everything is controlled in a way by The Doctor and vbac not so much and as you mentioned could end up having to be rushed into the C-section. Happy everything to you and your husband 💖!
Thank you for sharing ❤
How wonderful to welcome baby J on my 60th!!!! birthday❗😘 Having a little Pisces will be awesome! 💙
I had three scheduled c-sections and loved each one of them best decision ever.
3 years after my1st c-section it was the only option to deliver second baby the same way cause my doctor didn’t want to risc me giving a birth otherway. It was much more easyer the 2nd time😁 Wishing u all the best ❤️
Watching this gave me so much anxiety thinking back on the experience of a csection. I had two bc both my babies were breach. Hopefully baby Js goes as good as poppys did!! ❤❤❤
Literally love your vlogs so much lots of love from india💗💙
I’m 40 years old now. With 4 kids had them all via C-Section. My first C-Section was emergency 🚨 also.
I choose to have my other 3 kids that way. I Also was told if something goes wrong C-Section would be done anyway.
So why would I choose to put myself threw that. My body my decision.
The best of wishes to you and your family…
I wish all the best to you!
It took only six pushes for both my girls and I had an epidural. It wasn’t bad at all. It was amazing feeling the baby pulled from your body and having the baby crawl on top to my breast. It’s something I will never forget.
Had one emergency c-section…will have a scheduled one next time. You’re not alone mama!!! Hope yours goes well ❤️
Love you guys!
My first was vaginal and a cesarean with my second because she was breech the whole pregnancy and never turned. I had such a wonderful experience with both but I will say the cesarean was so quick that I would do that again. Also doctor's don't always listen I told two of my OBs that she was breech and it felt so different from my first, they didn't listen to me or check with ultrasound. I was right the day I went in to be induced and a new doctor checked with ultrasound, I had a feeling my whole pregnancy I would have a c section and It never scared me