The Six Words That Start Fights || STEVE HARVEY

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  • @TheKayleeanna
    @TheKayleeanna 5 років тому +2321

    1. Nothing
    2. Seriously
    3. Whatever
    4. Nevermind
    5. Chill
    6. Fine

    • @isanaallday9744
      @isanaallday9744 5 років тому +86

      Sometimes I think the roles are always reversed in my relationships because I'm the one that gets told Nothing, Never mind. Whatever and Forget it. It's always my fault yet I never know what I did. So I just say "Ok, when you are ready to talk dear, let me know because obviously something is wrong and I'm not a mind reader."

    • @Monica-de5kr
      @Monica-de5kr 5 років тому +15

      Wow should be apart of that..

    • @saradeen3984
      @saradeen3984 5 років тому +6

      They are all good wouldn't fight for this words tho.😂

    • @boomerangsruckflug8513
      @boomerangsruckflug8513 5 років тому +12

      @@isanaallday9744 yes, Steve thinks that being passive aggressive is a women's privilege... He'd better teach men to behave! 🙄😕

    • @casiekadunkley3461
      @casiekadunkley3461 5 років тому +3

      @@Monica-de5kr yup

  • @erensalyer9705
    @erensalyer9705 5 років тому +741

    The six words are also:
    "Do you wanna start a fight?"

  • @JRob594
    @JRob594 5 років тому +1422

    Thank you Steve for making me appreciate the single life 😁😁

    • @iamroyalchebet3120
      @iamroyalchebet3120 5 років тому +5

      joseph robinson come love me joseph.

    • @womeninministrytv
      @womeninministrytv 5 років тому +23

      Couples should talk about everything before they say I do. Marriage is a good thing when you have it with the right person. It's not as deep as Steve is talking about. I pray you find a woman of God who you can pray, play and praise with! Blessings!

    • @expatbiker6598
      @expatbiker6598 5 років тому +10

      @@womeninministrytv
      Talk about everything!! You could never cover everything a woman needs and wants in one lifetime let alone a session.

    • @x3sirix3
      @x3sirix3 5 років тому +7

      Oh, if u have a sidechick, this will still happen.

    • @Adripisces0803
      @Adripisces0803 5 років тому +1

      😂😂😂😂

  • @xxgiraffe
    @xxgiraffe 5 років тому +257

    Never mind : Never on your mind & it should have been. 🔥🔥

  • @QG_TheRemnant
    @QG_TheRemnant 5 років тому +1804

    _SERIOUSLY_ , sometimes women get carried away with their feelings out of _NOTHING_ , that’s not _FINE_ y’all need to _CHILL_ but it’s _WHATEVER_ , wait, _NEVER MIND_ . 😂😂

  • @joshualambert6585
    @joshualambert6585 5 років тому +335

    Steve Harvey is the Oprah for men

    • @anaklusmosgreek3198
      @anaklusmosgreek3198 4 роки тому +3

      nope. Patrice o'neal dead n alive

    • @darksidehavok
      @darksidehavok 4 роки тому +2

      How exactly!? This whole thing was from the female perspective blaming men for the problem, seemingly even if he didn't do anything wrong.

    • @geremymason5936
      @geremymason5936 4 роки тому +5

      Hes not. His audience is females. Hes just a male Oprah.

    • @MDAdams72668
      @MDAdams72668 3 роки тому +1

      No, he's a male Oprah

  • @christicrenshaw2772
    @christicrenshaw2772 5 років тому +1079

    Chill is basically saying calm down. When I am upset do not tell me to calm down because in that moment I went from upset to pissed off. I don't want to calm down. Let me have my moment than I will calm down.

    • @jamillacamilla6953
      @jamillacamilla6953 5 років тому +34

      christi crenshaw Amen! Thank you! They never get it

    • @SuperHorseman22
      @SuperHorseman22 5 років тому +15

      Chill christi

    • @ivanlyw2000
      @ivanlyw2000 5 років тому +10

      Chill christi

    • @zap4980
      @zap4980 5 років тому +11

      christi crenshaw
      Amen 🙏🏽 that’s how I feel too !

    • @TheDominic1011
      @TheDominic1011 5 років тому +7

      Works both ways thought

  • @GalaxyKane
    @GalaxyKane 5 років тому +356

    Steve showing all kinds of reason to be single.

    • @jpmartinez7853
      @jpmartinez7853 5 років тому +11

      Amen!🙏

    • @TexanforHarrisWalz
      @TexanforHarrisWalz 4 роки тому +6

      Being single sucks.

    • @thruthemotions
      @thruthemotions 4 роки тому +3

      Yup he is and I'm a woman.

    • @lindokuhlezwane3927
      @lindokuhlezwane3927 4 роки тому

      Trust me there is a fun part about all this fights...it like having a sibling you were not born with and then sometime you just fight him for no reason...like last borns do.

    • @585Courtney
      @585Courtney 3 роки тому

      @@TexanforHarrisWalz no it don't

  • @ruthhh.m
    @ruthhh.m 5 років тому +403

    Here are some more danger words:
    1. (You're) Overrreacting.
    2. Relax/ calm down (WHOO, use during a fight and it will be the end of somebody.)
    3. Ok.
    4. Forget it (same thing as "never mind" )

    • @itzKal
      @itzKal 5 років тому +41

      Don't forget, "Are you on your period?" *Code Red*

    • @ruthhh.m
      @ruthhh.m 5 років тому +6

      @@itzKal *RIGHT* 😂

    • @Jay-jb2vr
      @Jay-jb2vr 5 років тому

      I just give them the silent treatment

    • @angelabennett3847
      @angelabennett3847 5 років тому

      I was thinking ok too.

    • @tshireletsokhumalo
      @tshireletsokhumalo 5 років тому

      Crazy

  • @liahgaswint6542
    @liahgaswint6542 4 роки тому +57

    I was telling my little brother about this and he told me that he's lived with me and our mother his entire life. He learned a long time ago!

  • @MrKrueger88
    @MrKrueger88 5 років тому +368

    You've married the wrong one if you have to spend the whole day working out what's wrong !!!

    • @civic2980
      @civic2980 4 роки тому +67

      Youve married the wrong one if the other wont just say what is wrong, these childish games are ridiculous and I personally dont play them.

    • @sangissong
      @sangissong 4 роки тому +31

      You're single right?! 😂

    • @dbrown5784
      @dbrown5784 4 роки тому +4

      No just logical probably

    • @trickyzenmom
      @trickyzenmom 4 роки тому +21

      Real grown woman here.. and I agree 1000%. You want to know what's bothering me? Thanks for asking! Now, prepare yourself for me to unload (calmly the first couple of times)...but you are going to know EXACTLY what is bothering me. You most likely won't even have to ask!!! 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @laquanl30
      @laquanl30 4 роки тому +4

      That's why this fool has been divorced

  • @twig265
    @twig265 3 роки тому +30

    I just showed my husband this. He said everything that Steve said is 110% correct.

  • @pats8137
    @pats8137 5 років тому +119

    6 words that starts fights
    1. What
    2. You
    3. Gonna
    4. Do
    5. About
    6. It

    • @tinotse2007
      @tinotse2007 4 роки тому +3

      How about the Word Wow?

    • @QueenOfTheCoast
      @QueenOfTheCoast 4 роки тому

      😆😆😆

    • @faiththomas1749
      @faiththomas1749 4 роки тому

      HerboSantana 150DT
      Do
      You
      Wanna
      Start
      Something

    • @emanymton5789
      @emanymton5789 2 роки тому

      1. You
      2. Know
      3. You're
      4. NOT
      5. Mike
      6. Tyson

    • @katherineh7381
      @katherineh7381 2 роки тому

      I thought of the same damn thing....what u gonna do about ittttttt....

  • @guidingmule5745
    @guidingmule5745 4 роки тому +128

    When my wife says fine, I look at her and say baby I you know your fine so what does this have to do with the subject. And my wife says this work on her 90% of the time with her.

    • @MrAlgorhythm
      @MrAlgorhythm 4 роки тому +6

      I'm using this man

    • @christopherburnham1612
      @christopherburnham1612 3 роки тому +1

      The other
      2 percent is when she's reaching for her sharpest knife 😂😂😂😂

    • @guidingmule5745
      @guidingmule5745 3 роки тому +1

      @@christopherburnham1612 She perfers bludgeon over bladed weapons.😂😂😂

    • @warriorofdeath24
      @warriorofdeath24 3 роки тому

      This ,gents is a foolproof way to disarm to disarm the nuclear bomb that is an angry woman. 1000/10 absolutely use this.

  • @NK-bv1wo
    @NK-bv1wo 5 років тому +30

    Out of all the shows, I don't know why I always end up on UA-cam and watch Steve TV Show. 😍💥

  • @ivyjervis9838
    @ivyjervis9838 5 років тому +121

    Y Steve snitching out on us😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @AmbiCahira
    @AmbiCahira 5 років тому +17

    It's always so much easier when both are transparent in their communication and bring stuff up right away before it lingers in the pressure cooker for too long and explodes.

  • @Hafsa-4realz.
    @Hafsa-4realz. 5 років тому +73

    The man in the audience 1:44 looked at his woman and said (I no that one)😭😭😭😭

  • @irishmaejones4445
    @irishmaejones4445 5 років тому +87

    Never tell your girl to chill, calm down, or relax. Instead, tell her: ''Baby, look at me'' hold her cheeks if you have to, it'll shut her right up.

    • @jedidiahmetzger5057
      @jedidiahmetzger5057 4 роки тому +11

      When you mean cheeks, do you mean the ones on her face or are you referring to her behind?

    • @irishmaejones4445
      @irishmaejones4445 4 роки тому +15

      @@jedidiahmetzger5057 lmao either way, it'll shut her up😂

    • @r.a.o.c.2592
      @r.a.o.c.2592 3 роки тому +3

      Yeah I made that mistake once I told my friend to relax... the exact opposite happened. Thankfully she's very cute when she's angry but still what a week

    • @ZadeMeadowsLittleMouse
      @ZadeMeadowsLittleMouse 3 роки тому +2

      Exactly! Lol never tell us women to relax, chill, or calm down, unless you want an angry screaming banshee! Lol 😂

    • @austinnsuff6576
      @austinnsuff6576 2 роки тому

      Yes.

  • @woznew
    @woznew 5 років тому +299

    Figure it out now or else 😂

    • @kenanderson5812
      @kenanderson5812 5 років тому +2

      How about opening up our mouths and speaking to one another correctly. We could have been born mute

    • @FirasLaallam
      @FirasLaallam 5 років тому +1

      @@kenanderson5812 i love porn

    • @bgtsllc1
      @bgtsllc1 5 років тому

      ROFL!!!! That was pretty good!

    • @Nmomo8691
      @Nmomo8691 4 роки тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ethiofeker8421
    @ethiofeker8421 5 років тому +28

    My best person in the world more age for Steve if anybody agree say Amen

  • @Noix009
    @Noix009 5 років тому +247

    Lmao
    😂😂😂
    When I say nothing
    He says baby please just spill what have I done 😂😂😂
    Looool

    • @damiena.5913
      @damiena.5913 5 років тому +2

      I'd say just swallow it

    • @izonlimi662
      @izonlimi662 5 років тому

      @Damien Nasty, lol.

    • @Kaatanna
      @Kaatanna 5 років тому

      Izonli Mi ur mind is dirty asf.

    • @Blakberri24
      @Blakberri24 5 років тому

      At least he's smart to know he's done something lol.

  • @juleymango315
    @juleymango315 5 років тому +49

    You forgot one Steve.. "forget about it!" That's a firecracker too. lol

  • @preciouscolombiana
    @preciouscolombiana 5 років тому +336

    I’m glad a man finally recognized 😂

    • @ianmac6379
      @ianmac6379 5 років тому +3

      that you want to date a woman

    • @preciouscolombiana
      @preciouscolombiana 5 років тому +2

      Ian mac Yeah....🤔🤔 cuz that’s what he was talking about 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @preciouscolombiana
      @preciouscolombiana 5 років тому +1

      james olive You must be obsessed 😘

    • @dineshgohram3246
      @dineshgohram3246 5 років тому +2

      Double standards😂

    • @ratlakmin
      @ratlakmin 5 років тому +1

      I think you ladies hate when we say "k" and go back to sleep.

  • @azeminaay4971
    @azeminaay4971 5 років тому +9

    " fine is an acronym " 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼that was brilliant!

  • @evangelinewilliams814
    @evangelinewilliams814 4 роки тому +60

    I'm sitting in my doctor's office watching this and I can't stop laughing. I didn't realise how loud I was laughing. Steve your so funny.

    • @ZzzRoofus
      @ZzzRoofus 2 роки тому +1

      You're*

    • @almoen5412
      @almoen5412 2 роки тому

      Do any of you guys actually know one single woman that makes less than a man for the same f****** job at the same f****** place

  • @MissAlomo
    @MissAlomo 5 років тому +12

    😅🗣 Y’all so busy telling depleting this man’s value & knowledge, but he speaks from EXPERIENCE and ALWAYS 90% ACCURATE ... this was HILARIOUS

    • @TheOnlyA
      @TheOnlyA Рік тому

      It’s not about depleting his knowledge, experience, and value. It’s about expressing how ridiculous women can be and sensitive af, where is feminism here. Why do guys have to mind read? Imagine switching the roles? How f*ng crazy and ridiculous, I guarantee you’d drop a guy this foolish to have to walk on eggshells or WHATEVA. 🤷🏽‍♂️ right?
      Go educate yourself with some Kevin Samuels content.

  • @ItachiUchiha-ff5yb
    @ItachiUchiha-ff5yb 3 роки тому +9

    Lol. Your words have helped me to see life in a different perspective and I'm honestly trying to figure myself out because of the words you speak. You're a special person and I really hope that 1 days I can get the honor of meeting you and thanking you for being the light I needed in times where I doubted myself or didn't have the slightest idea what I wanted in life. Again, thank you Steve.

  • @captainscott1096
    @captainscott1096 5 років тому +97

    Omg so true I'm literally speaking from experience😂

  • @randywright8908
    @randywright8908 5 років тому +22

    I just saw this, and I don't accept any of these words from wife if she is mad. We are adults we love each other. So we will talk as adults, and clear the air of what is wrong. That's a rule in our house talk to me, or shelve the attitude. That simple, and me and my wife are very happy because we talk.

    • @mordredvonumbra154
      @mordredvonumbra154 4 роки тому

      Maybe becouse you are super lucky and found a gal that prioritizes solutions over meaningless conflict. Lucky you.

    • @trickyzenmom
      @trickyzenmom 4 роки тому

      Thank you! Grown/mature men and women communicate. You want to know if or why I am upset? Thanks for asking! I will tell you EXACTLY what is wrong...you probably didn't even get the chance to ask first!!! 😂

    • @FLdancer00
      @FLdancer00 4 роки тому

      Hope you're still talking after the divorce.

  • @nanonkay5669
    @nanonkay5669 5 років тому +282

    😂😂😂 as a fella, we go through so much to keep our women healthy 😂😂

    • @EllePlowPlow
      @EllePlowPlow 5 років тому +27

      Nanonkay 300 more like to keep y’all lives

    • @marvelousbeardreviews6292
      @marvelousbeardreviews6292 5 років тому +10

      celera2008 that’s why women still live longer then men till this day, yeah you really do a lot to keep us men alive, but whatever.

    • @GalaxyKane
      @GalaxyKane 5 років тому +2

      @@marvelousbeardreviews6292 lol

    • @Plotuscreations
      @Plotuscreations 5 років тому +5

      and as women we go through so much to keep our men happy.

    • @davcher277
      @davcher277 4 роки тому

      I am trying to tell yoy

  • @naqshchaudhry2299
    @naqshchaudhry2299 2 роки тому

    ‘Calm down’ does it too. Absolutely HATE being told that when I’m seriously upset over something legitimate

  • @kasugapachaka8858
    @kasugapachaka8858 5 років тому +19

    Seriously on point

  • @bjaMoke
    @bjaMoke 5 років тому

    Steve H uncovers the 24/7 opposite day... Man is gifted

  • @Thekarlagalan
    @Thekarlagalan 5 років тому +8

    He knows exactly what he’s talking about! So true 😆😆😆🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @normanjanproductionhunter9765
    @normanjanproductionhunter9765 5 років тому +20

    Good video thank you for sharing have a good weekend God bless you and your family

  • @ef9374
    @ef9374 5 років тому +59

    Other triggering words/ phrases/ actions men say or do to women and (women’s thoughts):
    What’s your problem?
    (Say what now?!)
    Relax
    (You better have not just said what I think you said?!)
    You on your period?
    (Boy, if you don’t get your....!)
    Woman
    (note: don’t ever EVER call a woman “woman”)
    Snap fingers to call a girl over (excuse me ?! You better retrace those finger snaps)

    • @vv1692
      @vv1692 5 років тому

      All them empty threats, what is it that a woman can actually do to a man? Leave him? ..woman with that much attitude? good riddance.

    • @Wolfmysticstudios
      @Wolfmysticstudios 5 років тому +2

      I told my boyfriend next time he asks me if I'm on my period When I'm upset he can get the hell out. I own this house. Same with the snapping I am not a dog snap at me again and lose those fingers.

  • @mgichndz
    @mgichndz 5 років тому +2

    There’s been many times when I’ve come close to saying “never mind” but then I instead state what I needed as succinctly as possible and in bullet points of need be, lol. I also make sure they’re simple action items and with no drama. I then tell him how happy it makes me feel. He seems to respond to that quicker than me clamming up

  • @pelejonie877
    @pelejonie877 5 років тому +171

    Fine
    Figure
    It
    Now or
    Else 😒

  • @jessa4596
    @jessa4596 5 років тому +26

    Can honestly say I do not use any of these. I dont have time for you guessing, if I'm upset at something you've done. I will damn well be letting you know

    • @gregw8232
      @gregw8232 5 років тому +3

      Good girl. That's what we want. Keep it simple.

    • @anacarinalamas1140
      @anacarinalamas1140 5 років тому +2

      Thank you. That's what we need.

    • @marianmeciar3385
      @marianmeciar3385 5 років тому +2

      I'm the same. And sometimes when my man fishes it out of me I just let it out. I don't like prolonged nothings and so on

    • @trickyzenmom
      @trickyzenmom 4 роки тому

      Thank you!!! Same here! No time for guessing games 😂

  • @SnowFoxParty
    @SnowFoxParty 5 років тому +9

    "We need to talk" is a big one too lol

  • @Lily-sr9gz
    @Lily-sr9gz 5 років тому +11

    Steve always makes my day better😁

  • @EDBailley
    @EDBailley 5 років тому +51

    Omg Steve Harvey is so funny 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @jamiebyrant1276
    @jamiebyrant1276 3 роки тому +2

    Right on Steve..right on

  • @kimsmith819
    @kimsmith819 4 роки тому +3

    Nothing is starting an instant argument. I loved this video. I love them all but this one was extra good

  • @MzTinkerbell
    @MzTinkerbell 5 років тому +8

    All 6 words!! TOTALLY true😅😅

  • @jeannierosa1721
    @jeannierosa1721 5 років тому +3

    He's right😂 I love this video
    Keep helping these guys that don't have a clue

  • @yanthedon9645
    @yanthedon9645 5 років тому +3

    That chill part had me💯😂 umm who you talking to boo?? Cause it ain’t me!!! Better watch ya self

  • @rlb3726
    @rlb3726 5 років тому +4

    Steve mimicked Majorie perfectly. I could see her, when he turned his head and said:"Baby, I'm fine!".

  • @gindywilliams1045
    @gindywilliams1045 3 роки тому

    This is why I love Steve Harvey

  • @kayc.8283
    @kayc.8283 4 роки тому +13

    Forgot about:
    "I HATE when you........"
    "WHY do you always have to......."
    "What did you do with MY......."
    "YOU were supposed to......."
    "UGH!! (Followed by irritated look)"
    "No offence, but you just don't know HOW to........"
    "TYPICAL"

  • @TexanforHarrisWalz
    @TexanforHarrisWalz 4 роки тому +1

    "Chill" drives me up the damn wall.

  • @l.o.r410
    @l.o.r410 5 років тому +8

    Another word is “CRAZY”
    - This women crazy! 😭

  • @karensamuel1139
    @karensamuel1139 4 місяці тому

    Hey Steve I'm from Trinidad and I suggest you come down here to do some shows, trust me, these shows will definitely sell out! You are one of 'the funniest persons ever' 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @kenanderson5812
    @kenanderson5812 5 років тому +168

    This is a lack of communication skills.

    • @dionnep5571
      @dionnep5571 5 років тому +2

      ken anderson what's your solution?

    • @kenanderson5812
      @kenanderson5812 5 років тому +31

      @@dionnep5571 communicate with one another plain and simple, it's not rocket science; Therapy helps.

    • @bgtsllc1
      @bgtsllc1 5 років тому +24

      Exactly. The notion that the ladies are perfect communicators and us men are not is part of the line of crap trying to be sold. Men are very direct. We deal with what you did; not how we felt about it. Ladies deal with how they felt about what you did. Both parties assume they are right and THAT'S 100% of the problem. Just because you have feelings doesn't mean your feelings are always right nor if he thinks you did something means he is right. If us men are so simple why do you ladies have such a hard time with us? And why hold onto grudges for something that happened 7 years ago? I can't make a single excuse before God about my wife. God isn't gonna say to me yeah I know so you are good. Nope doesn't work that way either way. So much as some ladies dislike hearing it - grow up. Not everything you feel, think, or say is always right. Same for us men. Maturity is recognizing that, having effective communication, and recognizing you don't always do everything right.

    • @darkfireproject2102
      @darkfireproject2102 5 років тому +6

      No, it just shows the difference between the male and female brain. A guy could be ready to fight someone to the death, but if you say " Bro, chill!", he'll probably do it. Say it to a woman and that just make them want to try harder. Good for S&M, bad for relationships.

    • @kenanderson5812
      @kenanderson5812 5 років тому +4

      @@darkfireproject2102 we just need to speak to another, be honest, stop beating around the bush and avoiding.

  • @linda6987
    @linda6987 2 роки тому

    Smart man. He gets us.

  • @stefanlopez4873
    @stefanlopez4873 5 років тому +15

    My response is simple: I'm going to ask once. If you dont tell me what's wrong, then drop the subject.

    • @guitaria66636
      @guitaria66636 5 років тому

      stefan Lopez but won’t they think you don’t care then

    • @stefanlopez4873
      @stefanlopez4873 5 років тому

      @@guitaria66636 sometimes.

  • @erogers7053
    @erogers7053 2 роки тому +1

    Couples that don't know how to communicate should listen to this. People that know how to communicate and express themselves in a healthy way don't have these problems.....
    I feel like this applies to a particular couple dynamic...

  • @elianatertulien5825
    @elianatertulien5825 5 років тому +55

    6 good points 😂🤣

  • @talitaallam9379
    @talitaallam9379 4 роки тому +1

    when Steve said chill my head just automatically whipped🙌🏽🤣

  • @bigmaco903
    @bigmaco903 4 роки тому +5

    The six word sentence that lets you know she still mad: “ I jus think it’s funny that.....”

  • @mynameblank
    @mynameblank 3 роки тому

    PERIOD!!!! Tell em Steve!

  • @goodmornish1984
    @goodmornish1984 5 років тому +28

    As an Arab we have the same situations....so damn true🤦‍♂️

  • @azizsayid9426
    @azizsayid9426 4 роки тому

    Steve is absolutely right

  • @ILLnana2012
    @ILLnana2012 5 років тому +3

    And CALM DOWN should def be added to the list

    • @ghdodo
      @ghdodo 5 років тому

      ILLnana2012
      He already said "chill", which is the same as calm down.

    • @ILLnana2012
      @ILLnana2012 5 років тому +1

      @@ghdodo they are diff when stated when a woman's mad but thanks for the clarification

  • @catherinebranson1469
    @catherinebranson1469 3 роки тому +1

    We say whatever, because we are tired of hearing excuses.

  • @jjo5375
    @jjo5375 5 років тому +7

    Very close to 'chill' is "Relax!" This is saying: Your opinion/thoughts/concern, etc., don't mean a thing, so just forget bringing it up! And, by extension: 'YOU' don't mean a thing. POW!

    • @jobez787
      @jobez787 5 років тому

      😅😅😅😅😅😅 LOL@ POW

    • @sircommenter5128
      @sircommenter5128 5 років тому

      Emotional reasoning 🙄

    • @Jay-jb2vr
      @Jay-jb2vr 5 років тому

      Chill/relax means just that.. *chill and relax.* Its not some secret code word

    • @daexion
      @daexion 5 років тому

      That's not what it says. It simply means to calm down so whatever it is can be discussed with level heads instead of exploding tempers.
      Do you want a yelling match or a conversation?
      Also, if you actually believe they don't care about your opinions, thoughts, or concerns, why are you with them? The only reason to believe that someone saying calm down, chill, relax means they don't care about those is that you actually have a deep seat, unconscious belief that they don't care about your opinions, thoughts, or concerns. Maybe it's bad experiences from previous relationships with other people or how your current relationship with this person is.

  • @sammieolat
    @sammieolat 4 роки тому

    People should start learning how to effectively communicate.

  • @LotsOLuck777
    @LotsOLuck777 5 років тому +4

    I love these videos! Whenever I begin to doubt, they always remind me why being single is objectively better. There is nothing a modern woman adds to your life that outweighs everything she takes away.

    • @yanelibeltran4188
      @yanelibeltran4188 3 роки тому

      If you find the right one its worth it because them 6 words cause arguments that lead to making up 😉

  • @gindywilliams1045
    @gindywilliams1045 5 років тому +2

    This is pretty much true lol.. love Steve Harvey 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @boldaerialvision8843
    @boldaerialvision8843 5 років тому +11

    Me: What's wrong hun?
    Wife: Nothing!
    Me: ok cool, I'm hanging with the lads tonight.
    Wife: Seriously!
    Me: Yea, if you say nothing I will continue to accept that there is nothing so be straight with me.
    After that she's been straight forward with things ever since, no messing about being childish and wanting attention the wrong way.
    Stand your ground men don't tolerate childish behaviours.

  • @MrBeautiful2908
    @MrBeautiful2908 4 роки тому

    This is soooooo on point. Lord Have Mercy.

  • @BeretBay
    @BeretBay 5 років тому +8

    Freaked out
    Insane
    Neurotic
    Emotional

  • @wellehcooper6850
    @wellehcooper6850 5 років тому

    Everyone in the audience agreeing in harmony

  • @sircommenter5128
    @sircommenter5128 5 років тому +8

    Why does being told to chill make you so upset? He's not saying you don't have a right to be upset, just that in the moment let's work on the issue with level heads.
    Dudes if she wants to talk/argue while she's upset, disengage. Tell her you can discuss this when she's calmed down. That way she can't accused you of telling her to calm down. She can have her tantrum in peace. My question for those that don't want to be told to chill/calm down, is when have you solved a problem with high emotion?

    • @FLdancer00
      @FLdancer00 4 роки тому +1

      There's a big difference between "chill" and "let's talk about this issue with level heads".
      The first is a command. The second shows care, thought and respect for the individual and the relationship.
      So, no. You can't just say chill and expect it to be received the same as the second phrase.

    • @ZadeMeadowsLittleMouse
      @ZadeMeadowsLittleMouse 3 роки тому +1

      @@FLdancer00 Exactly! 100%

  • @1hadhami
    @1hadhami 2 роки тому

    Those are the words I use to end a disagreement .People arround me are usually like ''umm ok👀'' and leave me alone once I say that.🤷‍♀️

  • @akina9007
    @akina9007 5 років тому +7

    So true😂🤣🤣OMG i sent it to my husband

    • @ceceblooms8666
      @ceceblooms8666 5 років тому

      I did too😂 hi, Cynthia ❤,greetings from Cynthia ❤in Kenya africa🇰🇪

  • @sherrinixon2792
    @sherrinixon2792 5 років тому +1

    😂😂😂all Five Is So True hit the nail on the head 😁

  • @charmycree2024
    @charmycree2024 5 років тому +9

    Another fighting word is:
    Really!! Or Wow!!

  • @MsHBKFan555
    @MsHBKFan555 5 років тому +1

    One of the truest videos ever!!!

  • @Mojo_Jojo_jo
    @Mojo_Jojo_jo 5 років тому +12

    How the hell did he forgot to mention "Crazy"? When a man says "You're crazy, woman!"
    Ohhhh now you are gonna get crazy! Who the hell you think you are talking to?

    • @dddurk123456789
      @dddurk123456789 5 років тому +2

      yall are crazy! this big ol sherade is why yall crazy. like if your upset you should say im mad cuz ....u did... blank.. its that simple. instead yall say nothing and im fine. when your not. now we gotta read your mind and become a therapists too find out all u was mad bout is a word tht hurt your feelings. thats what crazy ppl do. yall phyco!

    • @Mojo_Jojo_jo
      @Mojo_Jojo_jo 5 років тому +1

      @@dddurk123456789 😂😂😂

    • @dbrown5784
      @dbrown5784 4 роки тому

      I think only crazy women get upset when they're called crazy

  • @cloudf772
    @cloudf772 4 роки тому

    I agree 100% learned all those real quick

  • @austinnsuff6576
    @austinnsuff6576 2 роки тому +4

    I sent this to my boyfriend to make it easier for him to understand me. 😂😂😂

  • @Nimue56
    @Nimue56 2 роки тому

    This is so true. The thing that men don't understand is, women have long memories and men don't. We always give you the opportunity to figure it out for yourself. Most men can't figure it out for themselves, so we get pissed. If you were paying attention you would have known what it means.

  • @feleciakinmon5498
    @feleciakinmon5498 5 років тому +5

    LOL, STEVE HARVEY BE ON IT, TODAY EPISODE IS A GOOD ONE, BRIDGET KELLY.........

  • @sombergirl2886
    @sombergirl2886 4 роки тому

    That was funny but it's so very true cuz those 6 words right there are fighting words. But here is a phrase that always got me It Don't Matter. That will get me started in a heartbeat

  • @Cotebor2
    @Cotebor2 5 років тому +3

    Uncle Steve thats me right there love it 😉😉😘😘

  • @kimmie3082
    @kimmie3082 5 років тому +1

    I LOVE 'STEVE'!" HE'S GREAT! I WILL MISS HIS SHOW ....

  • @kimmiet.8962
    @kimmiet.8962 5 років тому +6

    Facts! Mine is decent though.

  • @catherinebranson1469
    @catherinebranson1469 3 роки тому +1

    We are allowed to express our feelings, so chill means I don't care

  • @Xx-po1fu
    @Xx-po1fu 5 років тому +7

    6 more reasons not to get married. Now I see why the Apostle Paul said it's best be single and not marry.

  • @honda02accord
    @honda02accord 3 роки тому +1

    Before “chill” it was “relax”

  • @ryanlordjanie
    @ryanlordjanie 5 років тому +4

    That whole saying “nothing” when it something is wrong and expecting your partner to mentally stress themself out all day trying to figure out what’s wrong and giving them the run around is just childish behaviour. I say when they do that just leave them to their own devices. Don’t play those games.

  • @The1baddman
    @The1baddman 5 років тому

    Same for the man you asked what's the problem, and he says he don't want to talk about it right now, well guess who wants to talk anyway when he's not ready to talk

  • @gab_ftbs265
    @gab_ftbs265 5 років тому +7

    The women in the audience laterally clapping and agreeing how amature and confusing they are. Steve really be exposing these women lmao.

  • @goodiamglad9033
    @goodiamglad9033 5 років тому

    Calling crazy is grounds for crazy to show up.

  • @musicloverkeke3314
    @musicloverkeke3314 5 років тому +4

    your missing , calm down too. tell em steve .

  • @catherineapioatim5728
    @catherineapioatim5728 5 років тому +1

    Seriously, this man needs to have sessions with men all over Africa, women would make their men so happy!

  • @evanleighcarder
    @evanleighcarder 5 років тому +5

    🤣🤣 So true!!

  • @cristinahinton8491
    @cristinahinton8491 Рік тому

    I agree with Steve on that one